Hi Mr Hao and Dan, you are the best bilingual teachers of personal development. Your mums really should be proud of you. Thank you for using the PG rated languages in this tutorial. This is exactly the manners I want to teach my 2 primary school Aussie kids. You rocks! 👍👍😀
总结： Compliments 拍马屁 - I love your outfit, special outfit. (Don’t mention body part, especially the exposed one) The best wearing, their outfit, We can only choose what we wear - You are such a great friend. (appreciation to friend) - You smell amazing. -Have you been working out? Your body looks great. -You have got great a smile. -Your hair looks awesome. -You should be proud of yourself -I like your XXX. (anything) I like your energy and enthusiasm, it is infectious.
+郝给力, You're welcome! You're absolutely right! I feel great when I receive compliments and praise others as well. You know, I still remember that one of my Japanese classmates told me that "you shoes look good" even though I thought my shoes I was wearing then really sucked. I really appreciated her compliments and felt very confident! When we try to give compliments, or maybe white lies initially, to others, after a while, it kinda becomes a habit to compliment others and we also feel fantastic when we do that.
Great video. Learned a lot. By the way, Chinese girls will cover their mouth when they are smiling or laughing because of culture. In the traditional Chinese view, a lady should not let people look her teeth when she's smiling. I can remember my mather teaching me that when I was a kid.
I love this video except one little point. Actually I think we have different culture. It is true that many Chinese girls smile with their hands covering their mouths. However, I think it is not because they are not confident. There is a Chinese saying “笑不露齿”(smile without showing your teeth). It may be a habit from our culture. Since I am in a English-speaking country now, I should give more compliments to people around me. Thank you so much! I learned a lot!
