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#9 - Dr. Gregory Jantz Discusses the Different Types of Emotional Abuse and Abusers 

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Dr. Gregory Jantz continues his mini-series on emotional abuse. There is a high correlation between emotional abuse and physical abuse. Dr. Jantz notes that initial verbal abuse, especially early in a relationship, is often a predictor of physical abuse later in a relationship. Emotional abuse can be verbal berating, but it can also manifest in other forms. Men are more likely to commit emotional abuse, though it is not exclusive to the male gender.
Emotional abuse include ridicule, belittlement, exerting control in many or all aspects of a relationship, overbearance, silence or isolation, the threat of exposing personal information or secrets, and more. Over time, it wears on the emotional and psychological well-being of the partner. The damage to the other's mental health can be deep-seated and long-lasting. Treatment is often needed to recover.
Considered one of the world’s leading experts on the various forms of abuse, Dr. Jantz is the author of the seminal best-selling book Healing the Scars of Emotional Abuse. Additionally, his award-winning treatment facility, The Center • A Place of HOPE in Edmonds, Washington, successfully treats emotionally abusive relationships using the whole person care approach to healing.
Today, Dr. Jantz discusses the different types of emotional abuse, and what are the characteristics of those who abuse emotionally. As always, Dr. Jantz provides tips and techniques you can use every day to help improve an emotionally abusive relationship. He notes that there may be times to acknowledge when an emotionally abusive relationship may not be recoverable.
For listeners suffering from emotionally abusive relationships, Dr. Jantz provides knowledge and comfort, and helps them know there is hope and healing from this difficult relationships.
Please share this with those who may be struggling with an emotionally abusive relationship.
There is good news. Anxiety, worry and fear from abusive relationships is treatable. The Center • A Place of HOPE, the treatment facility founded by Dr. Jantz and recognized as a top 10 mental health center in the U.S., has treated thousands suffering from abusive relationships. If you or someone you care for is struggling with a difficult relationship, please call The Center today and visit with a specialist about what a treatment program can look like for you.
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@JoJo-xo6fh
@JoJo-xo6fh 9 месяцев назад
1 Overbearing Opinion Power/ Control 2 Always Right! Know it all I told you so!!! 3 put down artist! Comparison! Critical 4 Stand up Comic! Sarcasm, Deflection 5 Guilt Giver!create a sense of Shame! Start Doibting yourself! ❤Motivated through Guilt! ❤️ Always Apologizing! 6 Historian! Never forgives/forgets! 7 Silent treatment ❤️ Ignoring you!! 8 Victim Mentality/ selfish self absorbed it’s all about me!! No Empathy!!❤️
@serenityfields7514
@serenityfields7514 10 месяцев назад
I love the way the light is shining on your shoulder. Talk on, good stuff!
@user-mq9cr3gg5c
@user-mq9cr3gg5c 8 месяцев назад
Your amazing spot on
@weihsunmao9391
@weihsunmao9391 10 месяцев назад
No! I have NEVER said “sorry” for things that I Have NOT done wrong. I have lived my life unapologetically despite the abuses inflicted by the abuser(s) in whatever forms. Why do I ever want to control others? Confident people have confidence in attracting people through their good, beautiful deeds without any intentions to control people.
@chooseaname1423
@chooseaname1423 Месяц назад
I’m not an assertive boundary setter but I do give them and the person steamrolls over them enough that I then have to ask for space and I get the “brain scramble” that emotional abuse can cause so when they ask me how much space I need I can’t tell them because I can’t even think in the moment….but I know it’s painful to just leave someone hanging. Is me doing that still participating in emotional abuse and if not, how can I distinguish them to the other person so they don’t use that as a way to dismiss my credibility and honesty in trying to work out conflicts? I don’t act this way with other people, just with this person because he has these patterns from an abusive home that create chaos when “working out” conflict. I can’t think of a better way because I know the second I go back to talk, if I don’t have exactly what I need to say and a clear goal and personal inner strength with a clear mind, then I cannot withstand the conversation without being damaged by this person and nothing will be resolved. It takes time to “reset” and heal after an episode with this person and I’m finding I cannot go back in any pre-determined amount of time. I don’t want to cause harm by making them wait either. Any advice? I’d love it if you did a video for people who find themselves having to resort to this and what alternative options there are and boundary examples that prevent the need for this. Especially helpful statements about not being ready, not having the answers they need and needing to take a longer break….but still validating that it is hard on them and not exactly fair, but just what I’m working with in my own capacity at this moment in my life. We are both trauma survivors and still in healing and it’s clear to me we are not healed enough to withstand some of the conflicts and natural pain that can be caused in relationships and to me that means we shouldn’t be in one, but he wants to compromise and find a way to adjust terms of the relationship that can make it easier. I would do that if I thought there was a way, but I see no way. Also, if the person is a good candidate to learn to stop the emotional abuse behaviors, what is the faster timeframe that could happen? What are good boundaries in the meantime? How rare is it for people to change these things?
@pennypothoneypot634mimmahappun
@pennypothoneypot634mimmahappun 10 месяцев назад
That is about me
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