7 Signs Someone Is Attracted to You (And You Have No Idea) 

A bonus one. When someone is attracted to you, did you know their eyes tend to dilate a bit more? Evidence here: ttps://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0040256

You're here just because you want to realise that your crush doesn't like you at all. I know... Me too.

imagine liking someone and they like you back, couldn’t be me

1. Body language shifts/angles towards you 2. They fidget a lot while near you 3. There's a lot of eye contact 4. They find ways to 'accidentally' bump into you 5. They find ways to touch you 6.They work their relationship status into the conversation 7. They keep in contact with you

So about the first sign, body language, I think it's important to keep in mind that just because someone's body is facing towards you doesn't mean they like you. In fact, I almost guarantee most of the time it's just them being comfortable. I know because I am like this, both on the side of overthinking everything someone else does and the side of "I sit comfy in weird ways"

Remember everyone, these are just possibilities and just because someone does these things doesn’t mean they have romantic feelings towards you. It could mean that they are just very comfortable with you.

The whole "they face towards you" thing is incredibly funny to me, because I was working with a classmate I was platonically interested in a week ago, and while they were faced towards me and trying to maintain eye contact, I barely looked in their general direction. Edit: I'm autistic

Even while watching several of these types of videos, my one fear is to be wrong about them, cuz it has happened too often for me that I misread and it becomes awkward when the other person isn't interested at all. I was even called arrogant on one occasion, and that left an emotional scar on me since, which has caused me to not wanting to read into these signs more than I should and just accept them as friendly gestures instead of romantic indicatiors....

with the help of this lovely channel we can all now realize that the people we like want to be at least 50 miles away from us at all times and with 7 different ways to prove it!

1. Their body language shitfts towards you 0:30 2. They fidget a lot 0:59 3. There's a lot of eye contact 1:44 4. They find ways to accidentally bump into you 2:16 5. They find ways to accidentally bump into you (LITERALLY) 2:42 6. They work their relationship status into the conversation 3:18 7. They keep in contact with you 3:37 You're welcome

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The inherent problem with these sorts of things is that everything mentioned could mean nothing. Sitting one way might just be more physically comfortable for that person. People could tell you their relationship status being single cause they are either proud of it or depressed about it. Making time to talk to someone doesn’t mean attraction, ive gone out of my way at various jobs to chat with coworkers cause I was bored n it helps pass time. Some people are more touchy than others, nationality n culture can play into that as well. Ultimately it’s safer to always opt on the side of caution and assume it’s all inconsequential or platonic, unless directly stated.

Not gonna lie whenever i am in dread and i find their videos in recommendation I just click on them to feel relaxed, Amanda's voice is so calming!

My husband and I were friends that fell in love, but were both scared of saying anything b/c we were kinda clueless about how the other person felt (everyone else knew but us) & didn't want to risk messing up our friendship. Yeah, we had most of these signs. But my guy is very, very shy, and had problems making eye contact for very long, it was just too intense for him. We'd been engaged for a couple of months before he could look me in the eyes for more than a few seconds! 😆

This just further proved that I REALLY like my crush and he doesn’t like me back 😬

The bad thing about this is, it can be totally wrong.. I was definitely 'attracted' to someone I met, but simply in the wrong mood. They were pretty warm toward me, and I realize they liked me. But I just froze anyway. I didn't return their gaze, I kept my stance, etc. It didn't mean I didn't want to talk to them. I think eventually she decided because I wasn't doing some of these things, that she decided I wasn't interested, but I actually was. Too bad such things can happen. Especially when people think they are smarter by follow these 'general guidelines', they are usually 100% wrong, once someone doesn't follow them exactly they'll think that it's scientific somehow, when it's not, it's just a little guideline that doesn't apply all the time.

The art in this video is STUNNING!

You used Katarina Claes from “my next life as a villainess” nice. She 100% the perfect model and I love that you used her.

I used to be afraid of rejection. Now I'm afraid of malicious action. A single false accusation can have catastrophic consequences, and utterly derail somebody's life.

Your voice is so soft and calming. Perfect for these kinds of videos

One thing that I find that I do when I have a crush, is unintentional eye contact. I’ll be looking around, say, at the pretty landscape, and suddenly my crush and I are staring at each other. It is never an intentional thing for me, in fact I usually try to look away. (But I do fidget a lot) This is just a small reminder that not everything is the same for everyone ❤️

Summary guy: 1) Their body language shifts towards you 2) They fidget alot 3) there is a lot of eye contact 4) they find ways to accidentally bump into you 5) they find ways to accidentally bump into you (literally) I. E. Physical contact 6) they work their relationship status into conversation 7) they keep in contact with you

Even as a more introverted person, I always look at someone in the eyes when I'm speaking to them or they're speaking to me. It's more of a respectful/courteous thing for me and not so much a sign or indication of attraction.

Just the fact that everything can match up, yet, they don’t like you.

wow! now i know what *not* to do when someone i like is beside me! thank you

Thank you! I have now figured out that not a single person around me finds me attractive!

My crush fits into three of these remarks. Plus, he always notices small things that nobody else notices, like when I wear a new piece of clothing. I have been doing most of these signs towards him; I hope he finds this video, watches it and notices that I do these things a lot around him.

Idk why this video landed in my recommandations but I love the chill vibes

I now realize that I do all of these things with people I have no intention on going out with

I just learned something... No one is attracted to me.

Finding if someone likes you is like decoding the cryptic zodiac writing.😂

These videos are amazing, you’ve really helped & strengthened the relationship between my crush! Thank you so much Psych2Go! :D

My crush looks at me. But not in that way. She eyes me with an expression that says, “I know you have a crush on me and I’m not interested” 💀

1:37 friend zoned lol

The, "Pls get a phone." one just KILLED me.

Thank you. This has been very helpful. I plan to take a psychological course this next school year. Hopefully that will also help me a lot in "reading people."

Your voice is incredible! The whole video I was mesmerized by it! Amazing job on the video btw, it was very informative stuff 👏👏👏

Alright 1 out of 7. The signs are pretty clear. I'm sensing a lot of attraction here.

As a person that is shy and introverted, it is very hard just to look someone in the eyes and also it is very hard to bump into people because that just makes it feel awkward but that’s imo because that’s how I am and how I see it

A lot of this for me is, I'm clumsy, I'm shy, I'm told I have to look people in the eyes for proper conversation, but I'm shy so it fails, and you're my friend. The amount of times I've been misunderstood.

Nice video, just a reminder that fidgeting a lot could also be because the other person has anxiety or it's feeling particularly anxious that day lmao I say that cause my anxiety does that a lot to me i can't stand still for saving my life.

Hmmm. I have definitely had a crush on other people. And I can say with some confidence that no one has had a crush on me.

Y’all, just go for it. When you go up to people 99% of the time they will be nice. People like talking. Ask them about themselves and feed off their answers for other things to talk about. They will ask the same thing back to you out of politeness. That’s the key. They are polite because they are glad to be talking. If that small chance happens where it goes differently (they are passive to you) then that’s in them, that’s fine. Just thank them and continue on. And sometimes people just need a bit more encouragement, they seem cold but if you keep digging you might find something they like and will talk about.

Great. Thanks for the list of things that never happen around me.

Me realising no one has a crush on me 👁👄👁 "I am fine" "Really?" "Yes" "Okay" *goes home* *has mental breakdown*

Communication is so muddy. I have worked into the habit of saying how I feel and, whether or not it's reciprocated, rejoice in the fact that I told someone incredible what they mean to me. I've met so many women that would laugh at my corny jokes, go out of their way to hang out with me, and touch my arm throughout a conversation, or hold eye contact with me more than others, and it just came out to be that our conversation was really deep or pleasant to them and they were invested or, they were just nice. I'm not the best at reading how someone feels about me and videos like this don't help me much, BUT it does allow me to see others (I like to people watch) and notice budding relationships or attraction between folks. It's nice.

Before watching this, I've been told by my uncle to not engage in eye contact, but now after I had watched this, im disappointed with myself... I thought eye contact is a sign of respect, where it means that you have your full attention towards the person your talking to, not because you have feelings for someone

I love all your videos, they are so helpful!

Me watching this even though i know that no one is ever going to be attracted to me

It’s always hard for me to know if a girl is really attracted to me or she’s just being kind

"Yeah again, we can't really be too sure. Maybe she's from Canada and just being polite." - Casually Explained

Nice I really love this video and it speaks volumes, attraction works in very wonderful ways thanks for all the pointers it was helpful

My friends at work always tease me about not having a girlfriend, but little do they know mine’s been with me for 1 1/2 years, and watching this video after seeing it in my recommended always made me reflect on how long my girl has really been into me. Love the content so far, keep it up! ❤️

Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️

So watching this video has made me realise that I must really confuse the people around me because I do pretty much all of these things with pretty much all of my close friends 1. I’m very comfortable with my friends and will constantly be facing them pr just straight up cuddling them 2. I fiddle a lot anyway even when I’m on my own 3. I don’t really make prolonged eye contact with anyone because it gets uncomfortable after a while but I do look at my friends a lot if passing them 4. I don’t pretend it’s an accident but I always like to talk to my friends so I always do. 5. As I mentioned earlier I will just straight up cuddle my friends and I always touch them 6. I don’t really do this one but eh 7. I like to talk to my friends and will try to keep in contact with them especially if they are very close friends that I like talking to I have been dropping accidental signals that I don’t mean my entire life

I know realize that I have never had someone do any of these to me, makes me feel a bit sad, love your videos you helped me realize how bad my elementary school friends were love you guys and thanks for helping me and a lot of others out

I love how every video has a different art style. Thank you for helping so many people with this kind of stuff. Have a good day everyone 😁

One tip I’ve noticed recently is that if the person that likes you is too shy they’ll have a more confident friend do some of the talking like one girl saying she wants to see what I look like without sun glasses on so her friend that likes me can compliment me on my eyes. It actually happened

Your voice is so relaxing to listen to

so there'd been this friend of mine who was giving me massive signs of having feelings for me and I asked them if they did, they said no. but since then I've had this weird feeling that they did and I found this video about a week after. yeah they definitely had some feelings for me which would be a W for someone who isn't an asexual non-binary person and not open to relationships. it's probably going to be awkward/weird for me next week when I meet them again lol.

Just a story that I thought I should share here, so I was hanging out with my best friend and my crush (my crush and I are kind of ex-best friends ever since we lost contact a few years ago). We were chatting and my friend mentioned that I have a bug crawling on my hair. I nervously asked them to get it off. Now, I don't usually get THAT freaked out by bugs but my crush was getting close to me in order to get the bug off my hair and I started panicking, I could feel my face turning red haha! My friend gave me 'the look' because she knew I'm not very dramatic over little things like bugs. I still can't believe my crush really touched my hair that time and my heart flutters every time I think about it ☺️

love the ‘my next life as a villainess’ reference in the thumbnail!

Oh my the thumbnail! Really great thumbnail that really pic the topic haha

I’m almost 50 and loved watching this! I tend to initiate contact a lot. It’s too much for some people, almost overwhelming 😢 Gotta chill 😅

I don't know if this counts but someone I grew up with came over for a visit one day and we were having a conversation. She asked me a critical question, like "What do you think of...?" and I answered wholeheartedly with my firm opinion and she was really happy to see that we shared the same view about the topic we talked about. Literally the next day she asked me if she can come over for another visit and we kept talking. I moved house and now I live closer to her, which we both find good because we can visit each other, although she prefers to visit me rather than invite me over for reasons I'm not allowed nor want to talk about. Either way, whenever she wants to come over she messages me, I get ready to pick her up and as we walk we always have a conversation. At some point she asked me another critical question, another "What do you think of...?" and I answered with what was my firm opinion again. This is literally my own opinion about these topics but they lined up so well. Taste in music, interests about movies/series/games/fandoms. I'm a Warhammer nerd and not ashamed to admit it. She doesn't know Warhammer that much so I understand why she doesn't share the same enthusiasm as me. But when she introduced her fandoms to me I was quite interested. All by myself, I would probably have ignored it and kept to my own interests but she showed me around. Later on, she visited me a few more times, I let her play on my gaming setup, she plays her favourite game that I took the time download for her. Again, on my own I would never have looked at it. But she showed me interesting things and I even started my own game there. At some point I let her use my VR setup, told her about a world she might want to visit in VRChat and when she went there she was so giddy about the selection of Avatars; They were from her favourite game. It was quite adorable to see her jump in excitement. She tends to feel more like herself around me. Which makes me happy knowing I can be some kind of sanctuary to her.

Hit like if you're Single

This absolutely just made my day

Thank you. The pleasure is shared

I’d like to point out that this could be a sign of trust and familial closeness. I think we need to stop thinking about “are they sexually attracted to me? “And start thinking “do they love me? “Because they might not love you in a romantic way but they might love you in other ways but that’s equally awesome! Especially as someone who came from a bloodline of a lot of trauma, it means a lot to me if someone who’s not related to me loves me, so you don’t necessarily have to be looking for romantic love here, it’s equally awesome if someone loves you as family.

I would add a few others. It helps to connect with someone you know: like, if you were students who frequently took classes in college years ago, and you remembered how they would go out of their way to support you with what you were doing. Sometimes, the best way to show them that you care is to not only keep in contact with them (In a healthy way, not like a creepy stalker). Return the favor by demonstrating reciprocity. Listen to them. Show interest in what they have to say. If they mention their family, then find ways to demonstrate that you show respect. Be there for them: in sickness and health, even when communicating virtually via email. Let them know that you are thinking about them without coming off as weird or obsessive. If they demonstrate signs of empathy, like if you've been recovering from illness for a week and the other person wishes for your speedy recovery, then chances are that they care about you.

Altough my feelings are yet to be discover hopefully I like your videos, thanks to them Im able to seek knoledge of these emotions for me personally it is quite difficult to communicate with people due to my slight lack of emotions thanks to my mental dissability, but I look forward to your videos they are very helpfull.

What I have learnt from this is that nobody has a crush on me💪

What if I'm nervous and only look at them if they're not looking Just a bit of eye contact scares me even with normal people

It helped alot, but it's so different when you fall in love with your best friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship between us. Most of these things happened with the both of us but now we don't even talk that much and I'm still getting mixed signals.. Feels good to say it out. Thank you and your videos are amazing

As an anxious person, if you notice me fidgeting or can't seem to relax please don't think I'm attracted to you, Im just genuinely awkward as a person

WAAOAOW THE THUMBNAIL CATARINA

Me and my co-worker have been talking , got her phone number yesterday and she admitted she liked me a lot and said I was cute!. ❤️☺️😊 So we going to school tomorrow together and we have a date! Sometime this week!. , Sit on a hill with blankets and food , talk and cuddle and watch the beautiful sunset!. 🌇 Very romantic. ❤️💯 Finally found someone who actually cares about me!. 😭☺️

This voice is more soothing than dangerously funny

amazing plug

It's actually the reverse for me! I'd hardly make eye contact with someone I like when talking with her

It's really unfortunate that 95% signs of attraction are visual cues. I'm almost legally blind and I miss out on all of it. I'm 32 and have never been in a relationship. I feel like I've missed out.

IT WORKED SO COOL

1: I love sitting next to people 2: I have ADHD so I will fidget a lot 3: I make so much eye contact with people 4: I just want to hang out 5: If we are walking together I'm gonna be smudged into you 6: Everyone I know knows that I am single 7: I always want to keep contanct, call and text with people so what im trying to say is that if I have a crush on someone and i have told no one, you will probably not know :) But anyways thanks for the video

I usually ignore these types of "signs" just in case I'm over thinking because I don't want a broken heart

I would love a video about the Inner Child 😊 it helped me a lot to be happier and feel safer overall

wow this really helped thank you guys😀

Imagine one person does all of these actions but they still friendzoning you

We need a vid about how to deal with/ get over a crush if they don't do any of these things 😅

Looking back now, I can see that there were several people interested in me at various times in life. I had no idea at the time, because of course I didn't know any of these tips. Now I'm old, so I guess these tips won't do me any good anymore, but it still gives me a boost knowing that I once caught a few people's eyes

Your calming voice really set my heart at peace.

I enjoy seeing these videos for the simple reason that no one ever showed any of these signs with me

love this video so much

You're here to see if your crush is attracted to you. I'm here to see if no one's attracted to me. We're not the same

I finally found love a month ago! She is amazing btw After being rejected MANY times The funny thing is I had no frickin idea Now I watched this she done all of these things ALL of them In stupid

Also remember that people can be fidgeting and not like you. I mess with my hair all the time not because I like the people around me, but because I am anxious.

Alright after careful inspection I have realized that throughout my entire life... there has been nobody who did these things to me xD

Catarina being in the thumbnail is perfect for this hahahaha my next life as a villainess supremacy ♡

Wow your guys’ art has gotten so much better over the years! Very impressive and I love ur vids!😄

Nobody wanted this video but we prob needed it

I can’t with the Bakarina thumbnail 😭🤚😂 I bet even with this knowledge she wouldn’t notice the whole cast’s crush on her 💀🤚