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6 Signs Your Ex DOESN'T Want You Back (And What To Do About It) 

Chris Seiter
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6 Signs Your Ex DOESN'T Want You Back (And What To Do About It)
In this video were going to talk about;
Sign #1: Your Ex Doesn't Respond To You
Sign #2: Your Exes Responses Are Mediocre
Sign #3: Your Ex Blocks You For A Month
Sign #4: Your Ex Friend Zones You
Sign #5: You Become Friends With Benefits
Sign #6: Your Ex Cancels Dates At The Last Minute
I thought it would be really cool if I put together a video that really taught you what signs to look out for if you think your ex doesn't want you back. It shouldn't come as a shock to you that more people who come to my website end up failing to get their exes back than people who do end up getting their exes back.
So, it was really easy for me to pinpoint the behaviors of people who won't get their exes back versus people who will get their exes back. And that's exactly what I've done.
I've looked extensively at about a thousand different situations and pinpointed the interesting "through lines" between negative behaviors and in all there are six that you really need to watch out for. So, what I'm going to do for you is take the six signs and explain them and give you a little bit of a crash course on each of them step by step.
It's actually quite common for an ex to exhibit one of these signs throughout the process. If you start noticing your ex exhibiting 3 signs or more that we are about to talk about then it's time to start worrying. If he or she exhibits three of these signs then maybe it time to start worrying.
Sign #1: Your Ex Doesn't Respond To You - A lot of people get so wrapped up into a No Contact Rule but this is something that happens common where they reach out and there is no response, and after the third attempt there is still no response its maybe time to move on.
Sign #2: Your Exes Responses Are Mediocre - So, when you do reach out to your ex you get some answer that is so minimal, as low as one-word answers that lead to no conversation.
Sign #3: Your Ex Blocks You For A Month - usually when an ex blocks you, normally you get unblocked within a month without having to do anything there is a lot more about blocking but this is the basic you need to know.
Sign #4: Your Ex Friend Zones You - this where you think things are going well and they are responding to you and you think you are getting somewhere but you’re not getting anywhere because your ex has friend zoned you. If you want to know how to get out of that friend zone head over to the website and learn how to get out of that in more detail
Sign #5: You Become Friends With Benefits - so this is the other side of the coin of being friend zoned, you will never be more than friends, but you have some people who think sleeping with their ex is the key thing to getting their ex back. But it isn’t, if you sleep with your ex without a commitment then they know they can keep going on as they are now.
Sign #6: Your Ex Cancels Dates At The Last Minute - so this seems to happen a lot of the time, where you talk to your ex and you’re getting along but you notice when you make plans and when it comes down to it your ex continually backs out
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Комментарии : 868   
@shawnmichaud62
@shawnmichaud62 4 года назад
People need to stop generalizing. Every couple is different. Just because you had a breakup doesn’t mean it’s over forever.
@akon9819
@akon9819 3 года назад
True
@MegaBrandon3
@MegaBrandon3 3 года назад
@Anna Bella I need someone to talk to.I do not think the woman I was dating is into me anymore...she told me we threw
@nellietanner8310
@nellietanner8310 2 года назад
@Anna Bella does ut work?
@MistSGM
@MistSGM Год назад
Agreed. People telling us to find another one pisses me off. I want my ex back, not some copy pasted paragraph about moving on and looking for another person. People should fcking understand that looking for another man/woman is hard to do, and it's mentally exhausting to introduce yourself, try to flirt with other people, try to make them happy, impress them or literally go back from scratch.
@Pdacree777
@Pdacree777 Год назад
Yes
@stefanmolejo4578
@stefanmolejo4578 5 лет назад
The way to get your ex back is not to *try* to get your ex back!
@shanadarlington2422
@shanadarlington2422 5 лет назад
True
@thehollyannrose
@thehollyannrose 5 лет назад
That is so true. Every single time I just forget about them, they're back xD
@judzelriley9448
@judzelriley9448 4 года назад
Stefan Molejo Periodttttttt‼️👌🏾
@brecantonwine6645
@brecantonwine6645 4 года назад
Stefan Molejo I don’t I don’t even talk to them we jus make eye contact and I always am the one who breaks it because it lowkey kina hurts
@user-ug6ts4lm4y
@user-ug6ts4lm4y 4 года назад
Stefan Molejo yess!
@nimcoolad5931
@nimcoolad5931 5 лет назад
I thought my ex hated me but he texted me yesterday after like 5 months and said i love you amd my respond i dont remember you
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Nimco...so clearly he does not hate you. You might want to visit my website and check out my Ex Recovery Progrram - EBR Pro Bundle so that you can tap into a blueprint on how to get him back if that is what you want to do.
@elesianahdodhia6649
@elesianahdodhia6649 4 года назад
Wow I like it
@whatsapphim456
@whatsapphim456 4 года назад
Elesianah Dodhia all you need do is to message Dr and all will be fine ok
@jovette1166
@jovette1166 4 года назад
Maybe he just realize that u are worth it.
@blessedfavoured3600
@blessedfavoured3600 4 года назад
@@whatsapphim456 how about believing in God than wasting time on Nigerian Juju..
@swagsukeuchiha7599
@swagsukeuchiha7599 5 лет назад
Relationships are a waste of time
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I sure hope you are wrong about that! I think they are very important
@SnowFoxParty
@SnowFoxParty 5 лет назад
Not unless you want to make a family
@goodvibes2567
@goodvibes2567 4 года назад
Amen
@mjmk8928
@mjmk8928 4 года назад
Yes
@goodvibes2567
@goodvibes2567 4 года назад
I think that’s an over simplified-unhealthy relationships are a waste of time. Most people are unhealthy and unsafe so....
@alisaiful6717
@alisaiful6717 5 лет назад
Move on.. Face reality that you are no more in her/his life.Dont waste your time getting stuck in past one side relationship.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I have seen a ton of people that were actually meant to be together get back together after a breakup and get married. It really depends on if your ex is someone you could see a future with.
@shelly-annjohn9634
@shelly-annjohn9634 5 лет назад
I agree
@najmaismail1316
@najmaismail1316 5 лет назад
me too
@freewave5744
@freewave5744 4 года назад
it’s not stuck in the past if you’ve changed
@taejo4975
@taejo4975 4 года назад
edgarvlone agreed
@meritm6852
@meritm6852 5 лет назад
If he wanted me with him, he would never have gone. Conclusion: he doesn't want me back. He is happy without me.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Not necessarily.
@shelly-annjohn9634
@shelly-annjohn9634 5 лет назад
Yes go ahead eith life
@takingbackmypower9859
@takingbackmypower9859 3 года назад
This is how I’m feeling right now
@1963zinnia
@1963zinnia 3 года назад
It depends on the situation. Perhaps not taking accountability of your own mistake is draining , or lack of communication, etc... It's a team work. Or maybe you are just not compatible.
@leratoseretsi5603
@leratoseretsi5603 Год назад
Sometimes the fighting and toxicity may have been too much, every couple is different
@vambo13257
@vambo13257 5 лет назад
It is hard, but you need to WALK AWAY !!!!
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
In some cases, that's what it takes to get the ex back. Some people can't fake moving on.
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
3:11 Sign One 4:05 Sign Two 4:47 Sign Three
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
5:23 Sign Four
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
6:33 Sign Five
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
7:41 Sign Six
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching Год назад
Ah, but what about the secret sign seven?
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana Год назад
@@chrisseitercoaching I think I missed it 😂
@minionsattack5700
@minionsattack5700 5 лет назад
We only broke up because of misunderstanding, and her ignorance to my explanations.
@ruthgoh4869
@ruthgoh4869 4 года назад
Same
@anthonyjackson1265
@anthonyjackson1265 4 года назад
Exactly what happened to me as well
@supahotfire655
@supahotfire655 4 года назад
Same. Doesnt communicate and expected a perfect relationship
@Squishyw
@Squishyw 4 года назад
Felt that
@decoloniz_afro
@decoloniz_afro 3 года назад
Same here
@trizzmontella1569
@trizzmontella1569 5 лет назад
Relationships will either work or they won't, the directive's comes from the universe, and there is nothing anyone can do about it.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Trizz....Well...i guess we will agree to disagree. I think the directives come from someplace a whole lot closer.
@tinaschultz1976
@tinaschultz1976 4 года назад
Time to move on when friend zoned no way of getting out of this
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Hi Tine....yes, sometimes that is the way forward and sometimes its implementing No Contact and allow those forces to work in your favor
@claudiaaraos4841
@claudiaaraos4841 5 лет назад
Hi! First of all thank you for your time, they help me a lot!! Second: I wanted to say that you look like Mikey from The Goonies :) a young version Sean Astin Keep doing the good work!! ;-*
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Your welcome! haha I get matt damon and brad pitt lot too.
@linoweakalilwa4606
@linoweakalilwa4606 3 года назад
Am experiencing all these signs and the only way to go is letting go.. at first it was impossible but am getting better, healing from the break up day by day.
@hayabusahuertas4106
@hayabusahuertas4106 5 лет назад
very useful thank you for the video
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Thank you Hayabursa....best of luck to whatever it is you are trying to accomplish!
@charainemitchell7929
@charainemitchell7929 5 лет назад
How can I apply no contact if we have a child together?
@f.o.bdavauney1081
@f.o.bdavauney1081 4 года назад
I'm scared if I give space she will absolutely lose all feelings for me man
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
That is a common fear but if she really cares for you, then that won't happen.
@itsjustgossip2976
@itsjustgossip2976 5 лет назад
I’ve listened to your response and u said he needs space I’ve talked to his friends and they said he seems to really like his new gf I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
First step is to focus on you own healing and recovery. Time has a way of smoothing these things out. My Program involves employing No Contact in a strategic way so you should take a look at that.
@ricsuzuki
@ricsuzuki 5 лет назад
I love my ex boyfriend sooo much it hurt me sooo much that he move on 💔
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Time to focus on your healing.
@nancycarolinemokwana8743
@nancycarolinemokwana8743 4 года назад
Askies
@onlydreamz7340
@onlydreamz7340 4 года назад
Same here dr,,,😭
@mildredantwi9062
@mildredantwi9062 4 года назад
Dear, he chose another path. So painful, but we can't address it
@julianareynold5182
@julianareynold5182 3 года назад
I am very grateful to have met baba shogo who helped me when I was having some misunderstanding with my partner about a year ago he can also do yours just by believing you can contact him via +2349033399648
@firimuenjogererevjjuniorro1164
Interesting, Thanks
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 6 лет назад
Absolutely! Is there anything in particular you'd like me to make a video on?
@celinedagher2380
@celinedagher2380 5 лет назад
Chris Seiter hi can you please make a video o what to do if they left you on read and I haven’t texted again
@airzzdesire4318
@airzzdesire4318 3 года назад
I personally think if an ex doesn’t block you they are just mature to handle the breakup
@Gbb93
@Gbb93 5 месяцев назад
Agreed. It can go both ways
@wijnruit
@wijnruit 5 лет назад
My x friend zone me its hurt alot. I better have no contact forever.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Ummmm...forever is a long long time. Perhaps dial it back a bit!
@derikright9249
@derikright9249 4 года назад
Maybe blocking your ex is USUALLY not a good sign. However, I blocked my ex because I wanted her to know I wasn't playing games. It has worked because she is constantly texting me off other people's phones and telling me how sorry she is. Honestly, I blocked her and I still have feelings for her and want to be with her. I'm just trying not to show it out of fear of being hurt. I have ignored her text from her friend's phones, blocked her, told her I wanted to be friends, etc., and I still want her back. I have given off 3 or more of these signs and I still want her. I just wanted to make it seem like I didn't want her. Damn, I'm a complicated dude.
@nonyabeezwax8693
@nonyabeezwax8693 3 года назад
Your going to lose, we do not like games. Life is to short
@bhargav9796
@bhargav9796 3 года назад
Why don't you give her a chance may be she has changed and she'll make you happy from now
@auds_e7
@auds_e7 2 года назад
Ya u are, wonder if this is how my ex feels. We were together for 5 yrs and he cried twice the last week I saw him then ghosted & eventually blocked me nearly everywhere. Left my messages on read.
@JC-qg5di
@JC-qg5di Год назад
are you 10 years?
@echospace7347
@echospace7347 Год назад
Maybe I should block them
@jasminepatel2102
@jasminepatel2102 4 года назад
Sign #1 we haven’t talked in a while and I sent a sweet message yesterday and he never responded. So I had to unsend it Sign #2 it doesn’t exist Bc every time I talk he be like “stop texting me” or “leave me alone” Sign #3 I asked him to keep me blocked and he’d block me and then unblock in day Sign #4 he tried to friendzone me a month ago but I said no Sign #5 he lied to me and fulfilled his needs (he lied as an he might want a relation, but he wants to sleep first.) I fell for it and then he said “I never wanted a relationship” Sign #6 we have never been on a date after a break up. Your signs don’t quite relate, I am so confused. Do you think that he clearly doesn’t want me and I am wasting my energy after him?
@Mixedbeauty11
@Mixedbeauty11 5 лет назад
Hello, Coach My ex bf doesn't want me back he reached out to on August 25 2018 after that he hasn't made any contact. And I text him last week to see how he was doing I got no response. I stop texting him And deleted his number it made me realize if he wanted me he would have reach out to me in order for an ex to see change in order to start over they have see how you change since the break up.
@milanvujcich
@milanvujcich 5 лет назад
My ex doesn't actually want to be friends because shes scared she'll catch feelings for me again. haha what
@Mightyyy8
@Mightyyy8 5 лет назад
That's the same thing for me. She said she doesn't want to see me again because she doesn't want to catch feelings nor give mixed signals. 😂😂
@milanvujcich
@milanvujcich 5 лет назад
@@Mightyyy8 haha weird right? Luckily we ended up hanging out and she did catch feelings for me again and we are now back together since 2 weeks ago :)
@izlanaziz6872
@izlanaziz6872 5 лет назад
@@milanvujcich I'm in the same situation hahahah. May I know, how long were you separated with your girl?
@milanvujcich
@milanvujcich 5 лет назад
@@izlanaziz6872 we were separated for about 2 months or more. One month was no contact :)
@AngelRamirez-ul3gh
@AngelRamirez-ul3gh 5 лет назад
@@milanvujcich my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago,I'm trying no contact for a month,do you think it'll work?
@leratomafisa6613
@leratomafisa6613 5 лет назад
Hi Chris, my ex told me not to contact him coz I'm gonna make him fight with his new partner. We were in a 3 years relationship and lived together. I cyber stalked him and noticed that he is posting pictures of him and the new girl, he posts about how much he loves her. A week after him telling me to stop calling, he came to my house and acted as if we are cool 😭😭
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
You should use the being there method. It works exceptionally well if you keep your emotions under control. here's a good video for you to watch. www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/what-to-do-if-your-ex-boyfriend-moves-on-to-a-new-girl-video/
@mari-ql1on
@mari-ql1on 4 года назад
@@chrisseitercoaching what if mine is going through the grass is greener syndrome..except our relationship was peobably a 2 in the scale cause well we fought a lot even when he's beung sweet i'd over analyse every word he also said our relationship is stressful and that he's moving on it hurts but he's getting over it..pkease tell me there's a way..can i win him back..? Alsp were long distance and she's there physically with him he even blocked me for her..i confronted him tho he said that himself and that she's better he was crying on our call before saying "you're not worth my tears" And he's rejecting his feelings..what should i do o really want him back..and now he even love or like this girl's quirks he even think that she's cute when she gets insecure
@ataerabella
@ataerabella 3 года назад
@Adrian Fuentes when it’s over. It’s over.
@itsjustgossip2976
@itsjustgossip2976 5 лет назад
Chris what should I do if my ex and I broke up last week and he’s now talking to someone else I’ve tried messaging him and he says leave me alone and leave my life alone and stay out of it , I’ve blocked him he’s been blocked 4 days I still hv feelings for him what should I do?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Sometimes these situations call for some space as that can clear up things after a week or two.
@MeowMeow-sy2mi
@MeowMeow-sy2mi 3 года назад
I clicked on this and it gave me hope. None of this applies to my situation right now at all.😂
@butteryfly1234
@butteryfly1234 5 лет назад
My ex contacted me yesterday after 8 months of no conctact. The reason he gave for calling me was that he doesnt want to be the villain of the story.. We talked for some time yesterday..i let him know that i hav been living life and been dating people and even getting intimate when i am interested. Did i do wrong?!.. and he is asking me to meet up though he clearly mentioned that he has no intension to come into a relationship with me again. Please suggest how should i handle this and how should i react?
@kieraflowers9928
@kieraflowers9928 4 года назад
Jiya Austen what ended up happening ?
@samanthacrook3116
@samanthacrook3116 4 года назад
I haven't tried to contact him for about almost 3 weeks and I'm still a friend on his FB page but he doesn't follow me any & his FB still says he's in a relationship so, what does that mean what should I or not do?
@edward.c7367
@edward.c7367 Год назад
Hello Chris. Great stuff! No infidelity, no abuse, married for 28 years but she over the rebound. She lives separately what I know still single and is communicating via text. She does delay her responses and normally doesn't initiate. Please provide feedback on what is she thinking here? Do I have a chance still?
@yuzinwahengz7097
@yuzinwahengz7097 4 года назад
After no Nc I started to search her fb account from my frn acc. When she knew I was searching her then she blocked my frn acc but she unblocked my acc on Facebook that time i didn't txt her but after 3days again she blocked me. After she blocked me I send a text only calling her name on whatapp she was seen my txt but she didn't respond and blocked on whatapp also what is she thinking ?? Is she love me or not???
@CamillaVikaHgemark
@CamillaVikaHgemark 6 лет назад
I’ve been blocked on social media for 6 months now and he’s not responsive to texts, so giving it one final shot soon. Just gotta plan it out a bit with help from your Facebook group!
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 6 лет назад
We're glad to have you in the group. There's a really great FB live in the group about getting unblocked. I'll tag you in it in the group. :)
@MichaelGarcia1
@MichaelGarcia1 5 лет назад
@@chrisseitercoaching what group is this?
@kerizmarolle9710
@kerizmarolle9710 3 года назад
Hey Chris I want to know if I still have a chance .my bf or just say x dumped me yesterday after having an heated argument in the afternoon.but that morning he was just telling me how much he loves me and wants to have a baby with me.but long story short.. we had a fight and he told me it was too stressful and that he’s depressed and needs to be alone because of our arguing.. he still hasn’t blocked me on anything and when I tried to reach out a few times..mostly all yesterday and earlier today he kept saying the same thing over and over..he wants to be alone forever.. and no stress..I want know if I still have a chance or is he done with me forever? I’m just so hurt right now 😔😔😞
@chrissi975
@chrissi975 5 лет назад
I'm grinning, because he has been on all of those points even before we broke up :'D
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Chrissi! Sometimes though the person learns later what they really want. Life is in some ways a discovery of who one is and what one wants.
@vanessaedmonds5747
@vanessaedmonds5747 4 года назад
He doesn't mean your weight he means your features very handsome
@cathrineagatha114
@cathrineagatha114 4 года назад
I feel it too! And at the end of the day he put the blame on me:')
@dustincurtis5252
@dustincurtis5252 3 года назад
I would take the quiz. But the quiz never covers the crucial part of my break up. So I won't get an accurate score on the quiz.
@13DarkMelody
@13DarkMelody 9 месяцев назад
Tell me about the fearful avoidant ex. Who was so needy & clingy in the relationship. Now he’s so different. Like he just shit his feelings off just like that.😢
@BrokenHeart-oy1ru
@BrokenHeart-oy1ru 5 лет назад
Hey Chris,I planned date with my ex but at last minute she cancels it,but after 2 day she calls me for a date then I ignored her,now she deleted me from her contact list,what does it mean,what should I do next???
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey there....so she is acting impulsively, perhaps unsure what she wants or how to behave. Meet her with kindness.
@tahirkhairkhowa40
@tahirkhairkhowa40 5 лет назад
Please help me and let me know I want to bring she back but up to now she not responded my massage what I should do send more massage or not.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Are you following my Program. If you need more information, go visit my website at www.exgirlfriendrecovery.com
@atinukeabdulsalami1625
@atinukeabdulsalami1625 5 лет назад
If he blocks me for a month could he be doing the no contact?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
It's possible. Have you tried texting yet?
@veemattt
@veemattt 4 года назад
thats an interesting question
@stephb5169
@stephb5169 5 лет назад
Chris, does an ex generally want nothing to do with you if they are really over you?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
If have seen and hear all kinds of things coming from the mouth of exes. So usually time is the ultimate Truth Machine as to what they really want and having an ex recovery plan can help you going forward.
@blackpinkblinkfam7197
@blackpinkblinkfam7197 4 года назад
My ex has this friend she talks to they are close now I’m sure they like each other but I feel no contact will push her into their arms , they talk everyday all day ..I can try no contact but every time I start it she texts me on the same day...I will try it again , will be hard since she has to tell me when she’s coming to pick up something but I’ll keep that short. Any advice?
@jewlsrm4792
@jewlsrm4792 4 года назад
What if they block u then unblock u after a couple wks but u txt them and they won’t reply 🤔 why even bother on unblocking u in the first place if their not gonna reply might as well keep me blocked 🤷‍♀️
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Checking to see if you're still available to them, and the fact you replied quickly reassures them this, so next time dont reply straight away give it some time
@famat9089
@famat9089 4 года назад
we broke up 1 month ago but we talk by video call every day and we meet 2 days in a week and sometime I sleep in her house I sleep in sofa and she sleep at the bed is that good strategy to get her ?or what shall I do ?
@aneleshabangu6710
@aneleshabangu6710 4 года назад
Mine is a very funny one. He recently dropped me a WhatsApp message calling me babe and my love but asking for a break. I responded with a short message and went straight into the no contact rule, but he kept commenting to my pics and calling me babe. Still confused. What do I do next?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Keep to the No contact let him have the break he asked for, let him miss you!
@lindapetty2982
@lindapetty2982 5 лет назад
Excellent... Wish I had this early
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Linda.....Feel free to visit my website as i have a ton of content and resources there than can help you out!
@sugarhigh09
@sugarhigh09 5 лет назад
does one particular sign mean more than the other?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Yes they are all weighted differently.
@scarlettkathrynrosevlogs9820
@scarlettkathrynrosevlogs9820 4 года назад
2/6 of these applies to me
@alishapathan6502
@alishapathan6502 2 года назад
What to do if in anger i blocked my ex from every social site and now on to a no contact rule should I continue the same or should I unblock him from every social media sites and then continue no contact rule
@user-up9nf2dz2l
@user-up9nf2dz2l 5 лет назад
what if i blocked him first and then he blocked me
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Try using a different method to reach him after no contact.
@vevera3876
@vevera3876 4 года назад
화미나 any updates? That’s happen to me
@499120037
@499120037 4 года назад
@@chrisseitercoaching and what if he is already dating someone new?
@okimande9832
@okimande9832 4 года назад
Thanks
@Funnytigger22
@Funnytigger22 2 года назад
What if he’s in hops into another relationship rather quickly now he’s trying to contact me through another Snapchat he has. He keeps saying he’s happy for me and he misses me how he loves me. What do I do?
@sitinabilaisnkandar6746
@sitinabilaisnkandar6746 2 года назад
Hi Chris. I reached out to my ex 2 days ago after 3 months of break up. But I did a mistakes after no contact rule with him where I asked for his money. But he gave it to me and still care about me where he said to if I have a problems, need a guidance related to what I’ve been through in daily life, I can contact him. But I do still love him as our break up is still fresh. But he said to me he never will consider to take me back. After what he said that he still care about me, what should I do next? Do I need to contact him as usual, or get back to the no contact rule? But he didn’t reach out to me at all. Even today. Please help me!
@shiva43057
@shiva43057 5 лет назад
Blocked for 1 month ,i really doubt that...i blocked my ex for around 8months becz she want to leave me becz of religion differences...but every day i couldnt forget her.. so blocked for 1month straight is defnitely not true..
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Thanks for you input Shiva
@sanjababic7352
@sanjababic7352 4 года назад
Me and my ex were together 4 almost five years and suddenly 7 months ago he said he lost himself in the relationship just to find out recently he was falling for someone before we broke up and they were together for a few months after that he called me one night and we slept together all the feelings rushed back and I didn’t know what to do . His gf eventually found out and dumped him so we continued to sleep together and next thing you know she was texting and calling him again and they were getting back together so he cut me off again not sure how to feel anymore I know I still want him cause his feelings are there they are just deep down underneath. 😭
@yeetlol8835
@yeetlol8835 5 лет назад
For the first sign my ex responds almost right away like Jesus dude calm down
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I hope the advice was helpful nonetheless!
@sanyasuhane6731
@sanyasuhane6731 4 года назад
Mine is 1st one , no response nothing , total ignore what to do pls tell
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk Год назад
Well I’m 59 years old I don’t have time to play the ER at games that woman wanna play if you can’t rely on now what are you gonna do when the chips are down?
@savanalazzaro1664
@savanalazzaro1664 4 года назад
However for sign 6 what if it is because they are now dating someone new? But you know your ex wants you back because what they have been showing you
@neupp_xt
@neupp_xt 4 года назад
It’s been 4 years of our marriage... and we got separated last 2 years ... he wants divorce...wants a clear way to move on ..doesn’t comes back neither calls or text .. Is he really done for good ... we are not divorced though but he wants .. I am not ready for divorce.. due to that I’m separated apart instead of staying together 😔
@jairus.
@jairus. 3 года назад
Is there an age bracket for these signs ?
@nishthakots1733
@nishthakots1733 4 года назад
Wow most kf these signs are familair and now i feel like dying idk whag to do he moved on?! He blocked me then unblocked then blocked from only one account idk i want him backk
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Start following the program with No Contact and working on yourself, eventually your ex will unblock you out of curiosity so make sure that you are Ungettable when that time comes
@watercagemcc868
@watercagemcc868 4 года назад
What does it mean when you two broke up but then either both of you block each others social media and personal phone number? Whas it still something or for me I didn’t block her because I don’t have time to and I’m being nice . I just block those who disrespect me or a threat
@sumankumari1847
@sumankumari1847 4 года назад
Hey coach,my ex boyfriend left me 3 weeks ago.Reason is unknown.He is confused.Sometimes he blames himself sometimes he tells that he was not happy wid me.I begged n pleaded n kept reaching out to him after every 2 days to convince him to take me back.He talked to me politely even liked talking to me.He responded whenevr i reched out But he never reached out first.So i told him to block me on whatsapp so that i could do nc properly. today I m on 9th day of nc.What should i do coach please tell me?🙃
@Josh-db1ls
@Josh-db1ls Год назад
what if he is not responding straight after dumping you, isnt that too early to stay he is done with you. Also what about blocking in 1 platform but not on others ?
@Time218
@Time218 5 лет назад
He call me everyday I dnt call him at all He like my stuff on fb my photos and things i share.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
So those are positive developments and are aligned with the value building I talk about in my Program
@elesianahdodhia6649
@elesianahdodhia6649 4 года назад
Same as me
@texasag6297
@texasag6297 4 года назад
Find someone thats not all about Facebook. You'll grow as an adult and get better at relationships...and infidelity won't be as easy.
@viviancassel6025
@viviancassel6025 5 лет назад
Wow! None of these signs - ever! He always responds, sometimes with essays. He can’t friend zone me, so he avoids seeing me in person altogether. When he has seen me, he stares and sees anxious. He will not disrespect me by being friends with benefits. Too much passionate emotions for that. He doesn’t make dates, but when we have had to meet, he never cancels and is ALWAYS early. It’s been three years after 23 years together and I hoped that he would be cured enough by now so that we could possibly be friend zoned, but he still can’t do it. I would love for us to be good friends, but it seems impossible - as if there’s too much passion between us. I want my children to have parents who at least love each other as friends.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I hear you. Your expectations of what you want is very realistic. Your lover should be your best friend.
@viviancassel6025
@viviancassel6025 5 лет назад
Chris Seiter Haha! He was my lover and best friend for 23 years, but then a midlife crisis brought in a rebound lover - haha! Yes, though! He’s still my lover in both our minds, I’m sure!
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I hear you!
@firimuenjogererevjjuniorro1164
Hey coach, Should my mother talk to my ex boyfriend if I had introduced him to her as a friend, Am confused because this is a long distance relationship, I hope to go back after a year plus,, he blocked me but later unblocked though we are not friends on facebook after being unfriended,,,I did no contact for 30days, I reached out he responded to the first messages and after he started ignoring, he swore not to ever get back to me but I guess it was anger, Should I give up. Thanks
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 6 лет назад
No, your mother should not be involved at all. Try another text. I have found that sometimes the texts need to be more powerful if the ex is ignoring.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 6 лет назад
In my experience, people say things they don't mean when they are angry all the time. No you shouldn't have your mother involved in this process.
@str8bit606
@str8bit606 5 лет назад
Robinah Biira bad idea 💡
@ying5798
@ying5798 5 лет назад
Yes, he replies my every message with only one word "ok.", he blocked me on every social media and he doesn't want to be friends either, he hates me now. But then my friend told me that he still loves me and I caught him keep on looking at me from a far distance. When I'm near him, he doesn't even want to face me (which hurts). Basically I have most of the signs here.😅
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Ying...so sometime its best to give each other some time and space to smooth out the emotions which run high post breakup. Go visit my website as I have tons of materials there that can help you!
@jajacap9750
@jajacap9750 5 лет назад
I'm done code red oh yes tell that to marine exes
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
I know it can be challenging in so many ways.
@destiny-zu1ke
@destiny-zu1ke 4 года назад
What if your ex bf text you saying if your single , if you want to be bk together , send him pics , ask me questions while he's in a whole relationship over 2 years
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
The fact you've been broken up for so long, and him reaching out to want to know if you are single is going to be more about his testing the waters to see if you were available to him. Now this is where you need to consider if you want him back or not. And learn about the being there method.
@eggiepacher3773
@eggiepacher3773 4 года назад
I can help
@michelleidris8215
@michelleidris8215 5 лет назад
Hi, my ex bf broke up with me 2months back because his parents have arranged someone for him to marry. I kept no contact completely for more than a month. He texted me saying that i was the best person he met in his life and he wished me the best in everything in my life i replied him with just "same to you". What does he actually mean? Did he mean good bye forever? We have been texting back and ford and recently we met up, he said he missed me and love me. I do love him too but i do not show it that much to him. we even had sex after breakup. He still calls me "babe". What step should i take??
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey Michelle! Seems to me its a shame that the parents are so involved in matters of marriage. Best to have a sensible ex recovery plan. My program is like a blueprint you can follow so feel free to check it out.
@tloyou
@tloyou 5 лет назад
Does writing a letter to agree with the break up would be a good thing to make her feel of the lost ?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Sometimes writing a letter is a good thing, but often its not. Best for you to visit my website to come up to speed with my Program
@reallystephlove
@reallystephlove 5 месяцев назад
Not only was I blocked everywhere, my contact info was also deleted from his phone. Guess that’s that 😂
@mizrab216
@mizrab216 4 года назад
What if he didn't blocked he sees my stories on social media ,and not contacting,and during our togetherness of 8 months he didn't said that he loves me but whenever I ask he also says that I'm not expressive much ,I'm boring person , whenever we planned he used to cancelled plans in last moment and we met only twice what to do in this situation ? Should I call him to ask about the matter but again it lowers my self-respect why I always initiates
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Hi Mizrab, no do not call him about this! You need to complete a 30 day NC and work on yourself, you described yourself as a boring person - change that. Do things that are exciting, things that are going to push you out of your comfort zone and use social media to show how great you are doing
@misshae111
@misshae111 4 года назад
He's about to move away to another state and then by 2020 December, he'll be gone to another country. He said he doesn't want me anymore. 5 years of our relationship is gone. I know he's not coming back. I just gave him the full follow through of our 5 years, and no nudge. And all I want is him. I'm alone. And I don't want nobody else. This is so hard to swallow!!!
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Go into a no contact before he moves away and work on being Ungettable. Posting on social media showing how well you are doing.
@yafajarrar9627
@yafajarrar9627 4 года назад
We broke up 4 months ago and he is in a relationship now But he still watching my social media accounts and he opens my snapchat alot like almost every day When I asked him about it he got very upset and mad And now i cant understand his feelings
@yafajarrar9627
@yafajarrar9627 4 года назад
jaybritish actually I found out that he lied to me about his relationship he is single so I need your advice cause the no contact period is almost over
@ruthgoh4869
@ruthgoh4869 4 года назад
He's been friendly sometimes, cold responses sometimes, no responses sometimes, even sweet sometimes. What does it mean??
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Hi Ruth, look up my video talking about exes who are hot and cold
@andreahelou7
@andreahelou7 5 лет назад
my ex broke up with me 5month ago i did the beging and pleading which was a bad idea/it’s been one month since i’m in no contact and in the 20th day he said hello to me at school and i ignored him/ he’s the first reading my messages in group chats and always glare a look at me at school i can’t stop thinking about him i changed i’m always working i don’t even have free time anymore i changed myself a lot for me i’m a completely different person mentally and physically but i don’t know what to do to have his attention and to come back to me he’s really stubborn he’s a hard guy help me please what do i have to do p.s sorry for my bad english
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey there Andrea! So it seems your NC efforts have gotten some traction, now you are in the post NC phase in which I advocate a certain methodology in getting the conversation off the ground. too much to discuss here. Visit my website and tap into all the content
@dr.crystalspice1412
@dr.crystalspice1412 5 лет назад
My ex would say he loves me so i asked if he wanted another chance..he blew me off and said he doesn't want to make time for me
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Sorry your ex was so insensitive. Perhaps time for No Contact. Hope on over to check out all the resources at my website!
@itsjustgossip2976
@itsjustgossip2976 5 лет назад
It’s been nearly 3 weeks and he’s telling people he has a keeper idk what to do because it’s making me upset and I’ve just messaged him saying I never loved him tht much and I regret saying those things and then I blocked him
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey There....so I know you are upset, but its time now to focus on "you" and your healing.
@mandakongbrailatpam3433
@mandakongbrailatpam3433 5 лет назад
But i still love her😭
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi again Manda....if this is an ex recovery situation, do you have a Program that you are using to help you improve your chances?
@lorrainerodriguez2134
@lorrainerodriguez2134 5 лет назад
You take to long to get to the point
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey Lorraine....I will work on that
@blablamoekd6626
@blablamoekd6626 4 года назад
Lorraine Rodriguez agree
@dlforlife8230
@dlforlife8230 4 года назад
Leah Marshall Me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months it has been really rocky at first we were very angry and lots of hurtful things were said. However 4 months In things calmed down and we seemed like we were on the right track for a couple of months. However now things do not seem to be progressing at all and my ex is still holding onto the past I threw him out and he can’t seem to move on from this and let it go and is still angry with me. His been very hot and cold one minute he wants us to work the next he don’t. We have two children together too. I just don’t know what to do anymore
@carlathompson9308
@carlathompson9308 4 года назад
I got one he said he wasnt foinf to talk to me for awhile and will text back when less angry
@cassieaiken2537
@cassieaiken2537 5 лет назад
Sooo #2. I get a response, irs not necessarily one word answers, but they are pretty blunt and crass responses, like he doesn’t care to be talking to me. #3. My number is blocked (we broke up two months ago and I can imagine it’s still blocked) but I’m not blocked on Facebook messenger.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Was it a really bad breakup?
@cassieaiken2537
@cassieaiken2537 5 лет назад
It wasn’t a really bad “screaming, throwing things at each other, I hate your guts, punching walls” breakup. But we were on a trip together, it happened mid trip (he broke up with me during an argument while we were out drinking) and we were still stuck together for 3 more days and a 13 hour car drive. I begged and pleaded for the 3 days for him back and didn’t leave it alone, and he just kept saying no no no. When we returned to Canada, he initially told me he was done and to leave him alone. But then told his friends and family that we will maybe work it out in a few months, and then I think he caught wind that I had been talking to his “people” and a switch flipped and he said he’s completely done.
@cassieaiken2537
@cassieaiken2537 5 лет назад
I’m also on day 24 of not reaching out to him.
@savorytemptress469
@savorytemptress469 5 лет назад
@@cassieaiken2537 How are things now...2 months later?
@cassieaiken2537
@cassieaiken2537 5 лет назад
Well I screwed nyself over and got myself blocked earlier last month. And I also showed up to his house one night like an idiot. So I’m not exactly the best case to follow. I’m still trying to get him back, just finished my no contact and am supposed to be reaching hut next week
@CatchAChrissy
@CatchAChrissy 4 года назад
Okay whew. Only 2 signs. 5 year relationship. Been sleeping together since breakup (5 months ago!!!!😨) but he deff started acting like my man again durning this process.. he got jealous..texted me all day every day.. basically kept making plans with me an planning trips!! ( he broke up with me..cheated..an couldnt except blame for his actions) he never said sorry..just blamed me for why "he cheated" an said it was not cheating cause we were on our way out "ending".... either way. I went back to school, lost all the weight i put on durning our relationship an found hobbies again. You could say he was RIGHT THERE. Falling in love all over again. I could see it. An then BOOM. Dead zone. Something shifted in his brain "FEAR" what if it doesnt work out..what if we have problems again. So what does he do...acts cold to me for a week. Naturally i try playing it cool...but by end of week...i. cracked. I had a emotional break down over it. All that hard work. For nothing. All the months put into winning each other back. Gone. For what? He says he cant trust me!!!! (What? I didnt cheat..he did) well he basically told me he is going to keep hiding his feelings about me from me an everyone else.. ( wait...did he just admit to having strong feelings for me, by admitting he is hiding them?) He basically says he can not see us being happy together again. Literally the night before he went cold he was saying saying how he loved everything about me..an then a bomb went off in his head. I posted a snap of me looking pretty that day...an i think that is what set him off. He said he cant get caught up ( meaning he doesnt like the negative jealous feelings...so he is doing opposite of what he should be doing) anyway i cant control his free will. He blocked me across the bored. Full block except email. An he told me not to contact him 1 more time. An thats it. I heard he keeps posting single stuff on facebook an asking ppl to go out drinking ( he doesnt drink) soooo yes i know he is trying to move on. Problem is.. he is letting his fear actually ruin a real geniuly love. I forgive his cheating. This time only. I was willing to forgive an forget. In fact i never brought it up after it happen. There is no point. It makes me feel bad an just leads to us fighting. So i dropped it ( but durning this process..right before he cut it off..he brought it up. An basically said he never cheated an i was a pyhsco for thinking that.... ( mind you..i caught him cheating..IN THE ACT. With my own eyes) all that aside i spent years with this man. he is my best friend He is also stubborn as hell. His guilty conscience i think makes him think. That he will come back an i will cheat on him this time. Im not sure if there is a win for me in this situation But i am broken.
@JungKookBiasedOT7
@JungKookBiasedOT7 5 лет назад
#1 I dont received response from him and #2 he replied once on my texts and it was pretty blunt and #3 he blocked me for months when we're still together but when He broke up with me , he unblocked me . What should I do ?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
What was the cause of the breakup?
@JungKookBiasedOT7
@JungKookBiasedOT7 5 лет назад
@@chrisseitercoaching jealousy and trust issue
@savina1643
@savina1643 4 года назад
Me and my ex are friends lets say but we flirt sometimes and stuff Does this really mean he doesnt love me inside him
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Thats not really enough info to tell you what he is feeling. You can build up the amount of flirting you are doing and see if he is interested, have you asked for a meet up, have you done a no contact?
@BeastRusher509
@BeastRusher509 3 года назад
So currently my ex wants nothing to do with me. I can’t attract her if she doesn’t want to hear anything from me. I still don’t know the real reason why it ended and it’s like she doesn’t care at all!!! It’s like she wants nothing to do with me. Just complete opposite of who she is. Their is really nothing I can do and I want to do something! Do I just focus on myself and see what happens? Or just compltly move on and see whether she regrets her decision later on.
@jaeraee3437
@jaeraee3437 4 года назад
Weird we have a child together. We have been separate a year and almost half. He has tried to make moves toward me... i just have not move towards him. He speaks of memories... something tells me no.. we are great co parents so far.
@deechambers6639
@deechambers6639 5 лет назад
What if you have kids with them & they have to tex you back bcuz that will make them bad parents ??
@charainemitchell7929
@charainemitchell7929 5 лет назад
Dee Chambers right how can I have no contact when we have a kid together? There will always be contact. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️
@fatengarrouch6707
@fatengarrouch6707 5 лет назад
Do we have to send sms to get him back
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
No you can use other methods but that is the preferred method. (Definitely do not send a letter though)
@briteidea08
@briteidea08 Год назад
Restraining order is a good way to know also. Lmao 🤣
@efybahackah3195
@efybahackah3195 Год назад
My ex broke up with me in November 2022 and travelled outside. He came back after two weeks and wanted to see me. I visited and it seemed he was still angry wit me cox of past argument. I left his house that very night and i was blocked . He keeps stalking me and watching my watsapp status but I applied the no contact January 2023. Is there any chance of winning him back? I love him
@rachelanncanada7459
@rachelanncanada7459 5 лет назад
Me and my ex we just broke up on last january 26. On 27th is our 4monthsary of ldr. Its hurts when he ruins his promises to me to meeting up in person. But he doesnt block me from his contact.
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hi Rachel....Are you implementing NC or do you have an ex recovery strategy because it should also help you on the healing/recovery side if its a robust plan.
@Krissyren
@Krissyren 5 лет назад
I beg to differ about friends with benefits
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
Hey Krissy...I do value your opinion. Feel free to share more if you wish
@shradharandhire4220
@shradharandhire4220 4 года назад
Me and my ex were about to get married and out families messed up and after that he got convinced that we should not get married and now the thought of he getting married to other girl is killing me! What will u suggest
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Hi Shradha, I would suggest speaking to your family about the issues and addressing this in a calm manner.
@apollo2646
@apollo2646 4 года назад
What if she blocked me on only one social media? She blocked/removed me on snapchat but not on the phone & she still follows me on instagram. Is that a good sign?
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 4 года назад
Its a positive that you can reach out at the end of your No contact when you are ready to speak to her.
@rosejane4096
@rosejane4096 4 года назад
Alessandro Apollo hello do you need help to get her back?
@rosejane4096
@rosejane4096 4 года назад
Alessandro Apollo I know of someone who can help you bring back your ex
@rosejane4096
@rosejane4096 4 года назад
Alessandro Apollo he helped me bring back my ex within 48 hours
@rosejane4096
@rosejane4096 4 года назад
Alessandro Apollo contact him via WhatsApp
@hurryupnow1
@hurryupnow1 5 лет назад
These signs apply to me only because there’s another woman in the picture. I know he still wants me because he’s told me to wait but I won’t . Now I won’t contact him. I don’t want him back. I will do no contact to heal myself only. Good riddance .
@chrisseitercoaching
@chrisseitercoaching 5 лет назад
HI Soniya...Good luck with your NC and you are right...this is time now to focus on "you" and your healing and recovery and do some of the things I teach in my Program
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