I’ve had terrible experiences throughout life . Tragedy after tragedy. Losing my mom in my late teens. Losing my older brother shortly after. Losing my close friends while in the marines. Watching my father lose everything and go bankrupt afterwards and through it all was pain. But it made me realize just how much I am capable of. “Terrible experiences poses the riddle of showing whether the person who has them is not terrible.” I realized just how much strength and courage I had, all thanks to painful and terrible experiences. I came out the other side, which again, showed me just how strong I truly was. Had it not been for those experiences, I may have not been this tough, and had this perspective on life. I take everything with a grain of salt now. And am much more calm and collected now. But that came through an enormous amount of persistence and resilience via- pain. I don’t welcome this upon anyone, it’s just a nice tool or fresh reminder that life’s tragedy doesn’t make you a tragedy in it of itself. It provides oppurtunity to grow through it.
50 Harsh Stoic Truths 1. Difficult things are good for you. 2. You can't learn that which you think you know. 3. You are not that important. 4. Perfection is paralysis. 5. Positive visualization is bullshit. 6. You can't escape change. 7. If you don't take the money they can't tell you what to do. 8. It all gets rendered insignificant very quickly. 9. Results are extra. 10. It always takes longer than you think. 11. It stares you in the Face. 12. It's fortunate that this happened 13. It's going to take more out of you than you Think. 14. It's not that you read, It's what you read. 15. It's you're fault you're offfended. 16. Mind your own business. 17. Most of what you do doesn't matter. 18. Pleasure passes quickly. 19. Poverty is wanting more. 20. Reading a book is not enough. 21. Shut Up! 22. Stop having an opinion. 23. Stop arguing about what a good person is like. 24. Stop wanting so much stuff. 25. The less you talk the better you'll do. 26. Stop wanting the third thing. 27. The grudge you're holding is meaningless. 28. This is what you trained for. 29. Tolerant with others, Strict with yourself. 30. You are a slave. 31. Don't be part of the Mob. 32. You are the problem. 33. You can laugh or you can cry. 34. You haven't defined what success is. 35. You only control how you respond. 36. You will be forgotten. 37. You're not reading enough. 38. You're being too Idealistic. 39. You're gonna die. 40. You're gonna meet shitty people. 41. You're harming yourself. 42. You're hurting people. 43. You're neglecting the greatest empire. 44. You're not that impressive. 45. You're outsourcing your happiness. 46. You're not strong unless you can do something with your strength. 47. You're paying too close of attention. 48. You're weak if you lose your temper. 49. Your anger is impotent. 50. Your thoughts sucks.
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I was on exercise in the Australian army at Shoalwater Bay on the central Queensland coast. It was a defensive activity so we had to dig out fighting pits, sleeping bays, communication trenches, put up wire obstacles, go on patrol etc. One hot day a grass fire came through our position. We were told to stay put. The fire passed and we were all overheated and coughing from the smoke. Then it started to rain and filled up our pits, and after sunset it got windy and cold with even more rain. At the end of the Ex there was a fighting withdrawal at night and long fast march of 40km to break contact. We could only laugh.
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I wish you could talk to my neighbor. Dude needs a serious wake up call to change his ways of thinking and always being so angry at everything. I could use a talk too 😅😂❤❤ Seriously though, philosophy became what it is because of discussion between individuals; not just listening to a viewpoint. Modern philosophers need to create a place to connect with each other and discuss deep thoughts
Thank you Rayan for everything. It is helpful. When show the books slow them down a little bit. Because it is hard to catch the title of the books Thank you again.
Negative visualization honestly was one of the biggest components of curing my anxiety. Now, when I say my anxiety is "cured" I don't mean it's gone. Anxiety is natural. I mean it no longer affects my life in the toxic way it did before. I don't ruminate on it or try to push it away. "Don't be scared, be prepared."
It's gonna sound silly but the new movie, Inside-Out 2, actually spelled this out so perfectly and this is such a great way to sum it up. Joy is also stoic asf and drops a stoic one-liner in there
Absolutely. Anxiety is telling you that something is about to happen. It’s up to you to react appropriately. Fight, flight, or something in between; it’s up to us to overcome. Glad to hear your making progress ❤
@@mcgritty8842 thank you! It's honestly wild to picture myself now vs. myself 10-15 years ago. I used to lie awake for hours at night having panic attacks thinking about situations both real and imagined that made me anxious. Could have been anything from something I said 10 years ago that hurt someone's feelings to the thought that someone could be trying to kill me right now and they could break in any second to get me. Now I just kind of accept it and let it go if it's something I can't control. "I can't control the way someone feels because of my past actions, but I can avoid repeating the same action." "Yeah, there is a miniscule possibility that someone could come in while I'm sleeping to kill me. Nothing I can do about it in that case. Time to sleep."
I’ve been have a lot of criticism and I accept that but I think I receive them to much and now all I want to do is take back my control in my own emotion
Love to see Daily Stoic do an SMS service and drop a nugget of wisdom each day. The open/read rate would be about 98% vs the 20% email. I’d pay $10 a year for it if done right.
Regarding the reading I wonder if it would be better to read more books or to read few books more times. Stoicism started my interest in philosophy. Seneca said you should also read other philosophers and get more perspectives. He read Epicurus for example. Nowadays there are so much different views, it is incredible. Nietzsche, Kant, Schopenhauer, Dogen, Diogenes, Heraclitus, you name it. Why just stick with Stoic philosophers? Two lines that Ryan uses often aren't even coming from Stoic philosophers. "The obstacle is the way" comes from Hinduism I believe (can't remember exactly). And "amor fati" is from Nietzsche. It's not that I don't like Stoicism, but there is so much more to learn. And one thing I've learned is that even though different philosophies have different ideas, they somehow are mostly not at odds with each other.
I’ve just been introduced to you . I admittedly like to be informed and then make up my own mind . This headline says “will” . I would respond better to “could” . I have enjoyed what I’ve heard so far
Wow. So much to unpack and think about here. I want to go through each one of these and think about each one for a whole week for a whole year. The other two weeks, I could be mindless.
Excellent, and a great reminder of what's important and what isn't. Whenever I watch videos like this, I always try to put myself in the shoes of someone with fewer advantages than me: not much money, precariously housed, children to look after, living in a part of the city with too much crime and violence. I'm sure these principles would still work for such a person, but I'm also certain that that person's life would be much harder than mine, and it makes me realise how lucky I am: good parents, nice home growing up, free education, good job, nice house.
Ryan desevers to be nationally known. He's changed my life. Whenever I forgot what the stoics have taught I always jump on one of Ryan's books and remember how silly I am stressed out about a situation. Sometimes stoicism scares me of how true it is.
@user-fc7zc8tm2u that's good to know. He desevers it. I'm currently reading "Ego Is The Enemy." Man what an impact it's had. But im also reading "Lives Of The Stoics." Man what an amazing impact both these books have had. But like him, so many followers of his. I always start my day off with flipping to a random page in Marcus Aurelius's "Medations." It gets me excited to know I get to practice what he talked about in his journal. I love stoicism. I really appreciate Ryan for making it so much easier to understand, with videos like this. 👍
He may not want that. I really like his work but some Stoic communities out there, like Reddit for example, are very judgmental and even nasty towards Ryan specifically.
Temporal Telepathy, Telepathy through time. One of the influences/presences you feel in your recordings at the time of the recording comes from me viewing it in the future here on youtube. I think we can send messages through time via this.
It has been said that 100 billion people were born, lived, and died before we showed up. How many of those 100 billion people do we know anything about?
Taylor Swift! Lol someone got sooooooooooo triggered 😂 You need to look in the mirror and see why you hate her so much. She doesn’t have any affect on your life or lifestyle.
What’s hilarious is Taylor is your last name bwahahahahahaha you literally cannot avoid Taylor Swift can you Richard Taylor? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m laughing with you ❤
The point of the “this is what I trained for” quote isn’t that EVERY moment is what you trained for-lots of moments are going to be good times to do more training, and if training is what you trained for then we are getting into some semantic silliness-it is that when moments arise in which there is a need for action (most action is not necessary) you should not cling to your books and weights to learn one more thing or do one more rep (or your covers for 5 more minutes in bed), but apply what you have and who you are to the task at hand until the task is done. Do you know what happens to performers who only perform and do not continue to practice? They get worse.
I am a good person I live around people who don't think the same thing has I do. I'm going to say what I want to I know u are reading about this I know. Let it go im done caring.
@@charliemarkovic4301 Thank you- I am a firm believer on the "Pareto Principle" of the 80-20 rule. Nothing makes us imagine the smell of Italian farmlands in the morning when we awake as the reminder the Pareto gives us between the dichotomy of the workers and owners of the farms and real estate assets=] Some have optimized it to the 90-10 rule. For me it is good to remember the origins of the "Minifundios" and "Latifundios" that Max Weber describes in the anthropology of agriculture of western civilizations. The modern concept of ownership focuses on the rights of a yeoman versus the rights to citizenship and ownership of a modern day "corporation".
Can you make a video specifically on stoic views on divorce? I’m sure this would help a lot of men and women going through or recovering from it. Thanks Ryan.
“People who love what they do wear themselves down doing it.” I think that’s the greatest struggle for many of us; it’s certainly been my greatest struggle throughout life. I don’t love what I do. I do what I do to pay bills. The things I enjoy in life are things I’ve yet to figure out a way to monetize. Life feels more like an obligation than a gift when you can’t find a way to support yourself doing something that actually fulfills you.
I weed out new people fast. I ask. " what if you find out what you thought was correct isn't? Would you want it know? " There are two answers. 1. Yes. 2. Um, no or (my favorite) that depends.
@@javiermeza2557it’s a probing question. If the person wants to know the truth, they are open to ideas. If they don’t want to know, they are closed minded and will refuse to listen. In my experience, people who are closed minded are not fun to be around and can be very pushy with their ideas (whether right or wrong). Sometimes just being open to listening to an idea that contradicts your beliefs can lead to amazing conversations and new ideas
