6 Signs Someone is Secretly Jealous of You 

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1)They constantly compete with you 2)They undermine your success 3)They gossip about you 4)They give false compliments 5)They are overly attached to you 6)They are a copycat My pleasure😊

Honestly, I am the one who is always jealous. Nobody is jealous of me.

I think there's one more: they focus a lot on your mistakes

"They minimise your accomplishments because they don't have any of their own" - BURRRN 😂

Sign 1: They always ask for your Diamond Armor in Minecraft

“Have you ever wondered if a compliment is genuine” Welcome to anxiety. The exit is nonexistent :( (This is just my experience living with anxiety, so I get if it’s not the same for others)

I can't be the only who came here to check that THEY'RE not the jealous one-

I had a 'friend' like this. Which was crazy, because she was far more pretty and more accomplished than me. But, if I ever had some form of light in looks or accomplishment, she hated it. She wanted/wants me as low down as possible. It took me a long time to realise this, but she isn't my friend anymore.

This is what I got from the video: 1. Your friend constantly competes with you. - You feel tension whenever you perform better than them - Friends should SUPPORT, not COMPETE 2. They undermine your success - Are they genuinely happy? - Jealous friends will downplay your achievements for their own satisfaction 3. They gossip about you - They try to ruin your reputation and put you in a negative light - They also exaggerate about themselves and make themselves look better - Again, this is all for their self-interest 4. They give false compliments - They pretend to be friends with you and give you false compliments 5. They're overly attached to you - Not ALL jealous people are angry or similar to the above four points - Someone might try to get your attention a lot, this may mean that they are envious of you and want to "steal" what you have 6. They're a copycat - They copy you because they're jealous of you

I used to be friends with people who did ALL of these things. It's interesting to find out that jealously was at the root of their poor behaviour. My life improved SO much when I cut those people out!

I thought nobody was jealous of me before watching the video, but after watching it, I realized that I was thinking right

Someone can be secretly jealous, they don’t always be mean because of it.

You know someone is jealous if they dislike you when you’ve given them no reason to, and they talk about you A LOT

if you are reading this, whoever you are, if somebody is trying to dirty your name it _only_ makes them the filthy ones and they *will not* succeed. today i have cut out a friend group like this... they were saying they were doing all the things they did because they were looking out for me and such, while i kept magically hearing non-existent facts about myself from unrelated people. i started getting strange looks and behaviours from people i didn't know a few weeks ago which kept getting worse and worse, and i swear, i swear, i wouldn't hurt a fly even if i had to. then, the person i trusted the most in that group, who had helped me so much in the past to recover from a painful event, initiated all the gossip. she shared confidential stuff with everyone. i am heartbroken, and the person i had thought loved me doesn't talk to me anymore because they stuffed him up with their lies about me. i feel like i was covered with honey and left in a forest. i feel betrayed, because i was betrayed. i felt liberated at first, then empty inside. if they attack me, i will not let them succeed. i will stay calm, collected, and gentle towards people. i will never resort to gossip the way they did. even sitting at that table every day, listening to them bashing every single person who stepped foot in the school, made me feel dirty. if you have read all this, thank you. if you have anything to say, i would be delighted to read it. ps: if you are the silent one in the friend group, i feel you... you are poetic and i send you love. we can do this because our gentility holds power over them.

"Why is it so hard to make friends, but so easy to lose friends."

I used to do some of these things with people when I was younger. I'm glad I'm growing and learning more and changing. Thx psychtogo🔥💕✨these videos never fail to hit the mark

As hard as it may be to see it that way, it really is a complement 🙃

i dealt with a girl like this, she ALWAYS copied what i like, was ALWAYS attached to me, ALWAYS competing with me over the smallest things and i ended up hating her bc it annoyed me alot. I started distancing myself from her, (but i still keep her around bc i felt bad that she was sheltered and had no one..) she still copies all my interests so i never share anything with her. ._.

Another sign might be that they switch the topic to focus or talk about themselves when you're talking about something positive in your life.

"They try to steal your personality for themselves"

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I went to a party (I'm 13) and I was wearing makeup. Throughout the whole night this one "friend" would stare at me but I thought shes looking at my face/ makeup. As the night was drawing to an end all the girls were sitting in a circle talking, when my friend shouts out so everybody can hear "Bracefaceshellz you look like a catfish, usually you look so blick" (Blick is an insult to use against darkskins) I was confused to why she was calling me blick when she was several shades darker than me. I'm not a confrontational problem so I just smiled. This was a bashment party (Caribbean dancing). After I found out she was telling everybody how terrible my whining was and would make snide comments whenever I did, despite the fact I was being complimented about it. We're not friends anymore 🥴

I think the scariest part is when these jealous people fall in love with you. That's when the real trouble starts... speaking from experience.

Jealousy is not something I understand too well, at least not when it comes from other people at me, like they get pissed off at me for seemingly no reason and im like "What the heck did I do wtf? Whats this persons problem!?"

So, I have a friend that's been with me since childhood, and only now I'm starting to notice how jealous she is of me. It got to the point where she gossiped about me to my own boyfriend, and tried to paint me as a bad and selfish person. At first I thought I was exaggerating, but it turned out that she really is toxic and jealous. This video was entirely relatable, and it really breaks my heart.

Definitely watch out for those who can’t seem to give any genuine compliments, but are always quick to embarrass you or make you feel insecure. The undermining and “back-handed compliments” couldn’t be more true. They want to appear “supportive” but really just want to belittle you and again, make you feel insecure.

I always get jealous whenever I see a mom and daughter having an amazing time and getting along cause I dont get along with my mom I called her a toxic mom

Feeling jealous is honestly one of the worst feelings in the world. It makes u feel like you are not good enough and that the person you are jealous of is having the life u would want to have. It’s just complicated

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I just hope we’re surrounded by the right people

Prophet Muhammad SAWW said: *''Beware of jealousy, for verily it destroys good deeds the way fire destroys wood.''*

My mom is like this - she is only happy when I’m doing “bad” - sad

So I'm jealøus of my self-

Jealous people always make me feel uncomfortable, there's a difference between admiring someone's accomplishments and being inspired by them and being jealous. Jealousy is the feeling that you wish you had what they had or that they didn't have what they have because you don't have it, there's a cynical feeling in it and I always worry about showing the happiness in my life to people who are jealous. Usually people who focus on jealousy are only pleased when those around them are doing worse that them, terrible mindset to have and not the kind of person people would want to be friends with. I've struggled a lot through life, like we all have, and I can't trust someone who only sees what I have and not how much I've struggled to get there or all the problems I have in my life which mean that I somewhat deserve that little bit of happiness in a different aspect of my life. Constantly looking to what other people have and not to what you have is a really negative mindset, we all have problems and we all have good things as well, no one's life is better than anyone else's, our life is the best for US because we're the only ones who have lived it and are accustomed to it. So please don't waste your time complaining about other people's 'happy' lives, go out their and make your own. I have no sympathy for those who say their lives are terrible and who spend time being jealous of others instead of investing time and energy into their own lives.

Get rid of jealous friends as soon as possible. They ruin your life and lower your self steam. I spent 2 years with a jealous friend. It's been 8 years now since then, but my feeling still hurt for the things she said to me... All those things in the video are true signs of a jealous (non) friend.

Also anger or hostility that seems to come out of nowhere. Like they're upset about a fight you don't remember having and you wonder what you might've done to upset them? That's how they actually feel about you and the mask they normally wear is slipping.

*me desperately trying to think of something smart and COol*

Another important thing:: They don't congratulate you when you accomplish something good in life

I have no memories of EVER feeling jealous of anyone for anything. I guess I'm lucky I was born without it. I enjoy saying great things to people about their achievements, It helps them feel what they want. Always express happiness for others.

I feel like being a copycat can also be out of admiration, and not out of jealousy. Like a younger sibling copying what an older sibling does.

"They minimize your accomplishs" oh shit, that makes so much sense now. I used to ALWAYS take those words to heart

In addition to jealousy, #3 are characteristics of a narcissist. Narcissists spin malicious gossip and behavior as concern or trying to befriend the victim. They don't want to be exposed for who they really are.

People keep sayin' Why can't you feel jealous of me? Me: I am not interested :/ sorry, we're opposite and I am proud of what I can do :D

I got rid of my jealous friend..yay..I'm so happy..😀 Thankyou so much psych2go...take my heart❤

I feel like some of the points made arent as awful as they make it seem? 1. Competition isn't necessarily a bad thing. In lots of cases, it can be friendly and extremely motivating for both sides. Tension is natural in this setting. I dont think that just because you want to better yourself always means that youre jealous. I dont think its always so personal. 2. Although fake compliments arent the most desired, i feel like lots of us do that on a daily basis. Again, nothing personal, its just some such as myself, would rather avoid the trouble of possibly kicking someone down by telling them what i actually think? Especially if im not that close with them 3. I dont think being attached to someone is a crime. I guess i can see overly-attached as a potential for issues, but idk. I dont see how that directly correlates to jealousy. Or maybe im just a jealous person. Idk. But I dont feel negatively, nor aim for others to feel negatively through the points i mentioned above

This helped me realize that one of my "friends" is actually not my friend at all. She showed all of them especially the clingy thing. :( I do not know how to end my friendship with her! I tried once because of something but then she sort of forced me. :(

There have been two "colleagues" who were jealous of me, although they expressed it differently. One tried dressing like me (my style seriously didn't suit her). The other lied her way into a Phd candidacy after I was offered mine (she was kicked out due to lack of progress and discovery of her fraud). Jealousy holds you back, it gets you nowhere.

OMG. Thanks for this video. I'm currently trying to get away from a jealous childhood friend at the moment. I'm so sick of the jealousy! God bless all genuine people🙏.

i was jealous of my old friend when i first met her, then i stopped, i found myself:-) jealousy doesn't take u anywhere

This is terrifying. I had known a person like this for 8 years. This makes everything clear to me. Thankfully this person is no longer involved in my life. I only found out in college that she was talking behind my back and trying to turn my friends against me. I’m glad the friends I had believed me over her. I was lucky.

Envy is so sneaky and so much more pervasive than people say, because it lives in the shadows. Many people, myself included, feel ashamed of envy and jealousy. But if you’ve ever been in a friend group or relationship where it’s prominent you’ll know how bad it can get. I had a friendship where envy basically broke it. I got so fed up with the competitive antics, hot and cold behaviour, subtle cut downs and imitation of my life that I just said goodbye and didn’t look back 👋

The story of my bad relationship with an ex boyfriend of mine. He was envious of my life and in the end, dumped me for not responding to him when I was busy with my own personal things. These points really paint the picture better for me. Great video as always!

I believe your describing what sounds like pathological narcissism. I have unfortunately dealt with some of that, and it’s a horrible nightmare

My ex best friend would do some of these things. When we were younger it wasn't as bad, but as we got older she got progressively worse. First it was copying me and eventually became trying to compete with me. She'd try to one-up me when it came to my hobbies, like trying to outdo my drawings or when playing sports. It was little petty things like this at first, but once we got to high school she got worse. It seemed like she just plain out didn't like me anymore. By this time we kind of drifted apart, but we still remained friends because we had some mutual friends. She became less genuine and felt two-faced. She was nice to my face, but I could tell she was gossiping about me behind my back. Whenever she started hanging out with the people I did, I started being treated differently, as if they knew something about me that I didn't. This happened EVERY time I made new friend groups. She'd start hanging out with us and eventually I'd have to make a new one. She was like a parasite lol funny how she could never keep friends of her own though. I finally cut her off and it felt so satisfying! I felt so much happier now that I don't have to deal with her toxic behavior anymore!

I feel jealous when some body who I like talking with someone else

When i see my friends seem to be like that, i just put a huge smile on my face and show em that they are far better than me I show em that all that matters is the love i got for them and nothing more.

I can relate so much. I had a friend like this, who I left about two months ago, after four years of him treating me bad.

And this is exactly why I cut the cord with some old “friends”

#5 and #6 sound more like their insecurities. They are signs, yes. They aren't necessarily bad, they're just behaviors that need boundaries. And they are obvious signs that the other person needs more balance in their life and possibly therapy to work on.

Thank you for making this! I recently have gotten more attention on a social media site, and I have a friend who kinda like this and might be Jealous. So thanks! 💖

I mean, as someone who deals with jealousy like it's a disease I cant get rid of, i don't really do the whole talk behind their back and always be with them. I usually beat myself up about it and suffer in the distance. But yeah I heavily did the whole copycat thing and it sucks ass.

I’ve had 2 extremely jealous “friends”. I’m so glad we’ve gone separate ways now 😌

I love this animation, Psych2go is literally the best RU-vid channel for information and Psychology.

It really helps when someone is finally able to GENUINELY accept the failure and imperfection of their lives and make it a point to be critical of their own way before someone else's. I literally do not ever look at someone with malicious envy or unperceptive hatred. I love to see my people succeeding in life and i SINCERELY love it when my close friends find themselves making progress in areas of life they never even thought possible. I wouldn't be able to be at peace if it was the other way around tho

My best friend led up to all of this. Thank you so much for this, now I know how jealous she is.

I feel like there's another important perspective of jealousy too: A friend who suddenly slowly begins to exit out of your life, because they're jealous. I've done this once, because the jealousy showed me how slowly my own life was going, so I couldn't quite bear to communicate with one of my friends anymore. I plan to get better to where I can be close to them again, and to monitor my jealousy, cause I genuinely love them. But I think that's a type of jealousy that can quietly destroy relationships. Someone who is too hurt by their own jealous feelings or who doesn't want to project their jealousy onto their friend, and slowly slips away into the distance. Thank you so much for this video! This helped me finally understand a family member that's been at my throat for the past multiple years.

I've had a best friend who I broke the relationship off a little while ago because, well, she just didn't treat me like a human. Then I realise that it's because she was jealous of me.. everything checked out, she said that she didn't have a crush, but the second I said that I did, she immediately starting "liking" the same guy. She would say that on all of my school projects that, anyone could reach that level of achieving. And of course, she talked about me behind my back. When I would leave for the bus at the end of the day, she would say 'Bye!' and then go to the other girls and say my name like "Holly This" "Holly That". So thanks for the information!

This channel always has the most adorable animations. I’m so here for it

Watching this makes me think of how I acted toward my older brother. He was always better than me at art and can draw something from memory. Whenever he drew something I would undermine his success and would say I can draw just as good, then we would have art competitions. I was just a kid but I feel bad that I discouraged him from art just because I was jealous and angry that my family said he was a better artist than I was.

"They might be minimizing your accomplishments because they don't have any of their own." LMAO THE SHADE I WAS ROLLING

Man, I really like this video! The background music is great, I noticed some of these points apply to my surroundings, the sticker part made me really interested! Thank you for this video Psych2Go!

the competition and copycatting pisses me off so much cause i take pride in knowing myself, knowing what i want and how i want to present myself and they go and try to do the same and a lot of the time get praised for it since they're considered better looking, charismatic and outgoing so in the end no one looks at me and now im the jealous one. its like i can never get out of this.

Isn't it sad when ur mind is like "Nah, my friend isn't like this" but deep down in your heart u relate to this a lot. Don't stay with such kinds of toxic friends. They're just like shadows. They'll follow u in the light but leave u helpless in the dark.

Thanks, now i finally know THAT NO ONE IS JEALOUS OF ME CUZ WHY WOULD THEY BE-

i can relateee :( one of my friend is treat me really bad, she always talk about me, she also copying me a looooot. honestly it’s make me really stressed and tired being in a toxic relationship but it’s just hard to get over it because she always “need” me. pls pray for me y’all :’) ps. sorry my english is really bad lol

The last two points really did it for me. I’ve been entertaining a relationship with a person like this but over the weeks I’ve felt this eerie feeling when we spoke like I’m not safe or I’m facing someone that’s disregulated to the point that it’s unsafe. I have made my boundaries clear one first time and we discussed it, I thought they would make an effort to change for a healthier dynamic. But the day after I was cornered in a spot that I already said made me uncomfortable. The second time I reinforced my boundaries they just ghosted. This is sad but I gotta put me first

Even though we really love and support each other, between my best friend and I, there is an always existing level of jealousy. She seems to feel like I'm better at things than she is, I feel like her body is way better than mine. We are similar, we know that we're jealous of some people, but we try not to be. We both know that jealousy ruins some things and friendships, so we try to push it back and act like we're not jealous. That of course doesn't mean that we constantly do the things listed in this video, but I just notice that at many points throughout the days and weeks and months, she puts herself in front of me, trying to be in the spotlight as much as possible. But that's okay, it's quite annoying sometimes, but I can live with it since everybody has their flaws. I don't blame her, I understand what all of that is about and that she's just insecure. Not saying she's not good at the things she does, but she wasn't born with a great natural talent. (Many people don't have such a talent, which is totally fine, but those many people believe that everybody except them has that talent) She may not have that, but she works hard to achieve her goals and that's the big point, not any great talent. We both don't mind that little jealousy within our friendship, because it still works great and we're a good team! I love her and she loves me, it works out and we support each other, that's what counts! :)

Oh yes I’m gonna need this to see if my haters from school are jealous since they know about my 570 subscriber channel 😂 Edit: no I did not tell them my fake friend searched me up and saw it. I was just saying this to prove why my classmates *could* be jealous of me but I did not mean this boastful in any way I’m literally Portuguese and does not know what the hell boastful means. So someone tell me what Boastful means.

Yesterday I needed to cry and then you come up and your voice made me cry for a hour. It made me feel so much better. You help me so much. I love you psych2go

I'm glad me and my new best friend are amazing together and not jealous of each other. We support each other and I'm glad to have her in my life :)

I’m 2 minutes in this is already hitting my hard, no wonder I am stressed everyday

@Psychtogo, can you please start captioning your videos for your hard of hearing viewers?

One of my three younger brothers had this issue. He slowly grew out of it as he developed some insight. I made a lot of compromises because I didn't have the tools to confront him. Yet I didn't want our relationship to end. We are now closer than ever.

I have experienced jealousy from a so-called friend (more like a frenemy) whose competitiveness with me was far more subtle and insidious than this video shows. Jealous friends don’t always manifest their feelings but can sometimes harbour them very adeptly, and which 'leak out'' in ways that can slip by one if not attuned to the signs. Because I was her BFF she showered me with compliments and praised my “amazing” qualities as a person. But when the friendship was tested in times of stress her true colours were often revealed. I spent most of our relationship walking on eggshells. She is no longer my friend; a huge relief.

In my school, i have this friend. I can tell he was jealous of me at very beginning in our friendship. Then few months, he start compete me at everything. I talk to my other friends to join me dirtbiking after school. My jealous friend said where do i want to go after this. I said i going to dirtbiking with my friends. He said why i didnt invite him. I said that i didnt invite him because he acting weird and make me uncomfortable. He said he will join and i didnt let him. "Why i cant?!" Said him with high voice. I said "Its because you acting weird and make me uncomfortable i already said that. Also you dont even know how to ride bicycle so i dont want you to broke your legs on dirtbike". Then he said everything isnt true about me loudly and saying that i didnt support him. I dont want him to broke his legs literally or his dad will kill me. Then, our friendship end.

I LOVE this art style. It’s so colorful and happy. 😃 I personally I would keep this style :D Ok bye, and stay safe everyone! :)

this is an eye opener for me. I never thought that the people I spend the most outside my home are the ones who have jealousy to me. It sucks to be honest; a lot of trust issues had developed between me and them. Some of my trustworthy friends adviced me to simply let them go and find someone who is honest to you and never doubts you. I hope I do look for one or maybe they come to me.

Every best friend I've ever had has demonstrated all of these traits. It has hurt me so much, because I've always been supportive and caring to my friends. My only true friends have been my mom and my husband.

But, if it's a game, to compete with your friends? I mean, I always have at least a friend who's also a kind of "rival" I don't think that it's particularly "toxic", because this competition makes me want to work even harder, and the same goes for him, so it's not a bad thing At least not when both are competing against each other!

This reminds me of my Secondary School days where people are jealous of me. I am occasionally jealous of people too

My old "best friend" behaved like this. All these 6 signs. She put me down in any way and spread gossips about me. I cut all contact with her and she is now trying to "ruin my reputation" by, again, spreading gossips about me that aren't true! I am much happier without her now and I am more sociable and I am slowly getting rid of my depression! I am so happy now that she isn't on my back anymore!

Watching your vids during quarantine is the best!

Can you please consider making a video of how to help stop jealous feelings? I feel like I constantly live my life feeling jealous (in the romantic relationship sense) and paranoid, I really need help with it. Thanks for all you do, Psych2Go Team

There was a time when I knew that I'm being gossiped behind my own back by people who were my friends. And so as it continued even people who I adored were against me and called me toxic despite the fact we never knew each other. I wasn't sure what to do back then, but if it happens again, what am I supposed to do when my friend gossips behind my own back and makes other people think about me as a treat?

This one girl was friends with my best friend, when my best friend met me, we spent a lot of time together! That girl thought I was taking her friend away from her. She started being toxic to me, avoiding me, mimicking me in bad ways when I’m not around, calling me rude names, trying to keep my best friend away from me, and undermining my success... My best friend has my back and is always telling me what her jealous friend is doing and saying

HER VOICE IS SOOTHING!! I LOVE IT!!

1:41 OMG haha this little blob thing is too cute

Me: *Searches for Monsta X's Jealousy* RU-vid: hey wanna know if someone's jealous of you?

I relate to this because i was jealous of a close friend's talent, the competitiveness helped me find my own talent and they too became jealous of me. Jealousy is not a good feeling, it kills friendship and loosens your strong bond. it feels disgusting.