“Your rage is honest” ❤ I’ve never thought about this before. But you are so right. Our rage is honest, their rage is manipulative. Honest rage is something that they don’t understand.
A person who has practically experienced this and survived narcism can only be able to guide and help others ! Thanks Danish for helping other people who are suffering ❤ You are strong person
Stand up to narcissist family members and it's just more of what you've already experienced. Just more overt lies, silent treatment, smear campaign, stonewalling. As Danish explained every bad behavior of theirs just gets intensified. They love being and playing the victim, when they in fact, were the monsters.
I told him "I know you tell all your friends that everything is my fault so they won't like me. I really don't care if they like me. I have my own friends." He doesn't answer. ". I constantly tell him that he should google narrcissism to understand his goofy behavior.
This is exactly why I was discarded. I showed my nark that I was not going to be controlled or manipulated. These people are very vindictive. Fearlessness is a threat to them. If you are in a relationship with these people, get out ! The situation only gets worse the longer you stay! Things can go from bad to worse within seconds. It's difficult for third parties to identify their behavior. They are master manipulators and sway people to side with them without getting to their true nature.
I just realized recently that is why I was discarded out of nowhere on Mother’s Day. No discussion never saw it coming because I changed I see it so clearly now the whole process how it unfolded because he didn’t have any more supply.
Jimmy, your comment resonates with me so much! They're the biggest manipulators. They've already taken my children away and now they want me out completely. I'm fighting everyday. It's exhausting but I'll continue to fight for my children. Thank you for your comment.
Same here. Once I stoped responding and feeding in to the emotional manipulation and I stoop up and told her about herself I got discarded. Then I had games be played with me for months afterwords. I made the mistake of of trying to cause more narc injury and just kept a long game going that is waste of time and emotion. One thing I figured out tho is she is nothing but a immature, scared, spoiled little bitch who fears being exposed for what she really is and I know what she is and who she really is. She knows this and she fears this so at this point we are at a stalemate. Its so bad that any insults I throw at her are the truth and I have examples of it while she has to make up stories about me. There are a whole bunch of horrible things I can say about her but still til this day she cant say one horrible thing to me thats true. She is fake and any time we have to deal with one another or have any confrontations I make sure to let her know that. Letting them know they’re fake will instantly score a win for you. It will make them retreat and hide. There are literally 4 different stories that she’s made up to her group of friends, her siblings, her ex husband, and her dad of why we broke up. None of them know the truth. Lol. She’s pathetic.
Last part is the best. They should be afraid of you. You have empathy, you are grounded in reality, you can grow, you can heal. But they can't. They are not worth to be afraid of.
Exactly! I used to be sad when the narc left, now I’m happy that they’re gone….I feel like saying to them, “don’t threaten me with a good time!” Lol 😂 Their rejection is definitely God’s protection! Stay strong & keep moving on!✨💪🏽🤩💪🏽✨
Very true. It's not easy. If one doesn't know what Narcissism is. Once you know all the traits of a Narc, it's very easy. And MOSTLY IMPORTANTLY Never call a Narc a Narc. Never UTTER that word. Or else your magic is gone. He'll call you a Narc and believe it. And he'll start his narrative.
The part your father missed was that everyone already knew he was the offender, the provoker, and they admired you for standing up to him. If I'm mistaken, at least your subscribers admire and respect you for breaking free from your father's abuse. You are a great leader, Danish, and an inspiration to us all. Thank you.
You are brilliant! I left domestic violence against my young children and myself. You describing your father is what I got from my husband and father to my children. I was with him for 17 years. He destroyed me. I'm now a single parent, to 8 year old twins. The boys and I are now settled, peaceful and happy. It has taken 18 months for our souls to heal. Thank you Danish.
I have a 6month old kid my husband is narcissistic and physically abusive am trying to leave pls pray for me and my kid.. i have no family no money and no job but I will figure it out god will help me give me strength I can't take it anymore.
How fortunate for you to not only know about and understand this wicked behavior but to get away and heal so quickly... I'm a grandmother who had to study this for the last 5 yrs just to be able to wrap my mind around it but now that I have, I'm in the healing process while living in my car. Our 2 grown children were taught by dad, a malignant narcissist, and now both have decided this is the way they'll go... using every tactic they saw, heard him use. I live for my Grandchild and pray I'm here for her future since my daughter is an extreme narc.
Same is happening to me for the past 18 years. Times n again, I have forgiven him but he tells me it is him who has forgiven me. Don't know how to escape, with 4 kids under my care!
@@aminashahid7577I guess you are luckier than me. My ex took all 3 children away from me and act like it is all my fault. The damages he had brainwashed them is just over my imagination….
My mom is now 80. She controlled my dad until his death. I became her caregiver and took over my dad's role. She displayed all the narcissistic signs my entire life. I have taken her abuse for my whole life. Now she upped the horror by treating me like my father was. Finally, after 5 yrs of this abuse, I have taken my power back. All the things you stated she is doing. I had to decide to distance myself from some family & friends. They seem to believe her crap. It has been difficult. I don't have the strength to continually combat the lies they seem to believe. I do feel better in my soul, but at times, it still hurts.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I stepped way back when it came to my parents care. I had my own children to look after. I was the black sheep, so my parents only wanted my brother first, my sister second to care for them. The parents have now passed. I tried to tell my siblings about the abuse I experienced, but they are in denial. At that point, I went no contact.
everyone who liked your comment has too much to say. living with that person who was always a BCH and who had you on eggshells for NO reason in old age is NOT FUN. these people are nasty - and putting on a show to others. it's unbelievable. this unaffectionate entity started the sleeve of my coat when we were chatting with relatives at a funeral - WTF?? WHEN has she ever touched me? never. and she's so damn old, putting up this front. It's crazy. She's MEAN and the meanest stuff comes out of her mouth and yet she's got the most pleasant situation and care. ugh.
Other people who believed her one-sided story are called flying monkeys. If she can’t manipulate you, she manipulates other people and how they see you. She will make it seems like it’s you alone against the whole world. She gaslights you and makes you question yourself. Don’t fall into that trap. You value yourself and many loved ones also know who you are and love you. Stay away from narcissists and flying monkeys, even if they happen to be yr biological mother or relatives. You have a choice of your own life.
80years she doesn't have much time to live,if I were you I would played my role to the end as a godly daughter and receive your blessings for sacrificing for her...there is a reward for filial love .
Being discarded by a narcissist is the best thing that could ever happen to a person. Having a narcissist show interest in you is the most dangerous thing because sometimes it means they have identified you as someone who is weak minded enough to manipulate. You do not want this! I divorced one after being together for 8 years. I'm going no contact when I move out.... That is the only safety.
I don't know about 'weak minded', but they usually go for genuine and good people, people who can empathise with their fake sob stories, and also people who can add to their image - like someone young or beautiful
Thanks for sharing. These people are pure evil. There's no remorse, no shame in them, just a massive, fragile ego that can never be satiated. I was fearless and got a nasty smear campaign in return. When he started threatening the people who still talked to me despite the smear campaign, it backfired on him. There is some karma in the end, but you have to be strong and hold out no matter what they do. Thanks again.
Totally! when you experience the smear campaign, you feel your whole world is collapsing around you... But time does it works and you see all the karma/ back fire and how they are finally shut down by the same persons they thought turned on "their side".They were overwhelmed by the first results of the smear campaign, but over time they are not so good at keeping their half truth or complete lies straight! People start to notice the voids and the inconsistancies between how they painted you and the real you.... It does take time but it always happens and eventually it matches the last stop of your own healing journey, and you can feelin peace and see the good in this creepy experience. Whether you realize this or not, it helped you to clear your world from a whole bunch of toxic people you surrounded your self with and then make room for much healthier people & relationships! xxx
@@DharmaK-w2e Narcissists are like silly children. They say, "I wanna be naughty... and I don't wanna get caught!" What is missed by them is the fact they live in an adult world, that they can't even perceive. They make asses of themselves and their denial numbs them from the truth all around them. No amount of lying makes the mountains, rain and hills disappear. Why do narcissists delude themselves they have power they don't have? I think it is because they are weak and the one person who they want to hide reality from is themselves. The rest of us are just representatives of the great truth of reality. We are no threat to the narcissist, he is his own threat to himself. The silly narcissist only dreams he can have power over things no mortal can ever have power over. Reality conquers all in the end, he will learn, willingly or not.
100%true!! My ex did this and everything else! He physically tried to hurt me and my boyfriend ( now fiance) I was willing to go through hell and live in a cardboard box rather than stay with my abusive husband of 12 years. His abusive escalated with each passing year. Watching him hurt my kids was more than I could take. Court dates galore, criminal trials, restraining orders, cops being called daily, losing all my "friends " to his smear campaign , almost being killed was still better than living one more day under the same roof as him. The saddest part was my ex continuing to hurt our kids in order to hurt me. He definitely achieved total destruction, but God is good and he helped me rebuild my life. I found a wonderful man who treats me like a queen. I didn't even know a man was capable of treating me so well. God is continuing to help me daily, but PTSD is no joke. It is a constant battle. I hope you all find your happiness with God helping you fight your battles 🙏 God bless you
God bless you sister! You are encouraging me as I have just stood up to my abusive covert narc sister and she sent flowers to bribe me the next day but I will give them to a neighbour and stick to my guns. My dad is also a narc and abuses my mum, I have tried to help and encourage her to change things but she is stuck there and when I try to help her, I get abused by him too. They already try to get my boyfriend on side whenever I set a boundary so it is hard. The PTSD from the trauma bond and the fear is hard but God will get me through.
I'm a survivor too! Only someone who has been abused this way can understand the relief of finally being free. I am so proud of all of you for taking back your lives. And, I'm proud of myself too. It took 4 years to get divorced from him and I suffered every abuse imaginable. I am finally free. I've been discarded and couldn't be happier about that!
When I tried to make my parents understand about my narcissistic wife that a narc will never change, my parents asked me to focus me to concentrate on prayers, asking to pray/do pooja daily so the vibration will help her change. This is how most Indian parent will react. Only a person who read or been through these things will understand your pain.
In my religion Good husband also only for good wife If she evil, you still need to divorce her Because evil husband only for evil wife Pray will not help, god already want you to end this relationship
So what happened ? Did you leave her ? Please tell me somehow you convinced your parents and yourself that she doesn't deserve you A narcissist never ever changes, so you have to stay away from them for your own sake
@@edgar2457 i convinced my parents and moved from my wife for 2 months. She spoke to many of my relatives to manipulate that she is apologizing and asking for a 2nd chance but I'm adamant and not giving her a chance. Due to this now ppl asked me to give her a last chance. So i decided to stay a month together but i know she won't change and I'm not going to take more than a month there. I'm repulsive towards her.
Woooo huni. My heart breaks for you and your experience. Trigger alert 🚨 I was picked up by my hair and thrown when I refused to argue. Woke up in ER missing front tooth. Dental work is expensive so if it weren't for the fact it was my literal front tooth I would've left it as is. Plus the bill for my porcelain crown only gave me mixed emotions considering the reason Sending you healing and🤗💔🩹 strength
You loose a tooth. My friend lost her child. She was beaten when she was pregnant. What was the mistake of this innocent soul who did not get a chance to see the world.
If you stand your ground they will not be able to do anything. Trust me. I went through this with a raging sociopathic narcissist. As soon as i was in harmony with my being they were scared endless. You are able to paralize and expose them! Never be afraid, never give up! All will be worth it!
Thank you Danish❣️. So true. I set a boundary, was screamed at and left in the car on the side of the road 🙄. I'm not sure how he could play that off as being the victim, other than I stood up for myself, and "didn't shut the F up" as instructed. I'm out. I am so grateful, and more fearless every day. Thank you for sharing your story.
My husband attacked me in his rage, and I ended up in psychiatric care with major depression on medication. That is when he stopped physical abuse because he knew the psychiatrist will report him to police. Chicken shit. I didn't know about narcissism back then. I blamed his madness on him not being able to find a good job. Once he found a good job, he got cancer and died. I was devastated cause I thought he would have changed. Later on I went through emotional and mental abuse from sibling and that's when I found out about narcissism and finally understood what hell I went through. God will give you the same problems until you learn your lesson.
He has no flying monkeys. He has been exposed to everyone because he has hurt everyone in his life. I found a text from his best friend saying that he doesn’t want anything further to do with him after so many years. I am all that he has now. And I have absolutely no fear and understand the assignment finally.
Sharing ur harrowing, deeply personal experience here, Danish, I can only say that you are a spiritual war hero unmatched here on earth: how u managed to confront ur narc father with all his demonic mental and physical rage, leaving him as a wounded, pitiful animal but he, still insisting that he inflict you to the point of annihilation is nothing short of God's desire to set you free once and for all! You defeated and rebuked the devil and are now divinely protected, as you broke the family's dark/evil generational curse of narcissism! Ur ancestors and ur viewers deeply love and are humbly grateful to you, Danish, for fighting the good fight and winning! Ur suffering and perseverance brought you, ur ancestors, ur family and we, ur viewers, our freedom! (big heart)
Best explanation I have ever heard. The Fear is their biggest tool. They inflict it on every level. And they never run out of ideas to make you afraid.
It took taking a trip abroad that I recognized I could overcome my fears. That the abuse inflicted upon my children and me (even the dog) had to end. This change of mindset unleashed a new hell until I escaped. The grieving phase that comes with overcoming your fears is hard. Many times I almost reverted to how things used to be out of habit and had to fight against it.
I am an accident baby. Mom never wanted me. never let me do anything fun, and let my family abuse me often. I joined the Army when I was turned 17, to escape the inevitable doom of where my life was headed. All the males in my family were either dead or in jail. The recruiter told her that he would wait until I was 18 before taking me if she signed the consent. She tried her best for 11 months to sabotage my departure, with countless guilt and bs. Didn't work. My mom was mad because she knew she couldn't control me any more. When I left, she threw away all my stuff, collections clothes everything. Then she wondered why I never wrote or called after finding out. After two years of blissful living without her chaos, she called the Red Cross and tracked me down just to start her narc shit up again. Much more happened but I'll spare you. I have to confess, and I hate admitting it, I am glad she is gone from this world.
Amazing listening to this, spot on, it’s like you told my life for the past 17 yrs (3 yrs with the narcissist but I was deeply wounded that he used my son in his rage to revenge on me) with the narcissist I married and had one child with (he stole him from me through the court system). He did threaten me when I called the police on him when he choked me and he said that he’d do ANYTHINGto take my son Away from me if I leave him. I ended up with my son on a women’s shelter and after three weeks of stay there the narcissist dropped a report on me to the child protective services that I abused our son). After that I lost the protection at the women’s shelter and the horrible court battling for four years were mentally exhausting and I was very depressed and disappointed in whom I married when I actually saw rd flags. Don’t thing for a second you will change someone to become a good person, they will not. You get what you see in the beginning. Leaving him was like leaving 10000 demons but regarding me little son back then 2,5 year I will never get over it. I have not seen my son for 13,5 yrs nor spoken with him because of the narcissist. The legal system believed him but I was discarded. I just will never get over this and I am reminded many times a day each and every day. My poor baby, I am so sad that an innocent child were used by him in this process to get even on me for leaving the narcissist due to mental and physical abuse, it was the nightmare of my life.
Oh my goodness! The same exact thing happened to me many years ago. To this day, it haunts me how I could have ever been with such an evil person. He was an attorney and abused me in the court system. He took my daughter away from just to punish me for leaving him. To this day, I have no contact with my daughter because she believed all of his lies and thought I had abandoned her. She inherited all of his demonic narcissistic traits. I’ve been listening to so many RU-vid videos and I’m so happy that I escaped. I’m older now but have a quiet, peaceful life. 😊
You each and every word is true. At point number 5, taking revenge is one of the core natures, they use everything like finance, your child also. The same I am facing
I am so shocked to hear this as I am going through these things daily in my life because I live with a narcissist...and the pain is hitting me too hard. Just don't know how to deal with it... whenever I get fearless I have been punched, slapped and kicked. I am now in fear. This video helped me to understand their rage is to get maximum supply just for them to live a life they want!
I understand your suffering , please silently and slowly start making your way out of that situation. Tiny silent planning one day at a time. Good Luck.
@eswari lingam it’s really bad being with them. Are you from tamilnadu india? Just guessing from your name though. In india no one understand about this evil people. It’s heart breaking. Please get out of this as soon as possible
Remember everyone (including you) deserve respect and feeling safe. Start cultivate self love and selfceare. Find a photo of a little child you're. Protect her by not reacting to narcissist's behavior as much as you can. His is a parasite living off your emotional reaction. Seek friendship with safe people. PLan secretly escape. Take your time. Secure financial resources, place documents etc. Maybe there is a shelter when you can hide? Always remember, whatever his disappointment is, this is his problem, Not yours. 🙏❤ sending your virtual hug. Keep educating yourself on this mental illness, but never call him a narcissist. don't argue with narc, because you will never will.
@@rozdoyle8872 this is excellent advice. Put away money if you can, and if you have a safe hiding place, journal the abuse. Knowing you’re making steps, however small, towards getting out of the situation can really help your strength, and give you quiet (undisplayed) confidence in yourself while you’re in survival mode. Good luck, and I hope you stay safe ❤️
Yes, they keep coming after me using religious system as flying monkeys to harassing me by proxy. They infiltrate your workplace so to cause huge damage. I’m surviving not yet thriving! When you live in a religious country you know what is a narcissistic superstructure!
Hello Danish, love the cat! So pretty. I am now completely fearless, and my mother in law can’t stand it. I don’t post on social media anymore, I only talk to my love ones in person or individual text. She still stalks my FB and messenger. That’s how she used to control me. I turned on my active status accidentally the other day. For less than a minute and she flooded me with stuff. Long story there, and as recent as yesterday. In this life, so much pressure to have every single social media platform, and post pictures of all your favorite moments. I’m fine with only You Tube. Danish , I’m so sorry for what your dad put you through as a kid. Thank you so much for your knowledge and experience!
I totally agree with u. My narcissist father has turned my children against me. Being a widow I feel tortured from every end.the pain is unbearable to me.😢 my life has been turned to hell.eitherways.sometimes feel like ending mylife😢
Omg, I knew it but I didn’t want to believe it until Danish told me what a narcissist was around 3 months ago. He told anyone who would listen, our children, family, his employees, patients, his lover, etc what a horrible person I was and I was sick, stupid, fat. You name it he said things that made me stop leaving the house because I couldn’t hold my head up. To this day I still have this problem until I leave this part of the country. I am getting help for Narcissistic Abuse, but still I must leave this area. I want to hold my head up again! As I should! Thank you, Danish, you have saved my life.
Danish you nailed it. My mother is just like your Dad. She smeared and defamed me from the time I was a kid. She even poisoned my Dad's mind. She has used legal system against me ,it's sad that people believe these evil people.
Yes. Experienced all these from ex-husband, family of origin, and a few previous bosses! The more it happens, the more courageous I become because it no longer surprises me.
THANK YOU for confirming that the narc will try to take away children for revenge. My mother did this. I got my child back within 6 weeks, but my precious daughter went through so much. It almost killed me, too. Some things can never be repaired.
Darnish I have seen numerous video on narcissim but nothing like your experiences. Its real and actual mindset, behaviour of narcissist. Its a disorder and needs awareness. Continue your good work
This video was so on point. My narcissist mother acts exactly this way, and is currently attacking me in the court system. If you’re in the Tampa Florida area and seeking a mental health therapist, avoid Stephanie Germon at all costs!
So sorry that you went through all of that. My dad was the same. I'm going through this with my sister-in-law. Everything you are saying is RIGHT on!!! She's on a smear campaign against me right now.
Stay strong brother and God Bless ! Only people who have been raised by a narc would understand all of this . thank you for spreading this message . Whoever is watching this video and can relate to all this stay strong and you are awesome and beautiful the way you are . Believe in yourself and break out from this situation .
WOW! I've never heard this side of narcissism before and I can give examples for everything you've said. My mother told me at 17 that she didn't love me bc you can't love someone who isn't afraid of anything. Almost 20 years later I still remember the quote exactly bc I found it so odd. And thanks to you I FINALLY understand it. I want to express my thanks to you, truly, having insight on the exact story that happened to me feels so good. ❤ you're the best!
Thanks for telling the personal story, about your father. I went through something similar My youngest brother pitted our parents against his siblings. That brother is a champion liar and we all know now. My parents have passed on and several siblings of my younger brother figured him out. He is so pathetic. It will never change. He is 57 years old. Narcissists do get worse with age.
Thanks for sharing… I’ve been dealing with gangstalking, open harassment in public and the work place, Gaslighting, etc. I believe it’s due to my confidence in myself that a former employer lied on me to get me implemented into a government black listing protocol. Slandering my character creating public shame for no reason at all. Simply because they dislike the person that I am. Calling me a terrorist- when I don’t have any history of this activity and an extremist- because I stand up against their racism. This video has a powerful message. Thank you for sharing.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
One thing I did with my narcissistic parents is start calling them by their first names instead of using the titles of "mom" and "dad" because to me, those are earned titles. It took them drastically aback and my mother went silent and refused to talk directly to me for a bit, while my father acted almost like he was afraid of me... I did this after having my son to solidify the boundaries I had been laying down the entire time I was pregnant so that they would know that being in my sons life was not a right, nor do they have any power or control over my decisions as a parent. If I include them, then that is a gift from me. They talk a lot of bluster behind my back (according to my little siblings) but they dont dare cross me directly, and I have called them out publicly when they tried to accuse me of things. Basically "hey, you said this during our last phone call and I would like to know what I can do to prevent accidentally causing you distress like that again" - by doing this in front of people they end up backtracking saying they weren't talking about me at all. It also shows others that I want open communcation and "care". Its almost intoxicating having this power over them now.
Maybe would be good to talk to the openly. When you were pregnant and started calling them by first names to establish that they cannot control you perhaps they were just surprised and did not know why you do it ?
@@orianam9835 actually I did have a conversation. I didn't say it was to establish boundaries (they would have just gotten angry and indignant), but I told them it was because when my husband and I talk to or about my mother in law, we refer to her by name, so in order to help foster equal relationship with both sides of the family we are doing the same with them. I also explained that for simplicity and safety we have the same rules for both sides of the family, which is useful since the men in my family have a touching "problem" and often try to "bond" by touch someones head or back without permission - usually trying to do it without them knowing so they dont respond negatively - which my mother excuses and would normally get mad if called out, but this way I can say "we dont want our son getting used to the idea that its ok for men on either side of the family to touch him without permission" and she agrees, though her reasoning is that its not because their behavior is innapropriate but because someone might do the same "innocent" actions to try to assult my son. Its sad she doesn't see that my father and older brother are risks, but at least I'm keeping my child safe.
Interesting how you talk about titles. Narcissists use titles as means of control. If the title has power then they'll use that title. They may even talk in third person as if the title was a partially separate entity. For example, if you're not giving enough of what they demand they might say: "Your mother is feeling very hurt." "You should look after your mother." "Your dad really needs help right now." But it'll be said by the title holders about themselves rather than other people. It's like the title is a separate layer on them which gives them power but them themselves are the people who'll emotionally coerce you through guilt to respect the titles as if they were caring and emotional entities.
I am in the process of attempting to find a way to recover from marital abuse. I have gotten physically away, at least for now, and I am suffering greatly in my heart, and you are helping me understand what has happened. Thank you so much for helping us.
Omg! you are 100% × 4 correct on all counts. The pettiness and baiting becomes exhausting and your anger starts to chip in. You have to hold on to yourself as not to give them supply. Thank you for keeping me motivated.
Thank you Denish for this VDO. I'm going through exactly just that. The narcissists (him, his girlfriend and his parents) are attacking me hard using the legal system. It is so important to remind yourself that you're solid inside and are aware of what these narcissists are up to. I am keeping sane despite all the difficulties I'm going through. Your brilliant video is a big help. Thank you.
please make sure your atty knows all about this. there are lawyers just for dealing with narcs and if the Judge is aware of this they will side with you. most Judges wont tolerate a narcissist. good luck!
Nothing like narcissistic trauma after the abuse. I think that plays a toll harder than actually living in it. Repairing the pieces of all the projection of guilt and shame they feel in themselves and put on us is HARD WORK.
Oh my god , Danish , now we know you understand this community, who is going through or gone through torture God bless you You are helping so many of us .
I can so relate. Just yesterday I had to yet again but a boundary in place with my ex spouse who was using our 6 year old as a go between vessel of communication. Firm boundary in the form of a text. After doing this continuously with different topics over the past 2 years, it has become easier to do and the reaction from his end is almost gone. I personally love the silent treatment (separated for 4 years now) as it is so peaceful on my end.
My ex was jealous of the dog!! My kids, everyone and everything, “ you love _____ more than me” he fell asleep while talking. They don’t give a shit about anyone but themselves. When I told him I was leaving for real and he knew it, he started crying and was shocked! When I didn’t coddle him he started the silent shit. The last thing he said to me was “I don’t want this! I never cheated on you! You are a narcissist! Then he smiled that side smile pure evil! He told me I would come crawling back to him! When I left he told everyone I abandoned the family! I moved states away with my son and his wife and he told everyone “I have a unnatural relationship with my son” literally told family and friends I was having sex with my son!!! Why else would I leave him!!! You can’t make this shit up!!
Thank you for your story… sounds somewhat like my ex…. My guy friends keep telling me that my ex hate me. I just could not understand that. I had so many guy friends because my ex was so unpredictable…. I gave him countless excuses of why he acted that way.
Omg! I am so sorry you were so brutally abused! I have a son, and the idea of being so cruel to him is ghastly to me. I am so sorry you went through that! 🤗🤗 I cannot believe I EVER became obedient and compliant. I was NEVER such a person, not unless I was getting someone who worked WITH me as a PARTNER, who gave EQUAL cooperation, not someone who wanted to lord over me as the "boss." I would NEVER try to boss around or dominate any other human being. But nor will I be dominated. Especially when it's coming in the form of being treated like a doormat. I let fear rule me for far too long. But never again. I feel like I have FINALLY broken free from that fear. I just hope I can get strong enough to hold onto my resolve.
I’m experiencing all this. But I’m separate from him finally after suffering for 25 years. Once you come to know about their patterns it will be more easy to handle their behavior ! Be courageous and keep yourself safe.
My father was a monster especially when he was drunk. I stood up to him when I was 12 yr's old. I was holding my baby sister with mom hiding behind us. Dad was raging at her+ trying to hit her. I do not know what I said to him. He crumpled at my feet + started crying + slobbering. He held me in contempt until he died. My family made my life a living Hell.
I am so thankful for Danish. I watch everyday and I have no doubts now that I am with a narcissistic. It sure does help to know that people out there can relate to what I'm going through thank you so much
So sorry you had to go through this😞I've received the silent treatment most of my life because I won't comply and support her false reality. Now I'm dealing with a narc neighbor whose accusing me of spying on their 14 yr old daughter which is absolutely absurd. I'm a 63 yr old woman I have no interest in what any of my neighbors are doing.
Love seeing this awareness and awakening. Come across many different cultures! It’s time to pull the covers off these vile creatures, everywhere in the world. It’s time for us to take the world back for humanity.
Your story made me cry. Oh my god i'm so sorry you had to go true that it's crazy. And you seem like such a kind hearted and loving person god bless you
Thank you for sharing your past I have already been through most of this it took me eight years now and about a year ago for Christmas I stood up and boy did it scare her now I was married for 38 years to this lady and I am now beginning to see every day more and more what was happening
Thank you so much Danish. This video is extremely helpful in understanding. I am currently preparing to face the Narcissistic rage of someone whom I have exposed in front of all.
Cant thank you enough for your words of wisdom Danish! You've helped guide me for two years. Each step, I learned from you. I took steps back and steps forward. Went from baby steps to bigger steps. You never gave up on us. You have changed a persons life. Thank you.
You're a strong man Danish, sorry to hear about your upbringing, I do hope you have got some family around you. Thankyou for all you do for us in showing us we aren't alone in this. X
Hi Danish. You're literally talking about my husband and atm he's giving me silent treatment as he has done multiple times in the past. I'm proud of you honestly for coming out of it. I can relate to your past situation bcz my children go through that with my husband too. I'm so done now and want peace more than anything. The fear is real and as you said, idk what he'll do once I declare that I want myself out....
Absolutely on the mark.Every word you said today are so TRUE,as if you can see my life from afar. Thanks for making me feel like I am doing the right thing
Excellent. Every clip has some kind of reinforcement towards avoiding, knowing what to expect from them and reactions from one's self. Most importantly, it helps with the healing. The most powerful video clips are from those who occasionally explain their personal experiences. I think it drives the professional to study the field. Many Thanks.
The silent treatment was my narcissistic male parent’s favorite tactic. As a child it’s scary. But as time went on, the whole family just learned to ignore him. In fact, we’d make fun of him, in FRONT of him. He ended up dying alone and……..silent.
Almighty protect you always Danish, my heart broke knowing what you had to go through in your growing years. And you made that experience into a lesson to enlighten all of us... Almighty keep blessing you abundantly...🤲❤
I'm actually experiencing what this videos about this week. I didn't even know I just happened to come upon it and you're right Danish everything your saying in this video you can tell you've been through it.
You are such an inspiration to all us for having the Strength & Courage to Share your experiences with your Father. My Father displayed this exact same behavior. #We Are Still Here Standing ❤
Side Note: in my humble opinion, anyone that the Narcissist "turns against you" was never your friend to begin with. They were just looking for an excuse to do you dirty. Those who truly know you and love you will not buy their bull$h1+.
FABULOUS. Your channel playa a huge role in our recovery. My situation is SO similar to yours. Please know how very very appreciative we are for your passion, unrelenting and unapologetic message, and your verbal gifts. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sir! You're describing the many experiences I went through. It really messed with my head and difficult as the many couldn't see what was taking place behind closed doors. Even the ignorant cops believed his nonsense. They would not help people in our situation, many end up homeless to escape the abuse. But yes, what you fear is what you find. In the end they're karma will return, I've seen it.
I love all your videos Danish because they are well thought out, informative and engaging. I am sure you help many empaths keep their sanity when the narcissist tries to take it. You have helped me tremendously, thank you!
I’ve heard far too many stories now about narcissists taking out fake restraining orders on their targets-this is beyond sickening and needs to 🛑! Has anyone else experienced this or know someone who has?
When I finally stood up to my narcissistic wife after 36 years of marriage and demand that she respect my needs etc she got a barring order, took me to court and the judge threw me out of my home for good! I lost everything including my relationship with 4 beautiful adult children. She did everything to totally destroy me! I suffered excruciatingly and contemplated suicide frequently. I had no support only God. I have survived it and feel much better now thank God. It made me very strong. You will make it too!!!!
