Nah comon I know that isn't the reason I stopped squinting long ago because it does absolutely nothing for me when i don't have my glasses... Oh wait I'm projecting my apologies carry on.
You forgot the most important one: how they treat their "loved" ones. It's easy to be nice to a stranger for a moment. But how do they treat people behind closed doors? That's what I'm looking for.
@@tokyo7012 Not necessarily, people who are extra nice to you just like you as a person. It's when they make excuses for hurting you or others that you can tell weather or not they are a good person.
So true, I know people who seemed so nice when I met them once or twice and then when I saw how they talked to their partners and family and yeah I think I developed trust issues.
1. Body language 2. Social Media 3. The way they dress 4. Taste in music 5. How they treat strangers 6. How they make eye contact 7. The shopping cart theory
Their favorite soup can tell you a lot about a person, for example, it can tell you what their favorite soup is Edit: this is the first popular comment on this account and every reply is a notification oh god oh fricc
I see it all the time. Lazy bastards who either leave them in the car park or on the pavement and just walk away as if it's a normal thing. It makes me want to plant my foot in their ass and make them do it, or take the trolley they left and slam it into their car so it doesn't happen to someone else.
@My Subliminal Results If you're too dense to extract your answer from the wording of my reply, it would be a waste of my time to make any attempt at explaining it. Your "lmao" itself shows you really don't give a damn as to any real reason, you just wanted to ridicule me and find something to use as ammunition. Well...forget it. Laugh until your head falls off for all I care. Your ceasing to exist would be nothing but one less puss filled carbuncle on the ass of society.
The carts are inside my supermarket, and nowadays the spacing is too small to be able to walk through all of the people with more carts while theyre waiting, so my mother tells me to leave it in a place where someone else can take it while shopping and it wont be too too inconvinient for others to move around. Even though this isn't the best reason, at least i havent seen a cart left by someone else or my family in the middle of a spot where lots of people walk around
A note about eye contact: People with ADHD, such as myself, MAY sometimes find it difficult to focus on what your saying if we are making eye contact rather than looking elsewhere or looking around. This is not true for everyone with ADHD, however it is true for some, so I just wanted to let you all know that, just so you know there are other causes for lack of eye contact.
Yes. I also find that my Aspergers friend doesn’t make eye contact, yet is fully engaged in the conversation. I found this uncomfortable, but once my friend was diagnosed, it made perfect sense.
I have ADHD and I struggle with knowing how much eye contact is too much. It feels weird after a few words and I need to look away, but you’re right, it can definitely be easier to focus when not directly looking at the person talking to you. I do the same thing when finding veins on patients in the hospital. I rarely look at their arms and hands until I clean them and actually go to stick. My fingers feel the veins easier when I’m not watching them. Lmao
I came here to say that this works only in neuro typical people, with people ADHD and people in the autistic spectrum you might confuse the lack of eye contact with lack of interest. I’ve learned to mostly mask this, but I’d rather not look people in the eye, so actually I have less eye contact with people I’m more comfortable with and I mask it so well that people I just met no longer notice this
I think this is very important to say. It may be difficult to make eye contact for people with ADHD and/or people on the autistic spectrum. Please take this into account, it is not a sign of not paying attention or lack of interest.
For me it can send REALLY mixed signals. I’ve had friends who’ve used it to comfort themselves but my bully uses it as a way to say that they don’t care about what I feel and as way to try to compel superiority.
Important to note that body language doesn’t express the same way in everyone. For one person a closed position may be defensive, for another it can be self-soothing/comforting, which has in itself nothing to do with being defensive.
@@nixand_brennt the thing is im not shy to people at all But there's this one cat whi always hissed at me bc she ONLY trusted the owner... Thats why im kinda intimidated XD My friends cat LOVES me tho
summary: 1. Their body language 0:54 2. Their social media accounts 1:42 3. The way they dress 2:17 4. Their taste in music 2:56 5. How they treat strangers 3:35 6. How they make eye contact 4:19 7. The shopping cart theory 4:55 Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
I am afraid that this video was created by neurotypical person who has good intentions but doesn’t have a clue about people who don’t fit the standard pattern.
and I'm not blinking/ keeping my eyes narrow because I'm nervous or suspicious, the air is just dry and keeping my eyes closed lets me focus more on the person speaking to me
I would say it makes you more interesting since people really need to discover everything about you by themselves instead of looking at your social media :). I find the people who rarely post the most interesting ones at least
I disagree, it doesn’t make you interesting nor does it make you boring, it just means that you don’t necessarily give as much of a fuck about that social media.
I really like the shopping cart part. As a child, I always wanted to return the cart and now as a teen I still wanna return the cart. I find it really fun if I’m honest.
@Starla Barr - "a woman perceived as entitled or demanding beyond the scope of what is appropriate or necessary. A common stereotype is that of a white woman who uses her privilege to demand her own way at the expense of others"
"I'm not giving you a dirty look, I just think really hard." My facial expressions won't allow me to hide anything. I give dirty looks without even realizing it.
3:36 The most important people you should be nice to are the waiters, servers, anyone who's less than you in their work or financially. They needs respect more than anything. Always smile to them, say thank you, help them with something. This little things aren't little and have such a great impact on them. Be a nice person and always be humble. Make a good thing in someone's day, have a good impact y'all❤️
Well, that isn't something 100% real. At least in my case. My dad is a god man with waiters and is very friendly with them, but he was a shit with my mom. Manipulator, lier, etc. Soo, yeah, be careful
Nevaeh osi osi Definitely not everyone treats them nicely are necessarily nice people (my dad is like that too tho!), I was just saying as a reminder to be nice to them bc it really matters.
@@sahar1213 Honestly, I read this back and have no idea - I was in the hospital when I wrote this and on an opioid for pain. I'm thinking I was super out of it. lol.
That's funny. It's not a joke, just a little thing easy to notice because it's out in public. There are similar things like picking up litter, waiting your turn in line or conversations, or lately, Wearing A Face Mask.
you know whats funny: half the public is bored during the whole concert, and when they play fantasy impromptu for an encore they areenlightened :) except the elite listeners who are bored because its bla....
Some people smile for no reason, even if they're talking about something terrible. It's bizarre. Look at people's eyes and ignore their mouths, to tell if they're really smiling.
@@JohnSmith-td7hd im not sure myself but maybe it has to do with blocking pain or just not wanting to cry in front of parents. I felt more empty than sad though.
@@sibilansnel I have the same problem, I hate being an open person ESPECIALLY to parents, I just act surprised then when I’m alone, I let it out, I thought nobody was like me lol!
Almost all of my clothes are from the thrift store. You never know what you find. I almost always find something in great or new quality, sometimes with tags still attached, for a mere fraction of the original price! This way I can also explore the styles I may like without the pressure of purchasing something so expensive. Keep an open-mind! Have a wonderful week, hon!
I LOVE the waiter rule!! You really can tell a lot about a person by how they treat waiters, house keepers, massage therapists!! :) ..and it’s soooo hard for me to keep eye contact too long!! I lose my train of thought if I’m talking! And I LOVE the shopping cart test!! Spot on!! LOVE you guys and this beautiful channel!!!! You are planting seeds of kindness!!!
If body language counts,it shows a persons intentions,an insight into the human psyche,what you wear what you say how you act,shows what you are influenced by,why people are shy,it's recognisable,if their kind or not,the first impression could effect the relationship💥💲❌
I think the most important thing is how kind people are and how open they are to help others. I know some people who are extremely helpful and they are awesome!
You can learn a lot about someone when they’re going through something tough, such experiences usually require you to drop whatever persons or phase you’re in and show your true self
It just shows character - a person who will do the right thing even when not being watched. Shows nothing about how nice, kind or considerate they are, IMO
Maybe it's just because they're used to doing it? Like, if everyone around you is doing something, you're very likely to do that too. So if everybody in your neighborhood always returns the shopping cart it can turn into an unspoken rule that everyone follows without thinking about it.
same in singapore. you have to use either the old $1 or the new $0.50 coin to unlock a shopping cart. well, we call it a trolley. i heard there are people who use sharp objects to forcefully push the coin out of the trolley. not only do they get their money back, they also don’t return the trolleys. therefore, it’s common to see them in housing estates.
@@amagdonal9365 near where I live there is an apartment complex a short walk from a major grocery store and on the other side of the apartment complex is a creek that runs through town. And you can probably guess where this is all leading to - for some reason there are a few shopping carts down in the creek near the apartments. I wonder how they got there....
Here Aldi's has their carts set up similar (for a quarter). I have noted that occasionally some people are lazy enough that a quarter means nothing to them and they still will leave the carts out in the parking lot. Which is fine for me - I just gather up their abandoned cart and make an extra quarter.
It's about the majority of your playlist. You can listen to many types of music, but there is always something that you draw you in more than the others.
Dunno. I VE got everything from Beethoven to Buck Owens, Enya to B.B.King. Missing: plastic contemorary country, rap, hard metal. Oh, well, that says something, I guess.
Some people know those things gave them the image of a “good person” so they do it even though deep down are awful. It's so hard to really trust people
That's because they are cold and calculating. Take them out for a drink or allow them to get confortable and see how their true personalities surface. Nobody can keep up the charade for long.
That's y I don't trust ppl who say "I'm a nice person" or when you get to know a bartender and learn they are nice to customers just to get a better tip even tho they are annoyed with them
the bartender one is different. Its their job to be nice to you even if you annoy them.If they express they find you annoying they get fired. They are just doing their work.
@@0MissNemo0 And is THAT why so many people want us to believe they can hold a bottle, glass, can in thier hands, and/or set it on a table?? Weird af. Anyway, just spend time with people, a first impression is always just that! Eventually, you will get into some kind of setting that just isn't all comfortable for anyone involved (nope don't do ther hairdresser's expedition to the Everest ;)) - when people are more concerned then about how to cooperate, and/or find agreement, rather than believing they are the most important individual, and/or only keeper of "the truth" on this planet, that is certainly a start to figure out how they actually tick.
I'm usually not really talkative and I tend not to interact with others if possible but when I'm really into something that someone is talking about I'm very talkative,confident and I go straight to the point. A lot of people say that I'm loyal and stuff but I'm really just a human being.
I just wanna thank the Psych2Go team for making this channel! I am a 12 year old who wants to learn more about psychology and this channel really helps me with that! Not only that, but you are also helping other people with their issues in general! Thank you. ☺️
Just keep in mind, these are opinions. People do these various things for several reasons, i.e. the crossing arms, doesn't always mean defensive, it can also be boredom, or just self control whilst waiting, as the person doesn't succumb to their child like desires to have to be entertained or engaged at all times, it's a great way to keep from touching things in a public place, which is something most people should learn to practice.
With prosopagnosia it's also typical to be more attentive when not making eye-contact. When other people think that it is because of a lack of interest, life can get more difficult. It's a quite recently discovered phenomena which about 2.5% have but most still don't know it. (Prosopagnosia = Face blindness / the inability to recognize someone (only) by their face)
I just wanted to say for the eye contact too sometimes people who fall under the ASD spectrum also have trouble making eye contact but that does not mean they are being rude.
@@bigscarysteve i think classical music is the most complexe and sophisticated type of music. I still listen to many different genres, though! For me, classical fits a particular setting, like studying or reading :)
I hope nobody takes this too seriously and think they can read other with these tips. Some may be fair assumptions, but we are not as simple beings as this implys.
@@voidofalltrades Why not just put them in the return where they belong? If you don't put them in parking spaces, great! 😁 👏 That's nice of you! Now people don't have to get out of their car to move it. But you're making the caddie's job harder by not returning them where they belong. They don't belong on the side. The caddie is supposed to collect the carts from the returns and use their machine thingy (I dunno what it's called but it creates a cool Slither-like chain of carts!) to put them back inside the store. Think about how annoyed they would be to have to run a marathon across creation to find lost carts. Especially if it was raining! I don't know if they ever do this in the dark but that has to be frustrating, too.
Same. I silently judge them. I get that people have pain or something like ADD, but as a person who struggles with both, I have not once neglected to put carts back in the return. If it's possible for someone like me who has to sit down every few steps while in the store due to pain to put carts away, it's possible for everyone else. 😊
YESSS SHOPPING CART TEST!!!!!! It bugs me SO much when people don’t put it back, and I’ve never even worked at a grocery store. It’s just such a simple thing to do and is common courtesy. I yelled at a dude one time and his excuse was he’s gotta watch his kid. I replied, “great, now your kid just gets to watch you be lazy, inconsiderate, and unaccountable. Didn’t your mother teach you to PUT BACK what you’ve used after you’re done with it, it’s common decency and respect.” He said ‘F U’ and drove off. Surprisingly he came back 5 min later and said, “ I thought about tilt for a minute, and you were right.” (Felt good to be right😏) but I was more impressed he came back just to put the cart back 👍🏻
Keep it that way. They just encouraged stalking, though it seems that everyone does it. Try to make your stuff not visible to a wide audience to avoid stalkers
I went to Germany to visit my cousins one time. It's really common to be given some coins for returning things like the basket your food came in or a shopping cart as a way to encourage you to return them. Since Aldi is a Germany company, they keep that practice even in places like the US.
I just noticed that I drooped my "friends" that would talk back to other teachers, waiters or other workers, they would always be nice to me but not other people.
“They’re Instagram account can tell you a lot about that person.” Me: has a private account with no posts Also I need friends lmao so add meee Gianna.mango
1. Body language 2. Social media 3. The way they dress 4. Taste in music 5. How they treat stranger 6. How they make eye contact 7. Shopping cart theory
Body language and irrational behaviors can also be signals of deeper issues, of pain ect. This video is great for signals of possibility but more important, I believe is an overall pattern. The irony is not lost on me of impression though, I took care of people in pain for thirty years and now have chronic back pain. I have had people literally confront me with being "restless" in my seat when I am actually shifting because of discomfort. Several days of chronic pain can also seriously affect mood. I have been on both sides of this one now. But overall if people I took care of had a good disposition their sharpness was never horrible and regret usually followed. I have definitely found this one to be true for me.
4:56 It works, expect when you're European. In a lot of European countries, we need to put a coin in the cart, and to get it back, we need to stick shopping cart into another shopping cart.
Where I live, this can almost never be used to learn anything about a person. Whether it asks for a coin or not. Simply because not returning the cart makes people regard you as if you just pulled down your pants and took a dump in the middle of the store. It's seen as an absolute given. So the only people who don't return it are almost exclusively the "public menace" kinda teenagers.
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Even the Brian Blessed UK. Anyone seen the miniature dolls 'shopping trolleys in M&S
In Denmark, the two most valuable coins fit in the shopping carts; the 10 and 20 DKK coins = 1.60 and 3.20 dollars. I think this was actually a problem, since the cart could easily go "missing", if you didn't keep an eye on it. Then, worthless metal coins that just fit in them became widespread instead, probably half the Danes have such a coin in their wallet. I think, if they'd standardized on the 2 and 5 DKK coins, it would never have been a problem.
The shopping cart thing is complicated, cus (where I’m from) there are people who are hired to take the shopping carts back, that is their only job and they are usually either really young or unable to do much work in some way. It’s kind of their last resort and they usually really need the money. I was taught from an early age to never return the shopping cart so they would never lose their jobs and keep earning money. So that’s why I never return the shopping cart ( even when I travel sometimes
@@chadpowell1832 No, they are meant to take the trolleys to their main bay...not go around the parking lot finding all the trolleys people were too lazy to return lol.
I like lots of different kinds. From Marty Robbins to Godsmack. Peter Paul and Mary to led zeplin. I think music should make you feel good. I don't like hateful abusive messages.
Not so straight forward in our country, we have car guards, which you normally tip and they will take the trolley back, so this depends highly on the country and the customs they have. Animal abuse on the other hand will be a no no in any country. Though declawing cats is also a different thing in the UK and Usa. To me it is wrong
In my country we don't have car guards as the person above said, but I have never once seen shopping carts randomly scattered around supermarket exits / around their station. It's just a public order thing everyone does
Same. I downloaded Instagram because I kinda felt forced. I am not planning on posting anything. Just want it because when you meet people they always ask you for your Instagram and usually from my experience don't use other apps to communicate. So basically I downloaded it to keep in touch with people I already know from the past or just met them at school.
I recently learned by myself, that trying to read a person is not such a good thing and it leads sometimes to misunderstanding. Maybe I read wrong, :-) but sometimes it is hardships, just to look and make an assumption, because maybe he is in that mood, but because of an different subject. As they said in the beginning, we humans are complex. So for myself I learned, I need to ask more question to people, to really understand them! And also I learned, that I need to learn myself better! With love David from Munich/ Germany
A body language expert once said that crossed arms don't always indicate defensiveness, but can be a self-soothing technique. If someone feels uncomfortable, they may cross their arms to give themselves a sense of security. So, it's not always a bad thing.
in the supermarket i go to, the trollys are chained together, & you have to put a pound coin in a slot on the lock to release one so, if you dont put the trolly back, youll louse your £, so politeness, in this case, has nothing to do with it!
In America, this all really depends -- there are stalls to return the carts strategically placed in large parking lots besides the front of the store and -- if your car is parked too awkwardly location-wise, and you don't want to go too far away from your loaded car and relock it to do so; no one would blame anyone for leaving the carts in that area to be picked up by an employee making rounds later. Or the next person pulling into the slot, might walk the cart right into the store and shop
This is such an interesting video topic. Also a little different from usual, which I like. Also it said this was uploaded 35 seconds ago and I stopped mid conversion just to watch this. It was worth it.
Elham Personally, I like dubstep and rap. I also like some songs in other genres. Favorite dubstep artist: Lindsey Stirling. Favorite rapper: Eminem. I was talking about my mom’s taste.
#5 is so completely true! I've always utilized this to see how people really are. If they're rude to servers in any way shape, form, or fashion then I'll never go out with them again because I used to be a server. I know exactly how hard that industry is! So when I see a server I see myself and professional colleagues. I cannot stand to go out with ungrateful entitled rude people! THAT is the quickest way to make me stop hanging out with you and just dealing with you in general. My bad. I didn't mean to make a hard left turn and start a rant. I'm deeply passionate about #5. That's all. Take care. (Smile)
