To sum up the video: 1. You over analyze everything in your life 2. You throw yourself into your work 3. You let your fears hold you back 4. You feel dissatisfied with your life 5. You tend to dwell on negativity 6. You struggle to live in the present 7. You forget to have fun
Psych2Go Honestly I related to every single thing in the video. I do all of these things because I worry I’m wasting my life and my time. In an attempt to avoid it, I end up doing exactly that. Idk if that answers your question or makes any sense. I’m dissociated and tired at the moment, so words are hard.
1. You over analyze everything in your life 0:46 2. You throw yourself into your work 1:18 3. You let your fears hold you back 1:43 4. You feel dissatisfied with your life 2:22 5. You tend to dwell in negativity 2:56 6. You struggle to live in the present 3:38 7. You forget to have fun 4:08
Thank you for the list and time stamps but I actually do not agree with this at all. Wasting your life isn’t in these above things. 1. You can over analyze things and come to revelations through them. 2. Working a job is important to help gain income and also the confidence to know you are working for your money. Also what if you actually love your job? Stops being work once you find a job you love. So throwing yourself into that kind of work would be fulfilling. 3. Fear of what? Drugs, prostitution, molestation, robbery, etc? Those are good things to be scared of and it will not deter your life from being lived to live cautiously. 4. This one is okay I guess. Everyone will be dissatisfied with their life at some point or another. But if it happens so often that you don’t ever feel satisfied unless you’re hooked up on some substance to numb the pain, then that’s when you should start thinking about what went wrong. 5. Dwelling on negativity might be terrible but it can also give some insight as to why you are feeling that way. If you think about it enough, you’ll find out why you are dwelling on it. Dwelling on the negative isn’t what’s wrong. Asking questions and being honest with yourself is what is needed to make it not be wrong. 6. Living in the present can be dangerous. Read emergence (manga) and you’ll see why. 7. Having fun isn’t the be all and end all. Remember to treat others with respect and fun can come later. If you always put yourself first, no one will want to be around you.
Im not deal with 1 to 7 long time ago.. now maybe i need more than 1 to 7 i need number .. 8, 9,10 ,11,12 etc ... 🥺 Maybe i should not living in this planet.. i am alien ..
But what if the "person you are" is a stupid, psychopathic, pathetic loser that nobody wants? Of course I'd want to be someone else. I am so alone in this life it isn't worth being me.
I'm the animator of this video, Andrew Allan, and while working on this video all I could think about was this exact quote. Just repeating in my head over and over
A remote reminder for everyone: You don’t need friends to spend time. If you don’t have them, that doesn’t mean you’re wasting your life. Everyone spends their time in different ways, you don’t have to follow others to achieve happiness.
@@TT35109 OMG, A RAZOR MAIN LIKE ME!! Anyways, yeah, extroverts too. I'm an extrovert myself but I never spend time with others outside. I always talk to people in the internet, I'm sure some can relate. It's all about spending time by your own choices. You're free, you're not forced to hang out with people to feel that happiness.
@@Jesus-wh4sm I’m actually a Noelle main but I love Razor. Just pulled him on kazuha banner up to c5 lmao. So I’m definitely going to train him up. Wanna add each other?
It is true that everyone needs varying levels of social interaction, but having people in your life who you feel good around greatly helps mental health, it’s a big predictor of happiness
fun fact, you will allways waste your life. If you go into one direction or into another there is allways something to experience that you will miss out if you choose to go the other way. the secret of happiness is not to regret oportunities and situations that you didnt make right, but to appreciate your life as it is in the very moment.
I really had fun reading this🙃. This is that kindness that everyone needs to have towards oneself. We are not machines. Ups and downs, regrets, mistakes, chances that weren't taken..its ok thats life😁
@@gordanagrcic7179 no its not okay, you gotta allways push for success and be brutally honest with yourself. But the ability to let go of the past is something really powerfull
Not necessarily. A lot people are not wasting their life. However in total of humanity a lot of people wasting their life. Simply because they always run in the same cycles. For example: sleep, go to work, eat some, get home watch tv/play games, go to sleep and so on, instead of doing what would truly fulfill them and make them happy. Watching TV all day or stick your eyes on your smartphone all day might seem fun to most people but only because they don't know anything better. If you just would take one day off and put aside the tv or smartphone and put it even in a box and just go and do something you never done before like hiking or riding a bike, doing something creative like making a chair or some mug or a painting or go fly to a random picked place or bungee jumping and such, you'll quick realize how much you actually wasted your live and how much you could had lived. Instead of trying to do new things we always run in the same cycles instead of trying to break them. Once someone sitting on the couch feeling the real adrenaline drill that life can give you start breathing life and that what you did before was nothing else but actually sleeping. Of cause not everyone has to do bungee jumping or just travel a random place. However everyone can find something that's just out of his usual cycle. Even a painter can be in a cycle. He might be so caught in the act of always painting that he is already suffering a lack of new and fresh ideas, just throwing new paintings out and feeling an inner void. The painter should do something different then to break his cycle to get out of the rut of a monotone life and start feeling life again.
Honest and direct.. It's both. I don't know in which circumstances all of this happened, but there are many methods to change the stage of your mind. Hard as hell, I know, but what matters are the results at the end.
My husband had an affair after 26 years of marriage and 34 years together. Now divorced, I am struggling with rumination. All the things I should have done differently that might have saved my family. Your lessons are helping me. I’m a work in progress, as always. Just a bigger hurdle to get over. Life is so worth it.
Cheating persons are going to cheat no matter what. There was nothing you could have done differently trust me. They look for opportunities and it's never the other loyal partner's fault that their cheating partners cheated. So never blame yourselves, it was 100% his fault for breaking the marriage. Have a great life, good energy your way.
Thank you, Rilynn Miller, for this exceptional and very inspirational quote by Vivian Greene!! You "hit the nail on the head" with this comment! Congrats,... well done!! Always stay positive, have faith and courage when you face a new challenge...then take ACTION and Just, DO IT!! Life Will REWARD You... IN THE LONG RUN!
Don't be worried,A life wasted is still a life,only worry about money,failure doesn't really matter,if your sad because of it,is it inescapable,that could be your role in life,try to have fun instead🎶✝️💲💥🚦❌✔️
@@someonesomeone25 I won't lie that sad...its like this video was just affirmation to what we felt all along. But we could push through if we ask for help. Don't ever be afraid to ask for help..ok?
@@someonesomeone25 ikr. I had to start fixing myself. It's working a lot, but there are times that are HARD, and in these times, I have no one to count on but myself :/
Hey everyone. Go easy. This video is actually a gentle prodding and encouragement to make us realize how precious time is and how valuable we all are. On a bad day I might call it nonsense, but it does ring true even if hard to do. All my love to you all...
@ Danny Boy: Very true, Danny. None of us is guaranteed a future so we should live for today and make it count. God bless you, sir and have a good weekend.
Yesterday I had a massive melt down, crying most of the day and worrying about ‘what I’m doing with my life’ 😭🤦🏽♀️ but this video is a great reminder for me to just think about what’s happening right now and not worry too much about the future. The future will happen anyway whether I worry about it or not. Thank you for reminding me that it’s about NOW. Not yesterday or tomorrow! ☺️🙏🏽💖✨✨
Bean The Alien awww thank you so much! I’m great today thank you! Just one of those days where life gets on top of you and you feel overwhelmed! But all good today! ☺️ xx
the Life you Don't Have :P you’re so kind! Thank you! I’m great today! Yesterday I just needed to cry and release some pent up energy! Life is so up and down sometimes but today is a new day! ☀️☺️ xx
disclaimer, by the fact that youre reading this. youre not wasting your time. youre infesting in a better future and version of yourself. and im proud of you. now get yourself a glass of water or tea and do something thats good for you and makes u feel good 🤍
I'm 14, and I just started grade 10. The only one I don't do is over-analyze everything. I don't analyze much of anything really, I don't have the energy, and I don't care enough. I'm wasting my life,and I know it. I have for a while. I constantly visualize the future, in fact it's what a lot of my daydreams consist of (I'm a maladaptive daydreamer). I'm absolutely terrified of when I graduate high school. I don't know what I'll do. I don't know what job I want to do, so I don't have any plans for post-secondary. I don't have friends, and most of my time is spent mindlessly wandering between different time-fillers (e.g. daydreaming, video games, watching youtube, Netflix, etc.) And I don't have fun doing any of it. I'm really tired. I'm really lonely, too. I can't change it. I can't make friends, I've tried. I can't get new hobbies, because we can't afford groceries, let alone stuff for hobbies. I don't really enjoy anything anymore. I'm sitting in my house, wishing I could go home, but I don't know where home is. I'm lost and I'm tired, and I want to just sleep. But I won't. No matter what, I won't end it. Mostly cause I'm terrified of pain, and there aren't a whole lot of painless methods, and because my mom and cat would be sad. So I'm still here, and I will be for as long as I can. Just suffering. Sorry, for the rant, if you've made it this far, but I guess I just needed to get this off my chest. I don't really have anyone to talk to, and the RU-vid comments section isn't the best place, but I've already typed it all out.
Stay strong man. I'm in college and I still don't have a plan. I might just be a random person on the internet but I can tell you this you're not alone. ❤
You are stronger than you think. You can accurately describe your thoughts and feelings and that is amazing! Keep getting your head stuff out of your head and out on paper/online ‘paper’, it helps you understand yourself which can help you ask for the right kind of help you need.
I feel really bad for you.Just stay strong and believe in yourself.Yeah remember that everything happens for a reason and everyone has a good time in their lives.I guess you should try writing(I just have a vibe that u can write).Also a suggestion,if you don’t know what to study,go for psychology because you like to watch psych2go (if I am not wrong)so it shows that you are kinda interested in psychology Edit:Btw I am 13 in 9th grade
It's ok to not have a plan. And you're still pretty young, so the best thing to do is to try out different things. I still don't have a plan, and I'm 34. I'm in college for the 4th time because I keep changing my mind about what I want to do. I also didn't really have friends growing up, but I have a few friends now. Sometimes you meet people later in life. Just keep going, even when you don't feel like it. The RU-vid comment section believes in you. c:
@@alexiswilson3769 My mom's the only option I have, and maybe she can read it, but whenever we have a conversation it devolves into an argument. That's the biggest problem, I can't get her to understand me, so she can't help me figure anything out. And my teacher's won't help me. I tried talking to them a couple years ago, and they just tried to get me a psychological evaluation. Not help, just an evaluation. They weren't willing to talk with me, or help me with figuring out my interests. It was disheartening. I'll try. My mom read my posts on Reddit, and they covered some of this stuff, but I'm not sure how much they helped her understand. She says she understands it better, but nothing's come of it. Thank you for your support, it helps a lot.
I’m 52 , I feel like I wasted my life thus far. On a different path now and it feels so wonderful and a little scary at the same time but wouldn’t trade this feeling for anything. I didn’t realize just how miserable I was and now all of that is gone , life is wonderful now🤗😀
1. Yeah, I overanalyze 2. Nope 3. I actually don't fear death nor will I regret anything, but I do fear doing mistakes. 4. I'm very satisfied with my life. 5. I feel like I'm being positive all the time, but to others, they thought I'm being negative. It's more like a difference of what is positive or negative in my eyes and the eyes of others, so I really am confused about this. It's probably because of my morbid humour. 6. I will never regret anything in the past, but I will sometimes overanalyze things in the future. To the point where I don't move until I got plans for everything. 7. I always try to have fun. . Interesting, I still have hope...
I blame annoying family members:(mostly my 3 annoying younger sisters whom two of them are ACTUAL teens one being a SUPER obnoxious 16 year old and the other one is an overly stubborn 14 year old the youngest one is a 10 year who seems like she's practically a teen now): more than I blame covid19
@@monabohamad2242 yea I go out pretty normally. I go to the gym, get my nails done, go to Sam's club, target. The bars are closed but some have turned into restaurants to reopen.
Hi, I have anxiety, and I am always thinking of my past mistakes, and it makes me feel like I am worthless and that I was a big mistake when I was born, but I always keep remembering that the past doesn't define who you really are, and it helps me alot, so remember that the past doesn't define who you are, and focus on what's happening right now
I am so happy for you! Please keep staying positive, I always dwell on the past and it's heartbreaking, it's like my constant hobby or something I can't get rid of, Corona prevents me from socialize interaction and I stay stuck at home like a vampire binge watching jacksepticeye yet still feeling lost
i deal with anxiety too, and my past mistakes are huntin me always. i get scared and i feel like i don't deserve to be happy , like i was born to suffer. but in the end of the day, i remind myself that i'am worth everythin i have and that i deserve to be happy because iam such a nice and a helpful person. plsssss be nice to yourself tooand don't let the bad thoughts seek into your life. love u >~
I had a frenemy like that lmao. Tbh just go to the shittiest stuck issue in your life and let it go. Say ‘even if it doesn’t make any sense, this is okay’. Ta da.
i worry less about wasting my life when i remember that there's no such thing as a proper way to live life. it's a story we make up and it's a story we can change whenever we want to.
Same...i just dont really care enough about myself to do anything about it. Ive been miserable ever since i can remember. Might as well stick to whats familiar *shrugs* its better than being rejected endlessly and never getting anywhere despite doing everything you can, like a stuck car spinning its tires out until the engine dies
These days, it seems that more often than not the past was so much better than the present. For me, it's not so much that I don't live in the present as it is I'm doing most of the living in my head.
We should all talk on a deep level and regain consciousness there is always a reason you're here where be it to overcome your negativity or to use your positivity to affect others I myself am lost
@@anastasiavalentine2549 I continue to be rejected for many reasons, but I'm an extremely happy person. I often times connect with nature, and I don't live my life at all by any one else's standards. A good RU-vid channel I recommend watching is Infinite Waters Diving Deep by Ralph Smart.
I think Psych Today are trying to say thinking too much about the future can get you stuck and paralyze you with anxiety and stress. Do make plans for the future, yet be aware of present reality.
Plan your day: Yes. Plan your life: No. There is people who just take one day at a time because life is unexpecting so you can not plan several years ahead.
Laying in bed depressed and watching videos on .the meaning of life, body and mind...this is quite the timing of the posting of this video...especially as I’ve been feeling this overwhelming feeling of doing exactly that...which just further made me anxious and depressed and threw me into this rabbit hole...looking forward to seeing if these 7 signs apply to me...(I feel I already know the answer before even watching this...)
Exactly! Patience is good but there is a point where you are just wasting your time waiting for someone else to fix your life and you need to go out and fix your life and live it yourself. You have no idea how relevant that quote is to my life right now.
don't be sad about it, it's never too late to start! I'm the same age as you and I realized that too, it's already the beginning of a journey to realize this kind of thing and enjoy our life to the full.
Since you're still wanting to live "young, wild, & free." The only advice I can give you is this......EVERYTHING is Legal, until YOU get CAUGHT. Have fun, but also be surrounded by people you TRUST
My god I feel so called out on this. I'm such a failure that I'm ashamed of being a failure so I can't get myself to even start. I wonder sometimes how am I still here but I keep going and finally have to get myself together cause I check all those signs and even worse than those...
I totally understand you, you see, it might not be okay but it’s okay... you’ve got on this planet for some reason, you will have your time. Just keep going, you can do it, though it won’t be easy, it is worth. Don’t be ashamed of yourself. Your going through so much yet your going on. Love yourself, create yourself, fighting💪🏻💜
Maybe the way forward is to just not think about your past or present failures. Just try your best at whatever you're doing or need to do now. There are no guarantees in life, but whether you succeed or fail, at least your conscience will be clear, knowing you tried your best. Even if you fail at doing or achieving something, it does not mean you're a failure as a human being as long you have honestly tried.
Don't be too critical of yourself. Learn and grow from what you may deem as short comings or mistakes. By who's standard are you deeming yourself a failure? The most important thing is that you do what makes YOU happy at the timing and pace that is right and convenient for you. If you concern yourself about what others think, I suggest you don't. Each of us are special and unique individuals who have a unique purpose on Earth. No one is any better or less than any one else, regardless of status, appearance, capabilities, or achievements. If you want to make monumental changes for yourself for whatever reason, take small steps one day at a time. Those small steps quickly add up. I recommend researching the Japanese practice of KAIZEN. Before you know it you're half-way up that mountain. Before you know it again, you are at the top of that mountain looking down realizing how much you have achieved. A good RU-vid channel I recommend watching is Infinite Waters Diving Deep by Ralph Smart. I also recommend the practice of appreciating yourself as a special human being. The best way to uplift yourself and find inner peace is to go out into nature and connect with it as much as possible. Take care, you'll both be fine and happy.
Can totally relate. The only way I could get out of bed was acknowledging that I couldn’t do it by myself, so I asked for help. I’m doing therapy rn, I’ve opened up myself to people I trust and get some emotional support. I know I still feel pain and I’m not trying to avoid it. I’m doing what I can to get better, but on my time. Sometimes I still stay in bed and feel guilt about it, totally normal. But at least I know I’m doing what I can to change my life for better.
Stopping the need for including people in my life (who have been a huge part of it) to be involved with my personal journey to become better and happier. I’m finding more often than not that I’m getting more negativity than support when I ask for help or support. Creating a new support group is a great way to start fresh
i used to be sidelined from Crohn's disease, then clinical depression and generalized anxiety disorder. i couldn't have a bad day or a good day, i couldn't even begin. having a serious physical or mental condition can really destroy any potential that you have, whether you're optimistic, energetic, confident, pessimistic, depressed, nihilistic.
It's the family, reminding us everytime how worthless we're, so I'm always daydreaming instead of living the present with is painful, sponsored by my family.
Ok I’m just going to come out and say it: for much of school (GCSEs/A Levels) I felt as though I was wasting my life but felt helpless to do anything about it. I struggled to make friends and the pressure to study was immense, so I threw myself into studying. I got the grade, for sure, but I couldn’t get that time back to spend it just, you know... living. The only time when life seemed to have meaning were the times I had real friends, messing around and just being a normal kid (which only happened after heavy studying ended). I know a lot of young people are in the same boat right now and it’s especially bad with the pandemic. I hope the education system changes to recognise the fact that we’re humans and socialising and having fun is not a “waste of time”.
This comment just explained my life Right about now. Like damn give me a break. I'm only this young once, and I don't need to be spending all my time studying for 25 a hours a day. I need to SOCIALIZE and just be stupid and silly. In my opinion socializing, normal going out with people your own age for young people is as equally important as studying or making your career.
When rejected in love it is deliberating failure which stops you in your tracks.When it happens again you tell yourself its deja vou and stop putting yourself in that position by withdrawing from that scenario in the future to prevent a repeat.
honestly i don't really know what to do with my life at this point. it's not bad neither is it good but i just don't like my life right now. edit: i kinda want to die. but i'm still too young, i have friends i want to spend time with and kpop comebacks to watch. life is boring, stressful and meaningless, all i'm doing rn is taking exams and going to school. i'm lost about my future, what am i going to do after i finish my education? i can find out if the afterlife exists if i die in the future. 🤷♀️
Same.....welcome to the NO CLUE CLUB But...as one of my friends said, nothing comes by just sitting there And waiting for a miracle to happen but then I thought, I have no idea what to do so how can I have a reason to get up and work? Then I realized that if we just start working with what we have to, Eg studying for school etc., or just trying out new things can help Cause " You need to seize the opportunity " (lol) but anyway let's hope for the best and move forward....We can do it guys!!! 💜💪🏻
I'm currently trying to move on from my past experience of being passive aggressively bullied and I always remember to make sure to respect my friend's boundaries when I give her advice.
8th warning: You are in school and when you don't enjoy it then it's not right for you and you are forced to remember knowledge you don't need and forget it in a few days after tests.
I swear I’m trying to change my perspective on the system but sometimes I feel like I’m in a dystopian society. My mom says I’m dramatic and maybe I am. I feel bad because there are a lot of people who have it worse.
@@sarahelizabeth8045 nah nah I'm the same. I only see disgusting people and I'm starting to think 7 billion people are disgusting and no one can change any mind.
I feel like I’m growing while watching this video. Because I’m trying my best not too hard by combating these habits, which wastes my life, or anyone’s life. Thanks for making this.
This video describes me perfectly. Unfortunately my spouse and I are in a fairly bad situation lately, and seem to have no end in sight.... Seems every time we start to get our life in order, tragedy hits and knocks us down again. This last time has been one of the hardest times, as it has left us destitute... Even though I managed to secure a PT job, we just can't get ahead. To make matters worse, my spouse surfers from a terminal liver illness, as we as happening to be on the autistic spectrum... And as such, relies on me for the majority of her self care. Between working myself to the bone trying to keep us afloat, and worrying constantly... I feel like a complete failure most of the time, for being unable to elevate us from our current situation.
Your story touched me. Your partner is very lucky to have you. You have to remember that it's never always bad times. Don't loose hope for a better future, don't fret and worry about what you can't change now, definitely don't worry about "not being able to elevate you and your partner" from this situation. What? You're working so hard already. That is enough. That don't stress and I hope you will get out of this rut soon. Sending good energy and love your way
...Well you certainly hit the nail on the head, I’ve always felt empty like I’ve accomplished lots of things but never felt satisfied. I don’t remember the last time I took a break nor do I ever felt I had a purpose. I just went with life to where it took me.
I was dwelling on my life unnecessarily until I discovered something that changed the way I look at the world. I started skateboarding at 42 years of age and it’s the most influential thing I’ve done in a long time. It has completely changed my opinion of myself, my perspective of the world, human interaction, human behaviors, the way people see me and most importantly, the way I feel about myself. It perked up my entire life! I no longer fear anything.. I don’t fear disappointment, I don’t fear failure, I don’t fear rejection or regret. It’s incredible. Of course I wear pads and am moderately responsible, it really translated into way more than just a physical activity - it’s amazing and I highly recommend it to anyone that wants to discover something new and exciting about themselves.
This honestly for the most part, hits home... I've been trying to focus my life on studying media... 3d Modeling/Animation/Film etc... But every single time I get interrupted to help my mom my friends, my close family, it just sticks with me. Because my time is limited I'm 26 years old, I've finished an engineering University with a Master Degree and the fact is I didn't like it, it wasn't my passion I just finished it because I had already been deep into 2 years of doing it when I realized. Now every time I think about losing a day of not doing Modeling/Animation, I feel like I'm disappointing myself, but at the same time, I want to help my close friends and family member, it's an essential part of who I am, but it does slow me down I feel... I'm mostly disappointed in my past self I studied Animation/Film in high school, and instead of continued that route I got discouraged and switched to something that I didn't really like and I regret it every single day
Live life without expecting anything back ,Do everything you love and wanted to do in life ,Find your own ways to tackle it ,Say no to the people if you don't wanna help them ,don't worry they will help themselves.
I can relate so much to this, I also want to study media to be able to get a job related to it, but I ended up studying a career wich only laboral activities available locally I hate (besides economically it has being sinking, and with the pandemic worse, I'm still looking for a job), this due to no existence of any school related to animation at the time I looked for one, and the only one I've found I got no support, I don't know why, my mind didn't worked out more ideas on how to continue with my goals instead of being so obedient to my family, and it continues happening in other interruptions, there is a lot in between in there, but please don't give up, we have to keep working on letting regret (or family) set us back to live in the present and fulfill each goal we really want
@@anabiM7 well I know, but there is so much stuff that interests me. Like like, animation, video editing, music, modeling... literally everything related to 3d or 2d art or music and I can't process it, and nobody will accept someone that needs to be taught first. Even if I have finished a high school for that and I already have a lot of base knowledge. Just the fact that I missed my chance and I never might get another to be what I want depresses me
@@RAZORlukic it can be really overwhelming :'( , it may be difficult while standing a job you don't like to be able to survive and struggling to say no to others taking your valuable time, you're feelings are valid, so it is worth the try. Someone told me to take baby steps, that good things take their time, even make my own project related to arts, just like in the comment before mine, without expecting anything, just having fun. I've seen others try and get surprised in a good way. I'm still struggling, but I hope we all get through this. Wish you the best.
@@anabiM7 Well... I don't even have a job. I have to actively search for a job I dislike, for the slightest hopes of making progress in the career I actually like, and when you really don't want to do something, people can sense it, makes it very difficult to get hired as someone with a Master Diploma.
It’s like Psych2Go is in my head or something!! I’m 32 now, and feel like I’ve haven’t done anything of importance in my life. I’m just wasting away and feeling so lost and stuck where I’m at. I thought I would be much further along in life by 30s, but I feel so behind. I spent my entire 20s depressed, alone, lost and desperately trying to succeed in something to make me feel whole but nothing worked. Now, I’m without a career, no degree, single, and still going through things. I really hope one day things will finally turn around for me! I want to live with purpose! 😭
Sometimes life puts us in forced conditions like all the ones reported here. All we can do is trying to strike back and trying to improve and become better people. If we succeed, good. If we don't, we tried. We don't have control over our feelings, but over our attitudes.
I am so happy! I’ve tried to improve myself and my life the past months and I watched this to see what I need to work on! Turns out I’m doing everything right 😍
While I agree with some points in this video, I must say that feeling dissatisfied with life and over analyzing about the future can happen to anyone at some point in their life. The key is finding fulfilment with what you have, not everyone can change their lives drastically and some have to work crappy jobs just to survive. Yes that person could plan to get a better one but not everyone can have it due to circumstances. It is all about finding inner peace and fulfilment in your life rather than focusing on what you don't have.
Life is life. We do the best we can. Let go of all the “shoulds” and “woulds” and enjoy the simple pleasures when you can. For most us, work is just going to bring a paycheck, not fulfillment so stop trying so hard to “succeed” - just live.
The things on the list that apply to me: 1, 3, 4, 5, and 7. I feel discontent with where I am right now and I want to make some changes for myself and learn to have fun. But I often overthink some opportunities and let my fears hold me back from them. The reason is because the negativity of my past is very hard to let go of. Because of those things, I feel so ashamed of myself for not living life the way everyone else I know does. 😔
Alright so..I can spend my saturday home instead of partying. And I can enjoy staying home way more then partying. Y’know there is just a few people I truly enjoy being with. I’m not the most Social person, and I dont like that. But I enjoy staying home, and I actully dont think I can change that...so much. Am I the only one feeling like this?
I have depression and when I watched this video, I related to all of these. That might just be the depression talking, but I'm never really sure if it is. With so many exams coming up, I always throw myself into my work and I'm pretty miserable as a result. But if I don't work, I wont pass. But if I dont take time off, I'll burn out. It's a vicious mental circle I find myself trapped in almost daily. But, I'm trying to move forward and be a better person. Showing more emotion, not spending so much energy on worrying about the future or the past and really trying to change things. It's always a struggle, on some days more than others, but I'm hoping that if I keep trying, eventually things will get better.
I don't know if this is wasting my life, but I just stay at my bed everyday. I just felt numb and just want to stay at bed for the rest of my life, can I?
Yeah I feel that way a lot too, but maybe try something that you like and makes you feel good about yourself. You'll probably want to get out of bed to do it because you enjoy it. Like art or an instrument or plants or sport or something, that helps me when I feel unmotivated. Sorry if this is completely unhelpful
Im so hit of this video cause Im still a child but Im hit of the dissatisfaction, Dwell in the negativity, and I sometimes think of my bad past, and I forget to have fun. Which makes me cry inside...😭😭😭
When one chapter of your life ends and a new one begins, it’s easy to lose your identity while recreating yourself. The listed 7 scenarios are pitfalls that you can encounter without realizing it. Life happens. Always remember, live life to the fullest. Life is a gift not to be wasted.
So this made me realize that I spend waaay too much time thinking about my life and planning it out step by step. So I think I’m going to work on that by setting a designated time each week to think about the main goals I have in life and how I can work towards them in my daily life (for instance, learning Japanese, learning math, and being a great saxophone player can be studying Japanese and math and practicing my saxophone) as opposed to thinking about it constantly everyday
It‘s not life that gives you a purpose, it‘s you who should give you‘re life a purpose. Please never see yourself as a waste ever again. You just need some time and things will eventually come in place ;)
@@professionalgamer6522 I don’t I have that much to complain about but I could’ve done more I could’ve had more ambition I could’ve been more successful I could’ve made more of an impact but you blink your eye and 10 years goes by and you never commit to what you know you should be doing ...laziness is part of it
I have a neighbor who talks about the past, over analyzes things, and tries to prove to the world of how smart she is, and how much she knows all packed in and wrapped up in a box full of negativity. I used to be her soundboard but not anymore. So whenever I see my neighbor I only say two words: "Hello" and "Good-bye" I don't associate myself with folks who are not doing productive things in their life. Life is about having fun and living in the present. Worrying about everyone else, and worrying about what they feel, think, or say, is not only stressing, but it's also draining emotionally, and mentally.
