6 HARSH Truths about WOMEN, Men Learn TOO Late 

It's an intricate part of your life. I walked away from love and romance when I was 23. Romance is/was a waist of time and money, and I'm not about to become a jerk just because women don't appreciate nice guys. Nothing sounds like simping more to me then changing your entire personality to impress a chick.

I hope this inspires you: It is true that most of the women today have huge and unrealistic standards for men. I was the same as most of you: lost, unsure, feeling useless, was about to give up on life. Some people might say "you don't need a woman, focus on yourself". That's not 100% true, at a point you will need. Even if you fail multiple times don't give up. Eren Yeager once said "no matter what happens, I will move forward". This quote must be applied everywhere. Me for example had a LOT of fails and I was about to give up completely, but one day I found a girl that I could easly figure out that she is perfect for me and I used all my energy to get her heart and succeeded. Don't give up brothers you can all do it, just keep moving forward!

@@questionabletheory59 If I wanted to read a novel I have pleanty at home. If you can't say it in a few lines then you're not trying to convince others you're trting to convince yourself.

how Long does this deal last

@@RedPilled792 Forever, I'm never going back.

Not all women have the same standards

Although you're right to a degree, remember, the obstacle becomes the way.

Most women think there are professional models just cause for a couple of likes!! In social media, and start to believe there celebrities and there nobody with nooooo!!, credentials of modeling with big powerhouses like hugo Boss, victoria Secrets, Chanel, Armani, etc etc!!

@@GeneralKatarnBingo 🎯

Stop whining. Hit the gym and make bank.

@@Sam-um2wc be respectful

Huh??

thats 21 savage not ur psychologist bud.

Which is why you have to maintain your own path. You don't compromise to go on hers. And if you have the same path, she has to put the same effort in as you.

@@ubaida4254 😂 FACTS!

She need psycologist .. Mr. Right 😂

Take a coach

My advice for you is create a lot of options for yourself with women. Don’t focus too much on just 1 woman and don’t be too desperate. It’s hard to do and don’t open too much about your personal problems in life, leave some mystery about yourself. The way women are now days you aren’t missing anything at all. No drama, high blood pressure, her trying to control you, play games, make you go broke, pick fights with you, sound familiar. Whatever you do never ever ever ever get married. I don’t care how great she seems. Date her, live with her, sex etc sure but if you ever breakup you saved yourself a lot of money, and a lot of psychological damage and then you move onto the next woman.

You guys need to understand it’s a numbers game plus every state is different, very different with women. Seriously women in Texas are not the same as women in Oregon lol. But they all have one thing in common they all bought into the mindset of toxic feminism. It’s not hard to figure out what works for you. If you talk a lot and can’t get a woman, quit talking too much. If you let a woman blab away and you land her well their you go.

Dude you are making your whole life about women. Did your really say if you had a woman you wouldn’t be depressed? Find a purpose outside of women dude. A woman is there 2 assist you along the journey not be the focus of your journey. Making her the focus will cause you to lose her quick!

fax

💯

Had to screenshot and save this, basically described exactly what I feel as a 21yo engineering student who’s been grinding the gym for over 5yrs. It does feel bad to see guys who don’t “deserve” it (as in they don’t work hard, educate themselves or do any physical training) get 10x the amount of women I am getting. I have been relying too much on working on myself and basically waiting for girls to come to me when that’s not how the real world functions, and we need to make the effort to put ourselves out there and stop waiting for miracles to come to us dating wise.

​@@java8569 Appreciate the comment man. I've been out of college for a bit now but the key is to remember that we're all capping a bit (both men and women). It's a strange cycle of guys trying to downgrade their effort into how much energy they're putting into dating (relative to results) and presenting our social insecurities as "strength and magnetic confidence that will radiate and attract the right ones". Conversely, women (particularly in our demographic) either have unrealistic expectations or only go for a very niche type of guy with very specific physical or financial attributes. Yes, while you will almost certainly gain more attention with the right mindset and habits (physique, intelligence, and social prowess), the groundwork has merely been laid for you to ATTEMPT to put in work. At the same time, it's also important to note that you can only get to such a level at each of these before continuing to put in work yields more results (a series of diminishing returns). For example, after a few years of going to the gym properly and dialing in fitness, you'll look "fit and athletic" (ripped, buff, jacked, whatever, etc...). The average person/girl (unless they're tremendously into fitness themselves or working in the field of sports or athletics), however, will kind of tune out after fit or ripped and thus, well, that excuse that you're "waiting to be in the best shape" doesn't cut it anymore. Obviously you can always get better, but there's a point (relatively early on after a few years) where you achieve, reach, and exceed the conventional bar of "okay, this guy is fit and athletic enough to be considered a dating contender". The hard truth we all have to accept as men is that: yes, if you happen to be extremely good-looking naturally and/or tall, that minimum bar is pre-cleared AND you will receive way more leeway to mess up, even if no prior work was done. That's not fair, but it's not everything. This is just the way it works and has always been. All that being said, I would wager that, like the video outlines, the key is to be honest with all of these factors and utilize all of these truisms about attraction and dating and use them to better our communications with one another rather than weaponizing and blaming each other (be it men versus men or blaming women). So, in conclusion: yes, "maxing yourself out" and focusing on self improvement is great and necessary to have a solid life in general. Simultaneously (and this is the part that many similar camps of thought and "self-help" manosphere videos lack), we have to remember that dating is a game, and when you deal with the right kind of women, you can minimize the bullshit and cut straight to genuine connection.

Nailed it.

​@@bombda430 Absolutely man and totally in same boat with the making the first move thing and keeping that organic tension up haha. Funny how the physique thing is coming up a lot in these responses too. Personally, I think the most immediate benefit of being a gym rat has been a higher frequency of some eye contact and some overt comments about "muscles" or "being very fit". This whole era of advertising insecurity and inexperience as "magnetic confidence and pure investment in oneself" is something I've wrestled with myself and have been recently come to terms with the fact that I was using this as an excuse too and not "above" it. Again, at least in my experience, the good physique and demonstrated discipline simply prolongs that window of making a good impression, and slightly buffers up your fuck up threshold. Contrary to popular belief, in my opinion, it's not some MASSIVE advantage when it comes to commanding that frame and building that chemistry off the bat.

Nope they kill masculine energy

While I agree this can happen, if the man hasn't successfully achieved women on a romantic level, having those friendships won't help him majority of the time. He'd spend most of the friendship hoping it changes, instead of utilizing them in this way

I agree. Women want what they can’t get. Wear a wedding ring next time you go out.

What if im completly lost interest in woman? And want to have peace and just drive bike and cars

@@martinmucha8074 if you’ve lost interest in women, you prolly need to think about what made you go into that mentality mindset. We as men are biologically hardwired to be interested in woman. Why not enjoy riding your bike and also work on your dating life? It’s just like any other challenge. The more you do, the better you become, the easier it gets

​@@martinmucha8074if you've completely lost interest in women, you're probably gay.

It's also the case with me. I'm a very social guy but I don't find majority of women attractive and some of my female friends secretly dislike me becouse I never made a move to hook up with them

what u need help on bro

By now its almost like a routine for me to skip the reoccuring promo to get back to the valuable content:D

Not helpful if your trying to have children and a family.

@@blackmamba7775 too late in history for that

Redpill is feminism for men

​@@blackmamba7775Only try for having children if you are rich. Life will become brutal for the next generation. Way worse than us

That's stupid, ya let me just take myself out of the gene pool because I'm not rich. It's not impossible to raise children and have them be good members of society just because you're at a disadvantage. Quitters.

You dont believe in stastistics and probalities?

Let me tell you something. All you need is to talk to random people. Engage in a simple conversation just ask one question and then move on with your day. Everyday you’ll build this up and eventually you’ll start to pick up the society way of having engaged conversations with strangers and once you level this ability you’ll be a smooth talker to any one you meet (including women) and now you’ll have to build up a new skill. Use that skill and stack it with other skills that will allow you to kiss a girl. Trust me, the process may seem stupid build but everything will fall into place.

Im 27 in same situation.@xxx

I’m 18