5 Unattractive Attitudes Women Secretly SENSE in Men but Will Never Admit

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Often times I have talked to a guy and although on the surface I am complimenting and supporting the guy, I am also secretly sensing some attitudes or beliefs he holds that I know will turn off the majority of women.
I boiled down those attitudes into 5 categories that women often sense about men and are like NOPE. NOT what I'm looking for. Instead of feeling discouraged by this though, I hope you will re-evaluate and perhaps realize what women are looking for, what you have to be for the majority of them, and how they WANT you to be the man you may have been scared to be.
The 5 attitudes are:
1. A FEMININE ATTITUDE
YOU want to be what the WOMAN wants to be.
But the woman has more clout in the dating market so she's gonna get to play the leading role whether you like it or not.
The woman wants you to shower HER with attention, compliments, adoration, offerings. Not the other way around. She doesn't want to give to you. She wants to receive. If she senses you want to RECEIVE too much, she will see you as "wanting to be the girl" in the relationship.
So make peace with the idea that she wants to see you wanting to be the GIVER. The father figure. The older, wiser man. And she wants to be the princess.
2. A SUBMISSIVE ATTITUDE
Do you want to be submissive in the bedroom or do you want and are you intending to lead?
She wants to be able to let go in bed with you. She wants you to be the guy in her fantasies. So she is gonna sense if you are wanting HER to be that for YOU.
Many guys do dream of a dominant woman who is confident and can take the lead....but so do most girls. I know it is very sexy for a lot of guys to imagine something like a woman who is so overcome with lust and desire for him that she is aggressively coming on to him and telling him he is a sex god she just can't get enough of. I get it. Just know that fantasy is much more so a male fantasy than a female fantasy. It is usually a turn off for the woman, since she is the aggressor and not the receiver of the attention and focus in that scenario.
So it is important for her that you be capable of leading and enjoy doing that. Man this is so huge. I see it in these women's groups all the time. The guy isn't taking the initiative, he's not making her feel desired, courted, sexy, taken. They hate that.
3. BEING TOO FEMINIST
Hey. Hopefully no girls see this video. I am feminist. Feminism is incredibly important in my opinion. But a lot of girls are not ready for a feminist guy in the bedroom. Asking for consent too bluntly sometimes with a girl who is not ready to own her sexual desires can force a girl's hand and give her no choice but to save face and refuse. It can also be a turn off for girls who are fantasizing about more old school gender roles. I see guy's making this mistake a lot and NO GIRL IS EVER GONNA TELL THEM THIS cause we all see the importance of feminism!!
4. NOT GRASPING THE POWER OF HIS MASCULINITY
I don't know how to explain this one that great. But you're a man. Women look up to you. I know they might not say they do, but they do. Women admire your natural gifts. Women are awed by the power of the testosterone coursing through your veins. Women crave the white hot dirtiness of your sexual desires.
I get that overcoming shame can be extremely hard and tricky. But you guys have way more shame then you should. You are often hot and cool (despite having a high rejection rate or having been insulted by women), but many of you don't see that...and it's unattractive. It's the same with women I'm sure who are super unconfident and put themselves down. And you're probably like, hey you're not perfect but I think you're hot and I'd totally do you don't ruin it for me. PLEASE.
5. SUCCESS
Are you a slacker or can you succeed in the real world. Women are sensing this about you. Do you have what it takes. Cause if you do, she can adore and respect you and be the adoring women she wants to be deep down.
6. REACTIVITY
Are u gonna snap on her with some resentment and bitterness towards women? She is searching and sensing for your ability to be safe.
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@ChrisYoutubization 3 года назад

This is one of the most honest, no bullshit advice channels i've seen in a long ass time. Most women are really uncomfortable talking about stuff like their submissiveness and sexual fantasies. You're exposing them lol but GREAT content

@ChrisYoutubization 3 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife Oddly enough i think the feminist movement although helpful also had a negative impact on the female perspective. Like being a ''strong'' woman and don't let a man control you it almost makes women feel insecure about having submissive fantasies and creating a false identity and that if they do have them they are deemed as ''weak'' what do you think?

@Muslimvibes95 3 года назад

@@ChrisYoutubization I could never speak about this. I am glad there is this channel

@EpicurusWasRight 3 года назад

@@ChrisYoutubization Feminism has taken away the power of the nurturer/caregiver in the public opinion

@elenchab2164 3 года назад

Oh, @Chris we *want* you guys to have this information. We just don't want to give it to you for myriad reasons ranging from we're too shy to something like explaining it ourselves to a man in which we're interested or potentially interested would wreck the dynamic as surely as explaining a joke kills the humor. I'm loving this woman for doing a service to both man and woman kind. @MyNonLeatherLife Thank you, sister. 💗

@nicholaslucas5183 3 года назад

@@EpicurusWasRight I think she was saying let woman be a feminist in the workplace but at your apartment treat your girlfriend like a princess.

@doovy3 3 года назад

Attraction develops through conflict. Agreeing with everything a girl says is a fast ticket to the friend zone.

@jimjamm9318 2 года назад

Conflirtation is funnnn and def works. Great point!

@jasocaf557 2 года назад

indubitably

@thejamescarringtonpodcasts3509 Год назад

Yes indeed. I did a show called “don’t give your wife marital bliss”

@silkroad1201 Год назад

I don't care enough about what they're saying to disagree. Whatever gets them to stop talking faster

@rjbecks7160 10 месяцев назад

Shout out from Toronto 🇨🇦

@JoseGonzalez-rs9og 3 года назад

5 unattractive things men do 1. Being too feminine (looking for approval) 2. To take a feminine sexual role (not having a hunter-like attitude, to take her, being agresive ) 3. Being too femenist 4. Not to realize your masculinity 5. To be too reactive (not to have mental strength) In conclusion be the man, not the princess , develope mental strength and testosterone

3 года назад

Thank you! Usually I do this stuff in certain videos but you beat me to the punch! Many THANKS!

3 года назад

@Kuba P Are you confusing aggressiveness with anger? If so they are not the same. Aggressiveness is in a mans DNA at his base core due to how a man is built. Channeling aggressiveness in positive things in a good way is actually good. Doing it in a foolish way to get yourself killed is a different story entirely.

@JoseGonzalez-rs9og 3 года назад

@Kuba P I don't mean to be aggressive on its more radical way, what I mean is to not be cute and nice, as a man you have to inspire respect and fear, just as the shaolin philosophy dictates " Is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardner in a war "

@JoseGonzalez-rs9og 3 года назад

@Kuba P ok, it's good to be nice as well 🙂

@ReyesRP 3 года назад

I think you're confusing aggressiveness with assertiveness.

@williamkoscielniak820 3 года назад

Asking for too much consent is a problem that I've had since I've been a teen (I'm 36). I've never been a feminist, so it's not that. I just have had a fear of coming on too strong or invading someone's space. Women seem to like it when you just "take it" and of course I don't mean rape, I mean take it when they obviously want it. But then you have to read their minds and risk sexual assault. It's fucking confusing and scary. Thank God I'm in a great relationship with my fiancé and don't have to worry about this shit anymore, but back in the day it was such a mind fuck.

@dobi287 2 года назад

Alot of women secretly do fantasize about rape no lie no joke If you get them comfortable enough to be that honest with you you'll see.

@iittssmmee2239 2 года назад

No bro it's your confidence man. You need to be confident in yourself that when you go to touch or kiss a woman that you are the shit and she wants ypu too.

@pcost 2 года назад

Sir... I am 28 and I am exactly at that crossroads, when too much is too much? When softness is not welcome? Those days are so damn complicated that you can literally end up arrested because you do not know when no is actually no or she just wants you to keep going "rough". Insanity describes what it is to be in the dating market nowadays.

@gilgamecha Год назад

Totally right, it's a minefield and a constant stress

@gilgamecha Год назад

@@iittssmmee2239 yeah and then she gets you charged with rape because you didn't call her or she just changed her mind after

@haskellbear 10 месяцев назад

To give you perspective on why a man might not feel attractive even though he receives signs of attraction: my story is that for most of my life from growing up until a few years ago women never showed signs of attraction. Or at least, they didn't admit them. So I internalised deeply the fact that women don't find me attractive.

@lamborghinicentenario2497 2 года назад

Guys, don't shower a girl with attention It's a huge trap

@albertsantos9966 9 месяцев назад

Yes!

@hagenanon9484 9 месяцев назад

can confirm. the assumption might be that you give a woman what she wants (attention) so you should be getting along better. but thats not how it works. either she will become more arrogant and think she deserves better than you, or she will get angry that youre giving her too much attention and should focus on yourself etc etc. you cannot win.

@doctorskull8197 9 месяцев назад

Absolutely, which I learned the hard way ‼️ Ha !

@luketimewalker 8 месяцев назад

SPRINKLE her with attention

@huss1836 8 месяцев назад

@@hagenanon9484this woman in this situation doesn't deserve to be a partner, so it doesn't matter what you say or advice

@CaseyZander 3 года назад

Crazy watching you take off! I refresh the feed and there is more subs every hour!

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

it is mind boggling

@juanzavala9023 3 года назад

Uncle C? No way.

@deandreSupreme 3 года назад

Uncle C's back in the office

@thebondvillain4920 3 года назад

Uncle C 🔥🔥

@believer1028 3 года назад

Uncle C, BEST in the office!💯

@swirvfly 3 года назад

men don’t recognize their raw masculine power because of....women. constant rejection from makes you feel like you aren’t good enough and the woman holds all the power.

@qua7771 3 года назад

There must fucking with you. Its a game they play. A shit test.

@hurdyu4146 3 года назад

@Prabhat shrestha facts he giving them too much credit lol if anything it’s really the men’s fault, we talk for generations about how women are and how they say they want something but actually want the opposite so why did we start listening to them if what we was doing before wasn’t broken and still worked? But then again I can’t say females don’t hold most of the power these days, all it takes is an accusation and that man might as well be dead

@Singandrapaholic24 3 года назад

There is no such thing as rejection. Change your frame of mind. That mindset is a mainstream media programing forced upon men to keep us losing in the dating market. These are some good frames to have when approaching women. 1. I either get what I want or I learn what I need to get what I want. 2. I am having fun and unconcerned with the outcome. 3. I never get rejected I only dicover if the girl has good taste or not. 4. I never take a women's first responce as set in stone, It's almost always a projection of how she's feeling or thinking in that moment, and is almost always subject to change. 5. At the end of the day, she's a human being with emotions, pain, trauma, and a list of other things and I will have compassion. All these frames/beliefs are just a nibble of what my mentor Ross Jeffries has offer as a seduction teacher.

@qua7771 3 года назад

@Jon Smith I noticed that. There has to be boundaries. I don't have time for games.

@gb5634 3 года назад

ill put you up on game so you will never have this mindset again. only deal with women that show attraction. these are known as choosing signals. if you are on youe A game you will get chosen on regularly. If youre obese, and poor, dont dress well, dont smell good, poor posture, no swagger, no confidence, women will not choose you regularly. Once you have these in order women will not be able to help but choose. And never say women hold all the power ever again. That is far from truth. An emotional being will never be more powerful than a logical one its impossible.

@Joseph100x 3 года назад

"Not realizing his masculinity: Does he not realize he's a man and has that raw attractive power." The Best!

@ropafadzomanyowa8349 3 года назад

I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic

@Joseph100x 3 года назад

@@ropafadzomanyowa8349 I was actually quoting her. It's my best line from the video.

@Joseph100x 3 года назад

@@uhno827 I think you misunderstand her

@Ryukikon 3 года назад

7:26 is how you get a rape or harassment charge. A guy does not have to be feminist but wise to understand that feminist women have created this and are angry about what they have created with weak men. The stronger you are as a man the more she will later strike back when angry at you to pull you down. This is for you to overcome and the more you are worth the less reason to even put yourself in that position. Strong men do not want to be with unsure women.which is why many women are unhappy that they can't be with attractive and strong men.

@spikeboy101 3 года назад

Yup. Women dug their own grave

@daze77gaming 3 года назад

They confuse and contradict everything

@whisperedtales9925 3 года назад

I know right. PLEASE dont take this seriously. Guys- just be your own authentic self and if she ain't going for it, then she ain't the one, save your energy and move on to someone who will like those attributes. Also- try not to punch above your weight . Yeah we would all like a supermodel as a gf, but be realistic- for nearly all of you (and me too) it aint gonna happen

@droptopfab9162 3 года назад

@@whisperedtales9925 gave you a thumbs up at first but your last sentence ruined it my dude, had to thumb you down but any man can get a supermodel

@thegreat9481 3 года назад

@@whisperedtales9925 i want no parts of a supermodel being my girlfriend. Is looks all you need? And you also don’t believe in yourself.

@TheInsomniaddict 3 года назад

"There can only be one princess in a relationship." Funnily enough, I think this describes why I'm not relationship material. I was brought up to believe there shouldn't be a princess in the relationship, period.

@TheBeaver50 3 года назад

It’s a game . It’s nature . It’s animal instinct . Do you want to get to the box or not bro

@TheInsomniaddict 3 года назад

@@TheBeaver50 Depends what the cost of the box is. If it means having to treat someone like a princess and always kowtow? No. The fact that it's animal instinct is the reason why the terms of that kind of relationship are so shitty to begin with.

@TheSpecialJ11 Год назад

I was raised to want an equal partnership where many things were split along male/female lines, like me doing the yard work while she cooks, but ultimately we make our decisions together as equals, buy each other cute gifts, go to battle for each other. But now that I'm older I keep seeing women don't actually want that. They want me to take the lead, take care of both them and myself, and fight for the both of us. The thing is, I don't want that. I'm cool with being a man and masculine, but I'm no longer attracted to a woman who wants that from me and doesn't actually want to reciprocate and be a partner. I guess I internalized the indoctrination and they didn't. I think this is why I dated so many lesbians when I was younger. (they didn't know they were lesbian yet). The love I gave and expected in return worked well for all aspects of our relationship outside the bedroom. The ongoing joke is I'm a butch lesbian in a man's body. I think there's a lot of truth to that actually. I'm a masculine person, but in ways that aren't stereotypical for a straight man who dates straight women.

@bazookacat8421 9 месяцев назад

There are only 43 monarchies in the whole world, so there's not a lot of room for real princesses treatment. But you gotta pretend to get by in girl-world.

@paulgoogol2652 8 месяцев назад

What's wrong with 2 princesses together anyway? We're not living in the Dark Ages anymore. So there should be no monarchy but that's a different story.

@brandonbluegold 3 года назад

I’ve never heard a woman keep it so real.. she is a blessing

@connor43057 9 месяцев назад

As a dude this is inspiring. Masculine guilt is very real and needs to be put to an end

@johnnyxmusic 9 месяцев назад

It’ll take a generation or two… When women are allowed to actually say they like men.😮

@Akcd11r2002 9 месяцев назад

Masculine Guilt… that’s a key term. Where does it come from? Abusive mother, abusive teachers, abusive media? All of the above?

@PunishedKenny 3 месяца назад

@@Akcd11r2002 All of the above. The entire society throws so much gaslighting and negative reinforcement at boys it's insane.

@renegadezen7841 3 года назад

Usually you never wanna take advice about women from a woman...but she secretly seems like she is a good one to listen to.

@SoCal9705 3 года назад

She didn't get the memo from the Sisterhood!

@hurdyu4146 3 года назад

@@SoCal9705 facts sounds like she wasn’t here listening to what other people said she is explaining from actual experience which once a woman gets older they realize all the bs they learned when they were younger is all lies

@steviepigford2356 3 года назад

She does have ..., SOME GOOD POINTS... however..., You gotta look out for no#1 . Remember she jus giving advice maybe for subs too.

@ShepardJ23 9 месяцев назад

Isn't it the other way around? I would rather a trusted woman in my circle like Mom, sister, or close friend give critique for my potential partner rather than a guy friend. There are things about women that I, as a guy may not pick up on right away. I'd also prefer to critique a man as a potential partner for my sister or any female friends since I am a guy.

@renegadezen7841 9 месяцев назад

@@ShepardJ23 how old are you?

@Ommarrie 3 года назад

Lol man it feels good to be single not dealing with all this foolishness

@kiellivancleef5278 3 года назад

amen

@jazzyfruits 3 года назад

word, I'm still watching these though lol

@lifeisastruggle5517 3 года назад

single for a while is okay but not in the long run because a man needs a woman and vice versa.

@kevinurielfonseca 3 года назад

Amen

@starfoxx3398 3 года назад

THANK YOU 🙏 I thought I was the only one 😂 Love being single

@EvansdiAl 3 года назад

i feel like im in the congo in the middle of the jungle and i literally stepped on a diamond mine. wow. subsctibed.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

hahahahahah

@n-9249 6 месяцев назад

@@mynonleatherlife Thank you for responding. You are wrong, that is feminist drivel. Men and women have the same value, both has humans and "on the sexual market place". The difference is simply that most of women's value is "used up" the first 40 years, and man's value on market is spread out to all his life. Hence, women age like milk and men age like fine wine. Edit: Please do not delete my comment again.

@DonTheMoron716 10 месяцев назад

This is entirely an American stand point. My wife is Filipina and she couldn’t care less about this except for the attention part. All I gotta do is give her attention and she takes care of everything else. She fell in love with me while I was homeless and I had no direction but she saw the love in me. simple and loving. True.

@lerg12 9 месяцев назад

That unconditional love is the best, she sounds like a keeper

@exmodule6323 9 месяцев назад

It’s not unconditional love - it’s called money and visa. These 3rd world girls play western men like fiddles.

@Woeisme2 9 месяцев назад

That's really hard to find in America basically impossible

@Mimlou 9 месяцев назад

probably because she saw you as a way out..with a visa/green card. So of course she's gonna stick by you

@zuzelstein 4 месяца назад

Don't be ridiculous, this is NOT American. Those traits often stay together and act as a solid women repellent everywhere. This girl shares rare foundational info. Greetings from Russia.

@YesPlease1 3 года назад

Regarding number 1, I think women in general need to be more aware of just how little compliments/validation the average man gets compared to the average woman due to how society and like you said, expected gender roles makes it play out. If he's exhibiting behavior that shows he needs a boost, be open to the idea of simply giving it to him without judging him for it and without treating it like some red flag and dismissing the possibility of a relationship with him. Everyone wants to feel valued and appreciated. It might not be a personality trait that will always be there...it might just be a backlog of genuine unmet human need that needs to be handled first. And then of course make sure to give him enough validation along the way that from that point onward that he doesn't become self-conscious and lacking again. Do this for him knowing that he's probably making 5-10x the effort to do this for you.

@YesPlease1 3 года назад

@@damiencruz6747 It wears on any human, regardless of genitalia, not to receive positive feedback. If you go through life not receiving much positive feedback you're going to start thinking, at least subconsciously, like you aren't good enough. Literally zero reason for women not to compliment a man she's interested in. Takes a few seconds and zero dollars. Only takes making a small effort.

@paulmunro3175 3 года назад

@Jon SmithAND ALL THAT VALIDATION HAS MADE THEM WHAT THEY ARE TODAY. FREE IS A NON WORD WHICH SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN BIRTHED INTO EXISTENCE, AND SOCIAL MEDIA IS THE PROOF.

@marlonmoncrieffe0728 3 года назад

🤗 Aw, you're so sweet! Thanks!

@marlonmoncrieffe0728 3 года назад

@Shoaib Sheikh Personality makes people more attractive.

@rogueguru2509 Год назад

I as a guy mock my own appearance, but that is because I don't take it seriously and am cool with humour, but some take that as lack of confidence strangely, when really it is more lacking if you are sensitive about your appearance. I am fucking amazing, but I like to make others laugh, as it means I can induce good vibes.

@Quentin217 9 месяцев назад

One of the aspects of the courtship game that this lady reveals is how hopelessly complicated it is. The rules are different for every woman, and a man does not know them until he breaks one of them. Too often it is damned if you do or damned if you don't or both. You will never know unless you try. There were long stretches of my life when I just did not care to approach women at all, especially young ones.

@jeffreystevens8042 3 года назад

I think the reason why a lot of men don't own their innate attractiveness is that they have been previously put down or rejected by women. Out of fear of rejection, some men may not even pursue women or attempt to explore their sexuality at all. It feels like there's almost a biological depression that builds a wall in your mind when you get rejected as a man and it won't let you try again.

@juancalvache2043 3 года назад

Relateable

@victorvaldez760 3 года назад

Feel sorry for you bro 😂

@dustybryan91 2 года назад

Honestly, that's where I'm at in my life. I just turned 31 and have all but given up. I have had a horrible experience with women up to this point and can't find any motivation to put myself out there again. Even today I'll occasionally meet a girl and she'll give me certain looks or say my name a certain way and l'll think maybe she is interested, but I have been burned too many times to trust those subjective signals. Women like to play games and always behave in ambiguous ways that give them plausible deniability.

@amalksuresh286 Год назад

Real men don't quit

@maynx2743 9 месяцев назад

@@amalksuresh286For real.

@TobyKral007 3 года назад

You’re basically saying women are children, to be taken care of and guided and “showered” with love but they would never admit it

@sonmohikan5964 3 года назад

Thats why tousands of years they were in under our protection.Actually still they are but you know...Stupid feminism and all stupid movements try to hide it. Like even if girls can work now, they still want man to provide. Even if they try to make masculanity look bad, girls still attracted to the dudes that have masculine frames or the bad boys or the men that have power. Nature cant be changed, maybe they can make you believe that it is changed but at the end , it is not and we men need to know it.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

I think they still have some of those desires romantically...in the rest of their life though they are often more in a parental role

@Royalxy53 3 года назад

Yes of course, why do you think her dad suppose to give her over to you in marriage? You're taking his place, protect and take care of her to the point she can feel comfortable enough to live out her princess fantasy

@Dorian-Grey 3 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife First, I love your videos so dont get what Im about to say next wrong. I think you do have very good information you give from a womans point of view that only a woman does can see. You provide women goggles for men to be able to see what men cannot. Second, Your not a feminist! Not even close! What the feminist movement has done is place legislation, laws, on the books on what men cannot do or act. You cant tell a guy, hey no mean no. Did the woman you were interacting with give you a clear yes? If the answer is no, that is now considered RAPE! You go to jail. On top of you now get rewarded forever with the label Rapist for the rest of your life! A man cant get ride of something like that. Women dont go through that! I know what your saying in this video. I understand the beautiful chemistry and the beautiful sexual tension or build up that we both crave when in that moment. However, you can thank feminist for putting in established law the rules of engagement. So its both hypocritical on feminist part and not fair to us men for you to want desire what is now criminal to us men. Last, I dont think your being fair in reading into a guy your interested in and making a unilateral decision without his knowledge, without giving him the chance to make the choice to correct himself. Like your boyfriend said, even he makes mistakes with you. Its not until he is able to acknowledge what happen before he can make a determination on whether to correct himself or make the decision to walk away and engage with another woman. What are your thought on this?

@whisperedtales9925 3 года назад

@@Dorian-Grey LOve this. And no. She speaks for herself only and not all women, in fact, very few women. Gah- hate this form of 1950's toxicity. She's a subby. Get a Daddy Dom.

@waynetrenton2310 3 года назад

I totally disagree , treating a women like a princes, buying her stuff, spoiling her, giving all her attention, I guarantee she will dump the guy, unless she is divorced and needs a beta guy to take care of her. Here is the bottom line with women, 1. Women will only be happy if the guy that is higher in status. 2. The women must be physically attracted to the guy. 3. There must be a challenge, the woman must chase the guy. I know so many men that have treated their wives or girlfriends like a princess, all the flowers, jewelry, and bs, all got divorced or dumped.

@madhanmedappa8898 3 года назад

100%agree

@mr.optimysticprime7013 3 года назад

Facts!! Not falling for the feminist crap from anyone. If y'all want us to be so masculine then stop trying to be masculine aswell with all this feminist junk nature don't work like that.

@coreysrevenge286 3 года назад

Did you watch the video... did any of y’all

@pranavs14 2 года назад

@@mr.optimysticprime7013 "Nuuuuu the feminine females are trying to be more masculine than me, what do i do!!" Obviously woman are not going to be submissive to a man they dont respect. Stop complaining

@Woeisme2 9 месяцев назад

Sad world we live in

@ahrengroesch8774 3 года назад

This is gold. It's all the advice we get from men's groups but from the horse's mouth. Hearing it from a woman really helps it sink in.

@voidwalker9223 3 года назад

@Carl's Brother that doesnt matter the point is to talk to enough and experience and learn from mistakes. You eventually get to a point where you GENERALLY know what to say and what not to say. Millions upon Billions of women but in the end 98% of them are wired the same but with different triggers because growing up everyone has different life experience so everyone cant emotionally be the same. In the end they want to be treated like princess, they want attention but not clingy and they want someone strong to lead them and make them feel safe. Its up to you to figure out how much and how little YOUR women wants those things. It does not matter if they get mad at you, as long as you keep those general principles in the right direction they will never leave....unless you start turning into a bitch.

@xXavorx 3 года назад

@@voidwalker9223 I agree. Every woman is different- every person is a different set of combinations that makes them a unique self which means you will always have different experiences, but the principles will always live. @ Carl's Brother what are your thoughts now, friend.

@spikeboy101 3 года назад

Carl's Brother is right. She doesn't know what she's talking about. I've talked to women who've been the dom and their bf be the sub aka the feminine role. Men and women's taste arent black and white. Plenty of men like tomboys aka masculine women and plenty of women like feminine guys. Michael Jackson was feminine as fuck and all women wanted him, BTS is filled with men who look like chicks and women simp over them, chicks dig guys with painted nails. Lots of women like feminine men

@emmsgoon5216 3 года назад

@@spikeboy101 no brother, you gotta understand.. a lot of woman just want you because of your social status.. because other people like you. Women like this love pleasing you in any way possible.. as long as they get an experience from you

@renaldsunset 3 года назад

@@spikeboy101 You’re a bit right but mostly wrong. You can’t compare feminine CELEBRITIES with feminine everyday Joe. And you don’t make an exception the rule. For example I like tomboys but I’ve never ever met a guy who liked them too.

@Phoenix-pm2qr 3 года назад

I think in modern times when being a man is bad by the media, it ruins our self confidence and we don't realize women really do want us in a masculine role and find us attractive despite what feminist say.. this video really helped

@lukenemabote8750 3 года назад

She said guy's are too feminist because they ask for too much consent. Women are funny man honestly #MeToo

@valeraanovsk1468 3 года назад

@Seven Inches of Throbbing Pink Jesus how long is your sentence now?

@TheOneTrueNoName 3 года назад

Yea shit now days I need written consent before I make a move 🤣🤣🤣. I ain't got time for the foolishness.

@philosophyjunkies6693 3 года назад

How to do this: pursue deep spiritual happiness and self connection so you feel deep calm and peace but then connect with your animal primal desires and masculinity so you can be chill like a monk but still RAWR and GRRR like an animal.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

For sure. That would be an incredible and winning combination.

@domani3388 3 года назад

Nofap

@donjtrump 3 года назад

@@domani3388 nofap is the source of all masculinity i believe.

@iamwhole8910 3 года назад

PERFECT BALANCE. We SENSE THIS.

@Devb0mb 3 года назад

Deep personal honesty with oneself is a perfect practice for that that can actually be "spiritual" On on the one hand, you stop pretending to be something you're not and align with what you really want and operate from a "deeper more powerful and straightforward" part of yourself (which could be that raw masculine power she talked about) and from there can seriously come this assertiveness and willingness to get shit done and not let anyone step on you or hurt anyone you love, cuz fuck that. And on the other hand, from that letting go of patterns and reactivity and shit that is painful or ineffective, from here can really come some inner peace and "CONFIDEnce" and stability. Not an angry or insecure person, but a mature, relaxed man who cares for and would protect his woman and is satisfied in life

@patoloco1000 3 года назад

As a guy, my biggest turn off is her being a feminist. That’s the ok, have a good life zone for me.

@ciufuvictor8566 3 года назад

Agreed, mostly those women just like to receive without giving stuff in return and are just wasting your time

@bakersmileyface 3 года назад

I'm cool with them being a feminist as long as they hold true to it. But the majority of women that claim to be feminists aren't that, they say they want equality but then complain when they get it. They just want all the good stuff and then don't treat men like equals.

@gumdeo 3 года назад

@@bakersmileyface Feminism was hypocritical from the beginning. They wanted the vote, but without the draft.

@bakersmileyface 3 года назад

@@gumdeo Okay?

@dewaynecollins4728 3 года назад

👍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@seek2 3 года назад

I think that having Severe Social anxiety, ptsd, childhood trauma, learning disabilities, avoidant personality, boys being raised mainly by women, absent fathers, emotionally absent/uninvolved fathers etc the list goes on.... these can all have an effect on shaping a boy into a “ Proper Man “ and is something that I believe needs more discussion. I realise that it’s called “ Life “ but that shit ain’t easy to work out on your own it takes immense courage to battle through and to work on yourself. I believe these aspects are a big piece to the puzzle, among many other obstacles that men face. But these can destroy the pillars of his confidence from the inside out if not dealt with. Even though in certain other settings and situations he can be unexpectedly/spontaneously Assertive & Strong.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

thank you for sharing ur interesting thoughts about the obstacles men face. I appreciate your commenting and learn from comments like this. I also had severe social anxiety.

@ilqar887 3 года назад

Excatly

@zoransimovic6416 3 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife this guy knows what he's talking about, especially the part about being rased by women. If you don't spent enough time with a father (or a father figure) and spend too much time, you tend to pick up a lot of feminine behaviour. The upside is, you can learn a lot from female psyche this way.

@kubasniak 2 года назад

For many issues and struggles I had to face, still do and will I decided to take things into my hands and count absolutely on no one for outcomes, even god himself, he can actually go fk himself if there's one for all the abandonment and neglect I had to face. I gave in emasculation by teachers and religious preachers and weird hypocritical social pressures. I betrayed myself because I didn't know better and had no one to tell me like father, any family member or stranger... and for that I hold resentment and mistrust towards others. Fking lies everywhere.

@Shoegazebasedgenre0. 2 года назад

@@kubasniak yeah dont respect seniors and old people. i got "scammed" by this kind of morality too.

@davidchorney8740 3 года назад

If a guy doesn't get enthusiastic consent he can be jailed for rape in some states.

@ShazzyJ 3 года назад

Not encouraging the act of literally asking consent to have sex doesn't mean encouraging the opposite extreme of raping her. It's somewhere in between in the subtle attitude and treatment a guy gives to a woman that automatically makes sex happen

@theguyinblacktux 3 года назад

I guess you meant each and every state of this world 🤣

@an.d.m.a 3 года назад

@@theguyinblacktux depends on the country...

@clairemondemanseau1250 3 года назад

You dont seem to have a problem with raping woman since consent os too much too ask jee just say is it okay, do you want it, do you like not hard not wierd....

@KPpivot 3 года назад

Men like brutal honesty it helps you grow. in fact, everyone probably does. it's ignoring the fact that you will be hurt in the short term but become better as a person in the long term, I like really like that as a man, and with that said I wish that other people would be more honest around me.

@KPpivot 3 года назад

Tiptoeing around the truth does not help you and If someone was doing that to me as a "friend" then I would wish they would be more honest instead.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

I really like how you explained it helping u grow and hurting in the short term but making u better in the long term. I totally agree although I gotta brace myself for it.

@LeetMath 3 года назад

i don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who i don’t genuinely respect. i don’t want to pretend to not respect someone who i do respect. i might have to just stay single forever. and i’m okay with that.

@luckystone2293 2 года назад

I agree.

@sohaibahmed2483 2 года назад

Generally we should respect everyone but would you respect someone when they are disrespecting you?..is the real question and where the actual problem lies...

@gilgamecha Год назад

This is the modern dilemma

@lijh 8 месяцев назад

Why would you respect anyone who would ONLY date you for your income & protection Alone. The most moral & virtuous church wives question their husbands & weigh their monkey branching, hypergamous options when he wavers from top stats in provide & protect. No one was there for the build up of the income & the body/skills for provide/protect why respect the trophy that tarnishes too fast?

@scottlee8324 7 месяцев назад

Ditto

@i.p.freely1405 3 года назад

A lot of innocent men in jail tried to be dominant..JS

@Lost_In_Translationnn 3 года назад

Yeah once I was just hanging out with this chick at her house, we’d be getting to know each other for a while. After her inviting me over one night pointing out that she was home alone I went over. Anyway saw an opening and went in for the kiss before she stopped me, and said that I had to ask permission first.... talk about killing the mood. Anyway she was a crazy lefty turns out so reckon I dodged a bullet. Just can’t be sure these days when it comes to that shit...mad world.

@achilloste6265 3 года назад

@@kinimediagroup LOOOOL that's brutally savage

@breakingthemasks 3 года назад

@@kinimediagroup .. good job mate. She earned that rejection.

@rockyp32 3 года назад

in a imbalanced way

@patrickturner7683 3 года назад

Pffft naw

@philosophyjunkies6693 3 года назад

I think the big key is just continous personal development -- because we agree on this -- however good you are at man stuff, your weak points will cause issues at some point. For example my buddy who was the actual best at getting girls -- really struggled with self discipline and holding a job and maintaining frame once he got a woman. And then there are guys who crush it in bed and being dominant but can't do the emotional stuff at all. And then there are guys who crush the emotional stuff but can't do the masculine stuff. There's a time to dump compliments on a woman and tell her she so sexy it's overwhelming and there's also a time to be a bit Colder and distant, no woman wants a guy who can't do both, not really. Your weak points will emerge at some point, you just gotta be ruthless and commit to being committed to this.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

that is a really great point.

@mateaukalua4426 10 месяцев назад

No man or woman can be perfect we all have weaknesses.

@lifeonamarble961 9 месяцев назад

So how is this full time gig going for you LMAO. Good luck guy. You must be a glutton for punishment. Surely you can see the foolishness in all of this. Hey, I sure do and did and am.......

@eta_carithebrightlord3396 2 месяца назад

When are times you give her the cold shoulder

@christopherlundberg976 3 года назад

In the era of ME TOO, taking? a woman is dangerous. Stoicism, indifference, and vagueness is what you get until I'm comfortable. Since having dealt with women for decades I'm not shy about hurting women's feelings. Having said that your not pretty enough for my investment. Rejection has taken me from a good man to a concrete ass.

@WelcomeToOversoul 3 года назад

MSHOW/Man sent his own way... Gotta hate to see it.

@Clinueee 4 месяца назад

It's like you are deliberately trying to be as unattractive as possible

@RS-xo7rd 3 года назад

Good to know that we guys have so many expectations loaded onto us! I can't cope with this lot, but thanks for telling us.

@GoldGn111 3 года назад

I like you . If I ever met you I would rock your world just because of the honest content you are putting out . I can tell you actually care for men . I wish you success .

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

Haha thank you Jorge

@Stephen-bq4nq 3 года назад

Guys these days are so concerned about getting in trouble they are really worried about having consent. As for masculinity men are being told it's a bad thing

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

I am learning from people like u in the comments telling me about this

@Stephen-bq4nq 3 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife it's bad for both genders. Woman are told if they like sex they are a sl.t/wh..e If a guy wants sex and looks for it it's toxic masculinity.

@bipolard00d17 3 года назад

Because you saying that thing about girls needing a way to say, "oh I didn't want to have sex, it just happened." That sounds like a fucking nightmare for guys. Guys actually today need for you not to be able to say that. Theres too much on the line. Like, it's not a game for us. Y'all need to understand that.

@Stephen-bq4nq 3 года назад

@Bobs Slong no it's not bullshit there is plenty of judgement placed on woman as far as sex goes and men also. I agree men have it worse because they are judged on their looks and body but also their finances. Woman don't get judged by their earning power.

@thesweetprince 3 года назад

@@Stephen-bq4nq Yeah, I swear the far left's future is asexual

@rileycoyote211 3 года назад

No one can truly love, just for being. Always has to be doing this or doing that or acting this way or not acting that way. Screw it.

@PunishedKenny 3 месяца назад

I feel you man.

@jcvr732 3 года назад

Women are so difficult. No wonder I get more misses than hits .

@captainbook3456 3 года назад

That's why you practice with waifu pillow first, yes

@vaderetro264 3 года назад

They are not difficult. We men are equally complex, but in different ways.

@i1bike 2 месяца назад

install the aimbot

@RR-et6zp Месяц назад

nah, they are just opposite

@RR-et6zp Месяц назад

@@vaderetro264 nah, women are just opposite, men just arent honest

@alecfleming373 3 года назад

Everything you said has been in my life since #MeToo. I can't stay within the law and sexually please her. Facts. I hit on a bitch/get understood the wrong way and I could see a cell for it. So sick of the social justice bullshit. So been thinking about it last night and reminded here, men fall in love with their cars not because they're not ever let down, no it's because a car doesn't just vanish for no good reason.

@coalyounger5630 3 года назад

I can cook, clean, do my own laundry, have a successful business, own my house, put my kids through college, have 3 cars and a boat. Like all men, I can even take care of myself sexually if needed. For me, a woman has to bring more to a relationship than sex. We have to compliment each other emotionally and intellectually. I would rather be with the one that does, than the many that don't.

@steviepigford2356 3 года назад

POINTS 👍

@jeanjacqueslundi3502 3 года назад

@Heru Jr. of Kemet that's One hell of a projections assumotion.

@another_Sapien 2 года назад

Yes my man. Tough to find that woman. Better remaining single than picking the wrong peach

@juanedoses8715 2 года назад

LMAO intellectualy!!??

@mitragyninethespeciosa6891 9 месяцев назад

So you're forever single than? Lol

@MG3887Griff 9 месяцев назад

Tbf I think it's cruel not to tell someone about a potential problem they don't see. By withholding that you extend the pain a person will go through

@humblemumble1591 3 года назад

As a man whose getting red pilled, im fascinated to hear a woman whose perspective is compliant with the attitude im looking for. The unseen obstacles women have, the things that turn women off about blue pill men and cant or won't vocalize to them.

@kingbaboon1145 3 года назад

I have been hurt by life and women too much. I don't want to approach them or show these attitudes in front of them as to not please them. Thank you for your video anyhow. It is honestly appreciated.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

I'm sorry :( I can understand that

@victorvaldez760 3 года назад

Feel bad for u bro 😂😂

@kingbaboon1145 3 года назад

@@victorvaldez760 I don't think you do. You are mocking me.

@NateTheNoble 7 месяцев назад

To answer the last one “not realizing your masculinity” and why a lot of men can’t see how attractive/manly they are A lot of it has to do with social expectations and childhood trauma…men handle this differently than woman do. Most women have safe havens they find in other women….but men are often left to handle this alone or face possible ridicule from other men for being seen as “soft” etc… Add social media to the picture and you have men who have misdirected egos Me personally I’ve been called very handsome all my life. I have broad shoulders and a good looking face…a “pretty boy”….but I also have a very self-assured attitude which may make other people see me as “cocky/arrogant” even when I’m not trying to be. My father told me I get it from him lol By the time I graduated high school I’ve had to learn to NOT GAF what other people thought and recognize it’s their problem and not mine. The world shows no mercy. I also encourage ALOT of young guys to take pride in the fact that they are simply men (a lot of insecure men dealing with their demons go to the gym often and I’m a trainer)

@swavy.gino1 3 года назад

She ain't lying be masculine guys... Be unpredictable... Listen to what shes saying guys...🤝🏾💯

@nikomyshkin942 3 года назад

tren up bro's

@Tubes12AX7k 3 года назад

My dad was Very predictable, secure job, not running around with other women, knew how to be presentable for formal things... and these are the things she liked and admired about him. They were married for 50+ years.

@eta_carithebrightlord3396 2 месяца назад

@@Tubes12AX7k The women now are dumb

@homiesenatep 3 года назад

I display alot of these attributes, I do like a giving woman. It shows that she desires to be with me. Although I do give back I am aggressive too, but I also seek if she also meets my level of aggressiveness too I mix masculine and feminine energies to maximize my potential If these are unattractive to some women, it wont matter. There's so many variety of women, just like theres more than 1 type of man

@iamwhole8910 3 года назад

One is for sure that natural energy of yin and yang does not care about pathology. Those 2 energies come together for the purpose of harmony in all of the universe. The bodies they inhabit is irrelevant.

@69birdboy 3 года назад

You want an award if what. Just be yourself

@homiesenatep 3 года назад

@@69birdboy lol yeah But seriously yes, that's the summary of everything, be urself

@lukasthomas267 3 года назад

I love the raw, authentic, uncensored, truth of it all. Really gets down to the point. You have the best channel I have been to, for that reason. Thank you.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

wow thank you so much for that compliment Lukas

@lawrencequan6857 2 года назад

Not bad….yes/no on the first point, right on the remaining four….so many guys are clueless that it’s laughable.

@Teamshmo 3 года назад

Damn, you give the most serious advice ever. Most other channels talk about guys wearing the wrong shoes lol

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

lols! Girls are pretty into shoes so sounds like a good topic

@Bscaller 2 года назад

Wow, your channel is bringing me back my sanity. So much things are falling into place when you’re explaining this basics but unspoken truths. Thank you so much 🙏

@jaymcd8577 3 года назад

Hilarious, this is the complete opposite of what guys are being told to be to women today!? and the behaviour feminists get triggered about!..ladies ffs!! give us a break and make up your damn minds please

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

Yea check out my vid on why girls say they like the nice guys for an explanation on why I think that is

@alleras46 3 года назад

@WINDOWS MINUS lol never heard it so accurately described. This is definitely what has happened

@mosthated.e.2422 3 года назад

@Sez B believe it or not feminism/metoo were made for beta males

@tlewis84able 3 года назад

@Sez B wow that really opened my mind

@johnbockmann 3 года назад

The point is, men need to make up their minds. Women will always be like this. But they'll be better if we lead as strong, masculine, good men.

@mazklassa9338 10 месяцев назад

Brilliantly candid. It is so magnanimous of you to divulge what the dynamics are or should be for male-female synchronicity.

@lsporter88 3 года назад

Sometimes feelings must be bruised (even in a nice way) for the sake of learning. This video is very interestingly addressing the issue of Gender Roles (and yes they are different). It's also an illustration of the fact that perhaps the, "Me Too", movement has had some unintended consequences for Women (perhaps the Feminist Movement as well). There can be too much of a good thing, or maybe things have just gone too far in one direction. Great video.

@lsporter88 3 года назад

I applaud your honesty. Very Brave.

@davidmc984 3 года назад

This is soooo refreshing to hear a woman talking honestly about what women want and feel

@upstar21t 3 года назад

Number one on your list leaves out this: only if you're Chad/Tyrone do your praises towards a woman count. Being flattered by a Prince differs from being flattered by a peasant. If she's the princess, the man has to be a legitimate prince, otherwise if he over-compliments her it's repulsive to her.

@tamarasophia6145 Месяц назад

This is true. If she finds him sexually unattractive, even repulsive, no amount of flattery, compliments or attention is gonna change her mind.

@Yarblocosifilitico 2 года назад

guys, notice how she said "that's also attractive too, a guy that provides" at the end of the video, as a last minute thing to add. If you're the provider, you're the second option (at best).

@superuberjedimaster 3 года назад

My pen is ready, let's start the class Professor!

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

lolol

@Ekam-Sat 3 месяца назад

... is

3 года назад

The thing about consent is easy to say when you are a woman, so all risk (like in BDSM) is put on man. Did you think about it?

@mateaukalua4426 10 месяцев назад

Nope they never think about that.

@danjames1922 10 месяцев назад

This channel is great - so refreshing, especially in 2023 with all the alpha/sigma/man-v-woman youtuber bullshit going around.

@tomau3946 3 года назад

The term about when you want to pretend to yourself that "it just happened" is called "deniability." Because as my late mother would say, "a lady wants to, but she doesn't want to want to."

@petroglyph79 2 года назад

nah that sounds childish

@mynamesNev 2 года назад

Right, plausible deniability

@mateaukalua4426 10 месяцев назад

Yep that way they can always falsely accuse you of grape 40 years later.

@manuelpanisse5991 9 месяцев назад

Right, women always tell themselves "it just happened" with their bf, when in reality the guy was thinking about having sex with her/them being together the first time he talked to her. He was already thinking about it, thats what he wanted from the start.

@bjaxfl 3 года назад

I love your honesty and self-awareness! You're literally the only fish on RU-vid that admits how to ACTUALLY Catch Fish. But see this is the problem with feminism a lot of these traits you mention as attractive are programmed out of us at a young age by our(in my case) Feminist dominant mothers and the blue pilled society. Because my mom was the bread-winner in our family dynamic working in a high position in a company I was raised to revere and look up to women. This made me shy around them, intimidated and energetically small in their presence because that's how I was around my 6-figure mom, who as a woman beat the odds and progressed to where she is today. I remember growing up I'd get rejected and laughed at by girls and even beaten up by guys because I was a little Bitch. My Dad nearly abandoned me because I was so soft and girlish and my Mom did everything in her power to ensure I'd never become as aggressive, dominant and direct as he is because I was taught by her these are the traits of an evil man. This killed my masculinity and now at 20 years old I'm fighting this battle with low self-esteem and trying to regain my masculine power. Its difficult but thanks to women like you REAL WOMEN who are strong enough to admit what makes them vulnerable, I can finally kill the Beta and embody my power. You are doing Gods/Sources/evolutions work and women like you are are essential to the revival of the Divine masculine and the death of the Beta male pussy drying plague. I know it got all artsy poetic post/apoc like at the end but that's just me I'm an Artsy land. Thanks again subscribed :]

@comprehendsirlgarbagedispo1495 10 месяцев назад

What if it's hot for a guy to look up to girls

@paulwilliams3846 3 года назад

You continue to amaze us with your honest insights into male/ female relationships and sexuality. I'm watching all your previous videos because they help soooo much. SO healing. Can I keep saying this? They are pure gold! This one point made me laugh - 'being too feminist' I know guys like that (me for example!).

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

thank you Paul!!

@balwgar92 3 года назад

Unfortunately I'm legally obliged to get clear non-duress consent before i can make a move, but sadly I'm also aware that this will 100% kill any mood and chance with someone, so all I can do is try to coax the women to make the move or risk punitive action. Quite the conundrum we guys are facing these days.

@JosephMcbeth 2 месяца назад

I am so so glad that I found your channel. Keep spreading the word. I love you.

@52rojemle 3 года назад

Jeeeezus!! I did all those things with my first gf when I was 21. She cheated right away that stupid b... now I cringe remembering how I used to think and act around girls.

@FreeWifi1984 3 года назад

You live in you learn; assemble a character you look up to and become that. Guys are flimsy because of ignorance. Get on your feet and start watching reality.

@dreday77764 3 года назад

Women want to take feminine role in relationship however in the west women continually act like men. Relationships have become a power struggle. The dynamics have changed. This is the product of feminism and I see many men out there acting very “beta” like because of it.

@sonmohikan5964 3 года назад

Funny thing is that they say men are bad and masculanity is toxic. But they try to "emprove" by imitating men, how funny!

@dreday77764 3 года назад

Son Mohikan Spot on. On another topic, I laugh how lesbians don’t like penises but wear strap ons and use didos that resemble a penis haha

@TRFAD 3 года назад

Indeed. It's irritating af. Fighting your nature baby

@Airmaster360 3 года назад

Women are confused too, they end up being a cat lady playing the victim card

@yassinetalbi5884 8 месяцев назад

so basically feminism is a trap ?

@noahpatterson19754 3 года назад

Thanks so much for these videos! I feel like what we’ve been told by a lot of mainstream culture nowadays can make guys confused and reject their gender roles, and consequently display the behaviors you mentioned, myself included. Which is probably why there are more incels than ever. This video really helped clear things up on the things that women implicitly want but don’t say out loud.

@YourFearIsReal 2 года назад

Trust me, the programming is deliberate and intentional. Weaker men are easier to control.

@foilster1 3 года назад

Number 1 is bullshit, every time I’ve done that I got shit on and played, but when I acted like I was the prize girls flock to me. Idk man...

@loganedwards4272 3 года назад

Agreed a lot of girls like to hype up there man and if there isn’t an equal hype up ratio I don’t want it lmao

@steezytaegan4612 3 года назад

I think she meant when guys talk about themselves to much or bring more attention on them on purpose, it shows females that hes fishing for validation which shows hes not as confident in himself, but also gaining attention and acting like the prize without saying it which shows confidence

@kylel7158 3 года назад

@@steezytaegan4612 be a quiet stoic who shows through actions his value, not through seeking validation or impressing others with words of your success

@steezytaegan4612 3 года назад

@@kylel7158 u couldnt have said it better

@valeraanovsk1468 3 года назад

@@kylel7158 i pretty much agree, but also we have rappers who get a lot of chicks, while they are mainly making songs talking about how tough, cool or successful they are 🤔

@maroufali7925 10 месяцев назад

I've experienced problems in one of my relationships because I was too afraid of disagreeing with her and hurting her feelings, I had her, and her priorities before myself every time, and it was draining, never again, in my current relationship I speak my mind freely and my gf stands by me, even if we disagree on some topics,but we're both honest with each other all the time, and I've never been happier.

@intricatic 3 года назад

I have a terminal problem; I refuse to date anyone because all the games and signaling pisses me off. I've basically decided I'll stick to escorts. They're cheaper than a relationship anyway.

@CrisisHipHop 3 года назад

How do you avoid law enforcement

@jhernan594 3 года назад

😂🤣😂 good man!!! any recommendations

@coachphil5331 3 года назад

@@CrisisHipHop 😂 Yes. How do you avoid law enforcement? I'm asking for a friend. 😂

@intricatic 3 года назад

@@jhernan594 tryst.link already met one from there. Hella cheaper than a date.

@simonemontelaghi362 3 года назад

that escalated quickly lmao

@jeanbaptisegrenouille5774 3 года назад

This is one of the most honest channels i've seen in a long time, no ads, no presentation...just sharing your own views and opinions. In love with your content

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

thank you very much and thank you for subscribing

@conradlewis5689 3 года назад

The school girl fantasy is a really common one.. I just hated it because the skirts never really fit me.

@wayneronaldo7679 3 года назад

🤣🤣

@terryquinn7347 3 года назад

Most young woman these days think sex is like a porno men do the same thats where they learn these days then they find out its not all that its an act instead of being natural

@musicalfringe 9 месяцев назад

I genuinely appreciate the good-faith attempt to explain these things. It's valuable. On the other hand, I'm listening to this and thinking "Christ this sounds complicated. I have things to do!"

@dangerousman4071 8 месяцев назад

Guys be yourselves. Just be confident about what you want and what you are.

@u235u235u235 3 года назад

this is all first year stuff. after 10 years in a relationship it's about friendship, companionship and achieving goals.

@ruisousa7967 3 года назад

Kind of agree with everything she said. However in this crazy times of false accusations and proud on destroying lifes of innocent men based on everyone should believe woman. I think its safe to say that some man are overprotective on asking consent on everything based on beeing afraid of beeing accused of harrasement or rape or whatever she wants it.

@Hugex97 3 года назад

Basically, be a loving, caring sweet MAN, not GIRL. It's not hard boys, in fact, everybody has this in their genetics. Just let your masculinity flow and them ladies will get crazy about you

@DJFreeway-DJExit-DJClaritin 3 года назад

The only people worth my time are the ones that chase me and I simultaneously like them also.

@drewkelly8366 8 месяцев назад

Yea, parents can kill your self esteem at a young age and its hard to get out of. Very important to raise your kids in a positive environment with minimal yelling and talking down to/at them.

@MollyMcBooter 9 месяцев назад

I personally love it when my guy sends me a photo of himself because I miss him when he’s not around and I think he’s very handsome. Unfortunately, through my own experiences with men, I have learned that no matter how much you compliment them and give them any free time you have, they still want compliments and time from other women as well. Super freaking insecure and need for validation left and right is a HUGE turn off for me!

@willvrtist 8 месяцев назад

The fact that you have a guy that is treated well by you and is missed by you but STILL goes off and gets attention from others is absurd. Especially when you look like that, cmon.. what is going on here? The fact that so many women like you say this, never fails to confuse and amuse me.. like where are you lot finding these men? The dumpster? TikTok comment sections? Granted they're indistinguishable from one another but still..

@jgonzales912 3 года назад

It’s a slippery slope...that’s for sure.

@dinerosuave 3 года назад

Yk your growing cuz your real asf and women now in days aren’t

@macvena 3 года назад

Straight up, you're very honest and astute. You're observations sound dead on point. Keep it up.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

Thanks Mac Vena

@Gigaamped 9 месяцев назад

thank you so much for talking about this i feel like i’ve been needing to hear this for 28 years of my life

@opeg8894 2 года назад

Remember too guys you cant expect to check every box. We are who we are and we can't always give women what they want. And it's great and all to have power but it's nothing without having the self-control to guide it in the right direction.

@freddiebuddie8325 3 года назад

Great advice , to build on what you were saying it’s vice versa for men. We do not like women who are competing to be the man emotionally, physically. Being in competition and not just taking the role of a woman and it causes conflict. Letting her be feminine and all women , letting the man fulfill his role without confrontation.

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

Can u elaborate on what u mean by competing to be the man

@livestrong296 3 года назад

Thank you. Was Having a hard time in between not offending and at the same time being masculine

@Jokestrap 3 года назад

So on point ... so wise!! I LOVE IT! 😀😀

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

Thank u!!

@RobertGenito 2 года назад

I’ve been subscribed since I was a fruitarian and learned you were doing fruitarianism. 5-6 years ago? I’m glad I subscribed…your content has become so excellent.

@mynonleatherlife 2 года назад

wow thanks Robert. Are you a fruitarian/vegan too?

@RobertGenito 2 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife i was Fruitarian for a couple of years. Your videos have been very helpful for me lately during a very hard time. Thank you for making them

@mynonleatherlife 2 года назад

@@RobertGenito that's so cool. being fruitarian for years is no small feat. is there any topic in particular you would be interested in a video on?

@tamarasophia6145 Месяц назад

I would love to hear from you or others on the impact it had on your libido to go from high protein animal foods to vegan or fruitarian diet. I noticed a massive drop in my sex drive...has anyone else experienced this and what can I di about it?😮😢

@Fujtajblus 3 года назад

I am unsure if this will make sense but I want to share something. I have never had much success with girls so since like 2012 when a girl rejected me and gave me the "see you as a friend" speech, I started to read about psychology, women's mind etc. And a lot of things in this talk resonate with me, so here is how an why: Attitude - my last GF told me that this is pretty much the key thing. You can be tall, short, bald, ugly, poor, rich.. if you do (not) have the right attitude you will (not) get where you want with girls. Attitude was never discussed when I was growing up, it was always about stuff like honesty, kindness, being a gentleman and shit like that. Basically just character traits. Google defines attitude as "a settled way of thinking or feeling about something." - this also touches your 4th point about the inner masculinity. Having XYZ, being good looking, tall... it does not matter, at least I do not tap into that because I lack those things that actually matter. Like the attitude, having sexual experience. I mean look... I do what I can. I am 30 years old now, I have a well paying job, appartment, car, I am fit and lean, I look quite well and recently was told I am handsome by many different people. I have deep character, strong emotional control, thoughtfulness, I am honest, nice and kind, I would say unreactive as well. But I seem mysterious, cold, sometimes distant and introverted. However, I know some girls go for this. Second "however", if we men, like girls because they have nice bodies, pretty faces and long hair, women like men because of what you said - attitude, leadership, confidence, bedroom experience. And that is what I lack because my experiences with women were not very positive. Positive meaning successful in the ways I would like them to be. So I fake it till I make it basically. But still. The reason it is not understandable for the people surrounding me, why I am so down and "desperate", is because they see the superficial things that do not matter. Meanwhile, I have low self-confidence (I have healthy self-esteem btw, those are 2 different things) because of my unsuccessful feats with women. I get like 1 match per 2 weeks on Tinder and the girl is quite unattractive. When I talk to an attractive girl she is smiling, laughing and seems to enjoy my company but if I ask her out, it's like 1 in 12 that goes out with me. So I cannot have the attitude of "women fucking love me" because that is simply not true. They LIKE me. But they do not seem to be ATTRACTED to me. And at the end of the day, it is about attraction. But again, I fake it till I make it. But it is such a chore really. I mean, if I open my mouth about stuff like this to anyone, I basically say "I am not a man, I am not masculine". Because expressing this stuff, this self doubt is not seen as masculine. Masculine men do not doubt themselves. Why? Either they have weird mental model that they are the studs because they have a car (I met one guy like that who thought he was a hotshot because he had a car). Or they arrived there with experience. But it just seems like a head-22. To have experience, you need a job (or a girlfriend). But to get a job (or a girlfriend), you need experience. I had some experienced, I am not a virgin. But main point is that I just want a girl to be with and have a family one day. But seems to always end after I get a little further than the next time. Because A) it does not feel like it was before or that B) she is not as happy or C) that there is not much going on our relationship or D) cannot imagine us being old together. In the meantime I have offers and "pacts" like when I am 32, I should give a call to an ex. And so on. But again, it is just so exhausing. Building characteristics that I was never told to learn, I just discovered they are needed couple years back. So it is not part of my personality. So I constantly push outside of my comfort zone and it is still not enough. So.. yea. just gonna have to bite the bullet and hustle like we all need to.

@rezphilosophy 3 года назад

2:42 sounds like she forgot to upgrade her self to the 2021 version

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

lmaooo

@titilili88 3 года назад

This was excellent! It tooks me 60yrs to encounter the truth! Now I'm ready for battle. I love women!!! Thanks so much!

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

This is like music to my ears, I love ur attitude!!!!

@anthonymcneal9838 3 года назад

Watching these videos are getting me depressed because I realized I'm the exact opposite of what you saying women want but that's just who I am so yeah I'm content on being alone for eternity I guess

@mynonleatherlife 3 года назад

So what are you like and what do u want?

@jibcoolio7 3 года назад

She responded dude!?!?

@whisperedtales9925 3 года назад

Just be your authentic self because anything but that will fall in a heap a few weeks later. No one can consistently lie about who they are and maintain it long enough to have a rship. If she doesnt like who you are, stop wasting your energy on her and find someone that does.

@anthonymcneal9838 3 года назад

@@mynonleatherlife literally as I said above. I'm not confident, I'm very in insecure and I have no talk game. Like literally nothing good to say about myself in any aspect. It's cool tho

@anthonymcneal9838 3 года назад

@@whisperedtales9925 no one like the real me, so yeah I'm just such on being content

@TheGhostOfFredZeppelin 9 месяцев назад

Regarding the point that guys don't know that they're attractive, it's true but it could easily be solved (like literally every point in this video) by simple communication. I had always had problems with confidence and basically all it took was for a girl to explain to me how that she found me to be really attractive, and just like that I got more confident. Like a self fulfilling prophecy, feel like shit appear like shit. Feel great appear great. The same goes for guys too, everyone. All of us, guys and girls need to just talk more, be better at talking and explaining what we're thinking instead of just keeping it all to ourselves and then be annoyed with people because they don't act like we want them to, which they can't because we refuse to tell them for some dumb reason.

@robinconnelly6079 4 месяца назад

I must say, your content is fascinating. You are very good at explaining female things in "guy language". I went through some tough stuff in my 20's when a black widow tore out my heart and I lost ALL of this. My confidence was zero for years. It took me most of my life to discover it again. I would talk to lady friends and say "what am I doing wrong? And they would say this stuff but in "female language". I never really could figure out what they meant. Even today I am haunted by the destruction of my 20's. Some of what you say creates an "oh yeah... that's what it's like, I had forgotten that" response in me. It's very useful. I think a lot of guys have had their egos take a beating in the last 20 years. Social conditioning has taken its toll. Churches are particularly bad. I'm a Christian in a big way but churches have these taboos. It's actually really unhealthy. The pastors mean well but they are too protective. Now, I should clarify that I don't believe in sex before marriage but I get why a lot of the Christian single women are saying "what are we gonna marry?". There is a great need for men today to "Rediscover themselves". So I think you are making big roads in that arena. Great Stuff

@techguyjoe1 3 года назад

Great video and so on-point. For me, this is how I summarize this video. Be a man. Take charge. Be confident. Push the action. An alarming number of women have told me that there is a shortage of take-charge, masculine men around.

@ganymede242 3 года назад

Just discovered your channel and I'm working my way through everything! Thanks for being honest. Everything you say makes sense. Unfortunately in the "Yes means Yes" #MeToo world I'm not sure how wise it is to implement.

@Ace.0.0.0. 2 года назад

True that. Too many women want plausible deniability. So if things go south they won't be left holding the bag.

@goofytuber9011 3 года назад

And i just learned im gonna stay single for a long long time

@raphaelkuttruf Год назад

Shame can be a real killer in a man's life. Usually something terrible happened, or something good didn't happen somewhere in childhood...

@mateaukalua4426 10 месяцев назад

I feel shame very easily. It does stem from childhood.

@BigV24 8 месяцев назад

your channel is phenomenal, enjoying working my way through your catalogue. I've been struggling with 9:25 as of late. I'm a late bloomer and have only become attractive in my mid 20s and I do feel guilty in embracing this now. I feel conceited in a sense but understanding that it isn't a baad thing puts me at ease. Embracing my masculinity has never been an issue, I thank my dad for instilling that in me but being raised in a conservative religious household and my culture makes appreciating your appearance almost seem like an indulgence.