7 Sound Reasons Not To Get Back With Your Ex 

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when you get dumped... whats the reason besides she got bored of you?

Isn't that the truth we all are blinded to? Well said my friend.

indeed

In my case there are 5 distinct reasons...this is the sad truth...

Stacy 1988 uhhh yeah expensive way to get them back

Lady.Whatever I hear this a lot but I feel it’s not true in a lot of cases. I don’t miss the idea, I miss being with her in a relationship. I’ve seen a lot of attractive girls but I just can’t see myself loving them or being excited of being in a relationship like with my ex. Just sayin sometimes missing the idea isn’t true.

@@Plutonic_Blue yeah it can be you still love her but you can still get over it with time its just about mindset honestly

I dont know. I have broken up with my ex after almost four years 6 months ago...during those 6 months we only met twice for a short period of time....We met again two days ago and it hit me so fucking hard. I realized that a lot of things I balmed her for were not her fault, I realized that in six months I have been slowly realizing that there is not many girls like her and most of all...I can think of her flaws and how irritated I was but still I somehow feel like we were great match and if we talked more and coordinated our dreams, we might be together for much longer time...I dont know whether this is just an idea I miss...I think about her and I feel like crying, feel pain in my chest for how sad I am...

Naverich what about getting back together?

And What if that reason was my fault? I feel very guilty. Because I think it was because of my personality of being alone.

Exactly.

That's so beautiful. I almost cried.

I wish that could happen with me and my ex

Drafting Punk i’m sorry but that’s terrible, i laughed 💀💀

My ex and i were together for over a year and we just broke up 5 days ago because he said he isnt ready for a relationship but when he is hes going to take me back

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@@niqz1660 honestly i got back w him n honestly i didnt feel nun no feeling like im really over him bt idk what to say to him now..

exactly.

Same. Been single since then

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like ever!

Same!

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Moses Simmons you know what to do then

I sometimes wonder if the internet lies..

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Moses Simmons what'd he/she say

THEY KNOW

alias46913 ya its win win but what about that dreams you two dreams when you were in relationship ! it's all trash ? that their its hurt

alias46913 My friendship circle broke (we had a lot of mutual friends) and because I was close with his family, I had to face losing them too. Not being able to drive or use public transport, I can't even get out of the house to actually improve my life in any way. I have gained nothing but loneliness from the breakup. It doesn't mean that I should get my ex back, or that I'm even ready for any relationship, but the stuff that everyone told me about life getting better after a break up were all lies to try and make me feel better.

xTwilightWolvesx feeling the same way. Three mos and still painful.

Alias46813 Thank you because I’m in the 5th Grade and my ex said she was breaking up me and said why but she didn’t answer and I asked her what she liked about me like is it because I’m black, Looks wise or personality she couldn’t answer all she came up with is you

Lol a girl saying she enjoys being single just means she enjoys hooking up and sleeping around LOL good for you (and even better for all those dudes)

Tell Me This Jesus what a bitch. Someone that truly cares about you should always allow you some time for your passions and never force you to do anything.

Tell Me This - yep if ya were married thats grounds for a divorce

anonimo aninimus - im believing my ex was seeing/ doin someone else when we broke up, however i was smart enough to start collecting riding mowers instead of sulking or gettin back with her, probably has 10 kids by now n i could care less.

jokes on her, you can just redownload or contact steam to regain access to previously deleted content.

Alaeri ツ YOU DON'T GET IT. ITS ABOUT THE DAMN RULEZZZZZ

I agree with most of what you said except the focusing on the emotions now. Instead of doing that, one needs to focus on the future and the past just is not there.

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If you love someone, but want something major about them to change, then you instead love the idea of what they could be and not who they are.

Girl, same.

Same here. I kept thinking things were going to be different but they were just empty promises. Oddly I still miss him at the weirdest times

Me too. It is so not worth it. We finally broke up

Exactly don't ever go back then

Yea I get what you mean but literally I told my ex not to keep shit from me that would affect our relationship because that's why my other relationship ended, but no he did the same thing as my ex did. The sad part is it could've been fixed if he had said something

@@nibberoup-6677 that’s all on him. You advised him yet he ignored. Don’t overthink it since it was all on him.

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A month after you got abandoned I was too. It’s ok man, you gotta pick up your pieces and rebuild stronger than before

You can begin again :) I'm rooting for you!

I feel you bro but you'll get through it. Even when you feel like "what do I do now", or "this is hopeless". You'll get through it. Me and these two other comments rooting for you so keep pushing forward young king

Sounds like my former bf. Our relationship was unhealthy so I left. It was a bit lonely at times but I knew it was the right thing so I could heal. He on the other hand, fell into a depression and claimed he lost the will to live. I felt so terrible. Now he wants us to get back together.

@@Em_Elizabeth my gf broke up with me 💔 because she said her studies were more important and that she won't have enough time for me 😢 but says she loves me.... It's bs and yet we were going to go to Germany together to study 😢 💔 so cruel

This was the best thing I’ve heard all day

I needed to hear that. Thank you.

True Statement 👍

Omg thank you

Every situation is different for everybody when it comes to an Ex. Me and my Ex dated for 5 years then broke up and didn’t even speak for 5 years. A couple years ago we started being just friends again and talked on and off. Eventually we started to get closer and closer again slowly. We ended up linking up again and we started to slowly be there for each other through our bad relationships. We eventually started falling in love all over agin and now….we’re in love with each other even more than when we were together. Things are SO different and we have BOTH matured so much. We used to fight and argue almost everyday and now we haven’t even had a SINGLE fight or argument. We’re so in love now everyday and the feelings are so strong and never fade. Sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time. Timing is everything people. If you and your ex truly care about each other focus on being friends…best friends before you ever get back together. I may or may not work out for you but I’m sure glad it worked out for us ❤️

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how areyounow?did you moveon? cause I'm going through a horrible breakup :(

That last sentence. So important.

I’m 7 months into a breakup and this is exactly me. We were not meant to be together despite all my work to make it happen

Personal Power that's the fear introverts have. It's terrifying going out there and meeting new people

I agree so much to this 😅

This is so true. The idea of having a new person and having to go on the process of share all the info again and be comfortable seems tiring and to be honest, not worthy. Being alone doesn’t sound bad. I’m grateful for my friends :).

i feel like i won’t ever be as comfortable as i was with my ex that recently left ;(( we were 5 years in and idk if i can love and talk comfortably with someone new

yes

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that's true

Kiarrah russell how are you feeling now?

We want to know

How are you??? I hope you are doing much better

Me too i let my 2 siblings sleep in my room everynight cos being alone fucks me up

Youl get over it honestly just do distractive things get to learn about you etc hope your feeling better now

Do you need help?

Aneko Foxx - true, ive dated a few women, but only had 2 serious relationships eva.

I think it's better to think optimistic about that. When you have that attitude, you wouldn't see if somebody is special for you or not.

Legless Rest Syndrome Not exactly. There people who have fallen in love and they were in the worst position they ever were in their lives even perhaps clinically depressed and pessimistic. Those things don’t determine if you see someone special to you or not. In actuality, you should be with someone when you have the least amount to give, because then you know that they’re loving you for truly who you are and not what you have to offer.

Aneko Foxx Ironically, this is why my ex broke up with me. He was so pessimistic and had such low self confidence that he thought I saw him as a burden, but I never did. He broke up with me because his head was lying to him about my feelings for him, in other words. He also broke up with me because in the last 3 months of our relationship he started feeling like nothing made him happy anymore. We had a great relationship, but he hid his feelings so I never had the chance to even clarify that I never, ever would've seen him as a burden. He recently told me that he still feels that nothing makes him happy anymore, 4 months after the breakup. He really, truly couldn't see how special and amazing our relationship was because he fell to his worst. Depression and anxiety make you blind to others' love for you, and it doesn't matter who it is.

someone else WILL come along if your a woman. Someone else MIGHT come along if youre a man.

Nokori as much as this hurts, being her friend can be harmful to you, I tell you not only because psychologists have written about that in books, but also by previous experiences of mine. Be thankful you guys don't talk, best wishes to you!

I used to feel like I needed my ex too. But I realised that I don’t. You’re going to have to form a sense of independence.

Nokori I think you’re brave for facing your reality. Keep going🏁🏁

Nokori- did she ever contact you again? My ex dumped me after 7 years! No real reason! She hasn’t spoken to me in 5 weeks. It sucks..

Sorry but ur brave

This is exactly what im going through, Same experience, And now that i left they want me back and begging me and it’s making me soo week cuz i know going back is NEVER the choice but they keep making me feel bad for them and miss everything we had , I really hope you got through this tho and you’re happy now , Wish me luck 💞

I grew up in a family where verbal abuse was totally normal. I didn't know it was abuse until she dumped me. Now I realize it was abuse but it never registered in my brain. I've repented like he'll and apologized. Can I get her back and seek absolution?

I broke up like a week ago, and certainly I feel much better and comfortable. Now I don't have to worry if I said something wrong when he didn't talk to me and feel miserable because of it.

Dude since my last relationship I have never been happier to be single. I feel free and not caged or anchored down from everything. I'm actually looking forward to the holidays as a single person; I can't express the happiness I feel.

I have an ever looping issue. When I'm single, I feel very unwanted and alone. When I try to find someone, I figure it out very quickly that I fucking hate people. I can't stand even normal human behavior. It makes me distance myself from them. Then I'm back to being single, and the cycle continues.

I think I'm that way because I spend most of my time alone. I go to school, I probably in total small talk to three people, I go home, do my homework, talk to my family and eat, and then sit in my room and sleep. I find it almost crazy that I hate simple human behaviors :/.

The reason I kept going back to my ex was because I was working nights downtown with no car, I would always get harassed by random men and followed ect. My ex was one of the few men who would ask if I was ok, walk with me, give me a ride, fight for me and defend me. So if keep going bad after every bad experience with strange men as if he was my protection. But I now just travel w packs of other women, I carry an knife ,pepper spray or gun if I can and met nice ppl who want to make sure I'm safe. Just sucks the amount of sexually abusive/creepy perverts there are in the world

Chibi Leah - you were better off out of it. all y gotta say is ' harrasent' or ' restraining order'

My former bf is the same way. In a moment of weakness, I sent him a text. I missed him, though our relationship was unhealthy. He said some nasty things, that I'm selfish and cruel to have left him. Then after I blocked him, he apologized and asked for another chance. He won't take no for an answer and said he'll commit suicide if I don't.

dangerous toys56 haha I just saw this now but I think I did say that because he was that annoying. But I’m really happy now :)

Emma Loura it sucks right? I hope you take care :)

Ivy - what like they expect y to praise him/her for it? bunk dat. just say NONE YA. 👍

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Elle Blep Yeah, cause people end up thinking up a persona whom which the person they used to love really isn't.

Elle Blep no, sometimes it's better to worry

I can't help but think about the positives.. it's almost as though there isn't a better person out there..

@@net_lag dealing with this right at this moment. Not sure if I should move on or what.

@@sakibshahriar1613 hehe... I had this problem long ago. I still do but it's significantly less now. Just hang in there I guess.

I hurt her too so much probably, but i still want her back. :)

A New Love Official i wish I was like you

Amelia Says: same here. She did a complete 180 and became a total bitch to me afterwards. I do miss our relationship because there was everything I wanted, but she wasn’t the person I built her up to be in my mind

Hey, u doing fine now?

@@anxley6263 thank you for asking. I am a bit better.

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Nando Ginkaku I stopped at #10. Long story short, I was almost arrested and she moved.

dangerous toys56 I appreciate the George Carlin quote 😎

Larry Panozzo - felt fitting for this topic lol👍

dangerous toys56 where is the vídeo of this quote ?I want to see it :(

#Ephy Juliana - 😨 i cant find a vid of it, i know he sed it tho.

There’s a reason you watched this video you miss her 🤣🤣

He didn’t like dogs- no, all animals. I knew it wouldn’t have lasted

On my gosh, I don’t even know you but everyone deserves someone better than that. I might be a bit of a cat person..

Fuck cats.

Yeah he asked me on a date... to an aquarium... complete with a bird petting zoo and other hands-on animal activities. He didn’t even have fun wtf

Oh my gawd!!!

that's awesome!!!!

This gave me hope

Wait , you were apart for 5 years and then got back together again?Just making sure I am not confused.

ExoticLiving Doll i think thats what she meant

how did you get together again?

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Theshowdown 93 Maybe she tries to replace you in every relationship , has they fail she comes back right at you or you are either her replacement for what she didn't found on them. I didn't had exactly that experience but something very similar. Have you tried talking with her about this? I wish you the best luck!

Theshowdown 93 - dont fall for it, shes just messing with you. next time she comes back DONT DO IT. tell her to get lost, shell be like a rubber band bounce back n forth.

It could be like the video was saying, she just keeps romanticizing her memories of you then comes back at the end of each relationship expecting to find her ideal version of you but you're still you're true self. When she remembers this she gets upset and annoyed with you. Ignoring her next time she comes back may be your best option.

Theshowdown 93 My first love dumped me in 2014 after 2 years and we remain close friends till this day. Him and I have discussed the fact that I go back to him after every relationship that ends(mine). We came to the conclusion that I regret fucking up what we had(which is why he left me) and that every relationship I have is to try & fill the hole he left. I still love him and think he's an amazing guy, so I get into other relationships and transfer the love I have for him to the new person. However, once that person leaves, my feelings end up going back to my ex, the one they actually belong to. I've tried to get back with him twice & halfway through I got moody, confused, scared to lose him again and started to act cold and distant toward him, which caused him to not get back with me again. This is just my experience tho.

Cindy Gopez - just wasnt ment to be. my ex n i would bounce back n forth as well - over 7 years. the last time , it was done for good. that was over 10 years ago and i havent regretted it since.

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VirtualFunction Literally no matter what relationships end, usually awfully. Why do people even fucking bother? There are so many other things that can make you happy, like pursuing a career, having good friends, starting a hobby, vacationing, getting educated, etc. All these dumbass highschoolers I know that think their relationships will last until the end of time.

VirtualFunction I don’t know about that. That’s just a really negative way to view relationships. I can say that your view point could change if you met someone that you just clicked with. That’s what happened to me, being in love with someone is one of the greatest feelings, being vulnerable with someone. Knowing the other person so well that you can tell when their having a bad day and trying to help them feel better or just listening. Idk I’m really happy though because my partner is also my best friend

kskits ._ meh that’s not true. I would rather have lived my life loving than not knowing what that feeling is like. Having a relationship is a lot of work because you grow and change with the other person. I want to feel rather than shy away from it because I’m afraid of getting my heart broken. It’s worth the risk if it’s the right person.

Living is simply death waiting to happen. Why people obsess over it is truly baffling

@@exoceanadmin9630 lol

Well, I think she felt the same as you: Cheated on

Baumrinde so catching your significant other watching porn twice means texting "it's over" with no explanation and getting into another relationship a week later? Female logic I swear. I can find more loyalty from a dog then from females. Females treat men like cars. Y'all run them dry then when something breaks you want a new one. Given watching porn can damage a relationship but that's something y'all come together and work out. My thing is she didn't leave an explanation or left it open for a discussion to even attempt to fix it. Just find another boyfriend. Smh get help with the porn thing and stay single for a while. The right one will come. My statements above are a general conclusion. There are nice women out there. Most of them over looked. But it's the majority that speaks for them all sadly.

Random Guy I don’t think I’d want to hurt her. Not because I still care but because I don’t wanna stoop to that level. In the end, I’d be just as inconsiderate as she was.

Shamarr Washington As a porn-loving female... ;) I don't think there's anything wrong with it, *if* all parties agree, if it's not a substitute for the real relationship, and as long as everyone understands that porn isn't always realistic and shouldn't be measured against your partner(s.) My ex and I discussed porn pretty early in our relationship and found that neither of us was threatened by the other watching it. In fact, I have porn to thank for my getting lucky many times. ;)

Random Guy Nah fam, I was mad but I got past it.