6 Things To Do to Earn Your Child’s Friendship - Sadhguru

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Sadhguru looks at what parents need to do to earn their child’s friendship and develop a healthy relationship, which will help the child blossom.
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@bharatvarma9278 4 года назад

1)Get off the pedestal. (be their friends) 2)Dedicate time for them 3)Don’t try to live through them 4)Let them discipline themselves 5)Stop preparing them for something 6)Lastly, shine a little bit

@organic8578 4 года назад

Thank YOU Bharat Varma

@rajatbhushan4535 3 года назад

*discipline

@trebledc 3 года назад

Thanks but this a formula for disaster.

@user-zz5le4pw9d 3 года назад

Good 👍

@a_passing_cloud 3 года назад

@@trebledc only if you are a disaster with a child.

@thereseytea2639 4 года назад

Woke up at 3:33am from a scary dream! Had a nightmare that my kids was taken away from me for adoption. This video popped up ! My spirit guides is trying to tell me something😭😭😭 I really need to spend more time with my kids😭🙏🏼

@subash8181 4 года назад

All of us need to. Al the best.

@stellaq3306 4 года назад

There is no better investment. There is no second chance.

@candice44441 4 года назад

It is never too late. Enjoy your children.

@someone0117 4 года назад

its not jus about spending more time... did you see the video?

@flyingfairy2055 4 года назад

Theresey Tea i hopefully will never have to say or write that 💐🕊💫🌿🔮🧚🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🧚🏼‍♀️🌟💫🌻🌺🌸😱🌱🕊

@jeremyjensen4385 4 года назад

I finally respected my dad when he said he didn't have any answers. He could only tell me his experience. Now I do this with my boys

@MM-ql5ji Год назад

Your words gave me courage too.. am going to b a mama of my first boy child scared and also looking forward

@RobJenkinsDubTechno 4 года назад

"You aren't here to change the world. The world is here to change you."

@AakashKumar-tn6yh 4 года назад

Very well said

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@vaishnavikaushik1776 3 года назад

@@AakashKumar-tn6yh 😂

@YOGA19917 3 года назад

No. I don't agree with this

@Nice-re5nm 3 года назад

This is a joke

@Changethewaywekeepitreal Год назад

I’m 27 years old. I have 2 small children of my own. I’ve always said I wanted to do completely different bc I was exposed to constant anger, frustration, no playing, no going out with neither of my parents until I was a teenager. I was really angry always. I never believed in the Christian God that I was exposed to. I was expressive about it and my family, all of it thought there was something really wrong with me. Anyway… so much time wasted thinking something MUST be completely wrong with me. Sadhguru, thank you so much! At first listening to you was ‘enlightening’ but now I can’t stop listening to you. From the time I wake up until the time I go to sleep. It makes me sad I have to unlearn so much. From the way I eat, to the way I breathe, to the way I walk, it’s so much and I would of appreciated being told by them that this is what they know, not the ultimate truth. I don’t know how long it’s going to take me but my heart is in it❤️

@milenatripkovic9788 4 года назад

My child told me "Mama I want to grow ans to be like you..You are mama, the strongest and the most beautiful mama of all mothers of all my friends ❤ Buut..He is still 7 yrs old boy 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Let the magic last 😉

@kiti2788 3 года назад

But jokes apart you should be proud of urself that you have raised him right & he can looks up to you. Come on lady now that's something..!😄

@viyavictoria4694 3 года назад

My child told me this morning that "mama i want to grow to be like you.... you are the strongest and the most beautiful mama of all mothers of all my friends but he still 8 years old boy 😆😆😆😆 Let the magic last

@fionamayfield4762 3 года назад

My kid told me I'm fat and funny. Both are true.

@jessicacatchings5941 3 года назад

Mine told other kids he doesn't listen to me because I'm fat 😂

@dailydoseoflife4907 4 года назад

Sudhguru is the breath of fresh air the world needed🙏🤷‍♂️

@roiferreach100 4 года назад

Agree. Sadhguru is the nature's gift.

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@dailydoseoflife4907 4 года назад

@@ilovelife6249 Thank you🤗

@geekhacks 4 года назад

This air is following in this part of the world for thousands of years 🙏

@veerappen2119 3 года назад

@@roiferreach100 mm

@ErikaK 4 года назад

children *imitate* you, from 0 to 7 they go through an "imprint period" forming their perspective of life and a personality. It isn't about being wrong or right as a parent, but about striving to *become the greatest version of yourself for yourself and for your children* :)

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@ErikaK 4 года назад

@@ilovelife6249 sending you all my love!!!!! Lovely to see you ♡♡♡

@kavyapradhan626 3 года назад

😆😁I got lucky to get to see the child like form of my parents 😹 they raised me well into this world not being a mother or father but instead a family member who is there even at good times and hard times

@jax2292 3 года назад

Is it too late if they are 14 then? 😭😭

@Rnk_Dr 4 года назад

"It is exposure, not the moral teaching that is going to stick."

@soumyaranjanbiswal3944 4 года назад

Every indian parent need to see this video..

@ChristaBello 4 года назад

What a valuable info from a wise man on earth “Sadhguru”. Wishing you all parents and parents-to-be THE WISDOM to nurture and grow your children.

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@pascalxus 4 года назад

i know so many parent who buy their kids more and more toys, just so the kids will leave them alone.

@Indermanes313 4 года назад

I am the one of them but from now I will try to change my self for my 4 years daughte. Every second goes never comes back,

@jamesryan6224 4 года назад

Be friends with your spouse, be BEST friends with your Children when they are young.

@775.- 4 года назад

Unfortunetly 90% of parents today , don't know how to raise but they're gladly wanna make as much kids as they can. karma isn't merciful.

@anitainmo489 4 года назад

How I wish I had someone to give me such wisdom 25 years ago.

@mr.c2485 4 года назад

Anita Prasad Never too late. Even a single year of wisdom is capable of infinite peace for all who encounter you. There is no such thing as wasted time. Your life is blessed!

@hotplanetary8297 3 года назад

I to wish some one would have told me this 40 years ago

@lithypaul8897 3 года назад

@@mr.c2485 11qq

@lithypaul8897 3 года назад

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@lithypaul8897 3 года назад

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@AnIndianPatriot958 4 года назад

7 dislikes, seriously... Can't believe which part of the video they didn't like. Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏, you have become the light for all the darkness and illusions in this world. But as you rightly put, there are people who love darkness and can't accept the truth of life.

@roiferreach100 4 года назад

I am a father and I am blown away with your advice. Opened my eyes on those things Sadhguru said that I am doing wrong. Thank You Sadhguru.

@rsss8659 4 года назад

Sadhguru doesn't usually do this. This is one of the very few videos where he is giving a structured solution. Usually his objective is to confuse people so that their intellect is stimulated and they become eager to find their own solution. But this video is a departure. Some one in his team has changed and the new video editing team trying "structured" approach. Not that it is wrong. However, I think giving a six point solution just ends the conversation. Whereas, when he usually leaves a question partially answered, it creates "longing to know". It's just my opinion. Sadhguru, I want to humbly thank you for the influence you have been in our lives.

@kavyapradhan626 3 года назад

Honestly he isn't confusing people it's just that we don't get the answer we usually accept and ignore the essence of his words; while learning anything if you put your prejudice before you won't be able to understand . Once you're open about it you will get it what he is talking about

@babydoll.888 3 года назад

@@kavyapradhan626 I am in similar thoughts 🙏

@mistythompson5579 3 года назад

I think a six point solution is exactly what we need for this topic

@pallavirbhat 4 года назад

He is the real guru - he has so much knowledge! lucky that i found him😊

@notaburneraccount Год назад

Me too :)

@innersmilebydrsanjeevmonga9369 4 года назад

Very true one should always live with his kids like friends

@DIP305 2 года назад

Everything he said is correct I've felt my father lacked all of these qualities and I voiced every point he raised.This reassures me the things I wanted but never got are the things I must never forget because hopefully I will have a child of my own and this cycle ends with me.

@andykumar4103 Год назад

The cycle never ends. it's just an illusion. Perfect parent is the one who chooses not to become parent. There's no such thing as perfect parenting.

@rocksparadox 4 года назад

His wisdom is so soothing, even as a person without children, these explanations helped me find more appreciation for the energy my parents invested in me.

@susantaylor147 3 года назад

Now I understand why my granddaughter has always insisted that she was me....although I always tel her that she is lovely as herself... I didn't understand why she wanted to be like me... We always have fun together...we dance, sing, do silly things together, cook, bake together.. Your words resonated deeply....Now I understand why our bond is so strong! Mutual respect! 💟💟💟 Thank you kind sir!

@Kathy-kr1sv Год назад

Life is eternal If she says she WAS you She was....... 🌹

@susantaylor147 Год назад

@@Kathy-kr1sv 🌻

@Manes-Ancestrales 4 года назад

Children ,not our dreams ❤️🙏🏿 Sadhguru Forever...

@Ben-mb4ft 4 года назад

I am from Austria and there's quit a lot of stress between parents and their children / teachers and students. It's much more common here that elders demand respect instead of earning it. so this video is really appreciated. very well put together thank you. will forward it to some people. how is it in your country my friends?

@AboutCreativity1 4 года назад

same.

@rrr5_Finance2 4 года назад

i think same in bharat

@awasthiashutosh 4 года назад

This is all because of western education

@Ben-mb4ft 4 года назад

@@awasthiashutosh it sure has a big influence on that yeah. still remember all the tension school created between my mother and me. I didn't want to go to school, she wanted me to go and BAM hahaha nearly threw me out one time I think a much better way is the school that they have in the isha yoga center, so much smilling faces there

@flyingfairy2055 4 года назад

germany is struggling with their current dictatur

@deepikachandrashekaryallal1425 4 года назад

"They are not the extension of the ambitions". Good to hear but from the moment a child is born, parents start building n nesting their own dreams n ambitions (which were left incomplete) around the child. Most of them struggle n sacrifice for this to be done and they believe that "children are the only hope"

@shecooki322 3 года назад

Every time I watch Sudhguru's video, listening to him is like wow... I could listen to him all day 🙏🏽 Everything he says is so true and you know it already but when Sadhguru says it, its like I am looking at life in a whole new different world!

@berkdural7373 Год назад

“Eloquence, at its greatest pitch, leaves little room for reason or reflection, but addresses entirely to the desires and affections, captivating the willing hearers and subduing their understanding.” - David Hume So watch out for that effect.. I, personally, fell into that mistake with many guru and teacher and also with, even a little, Sadhguru..

@We_r_blessed 4 года назад

Listening to this,i realised how wrong i was doing with my little kids.i will try to follow the advise and lets have friendship with my kids from now.😀

@softia9 Год назад

i wish my parents were like this :( they don’t even try to parent better they just do the same thing they were taught as a kid (and my mom was from a bad environment so it’s pretty bad)

@lovehumans5516 4 года назад

This is a very intelligent man.

@worldtraveller2185 3 года назад

All the wisdom the world needs in 19 minutes. Thank you Sadhguru.

@NaNa-lt1po 3 года назад

As a parent there is time to be a parent , and then a time comes to transition into a guide, philosopher and friend

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 года назад

Yes I agree

@adityapatankar3692 3 года назад

When you become parent don't feel old be a child be his/her friend

@anupamasanjeevkumar5457 3 года назад

I have 2 teenage boys and sadhgurus speech made me lighter after many days.Thank you very much.

@karmareadingz 4 года назад

Wow! I was always told to be friendly towards my kids,but not friends, I like your way better❤️🙏

@kevinw9073 4 года назад

Never too late to be a friend to your child. Time is all you have.

@stanleyodoemenem8495 2 года назад

From now on, I will be a better father to my children

@nikitafatakawala4924 3 года назад

These 6 phrases are so magical.. Motivates me to be the best mother to my child.. Learnt so many things here.. Really an eye-opener.. Thank you so much Sadhguru.. Always keep showering ur love, blessings & wisdom like this.. Namaskaram.. 🙏

@julianapaz8866 2 года назад

This is a balsame for the ❤

@niaariah5872 4 года назад

I've needed to hear this..... I have been having the hardest time with my daughter

@parminderhundal3041 3 года назад

Work out

@mistythompson5579 3 года назад

Me too I'm devastated 😭

@lovekindness7389 2 года назад

This too shall pass, I have trouble too with all she’s injecting in a her food wise that I don’t approve well Now am quiet she’s my friend

@primerealtor4349 2 года назад

Truth be told, after having my second child I moved out of my city apartment to the country. This was such a great decision and very enriching for the children, life out of the hustle of the city is magic for children.

@arpit_jain 4 года назад

Loved this video. Need this video in Hindi as well, because this is for elders.

@swapnilpradhan5550 4 года назад

Yup! Infact in as many language as possible 😊

@avinashavi9369 4 года назад

@Arpit Jain glad u care for all parts of the society, Imagine the replies when someone comments for an English version under a hindi video for the same reason. P.S : not criticizing just mentioning.

@dontbeafraidimhere5421 4 года назад

Not only Hindi all major Indian languages also

@sachinrathore5601 4 года назад

Available on sadguru Hindi channel

@leenadutta1253 2 года назад

Children upbringing is so innovative, friendly and approachable that it's not the child but the parent too grows mentally, physically, emotionally and above all spirituality too. Just one note... I like to smile let my child also smile... I like to enjoy let my child also enjoy... I like to explore freedom let my child too explore freedom...

@valarmathydhanasekar405 4 года назад

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.

@osse1n 4 года назад

If a child doesn't respect you and look up to you, the bond will always be shallow.

@pallavsarkar2818 4 года назад

One should never look up to anyone. Neither should they look down to anyone. 🙏

@mr.c2485 4 года назад

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me Respect demanded will be rejected. Respect commanded will be accepted. Parents must master the difference between the two.

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

@@pallavsarkar2818 True

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

@@mr.c2485 True...

@realjayjobes1849 4 года назад

“Listen to their kind of rap music!” Yes, yes Sadhguru I agree.

@magicpentameter 4 года назад

Me too! My mother refuses to listen to anything that she thinks even sounds like rap, I don't feel comfortable sharing any music I find with her because of it. Her loss 😕

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@nomusachamane9190 3 года назад

Sadhguru has changed my life. A well spoken and educated man. I Love you sadhguru, you are a father, brother, grandfather and a food for a soul. God bless you.

@RCh.1 4 года назад

It is too easy making a generation better than ours, because ours has sunk pretty low on all personal standards 💔

@roxanasmith9585 4 года назад

How do you even get to the point to actually think like that amazing wise man? 😱😭 i love how his impulses have left a stamp on my brain, at several occasions his words pop up in my head and I try alternative ways of thinking or reacting. It doesn’t work all the time,i have to admit, it is actually hard. I wish it was a natural way to see things from a neutral standpoint like him. Completely unbiased. That’s a challenge and whoever is trying to make a little difference every day, you deserve full respect ❤️

@adriansherlockdamondark.1094 4 года назад

Wonderful teachings! Although I'm a westerner, I love the words of this wise man so much.

@alevanek9388 4 года назад

This video is simply wonderful. Pure wisdom!! Sadhguru, I am SO blessed to have found you!!!

@aestivial_ 4 года назад

Remember and please understand this parents.... Online games cannot be paused.

@SukeshPhour 4 года назад

01:23 Get off Your Pedestal 04:35 Dedicate time for them 08:35 Don't try to live through them 10:46 Let them discipline themselves 13:27 Stop preparing them for something 15:31 Lastly shine a little bit💫 16:03 The Lady in tears 🙏💝Namaskaram🙏💝

@missirritated4872 4 года назад

I get such a kick out of when he chuckles!♡♡♡

@ilovelife6249 4 года назад

With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@missirritated4872 4 года назад

@@ilovelife6249 thank you! Blessings to you dear friend!

@engine9435 4 года назад

All makes sense and seems pretty much like common sense if you live through your heart. 🙏🏽 Sudguru for all that you present.

@cassagrg Год назад

I saved this post 2 years ago because I liked it. Now , I’m going to become a papa on march of next year, I’ll try my best to implement these lessons in my life too. But I’ll have to watch it again and again , otherwise I’ll forget 😆. Thank you sadhguru 😀

@sangitashilpi2638 3 года назад

How relaxing! His words are that musical rythm that brings harmony even in the most chaotic of environment. Plus, that concluding music!! How mesmerising!! I came here with a heavy heart and now I'm going back with abundant joy 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵😊

@mr.c2485 4 года назад

Respect isn’t something that can be demanded. True respect is commanded....and that by giving of self.

@Yogi_The_Bitter_Truth_2408 Год назад

nor is it demmanded nor it is commanded which is even worse.

@somilshah6365 4 года назад

I would request to keep a survey at the end of this video. The Survey should include the age's of the people who watched this video. You would be surprised I bet

@keshakellogg5995 4 года назад

Can we start here? I'm 31, and I have a 5-year-old.

@jambalover 4 года назад

I'm 32

@armaan8253 4 года назад

@harshittiwari7198 4 года назад

I am 24 and Single😄

@karanvirsingh 4 года назад

I am 16. too young for this video, right? Just love learning new things ☺

@valasador9439 2 года назад

The insight that i catch is "try to imagine your childhood and what do you really want to do" will tell what your child really want

@justdoit6315 4 года назад

Thank you so much and lots of love.❤

@rosalbacastelazo7669 3 года назад

Que hermoso! Gracias Sadhguru

@fox_85 4 года назад

Need it sooo much. Thx ❤️

@taniagil3122 2 года назад

Wow. I am grateful for this teaching. Thank you.

@rohitjayasheel Год назад

Absolutely marvellous

@janmynders5257 Год назад

Who ever said you cannot be friends with your children was nor a good parent. I have heard people my age szy this. I have always been friends with my children & my nephew & niece who both came to l8ve at my house. T U Sadhguru

@andrijagrgic2357 2 года назад

He does have a point there. But all the experiences you had as a parent cannot mean nothing. Of course you have to let your child make their own mistakes, but through all the experiences good and bad you went through, you can at least advise your child. Advise that won't let your child get into trouble over their heads.

@mageshsheebarani9646 4 года назад

Thank you Sadhguru....Namaskaram.

@anibratadutta8898 4 года назад

Theories of this video not only helpful for raising child, also helpful improving relationship with other people

@karolinamalenczak1057 2 года назад

Great pieces of advice! Thank you 🙏

@manishapatnaik5506 Год назад

Thank u so much Sadguru ji 🙏

@lajwantishahani1225 4 года назад

Sadhguru, you shine like the north star, being the gentle guide with your humor without being preachy! That's what makes people, irrespective of age or nationality, listen to you 🙏

@BhawanaRajora_04 3 года назад

So true😊

@kunalsoni8660 4 года назад

Thank You So Much...... Many things I couldn't Say are spoken in this video... Thank You ❤️

@forestbirdgirl 4 года назад

Thank You Sadhguru!!! I needed to be reminded again ~Namaste

@matibetty 2 года назад

This video just wanted my heart....just the kind of parent I want to be

@DonConejo 4 года назад

Shine a little bit! Wow! This 6 things works for all kind of relationships!

@janchakravarthy 3 года назад

Thank you for this wonderful video. This popped up in my feed as I was having a meltdown from trying to home school my 3 year old during the lockdown. I felt like Sadhguru was talking to me and telling me not to fix my mistakes through my son.