Zara, you’re so right about CCTV being prominent in the UK. I’m in Wales 🏴 and I live on a new-build estate that’s quite private & secluded. Almost every house has a Ring doorbell camera, plus extra cameras around the exterior of the homes, including me! Nobody would be able to walk in and/or out of this estate without cameras catching them. It actually makes me feel safer if I’m honest 😊
Im having a horrible morning and clicked on to see your face and I immediately relaxed! Crazy how you’re so compassionate that you can make us RELAXED even with such horrible stories. And you do it while going through your own life❤
Your amazing person Zara! You, Danielle Kristy and Bailey Sarian when she post videos; I have to watch every week! I'm so proud to see you with the best of the best of youtubers!! You absolutely deserve it!!! You give us all hope to follow our dreams!! Even when we think we will fail!! You're just amazing!!
So sad, for all Deborah’s struggles she still had a good heart and helped others. Such a cruel way for her life to end. Hope you have an easier week this week and glad your hubby is on the mend Xx
You have an army of supporters that love and care for you and your family. We appreciate everything that you do. Don’t worry about responding to everyone. Just take care of Jay, yourself and your kids. ❤
I had my tonsils removed beginning of the year and was also the 5% and had a major complication with hemorrhaging and lost a lot of blood, and needed surgery again as well. So i completely understand how scary tonsillectomies can be!! Glad hes okay. Absolutely love your videos!! Look forward to watching them everytime you post❤
Ugh it's terrible! Are you ok now is it completely healed? I honestly wish he never did it, was the worst moment of my life I've never seen that much blood before! 😭😭😭
@@ZaraV Yes! I’m all healed, thank goodness. My husband said the same thing about the blood, and we also wish I never went through with it. Wouldnt recommend the surgery to others who don’t absolutely need it. It happened early in the morning, and the specialist for my hospital was not answering the phone so they ended up airlifting me to a bigger hospital, by then I lost so much blood. Recovery took longer than expected due to the blood loss, and def painful. It was a lot for both of us, i’m glad I had my partner there to help me through it. So I understand where you’re coming from 😓
Thank God he's fine now. I'm sorry Jay went through that. Love your videos Zara. You actually care about victims and show emotion in your videos. I really appreciate it. I'm sure others agree. You actually care about the victims in cases. Thank you
Praying Jay makes a full healthy recovery very quickly. Your transparency with your mental health and life will always be appreciated and rewarded. You make us feel like we are not alone; so please remember that you’re not either🤍 so proud of how much your channel has grown you’re doing so good. Also don’t forget to take breaks, these topics are/can be draining (we would understand lol)
I love your channel! The attention to detail you have when discussing these cases is amazing. Thank you for all you do for your audience and these victims.
I’m so sorry you had such a rough week. ❤ We all do care about you. I feel like I know you, I am pretty sure I know your heart. ❤ I am sending healing vibes and positive energy.
Omg I’m so sorry Jay had to go through that! The same thing happened to me when I got mine removed. It was a terrifying experience. I’m glad everything is okay. You are such an amazing story teller and I appreciate your videos so much each time they come out.
I’m happy things are looking up…🙏🏾 Praying that his recovery is speedy, and your spirits are lifted! Thank you for bringing forth an upload for us, despite things being a bit hectic! 🫶🏾 You’re amazing!!!! 💯 Makeup was flawless, per usual!!! ❣️
We love you!! While the stories are often heartbreaking, your work brings attention to these important cases and you brighten our days too by just being you! Wishing Jay a speedy recovery! ❤️🩹 😘
I just found this channel and saw those rude comments on the last video. You're a very pretty lady! I wish I looked that good before I put on makeup. I hope your husband recovers quickly from his surgery! Keep up the good work!!❤
Zara, I just want to say how much you mean to me, and obviously others as well, after reading your comment section! You talk about how much you appreciate us and our support, but you have no idea how much you give us just by being yourself and sharing your passion and love with us! You truly make my days better! You’re a calm and loving refuge in the storms of this crazy life (which only seems to get more and more difficult to bear)! It’s a little ironic that the topics you share about are the most painful and evil things that we must bear, yet you bring them out into the open in such a compassionate and loving manner! I think the way you speak helps us to manage the despair and anxiety of it all, rather than trying to push it all away and pretend it is not happening more and more, or that it could never happen to us! In order for us to end this madness, we first have to accept that it IS happening and be aware of our safety and the safety of others! YOU are a shining example of someone facing very real fears and courageously doing all you can to try to change the world in a beautiful way! That means everything!❤❤ So, thank you!! Also, my prayers and love are with you and your family as you are going through an especially difficult time!
I hope Jay makes a speedy recovery you're beautiful inside and out don't forget to take a minute to breathe boo thank you for your videos ❤❤❤ you're doing a great job mamas
So much love to you and yours! We comment to show you support and love. You don't worry about responding. You take care of yourself and your beautiful family!!! I was crying with you here. So much love and positive vibes your way mama!!!❤❤❤
Glad to hear that things are looking up. We love you and have your back, always! Thank you for bringing us true crime so consistently. We appreciate you❤
You do brighten up the day, I am sure everyone who watches you agree, you have to have pma positive mental attitude otherwise sometime you'll just fall apart❤ keep up the good work we live watching your videos and the way you tell the stories 😊
I understand how you feel with Jay having complications after surgery... I had what was supposed to be an outpatient surgery October 23rd and had extremely scary complications instead which landed me in ICU for a week... prayers that he heals swiftly and your family can continue to thrive... love your content and ty for being vulnerable and sharing these kinds of things going on in your personal lives as well
So sorry to hear your husband had complications with his tonsillectomy. That is so scary! Hope he is home now and you guys are all together again. Sending love to you and your family 💜
Girl I know where you are coming from I’m now 63 and have had 4 children and oh so many visits to either the drs or the ER but believe it does get better ❤
You have became my new favorite. I absolutely love the others but sometimes it's great to give another a listen. You are amazing . I hope you your husband and the rest of your family have a wonderful week. Sending prayers of healing to your husband.
I’m so glad everything turned out ok. We all have rough times that puts us in that grrr mood lol where we are at the top of our stress level. Also I think you are great at what you do and appreciate. I care when ppl are having it a little rough 🥰. I feel bad when ppl are stressed cause life can do that to you sometimes 😉
My son had his tonsils out wen he was little & he came outta surgery & after a bit his stitches popped!! They had 2 rush him back 2 surgery!! He was only 5 at time & it was so scary! So I totally get how worried you’ve been.. Love your vids girl!! ❤❤
Omg I think I would be a complete wreck if it was my son! Glad he's ok now, hope it was worth it! This surgery I think is talked about lightly, it's brutal!
@@ZaraV it was 1 of the scariest moments for me.. He’s 21 now & totally good. Thank you sweetheart 💖💖 It is totally horrible surgery & I wish your hubby a speedy recovery. 💖💖
Zara I’m so sorry you have been going through so much. I love your channel keep up the amazing work you do. Sending you lots of hugs from Brisbane Queensland ❤❤
I've missed watching your videos and this was a very well done one to come back to. Thank you for showing so much respect for Deborah. I'm also glad your hubby is doing better.
I had the same complication with my laser tonsil surgery. I was spitting up blood clots. SO SO SO painful. Best wishes to your husband...took me at least 10 days to get over that pain.
We are here for you like you are here for us, Zara! 🖤 Maybe its too big word to call us cyber family, but community for sure! Women should stick together. Stop objective eachother, stop any kind of bullying against eachother. Unfortunately I'm seeing that each next generation is less and less respectful or open-minded. Ive been born in '87, grew up in amazing '90... Its makes me literally sick sometimes when I'm reading some of comments anywhere, not only here. Sending lots of positive thoughts and vibes!
I can never wrap my head around people like this who are motivated to unalive others for financial gain, the gain of property or other things because do they think they’re not going to get caught, at some point. She was highly intelligent, received all of that education but clearly had no common sense. She is literally seen on all of these cameras lugging around these suitcases, multiple times, and then have the audacity to act like she’s done nothing. This was just sad and senseless, just a shame, that poor woman didn’t deserve that and she truly thought that lady was a friend to her. Now all Ms. highly educated aka Jemma is going to have is a prison cell, 3 hots, and a cot...no money, no property or anything else, she earned it!
9:12 Keeping a house clean is nearly impossible if you live with a hoarder. The hoarder constantly brings new things home, not necessarily clean or in good condition. And they refuse to part with their stuff because it'll psychologically scar them.
Hey Zara so glad your husband is better and you guys are together as a loving family. Your a lovely lady and I have enjoyed all your stories 💕 This was another sad story. Glad that evil got the years she did!!
❤ of chorus we CARE !!!!PRAYERS FROM TENNESSEE ARE SENT TO YOU AND JAY AND UR FAMILY...FOR A SPEEDY RECOVERY 😊...WE R HERE FOR U AND WHEN U NEED TO TAKE TIME U DO IT❤
I wanted to comment on that last video and then I forgot. I have the same dark spots. I was told because of pregnancies and it'll get better when hormones were settled. It's 6 years since last baby and they are still there. They did get better though. You are beautiful ❤
Hi Zara, sorry I missed the video, I am going to look later. I am glad things are better now. Take care and be strong, I LOVE watching your videos. 🤗🤗❤❤
Zara, I'm so sorry the trolls got to you! I've been subscribed for over a year and have loved every one of your videos. I hope you, Jay, and the kids are doing great
Oh honey, I get that! The later in life you get your tonsils taken out the more complications you may encounter. I went through the same ordeal with my husband! He had to go back into surgery to reclose his wound b/c the stitches opened and he was swallowing pints...yes pints of his own blood. It was brutal, and he wound up fainting on the floor of the ER from so much blood loss, but yet it was accumulating in his stomach.... 😖oh girl, my heart goes out to you. Ugh...we didn't have kids then so I am extra empathetic towards you. It's OK to lose your cool when you feel your walls are closing in. We're all human. ❤ ya! Stay strong, mama! P.s. yes back when it happened to my husband the docs said it only happened to 3% of ppl....and I honestly had never heard of it happening to anyone else!! He is fine now as well, and this was well over 18 years ago. ❤(We met as infants lol 😉)
Omg this sounds exactly like Jay! Except blood filled his lungs 😭😭 so he was in ICU for a week and intubated and put under for day. I think I'm honestly traumatized 😭😭😭 I am so glad your husband is completely ok now, im waiting for this recovery to be done!
@ZaraV oh my gosh!! Zara! That's awful. I can't imagine his level of discomfort!! I'm starting to feel like the percentage of complications with removing your tonsils as an adult needs to be reevaluated. Either that or more research needs to be done on other methods for removal or risk assessment. Just....Something! B/c yeah the complications are "rare", but if they do happen, it's like a living nightmare! Ugh... I'm sending you guys positive vibes. I hope you have grandparents or some other close friends to help with your babies while he recovers. 🤗 xoxo 🤎🧡
WOW!! I love you!! You are not like the rest... truly genuine and straight up front. You are amazing!! Thank you so much for your content! I hope your husband gets feeling better! Positive vibes & TONS of love sent to you both!💜💕So sweet! Your channel is rising and I am beyond glad & grateful to watch it! I always watch your videos..either when I am going to bed (true crime on every night to sleep) or when I am at work like I currently am. haha. 🤭🤭
Glad your week is getting better! You are so sweet and encouraging and no you arent a sissy pants! Its good to cry and good to let go of the emotional physically hard week! ❤😊😊😊
Good morning Zara as always I love and adore you ❤ I'm sending so many prayers 🙏 for Jay. You know how I feel about you. I leave a comment on every video. I love watching and listening to you and the way you deliver these cases it's phenomenal. Your personality is absolutely everything, 🥰🌻🌺🌹🦋🌟❤️😍🤗. Guys please click the like button because Zara is incredibly amazing at her craft and you won't be disappointed 😊. I've never heard of this case but wow what a crazy one. I love your eyelook you look absolutely gorgeous 😍
When my 18 year old had his tonsils out he the 1st night he comes in our bedroom with a cup something happened that he had to have the same thing done to him. It was scary. I hope Jay makes a full recovery. ❤
Oh that happened to my son on day six. He was eating soft pancakes and started vomiting blood. It was the scariest thing I’ve experienced in 47 years! I had to hold his throat while getting him in the car and having my mom race to the ER. We knew because where we lived we’d get there quicker than an ambulance. I had called the emergency line, it was a Sunday, and told them we were on our way. Her doctor got there the same time we did and got him into surgery within 45 minutes. He was awesome after that….it’s been 24 years and my heart races just thinking of it.
Just want to say i love your channel. Been here a long time. Proud of you and your channel growth. (I mention you in comments on other true crime videos). shhhhh😂
Zara, I will ALWAYS stick up for you, ANYBODY REALLY, when appropriate, n those comments were uncalled for, PERIOD! "Please do NOT show hate to anybody, anywhere, especially in the comments section down below"-Christina Randall... I am a huge fan of Christina Randall's and she says this phrase in EVERY video she uploads. I actually recall this statement in my every day and let me tell you, it will change your reaction to people that may rub you the wrong way, so to speak. Bottom line, just be kind. There's no need for negativity and ugliness! God don't like ugly, trust me!
