8 Behaviors of Female Insecurity That Turn Men Off - Are You Aware Of It?

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8 Behaviors of Female Insecurity That Turn Men Off - Are You Aware Of It?
Today I’ll be teaching you 8 Behaviors of Female Insecurity That Turn Men Off. Most men focus on what they see initially and don’t pay much attention to your insecure behaviors. But as time passes, he'll notice these behaviors, leading to him pulling away and ultimately exiting the relationship.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Initial Fact
00:50 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 01
01:44 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 02
02:42 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 03
03:22 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 04
04:08 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 05
04:58 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 06
05:55 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 07
06:33 Female Behaviors That Turn Men Off 08
07:46 Closing
If you want to build a lasting relationship with a mature man, pay attention to these 8 behaviors that I’ll mention. By learning to avoid them, you can become your most confident self who attracts love rather than chases it.
01. Constant Need for Reassurance
Needing validation constantly can be emotionally draining for your partner. It can make them feel like they're "walking on eggshells" around you.
02. Overanalyzing Every Interaction
Dwelling on the meaning behind every text or message can lead to misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict.
03. You're Too Easily Influenced
Being overly influenced by your partner's tastes can make you seem unsure of yourself. Embrace your own interests and opinions!
04. Putting Yourself Down
Negative self-talk can be damaging to your self-esteem and the relationship.
05. Being Competitive with Other Women
Constantly putting down other women can make your partner feel like they're in a competition.
06. You Rely Heavily On Your Sexuality
A healthy relationship goes beyond physical attraction. Don't use intimacy to manipulate or control your partner.
07. You Hate Spontaneity
Being inflexible and overly controlling can make you seem uptight and afraid to be yourself.
08. Pretending to Be Someone You're Not
A genuine connection is built on honesty. Don't try to be someone you're not to impress your partner.
Ismael Gomez III
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@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

Please support our RU-vid channel by Subscribing - ru-vid.com It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

@nayanaparmesh5343 5 дней назад

1.constant need for reassurance 2. Over analysing every interaction 3. You are too easily influenced /swayed 4. Putting yourself down 5. Being competitive with other women 6. You rely too heavily on your sexuality 7. Hate spontaneity 8. Pretending to be someone else

@sunshineagainandagain 5 дней назад

Some men do the same. They act the same and they turn us off too.

@HaleyMary 5 дней назад

A lot of men act the same way, especially how they rely heavily on their sexuality or pretend to be someone they're not. I will say that hating spontaneity should be okay. Some of us have very busy schedules or are introverts and need to know what the plans are way in advance. Maybe those of us who are introverts should only date other introverts.

@janice7378 4 дня назад

You are a blessing Thanks for the notes

@rl798 5 дней назад

My problems are that im too authentic, kind and independent for most people. Oh well, i am who i am. If people can't accept me for me than keep on moving.

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

I've personally found that the more authentic you are, the more you'll struggle to find people you can connect with. But once you find them, you'll have wonderful connections that others wish they had.

@CeciledeLuire 5 дней назад

Wow, that really hits home. Even if i'm working on showing my wishes more instead of being *too* independent... Because, from time to time, i love being around people that i can really rely on. And reliability to me shows also when someone treats me well when i show a vulnerability or that i'd like a shoulder to lean on for a minute. And yes, i have the same experience: The more free and loving including healthy boundaries i become , the more difficult it gets to find people that match. Still worth the journey though.

@blueskies773 5 дней назад

@@SaveTheMessengerthis is my challenge, too. People tell me that I’m authentic but I struggle to meet others who are who they say they are, too. It’s kind of scary to get to know someone and see the person they pretended to be unravel before your eyes. Or, they assume off the bat my kindness is fake and immediately treat me poorly. Makes me a little uncertain around people.

@priyanam1776 5 дней назад

Same here girl

@roser8911 4 дня назад

Yes girl. I was going to say same thing. Be who you are. You can’t pretend for a long time. L

@ayatkhan4960 5 дней назад

Ismael , I'm happy that i found u on my lowest . I was on the verge of losing myself completely. Your advices literally helped me to get over a dismissive avoidant . I'm really grateful. Thankyou so much 🙏🏻💐

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

Your comment brought a smile to my face. Thanks for letting me know.

@analauranobrega 5 дней назад

I think it all summons up to being a confident woman

@1trueloveforever 5 дней назад

both persons need to be confident and ready to enter into this relationship. It's okay to want words of validation but you are not dating a therapist and nobody should have to try to fix you all the time.

@taniadenise5145 5 дней назад

Amen!

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

I'm with you on that.

@marshaphonda7057 5 дней назад

The fear of changing plans can also be Autism. It doesn`t have to be a sign of insecurity, Ismael. 😉

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

Great point, lovely. There's always exceptions, especially if it comes down to a medial condition.

@ykt4343 5 дней назад

This video was so interesting. Thank you. I love it when you give examples inbetween including the personal ones you have from your own relationships. They make your message so much more clear to understand. I loved the one about how we should not change ourselves to suit what we think our partner likes. My partner had said quite early on in our relationship about how he likes women with long hair and I have a boycut but I never compromised and I stuck to what I wanted for myself and what makes me happy. He said would you ever grow your hair and I said no as I finally feel so happy with my hair and I don't want to. I said to him I wouldn't expect you to change your hair for me. We are still together. If we don't be ourselves eventually we will resent everything around us. If someone is not happy with the way you are then that person is not meant for you. I look forward to your next video, Ismael.

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

Thanks for sharing your experience with us.

@whiteorchid116 3 дня назад

I've personally struggled so much with being swayed too easily. I used to put so much effort into liking what my partner liked, his hobbies, eating certain foods, watching only what he likes because I'll have to like it too, and even dressing a certain way. He showed more interest in other women anyway and i felt exhausted from the effort so i had to leave him. If you didn't make this video, I'd probably go back to doing the same with my next partner. Thank you again Ismael. In fact, thank you always. ❤

@ElismaGoliath-jr7vk 3 дня назад

Thank you for your advice. It helps in so many ways. Much appreciated. ❤

@emmax0000 5 дней назад

Ismael, tus vídeos son inteligentes y atinados. Mucha suerte con tu canal!🙌🏼

@EsraaEsraagaber3001 5 дней назад

Ohhhh the firsttt,so reply Ismael🙆🏻‍♀️ I really like ur videos ,much love and support💗

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

Haha thanks dear. I appreciate it.

@EsraaEsraagaber3001 5 дней назад

@@SaveTheMessenger yaayyyyy!!

@alliswellthatendswell.7087 5 дней назад

Second one was me but now I changed and realised that it is silly to keep asking again and again. Now I communicate with one word

@ayeshasiddiqua1491 5 дней назад

This man deserve millions of attention ❤

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you.

@mariaguadagno9483 5 дней назад

Thank You!

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

Much appreciated 🙌

@manatiluna 5 дней назад

👋🏼 Hi from Germany. I subscribed. Never would have thought to learn so much from a young man. And I apriciate how respectful you talk to us. Muchisimas gracias 😊

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

From Germany and speaks English & Spanish. Bienvenida a mi canal.

@Cherrydearie 4 дня назад

I always find your content very mature and real. This didn't disappoint. Thank you for the wisdom you continually put out for us.

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

I’m grateful. What are your thoughts?

@elsagrace3893 2 дня назад

It’s normal to ask for reassurance especially if you aren’t getting any reassuring behaviors that show he values you.

@ghaili1175 5 дней назад

Thank you

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

I truly appreciate it.

@sarahrettell88 5 дней назад

Great content. 3, 4 & 6 are my pegs I’ll be taking to work on! Thank You 💎

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

Thanks! I'd love to hear your opinion.

@sarahrettell88 4 дня назад

@@SaveTheMessenger I believe when I boil it down. A lot of these ‘knee jerk’ reactions I display with #3, 4 & 6 come from my up bringing. A certain layer of religious upbringing Really influences these behaviors..

@kateelfridaodeh 3 дня назад

Thank goodness I found your channel. I used to be like this

@lindalika2846 5 дней назад

Thank you for your time and explanation as a women we need those thank you.

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

I appreciate it.

@Lotta_222 3 дня назад

Hi! Can you give some examples on how to be spontaneous? I would appreciate it :)

@suzanduplessis9393 4 дня назад

How can I fix things if he pulls away and I end up over stepping his boundaries?

@MeBDollarsT 5 дней назад

I think these are also turn offs for a woman in a man

@charlottecheverton9227 5 дней назад

I must need to change the way I feel about intimacy then as my guy just ghosted me and I’m not chasing him ,like I’ve done in the past, it’s hurting ! Mind you I’m not sending naked photos or the like ! That’s just crazy and opens up to a world of disaster from predators, thankfully I’m much more sensible and aware. So thanks for this,

@makelifematter1896 5 дней назад

Love all your advise as you know but number 4 is a tough one when being with a Narcissistic Abuser for 30 yrs meaning someone always belittling and putting you down but I'm working had on changing my way the Luke Combs Beatiful Crazy ...that's me 😊and the last one be honest it's the inside that matters who you are❤❤

@KarenSears-iu5ne 5 дней назад

Keep off the text and the phone he is right have him call you text is a game.

@robertivers4200 4 дня назад

External validation😮

@VirginiaZambrano-ov4ll 5 дней назад

Ismael, your background with the doors one open and the other locked is somehow distracting. Maybe it brings memories of my past the men who got away and the ones who stayed.... it is strange how my mind thinks. Hope to have a love connection soon.

@KarenSears-iu5ne 5 дней назад

They can say anything on text even phone it's not worth it have him call you so not always answer it❤❤

@4d.4c.4b4 4 дня назад

"Say what you mean and mean what you say" - how do I know if he is saying what he says and meaning what he is saying? I am guilty and shameful about some of these because I believed I pushed him away because of the way I behaved. He said I didn't do anything wrong but I know well I did/said some wrong things too but wake-up call to be working on myself. Naturally, I like explaining myself a bit too much but mostly when the person involved is avoiding open communication, I ended up o sending long messages unfortunately 😞😔

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

I would say always pay attention to their actions over their words. If someone says they're devoted and mature, but then you see they lack communication skills, they're inconsistent in the way they show up, then their words mean nothing.

@lillired857 4 дня назад

ive yet to meet a man who didnt just want a Mum and sexual partner. Maybe thats why i stayed single, despite 11 proposals. I clearly need to stay away.

@veredcohen9079 5 дней назад

Some people see manners as an insecurity 🤦‍♀️

@shakilamalki8510 5 дней назад

My best coach ever from srilanka ❤

@SaveTheMessenger 4 дня назад

You should see the smile on my face right now.

@shakilamalki8510 4 дня назад

@@SaveTheMessenger 🙏🙏🙏❤ you deserve more smile as your name 😊❤

@zullmiramajid475 2 дня назад

Relationship are NOT supposed to be this complicated. We just happened to be alive in a very bad time. Dont put too much blame on ourslves, the materilism, family unit breakdowns, no drive for expanding the legacy, no sense of community where people remind each other to build a family etc all led to what we see today. Having a husband became a privilege instead of a default state in our generation. Our parents failed us by not teaching us about life, they ruined us big time, all of us!

@lz8927 5 дней назад

The last one just contradicted everythig you said before. Don't do all the other stuff BUT be authentic. I keep hearing women are damned if they. do and damned if they don't with everything nowadays and this one just proves it.

@Gotoworkkk 5 дней назад

Authentically independent , confident and not a crybaby!

@SaveTheMessenger 5 дней назад

What does being authentic mean to you? Because I think that's what may be creating confusion.

@mysteriousme3006 5 дней назад

😂😂😂I'm usually not their type though, 😂😂😂304 not me!

@lindageiling5922 2 дня назад

Wouldn't it make a woman insecure when the man talks to u about the beautiful young women he works with . He never helps me feel better. He tells me I need to make myself feel better. He never says I look good or r even attractive. Why don't he do that. I'm guilty of many of these things

@SaveTheMessenger 2 дня назад

Sounds like someone who doesn't lift you up. Why would you want to be by his side?

@priyanam1776 5 дней назад

The amount of pretention boys have...

@effortlesssuccess2585 5 дней назад

I think it’s hilarious that you said men find it unattractive when women ask for reassurance. The only reassurance that you need is the look on the guy’s face. If his eyes doesn’t light up and he’s doesn’t have a smile on his face, it means you need to work more on yourself. 😂

@ykt4343 5 дней назад

We should not need the reassurance. We need to just feel happy with how we feel about ourselves. We should not need to look for reassurance from anyone.

@effortlesssuccess2585 5 дней назад

@@ykt4343 If you don’t know how to put yourself together to look good for yourself and your man, he’s going to be looking for better. No one wants to be with an average person.