7 Signs You Should QUIT Your Job 

Staying at a bad job can get you physically ill. Have you quit a job without having another job lined up or have you chosen to stay at a job which you didn't like?

The fact that you can’t go to sleep and constantly thinking about work. It just the worst feeling.

Once you have a toxic boss then that's it. It's like an abusive relationship. It will never get better. They might be nice one day; but they will always go back to their toxic ways. Only cure is if one of you leaves the job.

"Employee's don't leave jobs, they leave managers" is one of the best quotes ever because its so true. Those bastards can change our experience completely. Wish you all good bosses everyone!!!

I LITERALLY matched every single point! And I can concur that a bad job will literally cause you physical, mental, and psychological stress. Panic attacks, high blood pressure, not enjoying personal activities, mental breakdowns, loss of interest in friends/family, contemplating darker "thoughts"; yeah a bad job can be worse than a crowd full of bullies. At least the bully is in your face most of the time. A bad job is like poison fed to you over time in increasing doses until you literally break down.

When they blame and micromanage that's another sign especially if you've been there a while😠😠

Leaving as soon as possible is really hard but if you don't you'll eventually feel sick and even get sick

Quit my job yesterday...or quit my toxic boss. The way out is to expand your opportunities, put the work in and know you deserve better.

It’s insane when you’re working at job that’s so toxic that you would look forward to the weekends being longer than the hours that you work everyday of the week!

Quitted a job recently, felt so much more peaceful, focussed and enthusiastic. Workplace was full of scapegoating, gaslighting, triangulation, bullying, health and safety misconduct, flaking out on hours last minute, coercion including pressuring staff to sign things without reading them that agree to things that never happened. I took a few days off to make sense of it, and they fired me, and then invited me back to work with them shortly after firing me. No thanks, manager is a covert narcissist, I don't need that in my life.

I've walked out of many jobs. I was educated to think that you must not quit your job, and if you do no one will hire you. But the amount of times managers have said "We have a few employees who worked there. Apparently it was really bad" is amazing.

I left a job many years ago, without giving any notice. I had to because the emotional distress that I was under was so enormous. During my working hours, my bowels were upset. I went to see my doctor. After he examined me, his first question was, "Is there trouble at work? That's stress." After I resigned the doctor said to me, "There was something going on there that was causing this." I saw a therapist. She said, "If your bowels were moving fast, that means you were under a lot of stress." To make a long story short, my ability to work there was undermined.

Just as you say "Working for a bad boss is a number one motivator to get people to look for other jobs".

I walked out 10 days ago on my first one on one with my boss after working there for 2 years. I was treated unfairly. I am 59 with 40 years of experience in my industry. The management team I was a part of spent most of their time recruiting due to high turnover. The team I managed performance was the best the company had seen in its 30 year history and the Administration was questioning but wouldn’t schedule a meeting. I was hired a few days after leaving and am so glad to be moving on!

This is an excellent video, and very, very accurate. I worked for a horrible, toxic bully, and the treatment got worse and worse. Before he arrived, I was extremely popular with co-workers and a top performer. In 2 years time I had been screamed at, hung up on, fists slammed on the table because I was so "frustrating", told I needed to grow up, and then the ultimate betrayal, the CEO whom I had an excellent relationship with went totally downhill, and then he hated me too. They tried to force me to sign a PIP (did not sign!!! it was all lies!!!) and suspended me for 2 days without pay for asking a co-worker a question. Yes, you read that right, I was no longer aloud to talk to my co-workers. Please listen to Marat, this situation will only get worse, get out before they fire you, because that is what is going to happen.

Currently in a position that is extremely toxic. A supervisor is a bully, negative and manipulative. Upper management does nothing when approached about concerns and make excuses for this person. I've been in this position 4 months! I have to work and cant just leave without a new job.

I'm ready to be a Walmart Greeter. I don't think I can do anything else correctly or well.

I’m leaving a position where I actually liked the job which is sad. I liked my desk and I got to eat while I worked which I’ll miss severely. I’m too emotionally drained of constantly dealing with my toxic boss who expects you to listen to her rant and complain. Everything is always about her and validating her. I haven’t slept well in a month and the work negativity has affected me Update: ya I ended up moving to another site, work itself is hard but it’s nice not to deal with an emotional wreck, needy manipulative person

I handed my notice last week!

I am happier at my work now but I have seen all those toxic places you described. I found a way out of being treated like crap and I am thankful for your videos and your help!

I work as a manager, and my boss prior to the one I had now was amazing. We had trust with each other. Not everything was smooth sailing all the time, but things had a way of working themselves out. We were a team. Now, a new manager took over and it's never been the same since. There is 0 trust between us. I have been belittled in front of my piers before. I'm constantly micromanaged, and being blamed for things I cannot control.

Listening and watching you is like a theraphy

When I was fired by my toxic boss the lady who called him about my unemployment called me after speaking with him and said " How did you EVER work with him?" Talk about validation!

I kid you not on this and I am debating whether to walk away from this place today. I was called in the office yesterday and told I am being written up for two violations. I am a service technician for work and I do good work. I am late 30s, and have never been written up in any job. But anyway, my manager is medically diagnosed OCD and is a real life Adrian Monk type clean freak. He said one of my machines wasn't clean enough for him. The second write up just blew my mind for stupidity. He said that I am not allowed to wear cargo pants/jeans to work. I looked at him and said do you even know what cargo pants are? Cargo pants have multiple pockets going down the sides. Also, these are not jeans, these are dress pants. He replied, the color looks like jeans 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️... At this point, I lost all respect for this nitpicking company. We were purchased by a large corporation. Since that purchase, it's on a slow decline. Everything is moving to being graded by numbers and metrics. We spend more time and effort manipulating metrics than actually doing quality work.

I left a retail job recently. I stayed there for almost six years. It was difficult, but I felt comfortable. Even though I was able to withstand countless rude customers and toxic managers, I still found a reason to stay since I was still in college. It wasn’t until late at night one day my coworker got angry at me and decided it was best to write me up without explaining why. He even called the daytime manager and she was furious at me telling me she did everything for me. You know what? I don’t owe anyone anything! 😡 so what did I do? The next day. I decided to call and quit immediately. I was happy I did. This wasn’t the first time something like this happened and the company didn’t have a good reputation anyway. Fast Forward, I now have a new job with a more understanding boss and will graduate college soon. What I want one day is to open up my own store and perhaps become an inventor? 😂 One step at a time!

My biggest issue with my job is not the work, it’s the commute. My job can be done completely from home, but they want to see my face even though going into the office is less productive.

Hi everyone . Today I resigned from my job and I'm really proud of myself! Sadly I didn't plan on saving any money before I left but realized my mental, emotional and physical health are the most important! Believe me when I tell you that there are people who get sick or die from the stress that whatever toxic situation there may be such as work, family, friendship can cause. I've been dealing with toxic people for a lifetime, in fact I was born into a family like this and I've had so many red flags about the environment already earlier, but I didn't want to listen to my intuition. Listening to your intuition and gut, can save you from really dire situations. Plan before you leave. Because the longer you stay in these environments and the days go by you find yourself weakened physically, emotionally and without economical resources when the time comes to leave. Even though I didn't plan it properly, I know that everything will be fine and that I will find a solution regardless and I don't regret the choice I made today and that was to leave. My health is precious and I no longer allow anyone to disrespect and bully me. I did it in front of everyone unconsciously but thinking about it maybe it will help one day whoever witnessed this episode to stand up for themselves as well. The manager followed me all over the working place and I told him that I don't tolerate anymore disrespect from anyone. He knew all along what was going on and didn't move a finger to change the situation while the team leader disrespected and bullied. The environment is really toxic and not worth any amount of money .by the way he is also extreme toxic. Some people claim to care about you while backstabbing you on the back. This is related to all toxic relationships. One thing is certain, it takes a lot of courage to do something like this and especially in front of everyone! You demonstrate that you are a person of integrity, moral and with love and respect for yourself. Especially when there are too many secrets and the abuse directed at you is really, really subtle.Obviously when you do it avoid being rude even though I know it's hard, to not show anger or use bad words. He told me:" you can't leave like this"and in return I said "oh yes I can " like "watch me I'm just doing it". I have enough of being the scapegoat for such a sad creatures so they can project onto me all their s..... Is not good being impulsive and leaving but it was absolutely necessary to avoid a breakdown. I needed to calm down . Of course later on I will deal with my reassignment in the proper way which means on paper and documented.Enough of micromanaging, gaslighting, favoritism, preferences, always s....on my performance, not letting me express myself especially when something was done wrong to me ecc.. However. I wish all of you if you find yourself in this situation to find a solid one and to leave as soon as you get the chance.Plan it but secretly. Please inform yourself about GASLIGHTING it can save your sanity.No kidding! For those of you who found the courage to stand up to your bully/bullies, you have all my respect and admiration. Hugs to all of you and never ever give up! There's always a light at the end of the tunnel . And thank you Marat for helping us with tools and knowledge on how to deal in these situations and toxic people! ❤️🤗🤗🤗

Health is more important than wealth. No thanks in staying in a toxic work environment. Money is important but your well-being is more important. Without your health, you cannot work. Best to quit or let them fire you. Just put on your resume that it was the end of your contract which is technically true. It will not affect your future employment even if your company makes you feel that you can never work anywhere else. You are not a prisoner. Not worth it when it affects your wellbeing and maybe your family because they are worried about you. Think back to your dream childhood job. Are you where you want to be now? You can change jobs no matter your age. It has no benefit to stick out a job you are miserable in. I know from experience. Thank you for this excellent advice for everyone 👍

I am overwhelmed and not able to hold on anymore. I thing about work 24/7. No social life, no weekends ,no holidays, no annual leave.No sleep.

I am currently in this position right now. I am literally in the brink of losing my job. I feel like no matter how much I try there is always something wrong about my work performance, not to mention my work schedule is probably affecting me so much since I work from home at a night shift and during the day, I need to do some necessary errands which consumes a lot of my time. I don't blame my supervisors but rather I blame myself. I believe I have a lot of shortcomings but I also feel like I have no growth and progress no matter how much I try. I keep closing other options because I thought I need this job so bad and that I could not afford to lose it because I need to earn money to save, plus not to mention my necessary bills and expenses. I am not feeling great at all and I feel like I'm on a dead end, and this constant feeling of dread has always been there since day one of this job... I wish I was wise and brave enough to decide that I should quit when signs were already clear from the start. Maybe I was scared of wasting my time and the mindset I have that I can't afford to lose my job. I should have probably considered losing my sanity before entering this position. Also, this is probably my last week in this job because they might really fire me for real this time. What should I do? ☹ I am 25 years old and I am feeling lost. I don't know where I'll go after this. I feel like I will never be good enough. I feel hella stupid at this point.

Am jobless right now because I decided to quit my toxic work environment

These are really good points. In my experience managers “act “ like they are helping you and listening. But then it becomes micro aggressions, listening to you, but actions say differently

ALWAYS have something lined up, if you decided to leave. This has become a job market where it can take months or years to find something comparable in pay. Meanwhile, as far as I know, UI acts like it’s the 1980, so you’ll need to find something in weeks. That boss who tried playing BFF? Yeah, they’ll fire you, if they have to come up with something to do it. You may notice them redirecting work, while people are picking your brains. That’s no accident. It’s preparing themselves for your absence. This is so, especially if you’ve been a high performer. People, even bosses, do actually grow tired of high performers. They sometimes don’t know what to do with them and they can become jealous of them, especially if they’re outperforming their “superiors”. If you can do it on the DL without getting caught, bring your own work to work, if your work is being diverted to someone else. It’ll keep you awake, for that ridiculous commute, for 8 hours of doing nothing. Be glad you might, then, have what would be like a weekend day, to pursue your own interests and move yourself ahead. If the company has any learning opportunities, hey, it’s from the company. Take advantage of them, to obtain new skills for new opportunities, from within or outside of the company. For me, as a 2D creative, I’m learning 3D and have bought a 3D printer. I am learning skills that, while I’ll never offer that to my current job, especially since they’d pick my brain, yet still be jealous about that, too, I just do it on my own and may open up an Etsy store. At minimum, I’ll have 3D modeling knowledge, which will “appear” as if I got it from this job and it will be on my resume and in my portfolio, while I’m actually sitting there doing nothing. Also, if they have a gym, use it while you can. So, even on the decline or the devaluation and discard phases (terms associated with narcissistic behavior often found in offices, too), you can find a way to increase your contentment and value, even if it’s not value to the workplace you’re currently in. Lastly, if you have personal files on your work computer, start moving them off and onto a safe location, that isn’t owned by your employer. Laptops are often snatched, the moment they tell you that you no longer work there. Their priority is protecting company data. Whatever happens to your stuff is irrelevant. But also, don’t trust that it’s private. Probably hasn’t been private since you first got your laptop. But you can be fairly certain, it’s not private, when they start lining you up for an exit.

My question is if there are so many toxic employers why do new employers put so much weight on the reference of previous employers when that employer could possibly give that person a bad reference just because they can and they know they can still control that person's future. Why don't new employers and recruiters start using other measures to determine someone's character and if they are right for your company. Imagine your future depending on another person's opinion, my opinion of someone may differ to how someone else sees them so is it fair to use a reference by other employers as a measuring tool.

I never liked any job. They were always difficult. I go from job to job and the same thing.

I recently quit my job at a call center. Most call center positions = company punching bag. But at this call center you can’t give credits/ rewards or solve any problems I was a middle man who had to tell “customers” to play the waiting game. I don’t have anything lined up I’ve been looking/ applying I’m just glad I left. My alopecia arrays started coming back I have one tiny patch of hair missing.

Points 5, 6, and 7 really hit me hard :/ These are exactly what I'm going through at the moment with my current job. Especially for point 7. It's like the longer I stay, the longer I feel embarrassed with it.

Spot on, i just quit my job because the manager is exactly what you just said. So true. Super toxic place to work with extreme stress.

My boss loves flattery. My colleagues are not so supportive. Some of them are jealous too. There is no work life balance. All my day is spent at work including Saturdays. I hardly spend 4 hours at my home in the evening. I have no social life. Worst part is that I cry a lot these days due to stress. I don't know if it is my personal life or my work. Please guide me.

I can tell you speak from experience and from heart. Useful content for anyone who is unsure and in between about leaving a job

This is exactly what a toxic management does. It even came to appoint where they put something on my chair that made me burn because I didn't allow them to break me down. It is such a degrading point where everyone laughs knowing what they did

I'm working with a toxic manager in a toxic environment. I love working in the current company but not under this manager. I tried to seek for other opportunities within the organization but unfortunately the toxic manager sabotage every opportunity I got. I tried confronting her but to no use. Therefore, I decided to quit this job and company once I get an offer from another company. I can't guarantee it's going to be good but all I know I need to know is I have to get out from this toxic situation before my life is affected by it.

So I work at a daycare I am I am feeling burnt out. I'm a support teacher but I don't appreciate the owner of growing seeds Kyrie. She has been telling me how to do my job even though I know how to do it I've been in her company for 4 years you know I feel like she's toxic, the reason why I'm staying is I care so much about the kids and the families also I do a lot for the our Union but I am tired and pretty burnt out

Thank you very much for help.

I should have seen this video 2 months ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache. Thanks for making this video for everyone.

Such wonderful advice as always. Marat, now that I am happy, the stress weight I gained is melting off like butter, not to mention I get plenty of walking in when I am in the airport! I have a new video up whenever you get a chance to view. Big thumbs up!

Thank you very much. I ticked all the boxes. :)

Thank you…. I felt you were talking directly to me. Sadly I’v experienced most of the area’s mentioned.

thank you so much that was all the confimations I needed.

Thank you for the advice and guidance. I’m going through a lot of things you mentioned. My company has a zero tolerance for retaliation and bullying but it seems it’s still happening.

I am a people person and get along with everyone. My boss never spoke to me! It wasn’t like she was busy whenever I would ask her a question. When this happened and I rarely asked her something she wouldn’t even make eye contact and just mumble “I dunno”. After this happening several times I would wait for the assistant manager to ask him. He was pleasant. and I felt comfortable around him.

I left a job after feeling 'pushed out' by a boss who passed me over for a raise, even though I had taken on more responsibilities and done well, skipped every 1:1 meeting we ever had scheduled, promoted a coworker over me, even though I was doing the job longer than her and had more responsibilities. I left for another job within the same company and ended up leaving that one after 6 weeks. I went from boredom and frustration to total stress. Now I'm looking for another job.

I finally landed my dream job after 7 years of study, part time work and being a single mum, only to find myself working under 2 toxic bosses! I know I need to leave but studying in a specialised field that I love has left me with very few opportunities in my industry. I'm too exhausted to spend another few years retraining in another field that doesn't interest me. I'm not sure what to do now so I stay at this job. It's like being in a toxic relationship.

I've been watching your videos the last 2 weeks, and the things you say are exactly what I'm experiencing.... Now I know I need to leave this toxic place that I work at. Thanks for the info to help solidify what I was thinking.

Great video I'm definitely sharing this & it makes so much sense of what I experienced at my last job as a manager my boss no matter how many compliments I got from his bosses and employees he'd make my life hell. Thanks for sharing you opened my eyes 👀 to this knowledge

I know I have to quit job but I need money. I recognize there are other jobs otherwise I've been so traumatized at diff wrkplaces esp this one currently I am terrified and disgusted w the idea of putting myself thru more abuse. At this job I developed a fragrance allergy or better known as MCS (MULTIPLE CHEMICAL SENSITIVITY). This was an effect of toxic chemicals namely in air freshener which triggered this condition, never had it before in my life. This has been going on 2 years now. I informed boss before it become full blown but was ignored. So when I come across ppl who choose to wear toxic fragrance ie perfume/cologne/scented lotions, aftershave my lungs can close. I understand many would suggest just get a puffer but what a puffer does is suppress the body's natural response which is a bad idea. Look up steroids and see what it does. Believe you me it does come and bite you in the ass later much like when you suppress or oppress someone long enough shit happens. Or take a pill which once again shows no respect to the body or injections ie EpiPen. Those things are expensive and once again do not resolve the issue. I've temped at other wrkplaces during this 2 years and other places also do not respect this legitimate health issue. It is so very upsetting which is an understatement. I feel hopeless and have learned to really enjoy being alone away from ppl BC my mind has now learned through repetition that being around others will just result in trauma. Most ppl do not care. I've never known so much apathy.

You are hitting the right spots.

Thank you for all those points. I’ve seen toxic coworker which then promoted to manager and literally i reached to a point where even looking at that persons face made me feel sick. My sleep cycle, personality, appetites, personal life everything started affecting No excitement for work, no progress, a company full of 50+ age group with no sign of advancement or any sign of adoption to new technological skills. Same old work everyday. Spent 6 years in company but still not happy with level of progress i could have made. Recently left the job thinking about all these points.

Thanks so much for all your toxic boss advice. I am the top performer in my area/state and my boss I recently transfered to has stabbed me in the back n sabotage my whole career in my company. I knew it was insecurity of his capabilities and envy. But your videos helped me regain my emotional stability and dominant/confident attitude really quickly and I learned from them a lot.

My manager is always targeting me Either because I did something wrong or if I'm 4-6 minutes late I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night thinking about work Not to mention he is always saying I'm talking back at him even do I'm talking normally and not even cursing I have loss of sleep and gaining weight My job isn't that really hard or heavy it's just my manager is really against me The other managers are actually nice to me I really don't know what to do😕

I have been recently been through such a job. Suddenly found myself being diagnosed with hypertension, anxiety and moderate depression.

Fear is the most and the distress is overwhelming. U just have to pray.

very useful tips

I worked for a hotel cleaning room , and I was forced to quit

coworkers and bosses makes us burnt and stressed out

I was in warehousing. All your points covered what happened in my workplace. The mistake I made was keep staying and eventually I became fatigued. I almost got sacked for losing focus on my work then I was reported to HR. At this point it was time to walk out but I got offered to move departments. I'm just a production worker now with same pay but much happier

I love the idea of putting in my 2 weeks notice, unfortunately in the UK most reasonably senior roles have at least THREE MONTHS notice...😅

Omg number 6 is me. Bored doing the same thing over and over. No computer. All is me but number 6 makes my quit.

Thank you for raising these issues, very true.

I’m experiencing all… I’m waiting for my hearing out come if I’m not fired il put in my resignation letter day after the outcome

I'm in a toxic environment. It was great until a cmo took over. Controlling and micromanaging and kind of passive dismissive behaviour. I'm freelance and made to report my daily tasks twice a day and daily meetings. I'm ***ked, exhausted, can't sleep and constantly feel sick. I'm a widow with only 4 months financial cushion. I'm a content strategist, b2b copywriter, SEO writer and case study writer and very good at what I do but I feel broken, my self confidence in tatters. The toxicity is so insidious but is now making me feel ill every day.

I experienced all these cruel things at my local Catholic Church. The priest and he's co-workers made my life a living hell, being shunned , excluded and stonewalled was torcher. I left the Catholic faith because of this. I am now an Atheist. The Catholic Church destroyed my life.

One of your best videos. Overcoming a challenge shouldn't turn into a constant suffering and becoming sick at work.

Thank you for the great video, some points made me reflect as usual...at present I am working on my soft skills as I understood is a real game changer for me, even if I am overqualified for my position, I enjoy my role and have a relatively neutral attitude(not buying we are all a big family story(sorry!) in my family we look out for each other, work together, allowing everyone to contribute and the responsabilities are according to ability and development 😅) so even with all this and senior colleagues trying to micro-manage me (they are not my direct superiors to make this clear...even with this I fo apprdviate sbd respect my boss which I found( independentky of what peple gossip or trash talk ) a good manager kind and just trying to do their job right...I think that is why I had such a hard time to decide if I should leave.I am also thinking if my soft skills do not improve would I find myself living the same story in a different workplace? I have just discovered your chanel but I do appreciate the kind and honest approach you have and I would like to ask you: how do we improve soft skills?❤

“You don’t remember when the last time you saw the blue sky 😢” That is so sad bc it’s reality.

At my job I've been in an entry position for 7.5 years. When my boss first asked me what my goals were I told him what I'd like to do and he told me that people are set in their ways and won't want to train me. Not long after, he put someone who was hired after me to be trained where I said I wanted to be trained. Also everyone in my department seems to have the heads up on important things and I'm left out.

I have only been at job a month and l already have had to defend myself with a time line explaining what l have been doing, right now l am dreading going in tomorrow and l am literally in tears right now because we need the medical.

the only reason i am at my job is because i needed one at the time. i am actually suffering from chronic health issues and wasn't able to get disability so i took whatever job i could get. so not only did i already have chronic health issues before i started the job but the job has added more health problems. i have gone to so many doctors since being sick with no help at all so i am stuck in a horrible job and stuck with my health issues as well

This is powerful

I'm going through this and my health is being affected

I have just left atomic job. It was a everyday torture!

😢.I resigned my dream job 8 years ago.

#3 and #4 is applicable to me😓 but i have joined the company just 4 months ago

I quit my “job” because I realized it was actually a pyramid scheme 🙃

Im in a toxic environment since approximately 6 months. Ive changed so much mentally, I am getting burnt out, my friends worry about me, I ignore them and isolate myself. I just keep thinking of my work and hie my boss will soon criticise me again. I run away from my thoughts with games and videos and everything, I cant live like this anymore. as soon as I let my emotions out, even just a bit, I start crying although I never just simply cry. I cant take it anymore. I requested an internal change withing 2-3 weeks and simultanously have a second jobinterview soon. I just cant take any of this anymore. Im doneeeeeeeeeeeeee

I've worked in a really strange company like that.. took a large bunch of people on... then all of a sudden people are disappearing in large numbers.. one such individual asked me for something via email.. I replied fairly soon and got a "such and such has decided to leave the organisation, we thank them for their time auto response" , so its clear they attended a meeting which they didnt come back from. They dont seem to realise that after ten or so such emails , people know something isn't right. The none toxic company would simply call everyone into a meeting.. discuss exactly why there will be redundancies and then carry them out.

Really liking your content.How about instead of getting a new job how about follow your dreams and start your own company?

You just explained my situation. Even worse when they increase your salary by a few Rands once in 2 years.

Happy for comments. A new job involved me moving onto a large property where some neighbors several km away were playing other roles. The mger was syphoning $ off my predecessor (a couple of temps) with whom I had a short overlap while I moved in and their handover. They also said that without owner's permission, the mger moved lots of the equipment from where I would be stationed to their personal home project. On my FIRST day, mger accused me of damaging my assigned vehicle. She had previously complained to the owners that I called her on her off day, something I apologized for even more graciously than the owner's request. (BTW I hadn't known about her schedule.) Owner and mger likely didn't know I remained in contact with predecessors who gave me photos of the vehicle long before I arrived on the scene. I was so stressed before knowing this proof existed. Rather than ask the mger to apologize (& I didn't request it), owner asked me to apologize AGAIN to mger over my off duty call from before the vehicle incident. This time, including a script. She also spoke of how hard it was for mger to take instructions from me. The closest thing to instructions was leaving a message abt my leaving predecessors' linen in front of storage facility for which only she had keys, as I was told to do. (Unsure if this was racial. Possible because I am blk). It was my dream job! I quickly packed my things, video recorded my own walk through, including showing myself locking myself out and messaged owners that I had left. My fear was that the accusations cld get worse and I wld no longer have support of predecessors. I was depressed for 2 months. What cld I have done differently?

My biggest issue is that work keeps holding pay then paying us un small amounts so we are always playing catch up on bills, I don't know if I should stay while looking for another job or just quit

I am in a job I love, but my boss is toxic. She has employees she targets and for the time being it is not me. From gaslighting to character assassination promoting a environment where everyone distrusts everyone. I know I have to leave, but is trying to find the right exit strategy. Am trying to get out of this in one piece. Feels like trying to break up in a bad relationship where there is fear of retaliation. The last straw for me was when she asked a 19 year old to spy on the rest of the employees. He is in a state of turmoil and it breaks my heart. Not sure how to get out of this situation when I know if I leave other employees will get the blame for my resignation instead of the toxic manager owning up to her behaviour.

I am a facility manager I work for a homeless shelter for the youth (aka) young adults it gets a little chaotic when these young adults get destructive I either fix it myself or call a contractor to do the job one of my biggest pet pee is communication. Every Monday morning I get together with my director for one hour it is when it gets to the end of the meeting that she'l says how can we help, or" is there anything we can help you with"and last but not least my door is always open I think they have this last of the conversation just for the paper work and to be supportive lots of staff workers have come and gone and I feel that no matter how many emails I send or texts to my director I get a slow response, but they me expect me to respond to their emails .I think one of the biggest mistake I made is being a yes man( doing this doing that) that's and staff workers and the upper management expected more of for the least amount of pay and think it's time to move forward and I'm not going to base it on personal feelings thanks for inspirational you tube channel.

Watching how my boss treats my colleague and targets her stresses me out and made my existing mental health issues even worse. It makes it worse that i heard not good things from other colleagues. Everyday her presence makes me straighten my back and my hands shake. I am comfortable with the company as i've been with them for 6 months but it's my 1st month in this new role and with my new boss but i want to leave already. Can anyone advise me please? I want to go but i worry if im being too rash but i rather leave now then let my mental health deteoriate. *Please note that im new at this industry and this role but i dont believe this is a safe place for me to learn and grow. But i worry i am being too choosy/spoilt.

Hi Marat. Just leave a good position because of an incompetent and toxic boss. The problem now is looking for workarounds to justify in interviews why I left the job because by arguing that, they could believe me or not. Any advice?. Thank you for the excellent videos and advice.

I have seen this topic on ten or more VLOG sites. Same thing.

Luckily, I don't have that problem with anybody at my current job. My last workplace was a totally different story though. The company had unknowingly hired a con artist who slowly ran the company into the ground. After he was fired it only got worse, and eventually the company permanently went out of business.

I am a vary hard worker at work, I have been noticing the 3 other workers on my shift take almost 2 hours longer each job task. I noticed them taking the long way or multiple different things to make each job task take way longer then needed so they wouldn't be explained to do more each day. I mentioned it to my Supervisor and Lead each time I noticed something for almost 2 months, they wouldn't say or do anything to the other works because the Lead is in the same boat and the Supervisor don't want to get involved with with the problems.. So in do ALOT of extra credit stuff to simply help the night go smoother and since I get my jobs done on a timely manner I'm able to do this extra things. So the Supervisor told me to go take over a job from these other 2 workers (Twin brothers) I nicely said I was told to start loading the product but I'll give you some more time and do somthin else walked away... reported that back to the boss, and got screamed at top of his lugs(know for being the biggest a**hole there) for not get on that job task.. 15mins later he pulled me aside and Without asking my side "told me I have stop harassing them he said I came over screaming at them and told them to hurry tf up... I am not that type of person at all.. I asked afew ppl around me what the thought and everyone said that doesn't sound like you. ( why didn't my supervisor say I told him to say somthin).. Now recently with out any problems happening The Top Boss at our location in the office (someone I never see) came in pulled me into office and said. " I'm hear to tell you Your not the Boss. In anyway, at all. U don't get to tell anyone what to do an don't worry about there work process, if I have to come back over here I will be changing your shift and location " ( won't work with my schedule and it's a horrible job position can't find someone to work it.) They he left... as the supervisor standing with us and dont say anything about him tell me to do this things... didn't ask me about it nothing, I have Never been or tried to be at all either. Why would I even stop doing my job task to go check on them or how far they are... I would never need to talk to them throughout the night otherwise. Nowwww Last week, 3 out of 6days someone had taken a pic of products i handled, printed it off posted on the white broke with notes about how it should of gotten done.. THERE IS 10 rooms used.. For a fact there are atleast 2-3 VARY similar issues or worst and NoOne is mentioning anything to the others... Most recently last week I was doing a job similar and near one of these worker, I noticed him doing it vary incorrect all 24 ideas, so I did the same thing he did with 4 ideas.. the next day I came in the a print off of and told I need to move these over to X location and fix this problem..... I know for a fact there is at least 5-10 vary similar issues in 10 out of 10 rooms.. so I decided to take a few pics of area that are worst and have been like that for a bit... I'm 30, I thought I was going to retire here and I do not deserve any at all.. I am the only one that grabs a broom empty trash goes that little etrea.. ****** There is over 100 locations world wide.. There is only 3 people in the office and they are all good friends 20+ yrs.. ****Normally I'd find another job and move on but when applying I noticed My job position posted 3days earlier for 20.34/hr ( I had to bust ass for 1 year before hitting my current 20.32... !! ) THENN I NOTICED A VARY LONG LIST EXPLAINING SIMILAR ISSUES AND PROBLEMS WITH SAME PEOPLE FROM Top Boss to the 2 HRs alone with the leads n supervisors... I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO.... I HAVE LOST SLEEP MANY NIGHTS. MY DEPRESSION HASNT BEEN THIS IN OVER 10YRS. I have never been asked my side of the store and have been being bulleyed daily Why would someone on the other shift randomly go print off my tasks and go to the location to look at and pick apart...

It is interesting you mention boredom as a reason for leaving. I guess there is a balance between having a nice comfortable job that pays the bills and taking the risk of moving to a new job where you may not be so comfortable and may not actually offer better career opportunities. I don't know if you have any thoughts on how to evaluate whether the risk of moving is worth it since you won't actually know what it is like until you get there. Personally, I've only ever moved when I've been p***ed off - but it hasn't got me very far in my career.

Boss is crucial. My current boss consider me as a great asset to a company and is happy that I joined a team. I am going to stay where I am permanently. My manager is telling me how I can be BETTER as I am already great.

My boss started deleting my work e-mails on my day off, constant comments about my weight and even being noisy about a cookie delivery I received and forced me to give it away