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1) He listens to you, deeply intently listening. 2) He remembers what you like, value and are important to you. 3) He lights up when he sees you. 4) He engages in deep conversations with you. 5) He anticipates your needs so that the experience is right. 6) He comes through to you when you're in a bind and he doesn't make you feel guilty about it. 7) He wants to be exclusive with you.
I live for that moment when he sees me and his face lights up! He smiles, his eyes gets bigger, the posture gets pure, the facial lines disappear, there’s that moment when you know you mean something to him!
I'll be the hero today... 1. He listens intently to you. 2. He remembers what matters to you. 3. He lights up when he sees you. 4. He engages in deep conversations with you. 5. He anticipates your needs. 6. He comes through when you are in bind ( and doesn'tmake you feel guilty). 7. He wants you to be his girl friend/exclusive.
Today is my birthday…He spent 2 days making me an amazing chocolate cheesecake. He’s a diabetic and hates cheesecake but he spent 2 days making this. That’s love!!!!
If he shows me the effort and the respect that's enough for me to know that he's already in love with me, I'm going to start facing him straight-on. My now boyfriend all checked on this list which makes me so happy and grateful at the same time. When I saw the signs, I started reciprocating. It wasn't that hard. I listen to him venting about his job, talking about his dreams in the future and his excitement about cars. When I feel like he's not in the mood for talking or if something's bothering him, I just stay by his side, or either hug him making him think that it's me who needs his comfort. I tell him I love him when he leasts expects it. It's quite simple really. Love is such a lovely feeling.
When I’m really into someone that I have feelings, for I go out of my way to do thoughtful things for them, including surprising them with something that they really enjoy, and making it, homemade to give it to them
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
Good to know. With the additions of wanting to have children with and taking care of the homestead, most of these same things also apply when a woman has deep feelings for a man.
For me, both wanting to nest/take care of the homestead and ESPECIALLY the wanting to have children with a man is the tell-tale sign that I am in love because I wouldn't do that with just any man. It's too serious of a decision.
For me, I’ve learned that when I love a man I respect him by giving him his own time, space, allowing him to set the pace, being gentle enough with him that he’ll learn in time that I’m his safe place…that he can tell me anything, that I’m up for his adventures, that I want to be his buddy and companion as much as I want that Eros love relationship! I want him to be able to rest and feel validated and appreciated for his hard work!
@@ericabaysinger6343 i was wondering the same. Giving a guy too much space and understanding can mean being taken advantage of. And almost any guy can do it, sometimes not even realizing it. I was the way too understanding person. And it was a disaster. I’ve found, it’s fine not to pressure a man. But you do that while not being his girlfriend. He can have no expectations placed on him- if he’s not getting all the girlfriend benefits. But if he expects all the things a girlfriend offers, you better believe he needs to sort out how much space he wants way before then. The first man i didn’t let BS me is the most amazing relationship i’ve ever had. And the key to it? The word no. “Everyone just hooks up now.” No. “I really want space so i don’t have time for a girlfriend. Did you want to try being friends with benefits?” No. Absolutely not. “I really feel a connection. Why does it have to be something serious? Lets just see what happens.” No. “I don’t know what i want.” No. All that stuff is just to test who you really are. And if you grant entry to lame excuses and sob stories, it’s seen as weak, not admirable. A guy who wants a lot of space, wants a lot of space away from you-while still knowing he has access to you. Learned it the hard way.
Well said...and all truth to have a man treat you right give way for the small stuff and you will have bigger and better things to come..truth..lived it..
Other things I do when I like someone is: 9. I am spending more time leaning into my faith, lifting him up in prayer. 10. I am also making changes to myself. Not because he has asked me to, but because I see the way those changes could benefit us. Things like, eating more healthy, exercising, and building my strength, breaking bad habits, and implementing new beneficial ones because I see how those changes will benefit me, and us as a couple.
I've been watching you for a while and I get some emails. The truth is without your advice I would still be trying my best to show how I felt to someone I didn't really matter to matter too. After watching you I was able to just tell him to stay away and I've been happier since. I still haven't found anyone but that's okay. I'm stronger than I've ever been.
Mat, you are my favorite relationship coach. Your advice has always been so clear, genuine and it resonates so much. I’ve really harnessed a lot of the advice about how to lean into my femininity more!
My love language is giving and listening to him talk about his life or day. I usually bring something like foods every time I visit him but at the end he is not ready for a serious relationship because he’s still working on his career… blah blah blah. So I withdraw my energy back and move on with my life until the one who is ready for me come along.
Your comment reminded me John Grey talking about attraction between a man and a woman. He said that a woman attracts a man by talking about herself and not by listening him.
I LOVE all your videos, BUT on this one I have feedback about it. First, when you are into a guy, I'm probably doing the same things so it's hard to catch those things. Second, now that I think about it, all the guys I dated did all those things, and ended up being jerks. I truly feel that there is no way to know if someone likes or loves you
Guys don’t have the same view of relationships. A lot of men will stay simply to be comfortable. There’s someone to have sex with, to share bills, to cook. They don’t always trouble themselves with love. Women may act this way, too. But it’s definitely more common among men. I remember many years ago, a woman asked “how could someone be with me for four years and then say he loves me but isn’t in love, and leave?” The answer given? “Comfort.” The moral of the story, make sure he’s in love before giving years of your life away to some who doesn’t really care but wants all the benefits.
We've known each other for a year, but have only been dating a month now. Sometimes he will bring up random things I said or did over a year ago, and I'm so amazed he remembers. They're always little things too, nothing big or important. And he says them so casually as if they're just a part of his memory. I don't deserve this guy.
Your videos keep women obsessed!!! With men.... They really aren't worth all the prying & troubles.... If they like you or love you, you will know this already. 😉
Listen, I am not from the Stone Age, but in my culture, when a man is interested in a woman, he only sees that ONE woman, the expression " exclusive " does not even exist.
For me it's taking care of his feelings and needs unconditionally. Like fulfilling all of his needs all the time, shows that I'm really in love with him.
Mat.. I’m a very loving and overthinking person. I’ve been giving him hints, like touching him as You suggested and been very attentive and verbally supportive. But either he is too professional and doesn’t think this is the right time or I’ve caught the wrong signals🤪 But as You say, when the time is right it’ll happen. Thank you for all of your videos, they are a big help ❤
Nice you have pointed out so many things that could be minimized but are huge. I show love through appreciation, I can’t help light up around him, remembering important things he shared, and thinking of him often (at my grocery trip, buying something just for him).
The last guy I dated and loved sincerely had a position in the church that called for sometimes lengthy meetings after Sunday services. I worried about him going so long without eating and sometimes just grabbing junk food because he was starving. So I used to bring him healthy snacks to keep in his suit jacket to help him get thru those long meetings. He ended up remarrying his 1st wife and now I have to see them together every Sunday in church!
Wow, did not expect ignorance from you. There's people who have health issues and are not "in shape" but do lead healthy lifestyle and eat healthy food. You never know someone's full story, and quite frankly this sounds very unsettling coming from a person who is supposed to know a thing or two about people. Don't judge the book by its cover, oldest lesson in the world.
Thank you Mat for your grounded and honest advice for women. When I am leaning into him and the relationship, I'm actually stepping back. I'm stepping back and giving space for him to show up as his authentic masculine self, and for him to figure things out rather than try to control how he shows his interest or solves his own problems. I'm appreciating his efforts (even if he doesn't load the dishwasher how I would) and listening to his perspective (because I trust I will make space for myself and so will he, when the time is right). Therefore, I'm more authentic, take risks to expose my vulnerable self, and creating opportunities for him to be there for me because I trust him. This allows me to relax into my feminine presence.
I wish you do a video about how to attract a man every man met constantly friend zone me one guy told I am not girlfriend material, I just a shoulder to cry on, the say you are nice girl but they just want to be friends, I would like what I am doing wrong
When I’m into a guy, I do a lot of the things that you just described in this video such as my eyes light up, I like having deep conversations, and remembering special days and events, etc. It appears that timing is going to be key in my situation so that I don't come across desperate. Thanks Matt for an amazing video. 😊😁
