1:07 although I fully agree and that is something that helped me not respond emotionally in a reactive manner, once a chick said to me: “You know that people that think too much about their answers are actually creating a lie”? I took a little bit of more time and replied: “Could be, or could be that the person is actually listening, processing the information and putting together the correct answer to reply to someone who they think deserves this effort but, one can never know”. She was speechless…
She was telling you she's lying every time she pauses to think, because her view of what's going on in other people's minds is a reflection of how her mind operates.
I really like the simplistic method you create your videos, you're not screaming you're not foaming at the mouth for people to like and subscribe. You cut through all the BS and stupid thumbnails and clickbait and get right into it.
I’ve personally only made the mistake of showing my feelings too quickly with a girl i really liked early on. Didn’t say ”I like you”, but I was waaaay to caring about her and sent her a kissing emoji after a few days of talking… Never doing that again
I once heard from Dr. Laura, as a single man you need to be in contact with 4 women at a time. This will ensure at least one date for the weekend. Sometimes 2 dates. Friday or Saturday or Sunday. Dr. Laura cited women's fickleness as the cause. When speaking to 4 women during the week really chills you out so you're not behaving desperately. Great advice.
I really don't think that focusing on money, status and appearance are "easy". I think that advice loke speaking slower is far more easy. But I'm gonna keep it anyway
No it isn't, scoring points is a more aggressive fake tactic he is talking about being more natural and to stop acting like you're feverishly pursuing her. I mean scoring points can work if the physical attraction is overwhelming for her but even then a woman that attractive has handsome men all the time trying to pick them up. The whole point of the video and it works for both sexes is stop trying to treat people like a celebrity because most of the time you'll just be looked on as a fan.
How to do in a first date: Don’t talk too much, instead let her do the talking. If you can’t stand listening to her for whatever reason for more then 10 minutes straight, make an excuse, pay your part of the bill and leave. If you didn’t even had to wait 10 minutes to figure out, probably you are already engaged in a conversation and things can move one. Simple. 😊
3:33 if her enthusiastic history is about her spring break trip months ago with other 3 single friends, don’t over react. Just notice the 🚩 and adjust your expectations.
If you have to change who you are in 10 different ways to keep her from running away - don’t bother in the first place, she wouldn’t be a good fit for you . Be yourself and let things be as they will be.
how can you tell if she's holding back because she thinks you'll have an emotional reaction, or if she's holding back because she's afraid of not seeming like your type?
All these things come naturally if you date girls you don’t care about. Choose girls that choose you, not the other way around. As Patrice O’Neill said “ perfection is when you like her and she loves you” it’s a rough game, be ruthless
It's cliche.. but just be yourself, be confident. it doesn't matter if you express your feelings a little. It doesn't matter if you like her pics on IG. It doesn't matter if you try to win points and impress her . Just be yourself. Be confident. And above all be handsome.
A snarling grin, showing teeth and laughing uncontrollably, is an American thing. I never see this overseas. People are generally more reserved in public while still being easily approachable and friendly.
The thing is: Those things all help a lot with women being attracted to you but it isnt helpful at all that this only works so well because you really dont care 😅
i think youre bang on here. 95%+ of people watching this video will simply try to emulate this behavior instead of working to make it natural. Girls are generally socially adept and are more socially keen on average than men, so this fake nonchalant demeanour will be seen through very quickly and honestly is more cringe than regular fumbles
Just came on the video to comment. As a ladies man myself I'll tell you not to be any certain type of way that's outside yourself. But this guy needs to make videos with numbers in the title so understand.
stop being reactive - mix in fake outrage/being shocked (byt something irrelevant that she said) dont fall for thrist trap - avoiding staring because "you'll get caught" is kinda gay, instead interrupt girl when she babling and say "i'm not listening to you right now, i'm busy staring at your tts/ass) or slow clap, and say "good job you wore this thing for me so i have something to focus on (do that with ones that you already meet before and have some sort of rapport)
