5 Things You Should Never Do During The Talking Stage || GirlTalk 

Why did I see this after the fact I just did most of these 😭😭

Notes: 1. Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. 2. Do not give him gf or wife privileges 3.Do not complain(don't give a shit) 4. Do not prioritize him 5. Do not talk about him to other people.

Hats off to her mindset, found something real and bold in this fake world🌟✨

As a male watching this I am a little bit confused….Some advice are very good : like first and last one; but you have to be very careful when you use them. The dating life for me is basically trying to do things that attract women: dress good, having a grooming and skin care routine, workout but also trying to showing intent, be funny, make her feel safe around us. And for women it basically go like this: 4:35, don’t over do it. You need to understand that mans are considerate valuable when they do a lot of things and they are very good at it, imagine having a boyfriend with a jacked body, with a solid job, that can cook, play and instrument, speak more than two languages, he has his own house, car and he keeps studying to be more acculturated and also he understands you, makes you feel safe and good with him…sounds cool right? So how you can have a man like this if you keep showing him that you don’t care or pretending you don’t care? Say no when he is trying to take you in his life (going out with his friends, ecc) or never try to meet his schedule….you are dating him, so you are interested, be genuine and show it; man like teasing, maybe two or three times, I have a lot of things to do and I am not gonna waste my time on a woman that likes to play with my time and life, I am already reserving her time so girls don’t play hard to get, he his going to disappear in one moth or less, and don’t think he does it because for him you were a girl to kiss or more for one night, he leaves you because you played hard to get. Guys will chase you that much only if you are his only thing going on in his life, and I think that is a bad thing. We like balance, we like chasing you but if you like him back show it, male are more insecure than you think and becoming confident and also valuable takes time, a lot of time, we are not going to spend it on a girl that shows no interest in us.

" It's easy to move on than trying fix a situation you no control over"

It's my first time being in the 'talking' stage so I needed this thanks😭

"I couldn't care less about what they like or don't like" gurrrlllll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

I’m 34 year old over here. I wish I had someone like you to advice me when I was young. What a clever big sister you are ❤. Such a sweet personality. And I’m addicted to your videos. Never ever let anyone to dull your light.

i dont want to brag or anything, but hear me out, not giving a shit is the main reason i have many admirers- they literally start thinking that they don't have any effect on you, and when that happens they try harder to get your attention and care back, and that's not playing hard to get or anything, its just like she said being mysterious and ignorant (not so much like, just be normal) so that they dont get any clues or hints on you having a crush on them, act like how you are with every other guy, normal and just go with the flow♥

Omg the advice on not complaining is top tier! ♡ thank you girl!

This is so helpful and its like sharing tips with our girl besties. Thanks for sharing Nimesha! You slayyy queen ✨✨

I would more than love having a best friend like Nimeshaa She is so motivating ... so mature...so beautiful ... YOU GO GURL!!!!! I love you PERIODT!!!💜

Omg Nimesha this is such an eye opener and i'm definitely gonna make sure i take care of these things in my next talking stage cus i've f'ed up pretty bad in my past ones. Love youuuu!!!💗

these gonna change my life from now on!!!! you’re the real queen 🤍 thank you sm

She's the older sister we need❤️. People do address me as an independent and intelligent woman in world, books, academics, work but m an immature, inexperienced child when come to people, society, relationship, friends so this is my first step learning these things

I swear this is it. I did this I completely ignored this person who was once my priority .. We used to talk daily and me literally used to press on the fact that we keep up conversation . But then I got tired and just stopped. Now he is the first person to watch all my updates within a minute everywhere on socials doesn't matter if it's important or not for him. Yes she is really speaking truth

Let me tell you something, men don’t want to play any fucking games or manipulative mind tricks, we just want an equal and healthy relationship in which both partners love and respect eachother. All of us need to be more straightforward and direct with eachother and express what we want, don’t like or are going to do in my humble opinion ofcourse

Bruh my ex once literally told be they were "TRYING TO LOVE ME" like bro Y TF DO U NEED TO TRY?!?! LOVING ME IS NOT HARD. I was 17 back then and I remember being heartbroken but I cut off all ties with them. Always remember ur worth. Nobody should have to try to love u. If they have to try they are NOT THE ONE!!!! LEAVE!!!

What’s funny is male dating coaches say the EXACT same thing, so we’ll just never get anywhere 😂

I literally did each and everyone of these things in our 4 MONTHS TALKING STAGE🤡🤡🤡and then he said he's not emotionally ready for a relationship

So many of these things are not going to get you women nowhere. She acts like she understands the male mindset. And if 4:34 wasn’t a red flag about what her mindset is like.. idk what is.. ladies seriously don’t take advice from the internet.

Nimesha with long hair just wow 🥰☁️

Is this really happening🙄🙄 Nimesha, you wouldn't believe what am gonna say. I again manifested your video to see whether the thing is really happening. Is this just a coincidence or my wish is really getting manifested🙀🙀

Omg I'm in the talking stage and i needed this so much !! Much love ❤️

i'm seriously in a talking stage😂and istg as I consider you as my sisterrr i have the same mindset like you do😂♥and thankyou once again for guiding us so well💌

As a guy this is true this just make you seem easy even if you ain’t you’re gonna end up getting your feelings hurt by how he’s gonna react to your behaviors

Hlww nimeshaa ..... Pls talk about your wedding, new life,and as a married person how are you doing??? Please we are waiting for this....

considering that I only attract talking stages this is so usefulll THANK YOU

Omg why isn't anyone talking about how pretty this grl is !?

Need sooo many more girl talks like these🥺❤️

You are more than an elder sister to me This girl talk is very helping want more like these.

Your video pops up right when I need it the most and coincidentally on the topic that I need the most. Loved it!! More power to you.❤️

nimeshaa with long hair>>>>😩🙇‍♀️💫💜

You're getting prettier everyday💕

OMG Nimesha your eyes are so gorgeous 🥺❤️

Thissss. Omg this video is such a life savour. For someone like me who’s grown up in desi household and is fucking naive and did all of the opposites OUR BB told us. GURLS LEMME TELL YOU IM A DIFF PERSON AFTER WATCHING THIS!

can I pls take a moment to appreciate on how freaking gorgeous she looks :( It makes me wanna look at her for hours... and this video was very very helpful, thankyou sm love

This is all cap, men hate chasing women. It’s a huge waste of time and effort that can be better spent.

Nimesha your makeup was on point loved it......❤🧿🧿🧿🧿❤

Omgg you look sooo pretty!! The glowwww😍😍😍😍😍😍

Gurlllllllll u soooo pretty U get prettier every video

Nimesha ur a life saver girl ♥️ I needed this topic so much n got the advices .thnks love

ur looking so gorgeous in this video , i could watch you all day

IDK if anyone feels this, there's something really attractive about her 😲

Can we appreciate how beautiful shes looking😍 Half through the video i just kept looking at her 💕

You lost me at "he needs to ask you to be his girlfriend". ...The sooner women leave this state of mind, the sooner they'll finally achieve Equal Pay and Equal Treatment. Understand tje difference between bein treated like Princesses and being treated with Respect.

Legit advice. Seriously amazing 👌

Thanks big sis. I’m new to the dating scene but he already thinks I’m too into him. 🤮

you 're the big sis everyone wants in their loving ❤️

Woah look at your glow up after marriage You were so pretty but now you are glowing

You're the best big sister anybody could ever ask for!❤️

I agree no manipulation here. It’s excellent advice (sometimes we need to hear) for a potential successful relationship. Just liked & subscribed.

That newly married beauty 😍

My gooooodddd she's looking sooooo pretty 😍 💕 glowwingggggg and these long hair💯💯💯💯💫

Girl has a different look now😍

You look so beautiful after marriage like that snack wifey goals

you are freaking glowingggggg girllllllllllllll

Gurl you look damn gorgeous 💞

Nimeshaa I’ve never met u but ur officially my bestie, older sister and guardian angel 👼 😭🫶

nimmm whatttt?! youre looking soooo pretty in this video. that glowww>>>😍

is it bad that i told him that i like him?

Really needed to see this video.. btw girl you are so beautiful

Hey my face is more darker than my body do you know anyway to solve this problem??

O la la 🔥 Makeup looks so good on you girl ♥️

Youuu looook damn pretty with long hair 💞❤️ do continue it

We want your weeding vlog please girl❤

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why cant my gf just teach me how to talk to her by sitting with me during a movie or something so its less anxiety

I love this advice 😍, I totally just subscribed ♥

hie please tell me I have already showed my bf how much I. Care I always peritroize him over everything and now he is loosing Interst please tell me how can I fix it now please

I went out with this guy 3 times and already on the second date he wanted to change our plans (even though he was the one to propose to go out). And for no good reason! He just wanted to attend an extra dance class out of the blue🥴 I told him that if it's really important he can go but we will have to reschedule for next week as I had other plans the upcoming days. He admitted openly that it wasn't that important and since I'm not available the upcoming days, he didn't wanna wait for a week. I made it clear that it's not nice to bail when you have plans with someone if there's no urgency. Eventually he called me mean and strict for setting boundaries instead of going with the flow😅He insinuated that I nagged😅 So my question is, did I really nag?! I just explained I don't like it when people change plans. In overall I never complained that he took forever to text back (up to 24 hours!), never pressured him into anything and gave him space to pursue me at his own pace. (Well, at the end I got tired of him flaking out, so I ended things)

Girl you are doing the lord’s work , but trust me , this women dont listen . I have a friend who has been doing all this and more , currently a single mother and still catering to a loser that doesn’t pay her a penny in child support and constantly undermines her. She keeps trying to date and meet a guy so she can finally find some stability and she keeps repeating all this mistakes you mentioned , being glued to the phone with them the whole day , dropping everything for them , having sex on first date , thinking that good sex is going to make them stay around , acting like wifey, acting crazy and ultimately, not letting the guys take control and behaving like she is the man . I have been listening to her whining for close to 5 years and I don’t even bother picking up the phone anymore

This video is much needed 🤧🤍 thank u nimeeshaaa

Your long hair soo beautiful sis ❤

omg you should've posted this 2 yrs ago😭 then I wouldn't have messed up my first relationship 🥲

You are looking so beautiful ❤️ and your videos are always amazing ✨✨

Do a day in your life plzzzz sis💜🦋

Omg i love this kind of videos!! i love the way you see things. you're so right. more videos like this plss💞💞😜

3:41 & 5:31 average men deserve nothing but "Queens" deserve everything mindset☕️

Ok so after marriage u really look mature n gorgeous.. Long hair sits really well on u

Bruh let's just reciprocate or go separate ways this is harde4 than writing exams

You look kinda different in this video. It's a good different. I mean you are looking sooo beautiful, pretty. I cant take my eyes of you girl🙈

Long hair suits you very well. Looking gorgeous and stunning 😍😍

Hey gurl....we need a Q n A video about the whole story that how your wedding gone ....the new life with hubby....your new hair ...... everything ..... please make a Q n A video ....by the way you look so beautiful 😍😍😍💝💝💝💝

i was admiring her beauty in this whole video ,she is so GORGEOUS!!🥰😍☺

You look soo pretty today ❤️✨ Love from 🇱🇰

Why is not anyone talking about how beautiful she is looking 😍

Okiieee she raised the bar again😂😂💀 boys we girls get matured now !!! Btw love you nimesha sm🥰🥰

OMG NIMESHAAAA...I love you gurl 💖

Hey nimeshaa plz post your wedding pictures aur video's sis

Thank you soo much Nimeshaaa!!! Btw you look soo pretty 😍❤

you're the big sis everyone wants in their lives...💖

OMG Nimeshaa!!!! girl, you are really looking gorgeous. You are gorgeous already, but trust me you are looking way more gorgeous than before. Honestly, I could not get my eyes off you 😍♥️♥️

today you glow 🌟 gallll 🌻

This video provides great advice for women looking to start a serious relationship. It covers five key things to avoid before dating, and is definitely worth watching.

Nimeshaa seriously u help a lot🖤..... Need more advices ❤️

this is so helpful nimesha....you are an eye opener thankyou so much❤❤

Can you continue to talk to other people if you're still at the talking stage for a month and havent met in person?

Ladies, some of this advice isn’t optimal if you want a bf/husband. For example how can you expect a man to want to make you his girl without him having experienced those qualities from you…it’s like buying a car without test driving it. Now I will say you should practice discernment with the men you do choose to do that with as there are a lot of men that will just use you, but that can be spotted fairly easily.

girl you look so beautiful I can't stop seeing you through the whole vedio and the audio is just running in the back you're looking just gorgeous 🥰😍