16 Signs A Shy Guy Likes You 

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Shy guys are adorable. I mean yeah confidence is attractive, but not as much as a guy blushing when I catch him looking. Never happened to me, but I fantasize.

Me: he does all of these things Anxiety: he doesn’t like you

Well boys, let’s just hope and pray she’s watching this so she understands…

“He looks at you while you’re not looking” HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO KNOW IF I’M NOT LOOKING

Shy girl: won’t make the first move Shy guy: won’t make the first move Now we’re stuck in an eternal loop of awkwardness and pain

******he looks at you when you're not looking********* me doing classes on zoom: 👁👄👁

Asking out a shy guy tomorrow. If I don’t do something, we won’t ever move forward in our relationship. Wish me luck. At first he was extremely shocked, but he still said yes! We planned a date :) very excited

I love shy guys, I have social anxiety especially around guys. But when it comes to shy boys, I really start feeling more confident in being around them, it also feels nice getting on a shy guys confident side, they are definitely my type.

*realizes I show all 16 signs very obviously* ***sweats furiously***

Me:looks at crush Her: looks back Me: looks away with speed of light Me: *neck breaks *

i honestly prefer shy over confident.. i think its adorable

As an introverted guy, #5 really got me. We might really like you but avoid you if you seem interested in other guys, because we don't want to get our hearts broken.

*me trying to convince myself somebody actually likes me*

I met a shy guy once.. he is my husband now ❤️

**in online class** Teacher: ANSWER YOUR ATTENDANCE EVERYONE!!! Crush: *silently writing* Teacher: *calls out names* Teacher: *calls out my name* Crush: *looks up* Me: OUR MARRIAGE IS TOMORROW

Tip for girls: if you have a crush on somebody, admit it before you regret it, because we are definitely not making the first move

But if they look at you when you aren’t looking... *HoW dO yOu KNoW tHEy weRe lOOkiNg?*

I knew a guy who did all these things, turned out he was trying to frame me for murder though

I tried setting up my crush with a friend that liked her so I could really get under the radar, but she rejected him, and I kept trying to persuade her to go out with him. I found out later after I switched schools, she had a crush on me. I think I cried myself to sleep for weeks after that.

Pushing 30 years old, capable of running military-style marathons, and have endured some really harsh moments from life...yet I can never lose the fact I'm shy af.

*girl I like sits next to me* me: *LOUD HEARTBEATING NOISES AND ADRENALINE RUSH* girl: so whats up? me: yes

But What If a shy girl likes a shy guy?

I am shy guy when I was in college whenever I tried to talk to a girl my hands used to start shivering, I used to start stammering, I would lose eye contact, girls would laugh at me, so I used admire girl I like from far away.. still I feel the same my shyness won't go..

Whenever I have a crush on a guy, I just cry internally and get butterflies.

STOP TELLING EVERYONE MY SECRETS

Mission failed, we'll get em next time

before me and my bf started dating he was very shy, but i started to notice he liked me when he would always go out his way to sit next to me, we would always play chess, and always seemed interested when talking to me. i was the one who asked him out and when i asked him y i was the one who asked first he said "you beat me to it" i love him so much. we have been dating for 10 months now.

I was pretty shy as a kid, but once I got in to middle school I started to try to build up my confidence, and now so far when I talk to people I’m able to put on a mask and act like I’m decently confident when talking to people, while on the inside I feel very nerves.

Literally every point matches with my crush and here I am still like: "Does he like me?" I am shy. He is shy. No one dares to make the first move. Sad life.

I'm a shy guy and I wanted to see how obvious i was to that girl but then I realized I do every step in there and is too obvious!

Plot twist: Psych2Go is talking about the Mario character shy guy and the only reason they are shy to talk is because bowser dislikes you and they are too shy to betray their lord

as an Introvert and an MBTI (INTP) , this is so so true , every word of it , we have so much love that it scares us on what if we get rejected .

“Shy people are often afraid of being rejected or judged” gurl everyone is afraid of being rejected or judged

My god are we that easy to predict?

I overheard this guy at my job said I was cute, then I caught him staring at me intensely a few times and wondered why he hasn’t made a move. I talked to him for the first time yesterday but it was work-related. Hopefully I get to learn a little more about him and make him feel more comfortable around me ☺️ I’m nervous too cuz I know he likes me haha

WE'RE ALL HERE BECAUSE OF SOMEONE AND WE STILL ASK: DIES HE LOVE ME? IT'S JUST PAIN

Why are you exposing us shy guys? lmao

Me: *sees video * Hmm, I wonder if a shy guy likes me *watches video * Me: Lets see *analyzes guys from school * Nope

As a shy and awkward dude myself, most of these felt like "yeah, that makes sense." But number 13 made me feel called out lol. "Acts very personable at first, but then starts second-guessing himself and stops talking to you." "Confusing and mixed signals." Yep, that's definitely been me.

Yeah as a shy guy I can confirm 100% of this is true . Is so annoying when you want to talk to someone, but you just can't

But everyone is always secretly staring at me.... every time I look up... BEcuZe i’M UGLYy

My crush: *sits next to me on the band bus* Him: "hey-" Me: "yögūrt"

Oof, this made me feel a whole lot better, my dude is super shy and has just recently opened up to me and said he wouldnt have done that if he didnt like me so. Fingers crossed! My only worry is that he’s just not a good texter, but to be fair he drives for his job

I honestly like shy guys more than confident ones,,, like ya, it is nice to have a confident guy like you, but it’s more my type to have someone blush and get shy around me, idk why, I just like that more hehe

*me after watched this video* Me: Don’t do that, don’t give me hope

Oh nooo I've been discovered my secret skills

about 2 years ago, i fell in love with a shy guy, watched this video 5 months ago, and on 28/9, he confessed his feelings. He actually have liked me before i like him. I WANT TO CRY

I'm the confident class rep and kinda sweet talker to most, but the guy I have a crush on is completely opposite! He's shy, quite, artsy and patient and I'm the studious flamboyant one. I seriously have been hoping for some light between us.

*Shy guys have left the chat* WE HAVE BEEN EXPOSED, RUN BROTHERS!

“A guy who can sweep you off your feet is a woman’s dream” I tried this and went to prison for alleged kidnapping.

You nailed everything, I am a shy guy and you checked all of the boxes

Omg I was so confused when he was super confident when we first met and then suddenly got quiet and shy with me! Thanks for that explanation!

Phych2Go: If he likes you, he will distance himself from you Social distancing: *happens* Every girl ever: WOOOOOOOO

This is terrifyingly accurate. But I like her, so I'm going for it. Good luck all shy guys P.s She said yes to a date :D

I am definitely a shy guy. This video pin pointed almost everything I’m experiencing with this girl.

The exact same things I experienced being a shy guy. I hope some girl out there will understand me one day.

Me: *next to my crush* My friends: HEY HE LIKES YOU! This is why I have trust issues.

"Shy guys are full of mixed signals and confusion" Me: "Greeeeeeat" :/

Im the shy guy. I never make a move first irl until i met this woman. I surprised her birthday with gifts and her favourite flowers. I brave myself and confess to her while playing a romantic song, said that if she would like to be my gf and stuff. It's kinda hard to do it because it was like, there's something stuck inside of my chest and it won't come up. But i embraced it, i forced myself to confess to her cuz if I don't, others will. Little did i know that i got rejected ;). This is my first time confessing to a woman i love and i think it may be the last.

I’m semi shy, whenever I can I don’t talk, but I speak impulsively. It seems a bit creepy if me but I watch this one girl from across the class, but she keeps catching me, I think I’m doing it too much. She’s everything I want to be. Quiet, calm, professional, mentally mature, etc. She doesn’t talk at much though unless with her friends. And she’s the only person I haven’t had a full conversation with at the school. She’s like a quieter version of my cousin who she’s friends with her. I can tell my cousin anything, but never this. I’m also in highschool, eventually this feeling will pass, my last school crush took 3 years to get over. I don’t want to be in a relationship I know may end badly, plus I don’t want to emotionally burden anyone, considering teen years are when we’re most unstable. I’m trying to wait till I’m more stable before trying a relationship.

Shy girls? Is there one on that? I'm a shy girl, and I'm known to just plain not do anything that involves people.

Some kid has been staring at me for the past week and I can’t tell whether it’s attraction or hatred

As an Aro Ace... Knowing that I'm seeing a lot of these signs in a friend of mine concerns me, I really don't want to make him feel bad because I'm really uninterested in relationships...

~ T I M E S T A M P S ~ - Secretly glances 0:28 - Treats you differently 1:15 - Gets annoyed to others 1:58 - Messages you 2:35 - Interested but never makes a move 3:15 - Remembers little things 3:53 - Stops talking to you 4:33 - Talks to your friends 5:07 O T H E R: [Credits to the rightful owner] 1) Secretly glances at you, admires from afar (eye contact) 2) Tries to talk to you, but looks uncomfortable , if he leaves his friend group to say hi or to talk to you, chances are he's interested 3) He treats you differently, and go out of his way to get your attention or do favors for you 4) Opens up, shares personal details, reveals hidden interests 5) Seems annoyed when you talk with other guys 6) Shows interest in the things you do or like 7) Tries to talk to you over the internet bc they wont feel judged by body language 8) His friends tease him when he's around, friends act strange 9) Seems interested in you but never really makes a move bc they're scared of rejection, they'll talk and show signs of interest but is waiting for you to make a move 10) He stands up for you 11) Remembers little things about you 12) Tries to act more social than he is, will sometimes act like he's more social than he really is to get your attention 13) Confident as first but then stops talking to you , once he gets comfortable he may get shy and second guess himself; shy guys are a whole bunch of mixed signals 14) Body language: fidgeting, can’t stay still 15) Tries to talk to your friends and get closer to them to get your attention 16) Genuinely cares about you and listens to you, hard to get a guy to listen to you and pay attention so if he pays attention, that may be a sign

One time a guy threw orange peels and a highlighter at me, in return I threw an empty water bottle. Still the most intimate interaction I've ever had with the male gender.

I caught him staring at me and did eye to eye contact but I was the first to look away. Lol we're both shy

There´s this shy guy who I met when we were on school, at that time we didn´t get to talk a lot but were good friends and I´ve always had this "weird feeling" that he was kinda into me and tbh I was into him too. A year later, we are hanging out every week and he really remembers the small details, he is someone who I really enjoy being with and this is new to me. Wish me luck x_x)

I’ve only talked to him twice. I have PE with him and his friends asked if anyone knew what we were doing that day so I said what I thought we’d do. Normally my crush is outgoing and very talkative but when I talk he can’t even look at me and slumps against the wall, sort of hiding & distancing. I often see him looking over at me too then looking away quickly.

I like shy guys. They seem to value you more, and love you more in general. It feels like you can make them happier too.

This video makes shy guys sound like Pokémon.

My now boyfriend has this trauma of not making moves (long story short, his ex cheated on him), so he always wanted to make the first move on me. But he gets so shy. So as the ambivert I am, I give him opportunities to do the first move (he gets discouraged when I make the first move. He thinks he isn't doing a good job if I made the first move). I grab his arm or wrist so he could hold my hand. I put an arm around him so he could give me a hug. I tease about kisses but never pursue it until he's ready (this part is just a matter of consent even if I am the girl.. Never had his first kiss). I've dated a number but I've been feeling most secure with him from the very first day. Reallu hope it lasts. We're in our early twenties so we have so much room to grow 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Sometimes I’ve had the sudden urge to turn my head, and then I realise he’s looking at me, sometimes smiling... I wonder if friends even do that...

Our cover is blown men!! Disappear into the crowd!!

Shy persons are the best

I’m definitely a middle man in terms of the socializing that I perform. I will introduce myself and do all of the necessary pleasantries of an introduction and being polite. But if I don’t see a reason to talk to you or care all that much, I typically speaking, will not start/initiate conversation. With that being said, if your someone who piques my interest and I want to see. I could talk to you for hours upon hours and get lost within an infinity of conversation with you. So I’m somewhat of a hybrid in those ways. One thing from the video though that I found interesting was how “shy guys” avoid eye contact with the girl they like. For me eye contact is very important in conversation, it indicates a sign of respect between two people, as well as a sign that someone really cares about what your saying. Another thing for me personally is the beauty of a person’s/girl’s iris. The girl I am in love with has the most gorgeous green eyes, and I can’t hep but get lost in them.

Yep, I definitely do these when I'm attracted to someone. The problem, however, is that I'm seen as being creepy. That includes admiration from afar and communicating via the internet rather than face-to-face. I've scared off too many damn people because I was scared of how they would react.

Fuck number 9 was my secret weapon

NOOOOOO I'M EXPOSED

Due to how oblivious I am, had no idea that the shy guy I liked was doing most of these things. We became friends and would’ve been fine staying that way in case he didn’t feel the same way about me, turns out he does and now we’re dating!

i've liked this shy guy for quite sometime now. he's my neighbor, we both ride bikes on the afternoons and always bump into each other, we never talked. but as days passed by, i've noticed that when we happen to go in the same direction, he would turn around and go to the opposite direction. i'm not sure if he feels the same way about me, but when's around the tension is just too strong and i just badly wanna talk to him.

Holy shit I feel exposed

My crush is a shy guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me but ... I'm a shy girl and I can't approach him first 😩😩😩HELP

#11 reminded me of a time when we were at a football game and I told the group of people I was sitting with that I left my water bottle a few bleachers back. I didn’t give much attention to it and didn’t make it a big deal. Around an hour or so later, one of my friends said they were hungry but didn’t wanna get up so the guy I liked said he’d go get her some snacks. When he came back he gave me a water bottle without saying anything and it made me feel so happy 😩 that was when I started developing feelings for him. That was almost 2 years ago and I still like him a lot 🥴

Finally I found a video that describes me. It would be much easier for me if I actually could have a distance with my crush, but damn, I've been sitting with her at the same desk for more than 2 years. She could easily guess that I loved her. It was already stressful to sit with her, but after her "rejection" it was way too awkward

I remember in primary school, I tripped and fell onto both of my knees and got a huuuge graze, but then a quiet shy guy that I knew for a while helped me out and walked me to the first aid room. He even gone out of his way to get my school bag and buy an icy pole, and even though it melted I still took it and thanked him so much. I remember that smile he had in his face, and to this day I still remember him. Although I wish I stayed contact with him after I moved schools.

Idk why but these illustrations of a guy and gal are very cute. They looked like a penguin😂😁

Thanks for the courage, I do a lot of things here and you are helping me. So thanks!

this was helpful! now I know what to do, and bring out the better out of both of us

*crush sits next to me* Me: Shit! Gotta sound smart.. Also me: Weather outside may include a slight increase in precipitation...

1) secretly glances at you, admires from afar (eye contact) 2) tries to talk to you, but looks uncomfortable , if he leaves his friend group to say hi or to talk to you, chances are hes interested 3) he treats you differently, and go out of his way to get your attention or do favors for you 4) opens up, shares personal details, reveals hidden interests 5) seems annoyed when you talk with other guys 6) shows interest in the things you do or like 7) tries to talk to you over the internet bc they wont feel judged by body language 8) his friends tease him when hes around, friends act strange 9) seems interested in you but never really makes a move bc theyre scared of rejection, theyll talk and show signs of interest but is waiting for you to make a move 10) he stands up for you 11) remembers little things about you 12) tries to act more social than he is, will sometimes act like hes more social than he really is to get your attention 13) confident as first but then stops talking to you , once he gets comfortable he may get shy and second guess himself; shy guys are a whole bunch of mixed signals 14) body language: fidgeting, can’t stay still 15) tries to talk to your friends and get closer to them to get your attention 16) genuinely cares about you and listens to you, hard to get a guy to listen to you and pay attention so if he pays attention, that may be a sign

He treated with me as a friend, but he does really everything of it. So what now? I don't wanna ruin our friendship, because I'm not sure, if he wouldn't get afraid if I do the first step

I feel personally attacked by this video. It's scary how accurate it is and how most of this stuff was things I've done without knowing. However, sadly women aren't idiots and certainly pick up on this. They might find it cute like how one views a puppy or a hamster, but in my case it never resulted in an actual relationship. And after 17 failed tries, sometimes it's best to just spare yourself the unnecessary pain.

Alright introverts retreat and regroup; we’ve been infiltrated.

I literally do 99% of this without realizing i really like her...

1. He looks at you when you're not looking. How tf am I supposed to know if he's looking or not, if he does it when I'm not looking?

My shy guy is a local cop and he's so cute 😂 I felt a spark between us when we first met, and I think he did too. He was so nervous it was almost comical, like a scene from a teen sitcom. He couldn't speak straight, was dropping things and sounded like he couldn't breathe well enough. He always watches me when he thinks I can't see him, and yes he does get extremely jealous when other guys are around. It's so adorable...I'll see him sitting within view, glaring at my guy friends like a mopey school boy. 😂 He likes to mess around and impress me, too. He gets these little energy benders and he'll act goony..like cracking jokes and dancing around. He has dad energy for sure. Every time I see his cute face I just wanna kiss it. I hope he makes a move on me soon.

Couldnt stop thinking about the shy guys from mario

i think shy guys are really adorable and cute!

I love how this video is LITERALLY JUST POINTING FINGERS AT ME