Why should I destroy myself 🥺? My covert narcissist girl friend destroyed my self-confidence, my worth made me super confused. Always domination & manipulation push pull game God. And she can throw me whenever she wants like yesterday's trash. Guys, don't make a fool of yourself going to attract them or fix them you will burn out. But your achievement would be nothing just a waste of time, energy, efforts, emotions.
@mamun3192 Hi! Thank you for being so open and leaving a comment 😊 You should absolutely NOT destroy yourself!! Everything you describe in your comment I felt too when I dated a narcissist. It’s what they do. The best thing would of course be to keep as much distance as possible to your girlfriend. If you are still in a relationship and feel like you can’t or don’t want to end it for some reason you should learn to protect yourself. I want to remind you that everything bad you have ever heard from her isn’t true. Narcissists always focus on your shortcomings and are experts at finding new flaws that are probably very insignificant or weren't a flaw to begin with but the narc made it into your flaw. Try to imagine you have this shield in front of you everytime you hear negative comments or mean words. In the tug of war the narcissist will always win so don’t try to fix her as you said. You are right about the fact that it will be a waste of energy. Remind yourself that the problem isn’t you. I decided to leave two links to videos here on my channel that you might find helpful. One is about rules of behaviour with a narcissist. The second is how to recover from narcissistic abuse. If you haven’t seen them yet I recommend you to do that. 🌺🌻 Link to 10 rules of behavior with a narcissist ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Ox8UIjeMYv8.html Link to 6 ways to recover from narcissistic abuse ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zZu8jMoEBG0.html Take care// Kiwi
@@sofiakiwi1997 wow, it’s amazing. I broke up with her five days ago. Now, I am in the trauma bonding period. I always felt like I have been mentally abused. Thanks for your support take love 🖤🖤
@@mamun3192 I am so happy for you!! 🎉🎉 You took this big step to actully free yourself from this toxic union. Good job! Now, don't let her convince you to give it another chance. Often narcissists return. Mine did. This is the only time when you should remember all the bad things that was going on in the relationship. Remember it and don't let history repeat. The best way is to end communication, no matter how hard it might be and block this person from all social media accounts. Be strong 🌞💪
