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50 Signs You’re an INFJ 

Renaud Contini
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@RensRoom
@RensRoom 3 года назад
Links to purchase my book on the INFJ are provided in the description box. Thank you for your support ♥
@zebrastripes3786
@zebrastripes3786 5 лет назад
You know you’re an INFJ when you have a near panic attack when someone takes too long to respond to a text message & you rehash every conversation you had with said person and come to made up conclusions why they are mad at you and they finally respond normal and you go damn I did it again overthink the shit out of situations..what I hate most of being an INFJ 😒
@aprilparker7151
@aprilparker7151 5 лет назад
Yes, lol. But I am getting good at talking myself down out of the panic. Making myself realize its all in my head lol
@zebrastripes3786
@zebrastripes3786 5 лет назад
April Parker that’s good,I do that too..remind myself of all the previous times I panicked & it turned out to be nothing at all but can’t seem to get over this behavior 🙃
@safa6267
@safa6267 5 лет назад
Sabna Ajith and it always leads to the conclusion that they hate you. it's irritating because I know it’s irrational but I really can’t help it
@KM-zn3lx
@KM-zn3lx 5 лет назад
I just let them contact me first now.....anytime I contact them it feels like they didn't want me too! I wish he'd slow down on some of these points. Many ring true. Especially debates comment. But not math
@eastonbolen4563
@eastonbolen4563 5 лет назад
having anxiety just makes it worst as well
@GO-FORTH-MINISTRY
@GO-FORTH-MINISTRY 4 года назад
"You don't need people but you REALLY do need people" YES 😔👏
@khaligee1218
@khaligee1218 4 года назад
Yes
@maurivanhanen9208
@maurivanhanen9208 3 года назад
What does that mean? I honestly haven't met another person in months, and I don't feel unfulfilled.
@michaelpease3927
@michaelpease3927 5 лет назад
You know you’re an INFJ if the most burning question imaginable is “why am I here?”
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Ha. Indeed :-)
@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384
@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384 4 года назад
Uhm, no, I would say the question would be much more like; "Who are we? And Why are we here?" What you said sounded very Fi-Ne.
@LifeisaBeautifulting
@LifeisaBeautifulting 4 года назад
This resonates so well it hurts lol
@Nina21_
@Nina21_ 3 года назад
Oh yes ! I feel better knowing i'm not the only one with this..
@bevm1378
@bevm1378 5 лет назад
You know that you are an INFJ when meeting another INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience -- YES!!!
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Yes! Glad you relate, Bev :)
@KM-zn3lx
@KM-zn3lx 5 лет назад
Wish I could.
@ispbrotherwolf
@ispbrotherwolf 5 лет назад
Totaly agree, have only met 3 and it was great. Like meeting a familly member.
@fharhunachoudhury2434
@fharhunachoudhury2434 5 лет назад
Bev M I have yet to do this but plan on doing so
@infinity7647
@infinity7647 5 лет назад
Unfortunately I haven't met anyone like me yet
@MVPA-io5ee
@MVPA-io5ee 3 года назад
*You know you're an INFJ:* 1) Pretty sensitive but rational 2) your friend wonder where you disappeared 3) analyze others emotions than your own 4) enjoy the idea of travelling, but travelling in your head 5) people don't really understand you 6) feeling guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain 7) when you get angry - an absolute configuration 8) sick of people telling you're a unicorn 9) decent in math but also good in literature, history - a bit of everything (all rounder) 10) life is a perpetual quest to under what you're looking for 11) people find you kind of mysterious 12) you're intense (deep) - in nice friendly way 13) most of your friends enfp (or none at all) 14) soft spot for intp and entp? 15) never seen as the best but think you're the best in some domain 16) movement intelligence is very low@bad 😅 17) if stressed turn into SC dominance ESTP 18) when you're confident you feel like you're not ESTP but ENFJ 19) single criticism will shake of your confidence 20) when in good mood people see you as extrovert 21) don't understand PJ different (I don't understand this point) 22) an advocate - you don't need people but also need them 23) a lot of stuff you do, nobody knows about 24) try to be nice to everyone unless they don't make an effort 25) very cold to someone when you know that person betrayed your trust 26) worst door slam can be seen as a little bit sadistic 27) you have many different type of personality to different person (chameleon) 28) feels like an actor but also seem detached 29) think you can win more debates if you're shameless 30) neither right nor left brain but both 31) missing an infj in real life feels like religious experience 32) talking to another infj could be source of warm and relief 33) unique kind of charisma 34) your phone in airplane mode/offline so not to be disturbed 35) your empathy can be a source of pleasure 36) your music taste is like an infp 37) you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream@ daydreaming? 38) attracted to paradox eventhough you're logical 39) strong sense of kinship with INTJ 40) never the best strategies 41) your mind is not made to thrive in capitalist economy 42) try your hand at poetry 43) sense of humor is far less PC - people can be surprised with what you come up with 44) you're a logical person 45) your thoughts doesn't translate into ordinary language 46) can feel powerful emotions and bless with that ability 47) hold grudges more easily than you would like to admit 48) Absorb another person emotions before they speak 49) 1 compliment that you would hear is that you're profound and fundamentally interested in others I don't know what point i miss... It should be 50 😅
@77HadassaH77
@77HadassaH77 9 месяцев назад
I think you need to dissect point 44 in: 1 you’re a logical person > 2 until people see you with a cute animal (so 2 is number 45). I like how R did this. It’s spot on for me because it can really be a mind boggling experience for a person who gets closer to me and didn’t quite yet know everything about me…
@Markay-wu2cq
@Markay-wu2cq 5 месяцев назад
u missed the first one 😀 thanks for the list!
@MVPA-io5ee
@MVPA-io5ee 5 месяцев назад
@@Markay-wu2cq Thank you for the info 😳😊
@AlexAnder-ri8ns
@AlexAnder-ri8ns 3 года назад
Another one: you know you're an INFJ if you're kinda obsessed with mbti because as a "logical feeler" it really helped you understanding the human world around you. At least that's the point where I noticed that I'm an advocate lol
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 года назад
You are so right, I though I was unhealthy and the lonely to being obsessed by MBTI. Feel a little guilty to know all of this knowledge so quickly.
@tofusamurai22
@tofusamurai22 5 лет назад
The traveling is in your head -- YES!
@darkhorse7460
@darkhorse7460 5 лет назад
Lol, many free vacations
@KM-zn3lx
@KM-zn3lx 5 лет назад
So funny! I was thinking the other day that travel could be in my head! I don't know INTJ etc. My neighbor is one and she finally got to me too much! Door slam!
@nfernandez11163
@nfernandez11163 5 лет назад
So true!
@stringofpearls4551
@stringofpearls4551 5 лет назад
...and gardening, redecorating, being interviewed on a national show, writing a book in your head, arguing with people in your head, wondering about everything in your head and often finding that reality is an unwelcome intrusion to what's going on in your head...
@VilkanVisions
@VilkanVisions 5 лет назад
That's why I love to watch shows like Star Trek :D
@batleon100
@batleon100 4 года назад
Here's a list to all of you INFJ brothers and sisters out there. I took most of it from the captions so there might be a few mistakes. Take care out there all of you! 1. You know that you're an INFJ from time to time if you really are an INFJ. 2. You know you're INFJ when you're pretty sensitive but also pretty rational 3. You know you're INFJ when your friends suddenly wonder where the hell you've disappeared. 4. You know you're INFJ when you'd much rather analyze other's emotions than your own. 5. You know you're INFJ when you enjoy the idea of traveling but most of the time the traveling is mostly in your head. 6. You know you're INFJ when you feel like people don't really understand you. 7. But you also feel like an INFJ when you feel guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain. 8. You know that you're an INFJ when you really get angry but when you do it's an absolute configuration. 9. You know you're INFJ when you're sick of people telling you that you're a unicorn. 10. And you also know you're INFJ when you're often decent at maths in school but you were also kind of good at literature and history and a bit of everything. 11. You know you're INFJ when your life is a perpetual quest to understand what you're really looking for. 12. You know that you are INFJ when people find you kind of mysterious. 13. But you know that you're INFJ when people find you intense but in a kind of nice and friendly way. 14. You know you are this type when most of your friends are ENFP's. 15. And you know also that you are of this type when you often have a soft spot for INTP's and ENTP's. 16. You know you're INFJ when you were never seen as the best but you kind of think you are the best in some domains. 17. You know you're an INFJ when your kinesthetic intelligence the movements intelligence is very low and very bad and is nothing to boast about. 18. But you also know that you're INFJ when you're stressed you turn into your kind of SC dominance ESTP. 19. You know that you are of this type when you go through a confident patch you feel like you're not an ESTP but an ENFJ. 20. Now unfortunately you know that you're INFJ when single criticism is enough to shake you off your confidence and you're no longer an ENFJ. 21. You know you're also an INFJ when you're in a good mood people often see you as an extrovert. 22. And you know you are of this type when people don't really understand the PJ difference which often pegs you as a P. 23. You know that you're an advocate when you don't really need people but at the same time, you really need people. 24. There's a good indication that you're an INFJ if a lot of the stuff you do nobody knows about. 25. But you also know that you could very well be this type when you try to be nice to everyone and your family for example unless they're really making no effort. 26. You know that you're of this type when you can become very cold to someone when you feel like that person has betrayed your trust. 27. Even more so you know that you're INFJ when some of your worst door slams can be seen as a little bit sadistic in their brutality. 28. You know you're INFJ when you feel sometimes as if you had 12 different personalities adapted to different kinds of audiences and have an intuitive feeling of what would be the best mode of expression to them. 29. You feel like you're an INFJ when you often feel like you're an actor in a film and present and detached at the same time. 30. You know that you're an INFJ when you know you would win so many more debates if your skin was a little thicker. 31. You know that you're of this type when you're neither left nor right brain but kind of both. 32. And you also know that you're this type when meeting an INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience. 33. You know that you're an INFJ when talking to other INFJ's online can be a great source of warmth from a tough world. 34. You know that you're this kind of type when you have a unique kind of charisma which is subtle yet present and all your own. 35. You know that you're an INFJ when sometimes you put your phone in airplane mode not to be disturbed by mankind. 36. I think another tell-tale sign that you are this type is when your empathy that can be a source of difficulty sometimes can be a source of pleasure and you can utilize almost as a source of pleasure. For example when you put yourself in the shoes of a movie character or musician and feel like you can actually experience the fragments of their lives. 37. You know that you're an INFJ when your music taste is basically those of an INFP except that it is the INFPs that tell you about how to get a music taste. 38. You know that you're an INFJ when people are looking at you, you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream. 39. But you also that you are of this type if you're attached to paradox and even though you're logical you're interested in what can not be explained by logical means alone and that you're interested in what's behind that. 40. You know that you're an INFJ if you at the end of the day you feel a strong sense of kinship with INTJ's despite your differences. 41. You know that you're an INFJ when you were never the best at strategy games or board games of any kind it's almost if your intelligence lied elsewhere and whenever you were focusing on these games your intelligence was misused. 42. You know that you're an advocate if you often feel like your mind is really not made for thriving in the capitalist economy but maybe you would thrive in a different kind of economy. 43. And you know that you're an INFJ if you've tried to hand the poe at poetry once or twice in your life at least or maybe more. 44. And you especially know when your sense of humor is far less politically correct and proper than people think and in certain circles, people can be surprised by what you come up with. 45. Another telltale sign that you are of this type is that you're kind of a logical person but one way to make sure to convince people if they need to be convinced that you're not T is if you're in the presence of a cute animal. 46. You know that you're an INFJ when your thoughts simply do not translate into your ordinary language. 47. And you know that you're this type if you can feel extremely powerful emotions and mostly you feel blessed for that ability can be a source of pain which you would not exchange for anything else. 48. You feel like you might be an advocate if you hold grudges easier than you'd like to admit and don't easily let go of them although you can. 49. You know that you're an INFJ if you sometimes absorb another person's emotions even before that person has spoken it's almost as if the aura around the person has done the job already you'd absorbed all the waves. 50. You know that you're an INFJ if the one compliment that people would never take away from you that you would hear is that you're profound and you're someone who's fundamentally interested in others.
@mdkgr
@mdkgr 2 года назад
I feel like I am being expressed by all 50 of them
@leighlong7005
@leighlong7005 5 лет назад
Great list Ren! How about also, you know you are an INFJ when you become extremely irritable, stressed to the point of lashing out at others if you do not get enough alone time.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Absolutely true! Thanks Leigh :)
@emfer3010
@emfer3010 5 лет назад
Yess!!!
@chasingtheunknown3763
@chasingtheunknown3763 5 лет назад
yes, i become bitchy!!
@ame8710
@ame8710 5 лет назад
Almost all introverts are like this...
@fharhunachoudhury2434
@fharhunachoudhury2434 5 лет назад
OMG yes libraries are a great comfort for moments like this, a haven amongst chaos
@dksdmusic
@dksdmusic 4 года назад
The worst part about being an INFJ is the 16 personalities that are within me. I am every single person I've met, every single book I've read and all the experiences in my life. I don't have a sense of self. I don't really know who I am. If I read about an ENTJ, I become an ENTJ. If I talk with an INTJ, I become the INTJ. I am who you are.
@yaminigaur1394
@yaminigaur1394 3 года назад
Exactly same here
@rctempleton9711
@rctempleton9711 3 года назад
i love or at least will have to explore your concept,would that be like a narcissist with their prey only in good way with a kind heart?????
@alainfranken7081
@alainfranken7081 3 года назад
Oh this is so true. We are so great at adopting a persona and not being one person. Become enlightened and you know why this is the case
@hope-9475
@hope-9475 3 года назад
Same here
@educationalbrowsing8913
@educationalbrowsing8913 2 года назад
Thank you, this is kind.
@14dori
@14dori 5 лет назад
I listened and laughed, smiled, nodded, reflected...yes INFJ. Thank you for your work.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Thank you for the very kind comment :-)
@fharhunachoudhury2434
@fharhunachoudhury2434 5 лет назад
You know ur an infj wen uve bin through or are currently in the process of going thru a spiritual awakening :)
@spikedbeetle
@spikedbeetle 4 года назад
“Infj can be a source of pain but you wouldn’t trade it”.... Pretty spot on! I literally just told someone I wouldn’t choose this personality but I wouldn’t trade it either.
@oficado58
@oficado58 4 года назад
Too weird to live, too rare to die
@Sariine436
@Sariine436 4 года назад
I hate my personality...
@loref4200
@loref4200 5 лет назад
Present, yet detached. Yes. Our paradoxical nature can be maddening.
@ashlazdanovich8396
@ashlazdanovich8396 4 года назад
I sometimes like being in the mind space between present and detached. I find it easier to connect but to not be too overwhelmed. It’s weird but interesting. Then again I am an INFJ.
@maurivanhanen9208
@maurivanhanen9208 3 года назад
Not really paradoxical. We're present in reality and oblivious to the pathetic lies.
@loref4200
@loref4200 3 года назад
@@maurivanhanen9208 Oblivious? I am rarely oblivious to lies..
@brandonb5240
@brandonb5240 4 года назад
You know your INFJ when many many times in your life you meet people for the first time, sense something from them, ask if everything is ok with them, and end up hearing details about a person that you are not on a relationship level for that information.
@rishabhshukla6705
@rishabhshukla6705 5 лет назад
You know you're an INFJ when only you can tell yourself whether you can do something or not. Always gotta try!
@monicatowers5641
@monicatowers5641 5 лет назад
#51 this video makes you feel validated LoL🙌🙌🙌 I truly Laughed Out Loud when you said, you know you’re an INFJ when all your friends are ENFP😂😂😂 it is sOo true for me!!!🙌
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Haha it's true for me too! Thanks a lot, monica!
@aprilparker7151
@aprilparker7151 5 лет назад
Validated, yes!
@becurious17
@becurious17 5 лет назад
Same!! I had to pause the video for a laugh at that point. ☺️ ENFPs are my closest friends and when I meet a new one I tend to always feel a kinship with them. I feel at ease and more of my authentic self around them. 💜 Doesn't hurt that they always liven things up and bring me out of my dark hole at times. 😬
@fharhunachoudhury2434
@fharhunachoudhury2434 5 лет назад
My best friend is enfp & her aunty is infj but we’ve yt to meet lolz 😂
@malcomlittle251
@malcomlittle251 4 года назад
My wish and desire for INFJ's is to use their super powers to transcend color lines and help bring peace to this unforgiving and dying world :-)
@BryanChance
@BryanChance 2 года назад
The best and most accurate "signs of an INFJ" video on the internet.
@sugacookie2009
@sugacookie2009 2 года назад
You know you’re an infj when you distance yourself the moment you see they are jealous hearted…you think to yourself “they can’t hang”
@shannonlogue5585
@shannonlogue5585 5 лет назад
I love your facial expression throughout the video. A mischievous smirk. 😏
@AliceDont888
@AliceDont888 4 года назад
Lolol
@rolom3
@rolom3 5 лет назад
Hm 46 are true, but: 1. I enjoy analysing both my own and others' emotions. 2. I've always been good at strategy/board/card games. 3. No INFP is suggesting music to me, I am discovering it myself. 4. Not sure about the last one, but I think I'm too narcissistic to be fundamentally interested in others, haha.
@skyegraves5053
@skyegraves5053 5 лет назад
It’s always enfp’s suggesting music to me, it’s so annoying. I know what I like to feel with music, AND music is as intimate as close friends - mostly people don’t (or shouldn’t) suggest friends 😂.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
INFPs and ENFPs have usually really good taste in music haha
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
rolom: you appear to be the only INFJP in the world!
@talielnussen3867
@talielnussen3867 5 лет назад
I think I am...too
@rolom3
@rolom3 5 лет назад
@@tsenjin7903 Wow I'm very similar to ISFP... I need to do more research.
@ceetteet
@ceetteet 3 года назад
*You know you’re (probably) an INFJ when you laughed and nodded in agreement to pretty much all of this* What an awesome video that really resonates...thank you for sharing!
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 3 года назад
Thank you!
@irenedebroglie6301
@irenedebroglie6301 5 лет назад
Hi Ren! Very nice video with some traits that are not frequently talked about. I am a Spanish INFJ living in The Netherlands. Something that I sometimes struggle with is hierarchy, specially when authority is based only on force or a "because I say so" attitude (I experienced that since I was little). I think that or what we consider attacks on people in a disavantageous position or our values system, rubs us INfJs in the wrong way far more than to other types (and unexpected conflagration enssues as you said, Dragonball style :-D, which can scare people. I liked your point about board games: my brother (INTJ) and I liked playing when we were little but the moment someone was hypercompetitive or rules were strict, we became bored... We like to develop our own flexible rule systems in a creative process, I think we would probably be the worst soldiers ever.
@JonasAnandaKristiansson
@JonasAnandaKristiansson 5 лет назад
Yes!!! I'm with you completely here. The board game thing too. Some people tend to destroy the fun and playfulness it is all abou.t
@TukaSlave
@TukaSlave 5 лет назад
I think the natural reaction if conscripted would be to conspire with the enemy to avoid all contact, and to shoot our own officers if they insisted on us attacking instead.
@skyegraves5053
@skyegraves5053 5 лет назад
The random board game one - I have disliked board games since childhood, and I’ve never known why. 😂
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Haha, I feel the same way Skye :D
@aprilparker7151
@aprilparker7151 5 лет назад
Well I am sure you would love some board games, maybe Scrabble? I hate strategy games, too though. Now I know why... haha
@neiln4478
@neiln4478 5 лет назад
Yes - wow, never realised why
@mersereaucatherine
@mersereaucatherine 5 лет назад
Except T rival Pursuit
@The_Red_Pill__
@The_Red_Pill__ 5 лет назад
Skye Graves I do like cribbage though. I also like world maps.
@chocoboasylum
@chocoboasylum 5 лет назад
#3: What friends?
@Sariine436
@Sariine436 4 года назад
I wish I didn't but did have friends...
@malcomlittle251
@malcomlittle251 4 года назад
True.
@awurama2380
@awurama2380 3 года назад
you know you're INFJ if this video makes you emotional because someone finally gets you
@EllaChinois
@EllaChinois 5 лет назад
I was very bad at math when I was younger. I am not getting better at it. Because I am a Chinese, it feels like I have a disability when I am around other Chinese. Then I know I am better than other Chinese in other ways. No complaint.
@aprilparker7151
@aprilparker7151 5 лет назад
Yes. I am bad at math too. Confessions of a current student who has dropped her math class twice.... :/
@SteubeMan
@SteubeMan 4 года назад
I was good at math until geometry. fuck geometry. algebra could be fun though, so long as i didn't have to memorize too much
@dinkin_flicka14
@dinkin_flicka14 3 года назад
I was so bad at math that I barely managed to pass. I was pretty good at history and languages.
@maurivanhanen9208
@maurivanhanen9208 3 года назад
I was and can be good at math, but it's not something I'm naturally interested in, so I'm rusty as hell.
@denisehall5145
@denisehall5145 5 лет назад
Hi. I scored 49 out of 50 for INFJ. The only one I was not sure about was kinaesthetic. I love dancing but struggle initially with learning and memorising the sequence of steps. Thank you.
@tyogafitness6071
@tyogafitness6071 5 лет назад
so me as well ;)
@VilkanVisions
@VilkanVisions 5 лет назад
I'm infj dancer and to learn moves I repeat them milion times :D
@isabelle1976
@isabelle1976 5 лет назад
Mee too. Can hurt myself by tripping over non moving objects and be very clumsy ... But i love dancing. I don't feel like it is such a paradox as i experience dancing more like an emotional internally oriented experience. It's receiving and merging with the energy and waves of the music, resonating with it. Completely intimate and intuitive. Goes better with improvisation for me then with a stereotyped, fixed, learned sequence of steps, which is valueless for me. And i don't have such a great memory ... especially for things i'm not interested in, so, forget it with the learnt choregraphy !😋
@mastervision5902
@mastervision5902 4 года назад
Yes, I am actually much more agile and graceful in my movements than what I suppose an INFJ should be. Of course, I have been told I take after my grandfather and great grandfather, who were dancers at some point, and I also took martial arts as a kid which has helped A LOT in terms of my agility, flexibility, and reflexes. I am, though, a big klutz when I'm in a hurry.
@fortuneh1851
@fortuneh1851 4 года назад
You’re not an IFNJ if you love to dance in public
@mightymouse1005
@mightymouse1005 4 года назад
I've been told I'm TOO DEEP emotionally and intellectually
@malcomlittle251
@malcomlittle251 4 года назад
Feel your pain
@jamielynns6825
@jamielynns6825 4 года назад
The board games one 😂 I’ve always been terrible at them, it just doesn’t keep my attention.
@toxendon
@toxendon 3 года назад
Same!!! And I always felt bad for it! But now I know why!
@prathampokhrel8944
@prathampokhrel8944 3 года назад
I am actually really good at chess, but except for that I am not good. I am strategist infj xD
@peridotflower02
@peridotflower02 5 лет назад
As an empath I just discovered that I am also an INFJ as well. I really do appreciate this soul searching journey. You can learn so much about yourself
@user-wf8do7uf8v
@user-wf8do7uf8v 2 года назад
I'm constantly questioning whether I'm an INFJ or not, people calling us literal unicorns and super humans made me feel really sceptical about it. And also the rarity. But after watching some of your videos, and after paying attention to your behaviour in this video and myself really relating to it, I'm more positive that I'm an INFJ.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 2 года назад
Great to hear :)
@chaoticbreeze6262
@chaoticbreeze6262 4 года назад
I've watched this video of yours a few times before and twice today. Whenever I watch, it feels so enlightening. I tend to change my personality around different sorts of people that each of them would describe me in incorrect ways or just generalize me as sweet. Despite knowing a lot of people, there's rarely even a chance that they know me truly. Even my parents say that I'm so complicated and have so many layers that it shocks them at times. It would just freak me out when I've met strangers talking about their own life in general or when people will start sharing their deepest secrets after talking to me for only a few days or a week. Still I couldn't share easily. I switch off my phone or keep my wifi off so that I stay away from my friends for a while, without hurting them so that they don't know I'm detaching. Sometimes, it feels sad that why am I the way I am? Why I don't have a true "best friend"? I never thought there is something called as an logical feeler until I dug deeper into INFJs. Thank you so much for the insight!
@neonchild
@neonchild 4 года назад
This was so accurate I wanted to cry because of all the “good traits” mentioned but also of the pains we feel.
@marcywolters6402
@marcywolters6402 4 года назад
I'm 58. I've only just now seen 3 different people on here talking about this. I'm hearing my life. Totally tripped over here and suddenly this familiar knowing comes into my tube feed. So explains everything to me. Wowed. Thanks
@zulinhl
@zulinhl 4 года назад
i remember that time at a class when we "open up" about describing ourselves and i said that I was (I'm) different at home, with my friends, at school ,etc, and someone looked at me weird and said "isnt that a disorder?" i really thought that, that was something completly normal that everybody acted different according to the situation.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 4 года назад
Not a disorder at all, just being INFJ ;P
@TheBakingSlave
@TheBakingSlave 5 лет назад
This is such an endearing video, not just the way you describe the "50 signs", but your facial expressions and lightheartedness :-).
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Aw, thanks so much! I appreciate that a lot :)
@TheBakingSlave
@TheBakingSlave 5 лет назад
@@RensRoom No problem :-), as an INFJ, I wish this video would have been around when I was a kid or teen because I wouldn't have felt so alone. You are one of the few INFJ's I connect with (I know I don't know you obviously, but I just mean in the way you would connect with anyone you watch on TV or RU-vid). You just seem so kind (from your videos) and really knowledgeable. Being an INFJ can be so hard at times, especially the empathy. I get so overwhelmed at times and its nice to know that there are others feeling the same types of things. It's so funny because the "feeling" you get from people is such an INFJ thing and I get such a "kind soul" feeling from you when I watch your videos :-). Anyway, thank you for posting, just discovered your channel and I really like it.
@slayer22452000
@slayer22452000 5 лет назад
lord ! i feel so naked listening to this man, he's reading me like a book !!!
@aleee3089
@aleee3089 5 лет назад
INFJ here with a big fat soft spot for my lovely INTP
@heleneroberge2934
@heleneroberge2934 4 года назад
Merci I am french ....I just learn that I'm a INFJ six months ago and I have 58 years old...what a shock for me I tried to be like others sibling in my family but the 6 of them we are 7 all reject me and but me in a aslum and the psychiatric Said a have a big depress after they said I was bipolaire and medication so high for 12 years....but I was so slown my friends for 35 years reject me too 😔 but the good news is I'm positive person and all my backgroung expérience help me a lot to keep going...I'm alone with Molly (German Sheppard 1.4 years old Rescue humanitary and Jules( Taby coffee 14 years) and Taffy (Taby black and withe 2 years old rescue humanitary) ma family...😊😻😻🐶♥️. I never meet others person like me I think is because I stay in Québec (Canada) and they don't know a lot about gifted person, MBTI and others...they always said that I'm "folle" but I know I'm not and your vidéo make me cry because I feel so alone and you help me...A big hug to you and thank you to share...you are a sunshine in the rain here this morning (9h30am) Regard's and have a lovely day 🤗☀️♥️
@tylerrowley5827
@tylerrowley5827 2 года назад
Thank you so much. I've spent my life thinking I was an INTJ who couldn't manage to be himself (lol), due to taking these tests over a decade ago. When I took them recently and got INFJ, it was like a lightbulb went off. I had been striving against my feelings for a very, very long time, trying to out-think myself in order to fit the shape others seemed to want for me, but that's a long story. Watching this video was truly like a religious experience. I'm well on my way to getting comfortable with arranging my life in a way that allows me to give what I can to the people I can, when I can. And staying away like a hermit the rest of the time, lol! Thank you!
@yokahudivine4746
@yokahudivine4746 5 лет назад
OMG! Found your channel today. I learned I was an empath/HSP 4 years ago. Before then, I had struggled with depression and feeling like i was always tired for almost 9 years. Learning that I was a male empath helped me in so many ways. The biggest being that I learned to protect my energy and know when I needed to recharge. I'd sometimes hide from the world when I felt burnt out. I could never explain why. I revisited the Briggs-Meyer test because I hadn't done it since high school, and mine came up as INFJ. So glad I found your channel :) I've felt alone for years. I've always felt like the outsider where ever I go, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy because I thought my sensitivity made me weak and less masculine. Anyway, thank you for your vids. I am so happy to read the experiences of others, and to see that there are other men out there who have had similar internal struggles.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Thanks for sharing this and I hope you stick around, Yokahu! :)
@CianMcCarthyMusic
@CianMcCarthyMusic 5 лет назад
"Stupid game!!" exclaimed Cian in anger, flipping over the Monopoly.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Hahaha this rings a bell, Cian! Have you been well?
@asmanidaulhaq8601
@asmanidaulhaq8601 5 лет назад
Soft spot for INTPs, damn that's accurate for me 😂
@AliceDont888
@AliceDont888 4 года назад
"And I am you and what I see is me."
@notevennelson
@notevennelson 5 лет назад
You got it spot on my man. Obviously not all infjs are the same but 48 of those things, I can relate😅😅
@elizabethcameron5763
@elizabethcameron5763 5 лет назад
Board games can be fun. They are also a form of small talk. I find small talk maddening and boring. The question invariably pops up for me; "Why are we playing this game? To what end?" I really don't care if I win or lose. I am too busy watching the other players and wondering what is going on with them. Of course, I make a bunch of goofball mistakes because my mind is somewhere else. I really dont care! Great video. Good stuff!
@karlosrosales155
@karlosrosales155 5 лет назад
"Traveling in your head" My Instagram bio literally says "Always mentally in transit" 😂😂😂
@corinnaauxtero6920
@corinnaauxtero6920 5 лет назад
This is the most accurate description, I have ever come across. I was laughing and crying at the same time! Thank you so much! Btw - it really was an INFP who taught me my taste in music
@elisaw8367
@elisaw8367 5 лет назад
Loved it, Ren. This is a great list. Funny, entertaining yet deep and stimulating with a poetic touch... very INFJ-ish.
@dinkin_flicka14
@dinkin_flicka14 3 года назад
You know you're an INFJ when you're smiling throughout the video. :)
@kurumbudel
@kurumbudel 4 года назад
Almost spot on, but I don't get religiously excited if I find another INFJ.. because my Mom is an INFJ, and I meet her everyday :-D And we talk about various deep topics, my Mom can even understand if I talk about Artificial Intelligence :-D
@melodywithawhy
@melodywithawhy 5 лет назад
This is all quite accurate to me personally, I smiled throughout the whole video. It’s so wonderful to know others feel and go through similar things. Comforting. Thanks Ren!
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
You’re welcome, mell :-)
@kurtking8452
@kurtking8452 4 года назад
The first one is the bomb. I always asked myself that question. As I mentioned before, you have hit the nail on the head with these descriptions. I will definitely listen to more of what you have to say.
@Emma-vn8sq
@Emma-vn8sq 4 года назад
I lowkey feel like you entered my mind and observed me and just figured out all of my secrets and personality
@timw9730
@timw9730 4 года назад
Aha! Now I know like I know I am an INFJ! Thanks Ren for this video. I got a boost after a rough morning and I appreciate your humor along with some of the comments that were fun to read. The "I don't need people yet I do need people" hit the nail on the head for me.
@45Seconds2Mars
@45Seconds2Mars 5 лет назад
If I had any doubts before, I don't now. Lol
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Glad I settled this for you ;) How have you been?
@45Seconds2Mars
@45Seconds2Mars 5 лет назад
@@RensRoom I'm doing ok. Just been in introvert mode and analytical thoughts. I keep forgetting to mention to you that you might want to check out Tod Desmond's youtube channel. Think he is or was a philosophy teacher in US. He incorporates philosophy, Jung, and some physics. I've only watched a few of his vids (Jung Near Death Experience) so far. Thought you might be interested in it.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 4 года назад
Brilliant, can relate to most of the above, especially the one about not needing as well as needing others. I find I struggle to think quickly enough when interacting with people, with consequences of not being properly understood.
@lowellmiller6663
@lowellmiller6663 3 года назад
That was great! You know you're infj when you play news and educational videos at 1.5 or 2 speed to save time and get to the point faster... while reading comments.
@jennahudson3420
@jennahudson3420 4 года назад
INTJ mom here! My son is an INFJ. This is most definitely him... and we usually get along lol
@davidregi7571
@davidregi7571 4 года назад
As an infj ,he probably is going to be very sensitive....
@kimberliebyington5245
@kimberliebyington5245 5 лет назад
Wow yes exactly! I call myself a conundrum because I I love 2 things that most would consider complete opposites (metal & country) but recently a friend of mine told ME I was more of an enigma.
@TukaSlave
@TukaSlave 5 лет назад
Add in opera and prog rock, and those are my tastes as well. I escape into music, I have a huge collection, and lots of headphones. I turn my phone off a lot.
@LordHarv
@LordHarv 4 года назад
I mean, I have Flatt and Scruggs and Gojira on the same playlist
@sarawardian4232
@sarawardian4232 5 лет назад
:O I don't know if this feeling of being floored by how accurate these INFJ videos will ever go away. So trippy!
@jocedeserai4204
@jocedeserai4204 5 лет назад
I wonder if we could hav an infj chatgroup like can u imagine like 5 8 infj types all talking in a chat group does one exist, we need this
@rctempleton9711
@rctempleton9711 3 года назад
you know your infj when people push you sometimes for years and when you finally rage you have a guilty feeling in the pit of your stomach afterwards because you know how bad you hurt them
@billywong7775
@billywong7775 4 года назад
While watching many many INFJ videos I came across a comment commenting that how the rarest personality type has all the people admitting that they are INFJs in the comments. I think that still is true that INFJs are rarest and all those who comment they were INFJs are real INFJ. As an INFJ we are naturally inclined to search for answers, so we enjoy activities such as philosophical and psychological videos including videos like these. Videos that usually not famous among the ESTP or other personalities. So yes INFJs tend to binge watch RU-vid videos. Isn't life all about healing others and finding yourself :) Great content
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 4 года назад
Thanks Billy, I think your observation is exactly right.
@kangkankrishnasarmapegu7789
@kangkankrishnasarmapegu7789 4 года назад
I think m an INFJ for sure now. My humor is not PC but revealed in trustworthy circles, meeting another person like me is a religious experience almost made for a grander purpose, never would trade off my emotions no matter how logical i am because i know somethings cant be explained by logic, anybody who knows me knows i completely shut off but when in group i seem extroverted, i morph my personality to best fit the vibes in the room, i know m good in debates but i also care to see others are not offended or see their point is definitely heard coz they have a wisdom to share too although i know m not the best debator, constantly searching for my purpose and how to best serve society, anybody who knows me knows i genuinely care for people and have difficulty saying no, i deeply relate to intps, entps and intjs. And yes i got a lot of enfp friends. I know am an INFJ. i thought i was an INTP, but i just know i read people too well and what they are all about, sometimes even knowing the ways to manipulate them but never for bad intentions, i see the potential for good in every human being, i like depth, philosophy, good in math, but most importantly i see that most of my thoughts are always images, or about humanity and its well being. I know for sure now INFJ. i havent doorslammed anyone. But i know if anybody betrays m never placing my trust on them ever again. I will still be cordial but will never ever give them back that trust ever. Its done forever...i might even fantasise about killing then in my dreams but dont worry i got sadistic thoughts only in dreams. I am too nice to ever want something this bad for anyone in reality even for my enemies. And no i dont have enemies. I will say i only tough teachers. They are all teachers for our personal development.
@candacen7779
@candacen7779 5 лет назад
Great list! I identified with most of them except the ones about being friends with a certain MBTI type or being drawn to a certain type. I don't really make an effort to type other people, so I can't say for certain that's true about me. Also, at 4:42 Ha! Actually, I would say I'd win more debates if I didn't care about the *other* person's skin being too thin. I'd be able to shut down so many arguments so much more quickly if I were more ruthless and didn't care if the other person hated me for the rest of their lives. So I also toe the line. I'm not sure I understood the music choice one at 5:55 either because I don't know what INFP music tastes are like. Unless it's simply believing that great music has no single category, and you can find it across multiple genres. Thanks for this list though! It was quite illuminating. :-)
@mightymouse1005
@mightymouse1005 4 года назад
If you know what someone is going to say before they say it....feel what others feel and think
@tombain5665
@tombain5665 2 года назад
Number 51 you know you are an INFJ when you need to keep your ego in check, when your accurate predictions prove right time and time again.
@suzannescott3478
@suzannescott3478 5 лет назад
I am an INFJ and totally relate to all of these comments. Thank you!
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
Glad to hear it, Suzanne!
@robvenom1058
@robvenom1058 3 года назад
That confidence thing was so true
@hope-9475
@hope-9475 3 года назад
“You were never seen as the best, but you think your the best in some domains” on point fr
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 3 года назад
Thanks :)
@ACRINFJ
@ACRINFJ 4 года назад
As an INJF I don't really say this much but you're the only INFJ on YouTUbe who really gets what its like to be an INFJ
@phillipmann8863
@phillipmann8863 5 лет назад
I've never liked board games, although I decided to get into it to make others happy.
@Mark-te2ny
@Mark-te2ny 4 года назад
Thank you fellow INFJ. I have felt a sense of displacement until now.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 3 года назад
When you have dreams which make no sense. When you want to make everything better. When you occasionally get anxious but you don’t know why.
@minakadri9717
@minakadri9717 4 года назад
What a miracle it is to me to FINALY KNOW im not alone😲❤🙏😊 it amazes me how i shouted "YES EXACTLY!" to literally all the 50 examples you mentioned! i had never heard of these terms like INFJ and so on before so thank you so much for sharing 😊👍😁🙌🤗
@sara.the.muggle
@sara.the.muggle 2 года назад
My Enfj husband is far more approachable than I am. It's such a relief when he is around because he can give them so much more help and energy. My energy is often very low. It's probably because I'm taking in so much of his energy 😅 Exhausting, but he's amazing.
@SteubeMan
@SteubeMan 4 года назад
wow i can't believe that all 50 of these actually fit me (almost brought a tear to my eye), even not being good at strategy and board games and having the musical tastes of an INFP but only when informed by an INFP. And then there's the turning on of airplane mode on my phone to quiet the outside world for a bit (though technically I put it on Do Not Disturb).
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 года назад
You are INFJ when you spend more time to read all the comments under a video about INFJ.
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 3 года назад
Haha. True.
@tsenjin7903
@tsenjin7903 5 лет назад
Am i the only one who really really doesn't like the "advocate" label ? (to be fair, i'm not sure "mentor" and "counselor" are much better...)
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 5 лет назад
No it’s pretty silly, I agree. It was useful in that video because it allowed me not to repeat “INFJ” 50 times ;P
@tsenjin7903
@tsenjin7903 5 лет назад
@@RensRoom Haha, fair enough^^
@TK-kf8zc
@TK-kf8zc 3 года назад
Agree, we are mostly in our head, only 'advocating' a small percent of the time.
@Lovesloyalty1429
@Lovesloyalty1429 4 месяца назад
I am an INFJ poet! I have always wondered why I kinda stink at strategy games.
@Prohortico
@Prohortico 5 лет назад
I didn’t realize that board games and kinaesthetic activities were something many INFJ’s were bad at... I grew up as a gymnast and was very good at individual sports my whole life.... but as an eight year old, I’d be driving to practice with my mom and listening to Dr. Laura talk radio (psychologist who helped people solve their issues)- and actually liked it:| I didn’t realize how weird/INFJ that was until I was much older and realized everyone else hated any kind of talk radio at such a young (or any age)... especially psychology based talk shows. Funny learning about this stuff, then looking back on my life!
@gtgrandom
@gtgrandom 4 года назад
I mean they're all incredibly accurate, but the school subject one I haven't heard often, and it's seriously On Point (TM).
@ariscruz6170
@ariscruz6170 4 года назад
When he talk about INFPs and the songs I really felt that.😂
@yem1122
@yem1122 3 года назад
I’m a bit late but here it goes idk if there’s anyone here who relates to me as an INFJ : I can stay quiet for a very long time just observing people and wandering about them , I’m interested in people and their life stories but not all people for example ;shallow people I hate interacting with them and I just can’t be friends with them Most people always think I’m shy or arrogant before even getting to know and they don’t see past that If I like something I dig too deep into it but then suddenly I loose interest in it In friendships , relationships or whatever I give it all or nothing I’m too polite or kind people think I’m naive but I notice everything I just play it dumb I’m sensitive but I can be very cold in some situations I can come acorss as fake to so many people because I act in a certain way in front of different people it just comes out I can’t control which may sound like I’m hypocrite Some people think they know me but they just know the surface I wrote all of this and I want to press discard so badly :)
@Книжкаукровати
@Книжкаукровати 5 лет назад
4:42 omg so much pain in this words😜
@mandi.303
@mandi.303 4 года назад
So true! Plus when you decide whether to even comment and involve yourself in a debate depending on your energy and emotional levels, because you know how draining it is.
@maryjomorrison9462
@maryjomorrison9462 5 лет назад
I feel so compelled to answer because just about every point, pointed to me, even being terrible at board games or strategy games, also I have no sense of rhythm and have no manual dexterity. Finally feeling like I’m not the only “stumble bum”.
@margolianteberuthiel5405
@margolianteberuthiel5405 3 года назад
INFJs in society: 0,5 % INFJs on the internet: 98%
@RensRoom
@RensRoom 3 года назад
Mistyping is real, lol.
@alissa9420
@alissa9420 4 года назад
Because of all of the comments about mistyped INFJs that float around the Internet all the time, I always doubt whether I actually am one. I don't think I'm doubting anymore. I felt so called out by this 😂
@fallenrisen
@fallenrisen 5 лет назад
I’m an INFJ and a Cancer
@fawwazroslan6072
@fawwazroslan6072 4 года назад
48 are correct for me :D The 2 which I cannot relate are : 1) ''When most of your friends are ENFP ''.. I m comfortable with all N's but compared to other N's I always feel ''awkward'' with ENFP . Nothing wrong with ENFP, they are lovely people but I believe it's because INFJ & ENFP have opposite cognitive functions even though the priority is same. The thought process can be pretty different ( Ti-Fe for INFJ, Te-Fi for ENFP ), lifestyle can be different due to Ni-Se vs Ne-Si , etc. I'd say INFJ can click way easier with xNFJ /xNTP primarily because of similar thought patterns ( Ti-Fe ) , while ENFP can click way easier with xNFP/ xNTJ due to comparable Te-Fi thought patterns 2) ''INFP suggesting music for INFJ'' Hmm.. from what I observed, INFJ tend to love moderate to upbeat type of music ( something to do with Fe-Se I believe ). INFP ( and ENFP ) from what I observe tend to prefer sentimental/ slower type of music ( Fi-Si ). I'd say INFJ are close to INTP when it comes to choice of music :) Thanks Ren for the great video :D
@chaoticbreeze6262
@chaoticbreeze6262 3 года назад
I agree with you on music taste. It depends on the mood but usually I like upbeat and kinda catchy songs too. Since music is a sensory stimulation, it must be involving our Se even though it's inferior.
@CubanFireball81
@CubanFireball81 4 года назад
When you don't need people but you need people.... YES! I distance myself from others and wear many masks depending on who I am dealing with. At the end of the day, I am alone and feel like I am abandoned yet I don't want to be overly bothered.
@mandi.303
@mandi.303 4 года назад
My mind is blown right now. I'm just learning about this and wasn't sure if my typing was correct. I can't explain my emotions watching this, and how comforting and relieving it is to understand that there are people who understand me. I cried watching this. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm not sure I'm questioning anything anymore. Thank you very much for such a comprehensive list of traits. I appreciate it.
@joyousprairies9313
@joyousprairies9313 4 года назад
A lot of list made me laugh Not because it was funny, well some was, but it was so true, so close to the heart. Thank you
@MissAnonymous21x
@MissAnonymous21x 4 года назад
You are so wierdly 200 percent accurate I mean just wow! This is not a normal response from me. You are seriously amazing ☺️
@evarishalawail2348
@evarishalawail2348 5 лет назад
I always do that , putting my phone in an airplane mode.
@Sariine436
@Sariine436 4 года назад
I did so my dad wouldn't call me .... He got mad.. now I feel bad..
@kgkoman520
@kgkoman520 5 лет назад
I totally agree 👍 ud swear that u can predict people's moves nd yes profound studying people is my thing, the advice part spot on. I guess it takes a sense of acknowledging ones thought process nd feeling to be this kind of personality trait. No wonder its a rare form. Thank you for this insight it has really helped me understand new things
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