so simple and yet so powerful. three of my buddies got divorced in the last few months. their marriages lasted 3-5 years. all of their wives had 7+ of Red Flags. Two of my buddie found new relationships and these women have the same thing. They don't learn anything.
Yes dated a hot pole dance teacher men thirst over but all the time pestered for a baby, tantrums and silent treatments. After a tantrum i brought up her messaging a man she’d signalled for him to try and hold her hand in front of me and later found intimate messaging on her phone. I walked away when she didn’t give me answers and she blocked me and broke up with me. She can find another victim for her abuse.
I’m glad Rich is outspoken on the topic of seeking validation online. We’ve all seen these chicks that are in relationships or even married yet continue to flaunt what they’ve got or even openly discuss their issues with anxiety or depression; basically leaving the door wide open for the white knights to swoop in and compromise their relationship.
If the foundation is unstable Amd there is no real God...that door gonna swing...that's natural to do. She can't talk to a partner who also hid who they are too...she gonna go to what feels free and familiar. This is how people are sneaky linking and supporting terrorism. He is showing, telling, financing the life of a terrorist.
Biggest pill to swallow and learn is you can’t fix or help broken women. Have fun, hang out, but never commit. Be ready to cut them loose once they complicate your life. Too many men get wrapped up in the first woman that gives them some attention. Frame really comes down to maintaining boundaries for your own well being and sanity.
I'm 18 years old and fairly young, the girl I like was on the surface sweet and innocent. Turns out she has a body count higher than the Veitnam war and she parties. She's damaged and I can't stop looking her
I'm a female nurse and yes, many nurses I've seen in my profession are partiers, drinkers, and a little nutty. However, having written that, I will say its not ONLY nurses... its many of those in all medical/healthcare professional roles. So much so that as a non-drinker who isn't into petty drama and always approached my job as a job and not a social opportunity, I was pretty much an outcast in the hospital environment. Luckily, I've since furthered my education and have a better role out of that mess.
Rare situation of Rich giving bad advice. If she’s posting on Instagram before you and stops because you give her an ultimatum, it’s not genuine. She will start back again later when she’s with you. “She is who she is and what she ain’t she will never be.”
Agreed, good judgement from the inception to know that there are just some things you don’t do is a character trait. Giving grace is only suitable in some situations.
Truth has been spoken. Just broke up with a girlfriend who was madly in love with me judging by enthusiasm in our intimate life. I'm also quite successful, kind and generous. It didn't stop her from breaking our agreement of no girl trips. She just told me she's going and I broke up with her after she was back. Now I think You need to find a person who wants to be who You need them to be.
@@eran3851 agreed, if we both communicate expectations from the beginning and your expectations are clear why chance a breakup by purposely doing what I clearly asked you not to do (and possibly for single friends). It’s weird, you know what was expected from the inception - either you’re in and agree or you’re out.
No they would not. They have zero clue what today’s women are like and what the dating market is like. 70 year old men have nothing to contribute to this.
This is a great comment. I'm only 38. But due to how I was raised in a rural environment in a slightly more "traditional" fashion, (quite a bit of our living was self-sufficient from livestock, gardening, hunting/fishing etc.) I identify with older generations much more and the traditional old-school values. I've never felt "at home" with the people of my own generation or younger...the same goes for Gen X and to some extent even the Baby Boomers. (my parent's generation) I highly value the hard work ethic, ingenuity, patience, and general standards for society that the old generations from the Depression and WW2, and the previous generations before them lived by. Which is now mostly a thing of the past.
@@chaywinston8115 workplaces where bunch of women are accumulated and one men is kinda the head of some sort of leadership is a red flag, all the hipergamic nature of women is activated, why the ancients forbade women on councils or forums in ancient greece or rome? Why some alchemists and occult sects forbade them in their reunion as well?
A guy I met talking about divorce. He proved in court his ex wife was an alcoholic and not looking after their daughter properly. The Judge awarded him primary custody. He asked the Judge, what about child support. The Judge said, be lucky you have your daughter. He said, she's a Nurse, she makes $40 an hour. The Judge said, one more outburst and I'll have you in contempt of court.
That ex-wife is free as a bird and with no strings attached. Do you think she is gonna tell a real man about her past life? Nope. She single with no kids...since men are witch hunting those.
So very true. Out of the 3 LTRs I had in my life so far (I've just ended my last one recently) 2 of them were the ones that initiated the "where do we stand talk". Blue pilled me ignored the red flags, both times it ended badly. The one before my now ex even tried to make me knock her up. Always set the rules and don't compromise on yourself. Remember she wants something from you, not the other way round. It's not worth the stress, drama, waste of time and money etc. Thanks Rich
The thing about nurses, they are at their best at work at home they are always sleeping. Kids, house husband are neglected. They work in pretty much a huge hotel room, good luck
After dating a woman who was a C.N.A and a woman that was an L.P.N.( also lived with her for about a year) the promiscuous thing is very much spot on, also they are more then the norm when it comes to constant drama and attention
@user-ls7iz3sq5f yep, gotta agree with you, she told me once, tell me I'm not important when you're in a lot of pain and looking for relief from it , like she was the only woman in the world with the knowledge to help you 🤦🤦🤦
I’m going through this right now. It appears I’m codependent which makes it even worse. It’s a rollercoaster from hell and it’s not easy to get off of.
@@peplsuk7635 oh I know, she has to put in the effort to overcome her inner demons, I just try to be a steady rock for her and definitely our kids. She always comes around though
Rich knows what he's talking about. Applying the principles of TUA since last year September and my life has been a breeze. No drama, no bullshit. The real G.
Dated a few dental assistants. They usually have the looks. Fake this and that. Tatts. Nutso. Have been around the block, a few times. Definitely an industry you want to enter with your radar up.
Nurses are drama filled because they have high stress jobs. I dated a chick that worked in a medical office and she went out 3-4 nights a week and wondered why I didn’t want to join her out. I’m like how can you afford all this? Lol. It was too much. She liked the drama that the nightlife brings. Friends getting drunk and acting goofy and would tell stories about this and that. That was when I cut it off. Girl was newly 40 acting like that. Nope.
Nurses jobs are not any more stressful than any other job out there. The problem with Nurses is their attitudes!!! They all think they are the most important people in the world, and that nobody would be able to survive without them. They are a bunch of spoiled princesses who get constant praise by Beta men (usually soy boy Doctors) for doing a mediocre job that someone with half the education can do. The mass majority of Nurses are liberal twat waffles (I have NEVER met a nurse who was pro-life), and they all make enough money that "they don't need a man". Nurses have the highest divorce rate out of any profession, and they are promiscuous because of their feminist mentalities, believing they can do anything a man can do. Seriously, Nurses are the most garbage group of women out there, and you made a wise choice by ditching her... But no, their drama has NOTHING to do with the stressfulness of their jobs, it has to do with their "high and mighty" personalities/attitudes... rumble.com/v205mlc-episode-145-stop-catering-to-these-women.html
@@jspla Yes they like to pretend they can be like the people on whatever shows/movies or even social media stars that they like to watch. Of course we here know that's ridiculously stupid. It's a completely immature fantasy that doesn't effect only them, it effects people around them and whoever they try to pull their dumb sh*t on.
If she refuses to remedy her problems with medication and therapy, tries to use you as the emotional punching bag...leave. Full stop. Life is short. It's even shorter staying with a person like this. Just. Fucking. Leave.
Totally agree. Mine had all her exs contact details and pics of them she called the precious memories..when I set a boundary obviously too late she kicked me out cause I didn't want her to have those pics.
she has all of the red flags you named. she's been distant and disrrespectful to me lately. i feel she's talking to someone and asked her to check her phone but she refused and got mad at me for wanting to do that.
No offense, but if the woman you are with has ALL the red flags then you are thinking with your dick and not your brain, which is a red flag for women. Looks aren't everything, as you are now finding out. Enjoy!
Traditional women had to live with the fact their husband had a outside family. They had no voice and were stupid. He spent that money with the prostitutes and caught their diseases. That was honorable and righteous. Oh and she couldn't leave because nobody will care for her with all those babies. So she was stuck and always got sick from him. That's how rare God's women have become. The men deleted them with the same tool they used to insert in a hole for everyone.
I’ve been in a LTR with a woman for 5 years. I had to leave her because of the constant drama she would instigate. She was constantly claiming about other men simping to her. Even her crack head neighbor was simping to her. It was ridiculous. I got fed up with her and left the relationship.
I dated someone 3 times in 4 months. She cancelled a lot. I lost interest. She went absolutely ballistic when I broke it off. I barely nlknew her. 10 hours in fact. By then, she was acting like we were engaged without having much contact. I dodged a bullet.
I feel like today if you try to tell a girl that she has to do that then you would look like it controlling abusive person. Not saying that you are but I feel like if you try to tell a female of today to do those things then she will get validation from her friends and say he's just trying to control you. This is a society we live in today
Proper vetting on the first couple dates..( also..no sex) and going ssslllloooowwww will give you just a glimpse of the real person. Another suggestion..go on a weeks vacation after a few months of dating...splitting the cost of course. Real eye opener.
Rich! Man like I cannot and will not deal with any woman who takes medication or is bipolar. Last woman I dated like literally was insane dude and the thing about women who are open with you about mental illness, they will dare you to ever speak on their mental illness no matter how much it's affecting the relationship. You can't grow with someone who is constantly at war with themselves. Leave bipolar women to date bipolar men we don't have to save mentally ill women. That's up to mentally ill men because only a mentally ill man would attempt to save a mentally ill woman. It's just plain suicide
I dated a girl who was on Anti Depressants for a long time, she had also recently come out of a 4 year Toxic relationship. She hinted at being bipolar. My god the relationship was chaos
That’s what makes certain women special. I do agree with a large majority of red flags he mentioned like tattoos, piercings, male friends, provocative photos etc. he’s not wrong about these things in my opinion.
I don't know why i keep trying with this one girl. I'm so drained to the point where I'm desperate for it to work out. We've already done quite a few intimate things together, but says that maybe we could date in a couple of years... After all we've been through. We hang out or chat every day and enjoys my company. I don't know what it is though
I once dated a woman who was a former nurse. As time went by in our brief relationship, I discovered that she was an alcoholic and had a gambling addiction. She was looking for an enabler, not a partner. So, needless to say, I ran away, didn't walk.
I think one big indicator is that videos like this suddenly pop up in my feed although i'm only subscribed to common channels for music and entertainment... :o
I just don't buy into Rich's assumption that the average man has some endless supply of women to choose from. Most men don't, and if they avoid all the flags he posts, they will end up with no one and one day find themselves too old to be in the game anymore.
I learned at the young age of 16 that some women are nuts, so it was the summer of 1996 and I was crushin' hard on this girl and tried everything to get her but failed so i went on to marry another girl which worked out fine, anyways so I still know this girl because we still both live in the same town and she's now 42 and is twice divorced, now her latest husband is 65 yrs old...this girl I had a crush on has been arrested over and over, won't hold a job for more than a few months, on drugs, her daughters hate her on and on ect ect...so guys be careful what you wish for you just might get it lol....
A verbal agreement & handshake with a female who reserves the right to CHANGE HER MIND. Some agree, then later pull the carpet from under you, others tweak the agreement to their favour (an agreement that works for her, not for him).......
My ex GF had 19 of those things and i barely carried it to 10 months (including a one month break to punish me and make me chase her). At least she wasn’t a single mother!
Yeah, so I was concerned initially with my girlfriend being a nurse . She's the best girl I've ever dated by a mile . Like no red flags . It's really shocking . I think that some people are just rough regardless of what they're doing .
I’m nvr one to judge someone’s personal standards for relationships/life, but wtf does “I’m in full control of the birth control” mean??? Can someone explain, I’m kind concerned.
To be in control of her not getting pregnant, don't leave that responsibility to her. Once she gets pregnant, she controls what happens after that. The Birth, the abortion, & custody is now in her control.
Yeah rich, how about gems to grow your hair. Can't control that so he controls a faux narrative about women from being delusional due to his baldness. Get that rich..not rich in hair
How about posting photos of ex and her husband with her underwear on she’s taking the photos, and he’s smiling. Why is the husband posting his wife in scantily clad photos??
It sucks when your months into a relationship and you start seeing red flags...mine latest crush has had 2 ltrs and 2 adult kids from the 2nd guy..but she has gone around with her first D twice, and she still talks to the guy regularly. This is really sad. I will be a little bummed when this ends...
Bald and over the hill 40 , baggage kids, old balls, shits himself . This type of man is not to married. A man with a full head of hair.. yes definitely yes.
This chick loves it when I ignore her.But she told me to make more of an effort…I like her so I began texting more often but I noticed she would start talking to other people as if I were boring her…Yesterday, she told me she wasn’t interested…Her lost cuz she’s hitting the wall with two kids I was just being nice cuz you were cool lol…When will they learn that men can be the “good or bad boy”. Most of us genuinely like being good guys as we mature.
I recently got dumped and have been looking for some support. I came across this video and… damn when you were rattling off red flags at 1:50, she basically had every one of them. Bad with money, unclean, rave/party girl, posts for validation, and shitty tattoos.
