7 Needs Men Have to Fall in Love with You | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs gives relationship advice for women by sharing the 7 needs men want fulfilled before they can fall in love and want to spend the rest of their lives with you
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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Written By: Mathew Boggs
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@matboggs Год назад

Want to enhance your self-love? Check out this practice: www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/bf/mag/self-love-activation-kit

@justimagine...5436 5 лет назад

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."

@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau 3 года назад

That's true. Just be happy and follow your dreams. That will bring you the admirers.

@ramutej 6 лет назад

Don't show a man that you're are deeply in love with a man too early. It's frightens them. Challenge them, let them fight for you, don't give It all away.

@inspiredwhistlenote5742 5 лет назад

emajon What would too early be exactly, a few weeks a few months? I mean if he likes you and you like him but want to be chased for too long then he will think you don’t care about him. Not sure how long is too long to have him chase you? Thoughts??

@dorissanggau4292 5 лет назад

True

@continouslyshequice 5 лет назад

How does one suppress their feelings?

@b3a3n3a3n3a3s 5 лет назад

I think not letting your emotions get the better of you and running away with them is the key. It's very easy in the early stages to believe that you've found the perfect person and that it's definitely love because it's common to project a fantasy onto a person and that can blind you from seeing everything that is that person and keeping a rational mind. I just finished with a guy (not in a relationship but dating) who, at the start, I had believed to be 'the one'. Looking back now he was absolutely not right for me but I definitely think it was a good thing not to rush into a relationship but instead spend a long time dating and getting to see what he was really like. I honestly think that as long as you're honest with the person and communicate with them, if they are a mature and sensible person then they should be able to deal with it. If they can't respectfully and civilly handle you being honest with them then they are not mature enough to start a relationship. It's not about playing games or giving mixed signals. I suppose if you think you're in love with someone pretty early on and you think you should tell them then of course you have to live your own truth. I've just personally had the experience where in the early stages, it was true that I liked him and he liked me back so we dived right in.(this is a different guy, we were actually together) But I've come to realise there's a lot more to a serious relationship than just the immediate feelings. Particularly in my case we fell for each other because we were both quite depressed and insecure with ourselves and the affection and attention from each other filled that void; it was true that the feelings were there but where they came from, whether a relationship the smartest thing for both of us, and whether or not we'd be compatible in the long term was not considered.

@beebuzz959 5 лет назад

I say enjoy yourself! Don't good back out of fear! Dive in and give it all you got! Hiding your inner emotions isn't going to benefit anything. The beginnings are AMAZING, if you let them be. Why who'd you try and stuff that? Men want to be loved too! And if hee afraid, not being true to yourself isn't doing you, him, or a chance at a relationship any good. Enjoy yourself for what it's worth and live your life in love, not in fear. Letting your fears control your living is not living. They're an incredible gift; embrace them!

@branndymessier5081 7 лет назад

1. He needs to be ready. 2. He needs to know that he can provide for you. 3. He needs to feel confident that he is not going to hurt you. 4. He needs to feel sexual chemistry with you. 5. He needs to feel loved & accepted for who he really is. 6. He needs to believe that you are his partner in life. 7. He needs to feel like he can live his life purpose with you.

@shasha6094 7 лет назад

Thank you!!!!

@INFJparadox 7 лет назад

I have never met or been with a guy that wanted to provide for me. In fact, opposite has been true. I have an X who loved to hurt me and watch me cry. I wish I could meet a man with these 7 needs!

@christianone6611 6 лет назад

Imelda Hernandez: Yes, learn from this video what a healthier man who actually LOVES his wife or girlfriend thinks, says, and does, and if you meet an idiot guy who doesn't treat you this way, leave asap. There are much better guys than you met. I swear! Raise your standards, don't accept any crappy treatment. Guys will respect you more for that.

@tag-youre-it 6 лет назад

Imelda Hernandez I'm a bit late to the game here, but to give you some hope. There are a large group of men out there like this, looking for these things. We just keep out distance & watch from afar. We approach when we see it healthy to approach. I tell these young guys never to expect a good woman to appear in their unhealthy lives. I'd say it's the same for women. Good men will look in the window & keep on stepping if they see a mess. Clean up your life which may be a work in progress & likely odds will go up to be approached by something healthy & good. And drop any man that enjoys hurting you or plays with you like a cat. You are an object to him, like a cat playing with a mouse. You are the object to torment, he has dehumanized you. He doesn't respect you or see you as a human being with your own independent feelings, thoughts & dreams. This is not a man but a narcissistic boy with a sex drive.

@INFJparadox 6 лет назад

Thank you, Grant. My life is healthy and good. I guess it's just a matter of Devine timing! Also, I completely agree with you regarding narcissistic boys. I was with one for seven years--narcissistic sadistic demon who preys on empaths like me. Many blessings to you!

@lovemecom3832 6 лет назад

just be yourself. If that man really loves you, he will not find other woman because only you is sure enough for him.

@shannonk1351 5 лет назад

taking this advice doesn't mean you're changing who you are. it's merely about showing your best self & speaking a language the man understands.

@patriciagarrett7478 5 лет назад

How do I get a man to love me and keep me my last boyfriend for six month who I love dearly left me .I always treat him so well take him to work get up at five in the morning make his lunch pay his cell phone bill. Give him a cell phone for Christmas in the BED room that is the best part I think of him every day he never call me. To tell me the reAson why. But he always tell me people is telling him things about mebroken hearted

@patriciagarrett7478 5 лет назад

@heatherbrumfield7217 4 года назад

@@patriciagarrett7478 ...stop doing those things. His purpose is to serve you first. Those things that you're doing must be earned by him showing up and being a man. Best of luck to you!

@Mae-rr5ye 3 года назад

@@patriciagarrett7478 you're chasing girl. You're chasing after him and while men want to be appreciated they don't want to be treated like the prize. They want to believe their partner knows who she is to the degree that he feels he should always be on his best behavior to please her. He's a man, he likes to provide and he wants to please. You don't need to mommy him for him to love you, men want a woman who is feminine, charming, sweet,kind, but also confident and secure in herself, who knows when to put her foot down and maintain her own boundaries or let HIM lead, not a mommy who coddles him. He wants to earn your love step by step. Remember: what's easy is never worth it and what's worth it is never easy. Make him work for it,keep it playful and make it a challenge and just be you. Be appreciative but don't be a doormat. A relationship is a 2 way street. Also, never let a man tell u he doesn't want you twice, you can do better girl and you deserve better. Now you know, and like the rest of us you'll learn as you educate yourself, practice,and try your best. No one is perfect, we've all been there. Give yourself some grace, we're all knew to this life, just figuring it out as we go along. Stay beautiful girl! I Hope this helps ❤️

@geminigirl8 5 лет назад

You missed one of the most important ones, he has to be emotionally available, otherwise you're wasting your time

@dnachname7363 4 года назад

Ehe did say that! Right at the beginning: "If a man is not ready to/for love, believe him and move on"

@dnachname7363 4 года назад

And i believe that includes actions...

@agatha6267 4 года назад

That comes under being ready.

@naveerazafar5304 4 года назад

True

@lexc9879 3 года назад

AMENNN

@protected230 7 лет назад

That alligator scared the hell out of me 😂😂 too funny. Didn't expect it. lol. Too funny.

@greenkitty82 6 лет назад

Protected 'a man would rather have his arm chewed off by an alligator then make a woman cry' then that needs to be told to a hell of a lot of males out there who make a woman cry and don't care. Wish that was true what he says!

@SquaddieSoul 5 лет назад

scared me too.

@TheMsrhonda 5 лет назад

Me 2

@takeshiacrowder713 5 лет назад

Same lol

@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274 4 года назад

It was so corny

@GrahamDore 5 лет назад

I think that a really important step in falling in love, one that has to be overcome in order for a man to feel secure in the relationship, is feeling that they understand you. they understand how you operate and why you react to things the way you do, how you process the world. If you feel that your partner understands you it alleviates feeling fear that you might be misunderstood and judged and possibly end up hurting them with your actions more which all only cause more insecurity. Feeling like people understand and accept you as you are is crucial. If they can support you in your personal growth, leaving enough individual space so as not to manipulate it, that's even better. Also, communicating this understanding and acceptance is very helpful for feeling secure in the relationship

@38special. 6 лет назад

Mat when you first said number seven, "he needs to feel like he could live his purpose with you" my immediate response within myself was, "what if he feels I'm holding him back?" Then I remembered what you said about remembering a time I felt confident when I made a decision... As soon as I brought back the memory of the time and place that I use in this exercise, I realized I was being hard on myself. Then I remembered when, about a month ago, my significant other told me, "you have no idea how much I appreciate your patience and support." Thanks so much for your help, Mat. Truly.

@lovergirl8360 2 года назад

In what ways do u offer patience and support. I struggle with both 12yrs and hes a procrastinator so i get impatient

@shanpowell7820 5 лет назад

1. How do we spark sexual chemistry while on 'the wait'? 2. How do we trust after terrible heart break involving a child?

@andreaturnquist4855 4 года назад

Great questions. I can relate.

@gabriellelc7045 7 лет назад

Thank you Mathew for speaking about self love and acceptance. Ive struggled with this my whole life.

@springfauna1465 6 лет назад

Thank you, Matt! You're advice is great! Looking forward to the download.

@mounikas1 5 лет назад

Thanks Mat for all the videos you make. You have no idea that the things you say have actually happened in my life. I wish I saw this video 1 year back coz it would have saved me some heart ache and crying. You are just a savior. Please please keep making videos to help women feel in control in relationships !! Thank you Thank you.

@Rachel-cd1ei 5 лет назад

Thank you, Mathew, for this video! Wow that really opened my eyes and really got to know more of what the guy wants. Especially this tip, "he needs to feel like he could live his purpose with you." I never thought of that in the way you explained it so thank you again.

@sandrakj6343 6 лет назад

This collar and color look so great on You! (among all the other things) Best wishes for your family! Thank you for the generous time you also spend with us here.

@anlek5363 7 лет назад

Thanks a lot Matt. Those are also my needs to fall in love as well, esp the "have your back"

@mindtheprivacy 5 лет назад

I love your videos and the warmth and kindness in what you explain.

@mandiwilson83 6 лет назад

Mat, your videos especially this one has helped me understand quite a lot. Everything you have said, especially this video, my man has shown me. My previous relationships didn't work and I have never had a positive example of one. So I want to make this one work and be positive. Your video about making long distance relationships work was one of the first ones I saw. It has helped. Thank you

@micboo1978 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for this amazing free gift of helping us love ourselves completely with this 21 day exercise. I love it! You really bring so much positivity to our lives and really help us to get better!

@hope9672 6 лет назад

thank you so much for this video. i love the way that you explain things in a very kind understanding manner. God bless you!

@dashiajames1882 5 лет назад

I really can't get enough of your videos & advice !!

@missifvh 7 лет назад

So clear! Im finally in a dating situation where I can be this woman and feel comfortable with myself to be this woman. Thanks matt

@anelisakittson6014 6 лет назад

I really appreciate this opportunity to discuss this topic thanks everyone

@susank585 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing your unique and helpful perspectives. I truly enjoy how you are transforming yourself as you help to transform others. It's quite beautiful and right!

@Heirphoria13 5 лет назад

Great advice!! I lived on my own for 10 years while dating a lot and now have been married for 24 years. We are still in love!! So I know both being single for along time and being married along time. This guy has very good advice!

@isabelezrati2055 6 лет назад

Thank you Matt - I love how much your video messages are delivered with positivity and love. I've started dating again just in the past year after a long while focusing on my career and some personal development. Now that I'm back in the game, I find these kinds of videos super helpful for navigating the annoying moments that crop up - they're helpful to keep things light and not take the bumps in the road so much to heart. But more and more I feel like my issue in finding love is timing. When I get a magical connection, it seems to me that the timing is off. He's not ready or about to leave. Or in the past I wasn't ready. What's a girl to do if her love life is a series of bitter-sweet mistimed connections?!?!?

@YOUbadGIRL2012 7 лет назад

What a great video, I'm loving to learn. Thank you Mat.

@brooklynsanchez4759 6 лет назад

Among here I've watched Matt you're the best in explaining I haven't felt any boredom listening as you speak...you nailed it Matt!😉😎🤓

@lindagibson7468 5 лет назад

i really like matts talks great information and examples of what he’s talking about

@joelen8232 3 года назад

Thank you for your great videos ! We follow you from Brussels

@felicitylerouge 6 лет назад

The first post is so valuable. I know I have twisted myself into knots, wondering what I might have done, to put a man off - but if he isn't ready.... Thanks for this, Matt; it was what I needed to hear, today

@ola3rd 7 лет назад

Wow that story about your friend in the car really touched me. I was ALWAYS fearful/criticizing my ex about his reckless driving (and a lot of things in general). Whenever he told me about somthn bad that hapnd; my first thought was ALWAYS - well what did YOU do to mess it up? He thought of me as a total nag. Whereas the guy I am currently with; he can almost do no wrong in my eyes. Whenever somthn goes wrong, I get very defensive of him and mad at the OTHER ppl involved. Watching this vid makes me realize it may also go the other way too? Ladies, if you're always criticizing/nagging your man - maybe he just isn't the one for you? It could be a sign of a bigger issue that you do not trust him or subconsciously are not comfortable with him!!

@reddiamonds7539 6 лет назад

True

@daisyrose81 5 лет назад

I totally agree with this!!!!! I've totally had this same experience and in reality it's because he's broken trust or hurt us or lost our respect somehow (for me it was when I told (anytime, multiple issues) him what bothered me or hurt me and he laughed at me, criticized me, didn't care and didn't change a thing) so I think you're right, absolutely, when a man really shows love to you like he LISTENS and CARES about what bothers you or what you like, etc. you trust him and if you mutually respect and are good with each other physically I think we women back our man 100% (am I right?) (a different guy, totally cared about me, I felt loved and trusted him and I ALWAYS defended him fiercely if anyone hinted anything negative about him) but when we don't I think it's the deeper issues that he's not the one because if he doesn't love you or is not mature enough to understand how to respect your boundaries or care about you, it won't get better later and you will still not trust him later either!

@tootscarlson 5 лет назад

I find that if I’m nagging a man, I need to part ways with him. It means he is not a good match for me and just a project.

@jamilaaali9127 5 лет назад

Deep

@andreaturnquist4855 4 года назад

This resonates with me as well

@MyLifeinPieces 7 лет назад

Great video, loved the effects 👌🐸

@sophielara6738 6 лет назад

Hello Mathew, I usually don't leave comments but I think it's always important to show appreciation to people. So thank you for your knowledge! You seem to be a great guy. Keep doing what you're doing! Kind Regards

@ciralondon 5 лет назад

As wright as usual! Thank you Mat from Barcelona! In my way to find real love and your advice helps a lot!

@jenifercrespo3230 6 лет назад

You are my teacher now!! Thanks for your videos

@iceblue1457 4 года назад

This video is an eye opener for me. Thanks a lot, Matt.

@suzanneb2002 7 лет назад

I'd love you to talk about the dynamics of dating for those of us in our 70's. I'm finding the process more mysterious at this age than ever!

@andreaturnquist4855 4 года назад

It is hard the older we get. I hope you are doing well!

@barbieshs777 6 лет назад

I really like your videos. They're clean and really heartfelt.

@lisayoung8594 6 лет назад

Thank You Matt!! Your Video Was So Cool And Insightful. I Needed To Hear The Car Story Example With Your Friend, Thank You.

@meghanbrohoski2996 6 лет назад

I needed to hear this!! Puts things in perspective.

@anelisakittson6014 6 лет назад

I believe your doing a tremendous job at all these things. I appreciate you. thanks for your help in making me open up. and truly trust you.

@rosemarydewar1707 6 лет назад

Just sent this video to a friend. Thanks Matt!

@AnaMaria888 7 лет назад

you are so funny with Cupid :))))) thank you for the smiles and advices

@donaches 6 лет назад

I really love your videos! I have listened to most of them tonight

@marrietvisser6195 5 лет назад

I gave him his space and he is back. Things are better, more connected and he appreciates more than before. I am glad I gave him the space to deal with a very stressful issue. He only took a week to work it out. Thank you. You helped me a lot.

@dansebree93 2 года назад

Matt, you are so wise and helpful

@crystallam7335 4 года назад

Thank you, this is a gorgeous video 🥰🌟❤️

@ATrueLoveOfficial 6 лет назад

all of this is so true, when he seriously in love with you he do the right thing for you and assure you have a good future.

@catherineduong9241 6 лет назад

Fantastic insight. Thank you, Matt!

@katelavi7468 7 лет назад

Thank you for that video !!

@mandyh8771 6 лет назад

Thanks Matt for always creating great videos that add value to me. It's helped me to further understand and appreciate men.

@GuadalupeGarcia-jn9xr 7 лет назад

I love your videos thank you for being and awesome love advaicer Coach 😀

@CurlyCarmellabeauty 7 лет назад

A guy can fall in love before he's accomplished everything, but he wont marry or "settle down" until he's ready, I'm 20 going on 21, and so is my boyfriend, we've been together since 17 going on 18, we don't live together but we've decided to wait to marry and continue dating for a few more years as were still young. I definitely would be ready to marry sooner than my man but he really feels he needs to have everything in place for marriage just like mentioned in the video. Right now were just trying to reach our goals and enjoying being in love and having fun together making memories. This video really is the truth because alot of men ive known family friends say the exact same thing about settling down, and what they need in place before they do. If he's the right guy for you then he's worth the wait. But obviously never let the wrong guy make you wait

@michaelskywalker3089 6 лет назад

When I was in my mid 20's I didn't feel ready to move my relationship into a marriage. The truth is however that I wasn't ready to receive or love someone properly at that time. The financial and circumstantial aspects of a solid marriage should be secondary (imo). The career and life planning can be developed while together in a marriage where both parties are people truly in love and where the two people complement each other as life partners.

@nofybn7794 5 лет назад

Your gonna get hurt honey.

@nofybn7794 5 лет назад

Yes, and no. I don't agree. Sometimes, you could be in love but if the life path isn't the same, love isn't gonna matter.

@Thaprince9 5 лет назад

Eventually he will dump you. You're too old for him. Find an older man, dummy

@missb8904 3 года назад

amazing content Matt, you make so much sense

@emilycarroll6908 6 лет назад

every boyfriend I have had has tried to tell me he loves me within DAYS of beginning to date...I know there are gonna be people saying "well stop complaining" but as someone who is actually really jumpy and hesitant about saying that myself until it really means something to me it has put me in some VERY awkward positions. Why do men do this??? I'm sorry but there is no way that is possible within three days of meeting a person

@TheRedemptionRain 5 лет назад

Emily Carroll you have”boyfriends “ in three dates? Huh?

@gabyosario2601 5 лет назад

I'd like to know too, my man told me the same after 10 days of dating, so I grew very skeptical about him, so I gave him hell for a year to prove if he did, needless to say, we got engaged, but it was so weird to me. When he told me he loved me, I said thank you, lol. Love God, love your brethren, love yourself and all will set to place. God bless our minds.

@MrSlothJunior 5 лет назад

That is definitely possible. I don't believe in "love at first sight", but it doesn't have to take a long time to make yourself believe that someone is just right.

@irynaromaniuk6028 5 лет назад

They want to get laid ... and fast!! 🤣😂

@memoryrinehart4452 5 лет назад

@@irynaromaniuk6028 You had to spoil it. But you're probably right. At least partially right.

@sabrinay5852 7 лет назад

Hi Matt ! Thank u for all ! Can u please explain us how men feel when they are in love ? Lot of love

@strang1124 5 лет назад

He just. It's that simple.

@rheasalastre5187 6 лет назад

Thanks for uploading this video

@colleenmccarthy7243 7 лет назад

Matt, could you please make a video with conversational questions that help potential partners get to know each other on a deeper level? Thank you for your time.

@goldensprite3373 4 года назад

Your videos are very engaging and beneficial, but I'm laughing at the white spattered painting behind you... Very apt! 🤣

@brendanelson8669 4 года назад

The question is how to completely open up emotionally to the one you love without fear of feeling rejected or feeling like they really don't love you or worrying about what they might think or how he would respond. Being vulnerable and exposing true feelings without so many expectations. And this goes for them also, to know how to do this with ease. It's like you know what you want to communicate to them when their not around but when your around them you freeze up and they do the same. Walls seem blocked and bottled up as the barriers to need to be brought down to feel a closer connection without the doubts of thinking everything is not going to work out and just fall apart. Not being sure of what to say as the stakes seem so high to become closer on a deeper level. Especially if there's been past hurts in the relationship. When things have changed in the realationship where It makes you feel stupid around them to behave in such a manner of holding in the feelings that need to be expressed especially when you already have known them for a long time and have been in the relationship for a long time already. Basically getting out of your head and getting into the ❤️ heart with honesty without holding back.

@juanitamumford3820 6 лет назад

I love your video's--so positive& up lifting.

@ExpertGloriaStarr 4 года назад

Such a solid level of content

@christinaschulz131 7 лет назад

Hi Mat!! Great video as always! Thank you so much for the amazing work you do. My question is: Could you do a video about how to let go when your heart is broken after a breakup? A kind of step by step guide or some practical exercises would be SO helpful as this topic is such a complex thing that only seems to work in theory. I think that going through heartbreak is such a difficult thing. But one obstacle I just cannot leave behind is the whole "letting go and get real closure"-thing. I would appreciate your thoughts on that so much!! Thank you :)

@Day29Lisa 4 года назад

Great video!

@mary-annelei3588 6 лет назад

Thanks for sharing

@sandrazevallos5077 5 лет назад

This is really really good. I love this video 👌❤️💯

@empressironbladder8942 4 года назад

Omg! The alligator scared me!!😆. Excellent video Matt, thank you so much.

@hopestyve6946 5 лет назад

Love your videos Matt! They are so helpful and inspirational! My issue with my boyfriend is we can’t stop fighting 😩 And when we fight he never thinks he is wrong, and he always blames me. We love eachother very much but we can’t see eye to eye.

@kaikaikaikai5688 6 лет назад

Beautiful video I've seen a lot of bullshit about love but this was clear and beautiful thanks so much for his video ❤️✅

@roselynsmall6242 2 года назад

I believe your quote: “ME FIRST! Then and only then, i could assist.”

@Roxyrox303 6 лет назад

I am a singer in a band, and I have been for many years. My question is, how do I be in a relationship with a man without him getting "jealous" of what I do? It seems like every man I go out with either gets jealous of the attention I receive OR he wants to try and be in the band that I am already in (like, I want to play guitar on a few songs). I don't want to compete with my men. Yet it seems every man has an inner rock star who wants to come out and inevitably gets upset with my success. You say men want you to pursue your own purpose and make your life amazing, but what if they get jealous of your purpose and success?

@Heirphoria13 5 лет назад

I dont think a really confident guy would want to ride your coat tails or be jealous of what you do. Find an alpha Male who has his own thing going. 😊

@claudiacarley4050 2 года назад

Be transparent in every Way!

@jennamasaki2134 Год назад

Thank you so much Mat, I can watch & learn from you all day! How do you make a man feel confident that they aren't going to hurt you?... I'm pretty darn confident we nail all the rest. Isn't there always some uncertainty?

@hellotherealien 5 лет назад

I agree thanks. Much light💗❤💜💙💚💛💗❤💜💙💚💛🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@kelseycoca 6 лет назад

I showed this to my partner and they said it's very accurate lol

@jenniferlorence1950 4 года назад

This is So True, my friend is happily married and This is exactly how her husband is. He loves her, he is a good provider, he protects her and wants her to be HAPPY. They are life partner and they tell each other everything.

@peacheswhite38 6 лет назад

I like the way u add the props way cool yo.

@susannabonke8552 5 лет назад

Supporting, not criticizing.. is crucial

@MyVlogTherapy 7 лет назад

Great video Matt !!

@ma.cristinaestardo7718 4 года назад

Thank you 🙂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@patriciatrampler7198 5 лет назад

Their was 1 lady that asked how do you over come shyness. Well my guy was VERY SHY he said he felt very relaxed with me and we hit it off in 5 minutes. It just worked. I really feel it was acceptance of him knowing what i know now.

@pisceanrat 6 лет назад

Number 1 makes so much sense. It doesnt mean he is a jerk. The timing and experience was just not a ok

@jessicajames3047 5 лет назад

Not only do i have to agree, the thing was is that all it takes to come down to is just takes time

@suelynnlo5324 2 года назад

This is your best video :)

@bertaeagle3776 6 лет назад

I totally liked that I might be making someone feel constricted as opposed to feeling more open. Makes sense. I wouldn't want to be with anyone less either. ..so why expect it out of anyone else

@foodmood8636 6 лет назад

really good.. thanks

@sherra4004 7 лет назад

I'm glad i subscribed.

@terinataite1062 6 лет назад

Hey Matt thank you for your videos, they are helping me get through a tough time at the moment, and its providing some clarity after my recent dumping/ghosting. Two questions: 1) Is there a way to tell on a first date even, that he genuinely looking for a relationship? And how can you let that be clear to him without coming of as hmmmm intense? 2) I have achieved a lot of things in my life, lead a full life, outgoing etc, a lot friends etc telling me 'they can't believe I am single' (which I think we all hear) - can a woman intimidate a man or is that just something our 'friends' tell us? Should we accept this idea that maybe we are 'too much' for a man to handle?

@LUMALuxuryMatchmaking 7 лет назад

I totally agree with you on a most of these points. But with #2, if the man has issues with his masculinity, it shouldn't fall on the woman. If they're insecure with their capability to provide, then that is a personal soul search. We shouldn't have to give his manliness a cushion in order to secure his "love."

@cristinadiez473 6 лет назад

Thank you for all the wonderful videos you always post, they contain amazing guidance for better relationships; society becomes better as a result of healthier relationships. Among some questions I have, here is one, besides genuine love, what do you think are the big players for a relationship to grow every day and always be alive?

@jacquelynlanghein8439 4 года назад

Very informative

@lebiabeeh1333 6 лет назад

Thanks for these wonderful videos. Please can you make some videos to also teach/show men what women like or love in a man?

@Lili_china 5 лет назад

your channel is amazing 😍

@EsterVanderWalttube 3 года назад

I came across your videos when i started to improve on me. Firstly thank you I have learn more than I have learned in the past 50 years. I come from 2 marriges... one my partner passed away the second ended in divorce. The latter I had trusted fully and never questioned anything and after 18 years discovered he had cheated for most of our time together. I was hurt more than I could verbalize and could not understand this. We never argued, i had implemented everything that a good wife should do, i beare his children and lets face it the sex was good too. But after the divorce i had beaten myself up.... what did i miss, what did i done wrong, and since 2008 i am not sure that i am good enough. Now i have met this gorgious man, he is caring, compasionate, interesting. Our past paths are like 95% the same and it feels like i know him forever. But because of my experiences i am sabbotaging my own happiness. How do i get through and over this?

@TissaRobinn 7 лет назад

That's a great question! I would love to know that myself aswell. Do they experience it the same way as woman?

@patriciatrampler7198 5 лет назад

Hi Mat, Thank you so for your help. I dont know what i did. But Life is funny. I have always been negative and now im positive and guys are coming to me. I was enjoying my retirement but now im living it with my man of 5 months. THANK YOU! He told me he loved me at 3 days into the relationship. I didnt understand, but now i do. We are perfect for each other. As perfect as people can be. Between God and you, you two made it happen. I Told him to wait for me to catch up. Now we are getting married New Years Day. We went to Dunkin Donuts on our first date. Sat and talked for 8 hours like we knew each other all our lives. Next night dinner out. And 3 days later we've been joined at the hip since then. THANK YOU!! I dont know how to explain it. Its been magic. We are both so GRATEFUL AND AMAZED HOW IT ALL HAPPENED.

@priya6085 6 лет назад

Great video. If a man decided to live his life single based on his previous hurts. What does change his mind to accept the unconditional love someone is already giving ?

@blankakasza7221 5 лет назад

Priya A K you can’t change that. He has to work that put for himself.

@Ira7x77 7 лет назад

This really helped me understand why he needs time.

@clairthomas6960 7 лет назад

Hi Mathew,your videos are brill.I wonder if you could give some advice please.I met a wonderful man who I love dearly and want to support him soo much,he has an ex girlfriend who seems controlling and hate the effect she has on him as she tries to make him feel guilty.He is lovely and I know he doesn't want to hurt her.They have been apart for over 2 years,she knows about me .Its obvious what she is doing,I bite my tongue & calm as I support him as I trust him but I don't trust her.Really need some advice from a man's point of view that could help.😃.Thanks Mathew😃