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5 Signs You Are A Good Friend To Others 

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What do you look for in a good friend? Most importantly, do you have a friend you can count down whenever you need someone? Everyone looks for something different, it can be trust, communication or simple as being there. While the definition of friendship varies across cultures, let's talk about the traits that should not only be expected in others but should also be cultivated within each individual. Here is a list of 5 signs of a good friend to reflect upon.
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Writer: Allison Ikenouye Klassen
Script editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Van Val
RU-vid manager: Cindy Cheong

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4 авг 2024

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@kenny-nk5db
@kenny-nk5db 4 года назад
summary of the video: 1. You engage in self awareness 2. You practice forgiveness towards yourself and others 3. You listen well 4. You display a commitment to friendship 5. You are honest I recommend watching to learn more!
@pocketpixie9706
@pocketpixie9706 4 года назад
Dont do that like ever
@bify1913
@bify1913 4 года назад
@@pocketpixie9706 why not?
@luluclapd13
@luluclapd13 4 года назад
I literally have a book where I write down how many times I forgave people
@sarahstevens4931
@sarahstevens4931 4 года назад
Engaging in self awareness... does feeling guilty about saying something in a way that was misunderstood but you already apologized and they understood but you still feel terrible about it count? I think it’s Self awareness but it’s not forgiving myself!
@kenny-nk5db
@kenny-nk5db 4 года назад
Sarah Stevens I think that would count as self awareness. you feel guilty about what you said, even though the other person understands. as long as you’ve recognized what you need to focus on more in your friendship and how you can improve it, then yes i think that’s self awareness.
@randomsinger3199
@randomsinger3199 4 года назад
They should teach this stuff in school it would help so many people in life.
@NenaLavonne
@NenaLavonne 4 года назад
Totally agree ♥️
@dominickgamesd7414
@dominickgamesd7414 4 года назад
Ikr
@Shortywhodoesgacha
@Shortywhodoesgacha 4 года назад
Right
@0Zym-0
@0Zym-0 4 года назад
So true
@shroomiemommy8681
@shroomiemommy8681 4 года назад
School therapy day/week
@jelofisk
@jelofisk 4 года назад
When you’re so early that your vote actually changes the numbers
@minecraftegg3607
@minecraftegg3607 4 года назад
When you're so early that your vote instantly changes the number to 100%
@itsjustme9162
@itsjustme9162 4 года назад
Ooo I was the 200th like
@leahhudak8793
@leahhudak8793 4 года назад
I was the 5,300th like :D
@azzz3212
@azzz3212 4 года назад
When you're a good friends to other but they backstabbed you. I've been in that situation..
@vanillacream2383
@vanillacream2383 4 года назад
No cap
@signsofaprincess
@signsofaprincess 4 года назад
Very true
@michaelaalexander2356
@michaelaalexander2356 4 года назад
That is so true.
@nyctea7675
@nyctea7675 4 года назад
True :\
@Matty8282
@Matty8282 4 года назад
Oh, that hurts. I’ve been in the same situation..
@wolfy_moon5725
@wolfy_moon5725 4 года назад
"I'm a good friend!" *Watches video* = w = *sniff* *right?*
@signsofaprincess
@signsofaprincess 4 года назад
I’m about to send this to a couple friends to make sure...... 🙃🙃
@ramneekbala1856
@ramneekbala1856 4 года назад
My friend has none of em she suckssss 💀😂
@darklycan4583
@darklycan4583 4 года назад
Is it bad I care about my 1 friend more than myself
@davidliu2243
@davidliu2243 4 года назад
right? ._.
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 4 года назад
Darklycan 458 no, I mean care for yourself, but it’s never bad to give a damn. I do that for all my friends and few return the favor, all I can do is hope that changes.
@poopeepants6428
@poopeepants6428 4 года назад
Oml this art style is adorable
@creativeusername6927
@creativeusername6927 4 года назад
Ikr!
@Carrot_artz
@Carrot_artz 4 года назад
agreed! x)
@drakesmith471
@drakesmith471 4 года назад
I love most of the ones they’ve done in general and I love the old standard, but geez, this is too cute.
@aloeveil
@aloeveil 4 года назад
I know! It’s so good.
@azzz3212
@azzz3212 4 года назад
Especially the part at 2:28. It's very well-made on that crying boy. They paid an animator enough
@cnikkiwoopwoop7975
@cnikkiwoopwoop7975 4 года назад
Plot twist: To be a good friend is to have good friends
@Exxt3R
@Exxt3R 4 года назад
You are the sum of the people you hang around with.
@sarah1160
@sarah1160 4 года назад
welp...
@mightbeavampire
@mightbeavampire 4 года назад
@@sarah1160 good friends are important well, im a hypocrite
@shadowlitten547
@shadowlitten547 4 года назад
True
@swashbuckler6969
@swashbuckler6969 4 года назад
Indeed💖
@XIANC
@XIANC 4 года назад
Always prioritize to be a good friend but sometimes we can have our own slip ups and be toxic. The most important thing is to be self aware so you can change
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
This is so true! I agree :) How many signs did you relate to?
@amelialover3839
@amelialover3839 3 года назад
I actually agree and I can relate to all of these
@mr.mrowmusic8255
@mr.mrowmusic8255 2 года назад
this comment gonna help me a ton ngl this is exactly what just happened to me and it's hard to not just get angry at myself, glad I haven't though
@stannosaurus
@stannosaurus 11 месяцев назад
Agree! Everyone has their downfalls every now and then, but being and getting better is always an option.
@randmstrnger176
@randmstrnger176 4 года назад
I'm just here to boost my self-esteem.
@davidhernandez2390
@davidhernandez2390 4 года назад
Ha same
@arcticular
@arcticular 4 года назад
Hey, at least you are honest
@sketchyskies8531
@sketchyskies8531 4 года назад
What's that?
@masonsquitieri7120
@masonsquitieri7120 4 года назад
I think that's why we are all here
@LuanaJantz
@LuanaJantz 4 года назад
Awww, your all great people in your own ways 😇💛
@lilyc.2208
@lilyc.2208 4 года назад
“You practice forgiveness towards yourself” ... Guess I’m not a good friend then
@sagitariosolitario774
@sagitariosolitario774 4 года назад
@ Lily C same here
@rebeccaeverett8957
@rebeccaeverett8957 4 года назад
Well try and learn to be
@thatonedoge6394
@thatonedoge6394 4 года назад
@@rebeccaeverett8957 If only it were so easy.
@arianacabrejos2019
@arianacabrejos2019 4 года назад
@@thatonedoge6394 Everyone has mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you're a bad person, if your trying too be your best good version for you and everyone that's what matters and it's enough :D God bless you
@arianacabrejos2019
@arianacabrejos2019 4 года назад
God loves all of you!!
@dinobuccolier1672
@dinobuccolier1672 4 года назад
*I’m one of those friends who are there for everyone when they need me* *But no ones there for me when I need them*
@blacklivesmater680
@blacklivesmater680 4 года назад
Don't worry I got cha Sry if it sounded weird
@barbaraa3645
@barbaraa3645 4 года назад
Aww... your a good person even when nobody stands with YOU. You still stand with OTHERS. But you need to talk to your friends how you feel otherwise they won’t know
@maciejkleszczynski9808
@maciejkleszczynski9808 4 года назад
Friendship like any other relationship is a form of transaction. Not of money, but of things like entertaiment, emotional support, status in a group, attention etc. Some parts of these are more valuable to ones and other to others. If you are giving something for free that may indicate three things: 1. You take joy in giving other people stuff and that is enough for you.-->Noone bothers to give you anything in return unless that makes them feel better about themselfs. 2. You are in a sense "rich" and dont really bother giving people stuff you have enough of already.-->Noone bothers to give you anything unless they think they may get something else such as status in a group. 3. You have bad products and are desperate to sell anything by lowering prices. (Nobody knows your products batter than you after all, so if you think they are worth nothing it is safe to assume they are.)-->Noone who cares about their status or longer term relationships wants to trade with you unless they feel pity for you and helping you would give them enough joy. . Concepts such as unconditional love basiacally mean a situation in which a person takes enough joy in making another person happier that they dont need anything else in return, but following such an idea;istic concepts leads to toxicity in a long term. You wouldnt want to be in a relationship where the other person doesnt even pay attention to you nor supports you emotionally, isnt funny or whatever else you could actually like in a person. The concept most likely exists as a simplified version of "a person doesn't care about money, status or inconsistancy in your behaviour", but that sentence is just my guess. . Edit: The 3 examples apply only to situations in which you are not in a long term friendship already./you dont exchange stuff with that person. If you are already in a friendship it may just be that somone doesnt know or doesnt want to trade a product you are interested in and only gives you something like entertainment while you need emotional support. In those situations you need to tell them you would like to trade this kind of product or find another friend with whom you trade that. You do not need to trade the same things with everyone you know. One person may want entertainment for entertainment, the other emotional support for giving them attention and that is ok. Everybody is diffrent and should be treated accordingly.
@yessirrrsad3807
@yessirrrsad3807 4 года назад
Dino Buccolier #BLM the accuracy 😔
@k.9966
@k.9966 4 года назад
Me also. We are all same.☺️
@bichen-up-ur
@bichen-up-ur 4 года назад
This makes me realize that good friends are hard to find. I have only a few friends like this and I try to practice this as much as possible.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
Thanks for sharing! How many signs do you relate to so far?
@bify1913
@bify1913 4 года назад
ALL 5 TRAITS AND SUMMARY OF EACH 1)you engage in self-awareness you reflect on if you are being a good friend 2)you practice forgiveness you forgive and see from your friends POV 3)you listen well (self-explanatory) 4)you display a commitment to friendship you put your time and effort into the friendship. and you are there for them 5)honesty (self-explanatory)
@the_slayer7216
@the_slayer7216 4 года назад
Thank you
@childofgod5414
@childofgod5414 4 года назад
I do all of those already
@yall955
@yall955 4 года назад
Yay I'm a good friend! I passed this test and got a 100/100 😂😀
@calmv3587
@calmv3587 3 года назад
@@yall955 same! ^^
@Andyfulist
@Andyfulist 4 года назад
Ngl, I started tearing up when watching this video. I had a close friend of 8 years that we end up going through a nasty breakup (in terms of friendship) because she decided to talk shit behind my back. I remember I did my best to be there. Listen to the same things over and over while trying to give my insight. It wasn’t enough so she had to talk shit about me when I talked to her about my feelings (while feeling vulnerable). Going through it, helped me realize how important it is to be grateful and to be a better person to others who are worth it. I want to always be a great person to my friends and family. Yeah this is making me tear up because I never was this opened till now and this video gave me hope that I can keep moving forward. Thanks.
@barbaraa3645
@barbaraa3645 4 года назад
1/2-3 maybe 2 It’s good that you learned some things about friendship while going through a friendship break up!
@barbaraa3645
@barbaraa3645 4 года назад
2/2-3: i know how it feels to be i. That exact situation except with my mom not a friend. I’m pretty sure you realized that “friend” was fake and a waste!
@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 3 года назад
I can't wait until you find good friends who deserve you.
@aclamp79
@aclamp79 4 года назад
Oh my god the art style is SOOOO CUUTTTEEE.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
Thank you so much! Would you like to see more of this artstyle ?
@aclamp79
@aclamp79 4 года назад
@@Psych2go I would love to!
@Ocide_GD
@Ocide_GD 4 года назад
I love the art style too
@banashankari7915
@banashankari7915 4 года назад
@@Psych2go of course, I want this style and only this styleee
@gargi657
@gargi657 4 года назад
@@Psych2go Sure! It's really adorable!
@ellenpaz1435
@ellenpaz1435 4 года назад
She talks so calmly and her voice is so soft
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 года назад
Glad you like Amanda's voice! Do you know she has a channel too?
@NenaLavonne
@NenaLavonne 4 года назад
Good friends are few and far between. Being a good friend is something commendable to say the least ♥️
@1moneyking
@1moneyking 4 года назад
The animation from the start had me shock
@chocolatewingzgacha8586
@chocolatewingzgacha8586 2 года назад
Remember that no one is perfect. You can't always be a good friend, and that's okay, because recognising that you may be hurting others and trying to better yourself is proof you're trying, you got this. I believe in you
@vaishnavi4093
@vaishnavi4093 4 года назад
5 signs you are a good friend: 1. You practise self awareness 2. You forgive yourself and others 3. You are a good listener 4. You are committed to your friendship 5. You are honest
@thetalkativefos716
@thetalkativefos716 4 года назад
I have self forgiveness issues and that is my biggest issue
@vaishnavi4093
@vaishnavi4093 4 года назад
@@thetalkativefos716 no need to feel bad about it, you are not the only there are other ppl as well. But I am sure one day you will be :) everything takes time and you just have to be patient.
@eduardocruz3277
@eduardocruz3277 4 года назад
Zen!!!
@vaishnavi4093
@vaishnavi4093 4 года назад
@@eduardocruz3277 👀👀👀
@thetalkativefos716
@thetalkativefos716 4 года назад
@@vaishnavi4093 it got so bad a while ago when I was working on somthing with some friends and when the due date hit us and we had to show what we worked on and I started crying because I missed one thing which me and someone else in the group were to do together and I felt like I let everyone down. Then one of my best friends saw and she started crying and then I felt even worse and even now I still feel bad for causing her to cry
@hshsjxndnwkalxie
@hshsjxndnwkalxie 4 года назад
Most good friends think they’re the worst ones
@datarantulasilkren
@datarantulasilkren 4 года назад
I love this drawing style, and the narrator has such a cute voice, I love her. This video also fixed my bad mood today, thanks for the good content
@JoyxStyx
@JoyxStyx 4 года назад
"You practice forgiveness towards yourself" Me having depression and hating myself: oh
@maciejkleszczynski9808
@maciejkleszczynski9808 4 года назад
You know what to work on. Ask yourself why do you have this kind of relationship with yourself and take your time to deal with each aspect you list. Next time your thoughts navigate towards any aspect you already listed you are going to use arguments that already worked agaisnt it. If they dont work it means you need to reflect on that aspect from a diffrent angle. If you find new thought patterns that put you in this state repeat the process on them. I am sure you can do this and feel better about yourself again. The process may not be fast but it is effective. Good luck! :)
@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 3 года назад
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 This helps me, believe it or not and I still have depression, but it's way easier to manage and life is a little more bearable than before.
@maciejkleszczynski9808
@maciejkleszczynski9808 3 года назад
​@@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 I am happy to hear that :)
@anegidragon2275
@anegidragon2275 4 года назад
You just called me a good friend in 5 ways
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
That's good to know :) Which sign did you relate to the most?
@lysaali50
@lysaali50 3 года назад
1. you engage is self-awareness (0:32) 🧠 2. you practice forgiveness (1:05) 💗 3. you listen well (2:15) 👂 4. you display a commitment to friendship (2:55) 👯‍♂️👯‍♀️ 5. you are honest (3:35) 🙂👍
@cyanpsycho7550
@cyanpsycho7550 4 года назад
I watched this and was just like "that's exactly how me and my bestie act towards eachother" and that just made my confidence shoot up bc my mom and brother say my bestie is fake but I know she's not
@user-nm6dr4uy3d
@user-nm6dr4uy3d Год назад
I was once friends with a person with BPD. We had a really beautiful friendship until the day she lashed out on me and I had a terrible reaction. I panicked and felt overwhelmed by her attack. I told her I didn't want to speak to her again. I finally calmed down and we talked though it, but after that conversation, she vanished. I think we were both to blame, but I know it was for the better. The breakup made me value and cherish my other friendships more than ever. I am still angry with her and sad that she dumped me, but I forgive us both.
@Nikki-co1xk
@Nikki-co1xk Год назад
man that's so relatable
@randomguy8476
@randomguy8476 3 года назад
Just needed to point this out. Being a good friend doesn't always mean saying "YES" to everything. Trust me, I've done that. I always thought that I'd be a bad friend if I didn't help them out. And it's partially true. You gotta help your friends. But, you gotta know when to say no. If you keep on saying yes, they will take advantage of you. This doesn't necessarily mean they are a bad friend and it's not usually because they want to take advantage of you, but it's because you gave them a chance to take advantage of yourself. So say "yes" to your friends but always know when to say "no". TL;DR : Don't always be a people pleaser
@FMeister94
@FMeister94 4 года назад
So heartfelt, the art style is outstandingly gorgeous and tells a well meaning story.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 года назад
Glad you love this! :) Vanessa is a good talent!
@vain1629
@vain1629 4 года назад
1. You self-reflect often 2. You are willing to forgive 3. You are a good listener 4. You give your friendships priority 5. You are honest Still, watch the video if you think you want to hear more about these points.
@rashelm.32
@rashelm.32 4 года назад
I might be a good friend, but it doesn’t mean others are good friends to me
@what9460
@what9460 4 года назад
OMG I LOVE THE ART STYLEEEEEEEEEE
@helenvanstraaten8991
@helenvanstraaten8991 4 года назад
❤️❤️ I am a deep thinker bout I have anxiety and this helps thank you!❤️❤️
@Chris-gm2hn
@Chris-gm2hn 4 года назад
Oh yay another positive video from y’all!!!:)
@NenaLavonne
@NenaLavonne 4 года назад
♥️
@meediamongergamemodder2302
@meediamongergamemodder2302 4 года назад
let there b light their such light brights i love em
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
Thank you!! What other videos would you like to watch next?
@meediamongergamemodder2302
@meediamongergamemodder2302 4 года назад
@@Psych2go ur very welcome 😊 have a blessed day ❤
@meediamongergamemodder2302
@meediamongergamemodder2302 4 года назад
@@Psych2go n ide like to c a video on self asteem
@Batman9110
@Batman9110 4 года назад
I like the animation style already :D
@mionnepallidare8116
@mionnepallidare8116 4 года назад
Animation makes me "Aww!" It's so cute. 🥺
@Psych2go
@Psych2go Год назад
High five!
@flybalbu
@flybalbu 3 года назад
I usually act innocent but recently i’ve been showing my less innocent side more and more to my friends, it’s kind of like i’m feeling more comfortable sharing that side
@kenny-nk5db
@kenny-nk5db 4 года назад
im all of these but yet it’s so hard for me to make friends. im so messed up that eventually everyone leaves 🥺 i just wish someone would understand me.
@maitochondria
@maitochondria 4 года назад
Don't worry u will get friends. I also went through this and now I have some good friends. If u want I can be your friend 😊
@black_m1n825
@black_m1n825 4 года назад
So, so same
@vancetheseas3471
@vancetheseas3471 4 года назад
tchalamet seems like your overly introverted and worry too much. What I would do is open up more maybe try joining groups that fit you and also which videos on opening up more I’m not a psychologist but it might help *Edit Spelling
@rebeccaeverett8957
@rebeccaeverett8957 4 года назад
Maybe YOU are the problem.. sorry but it might be the truth. Lots of people are blind to their own mistakes. Lots of people tend to think of themselves as the “perfect” person and that they are “such a great friend” or that they are “so truthful” and “real.” People tend to think of themselves as something wonderful and always put the blame on everyone else around them. A lot of people tend to pity themselves.
@rebeccaeverett8957
@rebeccaeverett8957 4 года назад
(Also, I’m not saying you do, I was just saying a thought.)
@marsellejoycegagarin760
@marsellejoycegagarin760 4 года назад
Early. I'm from Philippines and I want to become a psychologist someday that's why I love your contents.♥️
@eduardocruz3277
@eduardocruz3277 4 года назад
Wow same! Good luck bro... Insta?
@ChimeraLotietheBunny
@ChimeraLotietheBunny 4 года назад
Marselle Joyce Gagarin Ohh..Good luck then..I'm a Pinoy(Pilipino from Philippines)
@marsellejoycegagarin760
@marsellejoycegagarin760 4 года назад
@@eduardocruz3277 My Instagram is Marselle Joyce Gagarin. How about you?
@marsellejoycegagarin760
@marsellejoycegagarin760 4 года назад
@@ChimeraLotietheBunny hi kababayannnn😊
@user-nr3du7ox9i
@user-nr3du7ox9i 4 года назад
Omg same
@Killallenstarries
@Killallenstarries 4 года назад
"do you often wonder if you are being a good friend to others" me, who just had a mental breakdown about it : yesn't
@AshleyTheHard
@AshleyTheHard 4 года назад
I needed this video right now. I follow this channel and find each one ive seen has brought new ideas to my mind, and has helped aid my journey. This one popped up when i needed it most. Thanks guys for your efforts to change the world through awareness.
@ThatDayDreamer_
@ThatDayDreamer_ 4 года назад
can we just appreciate the tummy pooches they have in this animation style omg 💚💚
@savannahwestover2538
@savannahwestover2538 4 года назад
I hope I’m a good friend, however I don’t think that’s necessarily something I can evaluate myself
@galaxiajpeg2085
@galaxiajpeg2085 4 года назад
Y'know, the parts where there was someone with tears streaming down there face reminded me a lot of my relationship with a close friend of mine who would say how much of a good friend I was to him 😊
@minecraftegg3607
@minecraftegg3607 4 года назад
I mean my friends kept me around for this long so I must be doing something right
@DaltonHBrown
@DaltonHBrown 4 года назад
*me reading the thumbnail* "Good Friend, 5 signs you're a happy ghost!"
@OvenBakedPastry
@OvenBakedPastry 4 года назад
We all know why you're here: ”I’m A gOoD fRiEnD”
@meloclipse2951
@meloclipse2951 4 года назад
"....right...?"
@TheoCynical
@TheoCynical 4 года назад
Err, not to be contrarian but im looking to see if im a good friend or not. See, I have a friend who rode with me to another state and he could have ditched me because his vehicle was faster. But, he didn't. I think he was a good friend.
@superexecuter630
@superexecuter630 4 года назад
I was actually here because I thought I was not a good friend and wanted to see if I was wrong. I had 4 of the 5. The 4th one is what I lacked on. Not because I don’t prioritize my friends but more because I just don’t like “hanging out”. I’d rather just text or at least have a short plan on what to do. Not spend 4 hours not even knowing what you’re going to be doing. In a nutshell I’m a big introvert
@monochrom1870
@monochrom1870 4 года назад
Quite the opposite lmao, I don't match up to any of the points. No wonder no one likes me.
@crazacrapdoesrandomthings4628
@crazacrapdoesrandomthings4628 4 года назад
My self esteem just lowered down to -100
@Tasha_.tia16
@Tasha_.tia16 4 года назад
Me watch this while laying in my bed My brain:why u watch this u not a good friend n u don't like socialize Me:i donno just want to watch psych2go vid😂😂😂
@jean-thecrazyone8267
@jean-thecrazyone8267 4 года назад
You have a beautiful profile picture. And it was a wonderful comment
@azzz3212
@azzz3212 4 года назад
@@jean-thecrazyone8267 you have a wonderful username. And it was a wonderful reply
@jean-thecrazyone8267
@jean-thecrazyone8267 4 года назад
Thanks, . I really loved your wonderful reply to my reply. Hope you live a great life. :)
@mohamedsenharshan3016
@mohamedsenharshan3016 4 года назад
LOL this comment section is wonderful......
@anjithaa4521
@anjithaa4521 3 года назад
Someone who is honest with us and love our true self is the real friend❤
@indigoziona
@indigoziona 2 года назад
I ended a friendship a few months ago and though I think generally it was the best choice for both of us (being unhappy in the friendship wasn't making me a very good friend, and I'd brought my own hang ups and issues to the friendship) it still hurts. This video reminds me of what is important - thank you.
@repeat8259
@repeat8259 4 года назад
Time to learn what I’ve been doing wrong
@rebeccaeverett8957
@rebeccaeverett8957 4 года назад
It’s good that you acknowledge it
@mckinleyjackson4914
@mckinleyjackson4914 3 года назад
Sometimes I feel like I’m too good of a friend towards the wrong people.
@misterholmes221
@misterholmes221 4 года назад
This animation looks beautiful, love the video.
@misterholmes221
@misterholmes221 4 года назад
Mystic Much agreed.
@darklordlove304
@darklordlove304 4 года назад
Any one else want to go to that “kitty land” now? Cause I do!
@shimmercat
@shimmercat 4 года назад
I wanna go to kitty land!
@Soft_fangs
@Soft_fangs 4 года назад
Let's all go to kitty land together
@herooftwilight5534
@herooftwilight5534 4 года назад
It sounds like something you could find in Japan lol I would love if it were real.
@thisisyes3973
@thisisyes3973 4 года назад
it's the child friendly version of furry land
@shimmersanimations4716
@shimmersanimations4716 4 года назад
What’s wrong with furry land?
@misschloe3678
@misschloe3678 4 года назад
I always seem to attract toxic friends that take advantage of my kindness. I think it's important to be self aware of what you want out of a friend and understand boundaries so you're being a loyal friend but not being used for their benefit.
@janoahj642
@janoahj642 4 года назад
I just got back in contact with a friend of mine after 3 years. Within that span I had gone through some rough stuff and had become a more humble person by practicing self awareness to get through it. I noticed it effected me some, but my friend told me that (and he had no idea what I had gone through) although we had been good buddies, he now felt like I was becoming his best friend. It was surprising, but felt really rewarding to hear that I was making a difference not only for myself, but for others as well! Give it a shot!
@alvasandstedt910
@alvasandstedt910 4 года назад
I just love this, it makes you feel loved and appreciated.. It gives you that little reassurance. Thank you Psyc2go 🥰💕
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 года назад
Aww. Thank you for the kind words! How's your day?
@educator3639
@educator3639 4 года назад
Agreed. Also, mutual trust and respect are a key ingredient to maintain the bond.
@Emily-kv4mn
@Emily-kv4mn 2 года назад
I really appreciate this channel it teaches us a lot and also spreads self awareness... In friendship being a good friend Is a biggest achievement and sometimes these thoughts used to come on my mind but now I am damn sure I am being a good friend but when it comes to honesty I do lie sometimes! 💗
@canadiangoose9086
@canadiangoose9086 4 года назад
Me: *Watches video* Also me: *Crying halfway through because he realizes he doesn't have any friends.*
@andreialcaza
@andreialcaza 4 года назад
I'm sorry me too I guess only online
@AyeshaNazir731
@AyeshaNazir731 4 года назад
Ooo I’ve been waiting for this one The dislikes are the people who thought they were good but then considered the facts
@spilledemotions
@spilledemotions 4 года назад
people take my friendship and kindness for granted
@GiftedSince92GiftedSince92
@GiftedSince92GiftedSince92 4 года назад
Great video! I have a few friends I'm blessed to have in my life. I've always supported them and they've done the same foe me. I do care about them and I think what makes me a good friend is that I listen, understand, and really see their perspectives in life. I love communicating with them. Sometimes I check up on them and they do the same for me. I think having a good friendship is nice to have. You can grow, interact, and appreciate the ones you love. Nothing is perfect but good friendships are a blessing! My advice the friends that DO care and vice versa are worthy for a lifetime.
@justcalvin3255
@justcalvin3255 4 года назад
This channel has actually helped tremendously with my mental health. Keep making great videos!❤️
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 года назад
Happy to see that we could help!
@Education-Edge
@Education-Edge 4 года назад
Thank you for this video! I’ll help many people be aware about what being a good friend means 🤙🏽💯🥰
@nopenope1305
@nopenope1305 4 года назад
I'm glad that I'm a good friend according to these signs, even though I'm not being treated the same way by the ones whom I consider my friends, I still felt happy that I'm not a terrible or annoying person around them. Also the animation style is so adorable and wholesome, I'd absolutely love to see more of it in the future!
@frostlord1246
@frostlord1246 4 года назад
Keeping my friends around always has been and probably always will be my biggest priority. I just wish that I could spend more time with them. Regardless, I think that this was a good video. Keep up the good work!
@uwu-ho1hf
@uwu-ho1hf 4 года назад
when it's 5am, but you're watching psych2go
@tokensharma3738
@tokensharma3738 4 года назад
The animations are evolving so as the topics and viewer's mood or state.😁😁
@ComputerAngel007
@ComputerAngel007 3 года назад
I fit these all. It's just the commitment part. My friends know I'm a ride or die and will literally go out of my way to save them from a crisis but I just havent been showing up lately. I let them know that I need space and that I just need to be alone for the most part and I'm sure they understand. I wish I could just show up more tho bc I know they miss me and I miss them so so so much but I just need to be alone right now. I've been alone for months now and it's not that I am scared to be social, but I'm just still working on myself and I dont wanna accidentally hurt anyone while I'm still hurting somewhere deep inside. I'm just done putting on masks and I told them the truth about how I need to get my shit together before making plans to sit down and hang out with a friend for an hour or two or more. There's only like 3 people I really have the energy for and even with them they know I need my space if I'm not constantly talking to them.
@miirasaika6437
@miirasaika6437 4 года назад
Honesty. Thank you so much for validating that honesty is a core component for a healthy friendship. I've noticed some "friends" had a habit of lying when they really didn't have to lie. Those lies weren't harmful so I kinda ignored them until a series of incidents happened that they caused and they try to get away with it. I've always practiced honesty and tried to be very tactful when confronting them, but they either became downright rude, fake apologise or force me to apologise to them when I caught them red-handed. And it's always me or someone else's fault, they were never to blame even when it's clearly their fault. And it's really unhelpful to have low self esteem due to relationship issues, so I consulted a few trusted people outside of this "friends" circle. All confirmed that I had tried my best, very willing to improve myself if I really did anything wrong. Heck I even apologised to one of them for giving me trouble! Cause I understood my part in contributing towards the incident, but this doesn't erase the fact that they're the one who caused it. Three attributes that these "friends" didn't have bcos they refuse to genuinely reflect on themselves, admit their wrongdoings, let alone improve themselves. And they shift the blame all the time!!!! So many excuses and nonsensical logic!!!! So I door slammed those "friends" damn hard, and again my low self esteem and self criticizing tendencies kicked in for letting those people in, and for having have to kick them out. I hate myself. Damn those poisonous creatures. People who love playing the victim can go f*** themselves. Thank you again for making me realize that habitual liars, dishonesty and blame-shifting should not exist in a healthy relationship.
@SuperWiiBros08
@SuperWiiBros08 3 года назад
I guess I'm a good friend, yet, I don't have any to be with rn
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 года назад
Due to covid?
@Tosek8425
@Tosek8425 4 года назад
to be a good friend you need friends so...
@yasuthelittledoggo8978
@yasuthelittledoggo8978 4 года назад
Exactly, why am I watching this. I have none
@becca_rose_x
@becca_rose_x 4 года назад
It kinda annoys me when people joke about having “no friends” because most of the time, it’s said as an exaggeration.
@becca_rose_x
@becca_rose_x 4 года назад
Julya Flyer I highly doubt they would be laughing hard... however if they are, get them out your life. Don’t keep associating yourself with them if you call them fake, because then it makes you fake too.
@meloclipse2951
@meloclipse2951 4 года назад
I mean, you're not wrong there-
@becca_rose_x
@becca_rose_x 4 года назад
Julya Flyer ok, that’s good
@bananarch5
@bananarch5 4 года назад
I've been feeling like I've been a really bad friend recently, and would like to change that. I'll have to remember these and keep them present in my mind anytime I interact with them. Thanks for the help!
@sarahchristensen5991
@sarahchristensen5991 4 года назад
I appreciate when people don't dismiss my feelings(or even just say "then do so and so"), but rather show they understand how I feel.
@oliviamgreenwood
@oliviamgreenwood 4 года назад
I'm here to improve my self-esteem. That's all.
@pencilRC1
@pencilRC1 4 года назад
Oh dang. I haven’t been this early since I was born
@coconutwater-connoisseur1897
@coconutwater-connoisseur1897 4 года назад
Thanks for making this video! I can relate to many of these and I however, don't really have any friendships that I feel are "genuine". It could be that I'm just insecure and overthink it, but that has been caused by a past friendship of mine which has scarred me. Forgiving was one thing they abused unfortunately :/. I genuinely hope that I can find the right friendships one day, though it has been a rough journey atm. Anyways, thanks for reading if u did and have a great day, you are loved! 💕
@emptymelodies3316
@emptymelodies3316 4 года назад
I just wanna emphasize how important the first one is. Self-awareness is a game changer. I learned that if someone struggles with making friends, sometimes the ugly truth is we, ourselves, aren’t good friends to begin with. Self-awareness can help change that. Helps you grow.
@tenderpanta804
@tenderpanta804 4 года назад
So basically, 1. You engaged in self-awareness 2. You practice forgiveness (to yourself and others) 3. You listen well 4. You display a commitment to friendship 5. You are honest makes you a good friend. And then after all this you get betrayed and being boss around by your friends. And then try to forgive them everytime and at some point you give up, and decided to end the friendship. Then she or he called u a bad friend. _.
@icarusix8750
@icarusix8750 4 года назад
Thanks for the sign god, I'll try using this
@LonelyBunni3
@LonelyBunni3 4 года назад
Thank you for this! Perfect timing
@zenoch3205
@zenoch3205 4 года назад
Even if you are a good friend, some friendships will start to fade :3
@drishtiyadav4259
@drishtiyadav4259 4 года назад
When you're holding the ice-cream for your friend even when yours is melting, too much of that haha
@signsofaprincess
@signsofaprincess 4 года назад
Oh look a dose of reassurance right when I need it...... 🙃🙃
@ali-wf8lp
@ali-wf8lp 4 года назад
Your hair is so adorable in your pfp!
@signsofaprincess
@signsofaprincess 4 года назад
ali thank you!! It’s from awhile ago but I loved it!!
@jacobkuchavik9367
@jacobkuchavik9367 4 года назад
A good friend is a hard bed, able to relied on to help you through the darkest nights, but still able to not let you sleep through the morning. They are your railing in the storms on which to clutch, but they do not allow themselves to become your crutch. They are your whetstone, only opposing you that you may become sharper, more useful, and more dependable. They see the light and warmth of your flame and they feed you to be a light to be appreciated by more. They seek to put you on the height, but only when you shine so bright as to illumine all the world. And they give you the gift of performing all of the above for them. For sometimes, I find, that serving others is what we really need, no matter how minute or small the task may be.
@AAPauzed
@AAPauzed 5 месяцев назад
In my experience, following these don't matter I still get left every time
@aloeveil
@aloeveil 4 года назад
Me: **read the title** yeah, i think I’m a pretty good friend! Me 2 seconds after: ...wait.. I have no friends... TwT
@Marsya_2024
@Marsya_2024 4 года назад
I'm four minutes late! *I am late cuz I was doing my homework*
@HamzaQuddusi
@HamzaQuddusi 4 года назад
Your voice is the best thing I've heard all these years, and I'm not even kidding!
@etza9178
@etza9178 4 года назад
Thank you, this video makes me feel better. I kept asking if I'm a good friend to them or not while some of them would ghost me for no reasons.
@SixthAllicard
@SixthAllicard 4 года назад
None of this will stop your friends from betraying you.
@sirenmelekian
@sirenmelekian 4 года назад
True, in that case THEY are not good friends.
@Am0d_i
@Am0d_i 4 года назад
I changed my comment 😂
@meerabraja6997
@meerabraja6997 4 года назад
I love the animation and her voice is so soothing. This channel has taught me so much Thank you!
@shii8885
@shii8885 4 года назад
the fact that im all this and my "best" friend just threw me away because i was helping her way too "much". I never had a best friend i can really talk with, wish i had one
@fluffydice9410
@fluffydice9410 4 года назад
Just because you say first doesn’t mean you watched the video first
@cke22
@cke22 4 года назад
I wanna go to Kitty Land 😢. 3:08
@jalynchan3946
@jalynchan3946 4 года назад
Yay! A video that I'm actually glad to be able to relate to all of the responses!
@calahmcdonald9960
@calahmcdonald9960 3 года назад
Who already knew they were a good friend but just decided to watch it
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