7 Signs You Hate Yourself

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A lot of us feel like we don’t deserve to have our dreams come true or have good things happen to us, and sometimes, no matter how far we’ve made it or how much we’ve already accomplished, we still don’t feel content. Why is that?
The answer isn’t an easy one. Most likely, it’s when we grapple with feelings of self-loathing or self-hatred. Self-loathing is defined as a hatred for oneself that often manifests as anger, self-sabotage, a negative view of oneself, and low self-esteem.
If you relate to this video and you're struggling with self-hatred, we have a video on the things to remember when you think you're not good enough: • 7 Things To Remember W...
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Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Naphia
RU-vid manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Brown, R. P., &Bosson, J. K. (2001). Narcissus Meets Sisyphus: Self-Love, Self-Loathing, and the Never-Ending Pursuit of Self-Worth. Psychological Inquiry, 12 (4), 210-213.
O’Moore, M., & Kirkham, C. (2001). Self-Esteem and its Relationship to Bullying Behaviour. Aggressive Behavior, 27 (4), p269-283.
Noormega, R. (2017). Signs You Hate Yourself And Don’t Even Realize It. Retrieved from www.thoughtcatalog.com/rayi-n...
National Alliance Against Mental Illness (2018). Mental Health by The Numbers. Retrieved from www.nami.org/Learn-More/Menta...

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@Psych2go 3 года назад

Hi everyone! Do you unintentionally hate yourself or know someone who does? We to all some extent lack a bit of self love, so that's why this video is made to help us recognize times when we may not be doing ourselves a service. If you resonate with any of these signs, know that you are not alone. We can only grow when we are self aware. Quick favor! We're launching a channel that makes our content more accessible in Korean. But on top of that we will be doing movies reviews from a psychological perspective. If you're interested, do consider supporting us here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NKLkjTZ-vyc.html on BPD. We have the English subtitles too!

@TBSG707 3 года назад

Nice

@Bobby_mc52 3 года назад

I hate myself but not unintentionally

@frontallobotomy03 3 года назад

I still can't tell I'm wondering if I'm in denial or not

@mariomaster101official 3 года назад

I hate myself and any version of myself after oct 20th

@TBSG707 3 года назад

@@mariomaster101official what happened on October 20th

@oiradzenitram 3 года назад

It’s not a coincidence that this was recommended to me.

@Psych2go 3 года назад

indeed.

@islandboybry 3 года назад

@@Psych2go 😂😂

@omokaede 3 года назад

Yep

@mariomaster101official 3 года назад

Here before this comment gets 1K likes

@bibule 3 года назад

I just got the notification

@liscan8978 2 года назад

Whenever someone compliments me, I feel like they're lying

@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 года назад

they may be right in some aspect

@quantumslime7265 2 года назад

I am wary of compliments not for that reason but because i think its only a matter of time before they start to hate me or become disappointed in me.

@scissorluv4583 2 года назад

When ever someone compliments me I feel really awkward and I tell them if they are serious,then they reply with yes and then I feel depressed cause I know they're lying

@phintrobopsphintrobops132 2 года назад

What’s that

@mitskisson 2 года назад

Y’all are getting complimented?

@anasdarkaoui5351 Месяц назад

You're not comfortable letting other people help as you believe your troubles are yours alone and you deserve them" That one hit deep 😢

@georgettea7836 2 месяца назад

I'm in my 40's but the voices of the 5year old bullies are still in my mind everyday ! I can't escape them.

@slowed_hits_yt Месяц назад

I hope u get through it...

@mssx2022 Месяц назад

Hi ....your living in the past. Let it go ! Time has moved on and U should too !

@joelhc9703 Месяц назад

It's normal. They were not better than you not were you worst than them. We all are together in having, imperfections, flaws and weaknesses, it's shared humanity. Not even in how you felt are you different to the rest. You are not special nor are they. You are just unique and that uniqueness is what your anger tries to protect plus you feel guilty because you didn't meant to hurt or harm no one. Hope any of that helps.

@georgettea7836 Месяц назад

@@joelhc9703 Thank you for your reply. Its not something I think about consciously. I came from another culture and in Australia in the early 80's I was in an Anglo culture. Of course I was strange to the other children. But as a child I couldn't understand. I don't think about it everyday but it affected my confidence. But it has given me empathy for those who feel isolated and are suffering. Life is hard but time gives you perspective and I am grateful that I am healthy and have a great family. Thank you for your reply. You are very wise and perceptive.

@emerylsg Месяц назад

this is why anti bullying is so important. shit like that sticks with you for years, or forever. they can quite literally shape who you are and how you see yourself. the people who don't realize this never experienced it

@leahfenn9558 3 года назад

I *know* I hate myself, I'm just fact-checking at this point

@sofiamarielsantanadavalos444 3 года назад

Lol same

@itz_unknown924 3 года назад

same

@NorielBenMiel 3 года назад

Same

@kzzra 3 года назад

same

@death_thatsme2128 3 года назад

same....🥺💔

@Syn 3 года назад

it all start from clicking this video

@astupidperson3464 3 года назад

Bruh 1 minute ago

@arcsyn6379 3 года назад

Your nick is what i use usually lmao

@lock5171 3 года назад

bruh 6 days ago

@lock5171 3 года назад

btw legend sy verified people never reply to people in they reply to they comment

@lucifermorningstar3637 3 года назад

uhh

@TheFancyIceCube Месяц назад

What’s sad is that when I opened up to my friends, they all laughed and thought I was joking. The only person who understood that I wasn’t joking was my best friend, and he told me that “all of us will probably make fun of you. Stop opening up. It makes us feel wrong and awkward.” I never opened up to anyone again.

@Frombeyondthehorizon6860 Месяц назад

I'm a nobody on the internet, but I'm so sorry that happened. You deserved to be listened to and heard genuinely and loved for who you are.

@ferretgirl9 22 дня назад

Sometimes I feel like I'm someone who complains or used about something (I feel like I'm only talking to friends when they need help with something, or they only ask for help). So yeah, I feel the same way.

@ferretgirl9 22 дня назад

I also feel like everyone at my school is judging of what I am accomplishing or doing in life. What can I do I wonder to stop those thoughts/ feelings.

@Vespyr_ 20 дней назад

With best friends like that who needs enemies? They sound like a living disease of a human being.

@dropdead6969 18 дней назад

@@ferretgirl9 Its so deep in my subconscious I dont know how to undo the years of early childhood bullying and neglect no matter what I do.. best I can do is withdraw and stay apathetic of everyone

@probablytaha 2 месяца назад

I hate myself so much that I feel like people gaslight me when they compliment me

@connorericksonmusic 12 дней назад

Fr. It doesn’t seem real or genuine, I have huge trust issues so I feel like it’s a cruel joke that they are pulling on me.

@Poyhrulu 3 года назад

When I get confident about myself, it disgusts me that I felt like that.

@moodybash7334 3 года назад

Same. I feel like I shouldn't. But sometimes I wish it to be like that everytime, so that I can be true to myself

@moodybash7334 3 года назад

@Phoenix Wolf ikr? And then talk about why we hate ourselves then help each other out

@ollienang7253 3 года назад

I get that all the time or more so that i feel my problems are insignificant in the larger scheme of things.

@rangeofthem00n45 3 года назад

Who doe QwQ I'm very confident and Happyyyyy UvU I hate sadness I would murder that emotion if I seen it . I actually wouldn't murder the emotion sadness I like it cuz well in Anime it's so dramatic and in movies it's also dramatic :))

@endergenesis2618 3 года назад

I mean there's group therapy, meeting random people on the Internet is probably gonna get someone killed like it or not

@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520 3 года назад

Okay, RU-vid, it’s starting to get personal now.

@gargiraj77 3 года назад

Incredibly personal

@peepuwu2354 3 года назад

too personal 😭

@its_mya1267 3 года назад

Agreed, but I don’t mind lol

@user-hp7el4ut5v 3 года назад

unbelievably personal, youtube.

@artiv117 3 года назад

So its true that you all got on recommended?

@chris_freaky305 5 месяцев назад

I don't hate myself, just going through a rough time. I can do this. Thanks for this video.

@emiljakobsen2872 3 месяца назад

yes you can, i believe you, even though i dont know who you are

@chris_freaky305 3 месяца назад

@@emiljakobsen2872 Thank you internet person!! :]

@captainfoxy1577 2 месяца назад

oh, man, I can never say that to myself. I'm rooting for you though :)

@sapiensiski 2 месяца назад

Good for you.

@underactive_cat8592 2 месяца назад

At least you have the confidance good luck

@jessfavful 2 месяца назад

Oh boy do I love going down rabbit holes that make me feel terrible

@mssx2022 Месяц назад

Hi .....stop going down them ...

@liana_splashy 8 дней назад

I just want to say that you are loved and it isn't a lie. I promise.

@midori58 3 года назад

the worst part is that I am 100% self-aware of all these things, yet I still do nothing about it.

@applesource8261 3 года назад

And I will get annoyed when someone tells me that I may have a problem or even gives me suggestions on how to get better. And I am 100% aware that this reaction makes absolutely no sense. Maybe thats just another symptom we have.

@harper6032 3 года назад

It's like you hate yourself so much you don't feel like you deserve to get better, so you don't try to get better. But at the same time, you feel awful and want to get better, but you did this to yourself anyway so you deserve the suffering, and on and on and on goes the never ending cycle of hell

@mirkohoble 3 года назад

@@harper6032 jajaj yes, that's exactly the whole problem!

@Mansi_19 3 года назад

Same story Bro😶😶

@noimdirt 3 года назад

Same, like it says in the video I feel like I don't deserve happiness sooooo

@misery7897 2 года назад

1. You tear yourself down - ✔ 2. You feel insecure around others - ✔ 3. You neglect your self-care - ✔ 4. You don't let yourself be happy - ✔ 5. You isolate yourself from others - ✔ 6. You put on a facade for others - ✔ 7. You're afraid to dream big - ✔ Damn, first thing I got perfect score from.

@cshuffler232 2 года назад

Oh damn bro

@clarefernandes5955 2 года назад

honestly its the same for me too

@darkrider189 2 года назад

fr 😭

@user-lj2zm2uo2v 2 года назад

🖐 high five

@Ilikebread879 2 года назад

Savage self-burn - ✅

@xemma_xoxo 2 месяца назад

I know I hate myself. I don’t know why i’m just watching this. I just want to feel okay again

@mssx2022 Месяц назад

Hi ....even if u don't know why? Doesn't mean U should keep doing it ! Feel better ! It's ok.

@user-so3up7il8f 6 дней назад

i feel the same. your not alone kid..

@MilesJ. 3 месяца назад

Video had me crying at work. I always knew I had some issues with myself and I’m aware of how worse I used to be- but to find out I still have this hatred for myself buried deep down, and to act like it’s not there all this time….its just scary to me. 🤦🏾‍♂️ I know nobody asked, but I wish us all the best of luck on the journey of self-love. We deserve love. We to accept ourselves before we accept anyone else.

@fellamcgee 3 года назад

Me: “Huh, I guess I hate myself now” Also me: “Don’t worry I hate you too”

@yipflomiser 3 года назад

I don't know what to say lol

@IanRD277 3 года назад

My subconscious: I guess that makes 3

@nebiat5663 3 года назад

@Lratiobozo 3 года назад

@setapart2serveministries 3 года назад

Lol.

@finnishsniper2958 3 года назад

“You isolate from others” It’s not that I hate myself, I just hate people

@aubree7524 3 года назад

Honestly tho 😂

@lenoremunoz2407 3 года назад

Haha this deserves more likes

@bringmethatcoffee5235 3 года назад

Or love. You know. XD Bc Corona.

@MeemahSN 3 года назад

Very true, very true

@chrisbova9686 3 года назад

Psychologists are stuck trying to take any action to protect yourself from society as a flaw in yourself, not the society that is perverse.

@daffygreen7249 3 месяца назад

After a year in therapy, I really feel like I am healing from all this. It hasn't been easy, but it has been an amazing journey of self-discovery. Whoever recognises themselves in this video, I wholeheartedly recommend therapy, or self-help, that is so easily available online. ❤❤❤

@Ella.fromsaturn 5 месяцев назад

“You feel insecure around others” literally me with all my gorgeous friends with boyfriends

@theimpossibros39 2 года назад

1) You tear yourself down. ✅ 2) You feel insecure about others. ✅ 3) You neglect your self-care. ✅ 4) You don’t let yourself be happy. ✅ 5) You isolate yourself from others. ✅ 6) You put on a facade for others. ✅ 7) You’re afraid to dream big. ✅ The test result are ready. You were right.

@randomfollower1931 2 года назад

Same here! :) I just don't think I'm important or good enough XD I'm just wearing a mask hiding me

@C0wp0ke. 2 года назад

Yeah same..

@this_channel_is_dead_3660 2 года назад

Same lol but can anyone tell me how to fix this ? XD

@biggestfan-lw2pr 2 года назад

Heck

@ftintin1 2 года назад

Hey! It's my personality!

@feroltra9340 3 года назад

1. You tear yourself down 2. You compare yourself to others 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade for others 7. You’re afraid of dream big

@willgamer0849 3 года назад

The only thing I don't do is comparing my self with others, The rest I do them all.

@peculiarduckmaster1778 3 года назад

Wait- everyone doesn't do this already!? Wait I though it was normal? 💀

@kaztheterriblecommenter3229 3 года назад

@@peculiarduckmaster1778 oh yeah it's normal don't worry people are just a bit more depressed since covid-19 like you so don't worry about being different

@tuisuki 3 года назад

oh no ; ;

@HFAdelto 3 года назад

I think i don't do 6. Well it depends of your definition of a facade. My friends know that I hate myself and/or I am depressed but when I'm around them I'm trying to go along with everyone's mood and not embarass everyone with my state of mind does this count as a facade ?

@zakkbudd9873 4 месяца назад

This blown me away With all my symptoms being the same things is terrible for me but incredible on how you described them and try to relate with others. Well done 👏

@linaa_dza 5 месяцев назад

i usually never comment on youtube since i’m not always using it, but from all the videos i’ve watched from this channel, this is the only one that is 100% relatable i felt like it describes what i can’t express, that’s why i find it so relatable. i am undercover so no one i know can see my comment and know that i am feeling this way, but i’ve wanted to share this with y’all and i really wish i could find my way out

@user-fm8jo9uc6l 3 года назад

to summarize: 7 signs you may be suffering from self-loathing 1. you tear yourself down 2. you feel insecure around others 3. you neglect your self-care 4. you don’t let yourself be happy 5. you isolate yourself from others 6. you put on a facade for others 7. you’re afraid to dream big

@riarising8630 3 года назад

Thank you

@ambursugar 3 года назад

Thank you

@resilententity470 3 года назад

o shizz 5/7 definite yes's. At least on auto mode

@alienishere002 3 года назад

3, 4, & 5. I don't trust people.

@somerandombug69isbusy20 3 года назад

Lol how’d you know what’s on my resume

@boxpin8967 3 года назад

Me throughout this whole video: “I feel like everyone does that... right?”

@clammqwq 3 года назад

Same F

@unkownanon3098 3 года назад

Yes but apparently no

@laylamarin7211 3 года назад

Same.. i hate myself :/

@chibikenma 3 года назад

I mean it's pretty normal in our generation but it's not supposed to be

@boxpin8967 3 года назад

@@chibikenma that’s true. A lot of people (not all) do feel these ways because of things like school or work

@MrBlister1000 4 месяца назад

This is genuinely one of the most relatable videos on all of RU-vid

@sree1993 Месяц назад

Watching this was actually sad, but also a sort of relief.. Because I know I used to relate to many of these, but now I relate to less of them.. It gives me hope to know that I have improved, although, not completely. Thank you!!

@user-pg3cw2hj8z 3 года назад

“She hates her life, not because it was bad but because when you hate your mind and your body it’s hard to enjoy the rest” :/

@sarau2034 3 года назад

euphoria😭❤️

@cadence4674 3 года назад

The fact that this is so true-

@Luffy-Taro 3 года назад

@@sarau2034 i didnt expect that lmao

@whoswhoo 3 года назад

But you can change how you think about yourself you can learn to love yourself . Dont compare yourself to others thinking I wish I looked or behaved etc like them .learn to accept yourself that you're ok as you are and start with little steps towards positive change ...

@youmatter8138 3 года назад

You are beautiful

@domenicaa.2055 3 года назад

It's really sad how we can be really supportive with everyone, but harsh with ourselves.

@lenie447 3 года назад

I agree with you like no one knows that from the outside I may smile or look happy but inside I'm crying and just want to die

@mauriciofreitas3384 3 года назад

@@lenie447 so true

@Finalizor 3 года назад

i couldn't agree more

@kerayupp 3 года назад

@@lenie447 this is such facts. And I'm scared to tell my mom

@maxbunting8996 3 года назад

Yeah, I just put on a smile and try and make everyone else happy. I don't want them to feel the kind of internal pain I do...

@snowy6156 2 месяца назад

This video made me cry so much. I can relate to this so much... I hate being like this because I know it tares down everyone around me, but I just can't. I'm trying, but it isn't enough

@mssx2022 Месяц назад

Hi ....Be Positive ! Things will change in time.

@Zero-87 4 месяца назад

Man these videos are explaining my depression and self hatred

@rachelcantread7001 3 года назад

I didn’t need a sign that I hate myself. This is just the cherry on top

@Finalizor 3 года назад

same lol........*crys*

@francescaa8331 3 года назад

You already know what's going on. Learning to love yourself can be a project, but it's worth it, hope you can find some good advice here on RU-vid.

@Yourhopelessbookworm 3 года назад

Ahahaha can relate

@Finalizor 3 года назад

@•Honey Potter• thx lol

@lavstoybox 3 года назад

@•Honey Potter• Nagitoe but actually •Honey Potter•.. I like it.

@jampirate9804 3 года назад

"You put on a facade because you hate the real you" I feel called out.

@artstudentwannabe 3 года назад

same 💀

@fearthetoast 3 года назад

me too 🥲

@rickshaw6271 3 года назад

Yeah, it stings.

@nickfolio34 3 года назад

its at69 likes let me ruin it

@freckles3100 3 года назад

Same

@Ugly_Duckling 5 месяцев назад

00:02 Understanding self-loathing and its impact on self-esteem. 00:54 Self-loathing and self-hate lead to constant self-criticism and tearing oneself down. 01:45 Feeling insecure, harshly judging yourself and neglecting self-care are signs of self-hatred. 02:28 Neglecting self-care is a form of self-hatred. 03:05 You have a pessimistic view of yourself and struggle to feel good about yourself 03:54 Low self-esteem leads to self-isolation and putting on a facade for others 04:40 Others see the real you because you hate who you are. 05:27 Self-destructive behaviors can lead to feelings of insecurity and self-hatred Crafted by Merlin AI.

@RhaniernathanVillanueva-og4wg 3 месяца назад

I don't have any signs of most videos made by this channel and I don't feel anything close to having mental issues, but the character, voice and the animation is so good I have to watch it

@meriac7204 3 года назад

Me: clearly knows I hate myself Me again: **clicks video just in case**

@yeongweunbi 3 года назад

omg that's me lol

@shuoyt3 3 года назад

Bts annoys me so no thanks (no offense to bts just not my thing)

@charlottedekievit3874 3 года назад

@@btsbutter2405 I love them but unfortunately still hate myself

@btsbutter2405 3 года назад

@@shuoyt3 It’s ok as long as you respect them:) And I hope you have a nice day thank you☺️

@btsbutter2405 3 года назад

@@charlottedekievit3874 Try digging deeper into their message and try understanding them more.

@agfromtheeast4456 3 года назад

you know sometimes i wonder how does it feel to be someone who loves themselves and or like genuinely happy

@lasvegaslincoln1769 3 года назад

Me too

@olafgurke4699 3 года назад

It's a mystery, ain't it?

@DisturbedGeneration 2 года назад

Pfft. It's about a big a mystery to me, as what's beyond death is to science..

@bedheadren7893 2 года назад

Oml, same-

@akaiyukihana 2 года назад

Seen that kinda person tho... They're like a different specie...

@Toadbup. Месяц назад

I've been watching a lot of your videos and a lot of the negative stuff really explains why I've been feeling this way this one is basically everything Ive been feeling and doing for years now

@gamerairways 5 месяцев назад

Bro, the algorithm really is something. I’ve not been watching these kind of videos/topics at all, and I’m generally feeling pretty alright. Then this video pops out of nowhere on my feed and hits the nail on the head. Anyway, yeah food for thought. Thanks for the vid. And thanks to the algo, lol

@kohji_y 2 года назад

Finally a test even I can get full marks on!

@mitchellbarton7915 2 года назад

God, this actually made me laugh a little through the tears. I'm glad people with humor like you exist. Thank you.

@vickigoguen9398 2 года назад

😂. Thanks I needed that.

@kohji_y 2 года назад

Heads up to the both you above this, shit'll get better for all of us, eventually ♥

@mitchellbarton7915 2 года назад

@@kohji_y I made the sad mistake to give up hope and it led me down a dark path. I'm still slowly working on myself and piecing things together. I don't have all the answers, but at least with the internet; it's up, it's up forever. There will be that mark for everyone to see we tried. We can slowly become the majority of true empaths and see a world where no one will be misunderstood. Even if I fade into obscurity afterward, I can rest knowing I either helped ignite the spark of change; or I died trying.

@coloradostatesenatorsteven7443 2 года назад

@@mitchellbarton7915 pathetic

@domgo349 4 месяца назад

When I was younger I ended up losing contact with basically everyone who mattered to me in the past. I felt depressed, lonely, and because I never appreciated who I had, I gained a serious case of self hatred. In order to cope, I ended up in an addiction and that just made it worse. I couldn't handle compliments, I thought that every part of me looked horrible and it kept me from moving on, I wasn't able to form new relationships with others. It's been a few years, I'm still trying to improve. To anyone reading this, nobody is perfect, love yourself for who you are - even for your mistakes. You're beautiful and one of a kind ♥

@kinoubonser6605 3 месяца назад

This made me realize how far I've come. I've had these behaviors since I was little, it's how I'd survive my parents' way of raising me. I'm trying to get better and (I suppose ironically) I feel like I'm never making progress. This video made me go "I used to do that" but a lot of it I don't do anymore. I explore opportunities, feel accomplished after finishing an artwork, and don't compare myself to others. I'm glad I'm getting better, and I hope others start to feel better too at their own pace.

@hxneyoats 3 года назад

This entire video really said: “this you?”

@SEHLACE 3 года назад

My response is: yes.

@darkfame1499 3 года назад

What's the name of your profile

@Imsomeloner 3 года назад

Everything except the 7th

@hxneyoats 3 года назад

@@darkfame1499 it’s “hxneyoats” the hxney part means honey. so just read it as honeyoats. I just thought it would look better with an x. I hope that made sense lol😭

@insertusernamehere8575 3 года назад

Who dis

@hash6680 3 года назад

*Me who watches it anyway despite fully knowing how much I hate myself:* Just making sure- (Edit: I never realized I resonated with so many people, lol. I hope you're all doing well to do better and wish you good luck. Be nice to people and, well, live laugh love.)

@taehyplant4160 3 года назад

i hope you're better now!

@nowie4007 3 года назад

i wish life would get better for us!

@taehyplant4160 3 года назад

@@nowie4007 we all wish that 🥶 but it gets better!

@asvuksi42 3 года назад

Same lol, and there is literally no way to overcome this because it's a paradoxical situation where it's impossible to not want to hate yourself when you already hate yourself.

@taehyplant4160 3 года назад

@@asvuksi42 yea

@sveninspace 3 месяца назад

i love these videos because a lot of the time they actually discourage me, because it shows i actually don't hate myself, i just am ugly and stupid. love the videos though, keep up the great work!

@k4ttz528 4 месяца назад

As someone who confidently does relate to some of these, i hope you all get better and i wish you all grow to love yourselves

@kahokohino8573 3 года назад

i'm not even joking when I say that this video has literally summed up my whole life

@hopefulfox4931 3 года назад

mine too

@Mar-rg1cq 3 года назад

Same

@goodmusicman5254 3 года назад

Amen

@damian8267 3 года назад

Dang

@ClayLud 3 года назад

I think A LOT of people feel the same way. Hell, ALMOST EVERYBODY, if we were to truly admit it. That's why life is such a challenge my friend.

@showedits2062 3 года назад

i’m straight up embarrassed to around anyone bc i feel like i’m too ugly. i hate when people say nice things ab me bc i feel like they are lying but if someone says something bad about me it lingers with me constantly.

@RottenBegotten 3 года назад

Same! This girl says I'm cute when I blush and think she's just saying that to tease me. But when someone jokes about my face, I think about it for MONTHS.

@iamagirl9938 3 года назад

I had this friend I've never fought with, but once I made a joke that made her uncomfortable and for the first time in my life I heard her raise her voice, and I was the only person she yelled at. A part of me knows she is still my friend, but another part is always eating away at me because I did something to make her yell at me when she had never yelled at anybody. A part of me can't stop but think I don't deserve her friendship.

@avennie6356 3 года назад

Fr everytime I go outside I get so uncomfortable, nervous and very insecure to the point I cant focus and almost got ran over. I appreciate people saying kind things to me but I feel like their only saying this in pity because they feel bad for how bad I am lol.

@Anobluu 3 года назад

Same...

@chloegilbert6336 3 года назад

@@iamagirl9938 i bet your friend forgot about that lol we are always so critical on ourselves. sometimes if you think of yourself as a friend you’d be like “oh I would forgive them”. like we are really our own enemies

@SonnyDlicious 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this video. I'm listening to this at 5:00 in the morning because I can't sleep because I'm just tossing and turning. Trying to think of a reason to stop worrying. Hopefully listening to this 100 more times. We'll finally sink through my head a bit. So many things I need to change. But I guess the first step is admitting it and listening to good advice❤

@anxiousandroid Месяц назад

same here at 06.25 i hope you feel better

@elyjiahhill3954 4 месяца назад

All of this describes me. I'm subscribing cause I feel like this channel understands what I'm feeling.

@kicksandtricks3887 3 года назад

1. *"You tear yourself down"* 2. *"You feel insecure around others"* 3. *"You neglect your self-care"* 4. *"You don't let yourself be happy"* 5. *"You isolate yourself from others"* 6. *"You put on a facade for others"* 7. *"You're afraid to dream big"*

@onlyvirly2c 3 года назад

Great I hate myself.

@sk1ttlz904 3 года назад

I got everything but 7. Lack of 7 is what started this whole mess.

@onlyvirly2c 3 года назад

Mine are more of a 1 and 4 type problem

@ethel1011 3 года назад

Thank u for listing them like i didnt want to watch it again 💕😂😪

@matea443 3 года назад

I guess i hate my self ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@ottakilla9707 Год назад

I knew I hated myself, but I didn’t know I hated myself to the point where I relate to absolutely every point in this video

@lul3093 Год назад

Absolutely "hate" myself but I can just cover it up with "Every person might differ from each other but at the end the grave is all we get"

@ruyaki7057 Год назад

I relate to this video by 80% i hate myself alot :/ but i dont isolate myself

@ilikeice450 Год назад

Same bro.. Ahahahhaah- sobbing

@arianne1206 Год назад

Same 😗🤚

@florence.066 Год назад

relatable

@kylieswei8005 4 месяца назад

Most of these I have in common .always takes note of mistakes even if it’s small .takes bad compliments for real .thinks others have better lives .hides emotions with “happiness” “joy” .hates body shape . Etc

@Imojean Месяц назад

This whole video was 💯 accurate on every point of how I feel and see myself 💔

@eiffel108 3 года назад

The weird thing is I get so happy seeing others being confident about themselves and will always go the extra mile to hype people up but I’d never do that for myself

@sawyerkirby8988 3 года назад

And hello my clone 🤣

@nobodycares3959 3 года назад

same

@SVT_sleeper_4v 3 года назад

Yeah that's me right there!

@kingcoins3391 3 года назад

Same

@fxnr1r 3 года назад

I hated myself. I never wanted to be happy. And I would never change that till I die. I never want to care about myself *FOREVER!*

@Adailyy_ 3 года назад

"You don't sleep well" Me watching this at 2am : this is fine

@shtrki8334 3 года назад

me watching this at 4 AM: 🙂

@putthatjellyinmybelly9698 3 года назад

5:33 AM here..

@shtrki8334 3 года назад

@@putthatjellyinmybelly9698 it's 9 AM now and I didnt sleep all night :)

@meganbowden8651 3 года назад

i stayed up until 3 watching stuff, then i let my adhd take control, and danced until morning. beautiful.

@architaborah4496 3 года назад

Its 2:30 here

@peliqueirolaza09 2 месяца назад

3:57 that picture described my life to perfection

@TheMooseFromTheRoom 5 месяцев назад

This video made me tear up.. I kind of knew all of this before starting it, but it still hit hard seeing myself in every one of these points

@sofyloaf 3 года назад

FOR THE PEOPLE WHO JUST WANT THE LIST 1. You tear yourself down - quick to blame yourself, don’t commend yourself, too hard on yourself 2. You feel insecure when around others - you’re constantly comparing yourself to them 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself feel happy - you take others’ criticism to heart but don’t really take compliments 5. You isolate yourself from others - struggle to make friends because you don’t consider yourself good enough to receive love, you believe that your presence is holding them back 6. You put on a face for others - You hate who you are, you wish you were someone else 7. You’re afraid to dream big - it scares you, you think you’ll never be able to achieve them so what’s the point

@rachelsimbhu4383 3 года назад

You've described me to the T ! Thanks very much !

@paulaliepark2230 3 года назад

3, 5, 6 that describes me well, and as for 2 I could say half and half

@NAMINE0306 3 года назад

Yes to all of the above

@_yellow 3 года назад

_Inwardly harsh, outwardly forgiving_

@aqmareesyaanuar4105 3 года назад

All of those Match with me!🐻

@arizuniga8388 3 года назад

7 Signs you hate yourself. This video is recommended to you.

@EltonLovesPeople 3 года назад

Yep

@Psych2go 3 года назад

RU-vid needs to do a better job!

@EltonLovesPeople 3 года назад

@@Psych2go yeAh-

@DY2727 3 года назад

😂😭

@pinktasticgir1 3 года назад

@@Psych2go I've learned a lot. Thank you

@animalsrule1127- 3 месяца назад

This video made me cry and actually realize I have been suffering from self loathing.I have been doing this for a while now I don’t even know how I feel anymore I tell myself everyday “you can’t do this” “you can try but I won’t believe in you”. I don’t like positive energy or thoughts because I think of how many times I felt discouraged or sadness or even just hating myself to the point where I cry

@castin9097 Месяц назад

Wow this absolutely answered the years of wondering what’s wrong with me..

@loof311 3 года назад

7 signs you hate yourself: 1. you clicked on this video

@moonalpha3169 3 года назад

Well I guess that's true...

@APXSTUDIO 3 года назад

I don't "hate" myself I just came to check comment section

@rednetherbrick3178 3 года назад

Well yes and actually yes

@CoachDavidAdes 3 года назад

this is your inner critic. it's like a voice in your head (a part of your personality) that wants you to think that you're worthless, no good, bad, wrong, shameful. it wants you to stop existing. it wants you to stop living your life. it comes out especially when you want good things for yourself. it wants you to give up everything good, because again, you're not worth good things. it prevents your "true" self from coming out. your true self is too weak. your true self needs to match the strength of the inner critic so that you can about yourself positively, or at least less negatively. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fkXJUFWdJEg.html

@crushelnast6657 3 года назад

How’s you’d guess?!

@ameliakaiser9295 2 года назад

I literally don’t remember what it feels like to love myself and I’m genuinely curious how people do it

@mikepiccoli6378 2 года назад

just realized i never have …every time i tried someone called me cocky and made me feel like shit

@jout738 2 года назад

It feels okay. Loving yourself makes you more intrested to have great sex and love some other people. I dont blame my body for anything, when nothing is my body fault and I dont blame myself also, when to hard situation in life to get was not my fault, when others screamed over me to tell how their always 100% right, so I never myself felt guilty in anything, when I had not any annoying childish prideful personality that made me do something to feel guilty.

@laifyo 2 года назад

same, like how do you not notice all the flaws in your body or personality and just ignore them- i dont think thats possible

@takestwo8331 2 года назад

I feel constantly feel like a doormat for everyone’s emotional need. I used to love myself but I don’t know anymore. I just sometimes have strong urge to just die so I don’t have to feel so much all the time

@enjyali3359 2 года назад

maybe start by complimenting yourself everyday when looking in a mirror. do it even if it feels weird or too egotistical.

@Falcon__1 3 месяца назад

This video was a punch in the gut. This described exactly how I've been feeling lately...

@russellgaskinsiv5756 5 месяцев назад

This makes me question if I'm making myself go into a bliss or if I'm neglecting myself. Thanks for making me question anither thing about my reality!

@atomicjunebug288 3 года назад

"you're a pessimist who's quick at finding the negative aspect in every situation." wow. way to call me out.

@breadmixer 3 года назад

strongly agreed

@gacha-muffin372 3 года назад

She’s just trying to help..

@theaverageone3809 3 года назад

Hey it's not our fault this world has sucked since the beginning of time lol

@rexeno 3 года назад

Ikr

@hidayatkhan412 3 года назад

i searched for it

@thepersonwithnoname3326 3 года назад

It’s like what they always say: “you can’t kill what’s already dead”

@Michelle_Zeus003 3 года назад

FNaF Afton family vibes..

@rainobi5346 3 года назад

"You can't kill me, I'm already dead inside"

@michellenichols1190 3 года назад

Aka, my self-esteem

@BlueRGuy 3 года назад

You can kill a zombie though

@SunLarkBG 3 года назад

yep

@Idkmyname288 2 месяца назад

This video perfectly describes how I feel everyday... I relate to all of these

@gyobu7892 3 месяца назад

The faith makes us still believe, and the mind helps differ it from hate

@beckaronibean 2 года назад

I'm a weird mix of absolutely hating myself and being totally chill with who I am. It's really freaking weird

@thevilemac8743 2 года назад

I'm learning self love but I haven't unlearned self hatred. Maybe it's like that?

@beckaronibean 2 года назад

@@thevilemac8743 I hadn't thought of that. Thank you!!

@despacito2271 2 года назад

It is man I have bad deeds I've done and regret I can't ever sleep but I accept what I've don't and try to move on but yet I still feel guilty

@Darima2 2 года назад

Same. I do my own thing and I'm very different for a female in many ways and I like many things about me. I think the occasional self loathing is due to childhood conditioning and not achieving certain societal expectations. It's confusing 🥴

@bffforlifeandafterlife8764 2 года назад

Yah like I tell people this how I am I'm proud and ashamed at the same time wtf

@gardnerfrost2198 3 года назад

I hate the fact that I hate myself but I can't do anything about it because I feel like I deserve it.

@pluto3194 3 года назад

I feel this comment. I hate myself but feel bad that I hate myself, especially if I mention it because I feel like I'm doing it for attention and that I'm not worth worrying about.

@kenemesay 3 года назад

@@pluto3194 this is why I don't tell anyone about anything about myself

@zulaikhailhamm 3 года назад

I hate myself and I feel sorry bcs I feel like I’m being unfair to myself. But I think I deserve it. So yeah

@plumpushenchman8871 3 года назад

@@solux902 Yeah, I feel good about my hatred for myself too...I know that’s bad but who honestly gives a crap?

@sanariyadilman1114 3 года назад

Hating myself has became so much of a habit it feels normal at this point I do it because everyone has worse and I deserve it Everyone else is more popular than me because they aren't overrated unlike me Everyone else is more talented than me Etc

@bobi-ox2un 3 дня назад

I thought I am okay with myself, but when the video end I found i I match all these criteria... from the first to the last. I have no friends, I don't have self confidence, I stay away from others, I worry about my mistakes even the smallest, i do not eat much, i don't care about my looking and even more. I thought for a moment and i feel I should start care about myself more and to trust myself more. I learnt much from that video and chanel , thank you a lot :)!

@Finnonpawz 5 месяцев назад

Just seeing all of these, relating to all of them, really shows that I have myself.

@keirabrogan8303 2 года назад

Whenever I talked to my friends about my problems, I instantly regretted it, because I knew it was uncomfortable for them and I was putting too much pressure on them to help me. I know I'm not good at lifting someone up with my words, so I feel awful for not being able to help them in return.

@alexdaniel5641 2 года назад

if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help

@kennethmeyer3961 2 года назад

I didn't read all of it but it sounds more to me like you need to rethink who your Friends are if your friends care they care and they want to listen they want to be there to help

@mrdino3050 2 года назад

@@alexdaniel5641 Some problems aren’t temporary my guy

@mrdino3050 2 года назад

@@kennethmeyer3961 True

@treble_exists 2 года назад

Well , I understand that and it's really sad . There r many people out here who support u . If it gets 2 overwhelming, feel free to talk about any of ur problens on these comments 😁

@JustAWeirdo_123 3 года назад

“What’s going on?” “I’m in this photo and I don’t like it”

@seanbean5915 3 года назад

Same thing with me,i deleted all of my pics of me on my moms old phone that she gave me

@komadaze 3 года назад

Litteraly me

@zivakrasna3534 3 года назад

no, I hate it. Its not just not liking

@smilemar8272 3 года назад

Same I don't have photos of my self on my camara roll because I always think I look ugly😊

@IntheMOMENT22173 3 года назад

When I first read this I saw, "I'm a potato and I don't like it" lol

@itevening101 15 дней назад

i don't like how much i'm being called out right now😭 like i am actually starting to tear up rn halfway through the vid cus of how personal these are getting- definitely not a coincidence that youtube recommended me this-

@loghut 5 месяцев назад

I feel so called-out by this video I got all of those signs I also often just criticize myself, especially my looks for no reason, just to make a joke that's actually a pretty harsh self-burn that would often not get away with a slap if it was aimed at someone who is happy with who they are

@Robot62014 3 года назад

Anyone else feel tooo damn tired for life? Like even maintaining a small thing as a discussion with someone is draining for me

@diamondeyes1031 3 года назад

Yes I'm tired of the same routine everyday..

@seanbean5915 3 года назад

Ive cutted myself too many times,and when i was doing it,i thought i was a attention seeker.

@leonzrihen1682 3 года назад

I haven’t cried in so long but I really need to and I am tired life and just want it to end

@murtza_6640 3 года назад

Come speak to me if you have discord. Chickenmaster#4237

@Robot62014 3 года назад

@@murtza_6640 thank you , you kind soul i dont have discord thugh

@chickennuggiechan4851 3 года назад

Crying while watching this I honestly don't wanna be here anymore but that one comment that said "RU-vid its kinda getting personal now" made me cheer up

@janblau4839 3 года назад

Same

@nuggets4357 3 года назад

Its going to get better God loves you and will never leave you trust me ❤️❤️❤️

@nuggets4357 3 года назад

@@janblau4839 its going to get better trust me my friend God loves you and Will not leave me or you or anyone ❤️❤️❤️

@accountabilityisadmirable 3 года назад

Hope your feeling better. 🤗hugs

@Alex-kn4gk 3 года назад

I love how it’s the comment above you lol

@nmeekings8640 4 месяца назад

Tis is the season too where, for some, everything in this clip can seem amplified..... Here's hoping we all make it into the new year 👍🏽

@fy0lai_for_l1fe 5 месяцев назад

Forget hating myself, I love your voice

@amityyy1311 2 года назад

me, watches "7 Signs You Hate Yourself" already knowing i do: me, after finishing the whole thing: wow, i didnt know i hated myself. i must say, i am surprised.

@jennaabdeljawad9026 2 года назад

bro same

@julianocean1734 2 года назад

You must be young? When I was a teenager or in my 20’s I was in denial. When I turned 30 I accepted the fact I deeply hate myself so now I am open about it. It takes time but at some point you accept the truth.

@idkdem8667 2 года назад

Me too

@lordkremit6535 2 года назад

Same

@pinkfoxboi1331 2 года назад

Honestly many of these r true for me and I didn't notice and IVe been doing self luv everyday but I guess it'll be a while till I finally luv me

@Unscather Год назад

"You think they're better off without you." I related to the full list, but this hit the hardest. Like you get a strong feeling that they would be happier and more free if they didn't have to worry about you.

@twistoffate4791 Год назад

Yup, pretty much. People always let me down & then get mad at me if I point it out. That's when I know I have no true friends & people would rather I be gone.

@NiCO.Official. Год назад

And they will.

@bradoncrandall6840 Год назад

My whole life in a nutshell, I am a waste of space and I know it. My only option is to slowly withdrawal so I don't disturb their, "peace."

@teirusureynard9279 Год назад

Same.

@TheAsianKiwi Год назад

Well I cried when I watched the video because I relate and I don't want to relate, but then I cried when I read this too Unscather, ur comment hits so hard

@PallaviSharma-ug9wp 3 месяца назад

You know i fit in these all points very well I am crying right now

@prestonwood-rr9wx 3 месяца назад

At first I noticed some things that I did and some I didn't. But then I heard 6 and then I was having trouble. I always thought I was alone with that one and to hear it be said. Thank You

@YukioMH 3 года назад

I've never been so offended by something I completely agree with. This was honestly touching.

@saikii6349 3 года назад

It is.

@antwan7836 3 года назад

Yeah I had to cry smh

@89ksokd91 3 года назад

It is offensive to watch if this is the result of psychological warfare, abuse or trauma. I'm seriously trying to understand how many people just naturally hate themselves without anything from external people causing it. It's against survival to hate one's self. I think this is the narcissistic narrative of self hate. Imo.

@theymissmeagan 3 года назад

Same lmfao

@khumalo6619 3 года назад

Well said

@dawn6949 3 года назад

You know my favorite quote," Nobody can hate you more than you hate youself."

@tigerslikewater 3 года назад

Yeah

@tammid8423 3 года назад

Hitler Seriously do I need to say more

@havesabrpatience518 3 года назад

@@tammid8423 no ya dont lol

@red-headedabigail5794 3 года назад

@@tammid8423 😂

@ihatemaxx 3 года назад

thanks dora

@clintonphelps665 5 месяцев назад

Honestly, I knew how much I hated myself before I watched the video and now after watching. I think that I do all seven of those things on a daily basis. I Put on a mask and every morning I wake up and I look at myself and think that I look fine. I often leave my friend group thinking to myself that they might have more fun if I just wasn't there. This video was quite good and that you for reminding that I do all these things to myself.

@liamwatts8597 5 месяцев назад

Thanks for making this video ❤

@WhYnOtgAcHa 9 месяцев назад

"you think you don't deserve their love" I can relate to this 💯 This is actually true af I started crying idk why

@user-ni8dh3tl9l 7 месяцев назад

i understand, you have all rights to be sad wfter hearing that..i can relate🙂

@JuiceDaddy804 7 месяцев назад

You and me both😔i gotta fix myself😖

@At_least_3_characterss 7 месяцев назад

Yeah anytime I get a compliment it's just a "uh... thanks" from me

@randommemeaddict249 7 месяцев назад

Sometimes emotions just come out of us. When I had depressive episodes that happened often. The important thing is that you let yourself express these things.

@debeb5148 6 месяцев назад

I destroy love, so yeah I don't deserve it lmao and anyone like me here deserves the same

@ViiZedek 2 года назад

…wow you described me….

@kekekeke7075 2 года назад

NICE. 3 DAYS AGO AND NO COMMENTS AND 13 LIKES

@woolerz. 2 года назад

oh my.. That's what I said at the end of every chapter ;-; I'm about to start crying

@dycku 2 года назад

same whaha

@aaronslingerland4924 2 года назад

@@woolerz. I'm numb mate. Cried to much. I hate my self tried to commit suicide before.

@musicjam5570 2 года назад

Me too

@thatoneguy8153 4 месяца назад

I know this video is around 3 years old as of writing this. But after watching this video it made me realize that I "hate myself". I have always been aware of myself doing these things but just disregarded it as something else other than hating myself. I have had people tell me to stop being so hard on myself, but I've always felt I'm not being hard enough on myself. I have always put myself down for the littlest of mistakes, or have told myself I'm not working hard enough when I see others doing better than me. I'm never around people and try to avoid them thinking that my presence is a burden to others. I put on a face when talking to others hoping that will help. i have a terrible relationship with my parents because i feel like they hate being around me and think I'm a burden. I am always doing stuff around the house thinking that that might help them like me and\or make up for my short comings. Every time i get a complement about my hair or intelligence or anything, I think people are lying or mocking me. whenever I receive criticism it only re-enforces the fact that I'm not trying or doing good enough. I don't think I deserve to receive gifts even for Christmas or my birthday. I feel like I don't do enough in life to deserve anything. I always feel like I'm not good enough for others and myself. I've always had this attitude of "whatever get over it, its part of being a man.". I've learned that it has taken a heavy mental toll on me, but haven't realized it until after I've watched a dozen of your guy's videos.

@jvhunx 3 месяца назад

i feel like because how the wrld view men as either u have money or nothing, people start to feel like they're behind on life. u r doin just fine bro, just focus on urself and ur own life and keep those in ur life who do things like compliment u. they're are real friends, because fake friends only come around for the good times and not when it really does matter to ur own mental health. stay safe bro 💜💜

@tasnuva_peoli1621 Месяц назад

Well, I hated myself before cuz the people around me described me in these qualities but now i'm learning to love myself and have made a great progress. I love myself and I'm my first priority.😊

@14yr 6 месяцев назад

Not accepting the compliments but holding in the criticism is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard. I started crying when you said that.

@dw2100 5 месяцев назад

Same

@spaceflight1019 4 месяца назад

Because my old man once told me that no matter how good I thought I was there is always someone better than me?

@grqndecat9862 4 месяца назад

@@spaceflight1019there could be, but that doesn’t mean your accomplishments aren’t valid

@spaceflight1019 4 месяца назад

@@grqndecat9862 Thanks for the encouragement, but when I look back at my "accomplishments" all I can see is a lot of obsolete equipment and things that aren't there anymore. Nothing lasted. Let me give you the "road map"... Cheswick Power Station 2013-2021: currently being demolished. Elrama Power Station: 2008-2013: demolished in 2023. Space Shuttle program: ended in 2011. Orbiters in museums. Process Instruments: 2000-2008: sold and moved. Westinghouse Instrument Service Company 1983-2000: sold to Siemens in 1998, shuttered in 2005. US Steel Homestead Works: 1978-1981: Long gone Westinghouse Electric East Pittsburgh: 1978: Long gone. Union Switch and Signal: 1977: Long gone. You see, there is no place for me to take my grandchildren to and say "I used to work there." I could focus on the minutae, and delude myself by thinking that what I did made a difference while I was working there, but if I had truly made a difference those places would still be there.

@vegetablesoupfortheteenage1167 3 месяца назад

🤗

@myaedentty149 Год назад

I always said, "I should love myself" but the fact is it's hard to love yourself when you have low self esteem.

@brandoncortezemmanuel357 Год назад

It’s tough… I don’t even think I’m deserving of any love, especially for myself.

@phaedraremington6247 Год назад

My therapist had me write a mantra for myself. One that I need to say three times a day. I can tear myself down like a champ. If it were a sport I'd come in 1st place in my division. It is very awkward to say kind words for oneself but over time it's supposed to get easier. I do think it is starting to. If you choose to try it also start with something positive but not overly so you don't feel overwelmed. Something you will feel a little awkward saying but not something you find outlandish. Maybe something like, "I am worthy. I am worthy of love and affection. I am worthy of my love and affection." Use no negatives. Don't say, "I am worthy but..." Just use, "I am worthy..." I wish you nothing but the best. Be kind to yourself, even though it can be terribly hard. We can all get through this together. Have a beautiful night, dear. 🩵

@Tsuyu_89 11 месяцев назад

That’s what I feel, every time I try to say “I love myself for this” but every time I look at myself I just can’t disagree that I never like the way I put things, because after I’ll have to do more of it if it collapses

@cadavercakes 11 месяцев назад

This.

@sync2597 11 месяцев назад

It's impossible to love yourself when everyone else is so much more than you

@themideceletho 3 месяца назад

The hardest thing for me is to maintain a benevolent inner voice. I don't notice my negative thoughts about myself or the way I think about myself. It’s especially difficult to treat yourself kindly when you notice how disdainfully many people around you look at you.