On Point 1 I'd even add that guys just really forget women are humans too, this leads to put them on a pedestal, a creature to behold, which complicates things even further.
Wow. Just wow. I want to do this. I want to. I will push myself to go for this and it doesn’t matter if I fail miserably, it is fun and I have to commit to this to reach my dreams. And this not only applies to girls, but to my music carreer too. Thanks, Damien.
honestly, I find a lot that when I watch most of your videos; a lot of the concepts and ideas can be applied to other hobbies and different aspects of life. really cool to see, keep up the amazing work
On e you hit a certain age, having single guy friends is very difficult. Plus, guys tend to lose friends as they get older. It’s not like being 25 and having a crew of 10 consistent guys.
Agreed. I did find one on The Lair site, eventually. I went out once and then decided I'd rather be single. Now I'm working on starting an Export business and planning to date overseas once I'm established, or at least going forward. And it's true - I fear rejection, I have no friends, I've never cold-approached a woman in my life. I've also been married and don't want that shit to happen ever again. And women, in Australia - just do not appeal to me. Put all this together and I'm not a convincing fake. It sucks to be alone but there are myriad options to work on yourself. I will add: if what I'm doing doesn't work, then I will start taking this dating/approaching shit seriously cos that's the last resort and I strongly believe it should be for every man.
Man you got me with point 1, I discovered I'm autistic (High functioning) last year, I've improved my social skills a lot but I've been facing so much rejection from girls that sometimes I find it hard to continue (and I can't go to clubs/discos since covid). I've been seeing lots of girls but they always reject me 1 or 2 months in, and they always are the "want to go slow" kind of girl so we don't even get to have sex
Social skill is nothing if there's still so many insecurity in the man, he should fix the insecurity in the first place. Because if your mindset is fucked up and you have poor self image, woman can feel your energy. Period
What do you suggest doing or practising when you are struggling to “fail big”? Somehow I developed these brakes inside my brain telling me I just can’t afford to fail big. Any suggestions?
My best tip in the clubs = dont talk to the girls, just approach them smile to them and look them in the eyes.. as you come closer and she answers you with glance, just kiss her ! easy , done it several times. Have to bee in the right mode. U cant even speak in the clubs, to high volume. Talking in pubs clubs just waist of time, go to a dinner place or cafeteria or super market.
When you say go out every Friday or Saturday, do you mean go to bars or clubs? What if you got a group of guys and said, let's go to the city and approach women. Wouldn't that be also a form of practicing if you do it every week a couple times a week?
Hello I'm trying to improve. But first I'm overweight and lack social skills. Recently I'm starting to exercise and eat better. The lacking of social skills is just with women. I kind talk to friends just fine but kind of freeze up and talk formally to all women. Them being girlfriends of friends, or people I casually know. I've read some of the book but only got to the point of the squire where you should develop yourself. So should I try and be willing to try for a month on my self improvement? Like one video says? Should my Step one be able to consistently eat healthy and work out?
Hey Eddie, keep working on yourself because taking car of your health will have a bit impact on your mental state too - Don't try to 'improve' too many things at once as that can get overwhelming, if you're focused on health and fitness now, stick with that for a little while, then tackle something new like social skills with women
Well you gotta make some new single friends! heh, that's the thing that sucks being single when you're older, is that you gotta make new single friends
ok no. school of attraction is right make new friends in general. but really, go out by yourself. it can be awkward at first. but your friends aren't gonna be there when you see that cute girl at walmart. so you need to learn how to improve whether your by yourself
I must thank you to let me know it won't ever happen to me. Now have you any advice for chosing a prostitute ? I will book that for my 30'st birthday in 5 years and then be alone for the 40ish years that'll remain.
