10 Toxic Things Parents Say To Their Kids 

Sure!!!! 😊

yes please

Psych2Go Yes please

Yes because I want to show my brother that I'm not toxic

Yessssss pleaseeee

Lk Gaming 64 then when I child says something they are like you are a child you don’t know anything

My mum once said to me I should understand her, not the other way round. She acted as if I have more wisdom than her. I was 12.

they expect us to treat them like adults when THEY act like children

Maeli Sayrath why is this so true

I'm still treated like a child at 14.

"When I was your age.." -It's a completely different time now you're like in your 50's and I'm a teenager "Why can't you be like other kids?" -If you want you can have them instead since it seems like you want them more as your child than me

I hate those... They are so freaking annoying like DUDE. We are in the 20's not the 90's!!! Kids are changing!! Why do you expect the world to stay at ONE point

I've once said, "why can't you be like my friend's mom?" She replied.. "Then, go make their mom as yours"

@@ainakarmila6205 what the hell, that's relatable oh god.

My mother likes comparing me to my ex best friend

“I gave birth to you” Did I ask to be born?

@@extremity5462 Fo real

@@extremity5462 That's an awesome roast over there bro.

"spoiled child"

How ironic we share the same last name, and your comment is nearly verbatim to my utterances.

My mom: Why are you always so problematic and argumentative!? Me: What makes you think I like being that way?

It doesn’t necessarily mean you have toxic parents. A lot of parents say these things unintentionally and not on purpose to actually upset you. It’s so incredibly common. I’m not saying it’s right, but I’m saying it’s so common where loads of people say these stuff and don’t think it was mean

Becca Rose The way you describe it is like radiation. Every now and then won’t be too harmful, but too much can screw you over.

J C in some ways what you said is actually kinda true. It depends on the person really. For some people, every now and then won’t be harmful. But others, can upset them only if it’s done once. However there is a difference between it being done constantly, and things being said as a one- off as a mistake, and people do say things as a mistake, and that doesn’t mean they have toxic parents. But If things are being said constantly, that is no longer just a mistake.

That’s the real question facts 💯💯💯

@gameplayz seems legit.

This is an A B conversation C your way out of it.

@lafayette le baguette Absolute madlad

"Have we finally agreed on something?"

My parents just call me dumb

Vanessa Loperbz same

And they threaten to ship us off like that’s a bad thing 😂💀 Half the time I wish I could join a boarding school too

What y’all don’t understand is that shows that your parents don’t want to raise you, & that they will be better off without you. That’s why a parent should never say something like that.

​@@THECREW781some humans are just heartless.

​@@ArifumikoParents are the devil themselves

“You just want to kill us don’t you ??” yes if continue treating me like this

@@Lucy5456b this hits way to close to home for me

@@Lucy5456b I shall help!

I honestly can't believe that a parent could ever even THINK such things about their children... Remember that if family makes you feel like crap, there's Always random people on the internet understanding your feelings and wanting to support you ♥️

I feel sorry for you 😭 stay strong

That’s true though... parents do make mistakes. Also when they say I give you food, clothes, place to live- although that is a parents job, it is still nice to be grateful for those things.

@@bethanh5347 it's a different story to be grateful than it is to have it thrown in your face as a child. A child has no control on those things, they simply can't just go out and get a job and live on their own. A parent should never make their children feel like a burden.

Autumn yeah I understand what you are saying, it’s not nice for it to be thrown in your face, and a child shouldn’t feel like a burden. But all I was saying is it’s nice to be grateful for things, because a lot of people take things for granted and never really think or appreciate things they have or the amount of effort people do for them. But yes I understand a parent shouldn’t guilt trip or throw it in their faces. But from a parents point of view it’s normally said out of anger because of how kids walk all over them and they feel used. Parents have feelings too. But yeah I understand what u are saying too. :)

@@bethanh5347 yeah they do but when their abusive and always say those hurtful things to you it's not a mistake then it's intentional

Flauschekissen yes true

Ducky Momo yep I always get grounded for that :(

i just want to know what ‘talking back’ even means ?? like when you had children, did you not expect them to speak ? or have opinions ? or desires ? i’m confused ?

That pisses me off so much. I got that a lot as a kid and I was particularly mature for my age so it was like, why does my young age mean I cant respond or defend myself?? I'm 20 now and I still dint get why people say that to kids

I get slapped for expressing myself

My mom "talks back" to me as well, and when I ask why I can't do that, she says it's because she's "my mom."

If your mom called the cops on you so many times about talking back? If it's not a serious case the person who called the cops could get arrested...🤷

If I ever have kids, and they’re angry, I’m gonna let them yell at me. So they don’t have to hold any anger inside of them like I did.

My parents have probably threatened to call the police on me millions of times but thank god they actually didn't. I don't know what I would have done in that kind of situation.

@@Killua_Zoldyck3407 Exactly how come cops don't get angry when they are called for timepass to threaten a little kid, which can make them miss out bigger actual cases of theft , burglary or alike

@@apersonwhohasnothing my mom did that to me when I was a toddler just trying to defend myself from her dragging me down a hallway like girl which one is worse hitting your child or hitting your parent 😖

it's like saying "who asked" to an important notice

I always got this one. The only reason I'm so "well behaved" now is because of shit like that.

My parents do this a lot

Awww man, funny part is my mom made a game called the woop in game, where we played hide and seek, once she found us we would get a be beating until we cried. The thing is we had to cry to get out of the game. Man I was Petrified, but dang it reminds me of tht. Good times (*´︶`*)ฅ♡

@@d--kx8km that's horrifying

Ive been there its made it harder for me to share my opinion

And your opinion isn't valid because I should be making my own desicions to grow as a human being, mother

This reminds me of the garbage line spewed by Matilda's narcissistic father and the narcissistic Ms. Trunchbull in that book/film: 'I'm big, you're little....I'm RIGHT, you're WRONG'. Describes narcissistic parents to a T.

Ok, but children’s opinions for the most part aren’t valid. A 9yo doesn’t have enough perspective to form their own opinions.

EY Arcane ok but I’m talking about teenagers, I’m 15, and I know a lot about politics, so I’m not allowed to have a political opinion because I’m a child?

True 😖

Showing your emotions is a very hard thing to do.

@@yaellevi5448 yeah. It’s really hard.

I also learned at a young age that my feelings were at the bottom of the totem pole

I learned they don't care and never will I raised myself because no one else was going to after my grandma died

O thnx for the warning about the mental breakdown tho

Yes that is their obligation, but it’s still important to be grateful for it. Sometimes it’s important to realise what you have and realise what people do for you.

@@kyrahampton7417 i respectfully disagree. no one should ever be grateful for _basic human parenting_ and it's extremely unfortunate that there are children who've been deprived of those things as a result of their circumstances. with this said, however, telling your children outright that they need to be grateful for BASIC THINGS indicates that the parent views the child as an outright _burden_ and the parent has a need to be _validated_ . often these remarks are more about the insecurity of the parent projecting onto the child and not about the child at all, nor about world views. yes, everyone deserves to be appreciated, but not at the expense of blaming someone for not being "grateful enough." it only makes the child feel guilty and makes them believe that they are not good enough at expressing how they feel, and/or makes them deny their owns feelings of resentment towards their parents' toxic behavior(s). with all these factors taken into account, i think this type of obliged gratefulness condones more "i need to please my parents" toxic behavior. no child should have to be asking their parents for approval and acceptance. ever. if a parent wants to properly express to their child that they should be grateful for basic things, they should be educating their child on various worldly events like poverty, abuse, and cultures from around the world. naturally, the child would begin to see their own world differently and begin to become grateful of their surroundings.

Theres a difference of being grateful and parents using it as leverage against their child in arguements.

Nicia Navarro I only agree with the last paragraph. And I think that „Kyra Hampton“ meant exactly that, what you said in the last paragraph. Yes, everyone needs and has a right to basic things like food and shelter. But its always good to appreciate those things and be grateful for it because not everyone gets to experience those ‚basic‘ things. I think its just disrespecting towards people who have nothing, if we are not grateful for what we have.

@@_chapternumberone_8782 Appreciating what you have is different from appreciating who gave it to you. I'm grateful that I don't have to worry about basic things like food and shelter. But I'm not grateful to my parents for that. They chose to have me. That was their job.

My mom is exatly like that...

I feel so sorry for you guys! I hope everything gets better. Just keep trying, okay?

Dina jjk damn I’m sorry

my mom

Wow, got flashbacks!

BRUHHHH! Ever since realizing my mom was abusive in 2011, I literally can't watch Tangled the same way again! My friends call my mom 'Mother Gothel without the magic'! LOL! Glad you get it! (But also, sorry you get it! Internet hug!

So trueeeeeeeeee, and it is even said to biological kids,lol

You are,safe here, cos we are tolerating you, we haven't thrown you out, and that is your past birth good karma that u got parents who let u live inside vebtilated warm roof , with food 24/7, potable water, school and tv set, otgerwise what if you were orphan homeless begging on footpath with no good food to eat You should lick our toes , for you are always under our obligations, you are akways n always will be seen as LOWER than us, and should always bow down with shame as you are younger

How did they know it was disrespectful if they weren’t listening, anyways?

@@annaobrien7323 they hear it, then don’t do anything about it

comebacks: 1. that's how a conversation works 2. then why do you take me to school 3. no its because i'm right and you know it

They say it to me..

@@dizzyolivesxox7751 many parents say it i should have added that

this be hittin' different

This is very inaccurate They would never say sorry

LITTERALY

m i n o ë , I know right! My parents are like that all of the time

You may think you have “actual facts” but it’s not always true. People tend to always believe they are right, but forget its just an opinion, not actually a fact.

W

Feel that

They act like toddlers Jesus..

if i ask them something more thank two times they throw a temper tantrum

Literally what I have to go through... and then I just end up walking away and staying in my room for the rest of the day

@@evilkermit4795 Dude I hate that so much. If I ask once I'll never get an answer, but ask again (even days later) and she'll say I'm "asking too much" and "won't get it if ( I ) keep nagging like that". Also if I ask a month in advance it's "too early to talk about that, ask me next week" but if I ask the next week it's "too late!" and I "Didn't give enough time for a decision to be made".

Well that explains a lot

Oh man

No wonder

soooo true. i still have the inner voice of my dad telling me whenever something i like is too girly

My god

@Warpig I'm non english native speaker so I'll try to explain myself as clear as I can. They've arguing, screaming and throwing things to each other for their entire lives. I can't recall a single day with both parents at home without a fight. When growing up, I was se**ally harassed by two uncles (One by marriage, the other was my mother's brother). When I did tell, everyone (My parents and my grandma) turned against me and made it my fault for "provoking them". I was 12 when I told and always have been an hyperlexic autistic who only wanted to be left alone and read. After that, everything spiraled down. More fights, suddenly I was guilty for every shit in the family even when I was not there, everything my youngest aunt (She is my age) did was my fault, they also parentified me a lot using me as their trashcan or messenger every single day they fought, never was allowed to have my own money, never was allowed to have privacy (They even took my door away a couple of times). She used to search all my stuff and throw them in a regular basis when they fought, jailed me without any clothes but what I had on for a week twice, beaten me several times (The first I can recall I was having a meltdown and my father took me by my hair and hit my head against the floor). These are just examples. More recently they tried to take my daughter away from me, they took me to the court, harassed me, harassed my political family, threatened my ex-husband with riding over him with their car, tried to take us out of the road three times when we coincided in the same place (We were living in a small town at the time). She tried to kidnap my daughter in the street waiting for us at our building entrance hiding behind the thrash cans (They are out on the streets on my country and they are massive). Tried to kidnap her from the school at the end of the classes. Harassed us (My ex and myself) when we opened our own business at the point we ended closing it. Tried to hit us at the court door couple of times. All of that, of course, while they tried to make the show of a perfect family with a problematic child and trying to gaslight the shit out of everyone around me (Friends, any family member, judge, lawyers, police, social workers, they tried even with the forensic therapists. Telling tales, using their money inviting them to coffee, lunch, whatever needed). Even with all of that, I win. But for almost 25 years of my life, my only wish in my birthday was to sleep and never wake up again. Do you need more elaborating?

Can you open up a bit more if you dont mind? I hope your alright tho, it has been 2 years

@@LazyArtyz Yeah, I'm doing good now, thanks. I went no contact w/them for 6 years already and keep going, the best thing I ever did. As for some details, well... From turning a blind eye to SA, substance abuse (Drugs, alcohol, just name it), fat shaming, slim shaming, bullying, physical violence, harassment, tried to take me to the courts to take my own daughter away from me, harassing my ex-in laws to the point my ex and I decided to split 'cause my ex-father in law had a heart attack due to a particular harassment from my father, tried to run their car over me three times, came 1000 kms away following me to harass me at my job (I was in the military) to the point that my lieutenant had to coordinate security just to allow me to take my daughter to the school, tried to kidnap her several times (Even my mother popped out from behind a trash can once), bullying and laughing at you if you cry... You can name it. As I said, every toxic trait anyone can have, the have it. Sorry if I misspell anything or if my grammar is not so great, I'm spanish and english is my third language. 🤗

Marla Stanfield in my opinion respect should be earned, not given.

I think what some of them mean is... "Kiss my feet, I am superior to you". Or if they are sincere, well some adults never grow up with the lesson of respect

Marla Stanfield your adults should always be respectful to you.

Ember Neko yeah I agree, but even if u haven’t earned it, they still should be nice

Ember Neko well yah but some parents believe that they are always right no matter what. I always got in shit if I ever was right and my dad turned out to be wrong.

I'm 12 and I have two older brothers one is 19 (Kai) and other is 28(Colton) Kai was suicidal and all she did was send him to an insane asylum and he lives with his dad now Colton has ran away when he was younger a moved out soon as possible (17) and well me I was sick for 6 weeks and when she FINALLY took me to the doctors they said to much stress and fear it was all her fault and they said I have showing signs of depression and she said oh kids at school ik I'm young but this is a lot and ya sorry I typed all of this to u ig I needed to vent oh and my and Colton have the same dad but he's never been in our life and Kai has a diff dad and she blamed the divorce on him and my mom has a bf rn and they were gonna break up and she said everything was my fault

Alexis Swim OMG you’re going through so Much!!it shows that you are a strong person so keep fighting because the bests are waiting for you :)

@@yasnataghavi669 THABK U SO MUCH

yasna taghavi I am but I’m also a parent and I’m listening carefully. I think my girl hung the moon. I want her to think that too.

@@jade_swim ....

Holy shit, That IS messed up! I'm SO sorry she did that! ;A; You DID NOT deserve that! Hell, NO ONE deserves that!

More common than it should be, sorry that happened to you

Thanks for your story. My parents split up when I was about 9 and most my self hate and suicidal thoughts from that time.

This comment is so underated factsss

😭

Fr tho

😭😭😭😭😭😭

Well said!

my parents after removing all my privacy and cuts off my internet: why doesn’t she have any friends?

@@shaniaannfernandes9599 same

@@imyourhoff7482 i also do have friends it’s just hard to keep them if i can’t respond to their messages

That also happened to me because of my grandma

I don't have any friends because of my parents

MUM AND DAD READ THIS COMMENT

"All kids deserve a happy childhood." That should be the motto of our species

Not a abusive one that makes it so that the society gets worse when the next generation takes over but hey who knows maybe instead we can atleast put up some laws to make sure that the next next generation doesn't get abused aswell

all the replies above me are correct

Like “all pets deserves somebody, but not all people deserve pets”

1000th like pog

Whenever my mom says that i can just hear my own neck going *snap*

omg YES I CANNOT EXPRESS THE AGREEMENT I FEEL THIS COMMENT COULD NOT BE MORE ACCURATE ISTG

*communism song intensifies* If i had 1USD for every time i have heard that phrase I'd be able to afford rent for a month.

TRUEEEEE

@@bustergundo516 (when ur parents make u pay rent even tho ur still in full time education and cant legally get a job...)

Bruh

Bruh.

Bruh

Chain broken lmao, New chain BRUUUH

BRUUUH

If someone beats me, I'll lose even more respect. My mom used to beat me so much that I would flinch every time she got near me but she wondered why cuse she was "Only teaching me how to respect her." To anyone who does this, you're not making them respect you. You're making them fear you. If they do something for you, it's not cuse they wanna be nice. It's cuse they don't wanna get hurt.

exactly

Exactly

Exactly, im scared of my dad because of that because i dont know when I'm going to do something wrong.

Yeah, my mom demands me respect for not agreeing with her in something, meanwhile she screams, cursed me, hit the table and put her finger on my face... Wow great way of earning the respect of her own child... Now she doesn't hit me, cause I'm an adult and she knows I'll defend myself, but she have raised her hand to me in several occasions. It's impossible to have a stable relationship with someone that constantly degrades you.

Day6 Fan Yeah my Mom would say just a joke just a little joke after she insulted me.

Especially when you have ADHD with hypersensitivity

I’ve been told that one so many times...

Day6 Fan // I know right. They don’t eve apologize, just say “It’s a joke”. :(

Day6 Fan usually comes from a hyper sensitive parent. Turn it back on them and see what happens 😂

Haaa, being the punching bag because you can't talk back and "it's okay because we're family", a classic! Seriously, I hate it when some persons in my family make rude or mean comments toward me, but when I make a joke about them, suddenly I'm the one who's crossing the line! >:(

Exactly my dad always calls me fat it makes me think horribly about myself

Dude I hate it when my mom makes fun of my weight, I wore this dress and it really showed how fat my arms were and she was laughing at me and even recording a video of me and showed it to my brother and they both would always bring that video up and make fun of me and then title it as a "joke"

@@akitoentt exactly my family is a huge part of my anxiety and whenever I try to talk to them about it they say Your too youn

That’s my favorite too.

Sometimes I wished I’d just die so my family really sees what I’m going through. All I hear is “you’re fine.”

Actually you should have respect fur your parents automatically but if they are bad parents you should lose respect for them

Uhhh,no. You should respect your parents...

demented moose you don’t get it

Tell that to my mom's side of the family.

YES!

True

Dont worry someone pressed it accidentally

True

yeah very true

I love this

I know how that feels...

FACTS

Relatable.

My mom is an amazing parent, dont get me wrong, but if i had a dollar for every time she blamed electronic devices for a bad grade, i'd have lots of money

@@Salma-in2ny Well same...

True..

For anyone wondering what this guy HANZÉ Productions is saying, "If you really love (for us) to race then breed horses dammit, why give birth to children???"

Yes.

@HANZÉ Productions can i know which movie is this

Whenever I do what they want they always say that "good boy, you should always be like this!" and whenever I be independent and do my own decisions it feels like all their love faded away into nothingness. Then I hear all the time, that its good to be independent. Even my mother says this, yet when I do my own decisions they dont even follow their own advice.

your not a cisgender..your a girl

im just saying so no hate

@@goblin6000 I’m a dude

"Don't raise my voice at you? How about you stop being so ignorant?"

{Night_time Demons} same

I wouldn't have the ability to tell my mom I have online friends.

lαzу _вlσѕѕσм Yesh my dad doesn’t allow me to have online frienss

@@hzannahh Same.

Exactly,after years of abuse they suddenly play as the victims

Sadly most play victims we can only learn from bad parenting what not too do

I never experience that like from my parents like im 18, my mom still feeds me and give me money. So i'll gonna visit her or my mom will live in my house when i have one.

@@thepink3798 Good luck my friend

This is literally how it is. My family may not be verbally abusive but my mother has definitely said some things. I am not currently old enough to move out but my older sister is almost 19. The reason she hasn’t moved out yet is because my mom won’t let her. She has to wait until right before the college year starts. I think that is bullshit bc of what my older sister has dealt with. She has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. And at one point her anxiety was so bad she couldn’t go a day without puking. It took my parents WAY to long to figure out that she wasn’t okay. And even after trying to treat her depression my mom still has the guts to say, “then don’t be sad.”. I just don’t understand people like that. My mom has made many terrible remarks but I am just going to have to live with it for the next couple of years. (Sorry about the rant I just wanted to say something.)

Lol my mom told me I am the least favourite child 😗✌️

Mom is always right... 😂😂😂🙈 My mom: Stop seeking unhealthy relationships and take care of yourself! Also my mom: Raised me while having an unhealthy taste in men due to her being an alcoholic, and the only other couples I've been raised around has been toxic abusive ones as well😅... I hope you are soon able to leave your mom's nonsens! It helps enormous when you get the chance to have your own space and choose when you want to speak to her and see her 😊🌟 EDIT: Not that our mom's self-loving advice ain't good, but they have to live by them for them to work the slightest😅

Or their friends kids/your friends

My mom : Cousin brothers and friends Me (on the outside) : 😒 Me (on the inside) : 😳👅✌

bruh my mom compares me to strangers

Eat it or starve is a classic one, but you are actually guilty for it

I can really relate at the first line...

For me they call me fat and then say Y don't u eat when we were ur age we would eat all day I'm like idk mom maybe cause u called me fat!?!

Aarya Shinde lol i feel u

Totally relatable 😅😅😅 except for the last one😚

Respect should be earned, not given freely for being a few decades older than you. And the ones who say "Respect your elders" often do so because they have done nothing to justify any type of respect.

Or "I'm older. I'm above you. How dare you compare yourself to me"

@@nxteaaa FRRR

The only thing hurts when your father scold you for cracking jokes and being happy all the time because I'm useless and worthless so I should be quite and shameful of my self

@@dubeyjifitness2003 im so sorry :(

What kind of father is that ?

WTF? YOUR DAD SUCKS

Haven't your parents thought that their behavior must've had something to do with his decision? I am so sorry for your loss. And for everything it must've gotten you from your parents. ♥️♥️

So sorry for your loss that’s a pure narcissistic father.... stay far far away from him... I’ve cut all ties with my father... he’s exactly like that! Stay strong! I wish you all the very best in life 🥰

My english is not great so i just need to say try to stay okay idk if you understand but..💗💗;))

Oooh yes

My parents don't want me to move out and they won't ever let me

Omg yes girlll periodtt

Yep

That has some basu Is tho

They should adopt an anime character Looks 30, is 12

spaghetti lmao

True

Ikr

I know, right? I tried doing that too, being more responsible. But they end up scolding me for failing or just straight up do it for me, leaving me no chances to actually learn.

@Saranya Kasichainula same, I walked home from school with my male friend. My mom saw, and asked me (when he left ofc) "do you like him?is he your bf?" Bruh he's just my friend smh

Exactly. Its like we are told to go to bed at 9ish and they continue to watch tv for 9 more hours. Hypocritical much? You need to learn to be more respuctful, they say. Oh, because your older and your my parent? So? Your are technically the same as everyone else. A human.

Hey we have pfp!!

@@dogeplier2321 first point might be because they want you to sleep early which is better for your health But I agree the second point , I’ll give you the respect due if I think you make sense, don’t act like you will always be the one correct because of your age

@@nlmo1828 Ok for the first point i get that but like shouldnt everyone need to sleep at around the same time for good health? I mean its not like just befause you were working doesnt mean you have to go to bed at 4am. If anything im pretty sure thats why they are tired.

Yep

Yeah, so relatable..

My sister used to do that 🙄

Yes, but sometimes people don’t realise they are actually sounding rude. You may think you wasn’t raising your voice, but it can also mean talking with an attitude. And then a lot of teenagers will reply back with the typical “whaaat..I didn’t do anything.” When they were clearly talking rude in the first place, they just didn’t realise it or they deny it.

Becca Rose that’s true...tone is important but regardless i’m talking about just completely shutting down and refusing to have a conversation about an issue by just chalking it up as “don’t talk back” like you just want to say “listen to me. hear what i have to say. look at this from my point of view.” but instead they make you feel inferior by not even giving you the chance to explain yourself. if someone is making you feel that way it’s only natural to get defensive, upset or passionate.

Address please, I have a person I need to kill 😊

So true. I could relate. It's frustrating.

Dad :*asks how old I am Me:14 My dad : wHeN I wAs yOuR aGe I wAs 15

@@Virgo_vibes_ tf LMAO HAHA

It's also sad how some parents dont care enough to remember their child's age.

“We’ll it’s not a competition, isn’t it, luv?” ☺️

True.

lol my mom has OCD, and if ONE TINY thing is wrong with my room, she'll go off. She'll get mad and complain. ( which is kinda understanding, since I eat upstairs. ) but if I say, hold up, or can you wait a second? she'll go crazy or if I "talk back". IDK why she does that, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong.

Tania Zuniga Chavez I can relate my parents also don’t believe that science is correct and that the government is to blame for everything

Tbh that's really childish

every frickin time!

What they don't know is that talking back doesn't necessarily mean being disrespectful and it is really stupid

Conversation is talking back and forth

🙃 me : that's how conversation works

Yes one time had had talk back to my mom it something I have never done before but she wouldn't not listen the next thing I know I yelling because I wanted to be heared but she still dismissed me and said that I was being disrespectful all I want was to be heared

Mmm yummy

That is a form of manipulation

I never like to ask them questions, especially my dad, because he always replies in a sarcastic tone as if i should already know the answer and im dumb for even asking

Cole DesJ SAME! My dad is always like, why don’t you ever ask for help? But when I do ask he either responds sarcastic tone or an extremely annoyed tone.

I felt this one

Sometimes I can't tell if my dad is joking or being serious

Well not 18, it can be anything 😫😫 now take me I've been listening to this from 7 years i guess

So truuuuu

HAHAHAHAHAHA

My mom want to kick me. But my father kept me home I m Asian

My Latina mum 🤡

K C 😂😂

When I was with them I was. The way my name was said told me whether I was going to get a mild scolding or the effects of a rainstorm of hurtful feelings.

I'm 21 and haven't seen my mom for 4 years now but my heart still makes a jump whenever I hear some call my name in a certain way

Yk whats gonna go down 😬🤧yikes.

yah 😥

Well this video is mostly common sense.

Yeah, me too

@iiCloudy_Apples If it needs awareness, it’s not common enough. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@@jillianm5781 It may not be common for people to do but if you are smart you'd know these things already.

the world is ending,,, I don't think so

Everyone Is Equal No Matter How Old You Are ✊

This brings a whole new meaning to the phrase, 'age is just a number'

Same bro, same.

Whenever I got in trouble as a young child(I never knew what I was doing even) my dad would always yell that at me and lecture me

@@eternal-ex8ej same

Deppy T. That be genius, but I feel like some people can learn to be better parents but if there was a psychology test they can help the parents out to be ready and better parents, then the world would be a lot better

I couldn't agree more. I think that pregnant women and the future father should go through at least an online course on how to be a successful parent. It would be hard to encourage a test from a phycologist, but if future parents were given free resources on what behaviors are acceptable and how to be a decent parent, I think many people would consider adoption or other avenues when they see that they are unprepared. Then again, thats logical thinking about what would be best for the child.

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I'm not sure if I would trust the government to decide who is allowed to procreate.

I agree except almost everything, except, I think traumatic events shouldn't be part of the test. If they can handle it or if they aren't a bad person from it, then it's fine. They didn't ask to go through trauma.

Yeah :(

Yeah.... :(((((

@MelBear I feel you me to

@melodus even if you're trying to explain something, moms will always just say "you're being disrespectful" and it HECCING SUCKS

I can totally relate to being forced to do a hobby you don't want to, but they make do it anyway. I was forced to do scouting when they allow girls in, and I didn't have a good time with it and I even ask my parents if I can quit. However I get told scouting is good for you and it would make you a better person. Which it didn't work for me, even though I got both eagle scout and girl scout gold awards. They still don't consider how I feel and it's putting more stress on my younger members of the family who are also forced into scouting just because they want their whole family to be eagles scouts.

Same- I want to take culinary classes but I don't tell my parents because they already want me to take python/java classes and if I don't want to they'll just start questioning me.

My mom used to use that as a reason to make me cook food, vacuum, wash dishes, wash sink, clean toilet, etc when I was 9 years old.

@fxlling for him Oh gawd. I didnt have any siblings growing up, but the added layer of sexism is even worse! That sucks ass.

Basically means "you're my slave."

My dad's favorite way to say it "I'm the big bull with the fuzzy nuts round here " LOL!!!

The exact words my father yelled at me a few years ago. It made me despise him

Smooth

Cha cha real smooth-

My mom's fiance told me (and told me something like this) that he can't wait when I'm 18 and can move out. I know that I don't think of him as a father and shouldn't but, it really hurt me, and I should have known better, but he's been in my life for 8 years. I used to think that we were close, or maybe... that he loved me, but he couldn't wait to start a "family" with my mom. Couldn't wait. 👎

Omg I have heard it like it was a catch phrase

Got any money tips to help me out? I'm 14