8 Signs You Have a strong Intimidating Personality 

I face this a lot

I think that sounds about right except maybe excluding dealing with a person who have a narcissistic personality

Logic died suddenly

As a white Russian Ukrainian Jewish male, that's a default in America today.

@@spfein You're not White, but you wish you were.

I guess I am intimidating too!

Some of it can be you physical appearance as unfair as that may be. Especially if you’re very tall and large. That combined with ether awkwardness in talking or no nonsense attitude can come across as intimidating.

Maybe you are just a wanker 😳🤷🏼‍♂️

I am 6.66 feet tall, and my voice resonates like a deep, loud bass, vibrating through objects like an earthquake. I resemble Clint Eastwood and have an athletic build. I remember when my brother and I went to the doctor, and the doctor told me I would be a very tall man. When we got home, my brother took me to a mirror and said, "I will always be bigger than you." I recall the day we reunited after almost three years apart. He was so scared that he wrote me six letters confessing all the bullying he had done to me. It was so cute and funny. But it feels good to be intimidating-nobody wants to mess with you.

@@3DVizzion it’s better than being the opposite

I actually hate that about myself, although admittedly I have used it to my advantage at the same time in life. But I know for a fact it's kept people from trying to get to know me, even when I have tried to show that's not necessary and I'm open to it.

Intelligence is intimidating. Intelligence is always growing because you want it to therefore, you can be intimidating because you want to be.

@@vincev4630 Lol yeah I hear people always talkin about how intimidating nerds are saying fuck man is he smart best leave it with him or he’ll slap you with some knowledge 😂

@@neolion8150 - The intimidating ones are not loud. You've probably got played by a dozen nerds already and don't even know it 😂

@@vincev4630lol 99% sure your American . You do know words have actual meaning. Not what you feel they are. 🤡 Best look in a dictionary if you know what one is.

I get told flat out, usually by women, "men" just avoid me unless they are humble or cerebral.

Ur softer than baby !@#%. Nobody cares

Thats weird

My comment keeps getting reported.... really intimidating.

@@yourHandleShouldBeAtLeast3... 😅 AI is a tyrant bro

This is literally me, I have done each and each and every thing you have written in this comment except being depressed

You are a HUGE inspiration. Any advice for someone who wants to pursue similar endeavors?

That's called having a stoic life. Not a moment in life wasted or unused.

You know, I find this contradictory though. If you have pursuits or a career that relies on collaboration with others like much of that has to for success, how much can you truly be solitary?

no no no no, you're definitely lonely and depressed because you're not surrounded by people and doing all the things you're told to do by others. clearly. never have faith in yourself or confidence, that's not healthy.

I used to think I was very unattractive too but learned its that STRONG intimidation vibe.. especially when I use my eyes to communicate, maybe you do the same too. Honestly it was the biggest wake up when people finally starting admitting to me that initially I seemed/seem intimidating

yep im intimidating bc i call the bullcrap out in people one thing im realky good at is reading people and some things you can only learn on the streets what people fail to realize i been therr done that at age 12

atleast now i can go through the proper channels and get all the perverts exposed

@@TomRados what you mean? I'm not connecting this what you expressed above.

​@@TheMedicineMan_29this person is trying to make this about something that it's not. That right there is a red flag always. People in bars always find me intimidating. You either have to not care or you have to employ tactics consciously to not come off that way.

Excellent point! 💯

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It is impossible to hide a truly great individual. You will subconsciously display traits of strength.

Just made from a different cloth!!!

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Well said, this generation is weak minded

Yes!!

I (female) have a cousin (male) two years older than me. He has always excelled academically, as well as in his chosen profession. We are 100% never been in any way competitors. But he has always disliked me for absolutely no reason. My father (a military collaborative, yet alpha-male - and the brother to my cousin’s mother) has always told me “he doesn’t like you because he’s insecure”. I could never understand that. I’m 45 and just starting to be able to understand. My cousin, with all of his success, left his tiny hometown once: to go away to a state school 2.5 hours away, when he was 18 years old. He flunked out in his first semester and had to move back home to attend the local community college. Whereas I was raised all over because of my military father, I graduated high school and lived all over the US and even abroad for a time. I am perfectly content (and prefer) to be a small, anonymous, fish in a big pond. My cousin cannot adapt outside of feeling like a big fish in a tiny pond. I just feel sorry for him.

​@@katiejon17 I'm 18 male and done with college and high school but my older siblings act all intimated and jealous of me when I'm around and I'm the baby but they don't help or encourage me. They just try and drag me down to their level and my father says I have to be the first one to leave home (the baby) to save my mental health. I can't hold myself back anymore to make my siblings feel better. That's why we all can't relate. People always call me the smartest of the 5 and I hate it

I totally agree and I am the same. Take me as iam.

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@@laurawheeler-px6oz Lol, wow, now there’s spam for Ms. Cleo. 😂

When you are a cut above all it does is make people jealous and perceive you as a threat. No point in being the smartest person in the room without a higher position. People will tear you and try to lower your confidence. Harshness of life but we learn to maneuver it. Better shun your ego as to not give your 'enemies' any weapons against you.

@@taitohandy People move into "higher" positions because they're not the smartest person in the room. People are promoted beyond their competency...

So you're more of a solo when it comes to work. If you really want to improve and work with others, you might want to start learning how to become a leader instead of a boss.

@@newera478 "I do admit that there's more money to be made if you can work well with others."

All money is not good money. Working for yourself is better options. Remember there lost your GAIN .

It's not about not giving a F*, its about saying and doing the right thing, which is very rare now 'a days.

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It's just the art of not giving a fk🤔

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People suck, no moral compass or they are just plain worthless.

I'm here for the opposite reason. sometimes, I feel like people aren't fully comfortable around me... So sometimes i wonder "am i scary/intimidating to them?". in terms of physical presence i'm a pretty big guy and i'm brutally honest sometimes, so maybe that's why(my close friends tell me i don't have enough of a filter). When i was in highschool I sarcastically pretended to be angry as a joke but some of the people in the area genuinely thought i was angry, got scared, and reported it to a teacher. I literally clicked on this video to figure out how to be LESS intimidating and more inviting. People are interesting and i'd like for people to feel comfortable around me once in a while, not on edge 24/7

I can't stand people anymore, lying, deceitful, manipulative, users & abusers. It's all competition, they will destroy you with a smile on their face same with family the gaslighting is unreal. No real Respect so I go it alone

​@@danielingyuyoon2952no you're not. When people say you're intimidating.. its not you, but them. Many people grow up without a spine, never been in tough situations and always protected by lovely mom and dad. Those people find anything that isnt soft boiled, intimidating.

@@Happythings354Lets just dissect this chain logically. This guy wants to be less intimidating to his peers. A fine goal. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I raise my voice without noticing, and no it isn’t manly or cool to ignore it to feel “alpha”. Thats emotional behaviour. And no if your peers are threatened by you they aren’t weak. Its an unusual situation to sense you put someone in, and normal human beings don’t feel joy from that. Spend time around cops, soldiers etc. any first responders too. You’ll notice real men who actually do brave things on a daily basis don’t play these virgin games with people. Its just emotional immaturity thats it. And its not masculine to think how you do.

Yes, and reality is, sadly, 80%+ people in the world do have low self-esteem and are very insecure.

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Is it the face tattoos 😅

​@@user-yw8qf8cc3tlike Mike Tyson? Mike is an intimidating man to most yeah

I say the same. 😂

We all started out life as dependent, people pleasing children...and punished for doing otherwise...

I need all the understanding skills I can get. Thank you!

I am learning this right now. Socratic method is awesome...

How can videos be toxic i think your over sensitive

Dummy

People with low intelligence think most ideas are toxic.

@@BelieveNothingAllLies Oh, in many different ways.

@@BelieveNothingAllLies Think of how the subject of NPD is trending so heavily today, and how most everyone says to just "go no contact" with them? Now, think of how there are all kinds of videos up about that you are a "Chosen One" if you do this/that, right? So NPDs believe that they are "special, privileged... chosen". Therefore folks that go by I'm a "Chosen One!" will likely often be referred to as a NPD. Know what I mean?

I'm having an 'ah ha' moment myself! 😁

Bro, I just said goodbye to my mom for the last time yesterday and she’s been going through all of the same issues. I’m so sorry, my mom and I are very close and I’m expecting a call anytime now that she is finally at peace after a lifetime of pain. I wish your mom and you Godspeed.

Wow sorry bout that I mite be next she's not alone 🙏 for her

​@@rickybobby5950sorry to hear that

@@booturnedoff3454 i dope so, thank you so much

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Don't know. I'm 36. What do you mean "no social skills"?

@@SebHaarfagre The fact they find someonw with social skills, "Intimidating."

Who knows they're all a bunch of fools

They think sociable means talking on a discord server.

It says "Intimidating Personality". Some people can influence others just by looking at them. F.e. Thugs are not intimidating, they are dangerous and stupid. Trump is intimidating, even when somebody likes him.

yeye make this thing also about strong women

No such thing.

It must be fantasy time.

Absolutely true.

Also doesn't exist if such woman is also doing what's right

Except for the last schadenfreude part ( 😂) perhaps, I can't find anything wrong with any of this. You can be emphatic and still be no-nonsense. If you can recognize someone struggling and give them some respite, and recognize who are full of themselves and needs to be grounded, all the better.

Lol

Maybe both for you

I work with someone that is on the spectrum that people take the wrong way because they are blunt and rational. I’m stoic and reserved and say little until I need to. He’s one of my favorite colleagues because we understand each other.

To most, an autistic mind represents not just an unknown but an unknowable. Most are so intimidated by the unknown that they are induced to fear.

​@@rickybobby5950I am like your friend. I share an office with a woman who has a son like me. She and I get along great. And the small handful.of.other people I work well with also tend.to be extremely logical and straightforward. And those who are very emotionally driven - especially the ones who try to codify and amplify all the unwritten rules of social dominance games - I avoid. Fortunately I have found my way into a field where one of the most valuable things I can offer is "the outsider's perspective". My ways let me remain perpetually the outsider. So I get to function almost like a resident management consultant.

Yep, I feel dumb right now too!

Wow!

the only time I ever aplogise is when I am wrong witch is very rare all I will say is oops my mistake

I thought validation was for parking.

Being unapologetic isn't a weakness, it's simple politeness. The world doesn't revolve around _you._

@@scruf153 If you're wrong you *SHOULD* apologize or admit it. Dissonance, decadence, ignorance and gluttony are the absolute worst traits. Also your mind will never grow/you will never develop as a person if you can't admit faults. People who expect others to think _for_ them, and people who don't care about others (emphatically) are straight garbage for humanity, pardon me.

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The "gift of intimidation" and bullying? What dodgy traits are valued by our society. For whatever happened to compassion and caring attitudes?

I was in prison for 12 years😂 my mom thinks I'm mean.. no.. just no games..real man overcommer.. im 39 my gfs all say I act better.... I can't be acting I tell them I just am

These discussions are meaningless unless you include the info as to why you scare them or intimidate them. That's missing here from what your brother had to say.

@@BigBadJerryRogers my brother never said why people are scared but I can only imagine It's because I usually see through people's bullshit. In other words I don't give shit and I don't take shit...

@@BigBadJerryRogers and I would disagree with this... People are simply trying their best to relate to this video and share some of their experiences..

@@stellarcreations7378 well actually since you put it that way you just sound like you're very into yourself. So why would anyone want to bother with you? That's also missing here.

I have never gone with the crowed what the crowed does is childish and dumb to me

I agree with you

Agreed.

Yes, thank you, and a lot of the comments are just self-confirmation biases and comments seeking validation, which is highly ironic given some of them claim to hit all these "checkmarks" in the first place. This video can explain some situations which perhaps did not make as much sense before. This video is good for _self reflection,_ it's not supposed to reinforce people's dissonance. A lot of the comments I find stupid. This is one of the better ones. Edit: Also this is not just about work, but daily interactions. I don't find any men intimidating. However, I find some women "intimidating". Because I know they can ruin lives, and some even (unsuccessfully) tried or "tried". A gang in hoodies in a tunnel after midnight in a shady area with no other people around is intimidating. Being in a foreign country alone as a tourist is intimidating, if you're not prepared for it. An interviewer for a job who sounds like he/she's more interested in loading off a bad day at you than hiring you, can be intimidating (and counter-productive and stupid, to be honest, and genuinely a self-dodging bullet, if they're trying to be "bossy" just for the sake of it; not a place you want to work). I worked with an ex-torpedo chef, frying pans flying and whatnot. He was not intimidating. Because I had no reason to piss him off, and also some of hte things that ticked him off ticked me off as well. If I was with someone I knew was a psychopath, I'd be intimidated. Not by stature or outward behaviour, but knowing they are not rational. Gay people intimidate me a little bit, because I think they "want" me just for being a man, which is irrational, and I'm cognizant about this and still polite. Some lesbians are out to "get" men. Out of jealousy or psychopathy, I don't know. People with weapons behaving irrationaly - for example an angry woodcutter with a chainsaw - intimidate me. I don't see any reason to be intimidated by other people in general who I don't know. It makes no sense. I never thought about if I intimidate others, as I'm always trying to be my best and generally people like me or think I am very kind and tolerant. But I certainly is an "unmovable object" in public, not much faze me, I seldom look down at my phone, I look at people or the life or are deep in thoughts looking out a window on public transport. I generally keep a distance to others (after all, I like my personal space myself) although I don't mind people sitting next to me on the bus or something. If I need to interact with someone, I don't think about it I just do it. But generally, there's no reason to. I like to sit with my own thoughts. I help or have small talks with beggars some times (not the ones that chase you with a cup). Last time I bought a coffee (he didn't want anything else). Welp, long digression. It's all free flow. I have OCPD hence the long comment. I like to write a lot sometimes so it's mostly for me, but perhaps it also can give some insight for other people. Not everyone is like me, but generally, a lot of people who are "intimidating" can be really nice people.

I think it's dangerous to think it's about levels that are on top of each other. That's highly misleading. It can just as well be circular. Some exec can be intimidated by some normal person, while he is not intimidated by you. There are millions of reasons why someone might be intimidated. It might be something a person says or how this person acts or some resemblance to someone familiar...

@@MaviLeb if we're gonna try and be specific about how it can overlap, I'd say it's like a tangled ball of yarn.

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me too and im infp i am me and theres no one else id rather be

ENTJ and this is gospel for us NTs! We do what we want and need. I am exactly who I am and make no apologies for what I do.

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I've noticed a pattern with a lot of these videos and a lot of these behaviors are also prominent in personality disorders. It's not healthy to be a selfish egomaniac or a narcissist, and there's a fair bit of crossover here.

It is only a disorder when you are alive, in the end all join together, this is why you should embrace evil, distort here and there makes no difference in the end, you can judge but will be warped and become the same, evil is good

But because you find to easy to intimidate or bully someone, does that mean you should?

Yes!

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Do you have too much hide? I can make a carpet, a trench coat even hehehe

Don't worry u hear the voices, your not alone, the voices in the dark