7 Things Evil People Do When They Know You Know 

I am actually curious about this situation I was in (long read): My friends and I are planning a trip in June and we were looking for a 6th. I asked my friend (J). I told J about the trip, and he was ecstatic to join in. So we were both excited and planned activities and lodging together. J is very well-off. He doesn't work but his husband does. To give you an idea: he told me about a private tour he went on in South Africa for $15,000. He didn't like that my friends and I were looking at cheaper options, not dining out as often, and that we were crossing off some excursions like horseback riding or ATV riding. Later on, I got the idea to change my return flight to another country, one that I had been meaning to go to for a long time, since it was very close by, tickets were cheap, and I probably won't have this much time in the future. I asked J (since he was on my return flight and he has the time/money) if he would like to join. J says no, and I say ok. A few days later, I changed my return flight to go to my other destination. I messaged him to give him a heads up. J did not take it well. I apologized and said I understood that this sudden change was a bit of a road bump, and hope that he doesn't mind it too much. He said that yes, he does in fact mind, and that now he "questions the rest of the trip". I apologize again and within minutes, he decides he "might as well cancel the whole thing," and that what I did "caused a considerable impact on this relationship." I was shocked. I apologized and said that I hope he can reconsider. He called me selfish, that the whole trip was all about me, he didn't like our accomodations, our dining options, activities, the state of communication of the rest of the group, that I abandoned him, etc. After hours of this I told him "I feel this is a bit of an overreaction." Admittedly, it was the wrong thing for me to say, but I wasn't going to continue apologizing, allow him to continue blaming me while maintaining he's a helpless victim, and refuse to act like an adult. This change would have meant that J would be spending around 3 hours max alone, in a First world, English-speaking country, before taking the bus to the airport. For someone as well-traveled as J was, I assumed he'd be able to handle it. He blew up at me saying that he was overreacting. This continued through texts until the end of the day at which point I stopped responding, and the next morning I got a two paragraph email restating the points in which I am wrong and I am bad, with 0 provocation from me. Then the remainder of the day, and the next receiving more texts, each one again detailing each point in which I am being selfish. Again no contact from me. One thing that I felt was particularly unhinged was that he told me how much he prepared for this trip by swimming 6 days out of the past week (presumably for shirtless pool pics). I read that with my jaw dropped, thinking you can not POSSIBLY be blaming me for making you swim? Regardless, I am genuinely curious now, because although he didn't react well to my change in return flight, in the end it was still my action that caused it, so I definitely feel responsible, and I feel a bit guilty for saying he overreacted because now I feel like that could be constituted as gaslighting. On the other hand I also feel that he should be able to handle himself (he is in his 40s). I guess I wanted to see what I could have done better?

Is it legal to this devil thing without even knowing that it is evil and the target don't even know that he is getting targeted by evil person 😅

These 7 things sound like my mom.

@@Home_universek8 was that in english?

Can you please make video why we love villain

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Yup! Here 🤚🏼

self improvement to not get caught being evil (jk, jk, or?)

Its especially worse with women from the West

True ​@@Keith-san3022

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Yeah God is all you can count on.

That has happened to me.

I was thinking and experiencing the same thing. (x2)

I thought the same. I think in my case, the other person had a lot of unresolved trauma and social anxiety. People with high anxiety are not selfish by nature, but they can come across as manipulative, selfish, and even narcissistic to protect themselves from irrational fears when something triggers their anxiety

Same happened to me and excatly what video said everything

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why the two periods?

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The control devil

​@@Iuffycs because because

The what? (I hear my house turning to stone)

我妈也是

Dude Trauma buddies Because most of these traits accurately define my own my with a T

Same with my mom. Very traumatic and insidious

@@Keith-san3022 你的表情好可爱呀

@@Keith-san3022 我现在跟我妈在一起还是会不舒服

I did those things too, now I regret it, I'm traumatized. I did those things most time subconsciously, if not, I had "good" reasons for it. In therapy, I learned to unlearn those mechanisms. I have narcissistic and bpd traits combined. Am I evil? What is evil? Every single human being has bright and dark traits, it matters, how aware you are of them and how strong are those traits. My dark traits are very strong, but I also learned to develop my bright traits. I learned to feel again, to let the emptiness behind me and how to feel with other people. If I'd hurt a good person in these days, I would feel shame and regret. Back then I was mostly unable to feel those things, I just had to survive!

@@aoulaspfjksdhgsdjkfajfsdoi9999 that's true. I'm happy that you managed to change things around for yourself. Unfortunately the people I dealt with were not willing to. Self awareness is very important. Our behaviors can damage other people. Proud of you ❤

@@aoulaspfjksdhgsdjkfajfsdoi9999 The fact you want to be better shows you aren't evil. You're human and you have issues like the rest of us.

Human nature is evil. However we can choose whether we let that control us or rise above it. The former is easier, so many go down that path.

@@aoulaspfjksdhgsdjkfajfsdoi9999 Yes, you are evil and you know it.

I'm sry I know how it feels :(

Mine isolated me from the rest of our entire family and turned them all against me. Now I don't have any family members who like me or care about me. They believe everything the narc says instead.

Same for me, 😢, and I am sorry you all have had to endure this too.

​@@trophyscene5015I hope you broke w her and live life on your own without so called family,family should support you not her

Unfortunately, I think there are too many to stay away from them

Been there but unfortunately am not out of the woods yet.

​@@Keith-san3022 I Know THAT Feeling! 😰🥺💪💥🫣🗣👂🙉😵‍💫🤕😶‍🌫️

​@@cyberspectre8675When you have friends that understand, and/or a friend that thinks the same, you can take them head-on. I've done it before, and I'm pretty sure they've given up.

Heard that b4!!

thing is i said this, but it was to my friend who claimed i ghosted her when she literally ghosted me and would not text me back when i asked her what was wrong. then she said i ruined her life and manipulated her into being my friend for four years. thing is, all i wanted was to be friends. i thought about her needs daily and always showed i care about her. i never forgot a single christmas gift or birthday present. on the other hand, she forgot about my birthday entirely for two years in a row.

Real

@@Haikei_chan you don't need her. i had a friend like this and once I caught on he started to spread twisted truths (lies) about me.

@@gabraelnorris8159 yeah, we were childhood best friends so it’s a little hard to let go. i’m moving on now, though, i have new friends that are a lot better.

The same thing is happening to my mom hopefully she opnes her eyes before its late

Yup! Me 2 I had to leave them alone! Its bad for your mental health!

This sounds like my family! I had to get away!

Its unfortunate your family memmbers made you feel like black sheeps when in reality theyre the ones who are the problem.

It might seem deeply difficult, but I’m sure you’ll get there. I wish you all the best. You can do it :3

@@silverraven3007 thanks.

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Deal with someone like that and get back to me. There are evil people in the world, and it doesn't matter if they're labeled evil. They don't care. They will do evil, even when made aware of how they behave. Because they're evil. Many, many, people have pain and trauma and don't behave evilly. Because they're not evil. Having a diagnosis of any kind and working on those problems is something an evil person will never do. Some people have trauma and deal with it, others have trauma and go to their dark side. They get no sympathy from me, as they are the most destructive people I've seen in my 60 years on the planet.

@@jakerivets2249 I'm not going to pretend that I know anything about what caused you trauma, and you may very well have experienced things that are worse (so to speak) than I have, but since you have no idea, maybe give me the same respect. The feedback I was giving was to psych2go and the percieved equals-sign between antisocial diagnosis and the label evil. If you read my comment again I clearly say that the deciding factor is how we choose to act regardless of our trauma or diagnosis. However, there are people who are looking to get help with diagnosed, and more importantly undiagnosed, sociopathy and narcissism, and if the aim of the channel is to promote mental health and for people to seek help, the label evil is in my opinion more alienating than contributing to that goal.

@@jakerivets2249 I'm not going to pretend that I know what you've experienced and ask the same of you. My point was, as I also clearly said in my comment, that what dictates everything is how we relate to and choose to act on our experiences. The feedback was for psych2go that as a portal for mental health, trauma and recovery the lable evil feels counterproductive as it seems to be tied to a diagnosis as opposed to the actions of an individual. Even people who have these diagnosis might look for places to get help, and alienation in any form in my experience rarely contribute to healing or sustainable change.

Found the manipulator. People are just jerks, trauma or not. Does it make any difference? Some people are just evil and consistently gather conflict. Once evil is done to you, it makes zero difference if they have trauma oe not. You do not owe them nore sympathy than they have for yoi.

Listen, (and this is very important): The term "hurt people hurt people" has been debunked as a myth. There are people who experienced the same traumas, who Didn't turn evil but turned soft and kind instead. What would you say is the difference between them? That would be a more interesting question than "what caused this person to be evil?" You say that trauma can turn someone evil, but we would instead need to study their Adult decision making. The trauma they experienced is the same, but the differences between them are their individual choices on how to proceed, as an adult with the power to make their own decisions. Evil people do exist, and they are not merely victims of trauma and therefore excused. We are allowed to call them evil, because that is what they are Deciding to be, and they are thus being perceived that way. Do not excuse their behavior. Remember they have full control over who they choose to be evil towards: for example, their vulnerable loved ones vs. their boss where they suddenly are able to refrain.

That's a very good insight. Any bad behavior we don't hold accountable in our parents, we risk doing ourselves someday. When we continue to make excuses for our parents it becomes impossible not to turn out like them - as much as we don't want to.

Thank you! 🙂💙💙

Me to 3:15

I'm glad the video resonated with you, but I'm sorry to hear that someone you care about is using manipulative tactics. It can be challenging to navigate such situations. Have you thought about reaching out to them to discuss your concerns?

Thank you so much!!

This reminds me of the monsters from the series "From", they look like human, sound like humans, will do everything in their power to convince you into letting them in, but the moment you open that door, they will gut you like a fish and leave your remains for your loved ones to find...

@@Janejourneys ya some people are really aweful. There are still good ones though. It's important for me to remember that from time to time lol

Respect. The thief on the cross got saved because he knew he was evil and believed in Jesus. Believe and you will live forever. Most ppl look for salvation through works. Its always been through faith alone. By faith in Jesus Christ will we be justified and sanctified. Not of works. Its the gift from GOD because He is good forever 🙏🏽✌🏽 Peace and blessings

I think evil ppl are not evil

@@r.i.pyoutube6881 So... they are secretly zombies? that would make sense..... but the 100% fatality rate is off.

@@r.i.pyoutube6881 also why i would treat tem as a normal person if they 99% wont treat me as a normal person (or any of us i hope...) also i fear that 1% that would treat me as a normal person for obvious reasons.

Same man. When we know better we can do better tho

Thanks for being here early and being part of early squad!

Thank you for your love and support! 💕

SO FAST! Thanks for being early squad!

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That's so neat!! Thanks for letting us know that school are also using our videos

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Thank you so much!

I think it is Makima from Chainsaw Man

I think you might have meant "accept" not "except", it got me confused for a second there. 👍

@@dynomitejec sorry, English is not my native language.

@@alekcg1 it's OK we can blame whoever made up English for making a bad language. It's my native language and I still can't use it right 😅.

Not everybody has mental clarity. When people act out. They haven't dealt with their own internal issues. Under control of deception.

As someone who is mentally ill usually evil people use very serious sicknesses for deception.No mentally ill person will have traits of what you described only psychopats have those traits.

Hammer an magnets if I do that.

Oh no! Do you mind explaining? :)

@@Psych2go it's not that important anymore but Thanks for asking though ;)

That's actually very well said. I've said this alot before but put that on a t-shirt.

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Y'all have hands? 👽

danm only the 3rd comment

​@@BlacksuitDeG0atGood one.😂😂

Do both if you're ambidextrous! ❤

Wait u mean their not exclusively talking about me on this channel????😮

Thanks for being first!

Yay! Thank you!