@@alisonvang2497 or look themselfs from other spot. They'll just see how ugly are they for doing such things and then they want us to be perfect. Yo guys, i think you have your problems, so take care of your damn problems and be worried about yourself, not about me, i mean like yeah, they are supposed to take care of me, but after how toxic they are, this what they do is not called taking care of a kid, i swear that if i spend at least 1 Day with my mother i will be poisoned by her actions. And yeah, you read right, i'm always out when she's home,because i don't want to see her face, i don't take Money from her and don't bither her, i have a perfect life with my friends and myself, she don't even take care about me, the only things that she says is to tell me how bad am i and trying to control my life, but i said :Nah, this aint gonna happen. And then just stopped talking with her, i don't answer her questions, i'm living my own life i go out with friends i go to school and i'm studying, sometimes i have great grades, sometimes good, sometimes bad and no matter what i get she will always be mad for no reason 🤷♀️even before i have test she will be mad and only eliminate my motivation to study. I just got used to her and find my own wzys yo live my life without her, if i can, then you can too i belive în you!
Having toxic parents makes me not want to have any kids because I really don’t want to be toxic and self centered like they are towards me and my siblings. I would hate to see myself become them.
That’s my parents go to thing always ‘because I said so’ or ‘ because I’m the adult’ or ‘ I’m more knowledgeable than you’ like I’m sick and tired of it
Probably expecting them to think before acting on the, "act like an adult." Since kids tend to be so impulsive. For the latter, typically acting immature or embarrassing them in public will receive the "stop acting like a little kid." From my upbringing standpoint anyway.
The first one actually made a lot of sense to me as when I fell down, sometimes my dad just stands there and laughs at me saying "Hahha! Look what happened to you know! I told you not to run, get up and wash your knee"
yup. i tell my mom i love her so she wont be in a bad mood again, and she goes "if you love me, obey me." and im like queen um im not ur slave 🤩 but ykno i dont actually say that 😛
@• Ռօօʀ Քʟǟʏʐ • my parents are Asian........... I got 95.5 % on my test. And my parents : where the heck are the 5% ? You are grounded and can not Meet your friends. Me: YOU have never allowed me to meet my friends for 3 years. Them: ArE YoU TaLkInG BACKT TO ME NOW?
i remember this so vividly i was like 8-9 and i was taking an english test (im not native) and i got 96%. Ngl i was pretty happy about it, and then i go to show my parents and i get hit witht he ''oh why not 100%'' and i start bawling my eyes out . Frankly they seemed confused and conserned , there was good intention but it sure didnt fucking stop going down my academic years. I just stopped studying at some point couldnt care enough anymore.
I was raised horeobly in a lot of ways too. But I am not afraid of getting kids. I would never make my child go trough the things I did. Like compare them to their siblings or force them to do sth they don't want to. Children, adult, teen, we're all people
Yeah, I kinda envy those people. I see other people on social media having fun or joke with their parents ( even if it is on social media) I don't think I have many good moments with my parents, They are mostly just memories of them yelling at me.
wintergaming17 im sorry that happened to you, I understand the feeling. My mom and I have a relationship but it’s far from healthy. And my father? Let’s just say he should be serving jail time for what he did to me.
That’s very true and accurate. I thought as a little girl when my parents treated me the way they did, things would change once I became an adult. I’m an adult and NOTHING has changed 😂
My mom compares me and her self like she would say “when I was little I worked at 13 and lived on my own” like ok BUT that was you and you would tell me that you did all that to make your kids life better than yours...but yet you want me to do that??
YOOOO, Your mum and mine should meet up. They'd be bff's 😂 Like I literally got some of the best grades when I TOOK cooking in school but as soon as I didn't have to take it any more I stopped, since I didn't see a point in me really trying at cooking because rn I don't have a family of my own and my picky self doesn't like to switch up my 2 meals a day of either junk or a sandwich with whatever juice I'm feeling like. But then my mum will waltz in like "you have to make me and your siblings breakfast/lunch/dinner*" And then when I say something like "Why? / You should have told me yesterday so I could think of something. / You know I don't like cooking so why not ask the child who does instead of the oldest who doesn't." Which is apparently a que to start her whole speech about how at my age she was cooking every meals every day even when she was busy because she felt bad for her working mother. Now at first this made me feel meh but now it's just like mum what? 😂 Because every chance she gets she's cooking something and complimenting how great her cooking is and practically drooling at the idea of being able to cook a meal since she loves to cook. Me on the other hand, yeah I do love to BAKE here and there but if you ask me to cook I won't lie, I'll feel as though that's your way of telling me I'm worthless so I hate it. And yet she will never stop till I move because apparently that's a skill you need if you want to have a family.... Like as though I could snatch myself a husband and bake up a baby whilst also living my dream of being a rich prosecutor who travels occasionally 🤔😂 *It's usually breakfast which I don't eat so I've just never learnt how to make an actual breakfast except cereal which I apparently not breakfast*
The most thing that hurts me is that my parents taught me to hurt, yell, and scream and since I have many siblings they’re blaming me for teaching them these bad habits
lil crystel I too learned these bad habits from my mom, who’s a narcissistic. I was the family scapegoat for a long time, and whenever my mom and I had disagreements or arguments she’d get my siblings on her side. I would be called selfish, greedy, stinging-all things that defined my mother, not me.... Sometimes it’s just not worth educating those who think they know everything.
They say that it's your fault and even sometimes they even make you believe it Ps:l go through this too And it does suck, but the best you will learn about this is that one day, when you have children (if you want to have them) you will know that you will NEVER treat them how your parents treated you You can and will find a way out.
i’ve known that my parents are toxic for a long time but every time i see these kind of videos it still hits me. they destroyed my life, they made it a living hell when i didn’t even ask to be born. because of them, i have a lot of mental illnesses that are ruining my life even more. i hate them so much but people keep telling me ‘forgive them, they’re your parents after all’ so sometimes i feel bad. i hate that i hate but can’t let go.
You shouldn't forgive them for such a horrible thing, even if they are your parents. Try to talk to other members of the family and try to reach out to people on child line.If it's possible look for someone you can stay with. I hope you are ok and doing well in these times and everything at home gets better for you. You don't deserve that. No-one does. Stay strong, and keep your head up,things will get better on day I promise
Well there's a reason you can't forgive them because they did a lot of damage to you, and even with time the marks will remain. Even if they're your family, that is no excuse for what they have done. Maybe you'll start to forgive them after some time but don't feel pressured to do so if it feels wrong. I know that it can guilt trip us but it's important to look out for ourselves first, because if you don't no one will.
there is a video about "why I can't forgive you", why "forgiving" feels like letting the offender off the hook. It becomes especially harder if the offender repeat the same bad behavior without any remorse. Hope this helps. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NSGC_1GwNGk.html
It's okay to hate. I hate hating too, but my brother will always be my brother, and he'll never stop. Just like they'll be your parents, and they'll never stop.
There are many sayings, "Children do not realise that their parents were right untill they themselves become parents." Well, If beating your child for many wrong or no reason, comparing them to other children, invading their privacy and children crying alone, hiding their tears from parents at night, becoming mentally weak, etc, etc,... are considered right, Then I would never like to be a parent or else I would never raise my child the way my mom tried to raise me...
Yah, true. They need to know what they are doing when they say something to the children and feel it first to not harm the child. So that's my thinking.
1. They over-control their kids 2. They disregard their child‘s boundaries 3. They are too critical towards their child 4. They refuse to understand their child‘s perspective 5. They manipulate their kids without even knowing it 6. They give their child the silent treatment 7. They give into their child’s every demand
this is exactly why when i have kids, when they mess up i dont want them to think "my parents are gonna kill me" i want them to think "oh shoot, i need to call mom and dad"
I'm told "You can tell me anything" I finally speak, and I'm then told that I'm too sensitive. I come out of my room and I'm told "Oh? Look who *finally* came out" I did what you want, now do you see why I don't come out?
Oooo I do this tk my daughter. I don't say why can't u just be like. But I do say dude I don't get it its not that hard.... eek how would that make u feel
"I'm only doing this for your own good" "I'm the adult I know what's the best" "Show some respect" Those words really irritates me alot especially when I'm proving my point
Yeah "what's the best" My parents literally don't let me be friends with my true friends and say: ThAtS tHe bESt fOr yOu tHey aRe sTuPid aNd tHats proBabLy WhY yOu get bAd gRadEs
Thats exactly how I parented my daughter! I didnt have to fake the fact that being her mom is the best thing in my entire life. I wanted her to know how awesome she is. How much she is loved. And to know that no one will be more on her side than me. I want her happy, healthy and successful to deal with the world in a productive way. I had none of that. Im happy to say shes a STAR! Honors student that loved school. She loves reading and learning. She has two degrees and is a reference librarian. She teaches patrons about emerging technologies. From setting up your email to recording your own pod casts. O and she is Autistic. 💖
My mom says I don't need privacy and she refuses to discuss it until I'm 16. Like just because you bought my phone doesn't mean you can go around digging through it. And then she goes on with the BaCk In My DaYs We DiDnT eVeN blah blah blah.
@@bowtiefrenchfry800 I hate parents like that like ok we know u didn’t have it back in the days but this is 2020 now chill I get ur point but I need some privacy to and yes tsis shouldn’t be going through ur phone like that cause that is just ugh respect privacy please.
My mom gives me NO privacy at ALL i hate it it got to the point every time she bursts into my room i feel like im always being watched and have to do everything right i have high anxiety (i wasnt diagnosed) i just feel like im always being watched
"You are disrespectful." "These are not your emotions." "You wanna act grown I'll show you what grown is." "People have been brainwashing you." "You're not scared of me." "Girl stop it with all that crying." "Don't talk to me." Bruh she says this every time I tell her how I feel.
Its crazy how i was just thinking about this topic. I live in a toxic household, my parents are alcoholics and argue nearly every night. I notice it effects nearly every aspect of my life. And when they aren’t drinking, shes always hovering over me and saying what i should be doing right. I worry every night how i never want to be like her, i never would want my child to feel how i feel in my household.
Just be strong and don’t ever give up dreamer (never forget to dream)! People care and will thank u in the future, hope u inspire your future kid! Supporting u!
it’s sad that parents don’t know how to understand there children . I wanted to leave a comment here letting you and everyone that is going something similar to ur situation, that it will get better . It will take awhile , but trust me , it’s going to get better . I had to understand that it will take awhile :( but that’s life . hope everyone has a good thing even if things aren’t going as well ❤️
Damn.... my parents don't even abuse alcohol and they argue over little things, when they watch the news during dinner. I can hear them yelling from the kitchen, when I'm in my room
My parents didn't as worst as you, but when I just go to my room, they will say that i always stay in my room. When i go down, they don't even want to talk to me. Most importantly, my parents won't say like that to my sister, not even once.
YOU KNOW THE WORST THING? PARENTS TELLING YOU YOU CAN'T FEEL ANYTHING BUT HAPPINESS FOR BEING YOUNG yOu dOnT hAvE aNyThInG tO wOrRy AbOuT they said as I cried because I wasnt enough in school and just broke up with half of my friends
Are your parents toxic? Which one of these do they do everyday? Me: all of the above... My parents: uh, we're not toxic, at least you have food and a bed.
It's kind of scary where you're acknowledging a lot of this video but you kind of feel nothing. Just chill like "yeah that's just my life" Only me? I hope so
nope me too. Glad I have an appartment now. And spiders all around my windows to keep my parents from maybe comin in. (you never know. Paranoia is also my roommate)
Toxic parents also compare their children to other kids and overly criticize instead of being accepting.... They drive their kids out of the house and wonder why their children nor grandchildren never stop by for a visit. (Speaking from my own experiences)
The more I watch these videos the more I realize how most of my insecurities and issues I have nowadays can be traced back to things my parents said or did even though I never thought I had bad parents. I still think most things they did or said were with good-ish intentions but oh damn, the emotional damage I got from them is no joke...Problem is: I don't even want to blame them because I know they were doing their best.
I'm really starting to be very pd off because parents do this and dont understand until something bad happens even then they always say "I don't understand why they would do this" when subconsciously they know why.
@@harrietjameson even if it was that way, it isn’t a correct way to teach your child, even if you felt the exact pain, and if you did you shouldn’t want your kids to feel the same.
I got the "I dont have a child anymore" variation when I punched my mom for some reason that I dont remember. Must have something like insulting me till the presure made me explode in rage
Whenever I try to open up to my parents they say "you are not the only one who has problems! Everyone has problems! Do you know how much struggle we went through growing up?" After that I just stopped trying to open up to them.
Is it weird for parents to not give their child any time after a scolding to calm down? After I do something wrong, my mom will go “I WANT YOU DOWN FOR DINNER IN 5 MINUTES THEN I WANT YOU TO FIX WHAT YOU DID!” Then she’ll keep asking why I’m crying and get mad at me for feeling down.
*Now I know why I'm choked up *Now I know why I have multiple passwords *Now I know why my efforts didn't matter *Now I know why they don't believe me *Now I know why they're liying *Now I know why I never get to defend myself because "parents are always right and I'm always wrong" *They can't even give what I want. Not the material things, I just want their love and time.. that's all. Maybe they're toxic but I still can get mad at them. I still love them but I'm thinking that they don't really care at all.
Hug sweetie... ❤️ I know how it feels 😔 please... You be YOU and you'll find a true family. Maybe not with the same blood, but with the same loving heart ❤️🌹
Never thought the silent treatment is actually toxic. They did that to me every time we have a feud. When i try to communicate during this, it will just make things worse.
Their silent treatment is a blessing to me and my sisters. We're always happy when we don't talk to them or have to deal with them. We just ignore their negativity and enjoy our lives❤️
They're such toxic narcissistic pigs. Disgusting fuckers that never admit they're wrong or take the blame for ANYTHING, insensible fucking delusional adults.
In addition, when you're given everything you ask for, thoughts like "I don't deserve this" "other people could do better than me" "I don't need this" "How can my mom be toxic when she gives me stuff" "I'm so lucky" "I need to be better so I can deserve this" start occurring
If my mom says that, then I’ll reply “But I don’t have a house! Even Ate Arliz doesn’t have an official house that she owns and she’s 11 years older than me!”
I'll never hear a "I'm proud of you" I only ever hear about what I do wrong. My momma has always been toxic, couldn't tell you the half of it. I think the emotional trauma might be why I love popping pills so much now lol but I ain't gonna blame it all on her.
I am proud of you! I'm proud because you recognize that you've been hurt and that you don't deserve that treatment because you DON'T deserve to be treated that way. I'm proud of you!
the worst is when they make you depressed through abuse then shout at you for being depressed, and sometimes say that you are trying to blackmail them by 'acting sad'
@@Psych2go Three way possible first one: ignoring them second one: going in my room and listen to some music third one: being more agresive than them thats how I learnt how to avoid them. But it was a long time ago and things changes so might be diferent nowadays.
I experienced every single one of these, many until my 28 y.o when I left my mother moving to a different country and started to see some light little by little, understanding it wasn't all my fault or there was not something very wrong with me, these things were actually not normal. I developed complex PTSD, with very limiting GAD and Social Anxiety because of this. I'm 34 now and have been trying to understand why I was like this since my first depression at the age of 18. I'm glad this info is available online today so kids/teens may have access to material like this and hopefully, they understand this is wrong! If for some reason we got to adult life this damaged though, I can confidently say now that things can change, step by step, with ups and downs, but recovery is possible with appropriate treatment (I've been with a psychologist specialised in complex trauma now), informing oneself, being self-aware and having a real desire to improve. I know because I'm on my way!!
My mom: "you are Agnormal" "youre so lazy" "i wish you were nevef born" "why are you playing like your the victim here?! Im suppose to be the victim!!" "youre so spoiled" "YOu are unworthy" "youre so selfish" My mom later: "i love you honey" "hi sweetie and oh! Youre so beautiful!" "youre so hardworking!" "im glad youre born" "ill never leave you" "i always love you!" Mom.... Love me properly.
My mom told me all the time when I was younger that you shouldn’t cry unless you are hurt or someone died. It made me feel stupid and weak. I know now that it is complete and utter BS
I was also told the same thing. The last time I cried was like 10 years ago when my grandmother died of an unknown disease. Never ever shed a tear since.
No MOA u are not weak... dont listen to them. the only thing u can do is promise urself ull never raise ur kids like how ur parents raised u... guess that will probably work.... worked 4 me
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exactly when i have kids imma give them their best life if i ask them how are you doing and they say fine or good everyday imma sit down with them and talk to them about their feelings instead of the ok love you
I just want everyone to know that this never ends. When you become an adult, your parents will still be toxic narcs. You will have to limit your time around them and censor what you tell them. I've had to stay a few times with my parents as an adult and my dad is still the same jerk he always was and he is 77 years old. They don't mellow out in old age.
That's right. Even when you're an adult, they still act the same. They don't change, even in old age. You'd thunk old age would calm someone down. My dad is 77 and still a narc. Narcs don't change.
Cant forget, "Just do your best, I dont care what you get in the tests so long and you tried your hardest," Also them, *-screams at you for getting low scores because they put so much pressure on you and you couldnt fulfil it-*
Numbee Three 🤧 it'd feel weird if Mom suddenly praises me. Although when I'm done doing household chores, she'd praise me at first, then it's succeeded by negative comments about my inconsistency. It blows my mind. Really.
That's called love bombing and it's a tactic used to make you question all the bad things they've done and think its "not that bad" because they've been nice
Noya's Waifu Criticism comes after. It’s “you did the dishes wrong”; “you missed a spot on that floor”; “you’re not cutting it right”. And like you, I feel odd getting praises. The only time my mom would praise me would be when she wanted something from me, like a shopping companion or money 🙄
@Gabriel Barbosa don't agree here bruh. Emotional support is important. Way more important than material support. You're making a future adult. It's not hard to treat a kid like a kid... They are sinless beings. Learning. Why manipulate your own child? Why deny them LOVE in a simple form? Emo issues are deep. Parents need to see this
@Gabriel Barbosa geez you need some help if this isnt a joke My parents only gave me the food and home NOTHING else not a cellphone not computer not support You must be a brat or a parent Be ashamed of saying those stuff when u dont know what deppression is then dont insult it Your the one that should be ashamed
I wish my parents loved me. My dad hasn’t tried to spend any time with me in 6 years and my mom is emotionally unavailable and loves my brother more than me. I see my friends who have both their parents and they love their child so much and I wish I had that.
*internet hug if you want it* Love yourself like you want to be loved. You're awesome, perfect, and amazing just the way you are, and you owe it to yourself to love yourself.
Growing up, at least 5/7 of these points are 100% accurate, believe me! And there's just nothing I can do about it, and I've tried standing up for myself, it only made it worse! Again, believe me.
I hate it when I say “Mom” or “Dad” because I need to ask them something and then I’ll say it again because they don’t respond and they get mad because I’m annoying them LIKE BOI THEN RESPOND THE FIRST TIME ITS NOT MY FAULT
I'm 21 and I still look over my shoulder at work before I say certain things because I'm convinced my mother is going to materialize behind me. My parents were and still are extremely psychologically and emotionally abusive and manipulative, but even though I see it I can't make myself do something about it
My mom and I used to have a good, healthy relationship. The problem is that we're both stubborn, and I'm just stuck. I can't talk to my parents like I used to, anyone else relate? This is why I relate to number four.
when i was little, i was diagnosed on the spectrum, and my mom, an "allistic", attended a bunch of seminars hosted by people who presented mental diversities as "defects to correct or discard". She has never owned up since.
I’m glad I found this channel, I can tell my parents what is wrong with their actions. In one video I even helped someone with depression, God bless this channel.
Did telling your parents work? I hope it did. I agree with you, this channel is amazing. See, if I told my mum, she would interrupt me within 3 seconds of me opening my mouth, shout at me, telling me "Mother knows best!" and then give me the silent treatment afterwards.
I don’t think it’ll go over well if you’re mom is anything like mine. She believes that she’s doing fine and anything that says that she’s a little bit of a b**ch to her own son will be smote.
mom: you can tell me anything i’m here for you me: *tells her my depression* *try to tell her how i feel* mom: STOP IT!! IM SO SICK OF FIGHTING WITH YOU Me: :,,) this is fine 🙃
In early 2018 my parents forced me to set up my PC outside my room and in the living room so they could "see what I do online" which is just gaming and studying. Even today I still beg them to give me my privacy back
I told my dad to stop yelling at my lil bro since my dad screams at us from 5 mins to sometimes entire weeks. I told him that yelling isn't the only way to teach a kid a lesson. He then said "that is the way it is supposed to be done." In my mind i thought, "ok, let's see if you get any calls from your kids when we leave." This is a problem world wide and i honestly believe it's a conspiracy against the growth of humanity. The people around think that because they feed,cloth, shelter, and discipline their kids means they deserve a trophy. THAT'S NOT HOW THE WORLD WORKS. My parents are African and African parents are usually strict as hell and are quite demeaning to their kids. Im 17 and only recently got through my depression and suicidal thoughts through sheer will power alone (not really a brag, it was painful and lonely). The only thing that kept me going was the vision of the future God or whoever is beyond space has for me. Thanks to channels like Elliot hulse, improvement pill, and you guys, i made my own RU-vid channel and when i move out, I'm going to venture into multiple businesses and become the man i want to be. I hope at least one person can do the same.
Its ok if u deside to cut contact to ur dad that will be the best desicion of ur life and also i hope one day u will became the guy u really wanted to be and have a nice wife and treat ur kids like they are ur kids
@Gabriel Barbosa dude honestly stfu and go somehwere else. literally nobody asked you, you clearly dont know whats going on with people's personal life. literally dont assume someone is faking just because most the people you met probably did you massive dickhead.
I use to hate when my mom wouldn't let me have a lock on my bedroom door & would go through all my stuff in my room & throw what she wanted away when I wasn't at home. Not even the fact that I was 18 did she care to not invade my privacy. She was too controlling, manipulative & super TOXIC. I ended up moving out at 19.
I've lived every point, except for the last one. My mother didn't talk to me for almost ten years. After that, she pretended to be worried about me, but when I needed her, she came back to her toxic behavior
Before, I was a child 3rd grade thought it was a normal thing to them comparing me to our neighbors child's achievement. Because I wasn't enough and not good in Mathematics and English. I am more in arts, imaginative thinker and friendly. They don't see me succeeding in other subjects rather they point what I didn't achive. It's hard for me growing up loosing my passion and dreams because of lack of support.
@@CrucianAngel if that's just easy as that. But somewhat you will seek for love and affection when you are a kid. And growing up realizing that you are lacking such kind of love and attention. It really kills you.
My mom would complain that her kids were "too lazy" to play the guitar but she pulled me out of lessons and was always too busy to teach it to me. And Spanish - she'd always complain that our bilingual skills weren't as good as those kids with two Spanish-speaking parents. Said we were too lazy and culturally unappreciative to speak it.
@@Em_Elizabeth comparing us to others aren't no good in any ways. It will just raise us to become too much insecure and too scared to face this challenging world. 😔 leaving a scars that won't heal through time.
My parents would undermine a lot of my problems, and sometimes even claimed I was lying when I clearly wasn't. If they didn't understand something I did they would make a fake motivation for me, and claim I was lying if I tried to explain the real reason. They got mad if I did anything bad, and ignored most of the good things I did. They would get mad when I couldn't remember hard to remember things but acted shocked when I remembered easy to remember things. They would complain about how they thought I was too skinny, but they didn't say anything about my sibling's bodies. They would sometimes twist something innocent or jokingly that I said, to claim I was rude. When I was a little kid they would yell at and spank me for screaming uncontrollably, but give my twin sister positive attention for crying uncontrollably. When I got older I was able to keep myself from doing this, but they would get mad about my tendency to swing and pace a lot to calm myself. As a teenager, I developed obsessive-compulsive tendencies, which they used as another reason to get annoyed with me. All my life, they have complained about my tendency to get upset about the fact that my twin sister does everything better than me, and everyone (including them) likes her better. They always told me to be myself, but they would get annoyed if I did anything too weird, especially after I quit trying to conform and make friends because I was so bad at it. As a twenty-five-year-old, I've been doing a lot of research and I'm pretty sure I'm on the autism spectrum, and they had just pretended I couldn't be.
Omg finally someone who gets it, my dad says he rides his bike all the way to his grandma's house, and when I ride my bike to the street behind my house, he thinks I'm some 5 yr old or something
Your mom has no right to talk to you like that. Using a phone is not a waste off time. Set clear boundaries and enforce consequences.What country do you live in?
@@samantharose9287 In phillipines, the age of majority is 18. Once you've turned 18, you can leave home and cut off contact, and start your own life. She will have no control over your life then. But make sure you have a job, a home, money and can fend for yourself.
Although I am a young adult, I still live in my toxic household. I am waiting for the day when I can leave because it's very exhausting living with people that criticize your every move and make you feel like nothing.
You see, this proves my point. “Adults are more mature and know better than children”. I’m pretty sure that’s false information if they do this to a child.
Frankly, when I was young, getting the silent treatment was what I wanted. I was extremely overwhelmed by the demands, questions and general conversations with my parents. I was happy to get some time off.
As a kid rn, I like my alone time. When people talk to me and ask me questions and walk in on me when i’m on my phone, i hate it. I’m happy to be alone.
My mom forces me to interact with my narcissistic family member and when I try to avoid the interaction (because it honestly is difficult for me) she says that I enjoy fighting with her, then she stops talking to me and speaks to me in a very cold way. She also says I don’t know how to be a hypocrite… as if that’s a bad thing. Praying for all of us with messed up parents. :(
When I'm not do anything, that others do, they always say: "Why are you not like other children?" But, when I did something, that others do, they always say: "Why are you always need to comprassing yourself to other children?"
Night Royal_BG Gaming yeah when I do something similar to someone they’re like do something else or have your own style whatever and if I do something on my own they are like do it like her etc hers is good too sorry if I am m not making any sense :D
