@@Fatubah_lil_ghuraba Wa 'alaykumussalaam warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu. This is a RU-vid series. The full playlist can be found here: ru-vid.com/group/PL2dRQaGGWZOCrXbl-_uaeiyhnT_ucXL7j
سبحان الله I was asking Allah for marriage while in sujood and when i finished i saw this notification. Also Uploader/Admin, could you please make a sincere dua for me to get marriage as soon as possible? I'm a 18 year old brother in college /University. Jazak Allah Khair.
You are at uni… are you financially stable to provide her basic needs? Dowry? Unless you intend to live at home if not yet financially stable. I would recommend Pre-marital counselling once you meet the right sister. Marriage life is beautiful, but a spouse can make it difficult if they have childhood trauma, mental health etc they need to work on. Everything at first seems rosey, then their true colours shows in marriage. You don’t want someone that will mess up your mental health, especially when you also have your studies. Also, you don’t want to ruin another sisters life if you are not mentally stable and have trauma you need to work on. Then the need to settle in an unhappy marriage due to guilt or shame. Nonetheless ; May Allah azawajjal grant you a pious spouse when the time is right.
Great reminder for those of us who get caught up in daily routine subhanallah. And forget the significance of small gestures. May Allah reward tremendously.
Waalaikum Salaam brother we’re all in the same shoes. I pray that Allah give you the right spouse. It’s not easy with everything that goes on in the college for a Muslim to keep faith. Inshaa-Allah if you stay patient Allah will make it easy for you
6 :30 - men are to be structural leaders so they are to set up a healthy routine but yea the sister can be detailed helpers to those they know, this also has to be with integrity to so they can both help each other maintain and grow.
The thing is (am a woman) I don't even know what to say! I am not married yet but terrible at making conversation especially with a person Idk and a man even less! I feel like I need to speak some alien language and he will probably think I am weird or boring bc Idk what to say... And about asking him questions, my brain would probably just turn off and I would only get nonsensical ideas
