Message her one more time, realize you are getting ghosted. Hate how you are on tinder, consider deleting, turn up the sad beats, grab the drinks, THEN YOU MAY CRY.
megahertz XV Wait... Fuck... This make no sense but I'm getting thirsty now so... I'm just gonna take this as a excuse coz I got answer... Lucky I didn't spam back because she didn't answer...
Emperor Chaffee This may work during middle school up to mid high school but in College it is perceived as immaturity on a girl's part. I say this because women/girls who play this trick is not effective and when a guy knows this he will just play along but tests the water by writing again at a random time and day, then that girl/woman lacks the source of the dating game. It is not a test but a cry for immaturity. If a girl is not interested nor has the energy to create tension towards someone who fancies her, then she will bluntly tell you right away or has problems that puts her into an inferior position.
Джинзó Аркайдия exactly. But sadly a lot of grown ass women play the hell out of this game. Why the hell should I put energy and effort into someone that doesn't have any respect for my time? women only have all of this power because a lot of men give it to them. I fell for this trap before and had to learn the hard way.
Джинзó Аркайдия I’m in high school, and right now as I’m typing this a girl is ignoring my tests. It’s incredibly immature and I’m probably gonna delete the convo and her number. To anyone with the same problem, I urge you to consider this because you deserve a woman who will respect you enough to text you back
BEST COMMENT BEST COMMENT ik!! It's dumb as fk.. You just gotta learn to be patient and pretend you don't give a shit if she doesn't reply to you after you for an example asked her number from Tinder and she trying to "ghost" you. Once you cave in and try to be involved in her life because you know she's willing to suck ten other guys chickens before she gets back to you.. Then she is not worth it really..she will be rude and mean to you.. Cause girls really don't give a shit about your feelings.
This woman is giving men false hope. If she doesn't respond , move on. If she gets back to you, she's playing games, run if you want to keep your sanity
Well, she does say number 1 is to not do anything and basically just move on. The other 4 were just things you can try if you want to spend some more time chasing her.
@@TheJoshSpeaks look pal, I'm 47 not an emasculated millenial, experience says:: no man should take dating advice from a woman, it will lead to kowtowing and massaging her ego from the 'friendzone', similarly, no women should follow dating advice from men, as both will tell you what you want to hear, not the truth. you are so naive it's unfunny, most of her advice will have you arrested for harassment these days. Listen to what she's saying ,'it's not about you, it's about her'. This is essentially the advice that a narcissist would give. Translation : you don't matter but you are still oblidged to give her your attention. You'll look back on this in ten years and laugh at yourself. And believe me, it will be a hollow laugh
I don't see the point in this. I used to be like this but then I realized something. If a girl isn't invested in me than why should I even bother investing in them?
Omar Sharifi well I think it depends. Finding the balance of being persistent and falling back is important. Sometimes a girl just want to see if you care enough to be persistent or sometimes a girl wants the power and wants u to chase ..
Honestly in my opinion, if she doesn't respond or anything, she's not interested therefore you should move TF on. Billions of other women out there, she's just 1
90% truth... 10% is when something serious is going on in her life or shes just not emotionally stable person so shes acting rude and selfish even if she is nice person in general
Move on. They ignore you instead of telling you they’re not interested because you’re considered a backup. They don’t value your time by doing that so you shouldn’t put up with that.
***** Ofcourse, But on the other hand girls will respond in a timely manner if she was really interested. Why waste time waiting you know lol.....Anyways, i love your videos man.
5 things to do if a girl ignores you: 1. Realize she either doesn't respect you or 2. Realize she just isn't interested enough 3. See steps 1,2 4. Find a hobby 5. Fill the void that you think can only be filled by a female
i am tired of crying i am trying of waiting for her responds i am really just tired m i have really got a huge pain from loving girls i dont knw what to do anymore every time i love a girls, they always end up hurting meeee😢😫😫😫
I’ve known this girl since before I knew how to tie shoes.we’ve always been best friends until middle school some shit went down and I lost a close friend.i felt like I was stabbed in the back.I didn’t want to go through that again so I distance myself from the one person I cared about.Now I’m at high school and have in her in two of my classes.We both act positive around others but something feels off every time we make eye contact. I still care about her can’t say the same for her but I felt like I’ve been on an island for 5 years just away from her even tho I want to talk to her.She has many friends so I didn’t think she’d miss me. So my point is that your not alone man keep your head up!
Let me save you guys some time . Girls are complicated and it's sad that something like this so simple is made to be difficult. So txt her 3 times and MOVE ON !!!!!
personally, i think doing nothing when she ignores you makes you look weak, because you can't ignore someone with a strong personality and expect them to say nothing in return
seth zxl oml bro don’t give up talk to her more your gonna regret giving up be yourself around and if she talks to you a lot after ask her out don’t hesitate
Some of these things can come off as stalker like so in all honesty it’s best to just not do anything. If she never answers back it’s her lose not yours. It opens a new opportunity to find someone better.
man i took this girl number...we're very compatible our first interaction was perfect and she shows signs of interest but when we texted...she got bored and ignored mee:(
This happens... Happened to me also. But after not getting any reply for 20+days, I don't text her anymore. She's my bestie. But I have a feeling she'll call me, or not. It hurts btw. 😥
Thanks Josh! Now that I think about it... I have watched that before! But for my case scenario. The girl I like doesn't really like to talk, plus I feel I made a bad first impression....I guess I'll just watch it again!
I feel like she’s playing with my feelings, yesterday we had a conversation and she made it obvious that she liked me the next day she just blue ticks my messages
Brooooo samee yesterday we hade veryy greatttt conversation and todayy she only reply after i send her a streak or doing her best song on story but when i text her she ignores mee, she just told to my friends that’s im very nice and handsome and she like me but today she’s been rude to me and i fell really realllyyy bad it’s really hurt my feelings 😩🥺
My experience is that a girl only text you 1. If she love you 2. If she need you for something 3. If you are old friends Women don't spend time on a man if they don't need sorry, they have a asocial filter.
Simply advice to guys 1st don't let people treat you this way 2nd leave her alone (being needy is weak) 3rd pick up your ball on go play another game 4th realize that everyone get ignored and move on.
Being left on read isn't always a bad thing. I'm texting a girl I like and she replies often. Occassionally during the day I get left on read most likely because she could be busy or conversation ended. But it doesn't bother me. I usually focus on something more productive and I have a lot in common with this girl. I followed it up with by asking if she wants to call? We talked for hours. It's okay to have a balance
Actually.if a girl if ignores you stop being sentiment, emotional and stop using any love words like love you, miss you , wanna see u again or try to hook up. Best thing to do is, when she messages you, message back very cool, very short messages. Like: ye, sure , why not. Or just simple Smiley's without any tekst kn it.
Easiest way to get your crush to respond to you is to say Hi or Hey then when she/he responds back just say simply bye , then she/he will get confused then type something like "?" Or "What do you mean?" Then after that say "clearly you don't care about me cause you ain't replying" . 99% of the time he/she will reply back saying something along the lines of I do like you. Then once that happens you know what she is interested in you . Then take it from there . Worked for me a few times.
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I'm really, really trying to live my life by the 1st tip, because I agree wholeheartedly. It's rude and if you aren't being valued by someone, why would you want a relationship with them? But it's hard being lonely.
I confessed to a girl. She said "I really appreciate you going out of your way but I just want to focus on school right now :))" i just got friend zoned?
Sadly, it sounds like it. I did a video over on Hayley's channel about the friend zone which might be helpful for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fnnMl5q3QQI.html
I agree, I think goes thing means and easy way out of tough situations and a lot of people tend to it because it's easier to not take responsibility than it is to actually try to explain to someone why you may not be interested in them.
People are such cowards. It is not hard to reply back im not interested in you. Some will reply back 1. why are you not interested in me? and others will 2. thank you for letting me know and not wasting my time. If they ask why, tell them. They will reply back with number 2. It is so much easier to be blunt and honest with people. People rather be rejected in a mean way compared to not knowing. Making up lies, excuses, ignoring, ect is all the wrong way of doing it. Lies hurt more than the truth. The truth will always set you free.
women always avoid confrontation, that's why it's easier for them to ignore than to tell you why. so if you tell her indirectly without looking aggressive why you've ignored my message? she will feel intimidated, and it will be hard for her to ignore
Let's just sum it up to one action. Leave him or her alone. Sometimes people get busy and sometimes they are getting busy. Treat it how you wish but learn to enjoy your own company and everything rolls off your shoulders.
I sent him an email, I discovered him not too long ago so I'll see if he responds. If you want you can always leave a comment on his latest video telling him he should collab with me 😉
The only right advice here this girl gave was to just walk if they ignore you. It shows she is either playing games, or being completely inconsiderate or condescending and should be dropped on that merit of her character. Don't play the games, move on, forget her, and find someone who wont do dumb games like this. To make matters worse if she cant even communicate a lack of interest or a frustration with something about the first date, how do you think a relationship with this person is ever going to work when basic communication isn't happening over something so simple so early.
I texted my girlfriend for the past 4 days and she did not reply to my texts or calls. I was beginning to think that she could be seeing someone else or is treating me like low priority. I asked her nicely at Playtown why she was not replying and she said that she was busy getting her 4 year old daughter to and from school and doing the house work with the nannies. The nannies and social workers are there to help her bring up the child and help her do the house work. This was part of the court order she agreed to as her ex partner was aggressive and violent to her, the child and the nannies. I am not allowed to kiss my girlfriend in front of her daughter or stay over in her house for long periods. I told her that you could have texted me after dropping off her daughter to school but she snapped at me saying you know the situation I am with the nannies. I started crying and she didn't comfort me and just turned sideways. She also said that I should not cry in front of her daughter. But I told her that I cannot take anymore and left in tears. We made up today over a nice calm chat and had a cuddle and kiss. Was I right to question her?
The weird thing in my situation is that she added me first on facebook. Then she first started texting me and seemed interested in me. Suddendly she stopped replying and didn't see my last messages.. She told me that blood was coming out of her belly button coz she was messing with it so I figured she needed some time..bit now that I think about it I don't know man.. Godamn you girls..my bros always text me back..why do you have to be like this?
Her best advice is the first one, leave that girl when she ignored you. Guys, it's not about what you wanna hear or see, it's about what the reallity is. When you can do that, you will flip out her world, cause she always get away from her ego-game, cause 99% guys will text or contact her again before she replied. Anyway if you really high quality men, you won't put your happiness on women, so whenever you see this kind behavior from women, you automatically will loose interest on her. Those world only apply for women who play games on you, not the one that actually really not into you. When she is not into you, just accept it.
Wanna know what I did? Texted her "I think I have a confession to make." After she replies, Ima wait a day or 2 without opening the texts and just *watch* her spam me. Then I'll leave her on read which will make her triggered and she'll spam me even more. Oh boy Im gonna die lmfao. Ill update 😂
Listen guys, the people that say move on don’t say that for no reason. Shit just happened to me but I’m coolin and ready to push forward. I would advise to do the same. Don’t give the light of day to someone who can’t even move their thumbs to text you back.
I have given up. I wil never find love. I will never find a good girl. I will never have a family. I will never find anyone. Gonna die in my old days alone. Btw. I have a 6 pack and good looking. Play the guitar and sing. And come from a rich family. It dosent matter. I train everyday. They want but dont give...
I think when a chick ignores for real,, after a day has went by.. its a sign she will ignore anything in life,, it just tells you her personality before you meet her.. And calling guy a loser for texting her after that makes no sense,, the girl is being shady ignoring so why is the guys attempt at further conversation viewed as weak?.. She doesn't even know you so thats a rather harsh judgment when guy is just being realistic and tired of texting a flake girl and would like to know if this multi week play she's been putting on is real or not.. After a while texting gets old
Everyone said something, let her change her mind that's first Second girls like to see different man always because want find something they lost in the first relationship, but still don't know why they change quickly and always girl can't tell a man they want stop talk or be in the friend zone because of hart break 💔 so my advice stop do that to yourself and look for new girls I believe in one thing if you want to forget someone talk to someone else that's all
I have a crush on my classmate. I'm not really a shy person but I get shy when I'm around her. I would really appreciate it if I can get some tips or advice.
IMO there's no easy answer. A lot of people say that you should just look at her as though she is one of your friends which would make her easier to talk to. This never really worked for me though. I think a good way is to practice by talking to other girls. The more you do it the easier it will get. Hope this helped
Alfie Morrisroe no no no confessions rarely work and if she doesn't really talk to you and you don't really talk to her a random confession will only get u rejected
This is just superb, been searching for "get back with your ex wife" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my neighbour got great success with it.
If you sent a text and she ignored you. Then the best is to do nothing. Give her space, maybe she has a bad day, maybe she is just not in the mood to talk. Back off a little and more often than not she will come around. If not, then you’re not a priority and shouldn’t make her one either.
i am a girl, when i don't respond it's because im doing something else most of the time. It's rare i dont feel like talking or anything, im just busy or tired. and if i don't wanna talk I'll just strait up tell you🙄😛, but that's just me😞
Lol tru Same man :( But then I look like the bad guy? Like beach you ignored me for 10 days, and you have the mouth to tell back?? Or should i say the TIME to text back. Lol #Pathetic
This is perfect to be in the right place for a British guest like her. That a perfect example of how I can be the best company of my own destiny even it things in friendship and relationships don't work, they're plenty of opportunities out there to be in the best event I ever imagined. Especially if those expectations dosen't always help me to be the one or the perfect match for her/ them, What I would do is the carry on and move on to the next level of the event that can help me access my goals to be the best relative in the event. No matter what it is, how it is, what results I get, the scores berm earned, or what happens, they're still hope, more levels, different destinations, and more people to meet up, because Life if nothing but a game of adventure. Good and bad company in a separate way of being a own consistency.
I've been told about something called "The Key Lock Sequence". I didn't fully understand it, but the first step says that if you want someone to respond, write something original that you know will get her attention and make her feel an emotion. Stuff like: "hello", "hey wassup", "how's your day" are all boring and are a dime a dozen, and she won't respond.
Yep. Totally. We went out 4 times and after each time she sent me messages saying she had a great time. We conversed a lot, and I replied to a message she sent, to which she never replied again. She did that once before, and then came back around, so I waited, like I did before, but instead of 2 weeks like last time, 2 months passed, and then suddenly her status on Facebook changed to "in relationship" with another guy. No explanation, no quick text saying "this isn't going to work out" which, even in a short text, is better than nothing. This was my 5th rejection, so no surprise there, but my first ghosting. Weird. And totally disrespectful, and I never will be the one who ghosts someone in the future. It sucks.
Avery Rothleutner I feel you bro. I am facing the same shit right now. This bitch even mention about her family talking about me all the bull shit and I saw her hanging out on her Instagram pictures instead of reply back my fucking messages. Move on bro.
Idea #4 sounds great. I found that by sharing a funny Chihuahua video that I made, one aloof girl responded with "Lol." I have also found, by posting on someone's Facebook thread and not worrying about a response, has actually elicited a response. I also find that by sharing something new on my own Social Media feed, brings back a girl that I haven't heard from for a few months. I find that, if I stay being confident in being who I am, it really works out. Hence, I put a lot of value in my own happiness...it's the reason that married guys attract a 2nd girl! -Rick
People are such cowards. It would be so much easier for everyone if people were completely blunt to people that they are not interested in and why if they ask them why. If all people rejected men and women that way, dating would be so much easier for everyone. Not knowing if someone likes you or not, if there busy, or ignoring you and why makes you feel more like shit. Makes people wonder what did they do wrong. In my opinion it hurts more for a man or a woman in life when they get rejected alot by people who after talking or going on 1 date with them, they stop responding or never respond one time they leave a message. Compared to if they always had people keep it real and direct with them when they were not interested. For starters you dont need to worry or wonder if they are busy or really ignoring you. Some even play the games pretending there interested but busy at the moment and will call you back but really its all a lie and they never will and will keep ignoring or pretend to be busy. Besides that being one improvement if people were honest blunt direct straighforward with people on dating sites. You really wouldnt have your feelings hurt as much. You would have 2 positive ways of looking at the why if you decided to ask why and they told you why. 1 you can learn from your mistakes or what you did wrong with that person. You would take it as constructive criticsm which people do at work which helps make people work better instead of stay the same. You now know what that person likes or doesnt like about you and know what it is you would have to do if you really wanted them. 2, that person is not worth your time and you are not going to change that thing they dont like about you and find someone else that doesnt mind it.
Er !... Th..Thanks you! Gohohod.. Nothing to add this exactly it So stupid and stressful !! Such lack of courage! Thanks for this insight, even if it's a bit long ; ) May my reply and upvote bring you to the top
Félix Deconinck thank you for the upvote and reply. Its nice to see im not the only one out there that feels dating would be easier if people were more blunt all the time. Out of experience in dating, making friends, work, ect. Anything in life. I have taken rejection better with someone being fully blunt and honest with me compared to people making up lies, excuses, being passive, or wasting my time. I rather on a date someone tell me they are not interested and why if i ask compared to not knowing. I dont care how mean the truth is. A lie hurts way more than the truth. The truth always sets you free. Even if they say what they dont like about your looks, or something else in a very mean way. You know that is just there opinion and wont take it anywhere near as hard if they just ignore you and say nothing. Seriously how hard is it after 1 date to tell the person i dont want to go on another date or just want to be friends. How hard is it to if your on a dating site tell someone your not interested in them when they message you. It is so easy. Most wont even ask why. Some will. If they do tell them. There is nothing to lose. Either way they will be thankful for you letting them know. Being honest and not wasting there time.
YESS !! YEs ... Yes again: a mean lie is so much better than not knowing !! It shoves stress and anxiety up our brains to not know!! And knowing allows to grow; take a step back; realize we do make mistakes; and maybe we were not even aware that our behavior was unnacceptable ! Knowing is a healthy, morale and goodspreading necessity
I had a chick in my school which I was interested in. I tried to initiate contact with her and wanted to date her. We went to a park and clicked some pictures of us. After a couple of days she started dating somebody else and she put me in a friend zone. I moved on with my life and unfollowed her on social media. After 2 years she came back and followed me again. She texted me a photo of me and her when we were in a park together. I decided not to initiate any contact with her and I didn't react and left her message on read. I think she was just there to get some attention because she thought that the grass was still green from my side. She must be confused why I didn't reply back to her. She must be mad and scratching her head.
Alfie Morrisroe Well that's pretty tough when considering the fact that i was friends with someone that suddenly decided it would be a good idea to stop talking to me entirely after she asked for my number, I swear texting is the very thing that destroys relationships in most cases IDK you can't even tell what the individual is thinking and that doesn't help at all.
So, if she stops texting at the most innapropiate times (i.e invite her out as a question and then she leaves me on read) and this is on snapchat btw, should I just take her off my friends list?
I messaged my crush she replied we chatted for a bit the next day I messaged her again she read it Nd ignored it. She works in my local shop and I seen her today she served me i said hey Becca and honestly she looked so awkward 🙈
