Their children are siblings and cousins? I think I’d feel like I was replacing my sister by marrying my dead sisters husband. Pretty strange, but with that type of grief finding peace and comfort in a trusted family member makes sense, I guess.
My mother in law is an alcoholic. She came and lived with us for a while and broke our main rule of drinking. Several times and didn’t have a job. You have to protect your family FIRST.
This is devastating, she ruined everything. It's so scary how one decision (not being a kind & loving brother & allowing her to live with them) could have changed the course of all of their lives. I am so sad for their family.
I don't think it makes her a disgusting sister. Just like I don't feel it makes him a disgusting husband. I imagine they were both wrapped up in grief and gave in to a desire to feel closer to her through each other. I do agree that it is a no-no though and was destined not to last. PSA to my husband and sister... If I ever pass away... you two DO NOT have my blessing 😅
I just love the way you tell stores. ❤ Ps. I remember you made a video addressing your hair not being a wig and I know that’s probably frustrating but i think it was meant in a nice way because you have the most perfect baby hairs ever 😍😍😍
You’re right, there’s always one family member.. for my wedding, my sister in law, removed her daughter as our flower girl because she wasn’t a bridesmaid- 2 months prior to the wedding!
Heart breaking case honestly! Cannot imagine dealing with the fact that your sister murdered your wife and unborn baby, like disgusting and she deserves everything that happens in jail. But ain't it odd he found love in her sister? Like I don't know grief does weird things, like they bonded over her sister and his wife dying; and that made them fall in love? But at least everyone is happy and safe now :))
I couldn’t imagine losing my mom. Then her sister gets with my dad before the killer is even put in jail….. I hope nothing but the best for those kids 😢❤
First off Hiii Zara I ❤ you so much I hope you have an amazing rest of your day🌼 and second yes i have a family member like this its my mother in law there are sooo many examples i could give you but i guess the one that really crossed the line for me and was on a very big day as well is the day we brought my daughter home from the hospital. It was a week after she was born as she had some non life threatening medical issues but still had to stay in the NICU for a week so that was already stressful enough and we were so excited to finally be bringing her home safe and healthy well my mother in law has the day before gotten some brand new super expensive phone I don't even know what it was so we were getting out of the car and she followed us in a separate car so we pulled up to the house and she runs over to our car hitting on the window like a crazy person screaming my phone! I left my phone! So it's mid summer in southern California super hot she starts yelling and telling my husband to call the hospital that no he had to drive her back to the hospital immediately and he's trying to calm her down and tell her he will call and drive her there just let him help me inside and get our daughter out of the car and help us settle in she was having none of it crying cussing by this time I'm annoyed the baby is crying so my mom pulls up and I just tell him to go get her out of my sight so he takes her and my mom helps me and baby in the house and gets us settled well by that time they were back within a few minutes and I'm already super annoyed but my mother in law comes in sobbing then wants to borrow MY phone to call her husband and her bank to shut her cards off (it was a wallet/phone case) so the whole rest of the night was her on my phone calling people making everything about her asking my mom and husband to do all these favors for her to help her calm down she made the whole day all about her and years later when this day was brought up again I'm front of my daughter on her birthday I was telling her about how happy I was the day we finally got to bring her home and Nancy, my mil says that was such an awful stressful day 😡🙄
Ashley and her son Anthony should have lived. Such a tragic case. Eleanor deserved life, no matter what familiar ties. As for the other familiar ties… how can your cousin also be your sibling… a bit weird in my opinion, and I personally think it was inappropriate for Heather to get in a relationship with her sisters Husband… especially since he was grieving. Not surprised that the relationship ended tbh. It may have been built on a trauma bond thing 🤷🏾♀️
You need forgiveness for yourself and your healing. But forgetting? Blessing and a curse, depending on who you are in the situation… 😢 I’ve been pregnant twice, and at 9 months old, you wouldn’t be attacking anyone. It’s so exhausting. I felt like a planet, I was on the couch for the majority of the last few weeks.
On my wedding day the wife of our best man was so angry she wasn't in the wedding party she vandalised their car & went home by train. He found out when he was going home. He was stranded with his 3 kids & ended up staying the night with my in-laws as he lived an hour a way
Ashley’s daughter’s name is not Isabella, it’s Annabelle. Ash was not “so happy” with Aris. Not even a little bit. Or at all. She wanted to leave. She did not “love being married.” Not to him anyway. Also, as for her being a stay at home mom, she only stayed home with the kids because he didn’t want her to work. Because he was controlling. Elinor was always present because Aris had no respect for Ashley’s wishes. She was also not the first to hold each child. Ash was! The wedding story was true. Kind of. But Ash didn’t talk to her sisters much. They weren’t close because Heather and Nicole didn’t like aris! Aris did not go to work daily to care for the family. Aris could barely hold down a job himself. He was working at that time though, yes. Aris did drugs himself. To the point of drug induced psychosis several times. Ash said no drugs in the house. Her rule. Aris and Elinor both didn’t listen! Aris knew she was doing drugs. He never had some brotherly love talk with her. He did them himself too. He just wanted to make it sound good for the news and court and whatnot when this tragedy happened. That day- Ash and Steph were outside talking. That’s when Elinor was slamming doors. Ash had called me earlier that day while I was at my chemo appt. I told her I’d call her back but I never got the chance to. But in that call she was complaining about Elinor. And told me she tried to tell Aris many times already to please come home from work and do something and he’d laugh it off and say she’s fine. That’s how he was. He laughs at everything and takes nothing seriously. Unless he’s violent himself. That’s when he’s serious! But she’d been talking with Steph outside and that’s when she told Elinor to stop slamming doors. When Steph went back after Alex knocked on her door- the door was not barricaded shut. It opened and Elinor slammed it on her telling her to get the fuck out. so she did. And she didn’t call 911 either. Elinor did call 911 saying Ashley attacked her. But she was locked in the bathroom holding Anabelle. She didn’t open the door for the cops. The cops got in there and then went to the bathroom to find her Ash was not found laying dead on the floor of her bathroom. She was on the bed. On her knees laid over the side of the bed on her belly face down, dead. And yes she was locked in the bedroom. Bedroom door was locked. Because Elinor killed her. Then stabbed her again after she was dead. Left her there and then locked the door! Hence- the post mortem stab wound on her ankle. But get this- a year before ash died, Aris was telling people that one day “a year from now ash will be gone and nowhere to be found and I’ll have the kids.” Also- Aris and Ashley were being evicted- Aris had been served and didn’t tell Ashley about it. And that came out during the court trial. And Aris did not name him Anthony. Ashley chose that name in case it was a boy…. Aris is not some innocent grieving widower. He also claimed his sister had bipolar disorder, however, HE is the one with BPD. He also did not forbid Elinor from having that knife. He also was not furious. He’s also been caught talking to Elinor on the phone and heard saying, “I know it wasn’t supposed to go this way and I’m working on getting you out.” And Elinor did NOT have her head down in court the entire time. She didn’t not look at the family. In fact, she smiled and giggled at the media cameras and at the family. Everything Aris did in court was a show he was putting on for others. Ashley had 14 stab wounds. And a broken arm due to Elinor breaking Ashley’s arm with a dumbbell weight. The statement I made, that was read by you was verbatim. I did say that. And it was true. We were all trying to grieve and figure out what happened and why, etc. there was shock. And we didn’t know all the details at the time yet. Also, Aris acted like he was trying to grieve. However he was screwing the neighbor Stephanie before the coroner even took Ashley’s body out. And I said that he wanted privacy because at the time we were all being hounded and did want privacy. But again, I hadn’t yet known the extent of everything, in addition to me wanting to be able to still see my cousin’s children- so I couldn’t say anything bad about Aris that I knew at the time. Heather and Aris did not know each other as in laws at the time. Heather fell for Aris’s mouth piece. And then he treated her and the children like crap. He ended up beating on her. And She beat on the kids. They’d been homeless a few times because he didn’t work and didn’t want Heather to work, etc. He was strung out more on drugs. She also got strung out on drugs. She got Ashley’s kids taken away from her. And now Ashley’s good friend has custody of Ashley’s kids and Aris is not in the picture at all. He took off and doesn’t give a damn about those kids at all. The best part is that the kids are better where they’re at now. He and Heather never even got them therapy they needed. Heather and Aris ended up having 3 kids together. Then Heather has another kid with another man. The Reddit thread you saw and mentioned was true stuff. It was written by one of heather’s ex boyfriends. And then heather’s current boyfriend’s son added to the replies. Then I added to the replies as well as Ashley’s friend who has the children.
Hi Zara as you always I love and adore you ❤. Your personality is unmatched and I enjoy watching and listening to you 😍🤗💞🌹🥰💐🦋🌻🌺🌟. I've never heard of this case so I can't wait to watch now. Guys please click the like button because Zara is incredibly amazing and you won't be disappointed 😊. I find it strange that he hooked up with his sister in law and then to have a baby,,I dk how I feel but then Heather split with their son Jason. I wonder if aris has a relationship with him. I dk if it wasn't for Eleanor,, Ashley would still be alive.
Even if Ashley did stab her which I don't believe, if she had martial arts training... you mean to tell me she couldn't disarm a 9 month pregnant woman? Without killing her and stabbing her 14 times?!
I did at my son’s wedding. We got all dressed up and everything and guy I was dating. They left him out of the pictures. They wouldn’t let him in any of the pictures and it was a really rude and I was upset. I said something, but I didn’t push the issue. The poor little baby I am so sorry he went through that. He’s never gonna leave his mind. I hope the daddy gets some help and prayers for him.
Forgiveness is one thing, forgetting is another. I do believe in forgiveness, it's for you and not the person who wronged you. It's hard to move on with life carrying around hate and resentment for someone, it overtakes you. But if you forgive at least you can move forward with peace. Forgetting is a lot harder, you'll never forget what a person has done, but it's up to you what you do with those memories. Allow them to remind you to be good to people, allow those memories to guide you in your decision making. Don't let those memories make you bitter. My prayers go out to the children who lost their mother, and for baby Anthony, God had a special assignment for him in heaven.
@@amieparkin562 how can she do it from a. Different perspective? whatever happened is what happened in which there’s 100 channels out there that can tell you what happened already
@@canmckenna2556 that's your opinion and I have mine. The lady asked for story's we would like her to cover and that's mine. And all I'm saying is some channels don't do deep dives and tell the same story in different ways.
Sorry but bringing a drug addic in your home where is your familly…your pregnent wife…what are prioreties….your sister or familly❤that you supposed to protect….and chery on top end up with her sister…so kids have auntie and mum in 1 great …
I feel like if I was Ashley I would be happy my kids have both of them so close but also upset by the entire situation. I can't say how that kind of grief would affect me so I can't judge that situation and I'm glad the kids are supported ❤❤
