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7 Signs You Are Ready for a Relationship 

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 5 лет назад
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@rumple7232
@rumple7232 5 лет назад
Hey, I was the 7th person to like this comment! 7 is my favourite number!😊😊😊😊😊
@deathmetalpotato
@deathmetalpotato 5 лет назад
Rumple 7 i farted
@SalusKitty
@SalusKitty 5 лет назад
I am too young for a proper relationship but I can help people be prepared for one now. So I will wait and see if I find someone that I can live a glorious and inspiring life that will bring hope to the ones who are lost near the lifeless and unhappy pit of mangled-mental bodies of those who hurt others by ripping their own lives away!
@rumple7232
@rumple7232 5 лет назад
@@deathmetalpotato well...... good.
@mrqkrakenp4183
@mrqkrakenp4183 5 лет назад
Psych2Go I rather really liked this one
@therealslmccl
@therealslmccl 5 лет назад
Sign #1: You’ve been single your whole life Sign #2: You’ve binged all of Psych2Go’s relationship videos
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 5 лет назад
@thinkforyourselfjohn3163
@thinkforyourselfjohn3163 5 лет назад
Lol
@midnightsarrow160
@midnightsarrow160 5 лет назад
I'll take it XD
@angelmontoya2211
@angelmontoya2211 5 лет назад
This is so accurate
@JillianMurrayy
@JillianMurrayy 5 лет назад
FandomTrash93 lmao accurate
@alexandriabeharry-frazier2730
@alexandriabeharry-frazier2730 5 лет назад
My ex can't be on my mind if I dont have one...
@DootNeon
@DootNeon 5 лет назад
Haha same
@freakydoorknob8453
@freakydoorknob8453 5 лет назад
Such wise words
@davidthevatheril1530
@davidthevatheril1530 5 лет назад
Ikr
@rafliavriza3651
@rafliavriza3651 5 лет назад
Are you saying you don't have an ex, or you don't have a mind?
@susesuse6041
@susesuse6041 5 лет назад
GOOD FOR YOU :')
@SuperAvocadoo
@SuperAvocadoo 4 года назад
I finally passed all the 7 signs and I'm 80 years old now. Finally, I am ready for a relationship!
@tymck9694
@tymck9694 2 года назад
Lmfaoo
@unbreakable.3132
@unbreakable.3132 2 года назад
So true
@xeik7482
@xeik7482 Год назад
You can find love at any age 😂
@Wealthybaby
@Wealthybaby Год назад
I😂😂😂
@ggstylz
@ggstylz Год назад
😂
@xmalin1375
@xmalin1375 4 года назад
"Your ex is no longer on your mind" Me: wait whos my ex-
@Prsethsun
@Prsethsun 4 года назад
Thank you kind stranger
@liltofree9301
@liltofree9301 4 года назад
I never dated so I dont have a ex :,)
@terrorfire8505
@terrorfire8505 4 года назад
Lol dont have an ex
@bardtoepiss
@bardtoepiss 4 года назад
I don’t have an ex tho-
@awesomecat
@awesomecat 4 года назад
i don't have an ex
@0mane0
@0mane0 5 лет назад
sign #1: someone actually wants to be in a relationship with you
@tristanvancleef7272
@tristanvancleef7272 5 лет назад
0mane0 my dating life summed up
@ispeakmytruth1549
@ispeakmytruth1549 5 лет назад
This got me ending up with the wrong people
@Natallz
@Natallz 5 лет назад
LMAO TRUE
@Rosi_in_space
@Rosi_in_space 5 лет назад
The sad moment when you have to take relationship advice from Friedrich Nietzsche... even Kierkegaard is a Don Juan compared to me.
@toastersneedtoast329
@toastersneedtoast329 5 лет назад
Fr lol
@sadfacekira
@sadfacekira 5 лет назад
Alright, got all of that checked. Now, where can I order a girlfriend?
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
I ordered one from russia and she gave me HPV
@isolar_THE_576th
@isolar_THE_576th 5 лет назад
Have you tried the deep web?
@thesauce2656
@thesauce2656 5 лет назад
Theyre really expensive to maintain thought
@KozeyLiving
@KozeyLiving 5 лет назад
Girls aren't expensive 😂😂 well at least I'm not.
@thesauce2656
@thesauce2656 5 лет назад
@@KozeyLiving They are, you have to be rich to have one :/
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад
I'd also argue all of these points are clear signs of maturity,which is critical to having empathy and compassion for others
@miweergrum7279
@miweergrum7279 5 лет назад
Empathy and compassion don't require maturity, but hiw much a person cares for someone else. Did you mean like a stable empathy and compassion?
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад
@@miweergrum7279 yes sorry. Comments aren't always the best for clarity
@romanw8632
@romanw8632 5 лет назад
@@miweergrum7279 agreed
@nephida
@nephida 5 лет назад
4. You have mastered self love and acceptance I’m going to be lonely for the rest of my life it looks like...
@inesconduto7746
@inesconduto7746 5 лет назад
You're not!:) I disagree with that point entirely. Self love is a life long journey, so it doesn't make sense waiting to master it before getting into relationships. I don't even believe that's something you can master,it's not exactly a skill. It comes
@inesconduto7746
@inesconduto7746 5 лет назад
*in waves, up and down..
@genericchannel126
@genericchannel126 5 лет назад
Inês Conduto i agree! Completely impossible to be 100% okay with yourself - it takes years to build that self esteem.
@vm7939
@vm7939 4 года назад
You attract others with your confidence. Even if you're not "good looking" but "society's standards", if you become confident and learn to trust, respect and love yourself, you will attract someone. I know it takes time and it's a life long journey, but you'll meet someone!
@camiiie.
@camiiie. 4 года назад
I've always believed the point of relationships is to learn more about yourself. Sometimes it's the lessons we learn from the experiences we have from interpersonal relationships that help us better love and accept ourselves
@akilagray4792
@akilagray4792 5 лет назад
Oh im so ready take me Please.
@Laffey99
@Laffey99 5 лет назад
Akila Gray Okay! :D
@telepathictortoise3021
@telepathictortoise3021 5 лет назад
And they lived happily ever after
@SAEKOiw
@SAEKOiw 5 лет назад
I couldn't help but laugh with that profile pic
@Dice-Z
@Dice-Z 5 лет назад
Shall we do it?
@myevilplans
@myevilplans 5 лет назад
hi there, my names Jerry...
@iamthyhooman2733
@iamthyhooman2733 5 лет назад
I’m probably not ready to be in a relationship like ever..... I just don’t know
@aleleotta350
@aleleotta350 5 лет назад
You will be ready soon.
@rumple7232
@rumple7232 5 лет назад
Are you human or a potato?
@iamthyhooman2733
@iamthyhooman2733 5 лет назад
Rumple 7 I’m a potato in disguise as a human 😂 but shhh keep my secret
@iamthyhooman2733
@iamthyhooman2733 5 лет назад
aleleotta I don’t really think so I feel uncomfortable thinking about being in a relationship but sometimes I do but I don’t think so at the moment
@iamthyhooman2733
@iamthyhooman2733 5 лет назад
nameless wanderer well damn I hope it gets better for you
@KitKat-7417
@KitKat-7417 5 лет назад
About to marry my high school sweetheart. We have been together nearly 6 years
@ninjocswtf5833
@ninjocswtf5833 5 лет назад
Lovey Mills ayy
@sawyerwebster7971
@sawyerwebster7971 5 лет назад
Congrats 👏
@InvalidPersistentName
@InvalidPersistentName 5 лет назад
:]]]
@lrvt9516
@lrvt9516 5 лет назад
Lovey Mills congrats !!
@lrvt9516
@lrvt9516 5 лет назад
Third Echelon basically the person who u were in a relationship since high school and now r married
@Raccon_Detective.
@Raccon_Detective. 2 года назад
0:24 1. You're not looking for someone to complete you. 0:51 2. You understand the importance of open communication. 1:17 3. Your ex is no longer on your mind. 1:45 4. You have mastered self-love and acceptance. 2:16 5. You've gotten the experiences you wanted. 2:46 6. You understand the reality of maintaining relationships. 3:17 7. You are ready to integrate your life with someone else's.
@Justgodswarrior
@Justgodswarrior 2 года назад
I'm not ready for 7
@ArtAngelMouse
@ArtAngelMouse 5 лет назад
8. You're financially stable. Still not ready for a relationship yet.
@k.h7180
@k.h7180 5 лет назад
ArtMasterFrylock Yes because a lot of people don’t factor in that money is also involved in most relationships for simple things i.e. dates, food, events, etc etc
@sehrinteressant
@sehrinteressant 5 лет назад
what loooool nooooo XD how the hell does your financial status define your love life? that's why love is the best one could ever experience, it's because you only need an open heart and a fitting partner! nothing else. dates and events are not important for a good relationship.
@DarknessIsThePath
@DarknessIsThePath 5 лет назад
@@sehrinteressant Love is not enough if one partner does not contribute in other important areas in life. Those who believe that love is all you need is naive
@Goteiii
@Goteiii 5 лет назад
Yes, that is a major one. Probably the most important. For a long term relationship that is.
@FrostedCanid
@FrostedCanid 4 года назад
Yeah we all know rich people have the best relationships /cough/
@viktorayy
@viktorayy 5 лет назад
*Time to find out if I'm ready for a relationship.*
@ArtyBilli
@ArtyBilli 5 лет назад
I can sympathise with you 🙄 ...
@taylornicole4304
@taylornicole4304 5 лет назад
Why are you everywhere?!
@geensloth911
@geensloth911 5 лет назад
It's been a year since my divorce. My ex wife cheated on me many times and was emotionally abusive. I have done a lot of healing and a lot of work on myself in the past year to be the best me I can be and now I've begun dating someone really wonderful. But still every once in a while I experience dark feelings of the trauma I endured, and my mind tells me that I am broken and no-one would want me. I am trying really hard not to let it get to me, because this girl is very special, and I don't want my emotional problems to hurt her or damage the relationship we are building.
@whoknows8362
@whoknows8362 5 лет назад
Aww:) i hope your new relationship is going good still!!
@FranciscoHernandez-zn3ij
@FranciscoHernandez-zn3ij 5 лет назад
Can relate so hard to you. I really hope you can achieve the peace you are looking for.
@geensloth911
@geensloth911 5 лет назад
@@whoknows8362 Thank you Tina! That's very kind of you. The relationship is going great, and I am very happy. :)
@geensloth911
@geensloth911 5 лет назад
@@FranciscoHernandez-zn3ij thank you Francisco, I wish the best for you as well!
@husnaajainoodien596
@husnaajainoodien596 5 лет назад
I know exactly how you feel. However, I'm working on me right now. It's not always easy because I miss that companionship and basically having that person that was there, but when it's my time, I'll get there
@bubblezyoshi9260
@bubblezyoshi9260 5 лет назад
But what about being depressed or not fully self accepting? Why do so many people who don’t live themselves still have amazing partners who help them through it all
@chimerasofhafgufa
@chimerasofhafgufa 5 лет назад
Yeah, I kind of have the same question on my mind.
@laurelrhinehardt5160
@laurelrhinehardt5160 5 лет назад
Not being fully self-accepting can cause problems in relationships. It asks a lot of a potential partner to try to make up for that lack of self-esteem. Those relationships are hard to maintain and often times don’t last, or end up being unhealthy. Not always, but often. Depression is an illness, but learning to manage it on your own first is an important step in being ready for a relationship. A relationship doesn’t fix a mental illness.
@ey2496
@ey2496 5 лет назад
Laurel Rhinehardt Soooo true! Thank you.
@persnicketyVC
@persnicketyVC 5 лет назад
​@Anjali​ Lovely. Thank you (and Laurel Rhinehardt!) for telling me such wonderful advice!
@dribbeldiejustiz
@dribbeldiejustiz 5 лет назад
Because we didnt search them, we enjoy the time and Support each other and Love each other No Matter of the mental illness,Look etc
@The0versun1
@The0versun1 5 лет назад
being in relationship will take so much from me coz im an introvert and have social anxiety so i have a feeling i will get more anxious dealing w a relationship, nty.
@MonsterHunter-fk2lb
@MonsterHunter-fk2lb 5 лет назад
I know how you feel I'm a introvert but I have no anxiety I just avoid people because I hate people they just really piss me off
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад
Hey if it helps I've done videos on dealing with social anxiety, attracting others and building deep relationships. Might be worth taking a look to see if it helps
@infrarogue
@infrarogue 5 лет назад
You just need to find someone who is right for you, I'm about as introverted as they come (other than work, I only leave my house about twice a month to take care of things) and I've had a couple relationships where I actually wanted to spend time with my partner and they would let me be alone if I wanted to be. There's someone for everyone, it's just a matter of finding them.
@pisscvre69
@pisscvre69 5 лет назад
I’m an introvert but with the right person you won’t be drained by them you’ll feel like they’re part of your little world the one human welcome into your safe space and it’s great
@ana-wp8qx
@ana-wp8qx 5 лет назад
If the relationship is right, the anxiety will reduce!
@TheLily97232
@TheLily97232 5 лет назад
I believe you can be not ready, but can you really be that ready ? It's like having a child
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
I think there's truth to this. I don't think you can be 100% prepared because who knows what your partner will be like?
@ZaxorVonSkyler
@ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад
@@christinabutterfield1801, this fact makes me worried about finding a partner. I like being alone, and I'm worried a partner might cause problems in my life.
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
@@ZaxorVonSkyler Well you're still allowed to have boundaries. Like if you need time to yourself than you and your parrner can worl that out when the time comes. Hope you find the person of your dreams!!
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад
It depends on the individual. You can grow into a relationship, but if you're hung up on the points made in this video then it will struggle
@ArtyBilli
@ArtyBilli 5 лет назад
Yeah. Too much trouble. 😌 I mean a relationship is too much trouble. (I have never been in one though )
@french_bread4961
@french_bread4961 5 лет назад
Literally half of the internet just went, "Dang it!" Whenever sign 4 showed up.
@gloomcat3867
@gloomcat3867 5 лет назад
I dont even feel Im ready with life
@user-tg5bx7je7o
@user-tg5bx7je7o 5 лет назад
So Relatable
@kundayikanyemba6229
@kundayikanyemba6229 4 года назад
Hahaha ryyyt
@talia2229
@talia2229 4 года назад
Same
@kingsoonkit9234
@kingsoonkit9234 3 года назад
What about now?
@gloomcat3867
@gloomcat3867 3 года назад
@@kingsoonkit9234 nope
@pranaygurnule5664
@pranaygurnule5664 5 лет назад
I m kinda ready but scared af!
@Proxlynmeow
@Proxlynmeow 5 лет назад
that every one
@davidbrussard-composer7372
@davidbrussard-composer7372 5 лет назад
Being scared is good. It shows you don't take it lightly.
@darkamagumo716
@darkamagumo716 5 лет назад
I'm not scared to love just scared of love
@thesauce2656
@thesauce2656 5 лет назад
Are you rich and handsome?
@twentyoneheathens3922
@twentyoneheathens3922 5 лет назад
Same
@MrMorsbach
@MrMorsbach 5 лет назад
definitely not ready ...
@nihil8607
@nihil8607 5 лет назад
Likewise.
@ey2496
@ey2496 5 лет назад
Same here ☝🏼
@marcy-jay3746
@marcy-jay3746 5 лет назад
Leonardo Mahalo Don’t worry, time will tell if you’re
@Lupus_119
@Lupus_119 5 лет назад
Welcome to the club
@knuxuki1013
@knuxuki1013 5 лет назад
Relatable
@zitto1107
@zitto1107 5 лет назад
theres only one sign ready for a relationship: the person you like likes you back
@hazimzufar3023
@hazimzufar3023 5 лет назад
Soooo damn true
@claraspring6857
@claraspring6857 5 лет назад
Yassss what all these for if you not being loved back tho. Sad
@pemsmelanieperezrubio2137
@pemsmelanieperezrubio2137 4 года назад
Yeah, no...
@toruoikawa1153
@toruoikawa1153 4 года назад
True, that happened to me. Now my bf and I have been dating for almost 4 months now🥰
@asenaaktas3732
@asenaaktas3732 3 года назад
@@toruoikawa1153 stfu bitch who cares
@Maristartacit
@Maristartacit 4 года назад
I watched this a while ago, and came back to see how I’ve improved myself. I’ve gotten past a lot of hurdles, but I’m not done with everything. I’ve come a long way since I’ve last seen this. Thanks! Love you guys!!
@arya.07
@arya.07 2 года назад
Been an year, hope you're doing much better now!
@marth8219
@marth8219 2 года назад
give us an update :-)
@JohnShadowofficial
@JohnShadowofficial Год назад
Same man!
@raeburt2551
@raeburt2551 5 лет назад
You can experience your ambitions with your significant other. We’re all works in progress. We’re not finished products and will spend our lives improving some part of ourselves. We just have to meet at the same level, whatever that is
@ispeakmytruth1549
@ispeakmytruth1549 5 лет назад
Let's not forget that "falling in love" is temporary... Eventually you see your partner as they really are. This is the test of "true love" in a relationship.
@user-wm7ee9ed9k
@user-wm7ee9ed9k 5 лет назад
i’ve gotten rejected by 5 boys that i am genuinely certain that i had formed romantic emotional attachments to over the course of this year’s 2 school semester. i now know that this was because all of my friends, acquaintances, and even my older sister are somehow suddenly all in relationships or talking to someone, and i felt pressure to be in one as well. LISTEN, take it from me. being in a relationship is a huge commitment, and the idea of a relationship vs. being prepared to give someone your constant affection and trust are so completely different, yet hard to differ when you feel you are obligated to be dating someone. this summer, i’m taking all of my time to better myself through eating healthier, working out on a consistent basis, and much more to boost my self love. i can say with confidence that i will come back my sophomore year and be so much better as a person, those boys won’t know what hit them! :)
@bexxxi2871
@bexxxi2871 5 лет назад
*Psych2go:* _4. You have mastered self-love and acceptance._ *Me:* Guess I'll never be ready for a relationship.
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
You'll never love and accept yourself before you replace love and acceptance with discipline first. If i never tried to stop eating sugar and never worked out and never watched informative videos to help me reach my goals faster i would've never accepted myself. Actually, no. Just remove acceptance entirely. Accepting things that are bad that you could actually improve is not good, because if you accept it theres no point in changing it, and you should change it
@bexxxi2871
@bexxxi2871 4 года назад
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 you do make a very sincere point I'll say. I'm in a relationship at the moment and the person I am together with had encouraged me into making the better of me..and no not cuz he wants it but cuz he is aware I don't like what I am.. and has definitely helped me bring my confident up! My weight had been one of my major insecurity and since I've been able to lose about 13 kgs which I believe is pretty impressive!
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
@@bexxxi2871 yes, it really is! And thats what im talking about. If you had just accepted where you were before without making a change, your life would've worsened by a major degree. Im glad you know how to carry yourself in life, and that the people you know do too. Makes the future of this hellish year a slight bit less bleak
@bexxxi2871
@bexxxi2871 4 года назад
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 mhmmm thanx alot for carrying not just a positive energy but encouraging for making a change too :3
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
@@bexxxi2871 no, thank YOU for listening. A lot of people dont really do that
@simonschafshund6566
@simonschafshund6566 5 лет назад
I think 5. is not so important. You can also do it in a real relationship.
@BentonAJames
@BentonAJames 4 года назад
Agreed
@aquabiches649
@aquabiches649 3 года назад
Can you or someone explain why? Just asking :)
@simonschafshund6566
@simonschafshund6566 3 года назад
@@aquabiches649 This comment is 2 years old... holy shit. Point 5 is not a basic need in a relationship, its nice to have before. You can make great experiences also if you are in a relationship... and your relationship will still work. The others are... critical. They are the base of your ability to have a relationship.
@aquabiches649
@aquabiches649 3 года назад
@@simonschafshund6566 lmao ik and thanks for replying :)
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 5 лет назад
I don't really like #5... I'm not knowledgeable on bucket lists but aren't they things that generally never stop filling up? Also, why have adventures such as riding a camel, making homemade tomato paste, meeting Will Smith, or traveling the world alone when you can experience these types of dreams _with_ someone? The others are ones that could be done while single, really, but anyway... If someone has a bucket list of things that may take a lifetime, there's no point in having a relationship... Honestly, the only thing on my bucket list that is worthwhile to me is having a meaningful relationship. The others are NOT important. I may never pet a snow leopard at a zoo or go hang gliding or publish a book or even become independent by the time I am ready to have a relationship... and I'm 26. Yes, I'm young, but I'm approaching 30...
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
I agree. Why do you have to wait until you finish your bucket list?
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 5 лет назад
@@christinabutterfield1801 Exactly
@THAT.RANDOM.GUY_
@THAT.RANDOM.GUY_ 5 лет назад
Treat this more like a guideline and not so much a strict standard. Life is what we make it. I think some of the points made were accurate, but I think it's important to remember that we're all very different. We're all tied down by different things and all mostly come from different backgrounds.
@BlaZay
@BlaZay 5 лет назад
I think what they meant is that some things may be impossible to do once you settle in with someone. For example, if you have kids to raise but want to wander around the globe, these two things may clash with one another. Or maybe you are a professional sportman that aims for the Olympic Games or anything ambitious but you have most if not all of your free time filled with intensive training, which means no time for a relationship. I know these are quite specific, but you get my point.
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 5 лет назад
@@BlaZay That makes sense but those goals also mean no room for romance...
@chris-673
@chris-673 5 лет назад
According to this, I'm the most ready for a relationship than I've ever been. I want a relationship. Someone to love and hold. To wake up to. My issue is finding someone that's actually interested in me. That actually wants to be around me and won't use me for materialistic things or sex.
@mccoolret
@mccoolret 5 лет назад
Your Ex is not on your mind?Excuse me i dont have one
@awesomecat
@awesomecat 4 года назад
same
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
Now that i think about it, i do have an ex. And im definitely over her when i literally forgot i had ever been in a relationship in my life
@sploofmcsterra4786
@sploofmcsterra4786 5 лет назад
I'm looking at this seeing that I'm ticking all the boxes, since I've worked so hard on self-growth the past few years I've learnt to love myself for example. It seems like I'm unable to find anyone at the moment though. I hope that changes. Great advice though psych2go!
@jinjunliu2401
@jinjunliu2401 5 лет назад
Woah, great to hear that you have worked and succeeded on all of those things! Hopefully you'll be in a healthy relationship that will last whenever it will be best for you!
@TrannyWillis
@TrannyWillis 5 лет назад
Maybe if you changed your name from Sploof? I kid, I kid. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm ready, but it seems no one is ready for me! I've tried recently and been shot down hard. So I'm just living my life, waiting to see if anyone crosses my path that is at least as interested in me as I am them. Good luck my friend! I'm pulling for ya.
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 5 лет назад
That's awesome (my channel is about self growth). One thing that might help, maybe avoid going out with the intention of finding a partner and instead go out and put yourself in situations where you can potentially meet a partner. You see, you can send the wring psychological signals when actively searching for someone
@SilentHotdog28
@SilentHotdog28 4 года назад
@@PracticalInspiration So don't look actively for someone and rush into things, but try to meet new people and go with the flow.....to see what happens and who you meet?
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 4 года назад
@@SilentHotdog28 Precisely, by doing this you won't appear to be so forward and even "aggressive" in your pursuit. I had a friend who used to do this and despite getting to know a huge number of people, it never worked out because as some other female friends would put it, he would appear desperate. Instead, by letting circumstances flow naturally, you'll find it easier to be natural and therefore more likely to appear more confident
@jackiecoss2469
@jackiecoss2469 5 лет назад
*4. you have mastered self love and acceptance* Okay I’m Not Ready
@MultiJeje12345
@MultiJeje12345 5 лет назад
4. "You have mastered self love and acceptance" Hah! I can never do that!
@Elsisalittleconcerned
@Elsisalittleconcerned 5 лет назад
2:51 was that Mabel Pines?? Also, great video, informative as always!
@powerfulbore666
@powerfulbore666 5 лет назад
Omg it so is!
@mariellepapst3292
@mariellepapst3292 5 лет назад
Elsie Krueger YOU NOTICED IT TO????
@agenderanarchist
@agenderanarchist 5 лет назад
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!
@alessio_cali
@alessio_cali 5 лет назад
Lol she totally is. Great series that one.
@theuserintheroom4450
@theuserintheroom4450 5 лет назад
If she isn't then water isn't wet.
@RipplewiffleVODS
@RipplewiffleVODS 5 лет назад
I thought i was ready for a relationship but now i realized I'm not i absently hate myself....
@musicinmymind623
@musicinmymind623 5 лет назад
You dong need to hate yourself. It’s okay not to be ready, eventually you will be. Until then, focus on yourself!
@Onigirii222
@Onigirii222 5 лет назад
Amethyst211 there is no reason to hate yourself
@venturer9400
@venturer9400 5 лет назад
I was just thinking the same thing. I know so many people that have better personalities, social lives, basically everything, and very few who are doing worse than me. I am constantly criticised for this at home, and ignored outside of it. And I lack the courage to get out of this situation. It's depressing, I stayed up till 4am last night just thinking about it.
@ThestLegion-ki8ig
@ThestLegion-ki8ig 5 лет назад
@@venturer9400 same here.
@camiiie.
@camiiie. 4 года назад
@@venturer9400 ​@The501stLegion everyone is at a different point in their lives. you might be comparing someone's best moment to your worst. that doesn't mean you can't reach the point you believe they've reached. it's all a work in progress. I see plenty of people with better attributes than me and rather than focusing on how I'm lacking in so and so and that means I'm "worse", I think about how I can improve in the desired areas. the most important thing is to accept that we have our flaws but that just means we have the chance to better ourselves. your life doesn't have to look like someone else's version of perfection to mean that you're living it the 'right way'. I believe in you. believe in yourself!
@MrCooper83
@MrCooper83 4 года назад
I was single in the last 4 years. I had a very abusive GF who suffered from Borderline. So I spent this last 4 years to develop myself, learn a lot, and heal from the trauma. I think I am ready. I want to be loved. Im ready!
@MartinCooperFilms
@MartinCooperFilms 5 лет назад
This mad me feel so reassuring, been single for 7 years now getting closer and closer to 25. Although because of #5 I still have a huge goal to knock out that involves a lot of schooling. I know I'm mentally ready for a relationship. It feels good to know that some day I'll be a blessing to someone.
@professionalfangster1510
@professionalfangster1510 7 месяцев назад
What an amazing mindset. I aspire to think like that. Did you find someone yet?
@maria-vz1ls
@maria-vz1ls 5 лет назад
I'm ready, can someone take me for the love of God
@DrProfessor143
@DrProfessor143 5 лет назад
Maria Clara My good wishes are with you. I hope you find a good person for you.
@Outlawsrevenge1020
@Outlawsrevenge1020 4 года назад
My dude....same!
@mr.dawson1988
@mr.dawson1988 4 года назад
Maria Clara 😂😂😂
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
Nice job making yourself the reward for someone else to claim and not a desperate white knight like everybody else that watches this channel
@angelmontoya2211
@angelmontoya2211 5 лет назад
When you are ready, but dont have someone to start a relationship 😂😂( find a good parthner is hard on this day)
@tonywalker1954
@tonywalker1954 4 года назад
Amen to that
@careinrebecca
@careinrebecca 4 года назад
Same
@fabulousferret6878
@fabulousferret6878 3 года назад
Yep
@karengrace6890
@karengrace6890 5 лет назад
1. You're not looking for someone to complete you. 2. You understand the importance of open communication. 3. Your ex is no longer on your mind 4. You have mastered self-love and acceptance 5. You've gotten the experiences you wanted 6. You understand the reality of maintaining relationships 7. You are ready to integrate your life with someone else's and are open to change.
@The_Gidz
@The_Gidz 5 лет назад
Went through my first breakup a few months ago and it was a rough one but I've found a lot of value in myself since then that they could never give me and I'm hoping to find someone even better soon
@a.shopping_cart
@a.shopping_cart 2 года назад
good job man. its been 3 yrs can we get an update?
@The_Gidz
@The_Gidz 2 года назад
@@a.shopping_cart I've had a lot of brushes with romance since then -- no other relationships yet but learned a lot of lessons and developed a lot along the way! It can be a struggle but eventually got have to learn that you can only control your own actions and how you react to others', so don't devalue yourself for those who put you down.
@felinecladder2288
@felinecladder2288 5 лет назад
very helpfull, not ready yet.. but now i know why😁
@TheUKNutter
@TheUKNutter 4 года назад
I’m ready! Just need someone to love me now
@fabulousferret6878
@fabulousferret6878 3 года назад
Ikr
@TheUKNutter
@TheUKNutter 3 года назад
@@fabulousferret6878 1+ year and I'm still ready lmao
@ress8521
@ress8521 5 лет назад
Tbh I think I only searched this cause I'm low key nervous asf
@hopekassandra8661
@hopekassandra8661 5 лет назад
This video helped me soooo much!!! Not ready!! Delayed progress by being determined to move into new relationships. Now, I'm working on my bucket list and just doing ME!! 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
@tonywalker1954
@tonywalker1954 5 лет назад
1 I complete myself 2. I definitely understand open communication 3 not one bit 4 I already have self Love and am trying to help other's to love themselves more 5. I have and I am still learning new things 6 I do 7 I am definitely open to change and would love my soulmate
@DrProfessor143
@DrProfessor143 5 лет назад
Tony Walker Whoa!! You are surely ready to be in a relationship. Oh almighty God, give this child a good partner.
@ZaxorVonSkyler
@ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад
Amen!
@zerrpho
@zerrpho 5 лет назад
Also, this is kinda important. A lot of people say " You can't be loved when you don't love yourself ". A lot of people think that. And it's pretty much toxic. You are still valid and loveable ♡
@DrProfessor143
@DrProfessor143 5 лет назад
SmolCinnamon Mika Awwww thank you.
@hibak8196
@hibak8196 5 лет назад
Of course we're lovable and worthy, that's why we need to love ourselves
@miguelsaravia6957
@miguelsaravia6957 5 лет назад
You got it confused it "you can't give love when you don't love yourself".
@zerrpho
@zerrpho 5 лет назад
@@miguelsaravia6957 That too. I forgot about this one.
@joyitadarling5815
@joyitadarling5815 5 лет назад
No, it is not true that you cannot be loved if you do not love yourself but if so, your love will be incomplete. People who do not love their selves often struggle to recognize and give real, pure love and trust.
@gigglez3036
@gigglez3036 5 лет назад
I really like the different styles in every video you guys put out!
@ErinLastNameRedacted
@ErinLastNameRedacted 4 года назад
The experiences I’ve always wanted are relationship experiences...
@bingbong6474
@bingbong6474 5 лет назад
Me: IM READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP *youtube puts this in my recommended* Me: oh nvm.....
@SilentHotdog28
@SilentHotdog28 4 года назад
Life telling you to sit down haha, I've had that before......I think I am ready....but not going to rush into anything.
@MuzicLuvr20
@MuzicLuvr20 5 лет назад
I know this so off topic but I’ve always love the illustration in these videos... They’re SO CUTE!! ☺️
@Chronade
@Chronade 4 года назад
Powerful advice. Thanks!💗
@hungtruong1880
@hungtruong1880 4 года назад
Thanks for the great video.Keep it up
@83HondaPrelude
@83HondaPrelude 5 лет назад
Thank you, now I can help my friends who want to start a relationship with someone
@killstreak4576
@killstreak4576 5 лет назад
What if you still think about your ex because you see him constantly and want to kick his ass?
@huberduberdoo
@huberduberdoo 5 лет назад
Killstreak457 Well... you have the freedom to kick his ass but there's consequences...
@killstreak4576
@killstreak4576 5 лет назад
@@huberduberdoo I think it would be worth it
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
First of all, i dont see her anymore. Second of all, i wouldnt wanna kick "his" ass anyway
@killstreak4576
@killstreak4576 4 года назад
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 if you dont relate to the comment why the hell did you reply?
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
@@killstreak4576 because i wanted to
@DanSteakMan
@DanSteakMan Год назад
Not ready yet,that's evident as of late. Thank you for your interesting informative videos 🙂
@derpherp1810
@derpherp1810 4 года назад
I think I’m almost ready. I’m starting to realize these things and I understand most of these things. So I’m almost there.
@sipstea4668
@sipstea4668 5 лет назад
johnny johnny are you ready for a relationship?
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
why tho
@BlaineLP
@BlaineLP 5 лет назад
no papa
@starrilysky
@starrilysky 5 лет назад
No papa
@sluttyshade5912
@sluttyshade5912 5 лет назад
Ha Ha Ha *shape shifts into this*
@seagullofficial3057
@seagullofficial3057 5 лет назад
Gee the meme is everywhere.
@planetary-rendez-vous
@planetary-rendez-vous 5 лет назад
You have mastered acceptance and self love Hahaha what a joke, no I'm not ready.
@jirlboss8269
@jirlboss8269 5 лет назад
hahahah same
@liltofree9301
@liltofree9301 4 года назад
*_im never ready_*
@Outlawsrevenge1020
@Outlawsrevenge1020 4 года назад
Im 33... am i ready...? Probably not...
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
I mastered self discipline, and in turns i got self love literally handed to me. Discipline is apparently out of the equation, even though it is the entire equation
@planetary-rendez-vous
@planetary-rendez-vous 4 года назад
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 Hey that's an interesting way to see it... I'm keeping this in mind!
@colearchibaldjr.the3rd403
@colearchibaldjr.the3rd403 5 лет назад
This helps me a lot. Thanks guys!
@craigmcvay1
@craigmcvay1 5 лет назад
I hope this channel goes far
@misspeggyschuyler4808
@misspeggyschuyler4808 5 лет назад
Can you do seven signs if you're in a healthy long-distance relationship? The question has always been bugging me, thanks and if you don't want to I completely understand.
@evea.4358
@evea.4358 5 лет назад
Yes , I would want to watch that as well!
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
If you like it its probably healthy
@midnightsarrow160
@midnightsarrow160 5 лет назад
"Are you ready for a relationship?" Me : Yea no. I guess I still have a long way to go
@achibry19
@achibry19 4 года назад
Definitely not yet ready.. thanks for this 👍
@schylerbrown7364
@schylerbrown7364 4 года назад
These videos are really helping with my break up, thank you :)
@samanthasj698
@samanthasj698 4 года назад
"#4 You have mastered self-love and acceptance." Self-love huh? Well then, this might take a while. Probably when I reach 30 or whatever.
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
Or maybe, just maybe, you could look up videos on how to discipline yourself already and not just patiently wait to magically mature
@Terron-de-pimienta
@Terron-de-pimienta 5 лет назад
Conclusion: only perfect creatures are ready for a relationship. And humans are not perfect. In fact, they use to search others because they feel loneliness, fear, weakness or boring (in a conscious or subconscious mind level), not because they feel ``real`` love. Just look the most of the relationship in your town or in the world, there's not ``real`` love in them.
@9turquoisemoon9
@9turquoisemoon9 5 лет назад
Colmillo Silvestre there is definitely something right in your words
@genghispecan
@genghispecan 5 лет назад
Love is a chemical reaction. "Romantic" love is a ghost.
@9turquoisemoon9
@9turquoisemoon9 5 лет назад
Genghis Pecan well no
@Terron-de-pimienta
@Terron-de-pimienta 5 лет назад
@@genghispecan All emotions are chemicals reactions. All kinds of love (compasion, friendship, romantic, sinblings love, parents-kids love...) are just a consequence of the fear we feel, a fear that make us feel weak, lonely, unable to protect ourselves... and that's why we searchs others. That primeral fear comes when humans don't accept their own individuality (identity, will power, strenght, capacity of protect themselves...) and the survival instinct reacts searching for other creature who guide our live (a god, a partner, a friend, a biological relative...), all this in a very subconscious level. So yes, all kinds of love are just the consequence of not accept the essence of life. Love is not a genuine feeling what comes from the heart or the soul and that transcend everything, is just the product of our deepest fear and the unnability of take care of ourselves as beings.
@CesarGonzalez-ur9ic
@CesarGonzalez-ur9ic 5 лет назад
@@Terron-de-pimienta Wow, you're so edgy and nihilistic, how's the 8th grade going btw?
@adityamenon4066
@adityamenon4066 4 года назад
I could listen to you talk all day. An amazing voice!
@Ricky-ke5qc
@Ricky-ke5qc 5 лет назад
Love this topic!! Thank you
@donutationsandtrash1358
@donutationsandtrash1358 5 лет назад
I’m ready for a relationship now just waiting for a partner
@miguelsaravia6957
@miguelsaravia6957 5 лет назад
I'm here baby
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
Im ready for a relationship and i dont even care about getting into one
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 5 лет назад
At this rate, according to #4, I'll never be ready... I've been battling self-hatred for a very long time now and it doesn't seem to go away... Thank God my soulmate and I are as close as best friends despite not actually dating right now so he accepts me for me and reminds me of how "awesome" I am even though I don't quite understand how yet.
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
Maybe you should talk to a therapist my dude.
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 5 лет назад
@@christinabutterfield1801 Already am! C:
@zyy777gs
@zyy777gs Год назад
oh, i got it, i understood why i have never ever been in a relationship, im not ready because i have dreams to come true and feel satisfied achiving my goals by myself, thank you for this video :) i was born in 03, im gonna make my 20th year of my life the best.
@ferox7840
@ferox7840 4 года назад
Yup, I'm ready ❤
@hili1321
@hili1321 5 лет назад
Please please please make a problem of living vs mental illness video! :( I don't understand the difference between the two of them....
@hili1321
@hili1321 5 лет назад
@@kedamono1544 no.... :/
@hili1321
@hili1321 5 лет назад
@@kedamono1544 that's the point, idk! But I do know that it is somewhat similar to mental illnesses, but not the same...!? Sorry, I really don't know :(
@hili1321
@hili1321 5 лет назад
@@kedamono1544 yup
@faithyq660
@faithyq660 5 лет назад
You mean how living with a mental illness affects your life vs how suicidal thoughts affects your life?
@Dice-Z
@Dice-Z 5 лет назад
I doubt anyone will be able to understand and help you with that question until you clarify. "problem of living vs mental illness" What does "problem" refer to? What does "vs" refer to? What does it mean to you?
@solsorocks123
@solsorocks123 4 года назад
*side note:* i love the speakers voice
@alluringrachel_
@alluringrachel_ 5 лет назад
They have grown so much subscribers since before 1.7m.So proud❤️👏✨
@Clary_C
@Clary_C 5 лет назад
I love the animation in this video. Great Job!
@M0ldyBubbles
@M0ldyBubbles 5 лет назад
Im not allowed to have a bf until im a senior in high school
@christinabutterfield1801
@christinabutterfield1801 5 лет назад
Nothing wrong with that. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 18. (I'm 22 now) From what I hear teenage relationships suck.
@powerfulbore666
@powerfulbore666 5 лет назад
Teenage relationships do suck but it helps you learn about relationships
@popnbunny8704
@popnbunny8704 5 лет назад
Good, dating in high school is a one way ticket to drama. Whether you caused it, the person it's directed at, or the middle man (like me) it sucks.
@priscillajimenez27
@priscillajimenez27 5 лет назад
I wasn't allowed to until I was 16 but didn't actually get a BF until I was 20. I didn't rush it.
@ey2496
@ey2496 5 лет назад
DJ pandaz___ That's the best thing you can do, trust us!
@danielc5205
@danielc5205 5 лет назад
I've been longing for a relationship for a very long time, but my circumstances has made me into a incel of sorts because I wasn't able to take control my own destiny. I begrudgingly have to accept that I'll be alone and lonely for the rest of my life.
@SilentHotdog28
@SilentHotdog28 4 года назад
It's tough to look......but don't resign yourself to that fate because it will come true......stay positive, keep searching and let it happen.
@Atlas65
@Atlas65 5 лет назад
Yes I am! This made me realise I was not before. But now I know that I am ready for a relationship. And this video popped up on the exact right time.
@writer1986
@writer1986 4 года назад
I definitely agree with checking off that bucket list. By the time I met my husband I had a degree, career, had traveled outside of the US on my own, and was living by myself. I was finally ready to settle down and start a family, and so was my husband.
@elle2498
@elle2498 3 года назад
Me: *has been single since birth* *Almost 20* *is independent* *self loved* *knows how to cook* *lives on her own* *willing to make sacrifices* *smart (in college)* *financially stable* *Loves nature* *has never kissed anyone* *kind, loving, caring* *spends most of her free time reading* AND I STILL CAN’T FIND ANYONE!!!!!! Anyways what y’all want from McDonald’s?
@ZamoraksApprentice
@ZamoraksApprentice 2 года назад
I think it's the: "spends most of her free time reading". Get out there you dork, love won't just simply come to you in your books lmao. 🤣🤣
@ArtyBilli
@ArtyBilli 5 лет назад
When you are always getting rejected and you have not done anything to deserve that, it takes a toll on your confidence and you start to doubt whether you are fit for any relationship. It feels like relationships are too much of a hassle. I wanted to be in a relationship, but now, the mere notion of having somebody else in my life feels so alien. I cant even fantasize women anymore. I think I am ready for a relationship but if the opportunity arises, I will just run away from the situation 😅
@SilentHotdog28
@SilentHotdog28 4 года назад
Well rejection is not about deserving it or not......The person rejecting you is not trying to hurt you (in most cases), remember.....a person is rejecting you because you don't fit their desired qualities, if you were to be in a relationship with that person, it wouldn't be healthy because they wouldn't be happy, therefore you probably wouldn't be happy. Which therefore means you can then move onto meeting new people who would be happy to have you in their life.
@lukiapotato8526
@lukiapotato8526 5 лет назад
Thank you :) It's true what they say, after all: "To love someone, you must love yourself first."
@MegaManNeo
@MegaManNeo 5 лет назад
This video is the first one that encourages me in believing that I can FINALLY be proud of myself, being myself and welcome a woman in my life if things work out properly. The thing I love already is the animation
@pisscvre69
@pisscvre69 5 лет назад
I’m ready in a lot of ways but I am thinking about ex’s but it’s more in a when I’m lonely or having a bad night I think back to them sometimes and other times I think of them to analyze what went wrong so it doesn’t happen again and figure out what traits I should look for what was good about us so maybe even though technically I still think of them it’s in a good way? Also I my self esteeme is all over the place cuz I have a billion mental health issues but the most important part is regardless of how you feel in the moment holding standards. Just after my most recent ex things sparked up fast with someone else and though they made me feel very loved and it was good in some ways I cut it off early on because I knew even if we had potential then was the wrong time we were both rebounding (sadly rather than give it time they went straight to their next rebound) but even though I was at one of my lowest points of my life I was abble to see that that wasn’t a healthy situation to stay in. The real biggest issue though is finding someone I’m compatible with and who’s looking for something real, everyone my age just wants to casually date and get fuckbuddies but casual dating sucks it’s just literally you both know it’s fake so why bother and fuckbuddies well the novelty has worn off real fast and is an entirly dif appeal than a real relationship. I just wish someone my age would share my values, not be on drugs, not be an alcoholic, not be abusive, and not be religious cuz like it’s fine if you are do your thing but my personal views on religion play a major part in who I am so it’s important that we have at least similar veiws. Anyway I like to leave anoying rants on the internet cuz I have things to say!
@idioticarus
@idioticarus 4 года назад
Jesus Christ when it said 'mastered self love' I literally burst out laughing, I need help 😂
@knacksahne202
@knacksahne202 4 года назад
The voice kinda sounds like a really friendly mother giving you tips on live. I love it
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
:)
@alex_gibson
@alex_gibson 4 года назад
Needed this, thank ya
@rebecas847
@rebecas847 5 лет назад
I've done more living in the past 10 months of me being single from my last relationship than the 23 years I've been alive...
@rickdaves324
@rickdaves324 3 года назад
That's something to feel good bout
@geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132
@geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 5 лет назад
I've got some things to do first. A companion would be nice, since I enjoy female company but, I'd rather get to know someone before getting intimate with them. Learned my lesson there. Not into the whole hook up culture.
@gabekiwi3679
@gabekiwi3679 5 лет назад
This really does help me thx!
@dennykamau
@dennykamau 8 месяцев назад
Right, so I'm almost there. Awesome!
@jamie91995
@jamie91995 5 лет назад
What do you do when there’s nothing good in your life, nothing left to fight for
@blue_cameron
@blue_cameron 5 лет назад
The Jeffrey 27 you change your life
@SilentHotdog28
@SilentHotdog28 4 года назад
Instead of contemplating the negatives......if you feel like there is nothing left to lose, then look for new things, experiences, people to enjoy.......look for 'reasons to live'.
@joeyjointjebaiter1275
@joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад
Make it the greatest of opportunities. If there's nothing to lose, take massive risks. The worst thing that can happen is you just dont gain anything. Shoot the long shot and see where it takes you
@hyunjae_18
@hyunjae_18 5 лет назад
The animation is cute 😍
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 года назад
Glad you like it!
@pinkbunny6272
@pinkbunny6272 5 лет назад
I have been in a great relationship for 3 and a half years. I was mature when I got into it and now I am sure it is a good choice. He helped me through a panick attack, making sure I was comfortable, he walked with me, he held my hand. I saw how people got in and out of relationship to another all through my teen years. I chose to wait until I was ready
@JackLancaster9
@JackLancaster9 5 лет назад
wow this is great! I think I'll focus a bit more on myself then, being ok where I am and fulfilling my goals! :D
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