8 Signs Someone Is Fighting Their Feelings For You

Подписаться 12 млн

Просмотров 123 тыс.

50% 1

Crushing on someone special but unsure if they feel the same way? It's time to decipher the signs and unlock the mystery of your crush's feelings and whether they're fighting their feelings for you.
Dating can be confusing. Whether you're wondering "Does he like me?" or "Does she like me?", this video is your go-to guide for unraveling the mysteries of attraction.
#crush #relationship #love
Writer: Enaa Juneja
Editor: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
Animator: Delfina (new animator)
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Gao, Z., Yu, H., Ma, X., Becker, B., Li, K., Zhou, F., & Kendrick, K. M. (2017). Men Who Compliment a Woman’s Appearance Using Metaphorical Language: Associations with Creativity, Masculinity, Intelligence and Attractiveness. Frontiers in Psychology, 8. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2017.02185
Kar, D. a. K. (2018, June 6). How to Walk Your Talk: Effective Use of Body Language for Business Professionals. papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3191047
O’Sullivan, L. F., O’Sullivan, L. F., & Garcia, J. R. (2021). Loving you from afar: Attraction to others (“crushes”) among adults in exclusive relationships, communication, perceived outcomes, and expectations of future intimate involvement. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships,026540752110386. doi.org/10.1177/02654075211038612

Опубликовано:

28 май 2024

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист

Посмотреть позже

Комментарии : 499

@aaronlee4608 17 дней назад

Why am I watching this I literally got rejected yesterday (Edit): how did this get 1.5k likes 😭, for those asking how I am now (19th may) honestly am doing worse the whole thing between us has become a whole story which you all probably don’t want to hear

@snowviix 17 дней назад

aw i’m so sorry 😭

@aaronlee4608 17 дней назад

@@snowviixthank you it’s okay tho slowly getting over it ❤

@excuseme4884 17 дней назад

Stay strong soldier! 💪

@ScrollzGhostz 17 дней назад

Same but 11 days ago but like who knows other people might like me probably not but like 🥰

@user-ms2vv2eb5o 17 дней назад

Literally got ask divorce yesterday

@user-es8zy9zr7t 4 дня назад

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

@rycoreco633 17 дней назад

1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25 2. Surface level conversations 0:50 3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10 4. They use metaphorical language 1:58 5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43 6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18 7. Obvious body cues 3:59 8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:37 9. They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

@ozbornn3 17 дней назад

@rycoreco633 1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25 2. Surface level conversations 0:50 3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10 4. They use metaphorical language 1:58 5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43 6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18 7. Obvious body cues 3:59 8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:37 9.They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

@rycoreco633 17 дней назад

@@ozbornn3 forgot that's how you normally do it , thanks

@ozbornn3 17 дней назад

@@rycoreco633 no problem 😄 glad to help 😁

@Little_Neo 17 дней назад

I’m number 9. Lol

@_asantesana_squashbanana_ 16 дней назад

Lol wish me luck.

@ck-gc1zy 17 дней назад

I'm watching this to know how to fight my feelings.

@Pleh911 17 дней назад

real

@MAPELOfps 17 дней назад

same ngl

@nunahovy 17 дней назад

Relatable, like bro, I have been in this shit since years 😭

@user-wv6rn6eh8p 17 дней назад

Same here.

@Little_Neo 17 дней назад

Woah I just realized how big pysh2go has become lol I think I’ve been here since under a million lol

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

Here's a bit of advice..... If they confuse you in any way and you have no idea where you stand with each other relationship wise and every time you try to make sense of said topic but they deflect or straight up refuse to talk about it......... DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND RUN. Not because they are bad people necessarily, but because you will NOT be confused if someone genuinely likes you and you shouldn't have to feel like you're pulling teeth to get someones feelings out of them. Being with someone who's emotionally unavailable is shitty and detrimental to ones psyche 🤷

@markvd1008 13 дней назад

But some people don't mean to be that way and they would regret later, especially if not being clear to intend only wanting to be friends and not romantic. There can be nuance to this.

@jayvee1387 13 дней назад

@@markvd1008 fixing other peoples confusion on where they stand with you is not your job. if someone cant make up their mind and stop playing games, then thats on them to learn and grow from. Nobody wants to be led on and nobody wants to be with someone who isnt mature and aware enough to see that their actions and behaviors are hurting someone else either. You can make excuses for that person all you want as well, but thats not going to make them change or actually put in effort to show you that they care. And im speaking as someone who is very emotionally unavailable. theres a reason im not dating. Nobody wants to live with a walking talking minefield.

@markvd1008 13 дней назад

@@jayvee1387 I'm actually the one who tends to have regret of accidentally confusing people due to not communicating when I wanted to, hence why I sometimes dwell about my past and trying to fix it by reaching out. (With something too intricate to explain in full detail here.) Especially if I knew better that my heart wanted to speak up from the very beginning. Since it can be painful to cause a misunderstanding. So then, what if the same person wants to make amends years later due to knowing deep down they can still be friends with that person? So, even if it's not your job to fix other peoples confusion, it can still be their own fault (self-blame) for causing a misunderstanding to the other person if it went against their own values or true self. I personally believe seeking redemption and forgiveness can be possible even years later and possibly even reconcile. People can change.

@EspritArkitekt 11 дней назад

@@markvd1008but those ppl like ur self never actually step out of the shadows to make amends, it just stays as a fantasy in their heads & the rest of us just continue harboring negative feelings whenever we remember someone like u. I'm on the receiving end for the 2nd time in a row with someone at my new job & I WISH he would just be clear & honest about whatever is going on with him instead of him tryna start something with me & now behaving like an ass

@ulyana_schen 17 дней назад

Watch this to find out if someone has a hidden crush on you: ❌ Watch this to find out whether or not you're hiding your feelings correctly: ✅

@nunahovy 17 дней назад

Relatable

@raegan8472 15 дней назад

Relate

@stars_obsessed 12 дней назад

Yep 😖

@bartholetbay412 16 дней назад

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

@paulinebricks3441 16 дней назад

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@bartholetbay412 16 дней назад

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Shelly Renee White

@paulinebricks3441 16 дней назад

thank you, but how do i reach her?

@bartholetbay412 16 дней назад

look her name up online, you will find all you need to know about her. she is definitely going to help.

@anderstermansen130 15 дней назад

Its wrong though. Everyone around me have what seems like a perfect, flawless, sunshine and rainbows type of relationship. Everyone around me can walk up to a woman, or a man for that matter and BOOM. You got a solid couple in an instant.

@8MinutesExplainer 17 дней назад

1. They seem to light up whenever you enter the room, their eyes lingering on you a beat longer than necessary. 2. You catch them stealing glances at you when they think you're not looking, a shy smile playing on their lips. 3. They go out of their way to help you or be near you, even for the smallest of tasks. 4. Their body language speaks volumes - leaning in when you talk, finding excuses to touch your arm or shoulder. 5. They remember the little things about you, like your favorite coffee order or the book you mentioned wanting to read. 6. There's a subtle nervousness in their demeanor when they're around you, as if they're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. 7. They mirror your actions or adopt similar interests, trying to create a connection between the two of you. 8. They become more attentive and supportive, cheering you on in your endeavors and offering a listening ear when you need it most. 9. They express genuine concern for your well-being and happiness, going above and beyond to ensure you're okay. 10. Their friends might drop hints or tease them when you're around, indicating that they've confided in others about their feelings for you.

@copperdingus759 17 дней назад

4’s something I casually do all the time with my friends-

@jayvee1387 16 дней назад

These seem like they are moreso things that someone who is fighting feelings for you exhibit. The things in this video are very avoidant and emotionally immature and i cant think of a reason why ANYONE would tolerate them. 🤷🏽

@LeifTunteri-lm6un 14 дней назад

Well now you've got me overthinking!

@teefrankenstein4340 8 дней назад

💯

@SMAnthonyW 14 дней назад

POV: You are the one fighting your feelings about someone

@mkanyam 17 дней назад

Click accidentally... 💀

@8MinutesExplainer 17 дней назад

Same here😮

@BatimFnafTadc1 17 дней назад

SURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRE

@ichibear4395 17 дней назад

Its not accidental. Its intentional

@echo3568 17 дней назад

Accidentally my ass

@aditibhosale5200 17 дней назад

Same💀

@SnailTrailJay 17 дней назад

Gotta love a situationship, I know he likes me but some days he’s all over me and other days we barely talk except for a hi or 2. It’s confusing

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

why waste your time then? Being alone is better than being played...🤷

@matthewheipp749 16 дней назад

@@jayvee1387good point

@nategubbins8871 16 дней назад

I'm in one too. It's been a long while as she's been "figuring out how she feels" but after a bit, enough is enough. Avoidant or not, people deserve honesty.

@Cthreeoh 15 дней назад

@@nategubbins8871 Just ended things as well with a girl because of this, after the date she said she loved being around me and I make her feel loved and cared for, texts slowed down I asked what’s wrong she said she’s going through a depressive episode then 3 weeks pass and still haven’t seen her

@Cthreeoh 15 дней назад

@@nategubbins8871Just ended things with a girl as well because of this, After our date she said she loved being around me and I make her feel happy, loved and cared for but the texts slowed down I asked what’s wrong and she said she’s going through a depressive ep. But 3 weeks go by and I haven’t seen her, as well as 1-2 texts a day.

@targetkittyfive 17 дней назад

I'm staying single for the rest of my LIFE!! I hate games! And this is definitely game playing! 😢

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

agreed on the games thing. this doesn't sound like they're fighting feelings. this just sounds like someone whos emotionally unavailable and not ready for a relationship

@brienna224 17 дней назад

when i’m thinking that im learning about others, i just learn more about myself. This is me 😭 need to do more inner work

@danyelleorr-mcneil4711 17 дней назад

Actually, no, it's a beautiful thing. The more you learn about others, the more you learn about yourself. The more you learn about yourself, the more you learn about others❤ Self-awareness is what you seem to be in the process of discovering. You got this😉

@brienna224 17 дней назад

@@danyelleorr-mcneil4711 awww thank you for the encouragement! You got this too! ❤️

@doloressingletary1502 17 дней назад

The fact that this guy has been showing all of these signs for yearssssss is insane 😭😭. At some point we have to be honest with ourselves and with the people we have interest in. The idea of forcing away emotions and feelings towards a person… sounds like torture 😬

@ltdino21 17 дней назад

It is but you get used to it

@akanehakashima5114 17 дней назад

Yeah true... It us torture but foe my case... I'd rather fight those feelings and push them away cause she will never take an interest in me and my friends hates her and her friends and I have to pretend that I hate her too, bad mouthing her when I think she is such an amazing person🥲

@donotreadmyprofile9373 17 дней назад

same. ipIt happened to me for years with a person

@nunahovy 17 дней назад

@@akanehakashima5114 I think you should just be honest. Don't bad mouth her. Not even as a romantic interest, just stop it! You are hurting her!

@nunahovy 17 дней назад

I mean. If you have a valid reason for hiding them is worth it.

@zari9109 17 дней назад

Not me watching this to see if I truly like him or just his company.

@PrinceOfDawn55 17 дней назад

When you realise you’re the one showing theses signs and not ur crush 😅😂

@gracetwang6139 17 дней назад

0:25 they tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:49 surface-level conversations 1:09 they joke about potential relationships 1:42 they use metaphorical language 2:43 they might avoid direct contact 3:19 they put a facade of confidence 3:58 obvious body cues 4:37 they display hot and cold behaviour 5:17 they seek information about you indirectly

@fatboyoficiale 16 дней назад

Sorry but if someone is playing Tsundere with you DON’T PURSUE THEM. They will either manipulate you or do not want your advances

@cashordeals3672 17 дней назад

So any single homies here that can't relate 💀

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

me asf..... Im single and celibate and NOT looking. Not only because the dating scene is a literal warzone rn but also because people just give me the ick in general now. And because all people want nowadays in relationships of ANY kind is the entertainment and games or the instant gratification or the ego boost, everything is transactional.... Very stale boring stuff imo 🤷

@Polar_Bear_2007 17 дней назад

As much as I want to hate him, it's not that easy.

@danam7172 15 дней назад

i started the video hoping to see signs he likes me back i ended the video realizing it just described me when im around him

@Gisellenid 17 дней назад

This art was one of the cutest I've seen in your channel! Congrats to the artist! Also, I have noticed these signs with my closest friend, but it should remain like this in order to keep our friendship healthy. He has a SO, but can't avoid me, nor do I, because of our job. It's sad.

@user-sp8sr1my6e 17 дней назад

Please kindly continue posting your much appreciated videos

@noobzito2 17 дней назад

Timestamp! -0:24 They tend to avoid emotional intimacy -0:51 surface-level conversations -1:09 They joke about potential relationships -1:42 They use Methaphorical language -2:44 they might avoid direct contact -3:21 They put on a facade of confidence -3:58 obvious body cues -4:37 They display hot and cold behaviour -5:19 They seek information about you indirectly

@Pretzelman718 13 дней назад

I'm seeing about 5/8 of these from the person I'm interested in. This is driving me crazy.

@idris7901 17 дней назад

I needed it so much❤❤ Thank you❤❤❤

@arundumbon4033 11 дней назад

Out of every video this channel uploaded, I related to this the most!

@biggbossgyann 13 дней назад

8 out of 8,i wish i would have worked on my academy's like this.

@Aioooo981 12 дней назад

LMAO

@jayceegutierrez5051 17 дней назад

Im still watching this even tho I know they just dont like me and probably hate me because of ruining our friendship

@franchottwoodjr6181 17 дней назад

Thank you very much for all of your informative videos,sir.

@syirahohsem 13 дней назад

bro is describe my situation right now.. i'm the one with avoid emotional intimacy 😭😭

@JLDREAMS 17 дней назад

orrr they dont like you :)

@JoeyKottman 5 дней назад

thank you so much Psych2go, on my journey and losses to finally establish this win in my books, i'm so grateful you helped me do this. much love, best channel for advice. ❤❤❤

@miffylover850 17 дней назад

Wow this is timed well😳

@bongobiggoose 17 дней назад

I have this person that's a friend, and I don't want to act like I have a crush on them because I only want them to be a friend and nothing else.

@eijil. 17 дней назад

HIm and I have a very complicated friendship. He watches me and my details. He jokes with me and we push each other and laugh together, but the next day he ignores me completely. We always quarrel and do not correspond at all except on special occasions. Sometimes I say that the matter is over and that he no longer likes me, but the strange thing is that until now he still looks at me. He still follows all my details. He is very conflicted and tries to fight his feelings

@Anita-vc8nb 17 дней назад

I gave the same reply to somebody else but here it goes: I think that if someone is being hot and cold with you and this person's actions (leaving you on seen, avoiding you, etc) are making you feel bad, get away from this person. You deserve someone who knows your worth, is sure about you, and enhances your life. Really ask yourself what you want from this relationship, and if this person isn't it, then bye, I say this from experience, playing games is exhausting and it usually never ends well. Much love and support to you

@eijil. 17 дней назад

@@Anita-vc8nb Thank you for your words, and yes, what you said is true, because these relationships greatly destroy a person’s mood. I felt exhausted by him, because one day he was always teasing me, scolding me, and the next day smiling at me. I see him treating everyone kindly and treating me harshly, so I got tired of taking the initiative and left the matter. By ignoring ..

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

@@Anita-vc8nb I second this wholeheartedly! Very well said

@ZacharyTheGreat896 17 дней назад

I've been watching you for a while now but hadn't had my own account to sub. This advice, per say, has helped me.

@huaping7266 15 дней назад

this vid made me realize that I've done this to the guy I liked 4 years ago. Now, I feel bad for myself because I could've been in a relationship with a person that I resonate with.

@anderstermansen130 15 дней назад

aww thats just too fucking bad. But hey, congratulations. You have succesfully, and just like all other women, hurt a guy. Are you happy???

@anderstermansen130 15 дней назад

having a crush require human feelings. Something i quitted having. It only got weaponized against me at all time.

@kassoullye 15 дней назад

watching this knowing all too well that it's me. I'm the one who's fighting hopelessly

@Anita-vc8nb 17 дней назад

Remember everyone, you deserve someone who is sure about you, knows your worth, and enhances your life. There can be a point in which this hot and cold behavior can be exhausting and make you feel bad, so take care of yourself, really analyze if you want to continue pursuing this person (if they make you feel this bad), and love yourself first.

@LovelyBunny-uv7gx 15 дней назад

Hi Psy, I just noticed that subscribers have reached 12 million. Yay, congrats 👏 💖 💕 💓 😊

@itsmeeandrea 16 дней назад

This is so me 😮 but also the animations in this video are soooo cute and pretty 😍😍

@veronicaferguson8548 17 дней назад

I chose for him by chosing someone else who was direct and honest.

@YoonchiYa 17 дней назад

YES! 🙌

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

THIS!!!!!!! Thank you for standing up for yourself cuz gotDAMN do i have shitty news for the people waiting for their emotionally unavailable "SOs" to wake up and notice them..... 🙄😒

@Shay4YourMind81 17 дней назад

Yep, that’s how you do it! 💯 I had to do the same thing with someone who wanted to play games. Then he had the audacity to be upset with me for not playing his game. You snooze, you lose.

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

@@Shay4YourMind81 "gotta be quicker than that!" 🤣😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@MegaManNeo 17 дней назад

Interesting pieces of information in that regard if I ever experience this situation.

@sleepy_owlie4547 17 дней назад

watching after knowing he likes someone else, and hasnt moved on i think he confessed recently a week before the exam date, his been hinting about how he was kind to her and she broke his heart on fb and well i guess i understand why he likes her, shes been his friend for 2 years na. i know i dont have a chance, im not his type, im rowdy, playful, loud, touchy and unexperienced when it comes to love, im a kid in other peoples eyes but i keep having feelings, the way he looks when his concentrating, when his smilling and laughing, and how kind, thoughtful, and respectful he is but i also kind of like how cute he is when his mad as long as its not directed on me, and his random actions like petting my head or reasuring me just keeps my feelings for him alive, its been 8 months since i realized i had feelings for him but i know my feelings were slowy developing a year ago, i even said that he was my type to ny best friend before really realizing i liked him. alot of my friends keep telling me to move on even myself, but its hard, whenever i see him i know my feelings are still there

@saraireyes8678 16 дней назад

I think you should tell him when the time is right it sounds like you genuinely like this person and it’s not just a subtle crush, if u can’t tell him irl write him a short letter or note n prepare urself mentally for rejection n if ur afraid of losing ur friendship express to them that you will respect their feelings n just appreciate the friendship u have ( n who knows maybe one day this person will come to like u too) 😊

@LeifTunteri-lm6un 14 дней назад

Talk to him once he's recovered from the heartbreak, and speak with your heart. Be honest and vulnerable. It sounds like you genuinely love him and it's not fair to yourself to keep supressing those feelings. Even if you get rejected you'll at least have the closure of having tried and you'll be able to move on much easier. Stop overthinking about whether you're his type or not and just go for it!

@gatorssbm 16 дней назад

This sounds a bit like fearful avoidance but its about half of these that are usual behaviors. tbh there can be a good chance that some of these can be false alarms because even my partner who dragged out a situationship still tried being somewhat emotionally vulnerable. This is the only video on this channel Im a bit dicey on but overall keep up the good work.

@shin_chan3074 17 дней назад

I WANNA CONFESS SO BADLYyyyy but im so scared of his response or the others s reactions 🥹😭😭😭

@knacksahne202 17 дней назад

She shows like 5 1/2 of these, these videos really are fuel for overthinking

@makotohan166 16 дней назад

This shows up hours after asking my friend’s cousin on why they believe her & I still have some sort of romantic connection years later

@whoisbriannab 17 дней назад

Yeah....I'm in similar situation. I have shared my feelings. She says she doesn't feel the same but she exhibits all of these signs. Some more than others, but they are all there. To complicate things even more she's my bestie. So decoding becomes murky.

@aellalee4767 16 дней назад

Pretty sure this is the way my interactions go with people I'm interested in. Unfortunately they still say no when I ask them out. Probably because I can't comprehend why you'd say no if you're interested. I have no fear of emotional pain.

@Luna_this_handle_is_taken 17 дней назад

Why am i here, i dont even talk to them and i only see them in the hallways

@PaoMeetang 17 дней назад

Yayyy a video 🥳

@niasiamack9333 17 дней назад

This video helps a lot

@crystaldance5731 16 дней назад

Interesting thanks ❤️😊

@artsydog 17 дней назад

here too early for the timestamps

@ozbornn3 17 дней назад

@rycoreco633 1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25 2. Surface level conversations 0:50 3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10 4. They use metaphorical language 1:58 5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43 6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18 7. Obvious body cues 3:59 8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:53 (Edit) 9.They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

@ChronarAutomaton 17 дней назад

@@ozbornn3great

@LeifTunteri-lm6un 14 дней назад

Lmao this video has me overthinking. Pretty sure it's nothing, but a part of my brain keeps going "what if?". I think I'm just longing for love again though.

@TheNonameHousehold 15 дней назад

Realizing I did that as a kid towards the cute curly haired girl with glasses and didn't even realize it 😳🤦🏽‍♀️

@moppot456 17 дней назад

Thank you for this video now that I can become alone by myself

@godknows3082 17 дней назад

Psych2go you just broked me in million parts😭😭

@EClair1019 12 дней назад

Instead of clicking this video to see if my crush MIGHT like me back, I ended up being everything the video suggested.

@Aioooo981 12 дней назад

No fr which is me as well 💀

@NataliahRose7 17 дней назад

I accidentally fell down the water slide stairs onto my crush 😭 Hes the one who made me fall on him tho

@nevergonnaendvideos 14 дней назад

I miss the old character with the leaf on his head😭

@Torriotorres 17 дней назад

I watched this channel about 2 years ago. I'm not the same guy. I don't wonder. I don't doubt myself.

@ribeirojulhia 17 дней назад

I knew he had crush on me, but as he didnt tell me i respected his decisions and i didn't know him neither so it was complicated

@crow3370 17 дней назад

This is how I'm acting right now about someone i like

@alicialeong1993 17 дней назад

this all sounds just like me but with my BFF who is a boy I confessed to before but got rejected and I still feel the same way and idw to feel them no more and T.T

@egg9831 17 дней назад

i feel very called out lol

@A55a551n 17 дней назад

Timestamps 1). They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:24 2). They joke about potential relationships 1:08 3). They use metaphorical language 1:40 4). They might avoid direct contact 2:42 5). They put a facade of confidence 3:17 6). Obvious body cues 3:57 7). They display hot and cold behaviour 4:35 8). They seek information about you indirectly 5:17 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@RandomCoolStuff69 16 дней назад

🫡thx

@adibmirza3755 17 дней назад

But if someone talked about hypothetical relationships with others I’ll just think they don’t like me lmao

@Caspher.92 13 дней назад

it's me! I am that someone, fighting my own feelings🥲

@user-fc2tj8lf2m 17 дней назад

I have a girl that keeps telling me she likes me a lot and she kissed me last time we saw each other, yet I still can't stop telling myself that its not real.

@alexidk1863 11 дней назад

and here i was thinking i was hiding it super well 😭

@BeaAdelineManlangit 13 дней назад

I've been all of that in the past to my highschool crush

@kaitlynabboud3395 17 дней назад

Pov: you do all those things…..

@wisteria1739 17 дней назад

And do you think you are fighting your feelings for them?

@ichibear4395 17 дней назад

Damn, 100% accuracy

@kaitlynabboud3395 17 дней назад

@@wisteria1739 definitely, I’m trying to fix it though lol

@ribeirojulhia 17 дней назад

Now I know why can't never tell my feelings i was doing this indirectly

@cosmist8207 17 дней назад

Oh nooo..how did I end up here? Well, guess I have to stay and watch the video now

@YMiji 17 дней назад

he's ignoring my texts, avoiding me in school and i just feel like i should give up :(

@jasonfanclub4267 17 дней назад

Yes, detach from this person. Sometimes they then get attracted

@aaravpundir7379 17 дней назад

⁠@@jasonfanclub4267that’s terrible advice Just ask him why

@partinghours 17 дней назад

If he wants to avoid you... Just ignore him... It might be hard to move on... But try to move on.. You'll find someone better or someone else eventually.. But if you can't move on and like him too much.. Try to mend the relationship..

@YMiji 17 дней назад

But sometimes I think he is giving me mixed signals, he would sometime stare at me and smile. His friends, who alr know I had a crush on him, kept teasing him. It made him a bit more distant

@partinghours 17 дней назад

@@YMiji there is a chance he might like you back, he is probably ignoring you because he is too embarrassed by his friends. Though try talking to him more often, if you get the chance.

@N192K001 17 дней назад

Oh, d-! This has been my playbook for pretty much most of my life, but this is the 1st time I've actually seen it actually laid-out in an explicit listing. (Others just thought I wasn't being honest with my emotions. No, I was fighting it. Duties come 1st!) Still, good job, P2G!

@allyapril5819 14 дней назад

Yeah I can’t talk to my gym crush but I have been giving him signals

@sherrifjenkins9229 15 дней назад

Dude, don’t expose me like that! 😅

@ady829 17 дней назад

Idk why I'm watching this😂 I don't even have an interest with anyone or seen anyone having an interest in me😂

@happy_happy-mayday-mayday._ 16 дней назад

Why am i watching this? I literally just confessed to someone while they liked me back

@matthewheipp749 16 дней назад

These tips should be useful for me (so that i can fight it)

@kuroyuuep 17 дней назад

I have a friend that I just recently noticed that they've been crushing on me for awhile now . I thought they liked me recently but it turns out that it's been more than a year. They know that I cannot reciprocate their feelings because they know that I'm AroAce. I feel so bad and it ended up making our relationship drift apart...

@jayvee1387 17 дней назад

You shouldnt feel bad at all, hun. If you literally CANNOT give them what they want, and you know that them being around you but not WITH you is just as detrimental and your friendship cant go back to how it was, then you're better off just letting them go. You can't be put in the friendzone if you dont want to be friends, and the same is true for other people in regards to yourself. If someone wants a relationship with you and you want to remain friends because you genuinely cannot do relationships...... Then what options does that person realistically have? At least youre not doing it for malicious reasons. Dont beat yourself up.

@kuroyuuep 17 дней назад

@@jayvee1387 Thank you

@steevguy99 13 дней назад

@@jayvee1387sometimes , having a crush on someone can bring the relationship closer (not all the time but it worked for me) , for exemple i confessed to my crush who's aro-ace , but now her and i are friends when we weren't before So , to the main commenter , do what you feel is right for you , always follow your heart

@dycedarg19 16 дней назад

I found out I’m mostly this person. We’ve both been hurt by bad relationships, but I’ve developed some feelings. I want to think that they also have feelings, but we both do a good job of avoiding confessing. But who knows, maybe all this time I’m the only who has these feelings! 😂

@imanbb2669 17 дней назад

Pls do more vids about how do i know if ny shy crush likes me or just sth about love and crushes i need these tips plss

@enyacorneliasoderberg 15 дней назад

Feeding my delutions fr

@kittygent9612 17 дней назад

here we go again

@janetstraw191 16 дней назад

When a guy introduces you as “his friend “ BELIEVE HIM! That’s all you will ever be.

@kdramaloverboy6223 17 дней назад

I do all this honestly😭😭😭, i find it easier. When I see them with someone else(even just smiling), I tell myself that I cant have them cause they belong to soneone else and i cant have them

@A-Random_Pakistani 17 дней назад

my greatest fear is her having seen this video and then i approach her at school because my friend sits very close to her and then she realizes how obvious i’m being 😭

@crochet_gurl3725 15 дней назад

My best friend is somewhat matching with these infos...(I only see him as a brother)

@setareh5888 16 дней назад

I know someone with this signs. At first I thought they like me, there was mixed signals but I decided to came out of my comfort zone and start to talk to them more and do deep conversations, but at some point I felt like he sees me as nothing, he doesn't act aroundme as a friend nor lover. And I was like then what was those behaviors?! Now that I see this video I found what's going on. He use metaphor, he seek info indirectly, he doesn't contact me out of school but in school he has body language toward me like seeking to say hi when he doesn't have to, wait for me or let me pass first always,... makes jokes about having relationships with others. I know now what he is doing but like I overcome my crush toward him but why when he is still struggling, he didn't put step towards me?