Hi Cody, thank you for your videos, really inspiring! I'm taking this stuff on board. 1 question about #2 PAYG: you say to let her leave, but what if you share a home together with kids and she's asking me to move out (and what if that is really complicated, e.g. I don't have anywhere to go, so that would literally mean a hotel or having to purchase property)?
By not resisting, you’re giving the relationship a chance. You’re just kicking the can down the road right now. Unless you save the marriage, you’ll be moving out at some point.
Are you saying that if it's at the point of divorce and asking me to move out, there is no hope of saving the marriage without complying to the request to move out? So go through all the motions and in the meantime try to be the man she wants me to be?@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler
How do I stop resisting her? It’s completely against our biblical morals. If she leaves it is straight up going against our values that we hold and she says she supposedly holds.
@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler I thought there wasn’t any hope and a miracle happened. She came back and confessed everything, said she’s 100% committed, and we’ve started counseling.
