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✅ Find out what are the 8 Reasons Why People Hate INTJs!
If you’re an INTJ, you can have some discouraging behaviours which make it so difficult for some personality types to enjoy your company. This is mostly because INTJs are unique individuals with very characteristic personality traits.
If you think you are an INTJ, dive deeper into your personality, learn what are the things that make others hate you and determine how you can use them to increase your soft skills and achieve personal growth. Here are the 8 Reasons Why People Hate INTJs.
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0:00 Why INTJs can be hated?
0:42 - 1. They enjoy exchanging facts and opinions
1:31 - 2. They are often cold and distant
2:30 - 3. They are difficult to understand
3:32 - 4. They can be quite pessimistic due to their analytical nature
4:33 - 5. They can be overly critical
5:36 - 6. They can’t stand logical fallacies
6:28 - 7. They have extremely high standard for everything
7:29 - 8. They hate being corrected
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@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

👇You Should WATCH THIS👇 10 Reasons Why INTJs Are So Intimidating ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fIaPnIjwz0M.html

@Human_01 2 года назад

I'm sorry, but please stop adding to the misconception that elon musk is an INTJ - he ISN'T!!! INTJ already get a TONNE of undeserved hate, mostly by 'ESFP', ESFJ, and ISFP, and other narcissits; and it's largely driven by malicious-jealousy. INTJ/INFJ population and quality of life is reality hell enough as it is! 🤦🏽 I hope you can understand. Thanks.

@Human_01 2 года назад

_Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality')_ I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b) [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. 🙏🏾 PS: ESFJ are Amber Heard behind the public mask. ___________ #Save_Soil

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@Human_01 Thanks you so much for this insight! Very interesting.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@Human_01 Thank you for your opinion!

@Human_01 2 года назад

You're welcome (and my apologies for the tone). ❤️ Please keep it up.

@thestarlitmagician Год назад

People hate me because once I realize they are back stabbing they are dead to me and I never change my mind in that 😂

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@jasemtensai5856 Год назад

Exactly😂

@SMAGANA07 Год назад

True, true

@jamielake-boyd3600 Год назад

Most Women. 😂

@CHANCEINTUITIVE Год назад

@@jamielake-boyd3600 😄😄😄

@kyungshin5855 Год назад

As an INTJ, I prefer debate to conversation. I call "debate" an intellectual sparring. Very good for your brain.

@t.terrell7037 Год назад

Yup me too but most respond by seeing me as combative, argumentative and annoying….go figure!

@TheHomieSamm Год назад

As an intj-a i hate debating. When i tell someone something its because i know that what im saying is true. I dont mind explaining in a little more depth to help them understand, but when i know someone already has their mind made up in lies im not going to waste my time

@Wasp239 11 месяцев назад

@@TheHomieSamm me too. I also don't like debating. My parents were both narcissists, and if you know, narcissists always use darvo and whataboutism, so no debate is useful witj them.

@MetaKnight964 11 месяцев назад

ENTP's are the ultimate debaters. Also not every meeting has to turn into a debate which is actually unhealthy for the mind.

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

ENTP is the debater type. INTJ's are generally not into wasting time debating for the sake of it. An INTJ don't mind confrontation, but they don't like their time wasted.

@John_Smith0 2 года назад

we can be hated because we have bad social skills. to develop social skills you need to socialize a lot and it’s a huge waste of time, i just want to be alone and deep dive in what i’m really interested in.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

True!

@BigA678 Год назад

Actually you don’t have to socialize a lot you just have to talk about meaningless things, what the call small talk. Thats why we have “bad” social skills

@repupu_9563 Год назад

This is not bad social skill, you don't need to adapt others to change for right and truth

@peanutbuttericecream2948 Год назад

I'm not really an INTJ, more an INTP, according to the cognitive functions. I work as a waitress for summer (part time job, aside studies). And I struggle with social interactions. My colleagues are very nice, but they also just stab you in the back. I understand society, how it works and why but it just don't make sense to me, I find it absolutely irrational. And hence, I don't want and I can't apply to it. Giving nicknames, joking around, scaring my colleagues for fun, talk behind someone else's back, having useless conversations is hard to me. I enjoy debates where I can learn something. I don't act very natural as well, almost everything I do is calculated and planned. I cannot really live in the present. It's a weird feeling. So once I'm done with work, I just spend time alone so I can recharge. I literally go mad when they're are too many people around on my rest days. If I made any mistakes, I'm sorry. English isn't my native language.

@thegrinch304 Год назад

Definitely. my social skills are awful and awkward.

@devildogkogg8353 Год назад

I have to strongly oppose number 8. If someone can factually prove that I'm wrong, I welcome it with open arms and appreciate the correction. Me being wrong is exceptionally rare, but if it happens, I wouldn't defend my disproven belief or be mad about being corrected.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing your perspective!

@hollistantang9469 Год назад

Me too, 8 is never right for me...

@jrm8206 Год назад

I guess its more like the way people try to 'correct' you. If they actually use logic and good arguments its fine obv. But I inta tilt/hate when they use non-arguments like: 'I Have Been Doing It Like This For X Years...!!" My response to this is always: Well, I guess you have been doing it wrong for X years... ;)

@LordBurningham Год назад

Wasn't that stated later in the explanation?

@stevenchan7537 11 месяцев назад

As an INFJ, I always being fake or nice to ask INTJ, are you sure. Once they give me the wrong answer twice, I leave them as it is. Because 2nd time asking, they change their tone. No point to correct them due to INFJ need to focus other important thing.

@BombshElle_7 2 года назад

As an INTJ, I appreciate this video for being fair in explaining why we behave the way we do, and, explaining why most people are turned off by it. This was very enlightening. Thank you! 😊

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Glad it was helpful!

@mlightning6750 Год назад

USING EMOJISSSSS OMG 😭😭 I never expected to see an INTJ using emojis in my life I am quite surprised that u r not the only one (I saw some of the INTJs using it in the comment section) and still can't believe it 😅

@Kalle875 Год назад

@@mlightning6750s if we are robots Nah bro We are also human beings and we also do some things that other humans do Is that really complicated🌚😑🤡

@ConfusedSoul_ Год назад

Listen as an INTJ if you tell me I'm wrong about something without any evidence you better prepare to have an hour long lecture about why I'm right. Trust me I've got time.

@repupu_9563 Год назад

SHIT! No wonder nobody want to fight with me, because I'm always correct....

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Great for you!

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

That's correct. No point in question it because you have put more time in research than they have, while they were getting high and watching fottball.

@phongtu9562 Год назад

The number 6 😢 I feel so annoyed when some people can’t even realize and accept the reality. And yes, I don’t understand why people can’t understand the situation 😹 It gets me on nerves… Their dumbness and blindness… Sometime I feel sorry just for saying the truth.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@nicolette1598 Год назад

How do people dislike learning new things? This is one of my biggest issues with the mental peasants of this world. You dare correct them they call you a know it all, elitist list goes on. Which is why I work from home and don’t leave my house ☺️

@dateouka Год назад

As an INTJ, my happiest time was graduate school. Classmates were intelligent, supervisor gave me only constructive advice and never tried to micromanage. Most importantly, I got to work alone. After I started working, the old nightmares just came back. I guess I don’t really care why some people hate me, because I probably deem them incompetent as well. I never knew how typical INTJ I was until mbti became a thing in mass media😅

@Imp-bq6iy Год назад

I remember that one time I gave an advice to a friend of mine because I didn't want to see her in a bad economical situation, however, she took it badly and thought I was just judging her and pretending I was better than her. Never gonna give her an advice again.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing this!

@jooyonpark1247 10 месяцев назад

I learned it the hard way - people usually want to hear only what they want to hear.

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

It happens more often than not. Most likely she was in that situation to begin with, because of emotion overriding her better judgement. It sucks to see someone heading for disaster, but we need to consider how they got that way. That's the real problem.

@JazzyJ96771 Год назад

I HATE logical fallacies. Your emotions are NOT facts. Facts don’t care about your feelings.

@erinscruggs5838 4 месяца назад

They call that circumstantial evidence. 😂

@starlight9192 Год назад

As an INTJ, I wish people would think more thoroughly before they say we do not accept their opinions. They often admit that our solutions were bound to be that way since it's the most logical conclusion considering all the limitations. But still, they liked to see their solutions be accepted. Why? After you were told about all the reasons that it should not be that way? You like to use your solution even after it was proven to be wrong, huh? It's really a mystery to me. 😢

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

What they don't see is the time we spend processing their opinion. By the time we align with it, if we do, they're somewhere else.

@anormaldude127 Год назад

as a INTJ I see a conversation as a battlefeild of facts and learning opportunities. and I EXPECT others to think the same. If i start to feel whit others or think in emotion, I begin to be a little panicy and uneasy, and I just can't think in emotion cuz i am stuck in rationality. If I sudenly begin anltering to emotion I will lose my resoning of the world and begin to be uneasy and even begin to panic.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

It's why I hate getting a haircut. All the small expected small talk.

@supercoolcat7692 10 месяцев назад

“Emotional Intelligence” by Daniel Goleman is a book I found helpful before learning that I was an INTJ. I highly recommend it. Even if we aren’t as influenced by emotions as others, it helps to understand emotions on a logical level.

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

Emotion, and intelligence are opposites. It think the emotional intelligence narrative was intended to promote the importance of emotion to the same level as rational thought instead of encouraging rational thinking for those lacking it. Itiocracy was a documentary. I highly recommend watching it.

@Matrix_Architect Год назад

For INTJs, their argument is like paradigm in science which is a set of various evidences and supports. And they love to expand and reinforce their arguments collecting related knowledge all the time. That's why they look stubborn to others. But, if the opponent's logic or evidence is more reasonable, INTJs are willing to accept that argument. So, those who want to persuade INTJs should arm with better logic and knowledge.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

That's because Ni is incredibly adaptable. If we're wrong about something then all we have to do is take a break to realign our perception. That is not so easy for Si users.

@cncgcg8673 10 месяцев назад

We hate being wrong because we owe it to the world to be right. And with great ability comes great responsibility. Also it's lonely at the top, thankfully.

@pinaerpowac4130 Год назад

I guess to most they seek friendship because the feel they need others. As an intj i gain friends out of the desire to have a like minded friend to bond with and exchange information. People get upset when they don't gain what they seek. Trust is a big deal to an intj the fastest way to destroy an intj s interest in you is to lie or fail to uphold your words. Intj's value friends very deeply but are slow to befriend others.

@polreamonn 9 месяцев назад

Just because we're better than everybody else.

@Diddledo 11 месяцев назад

I’m not a robot I have trained myself to take peoples emotion into a account

@awesomeexpressionexp 3 месяца назад

Hatred from inferior minds is a form of compliment. But successful INTJs can and will socialize well if it can help achieve their goals. Like how Sherlock can play cute to gather information for solving cases.

@nqobincube3709 Год назад

I love being an INTJ and watching such makes me love being one, more !

@NekoSyndrom_BountyMMD Год назад

When I heard that Elon Musk was an INTJ, I thought to myself, "Well, if that's the case, then so be it." But the more I heard about Musk, the more I think he can't be an INTJ. To me he doesn't come across as the least bit introverted. Just the fact that he forces his employees to be present at work tells me that he has little or no understanding for introverts. I doubt that a person who is truly introverted would deny his employees the home office. So for me it's pretty clear that he can't be an introvert personality. Supplemental: He is also literally attention hungry, constantly seeking the spotlight and wanting other people's attention. Introverts are not attention hungry, on the contrary.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing this!

@imho2278 Год назад

He keeps marrying entertainment stars, siring children, and spending all his time checking up on his workers. I think he's just trying to do everything all at once.

@danika9411 Год назад

He's a sociopath. His father too. Pretty fucked up family. He has tge emotional maturity of an infant and no empathy. He says he has Aspergers, but I highly doubt it. He's just a sociopath and has antisocial personality disorder.

@rachellereeve494 Год назад

I agree. Musk isn't an INTJ. The lack of strategic caution he has demonstrated in his takeover of Twitter and the poor reasoning he employs when trolling and character assassinating those who disagree with him are not INTJ traits. Remember when Musk called that British cave diver a pedo guy after the diver criticised Tesla's rescue pod? No INTJ would publish such an embarrassingly irrelevant and baseless accusation. Musk carries on like a jock not an INTJ.

@danika9411 Год назад

@@rachellereeve494 I'd be interested what his mbti might be 🤔

@SamAsm367 11 месяцев назад

Out of curiosity, I checked out the rest of the channel to see if this was a series. It seems that the INTJ type is the only playlist with a video expounding on the reasons people hate them. Other intuitive types have "why you're weird" videos. I think it should be a series. No one is perfect. Flaws are not exclusive to Introverted Intuitives. Every type should know what people dislike about them. Unless the real purpose of these videos is to assure more common types of their prejudices and thusly marginalize an already slim slice of the human pie. MBTI is supposed to be a tool for understanding.

@fatatwaze399 2 года назад

I don't show emotions bcz people ll say I m weak and so emotional. Someone told me that when I was in love with her and I wasn't sure she had feelings for me

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Here are some interesting dating facts about INTJs ---> ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Y6_LKWYYZy4.html

@Human_01 2 года назад

@BombshElle_7 2 года назад

There's always a need for balance, but to hide your emotions bc of what others say is unhealthy. You have to be yourself. When you're happy, show happiness. When angry, show anger. And get better friends who will appreciate who you are.--INTJ

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@Human_01 Thanks for sharing this!

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@BombshElle_7 Well said.

@retrothingz Год назад

All very true. Being comfortable expressing unpopular but factually based opinions in a very direct manner is a surefire way to alienate others. 'Fraid I simply don't care. 😂

@MetaKnight964 11 месяцев назад

Opinions are based on preferences, not facts.

@frisk9393 Год назад

Before I watch this video, sometimes I don't fully understand why some people hate intj's, because I think although they are harsh to people sometimes, but they are good partners who just don't good at expressing emotions. Because some of my friends are intj, they sometimes gives me methods or criticism to let things became better. After this video, it makes me understand why. Every personality has their unique traits to makes people have some common image about it. I'm glad there's some people decide to stand out and talk about it. Thank you, sir!😊

@alveerapathan5263 8 месяцев назад

As an INTJ completely i appreciate it

@nicolette1598 Год назад

People hate me…because they ain’t me…

@samanthaf4851 2 года назад

I feel… attacked.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Sorry for that! Luckily, you have amazing strengths ---> ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-juXBlO_U-0M.html

@ArtinJ 2 года назад

ENTP here having an INTJ manager. The standards are just unbelievable... it's insane

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

What is your MBTI type?

@Fjolnirsson 2 года назад

I would never ask something of an employee I wouldn't expect of myself.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@Fjolnirsson This is a golden rule.

@Fjolnirsson 2 года назад

@@PsychologyRefresh indeed it is, though most employers don't seem to follow it, in my experience. Intj, btw.

@linasimmons6787 Год назад

🤣

@Kalle875 Год назад

They hate us because we are always 3 steps ahead

@qua7771 6 месяцев назад

At least 3 steps ahead of them. We invest a substantial amount of time, and energy planning our tasks, while others go willy nilly, and mistakenly assuming we are doing the same. Then they want to question our entire train of reasoning, and insist that we dumb it down. This interaction is agonizing. It's better do go it alone.

@Kelgrafar 10 месяцев назад

I'm an INTJ and people tend to like me, unfortunately. I don't encourage it. It's annoying.

@etiennelandman8748 7 месяцев назад

As an INTJ, something hit me on this video, rationality and honesty are two very rare traits these days, absolutely true. It sometimes really does feel like I am the only one who did not lose his marbles..

@hanabi9923 4 месяца назад

Oh my fucking god its just so...accurate. i am an INTJ (an autistic one) and even tho i love being alone and i think nothing beats the time thinking alone i still need some connections and it feels really horrible to know that so many people hate me.

@morgannine 4 месяца назад

I feel like this is for immature INTJs who’re also not stereotypically wise or smart

@JazzyJ96771 Год назад

I definitely get called insensitive due to my overly logical nature. You don’t think like me, therefore you don’t understand me.

@edsanville 8 месяцев назад

Man, this is like looking into a mirror... a really unflattering mirror, though.

@rygregory 11 месяцев назад

It’s a surprise that I have any friends at all because of my INTJ-ness. I am all of these things on this list. However, I’m fully aware of these traits and make a conscious effort to meet other personality types halfway. As for my friend circle, a large proportion of them are INTJs themselves so that works out because we all understand each other. ❤

@PsychologyRefresh 11 месяцев назад

Interesting!

@esa_35 Год назад

I am intj-a and agreed with most of the video, however, I do not hate being corrected, and I appreciate the constructive criticism. But if some people don't know what they're talking about, they shouldn't be talking with an intj to avoid emotional damage. lol

@paminology6622 3 месяца назад

emotion is the weakness.. non sense and waste time and effort

@galactichand551 Год назад

Okay, so I had an INTJ boss and she was terrible. She could never be incorrect and woe to the one who had to call her to ask her to correct her error. She was so bad, that she would even change processes just to be correct. Glad I left that job.

@nic3099 10 месяцев назад

That can't be an intj

@oldcaptainjack День назад

INTJ club! I have found my people. But I still wanna work alone :D

@coldbrewed8308 Год назад

My wife often tells me to just agree with what she said and don't provide solutions.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thank you for bringing up your perspective!

@vikranthdahal6048 Год назад

Tbh this video boosted my ego even more

@robynmasters335 6 месяцев назад

No wonder I don't get along with INTJs. This describes everything that drives me crazy about them. I can only take an INTJ for very short periods at a time.

@Psychoanalyze 2 года назад

I personally think INTJ and INFJ or any type are on a spectrum for eachother, I share about half the traits for both INTJ and INFJ There is times where if someone told me "my dog died" its like 2 separate thoughts pop in my head "tell them get a new pet" and "comfort them" depending on my mood I'll choose 1 or the other - which is a typical INTJ vs INFJ response I do also enjoy social harmony well at least dont like awkwardness and 2nd hand embarrassment. I do love being right and debating why I am right but don't like winning arguments its not satisfying I just feel bad or don't know what to do or say after annihilated a person's view point I am always reading and analyzing people and society equally, it's much easier to read society but much easier to predict human behavior, though I find myself being proficient at both predicting and reading people and society I love talking when in a talking environment for me, but also like being more quiet when in a non talking environment I love philosophy and enjoy talking about it, but when I feel someone isn't understanding me I lose interest in the conversation After writing this I think I'm a INTJ who as a balanced IQ and EQ ☠️

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing this!

@Vollbio3 Год назад

I think you are right with your spectrum assumption.

@thevindictive6145 Год назад

Same here I am an INTJ empath. Sometime I get an INFJ score like 2 out of ten times. Love philosophy and psychology but equally fascinated with astronomy and physics. I like to see it as having the best of both worlds.

@clxmcst2276 10 месяцев назад

I stuck because as an INTJ I have no social skills but I want to be diplomate. I is really my goal but a lot of people say that I can’t fit.

@diegoosmar530 Год назад

They can correct me if they have enough proof, reason and tell me more about the information of it. I like learning. But if not I'll fight until I die no matter they're right.

@v40905871 8 месяцев назад

As an INTJ I want to thank you for raising up the fact that we INTJ bear the most correct opinion on everything and also that huge di

@FeroxX_Gosu Год назад

As an INTJ-A I approve this. haha

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks!

@Merrickbri 4 месяца назад

I'm an INTJ and not into debating or arguing with you but somehow else end up doing so. :(

@syebethel Год назад

Tapping my fingers waiting for what an INTJ shd change, vs others.

@stevenchan7537 11 месяцев назад

Its great to know they are living in their own world that does not need anyone confirmation.

@LAStars-sratS 8 месяцев назад

People hate this INTJ because they can’t control me. It’s that simple.

@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 10 месяцев назад

I like the INTJ personality mixed with Dark Triad traits, along with Dark Empath traits. You can use them to intimidate and dominate others like some Star Wars Sith Lords. 💀

@anormaldude127 Год назад

as a INTJ if you are not preperd for the truth then i will wait, however if you do NOT WANT the truth then you are not mature, so get out of your small fantasies, and face it like a true adult.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Thanks for sharing!

@nitacollins3645 9 месяцев назад

Emotional idiocy is as annoying as the other kind of stupidity.

@thestarlitmagician Год назад

Exactly I just hate human beings I always feel like I don’t belong on earth ✨

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Why is that?

@thestarlitmagician Год назад

@@PsychologyRefresh if you only knew it’s a really really long story , I am just grateful if by chance I run into a good person ❤️

@Ягода_Малина 7 месяцев назад

Это правда. Моя сестра очень часто приходит ко мне пообщаться, и рассказывает о том, что она чувствует себя расстроенной. Я почти всегда даю ей совет. Это никогда не помогает, но что ещё я могу сделать? Я правда не умею утешать человека. И от этого я чувствую себя ужасной старшей сестрой, хоть и делаю всё возможное, что бы она чувствовала себя лучше. Моя помощь - это дело, но от меня явно ожидают чего-то другого. Я это понимаю, но действительно не знаю, как мне поступить, потому что, это будет неискреннее. Мне кажется, это будет ещё хуже, чем просто безучастие.

@hanabi9923 4 месяца назад

Its all coming together now...

@jamesotisjr2322 11 месяцев назад

INTJ has a strong overlap with sigma male.

@evasilvertant Год назад

Maybe it’s a bit of P in me speaking (I’m INTJ with 60/40 J/P), but I really don’t hate being corrected. It’s not that enjoyable being wrong as it can make me feel a bit insecure, but I love it when someone corrects me and I gain a better understanding. Being corrected helps me grow. However, it depends on how the person corrects me. If it’s coming from a place of narcissism, I don’t take well to that. I want to feel like the other person holds me in high regard despite being wrong at times. If the other place comes from a place of curiosity and passion, however, that’s wonderful. There is nothing better than exploring a topic together, exchanging insights, and advancing our understanding of the topic together.

@Peter-uo9km Год назад

Because when someone asks you how their cooking was and you're honest and say you didn't like it and tell them exactly why so they can change it. They might get offended but the girl who doesn't like her will like me all of a sudden and make me hot coco.

@Age_Of_Aquarius84 Год назад

I can't relate to number 8. As a writer, my work is constantly critiqued and edited, so it would be counterproductive for me to get the hump with that. 😂😂😂

@Bulmachan224 Год назад

A lot of you in the comments are not INTJ even if you think you are. I get INTJ all the time yet I still think I am not one. Plus the misspelling bothers me. An INTJ would not let that slide in themselves.

@MetaKnight964 11 месяцев назад

People don't hate INTJ's, especially not the internet, don't know where the hell you got that from.

@joygibbons5482 8 месяцев назад

1 reason why INTJs don’t care. We’re INTJs

@housecarolina 8 месяцев назад

5:26 sadly, me doing this got me broken up wit lol 😢

@jasonkiefer1894 9 месяцев назад

INTJ here. #3 It's called Resting Bitch Face. I get yelled at all the time for it.

@JAJAJAC_ 2 года назад

Basically as a INTJ the reason is because I’m an asshole. Simple😌

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Always?

@JAJAJAC_ 2 года назад

Most of the time, to be precise😉

@Fjolnirsson 2 года назад

I am upfront about it. I warn people, "I am an asshole", I tell them. I give reminders, and STILL people act all surprised when they push me. "You're an ASSHOLE!", they tell me, with shock writ large on their sheep faces. 😂😂😂

@JAJAJAC_ 2 года назад

@@Fjolnirsson Same. but honestly people just don't find telling the truth acceptable, well, sometimes people enjoy the fake than the real, don't they?

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@Fjolnirsson 😂

@yoonSeungho.18 Год назад

im an INTJ but my friends dont hate me

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Great!

@lunaromance2243 2 года назад

Gosh they don't stop coming

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Who/what?

@hollistantang9469 Год назад

Good one... I don't hate being corrected, but I like being shown why I got things wrong... And from that spot, I could analyze things whether or not the other person got the fact right... I hate arguing with people when they started to bring "fairy tales" from their trash brain and used it as their own standard of truth.. As in "because I said so" argument...

@hollistantang9469 Год назад

@@heavyhead2k139 And how could back that statement up? Got any proof?

@justforrow 5 месяцев назад

When we laugh at you, just know your already dead to us.

@jayh3283 10 месяцев назад

It’s all true.

@insakolby 10 месяцев назад

Not all people hate intjs. Just most

@yourcalling8419 7 месяцев назад

Point 8 is incorrect: INTJ’s do not give a shit about being wrong, we will immediately be more curious about the opportunity to learn of how our incorrect conclusion was reached and be enthused about improving our skills or knowledge so that we can never fall for the same trick again. INTJ’s have do not have this sort of ego attachment to whether THEY are right or wrong, the way that a ISTJ or ESTJ would have; to do so, would require ‘buying into’ ‘people’, much more than an INTJ ever would. I.e. we do not care enough about ‘people’ to care ‘ego-ically’ about what their opinion of our incorrect position was, nor do we see ourselves fully as ‘people’, in the sense required to experience the emotion of ‘hate’ that you described. We learn, they don’t hate being wrong. Maybe you’re getting mixed up, because we do something very similar; which is that: “We do hate the conclusion being wrong, before we move on to the next thing. It’s unacceptable to use false reasoning and then move on. You will be stopped and corrected at a granular level before you are permitted to move on, when there is an INTJ present.

@yourcalling8419 7 месяцев назад

EDIT: the second half of part 8 pretty much explained what I was trying to say here, never mind, it’s a pretty valid point lol

@WateryFire 8 месяцев назад

Elon Musk is not an INTJ. Also an INTJ would never think putting a chip in your brain and creating cyborgs is human evolution.

@sammywilliam8156 Год назад

One of my best friends isn't 1 of these does have the emotionalishouldn't let's stare that basically looks like she is a robot When I told her that my mom passed away see she said well that sucks and I know it was her way of saying I'm sorry because I've known her but at the same time she can also be fun and playful and all that it's just once you meet her she is extremely intimidating whatever you get passed that ypur good

@jamielake-boyd3600 Год назад

I used to be like this then i decided i wanted peace. When you got to jump up and down and freak to get someobe to listen fuck hang your picture level which looks crooked because the wall isnt square😂

@ursanirak2870 Год назад

Most people will never understand you if you dont open up. The intjs i know are very private closed off even and not expressive on the outside. As an infj i can feel them and i have empathy for their struggles (they will never admit having them). But in the end i must say i miss conformation of the good in the relationship.

@CHANCEINTUITIVE Год назад

I’m sure we hate them way more tho 😂

@amandacoelho9524 2 года назад

I guess INTJs are the most misunderstood of all types... we have Fi not to far from Te, but not often it comes out of the surface.. anyways, i love being an INTJ Edit: as i come to the end of the video, i now see the most aspects presented are heavily soaked in stereotypes. Not every video is perfect right?

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Which ones are stereotyped?

@HoesLoveGoat Год назад

What is ur mbti?

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

Take a guess!

@HoesLoveGoat Год назад

@@PsychologyRefresh intp or ENTP or intj 😂

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

@@HoesLoveGoat Some of those ;)

@HoesLoveGoat Год назад

@@PsychologyRefresh entj:)?

@wellington5688 Год назад

Probably INTJ.

@PS-xb9hc Год назад

INTJ's lack emotional depth.

@PsychologyRefresh Год назад

@t.terrell7037 Год назад

False

@YUQxYAY 7 месяцев назад

wow why so real to me lol

@t.terrell7037 Год назад

Ouch on that title….a bit harsh…

@darklightning73 2 года назад

Hmm

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

What are you thinking about?

@darklightning73 2 года назад

@@PsychologyRefresh Its hard to be an intj. Feels don't belong anywhere.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@darklightning73 It is definitely hard to be misunderstood. Here we have some life tips for you ---> ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vnsOjRqgJCY.html

@darklightning73 2 года назад

@@PsychologyRefresh Thanks

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@darklightning73 You're welcome!

@snudgegalbraith3447 2 года назад

Elon musk is an intp

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Why do you think so?

@snudgegalbraith3447 2 года назад

@Psychology Refresh in his words he reasons from first principles not by analogy. Reasoning from first principles is introverted thinking i.e breaking it down to understand its basic parts. Extraverted thinking is more reasoning by analogy i.e use what has worked before to get a result. He has also stated he "doesnt even have a business plan" . Intjs are all about plans and would be a ridiculous thing to hear them say as they lead with Ni ; it is very common for intp to say this. In his behaviour he is very playful and almost silly...this shows Ne and Fe where intj can he witty and sarcastic but are mostly serious and business like... he said that he tries to be useful for other people and thats what he likes doing; this is his Ti Ne Si fufilling his aspirational Fe...why do you think he is an intj?

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@snudgegalbraith3447 Thank you so much for this insight! Elon is often self-assured, analytical, and ambitious. Elon is probably an independent thinker who is interested in finding solutions to global issues. We believe his dominant function is Introverted Intuition (Ni).

@snudgegalbraith3447 2 года назад

@Psychology Refresh why do you believe that?

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@snudgegalbraith3447 He plans, rather than react, he is very strategical and like doing things instead of thinking about them. He is very future oriented, and also is a great problem-solver.

@kataiwannhn 2 года назад

The thing about suggesting getting a new pet when the old one died seems to be viewed as some kind of paradigm of the need for Fe. Actually, what it really shows is that many young people are at the emotional maturity level of a toddler when they cannot easily take such a suggestion emotionally. Typical Snowflake. "Crimes" against logic, on the other hand, are usually accepted without hesitation or even seen as chic.

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Great insight!

@danika9411 Год назад

You can get very attached to a pet. Like to a friend or family member. When your sister/brother or cousin dies would you say "Well mom and dad can still adopt another child."? At least I hope not. Maybe you understand now. Sincerely ENFP Who doesn't understand how we're paired with INTJs so much. Most videos are also about how an ENFP can help an INTJ, but the INTJ isn't going to love and care and have actual emotional empathy for the ENFP the way an ENFP needs.

@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 2 года назад

Uggg 😂 🤷‍♀️🤣

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

Can you elaborate? ;)

@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 2 года назад

I’m kind, but blunt. I’m an annoying encyclopedia of seemingly useless knowledge 🤷‍♀️ I’d rather be silent than participate in meaningless chatter… but I enjoy pointing out the ridiculousness of things. I’m pretty boring on the outside, but if people only knew what was going on inside 🤣 😎🤗

@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад

@@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299 Thank you for this insight!