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It's harder to tell when she's a particularly social person. Half of the things she says and does around me would seem like obvious hints if it were any other woman lol
I remember I learnt this sign from one of your videos. A co worker recently asked if I was married and my brain went straight to your coaching.... I felt so good and confident cos I knew how to respond to it immediately and it kind of paid off....
I asked my friend to be my girlfriend on New Years day. We had often spoke about a future together. A week before new year I went out with another women. My friend reacted like a jealous girlfriend, then I knew I had to ask her to move our friendship to a new level.
Another sign...I was watching her with binoculars from across the street and she held up a sign saying -are you ever going to wash that van-? She knows how to make me laff!
I honestly feel that after a 4th date, you will know for sure whether she definitely likes you. For all of you guys out there reading this: quit being friends with the women you want to date. Offer them to join you on a night out for dinner and some fun playing pool or bowling. Flirt with them and tease them a little. Make eye contact with her, and let her be the first to break it. look for the signs that she wants to be kissed and when it is confirmed kiss her.
It makes sense, Melannie, but in my experience, many women, certainly not all, but probably most of them crave attention. They'll go for the guy who gives them a lot of it, assuming he's cute (the proverbial tall, dark, and handsome type). This means a man can rarely feel secure that the girl he's with -- married to, in an LTR with, or dating -- will be "loyal,” as some other man who comes along could shower his girl with attentiveness potentially stealing her away from him. I know loyalty is a word rarely heard in today's fast-paced dating culture. This “attention thing” often backfires because relationships will surely go through rough patches, and at such stages women (and guys) can be vulnerable to "attention bombing" from an interested third party at the office or elsewhere. Lastly, if a guy needs to be taught or coached how to find a mate, and can’t figure it out on his own, we have to ask this question: does he really deserve to be her mate? My answer would be that he probably needs to be someone else’s mate or even nobody’s mate. It's okay not to have a girl friend; there are countless other things you can do to live a full life.
I have a co worker, very strong personality. She seems to shoot quick glances, as if to see what I am looking at, but then she looks away. Maintains good eye contact when we are talking. Occasionally touches my arm when making a joke. She always looks good! I'm not sure if she is interested or just respects/ looks up to me. I really don't want to make things awkward if I am misreading things...
@@organicmechanic5150 ya, I know so now. I told a story to another about how awesome my wife is when this coworker was within hearing distance. I also told her that I appreciate her friendship. She now hates me and accused me of harassment. That whole saying about a woman scorned has taken on new meaning!
@@Just_chill_fool damn dude, I'm sorry to hear that. I've had my share of women make up bs accusations about me for whatever reason they felt necessary. I avoid victims at all costs. The minute a woman talks smack about an ex or someone else, I walk away. You are definitely going to be on that list if you attempt a friendship.
I can definitely say from experience that most of these signs are very real. Fellas, never tell a woman how beautiful she is, pick a feature and compliment her on it. Women hear how beautiful they are all the time. Compliment her clothes. Light teasing doesn't hurt, if they give it back, it's a good sign.
FRIENDS! Thanks so much, Coach Melanie! The content in this video Is just what I need to learn! 👍 And I think I speak for many other guys out there on this one. 😁 All kidding aside, this is great advice.
Case in point if a girl is attracted to you also & sits idle hoping everything to fall in place conveniently without any risks will miss out her chance to Female competition.
Hands down this is your best video. From the very begining you draw our attention to the point of the content. The part I love the best is that you connect to us as your audience just like the issues you point out in this video. Your smart wit keeps us focused and your entusiasm doesnt encourage your viewer to wander off to watch other videos. Well done!
There’s a cute girl in work who keeps looking me and this has happened for months now. I’ve had opportunities to speak to her but I just get way too nervous. Really hope I haven’t left it too late. However I may have a game plan of how I can get it rolling. So I’m going to try this! And if it doesn’t work then at least I’ve learnt for the future. Just need to tell myself I’ve got nothing to lose! Thanks for the tips!
I'm a Uni student in the UK and have just gone on spring break. when I got the train home I met a really cute girl with her friend. Her friend talked first at a train station we all changed at as we were going the same way. she was a confident blonde girl who talked a lot, blah blah blah. I made it clear I was interested in her cute ginger friend as I mainly looked at her. I could tell she was shy and nervous. turns out that's more attractive for me. when I asked her what she was studying I got all excited as she is studying film that we share an interest in. she smiled and said looking away sorry my hair is going everywhere. I said doesn't bother me, think it's cute. she made a small laugh but looked away. I knew she was interested then. I said the best way to get to know me quickly is I'm a cocktail of Deadpool, Spiderman, and the Doctor, can you deal with that? that made her laugh properly. her friend could tell what was going on and she gave me the look to tell me her name. her friend went first but she smiled at her and I could tell she was encouraging her. she said I'm Erin. I said that's a really cute name. she smiled and looked away. her voice put me at ease and that's really important to me. so her blonde friend said you go out at all? and I replied what you take me for? you think I'm a boring loser that won't go out? of course I do. she could tell I don't take myself seriously or at least I like to have fun. so I know a club they go to and said we will see you there. so planning to hopefully see them there this weekend and move on....
If you start out as friend, you're likely to stay stuck as friends. If your attracted to someone, let her know that your interest in her is romantic from the very start with your body language. When you see her look at her intently, don't look away as if you didn't notice her, stand fully erect and walk up to her with confidence, Introduce yourself to her and shake her hand with a light double-hand and don't let go of her hand until she pulls hers away. Gaze into her eyes for longer than you normally would in a regular conversation and complement her: "I think you're cute, or I really like your ...." Starting out as friends is a strategy that is likely to backfire.
I wont mention your Male Date Advice competitior. I will say "Pufferfish." I learned more from your presentations than others. The advice is similar. But your videos are easier to understand. You're a natural. And very funny.
So my question is...I'm horrible at picking up signals because for years I would think someone was interested, I'd ask them out and get the ..."oooh...I like you...just not that way" speech. How do you determine the difference between she really is interested or she is just naturally flirty? I have a friend now who confuses me. Sometimes she seems interested, and has done a lot of these "signs" you showed here. Other times it's like she couldn't care less. One day she was late to meet for lunch and she got there and apologized for being late and was like..."Sorry...this was the 4th outfit I tried on". Sometimes while talking, she reaches over and rubs my arm. Not too long ago, she was like..."I don't care who we see in concert...I just like being there with you". I've run this and other things by my other female friends and they are as confused as I am.
im just waiting and seeing if she'll make the first conversation or something cause she sees me looking at her all the time and she hasnt said a word yet this is 3 days a week at work in a warehouse shits funny af they are just so scared nowadays lmao
Thanks for the great signs to look for, I've lost someone that might have been showing these signs to me and I didn't recognise them, just one observation, I think you might have used too much cable on that microphone. LOL
If a woman smile's at you.....and you don't pick up on it and make a move on her, she see's it as rejection and move's on to someone else.....she only see's this a rejection simply because you have denied her the one thing she was truely hoping to accomplish.....her master's degree in manipulation. I have learnt if a woman smile's at me....to take no notice, no matter how attractive the woman is..... ignore them and just keep walking, because a warm friendly smile doesn't mean she ain't a crazy nutcase gold digger or someone that is not just out for her own validation of her egotistical personality.
Which of these signs surprised me the most ? The sign where she talks to a guy as if they are already a couple. That's seems like a rare sign or behavior. Although, if I'm interested in her, it would be a welcome sign. Thanks again Coach Melannie.
This surprised you because you need to be highly physically attractive for a women to unabashedly give herself like this. Like godly level. It's shocking seeing it happen because it deconstructs the social narrative. Understand that a woman risks being called slutty when doing this, but if the man's features are good enough she'll accept this risk. I suspect Melannie has behaved this way in the past which is why she mentioned it.
I'm a tall, intelligent, talented and not bad looking guy --- and NONE of these things ever happened in my life. That's why it's hard to take any of these videos seriously. If I had never pursued girls, I never would have met any. --- Well, ok, ONE time I was freelancing at a company for a couple days and I think a girl liked me, but she wasn't my type and then I was gone.
I had one female coworker that kept flirting with me and, despite my body language of non-interest, she kept at it. She even went so far as to leave multiple notes on my desk suggesting different things we could do. After saving and giving those notes to HR, I'm proud to say she no longer works with me. Sometimes, life is fair.
Watching this video had me laughing from the beginning to the end. Lol. Everything you said, I had experience it in my first relationship that I was in about 12years ago.. however, todate I have not met any girl that showed that kinda interested in me as yet...
It's good that you can see the signs! What are you doing now to attract women? The way to start seeing those signs again is to understand what you need to do to attract women easily. Once you have those skills you'll be set to start seeing those signs again. Here are some videos to help! ru-vid.com/group/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk
Some of these signs that you're describing are helpful, however, the one you say she likes you and doesn't continue to make eye contact. There is a young lady that I know she likes me, but she's able to continue to make eye contact. I've also noticed she looks over at me off and on continuously from a distance. She is very much an extrovert.
Hi Coach Melannie!! The sign number five is surprising. My normal reaction would be: Yeah, sure. While I am thinking: Why she said that, it is not like we are doing rocket science? Maybe she is an enthusiastic person. Thanks for expanding our knowledge to new horizons, sure you are doing rocket science so we can approach to the gorgeous gal.
Well all that explains a lot. I, personally, have never seen any of these. If the hundreds of couples I've known of it happening only once, maybe twice.
Very good looking guys get this kind of treatment. I suspect that Melannie has acted this way towards beautiful men which is why she considers it the typical way she and other women engage with men. Most guys aren't given chances like this though. I wonder if she has enough self-awareness to know that?
FRIENDS: Hi Mel, your signs are 100% correct. But there is one problem. There was a girl who gave me these same signs. At first, she gave such signals. But when her boyfriend, who was in a relationship of 5 years, started following her, her signs decreased. She always said I was just her friend. But I said I don't want that. The age difference between us is about 15 years. But others said that the age difference between us is about 6 years. I still can't figure out the reason for her change. She always blamed her boyfriend. She was told that her life was disappointing. Now she tells me directly that she has a boyfriend. what should I do
She has a boyfriend my dude. Biggest sign a woman is unavailable ever. There are loads of other women who would love to be with you our there who are single my dude.
Before I started watching you I did not notice how many body languages girls give. Now I’m more aware of those things thank you for teaching me some of those things 🙂
Melanie i have told you about the woman I work with. I've given her several small gifts and her face just lit up and her eyes just shined. She told me I was the sweetest person she's ever known. On Monday I gave her a coffee cup and she told me I had to stop and people were asking if we were a thing and she told them no we are just friends. The whole time she was telling me this she let her hair down and was brushing her hair. I honestly think she likes me, but still insists on being done with men. Tonight at work I avoided her all night long and just saw her once on a move and she said hello Michael and I just gave a small smile and wave. I'm hoping that avoiding her will make her think and actually want me more. I'm fine with just being friends now, but I'm trying to show her I'm different and hopefully in the future she'll give me a chance to show her and let me into her life. Usually she always comes around me when we have downtime, but Tonight I made sure I didn't have downtime and I'm really hoping this will put me on her mind and heart. Her reaction when I gave her this small gift hurt me and embarrassed me, but I'm just wanting to be on her mind and heart.
I have a close gal pal who I had always thought "if we both weren't already married...". I am now divorced and she was my main emotional support, and she is now heading into a divorce while turning to me for support. I think she's giving me signals, but I also know her well enough to realize she is kind of flirty in general (always was). I certainly cannot tell if she's making extra effort to look better because she is a natural beauty. (possibly the most attractive person I've met, and that comes from me who works in the film industry) One last point... we are close enough that many assumed we were having an affair in the past (we didn’t). Are there any signs that a friend is removing you from the friend zone (we've been close friends for about 5 years)
So I recently started working at a new job and so far I really enjoy working there. At this new job I have I saw this one woman there and I immediately fell in love with her. Maybe the best word to use in my situation is Infatuated. Anyways, every time I see her at work I always stare at her(not making it obvious) and I just have all these thoughts running through my mind about her(good thoughts) and I'm just so nervous to talk to her. I mean I do ask her how she's doing every time I see her and she says she's doing good and asks me how I'm doing and I say I'm alright too. And I have had small talk with her like if she likes the job and how long she's been working there. But other than that I don't talk to her much. I have really bad anxiety it really hits me when I see a woman I like. It makes me scared to talk to her because I don't know what to talk about. Sometimes in my mind I'll be thinking about what if she likes me too? Last time I remember talking to her I noticed she was playing with her hair a little bit(usually thats a body language sign of a woman liking someone) I don't know much about her and she doesn't know much about me and I'd love to get to know her better. Sometimes I also notice that she stares at me. Idek anymore. Maybe I'm just going crazy and all these thoughts in mind are not realistic about her. Any advice to help me talk to her more often and not be scared?
