8 Signs You're With a Toxic Person 

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Were my exes just uncreative and did every single one of these or..

There are other red flags too: 1. They'll say not act 2. They'll let you do all the emotional talk and never take charge of being vulnerable 3. Even if they do become vulnerable, that's becs they wanted to do so, which is the third point, they will love you when they want to , and that's selfish babe. 4. The best memories you've had with them are sexual. 5. Just like in the video, they will bring you down especially by bringing your weaknesses up in public 6. Never sorry yes why? Becs they don't care and they'll rather blame you and make you feel sorry about them and fall for them again like their baby sitter. ❤️❤️

The signs (just in case ur too lazy to watch): 1. They try to control you 2. They don’t listen to you 3. They manipulate you 4. They constantly criticize you 5. They take things out on you

To the 1 person that’ll read this: *you’re cool and adorable stay safe*

Me: *reads title* “sees how to know if your a toxic person” me again: YES I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO! YES *sees title* oh-

*Me being single af watching this..*

Jokes aside, i found out that my ex is toxic and my boyfriend now is the opposite.. We all deserve a good partner and we should be one too ☺️ hope you all can get a partner that make you stronger!

8 signs you’re dating a toxic person: (these signs can also be evident in friendships!) 1. they try to control you (0:34) 2. they don’t listen to you (1:07) 3. they manipulate you (1:44) 4. they constantly criticise you (2:21) 5. they talk down to you (2:56) 6. they take things out on you (3:32) 7. they bring you down (4:01) 8. they’re never sorry (4:27)

I guess I am dating a toxic person.. He cheates anyways.

I think the only way to win with a toxic person, is not to play!

Watching this I feel it’s important to remember that it’s easy to just apply these to an ex after getting out of a relationship, but also take a moment to see if any of these apply to ourselves as well. That way we can all become better people (:

Posted : 45 seconds ago everyone : I am *SPEED*

Basically, narcissists in a nutshell.

I just broke up with a very toxic and manipulative person, we've been together for two years, and even though she's done so much wrong it still feels hard after the breakup

8 signs youre dating a toxic person: 1. they try to control you 2. they dont listen to you 3. they manipulate you 4. they constantly criticize you 5. they talk down to you 6. they take things out on you 7. they bring you down 8. theyre never sorry

Another example of manipulative behavior is empty promises. Saying one thing but doing another. Consistantly getting your hopes up to let you down. Emotional roller coaster

My mom is dating a toxic person and she knows that😔 Edit: All the negativity is getting too me

I don't even have a girlfriend and probably never will but this video will be helpful to remember

The narrator's voice is so calming to me

Plot twist: YOU are the toxic one

Watching this to see myself if I'm one of them. Self-reflection is important too you know.

I don’t see any of these red flags in my friends/partner, I see a bunch of these red flags in my mum sadly.

I think an important sign ist: They're not giving you time or space to analyze your own feelings or emotions. Someone who leaves you just because you tell them your struggles with fears ist good for your health. I've been dating someone for a month and lately I wanted to open up to them with telling them that I have a fear of intimacy and I need more time to develop strong feelings. They shut me completely down and told me that I play with their feelings when I'm unsure of how i feel. I think that's also toxic behaviour, especially when you're just dating

I wish everyone watched this video and make a conclusion whether they r trying to save their partners or family member or they are being toxic

The warning signs include:👍 Checking the other person's cell phone or email without permission. Constant put-downs. Extreme jealousy, insecurity or anger. Isolation from family or friends. Making false accusations. Physical violence. Possessiveness. Controlling behavior

I got out of a toxic relationship only about a day or two ago. It hurts but venting is the only way you can tell someone everything. Just scream it if you want. It helps. Cry. Punch something. Sleep. It's okay. It's better to seem angry and sad then to hide your feelings, like I did for almost six years.

I was dating a toxic person but we broke up and we're just friends, however he's still ruining my mental health. I feel myself deteriorating the longer I stay. I keep running back to him, even as a friend, I can't cut him off. It's an easier way out when you're used to being mentally abused so you don't have to feel the void when he's gone. I'm not ready to be lonely again and I'm disgusted with myself that I can't leave. At this point, I don't know if I still like him or I'm just filling the void with his toxic company.

5 and 6 definitely hit hard especially with how things are going right now 🙃 anyway well done on this video, amazing job as always !

Thank you guys for making this video it is so helpful for people. I just go out of a toxic relationship with a girl that slowly turned to physically abusive. You guys are amazing!! Keep doing this amazing work!!!

WOW what an accomplishment...I managed to find someone who exhibited EVERY one of these...😳 Wish I’d had this 3 years ago 🤷🏻‍♀️

Wow my mum and dad are in a toxic relationship My mum has left him a few times but he always guilt trips her to come back. Once he said he would k**l himself if she didn't come back

If only I had this when I was in my first and only relationship, at least I know what to look out for now, thanks

Thank you so much for this video it really helped me to realise he never cared for me

I had those kinds of experience with an ex I once thought he's the one. But then few years back, I love watching some of your videos and already know the signs of a toxic person, but I've been blinded on the time when I was with him. Now I'm with someone else who trusted me as forgives me for my actions just as much as I forgive his actions.

this posts right when i’m crying about him yelling at me for trying to leave him out and he’s sending a bunch of pictures of him with another girl lol i’m ok thx

Thank you so much this helped my sister!

I might not be the only one trying to time travel right?

I've never dated anyone lol

I started with the assumption that I'm toxic and ended up with knowing someone else is

i just randomly woke up for no reason and i log on here and see this vid and i feel like i was awoken for this , i needed this with everything thats been going on in my life , thank you for posting this vid , keep up the good work !

WOW I love the animations, they make the vid look really smooth and good. I notice more each video and it is a really nice viewing experience! Thumbs up!

that moment when you know you're the toxic one and are in constant pressure from yourself

Is it just me that thinks her voice is so relaxing that it can cure depression? BTW Thank you too, for helping many people, in fact cuz of Psych2go i've become a better person and manage to help my friends in need, spot liers and fake friends, Thank you❤❤

Your voice just makes me so calm for some reason..

single squad where are you ~~~

The animation just keeps getting better and better! Good job! I’m excited to what videos you’ll make next. Some of these videos help me through my darkest times.

The animation is so good. I love watching your videos. Very knowledge with such a positive community.

Literally experienced this to the fullest extent recently. Get the hell away from people like this, no matter who they are!

I love your animations, your beautiful voice and obviously what you make at the characters head (plants) this channel make me relaxed and happy

All three of my ex girlfriends are conservative “Christians” all three were and still are very negative and toxic and draining. The first one is a covert narcissist

Every time I watch it the imagery gets more moving and powerful every time I watch. Van Val is such a genius.

I've been through this recently. It's so painful. It destroys you . and I can't understand why people behave like that. Narcissist. Emotional abuse. Domestic violence. Being cheated. You always think "he will change. He just had a bad day" but he is killing you. Isolating you from friends and family.

Pls make a video on what to do when you’re trapped in a toxic relationship and can’t get out for any reason. Also, what to do if your family or the people around you are toxic but you can’t escape them. Hope to see this type of vid. Will help many people who can’t change their environments.

This is an amazing video! I have shared it with all my friends and family ☺️

I adore Van Val's art style and I really like the imagery. One thing that is missing from the channel is discussion on how people can help (you could say administer antivenom on) 'toxic' people. Hope to see topics like that.

Hi I love how cute these animations are🥰

In the 2nd point, my wife has this habit of asking me what I want, when in reality, she has already decided what the "right" answer is, so I have to give her the answer she already predetermined as what I want, or all hell breaks loose.

All these signs are almost all describing my best friend..

This video made me cry. But I needed to hear some of this

Your videos help me on how to love yourself and not to be manipulate by toxic relationship

this helps me so much, it makes me sit back and think about if I ever have done or have been through these things and I can change it.

I hate how some of these can be so hard to find but it’s so clearly there

Disrespect, Judge, Manipulate, Criticize that's how that person treated me.

Honestly, where was this channel a decade ago?! For real.. 😪 I am so glad though it exists to help young people against the horrors of toxic relationships. Thank you, Psych2Go! 🥺🙏💖 Unfortunately, I had a terribly abusive and toxic ex some years ago. I knew it was wrong, but I guess I refused to acknowledge just how wrong it was. I also dealt with issues of self-hatred, which made it harder to leave. And thus, I stayed it in for 6 trecherous years, rather than leaving sooner. It's left a scar on me.. 😓 While I am much better than I was, I have to work hard to maintain my mental health still. The healing process is ongoing for me. 🥺 Please know that they are NOT worth it, and yes, YOU DESERVE BETTER!! I hope anyone in an abusive situation is able to get out. 🙏 Remember, you are loved and worth it. 💗 And no, you cannot help someone this abusive and toxic. They are likely sociopaths and won't change their ways. So please, don't hurt yourself any further. PLEASE, GET OUT!! 😢🙏

Thanks, your video is so useful and can help me.

I have just gotten into a relationship after a few years alone after some really bad times, this is a really good checklist for myself and her included. Also I'd like to say the the animation In these videos is always beautiful but this one was extraordinary. Thanks people

i started to notice i was with a toxic person just before i dumped him. and looking back i think it’s crazy how much my love for him blinded me. he had some superiority complex that made my friends despise him for being too arrogant and insensitive. i was always being hurt by the things he did and said, but i was also the one who would always end up apologizing. it’s like I’d feel guilty for being hurt... cause he’d always say he expected more from me than to be hurt by something he did, as if i was too sensitive. actually, if i told him “this thing you did hurt me”, he would say “god, you’re so sensitive, so immature, can’t believe i expected more from you. disappointed”. and then I’d apologize lol so stupid. then i started to notice that he would lie a lot about minor things. sometimes I’d catch him in a lie and he’d manipulate the whole situation to make it seem like i was crazy for thinking he had lied. that’s the reason we broke up actually. i caught him in a lie and, when I accused him, he started to say i was crazy, i was like “there’s no point in denying it, it’s obvious that you lied. even my friends told me the truth”... so he started insulting me, saying i had to medicate, cause i was crazy, and that i was stupid and immature, he even told me to go to hell, took things out of proportion. i literally just said “I can’t be with someone that treats me like this, we’re done”. and that was it. got home, blocked his number.

I love this channel so much it really helps me ✨😭💖

All my friends keep saying my current boyfriend is toxic but I don’t feel like he is tbh and I don’t know what to do I don’t wanna lose my friends but then again I don’t wanna lose him. I don’t know what to do anymore.

Spot on! Thanks!

Your drawing is getting amazing.

Script writer Rida Batool so proud of you ❤

This video helped me a lot thank u.

hey psych2go THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEOS!!!!

Im dating a very toxic person and he has convinced me that I'll be alone for the rest of my life if I leave him and I just can't move on

Thank you. The illustration always gets me sad

When your very first boyfriend doesn’t have a toxic bone in his body. Still don’t know what I did to deserve him...😂😂😂

We both were toxic. Her pessimism drove me to be judgemental. I made mistakes. I own it. Sad about it, but will be better moving forward.

Watching while it's only in the playlist

Great video!

It's relatable things like this that have made me stop dating maybe forever

Wow your channel changed a lot but i still love your videos!!!

Amazing video.

I did it, I prioritized myself, the fact that now I feel free says a lot. And it was a friendship, this video works for friendships too I guess. If you're reading this and relating to this video, please put your life first, your happiness and peace, it is not selfish to leave a toxic relationship. I root for you ❤

Number 7, heavy!!

I love the quality of the video

I saw the first quality and it followed .... I was in a toxic relationship before It's not healthy Was with him for a year It's tiring and my self-esteem went down I hope people learn this It's not okay And I hope u learn how anyone should treat u If they love u it shows

Started crying before the list even started.

My boyfriend: being easily toxic Me: here we go again

This couldn’t come at a better time 🙏

Wish I had this sooner all those years!

Needed this..

Currently in a toxic relationship trying to find a way out. I feel like I’m suffocating anytime he is around. Please pray for me

Beautiful animation....ty again....

My friend was doing numbers 1, 2, and 8 even before I gave him constructive criticism and he called me sensitive, told me to calm down, and blocked me. Just want to let everyone know that this type of behavior can also happen with friends or even family. Stay safe out there folks

Wow, your sweet nutring voice is refreshingly soothing. I appreciate your energy and your information. God Bless You and keep up the positive work that you do. Peace and Love to you and everyone reading...and to You I say also, God Bless You! Stay strong!⚡💛 This video has helped reinforce my intuition, that whitch which i already knew. Thank You.

This remember me on transaction analysis with the kid me or parent me. Hey maby you could make a video about it it's really interesting.

I’m not and have never been in a relationship, but am I still gonna watch this? Yes.

Just went through a breakup and am trying to figure out if I did these things. One thing that stood out to me is the "Guilt Trip" thing. I legitimately loved my ex, and when she decided to walk away, I had real emotions motioning me to work things out and find solutions. From what I gather, that can easily be confused with manipulative behavior. I was legitimately sad, and so now, I have to pretend I don't care to not appear manipulative? Wild. Another one I may have done (only twice in 6 years) was the cold shoulder when I was frustrated with her behavior and/or lack of competency that ended up costing us time/money (she didn't know how to ride a bike and threatened to break up if I didn't pay for her plane ticket to visit while I was homeless... yeah, we had sex in tents, outside once she arrived in Hawaii from Korea)... The other thing I am definitely guilty of is lashing out. Basically, we disagreed on religion (she's Christian, I'm not) but that wasn't my biggest concern... The trouble started with Covid-19 and me losing my new job due to the virus and getting stuck in Japan. A whole host of things happened to me that I won't get into, but in short I was stressed out. Majorly so, with everyday feeling like a new curse was on its way. Now, to have her pepper in Jesus/God links to my DMs felt like an insult at the time. If God was real, it was certainly laughing at me so I didn't want to hear it. I told her "it's your fairy tale" and then I apologized (immediately for being in a bad mood) she then threatened to breakup if I didn't believe Jesus. I explained to her it really wasn't about her (and it wasn't) but that didn't change anything... Now, part of me thinks empathy is extremely important in these situations. I am a very forgiving person, precisely because I can imagine life in the shoes of others vividly. I often don't overreact to things most people find "disgusting" because my antennae are always scouting to find reasonable justification for the bad behavior in others. This resulted in me keeping lifelong friends even after an isolated event of betrayal. The trouble is when I hope others understand things from MY perspective and state of mind.... Apparently, this is VERY rare as most people I know simply cut you off for isolated transgressions (i.e. if s/he loved you then s/he wouldn't do THAT one thing). I find this odd, because to me it's clear that life is tough, and people make mistakes and are under stress. They lash out. I simply can't bring myself to blame people for having shitty experiences, so long as there is a trend of improvement in dealing with me. Anyway, that is all to say, I mistook her love to be the deeply empathetic variety. A mirror of myself, when the reality is she was hurt and took my statements personally and absolutely. This largely led to our demise... Although I still love her, in my experience, women never come back after going cold.