The Biggest Mistakes Men Make When She Pulls Away! Ignoring Me & Losing Interest (DON'T DO THIS)

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What not to do when she pulls away! There's a good chance you've arrived at today's video because you're wondering what to do when she pulls away. Today we're specifically discussing what NOT to do when she pulls away. These are common mistakes men make when women pull away. When someone pulls away it's understandably a very difficult time to go through. You might be worried she's losing interest or no longer likes you. You may even be thinking of breaking up with her on impulse but that's definitely not the way to go. Being aware of the pitfalls of decisions, before you make them, is vital. So whether it be her ignoring you, not responding to your text messages, general pulling away behaviour, be sure to follow today's tips before doing anything!
When a woman pulls away she is making a conscious decision to cut off her emotions and it's going to feel like the faucet of love has been turned off. She kind of does a stone wall effect, it's confusing for you guys. And there are some things that you can do that can actually make the situation a lot worse. So if you want to get yourself out of this awkward feeling with a woman that's ignoring you, follow the tips from today's video.
The most important thing to understand and to summarise all of this video is that women will pull away to test your reaction. For example, if she thinks that you don't like her and you are displaying behaviour that makes her feel that you are not interested she will pull away to see if you panic, therefor she will know if you like her or not. Or it could be that she's trying to punish you because you did something wrong that upset her. So lets talk about it.
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0:00 Intro
0:49 When to do when she pulls away
0:56 You chase her
2:20 Romantic gestures
2:55 Proclaiming your love
3:50 The big apology
4:51 Breaking up with her
5:31 Passive aggressive
6:57 What to do when she pulls away
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@Joyanima 2 года назад

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@TristanPR77 2 года назад

If she pulls away to "test me" after I showed interest and indirectly let her know I like her, then this woman is not for me. The right person will resonate with you and things will flow naturally. These "I have to ignore you to test you" stuff is a flag for me that things are not flowing naturally.

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@el-hp1lj 2 года назад

yes sir. Dime a dozen out here. play games and theyll be playing alone

@juannavarro3620 2 года назад

exactly, nobody over 30 has time to be playing games.

@um52 Год назад

🙏

@tabascochill5705 Год назад

@@el-hp1lj hope they like single-player campaigns.

@RH-xs8gz 2 года назад

If if you did something to piss her off and she’s not mature enough to tell you what it is and would rather play the guessing game, walk away. She’s not worth it.

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@tjbohmier46 2 года назад

If an ex emotionally pulls away with no explanation, let her go. If an ex disrespected you on a regular basis, let her go. If your relationship and love was not reciprocated, let her go. If this woman then leaves you, then just let her go. You never leave what you cherish, she did you a huge justice by leaving.

@asetico2031 2 года назад

Well said my man, just let her go, she was never yours to begin with.

@tedsell1455 2 года назад

Just Walk 😎

@faisal-ca 2 года назад

I agree with her. "Do nothing" is the best thing to do. Neutralize all the desperate or need based energy. Like they say , if you love somebody you let them go. If they come back to you , you let them go again :)

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@jamesfrancis4164 2 года назад

Cutting it short and summarized Do not chase her Do not chase her validation Give her space (Cary on with your life, make her feel she's missing out) Do not make hasty decisions (be calm and be grounded) Note : if you are sure you were the one that caused her to give you space, then make sure you apologize once things are cooled down

@markpack798 2 года назад

Then dump her!!! Next!!!

@naesgrebner313 2 года назад

Never apologize. Show her you are of value and by her leaving means she punched her own ticket to the friend zone.

@archstanton3763 2 года назад

@@markpack798 Sound advice dude !

@archstanton3763 2 года назад

@@naesgrebner313 She punched her own ticket. Sweet ! I love it

@spidersj12 2 года назад

When she runs away, send her a new pair of running shoes, with a note telling her to keep going. Even better give her a pair of running shoes on the first date, tell her it's for when she decides to pull away and run because she's a woman...

@kaibalfour2318 2 года назад

Yup, it’s easy to get attached to an outcome. Sometimes it’s best to accept that in life there are no guarantees and move on. One way or another you will end up where you were supposed to be, wether it’s with that same person or someone else.

@johnrambo2876 Год назад

It takes two adults communicating effectively to make a relationship work. If someone wants to be emotionally immature and sacrifice the relationship, they didn't value it anyway.

@xuavrice2338 2 года назад

I hate that in order to get past the “does he chase me test” you need to prove who’s more insecure about the other liking them.

@KO-pw9wt 2 года назад

I was chasing a girl for a Month, she was not my crush but still being needy for her. This video really made my mind to stop thinking about her anymore. Thank You😅

@d2.050 2 года назад

Same thing for me this video clarifies me what I’ve learned & also what some people told me at the end one word describes a lot ‘Don’t be desperate’ 😅

@KO-pw9wt 2 года назад

@@d2.050 True that

@d2.050 2 года назад

@@KO-pw9wt yup learned it hard way :)

@olabanjiusman6963 2 года назад

😆

@TruthTriumphs786 2 года назад

I really regret losing this amazing woman I met 6 years back. I didn't approach her and express my love for her. I saw her a few weeks back and all those old memories came flooding back. I want to get back at her. I wish I could meet her again.

@BensonNyasae 2 года назад

Surely? Where is the time and energy for all these mind games? Women are too complicated 🤦🏾

@MegaVolcano 2 года назад

Benson, the only advice I can give you after several relationships, good & bad, and being currently married, is just accept that this is just how women behave. Adapt to it. If you learn to adapt, knowing that this is their natural state of being, as men have their own, then you can navigate into more fulfilling relationships.

@glennlgg6871 2 года назад

Best advice? 1) Don't listen to a woman's advice on relationships 2) Don't fall for all the games. Just be yourself and be fair. If you really did something wrong apologize. If not then don't let yourself be manipulated. Remember. Plenty of fish in the sea.

@TheDreamBlog 2 года назад

sometimes "people" give good advice. its not about woman or man. you can get good or bad advice from either. in this case, listen to her. in a nutshell never chase a woman who wants her space. every girl ive gotten was bc i left em alone when they pulled away. the cringiest thing to any girl is when i guy becomes overbearing. what the poster meant was not to apologize for no good reason or give a shitty apology. tbh i wouldnt take advice from anyone who refer to women as "fish in the sea" nor uses that dull cliche term.

@glennlgg6871 2 года назад

@@TheDreamBlog ok. There's plenty of sand in the desert. Better?

@prathambatra899 Год назад

@@glennlgg6871 😂😂😂

@RavageReeves Год назад

As soon as a women shows distance or losing interest cut it off and dump them and make sure they never get the chance again.

@ScubaSteveCanada 2 года назад

Let's suppose when she pulls away, you should not only feel disrespected, you actually were - move on, nothing worth saving except your own self-respect. End of video.

@amosbarg 2 года назад

Why don't woman have to be accountable for acting poorly by pulling away and manipulating me from the beginning?

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@Martin-jk2ng 2 года назад

Because of this sort of advice. This allows women to continue acting like this with ho real reprocussions. "Just let her do her thing" sounds great. But it also allows her to be irresponsible and shitty as long as she wants to be. As men, we have no real recourse.

@lrddiablo6599 Год назад

i love how all the women that give advice want to protect women constantly, while the men are like fuck her, move on. im leaning towards the men are far more correct. being too open and nice with women gets you taken advantage of

@joelr4408 2 года назад

Day is not completed without you anna.!

@davidcoppotelli3957 Год назад

Always Love your Videos and You. David

@raphaelauston4818 2 года назад

Thank you for this video. It's very timely

@kylekenan2321 2 года назад

Her pulling away is the mistake.

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

I know of love expert who can help you bring back your ex within 48 hours.

@kylekenan2321 2 года назад

I know you do.

@rijubhatt8366 2 года назад

Your sage advice to change the ascetic into the householder is noteworthy.

@RBS4u Год назад

Great info, learned so much here,love the statedgy when it came to apologizing to much,thanks✔✔

@stefanross8129 2 года назад

.... Love it! I do really like this video. Right on the money!

@keepmoving1185 2 года назад

Refreshing good advice

@satishg5538 2 года назад

Thank you for the Video 😊

@Qoda 2 года назад

I dont know why this always happens when I need it but, Anna, your videos pop up at the top of my feed whenever I'm thinking too much about something. Thanks for the self love, self care advice while I wait. I've got other crap to do and finish and I definitely don't have the mind energy to waste on overthinking a situation. Thanks again!

@dosomething3 2 года назад

Terrific advice

@55maltesers 3 дня назад

Thinking back. My first girlfriend kept pulling away, I could never figure out why, I did a few of these mistakes because I was uneducated. But eventually I got sick of it and dumped her permanently. There must come a point where these pull aways are a red flag from her end.

@DAQS0084 2 года назад

Thank you for the advise

@d2.050 2 года назад

Thank you Anna for making this video. I could relate most of the stuff in my current situation, I’ve been through some of the stuff long story short I apologize to her because when I felt she was disrespecting me I got little frustrated and talk to her in a way that I shouldn’t after a week I said sorry & all I got tear in my eye talking to her it was natural lol. Well we are friends but not like we share our social media or hangout. As of now it’s just like texting thing but very limited. It’s more of one sided sometimes, however I learned why done be a chaser in this situation so it’s like before & after for me I’ve changed for good.

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@abdullahsamiran35 2 года назад

All you have said is truth thanks alot for great videos n advice, indeed at back we wer n erra to fail in all those mistakes uhv mentioned

@hadimohammed7457 9 месяцев назад

Anna u r always at my need..Tanx kk❤

@hanifbarrett8358 2 года назад

Hi miss Anna greetings, not only in relationship,.but in life itself, when u put yourself ,in someone else shoes, that's the start ,and the solution for greatness,.I swear.

@CrimsonSurvival 2 года назад

All we ever hear about is what WE have to do, what WE have to be… What about what we want?…

@davidchin7721 2 года назад

Thanks for the tips, I was being ghosted once.

@oduwaimade6037 2 года назад

Hmmm....insightful!!!

@25-8 2 года назад

This is insane, I would do all these things if I had this problem but I don’t understand why women view it this way..

@64maxpower 2 года назад

How about using your words to communicate what you are feeling?

@jaxent 2 года назад

If it is someone you have a real relationship with, you can also always ask. No games no BS, "Did I do something I didn't recognize to upset you? " You can have an adult conversation about it if so. If she says not, then go on with her life. Agreed, don't apologize unless you know what for and you mean it. What pissed her off maybe part of who you are, and something you can't or won't change. Relationships end, it's better to be true to yourself.

@bhaijee11 2 года назад

I just hd my heart broken..my mind is numb and I can’t think anything straight..

@sefuda5110 Год назад

we were happier 100 years ago.... love has become mind game

@SeekerGoOn2013 2 года назад

Don’t chase under any circumstances. It took me way too long to realize this.

@charliedavidarnott1537 2 года назад

In my experience, from a universal perspective, if a woman ghosts you, then the universe is doing this to bring attention to the feelings that arise within you when being ghosted. If you have a triggered reaction to this- then it shows you need to heal your inner child. Once you have successfully done this, you will either no longer experience people ghosting you, or you will no longer experience those triggers as a reaction to being ghosted.

@chrisstanley9477 2 года назад

Or being ghosted was a blessing. Some other man can put up with her shit. Single life is the best life stress free and free of drama with money to spend on yourself

@williamdew6018 2 года назад

@frederickcraft7302 2 года назад

Don't forget about the old country song.sometimes I thank GOD for unanswered prayers

@jaymedalbeth6962 2 года назад

I'm sorry to hear that a previous boyfriend did a boundary breaker! Flirting is cheating and a big no no in a relationship my friend!

@joelbjewell 2 года назад

So, she's playing games

@Martin-jk2ng 2 года назад

They're all crazy and it's all they know.

@elmo319 5 месяцев назад

After 46 years of life, multiple relationships along the way and a 14 year marriage, kids, house, decent job, etc. I have yet to understand women after meeting them throughout life. The best action I have learnt, when in a relationship, is simply to do nothing and go about your business. Also remember that if your wrong in an argument (in a relationship), you’re wrong; but if you’re right you will still be wrong in a woman’s eyes so simply don’t bother, walk away from it. This doesn’t mean ditch her, it means just do no action, let her come around and back to you. Females are like cats, try and pick one up and rest on your lap, it will usually skip off, so don’t try it. Usually, the cat will choose you to rest upon if it so wishes and snuggle down after time. Meantime, do your own thing and purpose, the cat will usually come over to you 😉 If anyone knows why females behave like this, let me know. Most blokes be like, can’t be bothered with that complicated s**t 😂

@64maxpower 2 года назад

Oh, another good tip is to say " come on baby, don't be mad at Daddy". And she will immediately smile and hug you.

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@TheFeezy777 Год назад

And if she doesnt respond?

@orinkogenda3440 Год назад

It goes both ways

@littlebear1520 2 года назад

I've watched a lot of different things on relationships and so forth but I think you're giving some of the soundest advice I have seen and when a woman tries these crap tests on a guy it's just wrong

@Eastcapitalindia 11 месяцев назад

Hi joy!! Thanks.. this video is relevant for me this moment. Actually i am trying to attract one of my co-worker that to with an unavailable woman. She also likes me i know but very very cautious. Actually i am ignoring her now. Some other co-worker also aware of this and creating problem for both of us.

@damon123jones 2 года назад

best talk it out,, if that doesn't work....later for her...get another

@TheKurdong Год назад

6:57 Why the hell this actually works I just have no idea. I've been watching videos on what to do when a girl I like tries to pull away ever since she stopped responding to my messages (seenzone) for almost a week since we last saw each other. Nothing comes to mind what I've done wrong during that day we saw each other, but maybe that one text blunder I sent her a few days later. Then just now she started messaging me out of nowhere (I usually am the one initiating the conversation) like nothing happened! Women are weird.

@jeffreymartinez477 2 года назад

Thank you Joyanima I will be okay it hurts very bad married 8 years and would give her my best with nothing in return

@tonkatoytruck 2 года назад

If she pulls away, ........................."the juice is not worth the squeeze."

@ginger_pvt_ltd5274 2 года назад

Gentlemen remember even ladies are watching this so they may make a fool out of you

@klankie1 2 года назад

summary: don't show emotions or behave emotional towards a woman when she pulls away

@64maxpower 2 года назад

I have an answer for that Say "I am sorry for what it is I am to be sorry for " " then say I like those cute shoes you are wearing" . That will distract her off topic

@Larikalful 2 года назад

About your "breaking up" point... if she pulls away then isnt she essentially breaking up and acting immature? Besides : one thing is to tell someone that you want to be alone for couple of days, but other thing is to go cold or even disappear without word. In that way she shows that she doesnt really care about your feelings. Now, can you love someone without caring about them? That being said - just talk. My girlfriend really didnt liked how i was behaving with other girls. She straight up said to me that she's hurt bcs im flirting with others. I was seriously shocked, and confused, she seen that so she give few examples. I just smiled from ear to ear and answered that im not flirting, thats just how i roll. I've seen she wasnt convinced, so i seriously assured her in two ways : asked her to remember how i behave with guys. The same way. And second thing : i've told her that she can ask her or my friends if they ever seen me acting or saying something even slightly flirty. And then i've added with big smile "well, to anyone other than you". Problem solved. No big drama, no break up, no silent weeks. Well, later friend told me that she's keeper, so i asked her why. And she said that my gf was asking her about me, if i flirted with someone etc, and she tried to baited her by telling her that she saw me flirting with one girl, saying "blah, blah, blah", doing this and this... yet she didnt took the bait and just said "except me". Then that friend started talking to me like to child learning the alphabet : "she remembered all of your flirting, which means that she cares about you". I barely could stopped myself from laughing xDD

@lukaelishalukaelisha6837 2 года назад

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@davymatiko3435 Год назад

Yeeess... this is what we all want in a relationship. You don't like something, just be mature about it and talk about it... I swear ego trips be messing relationships these days

@danis5491 Год назад

So what should I do?

@matshidisosebatana8061 2 года назад

Giving her some space and post on social videos and pics it's a good idea I approve it...

@angeldelacruz1384 2 года назад

This really works...she keeps avoiding me for almost 5 days it pains me but I ignore her and go out with her friend girl...and then she reach out again...

@dilshangunaratne5096 2 года назад

It actually worked 100% She is trying to call me, text me. It took only 3 days. There are so many videos about what to do when she pulls away. Now she has come back. What should I do? Please tell me something.

@64maxpower Год назад

When a girl gets wierd I text her emojis every 5 minutes and she laughs it works everytime

@Giovanni-01 2 года назад

Doesn't matter the reason, give her space

@syedmuhammadumar2847 Год назад

What if i have had all these mistakes said above no point of return nothing to salvage this?

@mavindraganga3398 2 года назад

Will she come back in the future if I did most of these

@runtiger 2 года назад

Yes. Preach it to me sistas

@jasonblur5984 2 года назад

Ignore your crush ! ..she won't like it !.

@westoncorpengineeringindus4506 2 года назад

Pour une fois je suis d'accord avec toi. Il ne faut pas courir derrière elles. Cette fois tu as donnée de vrais conseils

@johnbower7452 2 года назад

I've got a policy; I'll ask a woman out once; if she says no; walk away. Her loss. If she likes you she'll ask you out, if she doesn't ask you out she doesn't like you.

@alinvornicu7734 Год назад

If she pulls away i pull my ignore-isolate card

@elvinpena8788 2 года назад

If she pulls away, drop a ninja smoke bomb and ghost her, never look back or feel bad....

@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад

give her feelings she misses you...

@texaschesthair79-pm5ip Год назад

My wife’s not ignoring me but she’s being extremely cold and heartless to me ..

@mkhanyisenikhumalo6699 2 года назад

Wow I also did that on my ex-girlfriend, but not like I was interested in her friend; I wanted to make her feel little jelaous, because she used to tell me how her friend is way too hotter than her; as a consequences, I should not pay attention on her and on my perspective she was not hot as much as her. Additionally, that was not a reason we broke-up.

@beachbumLifestyle Год назад

And this is why more women are single with cats 😅

@jlacavera Год назад

Amazing how women want men to communicate with them but when they are bothered by something they instantly give men the silent treatment and expect you to know what the problem is without her communicating. Women are selfish in my opinion. Too many mental pathways that men have to go thru in order to be in a relationship. If only they could see the stress they put us thru.

@chrisorr3919 2 года назад

Ok chase her, then dont chase her, then....she should chase you...this game is a bit shit

@jonathanbarnes9632 Год назад

Uhm well I did all the things in this video, ended up that she went to another guy and thinking I was not interested, I apologized everything and gave her space, It did not work!! when I actually did the opposite she listened...and we spoke about it morale of the story... everyone is different, the best is communicating with your partner and both should be understanding where you come from and what type of person you are

@mnothokhuluse1853 Год назад

Threatening to end the relationship is just as toxic as someone pulling away for no reason though 😅

@jlacavera Год назад

Don't threaten to leave. Just leave, unfriend and block her. Lot of them pull that crap right off the bat when you first start talking. The problem is they talk amongst their childish girlfriends and they talk and scheme up ways to screw with the guy and they giggle about it while doing it. If she's playing with you, she along with her 2 or 3 other friends are playing the game with you as well. They are ruthless and cruel.

@mourishcm9596 2 года назад

This was good but how about for the beginner's in love(approaching period)

@KnockOffBeingFat Год назад

Relationships have destroyed lives. Do you have to be in one??

@kharnthebetrayer181 2 года назад

Fellas here's what you do: Cheat.

@w.w7967 2 года назад

Right now am in the same situation, few days ago I called my girlfriend as usual but she seemed moodless, I went a head to ask her what could be the problem unfortunately she refused to answer me,. I could talk to her like 5min she declines my calls just like three times but I didn't question her. The next day I did the same but she ignored me without any reason, again I asked if there's anything wrong we solve in vain. I suspect she wants to pull away from me,,, of course I lover but I think I should cut off calls,,texts,, stop chasing her or checking whether she is online or not, and see if she will open up and tell me. If not definitely she wasn't meant to be mine. I think the is the honourable thing I will do to myself.

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@roymillsjnr5172 2 года назад

i didnt realise women used the withdrawal method anna sex education at my school was basic 😂😂😂👍

@Waldi.Explores 8 месяцев назад

My Girl has pulled away but she has a birthday in little less than two weeks. My question is, if she continues...shall I Wish her Birthday ??

@rickmuc089 2 года назад

Last weekend she visited me, we got intimate but afterwards she said we need to take it slowly. Met her last year on Tinder, had a few dates, then she moved to a different city. She made efforts to stay in touch but we both got into different relationships at that time. Now we are both single again, but she is still thinking about her boyfriend she told me. (She broke up with him and sees no future with this guy.) After our recent meetup she takes like 3 days to respond, but is still asking questions, telling me about whats going on in her life etc. Our next date will be in her city next week. Should I worry or avoid doing something here? I'm kinda confused... :D

@glennlgg6871 2 года назад

If she's still thinking about her boyfriend don't get emotionally attached to her. Just have some fun if convenient for you. Be ready to switch to a gal that does think about you / loves you. Let her make the next move if something is to come out of that hookup. If that's difficult for you because your feelings for her are too strong, then take distance before she breaks your heart

@rickmuc089 2 года назад

@@glennlgg6871 Thanks man! Yeah I was starting to catch feelings, but up to a point where I'm still in control. I will let her do the pursuing now and see where it goes. If she flakes on the date, I'm done and its a win. If we have a good time its a win too 👌

@feested3402 2 года назад

@@rickmuc089 good luck man, all I can tell you is that it's never a good thing if they are not over their ex.. she will always be thinking about someone else when she's there with you.

@rickmuc089 2 года назад

@@feested3402 Its over already. She said she cant meetup again. And she told me it doesnt work for her. So nothing I can so right now

@feested3402 2 года назад

@@rickmuc089 it's fine man believe me... I was in a very bad relationship and she kept hurting me, after I left her I was like "not gonna have any serious relationships for a while". Literally after a week I started going out with new friends and met the perfect one... you never expect it so don't give up bro.

@williamdew6018 2 года назад

Get a real woman that has it together

@MrAdolphgervas Год назад

She plays hard to get I play easy to leave, life is short & hard already.

@raylandry4282 2 года назад

I just cut her out completely off because it shows me how immature she is. friendly one day and then hostile the next forget that. Main reason why she had an attitude with me and 2 hours later she had a had another guy there screwing around.

@tedsell1455 2 года назад

Walk 😎

@DrRobGilles 2 года назад

Actually breaking up with her when something really alarming becomes a trend is one of the best things you can do to establish boundaries and increase interest. Maybe she’s confusing people who threaten to break up or maybe she doesn’t understand this well enough. I’m talking about actually being the one to cut the cord. As a man you essentially have little to no chance of getting a woman’s interest back up once she is the one who ends things. Most of the time a woman tests you by acting like a bitch in order to see if you have the nuts to put your foot down and end things if she steps over the line. When she sees that you have a limitation and then the ability to choose someone else that is what makes her feel like she lost something good.

@loveandheartbreak7107 2 года назад

Why does it have to be about a test? Knowing the knowledge i have found about women lately is maybe she just lost interest for no damn reason, and she dosent even know why its just who they are

@dimpledimple5545 2 года назад

Oh, try me. I didn't speak to my then bf for 2 months for something that he did. I got so upset (which rarely happens) . 2 months no contact. When the guy is clearly in the wrong, stonewalling is just too easy. Not as a punishment, but I do it for self respect and self preservation. I think you can follow these tips only for petty fights or when your woman is being unreasonably dramatic. But not on serious disagreements when a guy is clearly and majorly in the wrong. And keep the fights clean. No swearwords, No raising of voice. No violent reactions and don't use break up as a threat. it's a low blow.. just low

@Larikalful 2 года назад

Im not judging, but an honest talk isnt a better solution than breaking any contact? The story always have 2 versions - maybe in his you were the villain? Or maybe he had no clue what's going on? Things that are obvious to you could not be so obvious to him (and vice versa). Maybe im weird, but i do respect people. And even tho i might try to talk someone out of their decision, its their call to make. If gf would choose to break any contact... fine. Even tho it would kill me inside i would respect her decision. But we live in adult world and every decision have consequences, so if she would close that doors, she might not being able to open them again. And now the final question, not many people dare to ask themselves this one. Who is the worse person : someone who make an honest mistake and had no idea/didnt thought it could hurt you... or someone who claims that he/she loves you, yet hurt you on purpose? Thats why (once again) i prefer to talk. Say out loud what makes you feel like you feel. How you feel. And maybe even why you feel that way. Focus on yourself, not on the other person. This way that person wont feel like being attacked and wont close themselves. Afterall you dont want to hurt them, you just want to feel better. And as long as you both really care about each other that would solve every problem that have a solution

@dimpledimple5545 2 года назад

@@Larikalful that was quite a read lol. Okay. So things are case by case and i only speak for myself here. I am the type who doesn't get angry EASILY. I give 3 strikes. 1 time you make the mistake, i will tell you about it but will let it go. Since it's first offense. 2nd time you repeat the mistake, i will call you out for it and remind you again im going to seriously get mad. 3rd time it happens, i will draw my boundary. Like i said, for my self preservation and self respect. Im not the type to raise her voice. I will confront you in a very calm but assertive manner that you had 3 strikes. This time, i have the right to really get mad right? (I actually asked him this). So what excuse can he have this time? You see people have flaws. If you cant stop it, at least minimize it. I withdraw when i feel like i was taken advantaged of. It's no longer about us or the relationship. It's a personal struggle only you can resolve. When someone deflects their fault at me, should i just allow it?? So exactly the question.why would you KEEP hurting the one you love? And why would i keep allowing it? At that time, we kind of understood each other that no excuse would make me feel better. And i prefer to withdraw than say things i might regret. It took us 2months no contact. Then he came back (crying i might add). I was in a relationship with him for 7 years. if there's one thing i learned from my previous relationships, if your friends tell you you're stupid (in a relationship) then you are being stupid. Better listen.

@dimpledimple5545 2 года назад

@@Larikalful i believe that proper conversation will resolve any problem. Proper talk. No raising of voice. No swearing. No violence. You speak, i listen. I speak, you listen. Then we compromise. I dont believe in word match. Why would you intentionally and psychologically inflict pain to someone. Whether you scream or talk calmly, you still need to tell the other person how you feel and think, so why not say it calmly? If it's something difficult to deal with, then take some time off to clear your heads and come up with a solution. I wasn't a perfect girlfriend, but im pretty sure i was a mature one. I remember telling him that if he wants to stay and keep the relationship, i will no longer tolerate that kind of bs from him..

@fredcavalcante1887 2 года назад

@@Larikalful Your commentary is perfect!

@Victoryin1945 2 года назад

Okay, this is what you don't do, what do you do?

@geroldwaefler9485 2 года назад

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@maximuscomfort 2 года назад

Joy is true, if your intentions are honorable go NC and don't pursue further. Let them stew in their delusions they can't even explain logically. If you don't mind wasting your time and come across them ask why the drama. Don't commit more the few minutes

@selfconflicteddating6117 2 года назад

If you curse at me I will pull away and I did with my ex. I have never cursed at her .

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@Donotkillmeok 2 года назад

We made plans to an event last month before she started to pull away.. Should we still go to the event?

@ScubaSteveCanada 2 года назад

If you have to ask this question, you already know the answer.

@Donotkillmeok 2 года назад

@Blood Stsinedcel currently we are both pulling away.. The discussion part will be hard haha. I am just wondering if I should just wait to see if communications open up again before the event.

@Donotkillmeok 2 года назад

@@ScubaSteveCanada this is why I kind of hate making future plan when the woman's mood changes from week to week haha.