So I have to say I love the fact that you end your videos with I so appreciate you, and not the cringey love you guys other influencers say. It feels more balanced, and a nice way to keep a good healthy distance. I really hate how so many influencer say they love their audiences when it just makes no sense and feels like a cheap way to garner loyalty. Whereas just produce quality content, maintain a cordial and healthy approach and they will come. Anyway I just felt like mentioning that cos it strikes me every time how good you are in the way you engage with your audience.
Hey, this is such a specific compliment and I love it! Thank you so much for leaving this comment! Gotta have boundaries as an influencer - no unhealthy parasocial relationships here.
So the habits being rewarding is something I was just thinking about the other day but in terms of hobbies, you don’t do hobbies solely for the end goal, you do hobbies because you enjoy the process. Like I love hand-sewing, I haven’t actually finished any specific project yet but working on them is fun and therapeutic.
The best habit tip I ever got, that made things finally click for me, was from one of your earlier videos when you said you have to make your habits/goals for who you are right now, because you won't always be your aspirational self every day. It helped me big in stopping the giving up because I didn't do my morning perfectly, and traps like that. love the videos, so helpful!
*“Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best of which you are capable.” -John Wooden*
I’ve been following you for a couple of years but the past month or so, your videos have really resonated with me and I’ve been bingeing them (while doing other things, of course!) so when I saw a NEW video, I clicked SOOO fast! thanks so much for the time and effort you put into creating such valuable content Muchelle ☺️ looking forward to seeing what you create this year!
I have to say, so far for me my external rewards have worked. I made it a thing where I pretty much only drink coffee after a run. It honestly made it so much easier for me to get up to run the 2/3 times a week, because I had something to look forward to when I wasn’t proud of myself (because I’ve never run before and am a major perfectionist who is literally studying PE and can see all the things I’m doing wrong, right up to the angle of my legs or my breathing rhythm) which I will say, is easier to be now that I’ve started, I’ve only seen improvements, so I actually look forward to my runs and how far I can push myself that day. I also have enlisted my friend as an accountability partner, so we do a call every Sunday night to talk about our goals, whether that be problems we’ve faced or what we’ve achieved. It’s easier to be a cheerleader to yourself when you’ve done it for someone else. It’s almost contagious.
I love this video and your videos so much but I feel like there’s so much beneficial information that I have to watch the video like twenty times!! Lol. Do you have worksheets for people to work through?
I really love the info in your videos. Is it just me, though, that I wish you would speak a little slower? I'm almost 60 and although I'm a professor at Univ. I have a difficult time processing and retaining all the information you present. Am I the only one?
I purchased your notion template and im loving it so far. Do you also sell your content calendar template? Im a content creator and i would love to use it ( i thought its included in the Life Map Notion template).
Love your content! But this one is harder to me to get because you talk soo fast and as someone who has English not as her first language it’s hard. Is it only me ?
Hey, I really want to get a LifeMap Collective planner but I live in Spain and the shipping is more than the planner - do you know if it will be cheaper in the future? I really want to get one, I love your content!
Fantastic video - lots of good information shared in a succinct fashion. I like the idea of tying habits to values :) I've got a good feeling about 2022! Thank you!
Loved the video and I have also been loving your look for a while!! 😍 It would be so great if you could do a make up tutorial and/or talk about how you found the aesthetics that suit you the best/feel right over the years. I know it doesnt fall exactly into your usual content, but maybe it could go with another format like a reel or something?
