My girl works afternoons and a lot of weekends and I work days mon-Fri so even trying to get that time in on the weekends have been hard and it’s getting to us, more me. Which is leaving me feeling not appropriated. Definitely taking some tips from this but it’s hard.
I’m loosing my Marriage due to the fact my wife works night shift. I pick up the slack with the kids and when she gets off she goes to the gym and leaves me to watch the kids again. I’m burnt and she won’t listen. Shift work ruins marriage.
Did you guys chose that? People tell me to do opposite shifts because I have a little one (my bf and I have been on same shifts or I only worked part time). I’m in college right now but when I graduate I gotta work full time for financial reasons. I’m hoping it won’t ruin the relationship. 😖