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8 Habits of Healthy Relationships 

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Healthy relationships are when both partners to feel supported and connected but still feel independent. So, what are the habits partners have to sustain a good relationship? Are you looking for dating advice on how to maintain a healthy relationship? Or dating tips on how to keep an active and healthy interaction between you and someone? Here are 6 habits to keep a healthy relationship.
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Writer: Veronica Ma
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VO: Lily Hu
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Mason, T. (2020, May 14). 12 Powerful Habits of Happy Relationships. Lifehack. Retrieved from www.lifehack.o...
Virgo, J. (2017, April 7). 11 Habits of Healthy Couples. The Every Girl. Retrieved from theeverygirl.c...

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@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад
"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." --Dr. Seuss
@mariunfabregas7533
@mariunfabregas7533 3 года назад
Lmao I bet that's what he felt for his mistress while his wife was battling cancer
@mrspiral13
@mrspiral13 2 года назад
not being able to fall asleep sounds so healthy
@herticate8579
@herticate8579 2 года назад
@@mariunfabregas7533 haahahahaa, that was so spot on.
@catnap6966
@catnap6966 2 года назад
@@mariunfabregas7533 DAMMM
@aiyanawalker2793
@aiyanawalker2793 2 года назад
@@herticate8579 Mm M
@BeastlyBadWolf
@BeastlyBadWolf 4 года назад
Respect her, make her your best friend and never lie to her. That’s how I treat my Girlfriend
@kaylamaebaccay447
@kaylamaebaccay447 4 года назад
She’s a special girl 🥺♥️
@kassey9475
@kassey9475 4 года назад
Aww ❤️
@alexloveschocolate8274
@alexloveschocolate8274 4 года назад
Awwe shoutout to youu u-u✨
@sararoseallard868
@sararoseallard868 4 года назад
Someone get this man an award. Thank you!
@kaar951
@kaar951 4 года назад
Awwwww
@ObsidianHearts
@ObsidianHearts 2 года назад
1.) You show your affection 2.) You are able to communicate 3.) You emotional bond with them 4.) You make up after arguments 5.) You appreciate each other 6.) See a future together 7.) Balance housework 8.) Give each other personal space
@XJBaerCub
@XJBaerCub 2 года назад
@Riverz Wyte oh I see, you're a spammer
@unpopularskyler7494
@unpopularskyler7494 2 года назад
@Riverz Wyte I lost a few braincells reading this
@Gunngirl
@Gunngirl 2 года назад
Thank you👍🏿
@Angel-gc1gn
@Angel-gc1gn 2 года назад
We both have all of those but sometimes 2.) we struggle with when were both sad at the same time
@scandicgamer3071
@scandicgamer3071 2 года назад
Hmm sounds like a relationship I am about to go into has all of those qualities
@natashamerline
@natashamerline 2 года назад
When you're in a wrong relationship, 6 months relationship will feel like forever. When you're in a right relationship, a 5 year relationship will feel like a few weeks.
@LifeisaBeautifulting
@LifeisaBeautifulting Год назад
Nope it's the opposite. In the beginning stages of my relationship, it felt like we were together for at least a year. We're seven months in and it feels like I've known him for years, so many fond memories already ❤️
@brbcryingrn
@brbcryingrn Год назад
Exactly. I remember in my past relationship I wasn't happy at all. It felt like as if it's been long we're dating each other but we did break up because it didn't last long but now I'm in a happy relationship with someone I know since 3 years
@Whimmery
@Whimmery 11 месяцев назад
Thiiiiiiis
@nightbrite2595
@nightbrite2595 3 месяца назад
@@LifeisaBeautifultingme and my fiancé make 5 years this summer! We felt the same way when we started dating and it went by so fast
@DineshSingh-ei8bo
@DineshSingh-ei8bo 2 месяца назад
I don't have a partner but I'm still watching
@barakucerova987
@barakucerova987 2 года назад
For anyone out there who's confused and unsure how a strong, healthy relationship looks like, I'd add to this video one thing: true love comes in the small, everyday things. When I was tired one day but failed to fall asleep, my dearest brought me warm milk with honey out of the blue to help me fall asleep. That's better than thousand gifts and thousand roses followed by silence.
@ralphisxamida8533
@ralphisxamida8533 2 года назад
Absolutely. I would like to add: Little compromises. Like I love long spaghetti and my husband doesn't. But from time to time he says: "We hadn't the long spaghetti for a while. Come we use them this time."
@jmiod2819
@jmiod2819 2 года назад
Aww that was rlly sweet of them, and youre right it really is about those littls things every day
@benladeb
@benladeb 2 года назад
Shit my gf dislike milk... We will never be happy ;-;
@mogy6492
@mogy6492 2 года назад
Aww, my bf has a supperrr long day and was exhausted but still took the time to ask how my day was and comfort me since I had had a bad day before sleeping, it might be simple, but it meant a lot to me. And the other day i brought him his favorite snacks when he was at work. It really is the small things
@mogy6492
@mogy6492 2 года назад
@@ralphisxamida8533 thats adoraaaabllleee! My bf is picky and if i wanted something he doesnt like i'd just end up making it for myself and he'd make himself a sandwich or something 😂
@vm560
@vm560 4 года назад
It’s crazy how different being in a healthy relationship does to you. I was in a toxic one before and I really thought that being yelled at, humiliated, lied to bc i ‘deserve’ it, and all of the bad things were normal, and that it was my fault for making things worse by asking questions or getting my feelings involved. Bro now I’m in such a healthy relationship that we don’t argue because we TALK. Arguing and talking are two completely different things, did yall know that!?? Lmao it’s just so crazy how my partner actually wants to know how I feel and what my love language is so she can treat me better. I am so attracted to my partner physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally..geez all of the above. She’s even got me here wanting to fix my family problems too! Don’t settle for less yall, because there IS someone better.
@RedRoseSeptember22
@RedRoseSeptember22 4 года назад
That's good!!!
@ElizRued
@ElizRued 4 года назад
I'm so happy for u. I'm experiencing the same with my current partner. Cheers and may god blessed all of us more!!!
@soundaryamenmozhiyal
@soundaryamenmozhiyal 4 года назад
I am happy that you found the right one!!😊
@selenehernandez8279
@selenehernandez8279 4 года назад
I relate and I'm happy for you ❤️ that's progress
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 года назад
Maybe... JUST maybe... an argument can still be an argument, BUT the methods of PROposing an argument are different from IMposing that same argument...You can still argue the least popular Point of View in the room, BUT while proposing well, you do NOT have to impose your personal POV nor engage in a shouting match... A genuinely "good" partner can draw that from you. ;o)
@claire9320
@claire9320 2 года назад
Communication is absolutely key. Communicate how you're feeling, what you think about things, when you're happy, when you're sad. I've found 9/10 arguments or misunderstandings are solved by just talking to one another like equals. Sounds basic & obvious, but you'd be surprised how little some people do it.
@eaaeeeea
@eaaeeeea 29 дней назад
Communication's ability to heal a relationship comes crashing down when 1) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes because the other person "should know this already" 2) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes because the other person "never listens" and 3) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes. Nobody is a mind reader.
@bumblebeehappy
@bumblebeehappy 2 года назад
A huge thing is respecting and communicating boundaries as well, and coming together to a middle ground. If one person has boundaries that the other ignores, and said party has to just deal with it, it leads to a lot of arguments and pent up anger. Sometimes people can't accept that if someone doesn't want to respect your boundaries, no matter how much you love them, it's best to let them go and find someone who will.
@rhondaberrios8326
@rhondaberrios8326 2 года назад
Amen
@Vaxfaxxal
@Vaxfaxxal 6 месяцев назад
Amen
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." --Maya Angelou
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
what do you do to someone "like me" who has no real emotion and instead acts like they do
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@vanillahibiscus486 forget, I forgot what a happy memory is ps i love how i watch these with my mental heath being unhealthy and doing nothing
@RedRoseSeptember22
@RedRoseSeptember22 4 года назад
Yep ♥
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@RedRoseSeptember22 oh and i had girlfriend. . . for 5 weeks and 3 days
@soniiabaybee
@soniiabaybee 4 года назад
Not true.. I remember what they did what was said etc and how it made me feel and how I walked away. X)
@fruitypatchouli
@fruitypatchouli 4 года назад
I write my fiance love letters out of the blue to remind him that he's the one for me. I also like to give him massages after a long day of work without the pressure of sex. Sometimes it's nice to know that you can just relax without having to worry about that stuff. Especially when you're tired. He buys me flowers out of the blue, and when we have low funds, he picks them for me. 🌷 He's also a chef who makes beautiful meals for us, and introduces me to foods I've never had. 👨‍🍳😍
@topazjas
@topazjas 4 года назад
food is such an awesome way to connect people. my fiancé and i love to cook together. it’s some of my most cherished moments i have with him.
@fruitypatchouli
@fruitypatchouli 4 года назад
@RudGrl lmao hell yeah
@Sol-rk7ze
@Sol-rk7ze 4 года назад
this comment made my day :)
@yang9214
@yang9214 3 года назад
SanaoL
@angela-ol9rd
@angela-ol9rd 3 года назад
That's really sweet. 💛
@WiseMysticMotivation
@WiseMysticMotivation 2 года назад
You deserve a soul-to-soul relationship. Your soulmate will vibe with you, heal with you, grow with you, evolve with you and make you love yourself more.❤
@imgoodkinda
@imgoodkinda 14 дней назад
If I have one but I don't unfortunately 😢
@hobodoge2630
@hobodoge2630 2 года назад
I have been in a long distance relationship for more than 2 years now, it can be incredibly difficult at times but every summer we make an effort to see each other in person. We have every one of these habits but I still feel like theres a distance when we’re apart. Advice I have for anybody who is going into or is already in a long distance relationship is that after the initial lovey dovey phase and somewhere between the 8-12 month mark take a trip to see them. This can really solidify the relationship between you two and can give you insight if you’ll be with them in the future. If you still love them with all your heart and you have to leave that feeling might be fade away or it may feel like the love gone. I want you to remember back to when you were with them in person and remember how you felt. This always helps me get through a day where I have a lot of anxiety, I know when I’m next to my lover I’m going to feel that same love in the future. It may sound weird but this really helps, at least for me anyway. Feel free to share your experiences with online relationships or if you need advice I can try my best to help!
@user-sc6jg9mc3f
@user-sc6jg9mc3f 10 месяцев назад
I do need advice
@silentcape890
@silentcape890 10 месяцев назад
Me to
@jurenlopio6301
@jurenlopio6301 10 месяцев назад
Going through this now 😅
@ReMiLase
@ReMiLase 4 года назад
*Watching these videos so I can take notes because I’m single.*
@-aboodfrost-2779
@-aboodfrost-2779 4 года назад
You’re not the only one, you know
@JorgeFoxHounder
@JorgeFoxHounder 4 года назад
me too
@omura00
@omura00 4 года назад
Same 🤣
@queensaharaice7376
@queensaharaice7376 4 года назад
Aye, single sqaud!😎
@fucktheilluminati502
@fucktheilluminati502 4 года назад
Aye...
@danielladesio5110
@danielladesio5110 3 года назад
what i've learned being in my healthy relationship: - give each other room to grow/change/mature. always love the person for who they are, not who you want them to be - walk away from arguments so no one says anything hurtful in the moment, and come back when both partners are calmer - jealousy and suffocation often go hand in hand. let them be. if they really love you, they'll never hurt you. - remind them how loved they are every chance you get - tell them you're proud of them. they might not be hearing it from other people - choose them every single day, especially during difficult times - let them pick the restaurant every once in awhile ;)
@donnahardy7629
@donnahardy7629 3 года назад
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@deniserobles4603
@deniserobles4603 2 года назад
Love this comment! Thanks for sharing 💕
@diegoanimations9504
@diegoanimations9504 2 года назад
Okay I do all these but wait a minute. The moment we get to picking the restaurant it always turns out whatever you want babe, coupled with the fact that I'm the most indecisive human on earth and we just end up not eating LMFAO
@tenacdur447
@tenacdur447 2 года назад
Some of us are so sensitive that they can hurt us while still having good intentions.
@why_sojaded
@why_sojaded 2 года назад
@@diegoanimations9504 I watched a TikTok about this a bit ago. They suggested keeping a list of your favorite restaurants. If it's her turn, ask her what food she's craving, look through the list, and then give her the top three restaurants that fit that.
@OMGSHEENA
@OMGSHEENA 2 года назад
It is so nice to finally be in a healthy relationship that checks these boxes. ❤️ We trust each other, respect each other, show affection and appreciation, we are truly a team and I've never felt more loved. I wish this kind of love for everyone! 💗
@Gabriel_99834
@Gabriel_99834 Месяц назад
Same here!
@kenny-nk5db
@kenny-nk5db 4 года назад
summary: 1. You show your affection 1:01 2. You are able to communicate with each other 1:25 3. You emotionally bond with them 1:48 4. You make up after arguments 2:12 5. You appreciate each other 2:37 6. You see a future together 3:01 7. You balance housework 3:24 8. You give each other personal space 3:52 Recommend watching to learn more 💕
@peggz223
@peggz223 4 года назад
Thanks chief 🙏
@l-3832
@l-3832 4 года назад
Thank you :)
@anubisd613
@anubisd613 4 года назад
Impossible
@Papigeoh
@Papigeoh 4 года назад
Thanks brother I appreciate this from you !
@jaywatson6261
@jaywatson6261 4 года назад
Thank you for the summary 👍🏿
@mrboogiethecat4187
@mrboogiethecat4187 4 года назад
If anyone feels like they need a hug currently, me and my cat are watching together and she says *meow, virtual cat hug meow *
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
I don't need a hug I need a life
@ihavenolife7032
@ihavenolife7032 4 года назад
Enchanted Ink Welcome to the club m8 :/
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@ihavenolife7032 and maybe a real personality
@dutawe
@dutawe 4 года назад
Enchanted Ink haha, yeah, i dont have a personality
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@dutawe i can't be all mad after all my persona makes it so people don't offer help, pity me, or say just be happy and lets just say my second persona isn't one that should be shown oh and i dumped a girl after a few weeks
@bengie2015
@bengie2015 Год назад
I’m currently talking to a girl and I realized last night that I had the potential to make it unhealthy because I’ve never had something where Personal Space is a thing and she doesn’t need to depend on me ALL the time. My last relationship was toxic in that sense. She has a bestie and she has her own friends and so do I, but I always tried to be with her all the time. This video just made me realize that she needs boundaries, but really I do too. And that I could also use light therapy because my last relationship was traumatic 😭
@SydneyBrooks1
@SydneyBrooks1 Год назад
Therapy may seem scary but actually helps a lot! You can pick your therapist and treat them like an old friend when you meet with them.
@chief_teep
@chief_teep Год назад
This hit me hard, man. I’m in the same situation and realized the same thing about myself last night. It’s uplifting to see someone else is experiencing the same thing and working to create their own boundaries. You’ve got this, friend!
@achillesroblox
@achillesroblox Год назад
What do I do when all I can think about is them. I have my own friends, do my own shit, but I’d always think about them. We are far apart and whenever they take too long to respond, I always overthink and get so emotional. I know there are boundaries yet still I am a very emotional person.
@moujayay
@moujayay Год назад
@@achillesroblox I think it is not always bad to feel alone being without the other. Boundaries can be something really simple as your own bank account, going for walks or groceries without the other. having your own space in a room the other don't clean up without asking. Or simply being able to read a book without getting interrupted. Not all boundaries need to be physical or hard drawn. I live with my bf for 6/7 years now and we shared his room at his parent's before that for way too long ( 14 years relationship). Some boundaries aren't possible space wise and others aren't wanted depending on the persons. Just talk with your partner what boundaries you expect and what they expect. You should find a middleground for you individually.
@andrewdijoseph9296
@andrewdijoseph9296 Год назад
I’m sorry Bengie, you will be okay my man. Let the past be the past, and form new habits that better your life, take it as a lesson :)
@Sherburtz
@Sherburtz 2 года назад
after so many toxic relationships, i finally understood what an actual healthy relationship is supposed to be like thanks to my current 🥰 i realised the things i used to worry and stress about when i was with my exes, no longer haunt me anymore. and i cant explain that feeling of relief and weight that has been lifted off my shoulders all bc of him. as much as its not his responsibility, he taught me to love myself again and i have no words to show how grateful and lucky i am to have him be part of my life.
@annap-g2184
@annap-g2184 4 года назад
I would add - helping each other grow, and sometimes it means discussing hindering habits, which hurt the ego. People who enable each other in their bad habits can seem happy but in reality have a very stagnant relationship.
@vaibhavsagar117
@vaibhavsagar117 3 года назад
I put all my time and am open to share my knowledge and resources with her .. I want to grow together but what if all she wants is someone to talk to and wastes all her time online ?
@annap-g2184
@annap-g2184 3 года назад
@@vaibhavsagar117 ask her what she wants 🌻
@vaibhavsagar117
@vaibhavsagar117 3 года назад
All she wants is someone to text her every few hours and do small talks like did you eat , what are you doin , where are you ... I would like to have some educational combo too but nah ... She doesn't do that
@annap-g2184
@annap-g2184 3 года назад
@@vaibhavsagar117 it seems like you guys value different things in relationships and it seems like it makes you feel frustrated. I get it, too much small talk makes me feel completely depleated. Why don’t you keep her as an acquaintance and give her less of your precious time. When that happens you will have more time to invest in a person who also values growth in a relationship.
@bigsmokiee55
@bigsmokiee55 3 года назад
Yes! There’s intangible constructs too in a relationship. It can dwindle, then what do you do to make your relationship stronger? Get married. Happens again? Have kids. Kids moved out? Now those responsibilities are gone, and there’s more time for the relationship. Has there been a spark the whole time? Have you made your partner feel chases the entire time? Commitment doesn’t correlate to love in a relationship, but love in a relationship has effortless commitment.
@ginny5937
@ginny5937 4 года назад
A good sense of humour is essential!😉 ( my hubby and I are in our 38 th year of marriage).
@jerene6804
@jerene6804 4 года назад
Congratulations
@priscillajimenez27
@priscillajimenez27 4 года назад
Awwww ☺️
@angxlkitty753
@angxlkitty753 4 года назад
♥️
@kitharaj
@kitharaj 4 года назад
Beautiful!! 💕
@chlloehorne
@chlloehorne 3 года назад
can u give more advice/tips about how you stayed together for 38 years.
@ryancondie283
@ryancondie283 Год назад
My wife and I watched this together and we tick all the boxes! With regards to household chores, we find a 60/40 split works where both people are trying to be the ones doing 60% of the work. That way if one person is sick, the other is ready to take over the extra work right away.
@bro_im_dead_794
@bro_im_dead_794 9 месяцев назад
Have a good relationship man with her man don't lose her and don't let her lose you let it last forever
@ZyInTheGym
@ZyInTheGym 2 года назад
My Personal Experience in a Relationship: -Always be there for them -Write them letters or Express your feelings to them everyday -Tell them you love them everyday -Give them hugs when they need it or just give them all the time -Find enough quality time for each other -Don't focus on something else such as your phone or others while your with them (For me, It's a good way so you can have a good time rather than being distracted) -Treat them well and Smile everyday at them that your happy to see them -Hear their thoughts out and don't pressure or get mad at them unless you have a reason to -Say you won't ever leave them -Share a kiss every now and then -If they have mental breakdowns always comfort them, If they refuse or won't let you, Don't overreact and force yourself because they also need some alone time -Tell them what's wrong so they can help you or can talk it out -Don't text dry or talk less to them in person or online because they think your uninterested to them or they think you don't love them Hope some of these can make your relationship healthier and stronger with your partner. :) Edit: - Also love your partner for who they are and never change them and also be yourself to them. Be someone that's you that they will love and don't try to be cool because it makes them less interested and don't show off on anything you have and always be supportive towards them.
@Akiorinn
@Akiorinn Год назад
She's all in here, she don't wanna help her out, she don't wanna talk about the problems we had, she usually dry text when I don't even know what's happening and what's wrong, I... don't fuckin understand love. I hate this trauma i had.
@oddity4353
@oddity4353 2 года назад
Never judge a book by it's cover. When I met my boyfriend, he was smoking and drinking a lot, but as we began dating and I expressed my wish that he would quit smoking and lessen drinking, he did. It took some time and at some point it looked like we weren't meant to be and he just wasn't ready to let go of that, but he proved to me that he was able to do it for the sake of our relationship. I too have things he wanted me to improve on and I'm working on them as well! We've been together for 4 years now.
@rewa6946
@rewa6946 2 года назад
That gave me hope🌼 I wish u guys the best :-)
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
@gamerwithnoobskill7660 2 года назад
I hope that you will be together till death. Amen.
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
@gamerwithnoobskill7660 2 года назад
BTW how are you guys doing now.
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
@gamerwithnoobskill7660 2 года назад
Are you still together. I HOPE SO.
@SuhFrosty
@SuhFrosty 2 года назад
Same here! How are you both??
@sudarshanv7246
@sudarshanv7246 2 года назад
After every argument, we take turns and tell at least 3 things that we like about each other. It keeps the balance in the right point.
@sahar1213
@sahar1213 2 года назад
that sounds like a great idea
@emayan06
@emayan06 2 года назад
I like this.
@danyagha5654
@danyagha5654 2 года назад
Plot twist, u r inconceivable 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
@divya_sancheti04
@divya_sancheti04 Год назад
Nice
@angelespadilla6497
@angelespadilla6497 Год назад
@@danyagha5654 u just want to ruin relationships don’t you? I know that you’re jealous, but go to hell.
@86naiky
@86naiky Год назад
I think it's also very important to thank each other for the small thing they do, but also for chores they do etc. My mom never did that so I learned the value of it a long time ago and brought it in my relationship. You can't imagine how good it feels if your partner says: Well done, thank you for taking this of my hands/doing this.
@blqerror7884
@blqerror7884 Год назад
Communication is very important and I learned that with my current relationship. I used to be emotionally immature but now I have improved although I’m still working on it. This is talking from a girl’s perspective and in my experience: guys are simple minded and can sometimes be a bit dense (ofc everyone is different). so when I act immature like being dry and give him a silent treatment whenever he ignores me for hours, I learned that it doesn’t benefit anybody because I would still feel shit and he wouldn’t pick that up most of the time. As we progressed into this relationship we both discussed about how we would communicate better. I tell him what bothers me and be straight forward in the most gentle way as possible because I don’t want to sound like a dramatic gf… and that works very well in my relationship. I became better with my emotional maturity as I progressed into this relationship and overall makes me slowly become a better person. What I’m trying to say is that If ur partner makes you become a better person, it shows ur in a healthy relationship :)
@taymason
@taymason Год назад
This is a powerful comment -- I admire your self awareness. Communication is paramount!!
@hauntedheartss
@hauntedheartss 4 года назад
I wish they showed theses videos at school instead of those other ones. I have learned more about my mental health here than I have in school.
@elinehegrand5487
@elinehegrand5487 4 года назад
Periodt
@cjohnson3684
@cjohnson3684 3 года назад
Slow clap. Yes
@springtrap8434
@springtrap8434 3 года назад
i mean schools just want you to learn what is traditional and for this kind of stuff ig you are the one who shld learn them and they don't care if u learn this kinda mental health stuff or not at schl :(
@jennyjacobsen6537
@jennyjacobsen6537 4 года назад
I have been married 23 years and our relationship has been flourishing. We have 2 grown men! I think trust, affection and forgiveness are crucial In a relationship. I loved this list and agree.
@fu3g0100
@fu3g0100 3 года назад
Im totally agree, overall with "forgiveness" my ex wife (we're divorcing right now) told me that she can't and won't never forgive me for my mistakes (I've never cheated on her or something like that, I recognize my defaults) while I Forgave her for punching me, split my face, say that I'm useless , I deserve to die and all other stuff when we were discussing... Anyways, even if I didn't wanted to divorce I'm starting to see the toxic relationship that I was having with her. In her own words " I'm too resentful and I'll never be available to forgive you" ...
@jimmoriarty4530
@jimmoriarty4530 2 года назад
@@fu3g0100 😂 you let her do that to you? how can a man become such spineless? No wonder she left you
@jimmoriarty4530
@jimmoriarty4530 2 года назад
@bree A man wouldn't get treated like that he would make her learn her place. She is clearly a narcissist women and he was her best victim. She would not be able to treat a normal guy with such an attitude. Any normal guy would have left the relationship earlier , so this guy has severe insecurity issues and lack testosterone I guess, there is no ounce of masculinity in him maybe thats why she treated him this way majority of woman hate such men and have a tendency to shame them or punish them. Men are attracted to feminity and woman are attracted to masculinity. This guy lacks masculinity maybe due to lack of strong male role models and that resulted in low confidence and low self esteem. Men need masculine energy, without it men are lost, they become unpredictable, insecure or dangerous. Look at all the rapists and psychos out there almost all of them lack male role models and have narcissist single mothers. Men with good male role models have good self esteem and do good things in society and have more confidence He may have copied some females in his childhood, that is ok for a woman but it is not healthy for a man. Best thing he could do is having more company with men, go to gym and have fight (i mean boxing training). If you are a woman you wouldn't understand its postive effect on men, but for men its a great relief.
@Natalie-Cornacchione
@Natalie-Cornacchione 2 года назад
Goals right there
@rosyrose4763
@rosyrose4763 2 года назад
@@jimmoriarty4530 you are literally the definition of “ boys don’t cry” men and woman, in fact ANY gender is aloud to have emotions and saying the he wasn’t masculine enough and that, that was the reason that woman left is shameful honestly 😕 I know you were just stating your opinion but please be considerate of other’s feelings before you post something, being in a toxic relationship is really hard whether it is romantically or not it’s toxic either way, it’s not easy to get away from it, they manipulate you to think that what their doing is normal and because you love them you believe them and go along with it I’m sorry if I offended you but please don’t comment things like this
@LexyInspired
@LexyInspired Год назад
I was having a hard time the other day and was feeling really overwhelmed and my love just held me and listened to me talk. He had so much love in his eyes as he listened to me that I felt grateful for him just being there. And basically, when I was talking to him I figured out my own solution lol
@rocketno46
@rocketno46 Год назад
In our household, we have a clear rule of "personal space". Our son has a form of autism and ADD/ADHD. We love him with all we have, but sometimes he is too much for one parent. I work full-time, my wife works part-time. Every day we discuss our days, and work out a balance between personal space and caring for our son.
@arielm1374
@arielm1374 2 года назад
Our 6-year anniversary is next month... time really flies when your partner is also your best friend. We've been through some craziness together but I think it's only made us stronger and taught us a lot of life lessons.
@shaneekrichely8445
@shaneekrichely8445 2 года назад
Wow congratulations I’m so happy for you. I hope me and my girlfriend last that long
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
@gamerwithnoobskill7660 2 года назад
Hello I will pray for your best and may you and your husband/wife stay together till death. BTW how are you guys doing now.
@FaithWasntTaken
@FaithWasntTaken 2 года назад
@@shaneekrichely8445 Did you guys last?
@shaneekrichely8445
@shaneekrichely8445 2 года назад
@@FaithWasntTaken lmao were only at 9 months rn… but it’s going good so I hope
@chlo5233
@chlo5233 2 года назад
how have yall lived each other for so long? i feel as if my bf is getting bored of me, he doesnt really ask yo hang out anymore and hes gotten dry… how do i fix that?
@ashestoashes_beastobeas
@ashestoashes_beastobeas 2 года назад
Something me and my partner always do is that when we get into a scuffle, we take some time to cool off, then discuss the problem and solve it. It's always us against the problem, not against each other. Taking the time to figure out what's wrong and how to prevent something like that from happening has really helped us.
@clemenIemon
@clemenIemon 2 года назад
this is something i’m still trying to get used to, when he says he wants time to himself for a while after our fight it makes me think he doesn’t want me anymore. i’ve never done this kind of thing with anyone before so to know that it’s good to cool off then discuss the problem is very reassuring :)
@courtneyawalsh
@courtneyawalsh Год назад
“Us against the problem…not us against each other.” Well said.
@divya_sancheti04
@divya_sancheti04 Год назад
"Its always us against the problem and not us against e/o" Wow. Love that line nd mindset!!
@skellytits
@skellytits Год назад
This sounds very healthy and helpful thank you
@ifrmics
@ifrmics Год назад
That sounds comforting.
@zackp7027
@zackp7027 Год назад
It sucks when your relationship was composed of almost all of these signs yet after 5 years you're left wondering where it all went wrong. I don't know what else I could have done.
@Cherrycreamsoda1
@Cherrycreamsoda1 Год назад
I'm sorry to hear that.. I know it hurts right now but one day you will realise there is a reason relationships break down, why people leave, or reject, or cheat. There is someone out there who is probably even more suitable than the last one! Hang in there and keep your chin up bro 🤗❤
@zackp7027
@zackp7027 Год назад
Just following up for any who comes across this, the comment replying to me is right. I've been through a winding journey the last few weeks taking me through a ridiculous range of content and self discoveries. I'd have to say there were definitely factors in play, differences between love languages, attachment styles and long term goals. With being so Conscientious I'm very emotionally aware/receptive, while my now ex has always acted on impulse including a bad spending problem/habbit. There were so many amazing things and moments it's hard to acknowledge, but if you truly want to get over someone, look at the situation as it truly is, not as you want to see it.
@jackthecommenter2768
@jackthecommenter2768 Год назад
@@Cherrycreamsoda1 is it weird to find someone that you JUST KNOW you are going to stay with for a long time because after I got dumped my best friend was there for me and I started to realize how relatable we are and how goofy and funny we can be and later we now started dating and HONESTLY I’m just so happy because we want to stick together!
@jackthecommenter2768
@jackthecommenter2768 Год назад
@@Cherrycreamsoda1 I didn’t mention everything but I’m telling you that we are absolutely so good for each-other and I just wonder if it’s normal to feel that way and be 100% confident and just find someone who is just that relatable and a good communicator and a good best friend and lover?
@C0M3TXDX3
@C0M3TXDX3 2 месяца назад
Was in a toxic relationship, thought being yelled at and pressured into things were ‘normal’. Now that I’m in a healthy relationship, I can communicate and take things slow with him without feeling anxious. I love him and I see a future with him. ❤
@rzuue
@rzuue 2 года назад
For me the “showing affection” part is what really made the difference in the relationship I had with my boyfriend before we got together and other friends - and still sets it apart. I can become friends with people quickly and be open, but being affectionate or touching others has always been difficult for me. I’m not a very touchy person - except with my boyfriend. I’m also the most open about insecurities and showing my weaknesses, being vulnerable. And we both agree that talking is key in a relationship. He sometimes wants to hold back from telling me things because he doesn’t want to make me sad, but when I ask him to tell me, because I believe that I need to know if I did something wrong or if he doesn’t feel that good about something, he does. Yes, one time it really hurt me, but if he wouldn’t have told me, I might have hurt him again unknowingly. I’m also better at handling my anger. When I feel upset about something, I think about again and ask myself “If I do as I’m feeling and am all cranky - would that be worth the fight we might have? Would that help? Or don’t I just rather want to hug him and maybe calmly tell him what I didn’t like?” Usually it makes me calm down. Acting out of anger usually doesn’t help.
@userm180
@userm180 2 года назад
proud of u
@katiekey4643
@katiekey4643 2 года назад
That's a really rational mindset. I can tell your consciencious-ness will serve you well
@johnchristianguevarra7320
@johnchristianguevarra7320 2 года назад
what if your partner is happy with someone. and thinking that person is only making friends with her but actually flirting with her. but no matter how you warn her she still choose to make him her "forever bestfriend". and it creates so much anxiety on me and so many insecurities.
@rzuue
@rzuue 2 года назад
@@johnchristianguevarra7320 well, you try your best to communicate those exact feelings, how anxious it makes you. But I also believe it’s important to say, that you don’t intend to forbid her anything or force her to terminate the friendship. You just want to put your honest and true feelings out there and hope, you can figure something out together. Maybe she can try to imagine herself in your place to empathise with you. And I really recommend to make sure you’re as calm as possible before you start talking about it. You wouldn’t want a fight, but you want to be understood and you want your feelings to be considered too.
@blye879
@blye879 Год назад
i can relate to u in terms of the emotional side and feeling sad and all. i personally am not good at thinking before acting so the questions you wrote out are super helpful, and i’ll probably use them in the future, so thank you ❤
@ogbm4338
@ogbm4338 4 года назад
Me: “It’s like these videos are directed at me.” Everyone else: “No, they’re directed to all of us lol.”
@azzz3212
@azzz3212 4 года назад
Fellow communism
@dogie1070
@dogie1070 4 года назад
Funny how they can create content that is so relatable to so many! Good job, Psych to Go!
@nalaatteloney3871
@nalaatteloney3871 4 года назад
True
@iluvmylifesoreal
@iluvmylifesoreal 4 года назад
Ikr
@letsjustdirtbike
@letsjustdirtbike 2 года назад
Finally! A positive video! I’ve been scrolling for weeks and I kept seeing “Signs of a Narcissist” “Signs You’re In A Unhealthy Relationship” etc. This is so nice! :)
@mr.x_veryfaceless3967
@mr.x_veryfaceless3967 2 года назад
Im so happy my current relationship applies to all of this because i used to be in a pretty toxic relationship and i loves the girl so much but then found out she was cheating on me im so happy that i found someone who is just like me in a huge multitude of ways and understands me and can handle my wierd jokes. She is just like me. sometimes my friends like to joke around and say she is me from a different universe and others say i should marry her right away. And she is one of the first people to truly care for me. My own mother gave me such a rough childhood and i was going through depression but ever since i met my current girlfriend i have been feeling better every day and i feel like such a lucky guy.
@terrortalks3037
@terrortalks3037 4 года назад
Hold on, when issues come up, we can choose to say "can we talk about this?" rather than run away from the problem? ;)
@bri16042
@bri16042 4 года назад
Yes
@kiwistea
@kiwistea 3 года назад
My best friend's bf runs away every time there's a problem with her or a arguerment, it's so annoying that he won't just talk about it with her :/
@baldihed4119
@baldihed4119 3 года назад
@@kiwistea He just needs..time? I'm not sure, but I think maybe your bestfriend can tell him that he can tell her anything, and that they can solve their problems together instead of running away from the issue.
@atreyuslilcottage4053
@atreyuslilcottage4053 3 года назад
what do I do when its his fault but I apologize and he still runs away? even if he says hes not upset
@stabbamonroll
@stabbamonroll 3 года назад
@@kiwistea I used to do that because confrontation gave me such bad anxiety it made me sick. Try to give him the benefit of the doubt
@Rima27ify
@Rima27ify 4 года назад
How me and my boyfriend keep a healthy relationship we communicate we have conversations and talk about making our relationship stronger and working things out
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
that must be nice, always follow your dreams, if you don't follow your dreams someone will heir you to build there's Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 года назад
It's more about "Us versus the world" than "you and me versus anything"... ;o)
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 it is me and the voices in my head versus the world
@Rima27ify
@Rima27ify 4 года назад
@@Cat-_-Cat thank you so much for your wisdom
@umaruchadoahmed8182
@umaruchadoahmed8182 3 года назад
I will forever be indebted to the great Dr Olu for fixing my broken relationship after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months.I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him。At first , I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but l put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do。Now my husband is back just within 22 hours of contacting him。
@lilaruff7653
@lilaruff7653 Год назад
im much more comfortable with talking about my feelings than the person i’m talking to is, and it’s hard at times but they’re getting the hang of it. communication is so important and being able to express how you feel is truly what holds relationships together.
@rebeccaemma6293
@rebeccaemma6293 2 года назад
I’ve been with my fiancé for going on 4 years. We started out with a rocky relationship, there was distrust in each other because of past relationships. We worked through those walls that we put up, fell in love, and here we are, years later planning our wedding & future family. An amazing realization from this video is that I’m in a super healthy relationship. We argue about house chores, occasionally, but that’s it. I’m so proud to be in a healthy relationship, I see myself with him for the rest of my life ☺️☺️
@snaakie
@snaakie 2 месяца назад
That gives me hope! Thanks ❤
@balake21
@balake21 4 года назад
being in a long distance relationship is rough, but that just means you can grow stronger with them! even if you can’t physically be with them, you can still let them know your affection and love:)! (i say this because i’m in one myself). edit: this got more attention than i expected, and i did want to say that i am no longer in a long distance relationship. however, it was not due to the distance at all, simply too many conflicts between us. i’m in a different relationship (not long distance), and i just encourage everyone to find their person (if they want one) no matter the distance.
@nataliafrinak
@nataliafrinak 2 года назад
yes to this! same for over two years in an international ldr. the most challenging thing I have ever done, but so worth it
@balake21
@balake21 2 года назад
@@nataliafrinak lol i’m not in a long distance relationship anymore, but it didn’t end cause it was long distance or anything. i wish you and your partner the best! ldr personally isn’t for me, but it’s still something well worth your time and effort:)
@fiercedragonfly22
@fiercedragonfly22 2 года назад
I totally agree with this 😘
@Kathrynlove
@Kathrynlove 2 года назад
Long distance relationships are fine when you have boundary problems, commitment problems and fear of intimacy otherwise they're no good.
@cosm1CK_
@cosm1CK_ 2 года назад
@@Kathrynlove bro that doesn't make any sense
@avausleich2134
@avausleich2134 4 года назад
U know how cats head bonk people when they love them? I sent my best friend a meme about that and at the end of the vid she sent me a text saying, "bonk". I know it's silly but it made me feel happy
@stabbamonroll
@stabbamonroll 3 года назад
that's so wholesome oh my gosh
@yvellebradley2502
@yvellebradley2502 2 года назад
@@stabbamonroll Awww! That comment made me so happy!😸
@NitrousOXD-wt7qe
@NitrousOXD-wt7qe 13 дней назад
I just got into my first relationship last month and it brings me strength to watch this because me and my girlfriend have basically all of these things. Thanks for bringing to light the sighs that it’s going well, it really gives my confidence that this will last.
@Akaria.Luvs1
@Akaria.Luvs1 6 месяцев назад
Listen, I came here to do research for a story I’m doing…but I took a step back after hearing the last one….I have done all of the other things so effortlessly…but that straight up made me cry. I remember when I was a young girl first going into the dating world because of peer pressure. It felt like I was pushed into a world I didn’t know…I wish I knew these things before…I always thought relationships were about the pure love and joy, but the truth is…it isn’t that. At the end of the day it is two or more individuals with thoughts…feelings…dreams and desires coming together and trying to build a world of their own *together.* Not by relying on the other to put all the hard work… I wish I knew the last one….but sometimes when you love someone so much, you fear of loosing them..and if you cling onto them…*That fear will soon become nothing but the truth…and you have to accept when it happens..* Because that is just life. ❤
@JAVIMETALL
@JAVIMETALL 4 года назад
This explains why my last relationship was so bad. I was not comfortable with the idea of talking about my feelings because I was doing all the things at home, I had no personal space, she required all the attention in the world, everything about my life before I knew her was a problem... I didn't know what anxiety was until I was with her. It was so frustrating and self-consuming. It was like denying a part of me and denying most of my life because of her traumas. And I'm not putting all the shame on her, because she was working hard on fixing everything was wrong in her life. It was a situation to complicated we can't handle it in the proper way.
@userm180
@userm180 2 года назад
are u ok now?
@Lu-br9xz
@Lu-br9xz 2 года назад
describing my own a bit too close
@faithalonday508
@faithalonday508 Год назад
Before, I had a toxic relationship. On and off. I wasn't able to determine that it was totally a bad decision to stay a relationship like that. But right now, I had a healthy relationship, though it's not perfect but we always do this thing as what the video mentioned. Hoping for the best in our relationship ❤️
@aaliyahnaranjo8510
@aaliyahnaranjo8510 2 года назад
Something I have learned in all of my relationships is to understand each other's love languages, and always communicate, even if you are worried of the reaction.
@maddiemon7231
@maddiemon7231 4 года назад
Thank you for adding in “seeing a future together” my boyfriend and I are both 16, we’ve been together for about a year and a half now. I know I’m still young, and whenever I say “i see a future with him” to someone in my family , they make fun of me :(( I’m happy that it’s a sign of a healthy relationship
@gracekuhn2552
@gracekuhn2552 4 года назад
while marriage is the goal it’s not always the case. i’m sorry your parents invalidate your feelings. love doesn’t have an age. my grandparents were high school sweethearts and are now happily married! ❤️
@mogy6492
@mogy6492 2 года назад
Im 18, my partner is 19. We've only been together for 7 months and i absolutely want a future with him. Saying you want/see a future doesnt mean like oh my god we're gonna get married, buy a house, get a dog, and have a baby next year. Its simply saying, that when you think of your future you want them in it. Ik dating to date is a thing and im not shaming anyone who does, but I personally date someone cuz i see a possibility for a long term relationship and i think people don't understand that and think young people are being reckless ya know? I thought the same thing as you when i was in a relationship at your age, and even tho it ended terribly and was a massive mistake, i still wouldn't shame you for thinking that way. I hope y'all are still together, and strong and healthy as ever.
@kiarahidalgo0730
@kiarahidalgo0730 2 года назад
I’m 24, my partner is 22 we’ve been together for 3 and a half years any day Spent with him is amazing ❤️❤️🥺🥺. Before we started dating we were best friends and we still are ❤️. We’ve known each other for 7 and a half years. Together in our friendship we formed a physical connection and in our relationship we formed an emotional connection. ❤️🥺🥰
@Mon-kv8tv
@Mon-kv8tv 2 года назад
Met my partner at 16, we’ve been together 7 years now and plan to marry in the next few. It all depends on maturity imo. I’d say 90% of teenage relationships don’t last, and thats okay. Its important to have experienced the world while you’re young, if this person has the same goals as you, you both can grow and experience the world together. Its not always easy but its worth it for your person. Don’t bother with other peoples opinions. No one, other the the couple, knows the seriousness or extent of the relationship. My only advice, don’t rush it. You have a lifetime to get married, have children, etc. Enjoy the time spent growing, maturing, and figuring out life together. People change a lot from 16-25, so its important to have a strong foundation and understanding of yourself, your partner and each other, before jumping into things. ❤️
@lillymillard5279
@lillymillard5279 2 года назад
I met my partner at 16 years old. He was 17. ALOT of people have doubted us. Especially my family. They actually don’t and still are not fond of him because he doesn’t fit their standards of wanting to become a doctor or some bs 🙄. It’s been 4 years this coming may and I still love him with all of my heart. Try to stay open minded and not be naive, but also enjoy the journey and don’t let others opinions and advice run YOUR relationship.
@-k1ts0-97
@-k1ts0-97 4 года назад
Everyone: **Talking about their lovers** Me: _u-umm, I do this with my friends--_
@milliestinks
@milliestinks 4 года назад
can u be my frined
@marcellawerremusic
@marcellawerremusic 4 года назад
That’s great practice for the future! :D
@darkerskye4740
@darkerskye4740 4 года назад
Sounds like you’re a wonderful friend. In the end many things such as talking to each other and being content with one another crosses over into all types of relationships.
@basilsllfljelfks3622
@basilsllfljelfks3622 4 года назад
Everyone:*Talking about their lover* Me:I don’t even have friends (T-T)
@nightfangs2910
@nightfangs2910 4 года назад
You shouldn't, your problems unless their is clear abuse of any kind emotional, sexual, physical, should not be discussed with friends yours or your spouse, it always causes more problems then solutionsin your relationship, to many hands spoil the soup
@thelordconstantine1464
@thelordconstantine1464 2 года назад
It's been a great ride and I've largely been there for her. The difficulty for me is working with insecurities from my childhood either from trauma (and working through that on top of everything) or mental configuration solidified by social construct and interactions, as well as rewiring myself into how to work to make things healthy. I sometimes get "off" and feel the connection is a little shaky, moments of being unsure of what is real and how to come back to what I feel for her. Everything is genuine and passionate and there is a lot of work, but I make sure I tell her how much I appreciate her and live her and am proud. It's long distance too, so there's the extra obstacle that takes surmounting. But my difficulties lie in going through this for the first time, waking up spiritually, healing and simply just understanding traumas, and reworking my configured mental framework to be conducive in a healthy relationship. She is everything to me.
@DrugStoreCandy420
@DrugStoreCandy420 2 года назад
I’m glad u mentioned communication, it’s a huge huge HUGE factor in a successful relationship
@angeleecrespo7801
@angeleecrespo7801 3 года назад
My partner and I have been together for quite some time now and one thing we’ve learned that best helps our relationship to flourish is by having no distractions before bed (phones, tv, books to read etc.) and really just lye together in bed and have a conversation. Trust me 10 min of each other’s time fulfills so much more than you’d think emotionally. Especially if other things take up most of your time without each other.
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
I don't know why but the voice is so calming, that is probably the first time when i am actually feeling something, instead of acting
@piiinkDeluxe
@piiinkDeluxe 4 года назад
tbh i don't like the voice too much
@grandma4514
@grandma4514 4 года назад
I prefer the other voice
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 4 года назад
@@grandma4514 in the kindest way i really don't give a shit
@shirakumi5113
@shirakumi5113 3 года назад
an actor is in his top performance when he's not acting all of them pretend to not act when on stage 😄
@Cat-_-Cat
@Cat-_-Cat 3 года назад
@@shirakumi5113 yes well then I'm a full time actor
@martinzugschwert2747
@martinzugschwert2747 2 года назад
All great habits! 😊 I know with my girlfriend we encourage and reward when either of us ask for reassurance of any kind. We acknowledge that asking for reassurance is not innately attacking, but rather that it is innately loving to provide your partner with reassurance when needed. This leads to a very healthy and open dynamic for us 😊
@geisterfussl
@geisterfussl 2 года назад
Me and my partner always speak openly about our feelings and thoughts about past, present and future, whether it’s about our relationship or just life in general. We want to prioritize our mental health and well being since both of us aren’t espacially mentally healthy and have been receiving our fair share of negative energy from other people around us. Even though we’ve only been together for a little over three months, I am able to be more vulnerable around my partner than I ever was around another person before (which is really hard for me considering some past experiences) and even though they are still a little bit more closed when it comes to expressing negative feelings directly in person, they also do tell me it’s absolutely not my fault and that I do actually improve their mental health and make them feel appreciated. I have been feeling down this week and my partner has spend a lot of time with me, just cuddling and talking or watching a show or movie together. I sometimes still don’t feel like this relationship is real because I was sure I‘d either live in an unhappy relationship or stay single forever. While my partner has been an amazing help this week, I of course try my best as well. I try to shower them with affection and appreciation, espacially when I feel like they need it. Simple gestures are also really important for me: I put my partner‘s favorite drink in the fridge before they visit, prepare a hot water bottle to put under the blanket or make pancakes as breakfast at the weekend. I am rambling way too much. The only thing I’ve learned from this: There is a person out there that will understand you and bring out the best in you. A relationship is a beautiful thing and if it’s not there probably is something going wrong.
@beth9603
@beth9603 2 года назад
this has just confirmed to me that my boyfriend and i have a very healthy relationship 1 year in.. :) i see our future together too. He is a gem, and i often feel undeserving of his goodness. i love you johnny
@johnriley7496
@johnriley7496 4 года назад
Listening, patience, and wanting to understand the other person
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
True
@LuckyL0ki
@LuckyL0ki 4 месяца назад
i was in several abusive relationships in my early 20s. when i finally entered my first healthy relationship 3 years ago, the difference i felt was undeniable. my soul just knows. this is the way it should be 💛
@katechueva7792
@katechueva7792 2 года назад
I’m so glad I met my husband. He’s a wonderful human and partner. He taught me so much about life and that there so more to life than just having kids and working. I’m so proud to call him my bff. We often tel people that we’re just friends for fun.
@alishfn
@alishfn 4 года назад
Message to all fans: *you’re honestly intelligent talented and unique! have a wonderful day and and stay safe*
@feralb0i305
@feralb0i305 4 года назад
I subbed.
@optimisticdork8380
@optimisticdork8380 4 года назад
1 sub before 2021? Yeh me too :P
@erisbellocchio9308
@erisbellocchio9308 4 года назад
Heh. Thx
@Andrlz_
@Andrlz_ 4 года назад
Due to quarantine here in Brazil, i can't see her now (i'm also a suspect case of covid) but i talk to her everyday, show affection, do jokes and say every single day how beautiful, awesome and especial she is
@user-fh3gl2zc5i
@user-fh3gl2zc5i 4 года назад
André Luiz sounds like you have a healthy relationship👍
@4352sfs
@4352sfs 4 года назад
mano eu to ha 4 meses sem ver meu namorado, e o nome dele também é Andre Luiz habsjnsjs to mt chocada aqui, tava vendo isso malzona de saudade e achei seu comentario do nada e ow melhoras!!! espero q vc consiga ver ela em segurança logo! 💕
@MissKittyKindred
@MissKittyKindred 3 месяца назад
We have lengthy discussions about where we're at and where we're going in the relationship. Any drawbacks are discussed too. My partner has made the "rules" of the relationship: "Do you love me? Do you want to be with me? Then everything else can be worked out." I think that's very sweet and it gives me the confidence I need after I've had a lot of threats to leave me in a previous relationship. I've been learning to word things more accurately as I've found previously that I struggle to get my point across to my partner over things that upset me which leads to resentment and an eventual breakdown of the relationship.
@rachaelself442
@rachaelself442 2 месяца назад
Hi, I think you all are awesome for what you are doing here! Thank you and may God Bless You! I believe a very important key to working through struggles by talking about things, like you mentioned, no judgement a mindset of wanting to understand, find the middle ground compromise, figure out what needs are not being met, causing the problem and work together to find a solution. If 1 solution doesn't work try and find another, don't give up. New habits or ways of doing things will be uncomfortable at first but over time it feels normal. I believe many People struggle with emotions, traumas they've been through, things they learned wrong. When we accept responsibility for our share in problems, not handling things right, it opens up the hurt person's heart to understand and work with the partner. Ignoring the problem or thinking it's all the other person's fault just makes bigger problems. Maybe they see something you don't, maybe they have an understanding or perspective you don't. It's important to have an open mind in relationships because we don't know what other People have experienced we only know our own.
@jazzycakes6294
@jazzycakes6294 3 года назад
We've been in love with each other for a long time, but it's just finally happening. Communication is huge. I had to learn how to talk things out. I was so timid and kept everything to myself, and it wasn't good for us.
@sarahB06
@sarahB06 2 года назад
u still together ?
@jazzycakes6294
@jazzycakes6294 2 года назад
@@sarahB06 Yeah, we've moved in together and it's going amazingly! Thanks!
@sarahB06
@sarahB06 2 года назад
@@jazzycakes6294 that’s wonderful! I know we don’t know eachother but I’m genuinely happy for you 💓
@danielagaraytorres8445
@danielagaraytorres8445 2 года назад
One extra habit that we should have is to respect each other time with friends or recreation time without us, it is important because we have to be able to spend and enjoy time without our partner, and then came around and talk about our experiences 💕
@divya_sancheti04
@divya_sancheti04 Год назад
💯
@devashrijoshi9079
@devashrijoshi9079 Год назад
Yeah I really need to practice this
@dacnomana
@dacnomana Год назад
I too totally believe this is a healthy thing to do. I personally need my own time with friends or just on my own, to experience things as an individual, outside of the couple. Then when we see each other again is sweeter, cause we created the chance to miss each other 😊 and we have new things to share ❤
@OwenJames-cd5dd
@OwenJames-cd5dd Год назад
Sometimes giving your partner space can attract cheating, for the fact you both lives together, love and cherish each other closely
@ruthiehauser1867
@ruthiehauser1867 2 года назад
Being able to communicate effectively and calmly is probably the #1 thing that keeps my relationship healthy:)
@Hcollins371
@Hcollins371 2 года назад
This is my first healthy relationship. I've been in toxic relationships basically since I started the dating scene. And this video backs up that this is healthy as can be. I love him to death and he feels the same way. ❤
@yeonjunsdeadhair7511
@yeonjunsdeadhair7511 4 года назад
i honestly don’t even know y i’m watching this- i’m not even in a relationship lmao 😂
@sil3ntang3l53
@sil3ntang3l53 4 года назад
Haha I'm aroace beat that lmaoo XD
@Shitpost-gamin
@Shitpost-gamin 4 года назад
Lmao same
@taekookie6403
@taekookie6403 4 года назад
LMAO ME SAME
@odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347
@odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347 4 года назад
Same.
@loonatheverse
@loonatheverse 4 года назад
maybe just in case you meet yeonjun then he says he likes you then you go to bighit and join txt and you get married and then you wake up :’)
@fenitp
@fenitp 3 года назад
it's amazing how my boyfriend and I have all of those habits. Having him besides me warms my heart 🐞🍃✨🌻🦋🌈
@ahmedbelkacem14
@ahmedbelkacem14 2 года назад
How's it going?
@fenitp
@fenitp 2 года назад
@@ahmedbelkacem14 we're 9 months into our relationship and everything is amazing! we have great communication, lots of trust and sooo much love to give to each other every day!!! definitely am super in love with him 🥰
@ahmedbelkacem14
@ahmedbelkacem14 2 года назад
@@fenitp omg, I'm so happy for you. I wish you all the best in your future together❤
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
@gamerwithnoobskill7660 2 года назад
May you guys live together without any problem till death. Amen. My prayers are with you.
@fenitp
@fenitp 2 года назад
@@gamerwithnoobskill7660 thank you so much for your good wishes 🙌 I hope the same for you 🙏💛
@kikimalla5456
@kikimalla5456 2 года назад
I always try to remind my husband how much we appreciate him. He does a lot for us and he keeps the routine in the house going. He helps with all outside errands while I stay home with the toddler and expecting our second. If I ask him to do the dishes he’ll do that AND fold the laundry and whatever else he sees that needs to get done. I always remind him he keeps the wheel going with us. He’s a huge part of our team that keeps us going.
@FwMxkxn
@FwMxkxn 9 дней назад
honestly a very good video, learning experience, me and my girlfriend watched this together and realized things we could work on together and fix. thank you for sharing your 8 healthy habits for a relation ship to not only me but the entire world.
@seokjinismalisticenthusias7434
@seokjinismalisticenthusias7434 3 года назад
I've been in a relationship with my man for almost 3 years now, and yes, we've been through a lot of fights and arguments. At first, I thought it was all very unnecessary until I learned that those fights are as inportant as the happy moments we've had. Now, we've learned along the way how to compromise and make way at the same time without having to discourage our own selves.
@radioactivetoast5177
@radioactivetoast5177 4 года назад
Dude I love Psych2Go Its just great The animation, The way they help you cope with things like being lonely, having anxiety or depression. Its great
@anniecrouch7779
@anniecrouch7779 2 года назад
The soothing voice & solution based education 👌 😌 🙌
@eazygoingtwo
@eazygoingtwo 8 месяцев назад
Everyday I work on bettering myself for their sake. This has taught me much, thank you!
@blueaxolotl2853
@blueaxolotl2853 3 месяца назад
I just recently got into a relationship, I'm trying to learn everything i can to be the best for her! I'll take all of this videos advice, so hopefully i can be the best version of myself for her
@zhuotongchen6449
@zhuotongchen6449 3 года назад
Me and my partner have been together for 11 months, we ended high school together, and we have both been very close but not clingy with one another. He lets himself be vulnerable with me, something that he finds pretty hard to do, same with me, but we have both promised each other to never hide things from each other if it's hurting us. He also is just my anchor at the worst of times when my anxiety gets out of hand, he reassures me that mistakes are normal. We hope this relationship lasts! xx Have a lovely day~
@eviekros
@eviekros 2 года назад
Wow! I have the exact same. 11 months together in 3 weeks and the rest is exactly me and my boyfriend. Cute :)
@begonefosh
@begonefosh 2 года назад
Yo hope you and your partner are doing well!
@userm180
@userm180 2 года назад
@@lukenitemare depends what kind of woman
@userm180
@userm180 2 года назад
@@lukenitemare who told u that?
@userm180
@userm180 2 года назад
@@lukenitemare i understand, but u can allow urself to show emotion to someone from time to time.theres nothing wrong w that, really :)
@ghostlylookin
@ghostlylookin 4 года назад
I love this animation style! it's so adorable and I love the characters! Thank you for making this video! 💜
@rainbowpeeannmarie3413
@rainbowpeeannmarie3413 2 года назад
I think splitting financial things up is important. That you both pay your fair share. Also Honesty and Loyalty are massive. Being financially fair, and loyalty are huge, unless you and your partner have already had a talk and agreed on something different. Also communication is the biggest and best thing you can have in your relationship. I’m talking about all the relationship stuff ahead of time is the best thing you can do. Relationship stuff like if you want a monogamous relationship or a poly relationship. What you consider cheating to be, because apparently it’s not the same for everyone. If your goal with this relationship is to one day get married and have kids, or move in with each other, or if you’d rather just stay dating, never have kids, and never move in with each other. How much personal space you actually like to have, what you are and aren’t comfortable with, etc. I found it to be very helpful for me with my current partner to talk about all of this right away. If your partner is actually the one, I feel like they would be pretty OK with talking about all that kind of stuff right away.
@minashireley2616
@minashireley2616 2 года назад
I remember I saw this couple on tik tok and they said that they do this every time they get angry or upset at each other. They would hug each other and like jumó and stomp on the floor together and it was so cute and funny. They said it works and it just warms my heart that they found their way to make it work! 😂🥰
@paigecronin9223
@paigecronin9223 3 года назад
As someone who's finally in a healthy relationship after 11 different short lived toxic relationships with two that I loved. I just want to say to people who've found themselves in the same predicament of always choosing "the wrong people" that you're not cursed and as much as movies and media romanticise it, healthy love is rare. You're not cursed, one day you will find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve better than any scripted movie. As a serial dater after any relationship ended I took a year to myself to improve my wellbeing and mindset and just when I wasn't looking I fell for this amazing man that I can't live without. Stay strong and hopeful, you're not jaded, broken or cursed. One day the right person will come along when you least expect (if that's on your agenda the world is diverse not everyone goes down that path) ❤️ wishing you all the best
@jessieschatz9611
@jessieschatz9611 Год назад
Thank you Paige. I really needed to hear this. Been on and off with someone since 2020 and we recently decided to end things for good. We've done that before many times. I think I just need a year to myself to really figure myself out. There's so much to heal from.
@robertyang4365
@robertyang4365 4 года назад
I am in awe at how quickly this channel is able to push out videos. Keep up the great work!
@gorfous4549
@gorfous4549 2 года назад
Me (F21) and my parter (M22) are in our first relationship ever with each other. We were both late bloomers and I mostly went on casual dates with girls before him but nothing seemed to "click". When I met him it's like the whole universe just brought us together and everything made sense. He listened to me, he took care of me and he was overall the best partner I could ask but I was afraid to get over-excited for him (it was my first relationship, after all. He was even my first kiss!). Needless to say we have now moved in together, have been together for almost a year and we plan on getting married at some point. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!! Make sure to create safe spaces for each other and talk EVERYTHING out! And when I say everything, I mean it. The work you have to put in is a lot but the thing is, when you're doing it for the one you love it doesnt even seem like work and everything comes out SO naturally! I love him so much and this video made me remember what great partners we are to each other!!!
@NicewwITIT
@NicewwITIT 5 месяцев назад
I just started a relationship and really needed this advice, now I just need to muster up the courage to show my affection
@Luna..44400
@Luna..44400 2 года назад
12 years with my hubby it definitely was a challenge there were a lot of ups and downs now we are more mature and talk about situations instead of argueing like we used to back in our early twenties our love has grown stronger that's for sure
@_mvryi3021
@_mvryi3021 4 года назад
The fact that me and my partner are different is what makes our relationship so interesting and fun. We have the same sense of humour but we have different perspectives of many things. It’s interesting to discuss it while keeping an open mind ☺️
@sevyn201
@sevyn201 2 года назад
im not the best at talking out my feelings because growing up no one really cared for them so when i met him i was closed off and bottled my feelings often, so whenever he would ask me whats wrong when i was being distant i would be scared to tell him because i was afraid he would judge me but in reality he did the complete opposite, he complimented me and told me everything would be okay and we talked everything out and i honestly love that about him, he feels like home and i feel most safe with him :)
@Mezcon2
@Mezcon2 Год назад
I feel like as long as both partners are honest, daily communicate and have a spirit of sharing the load of life together, it will most likely work out. ☺️
@Shikaru101_
@Shikaru101_ 2 года назад
I'm happy to say that my relationship reflects all of these habits. It's a struggle now that he's stationed far away with the military, but I think we're doing amazingly well and going strong after 8 years. :)
@lulabiebyi8999
@lulabiebyi8999 4 года назад
I do all of these things!! I’m so grateful to have my boyfriend in my life, I only wish I could say I cuddle a lot and trust them. Due to my PTSD I’m not able to cuddle them for long periods of time or I’ll get scared. He understands but I know deep inside it upsets him that we can’t cuddle or kiss nonchalantly, I have to be warned or I’ll get an anxiety attack. I hope to go to therapy soon
@angelraindumalay6990
@angelraindumalay6990 Год назад
Thankyou for all of these, I was looking for advices that can help me keep a healthy relationship with my partner. I admit I often show toxic traits that are affecting our relationship and her but I am willing to help myself become a better person because I want to keep my person, I see her in my future and I need to become better.
@ElainePescante
@ElainePescante 8 дней назад
I love how this video made me realize that i’m in a healthy relationship now.
@vanessagarcia8059
@vanessagarcia8059 3 года назад
My current bf has really taught me how to be healthier. My last relationship was really toxic and my current partner really makes me feel so special. He actually listens and wants to know how I feel. He’s really had to push at times to get me to talk about how i feel because I was so used to keeping it myself. He doesn’t judge me and we’re really there for each other. Things just feel very equal in what we give to each other.
@sonybunnies8526
@sonybunnies8526 4 года назад
I thank this channel cause my girlfriend and I are more close thank you love your channel :D
@-aboodfrost-2779
@-aboodfrost-2779 4 года назад
Good :)
@sammymartin3508
@sammymartin3508 Год назад
Wow my relationship has almost all of them. The only one it's missing is a balance of chores because I'm dealing with a disability and slowly getting back to my half of the chores but my boyfriend is doing my share in the meantime. I still do what small things I can and I make sure to tell him how much I appreciate and love him. He's so understanding and supportive ❤
@pvoallana8150
@pvoallana8150 Год назад
Recently I got into a little disagreement with him (over something small) but I texted him and said “Sorry if I’m being a bitch to you, my patience been at a zero cuz I got a lot going on with school and teachers are not making this easy for me so I had an attitude with everyone lately” and he said “I’m sorry to I should’ve listen to what u said mb, Baby I love you” and that was the end of it. I never smiled so hard because my exs would’ve started an argument
@m4rc3l0fl0r3s
@m4rc3l0fl0r3s 4 года назад
I'm not in a relationship and I don't know if I ever will, but I'm taking notes
@saliadel5238
@saliadel5238 4 года назад
Not in a relationship but still watch this to prepare for future 😂😂
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