9 Ways to MANIPULATE a Man..and how to not go wrong doing it 

"Value is given to those who give themselves value" THAT PART!

Could you do a video on regret and forgiving yourself please?

i like that you encourage women to be the best versions of themselves instead of using manipulation and deceit to “attract” a man like so many influencers i see. my husband and i watch those types of videos for entertainment because it’s pure delusion. men see through the desperate and inauthentic tactics but some will play dumb to get what they want (ie sex). it was interesting to watch you break down common tactics that are promoted to women to manipulate men and discuss why they may have some merit but also why they often times backfire. i wish everyone peace and it’s my belief that something you obtain through deceit is not going to last or be in your best interest . the universal law is balance.

“Understand him more than you love him” and “he needs to just love the hell out of you and not understand you much” rings so close to the old saying “the man needs to love the woman more”. And for some reason to me it sounds a lot like settling.. it’s hard to come to terms with such a reality.

Islam is right about women

I just wanted to let Margarita know that I've recently discovered these videos (like the anxious attachment and detachment ones) and it's helped make me so much more self-aware. I've fallen (I think) for a guy who doesn't seem to show a lot of interest (at least through text), and navigating it through these videos has been life-saving.

If you’re reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼

Real intimacy is made on honesty not manipulation.

again, extremely helpful advices! straight to the point, valid, non-biased, and not abusing the feminine qualities. Toxic femininity always bring consequences later on.

Pretending to be someone else is too hard. Honestly I think I'd rather stay single 💀

obsessed with your videos. this is true feminine power!! LIVING FOR THIS!!

Can you please do a video on texting men, the do’s and don’ts, their texting habits and what they mean etc ❤

Love the energy you radiate Margarita!❤ and I really do gain help from the stuff you talk about in your insightful videos. Sending much love and appreciation. 😊✨

authenticity is the currency of high value elite individuals who you want to be with

Wow this is such an insight for me that women amongst themselves praise those who are work horses, the ladies who can do it all. But men actually don’t care in the same way so if you are being a work horse just to impress a man you won’t get that recognition you may be looking for. Thanks for this golden nugget ❤

This was helpful as I'm in the initial stages of a new relationship. Knowing how I made mistakes in earlier relationships and how can I avoid doing the same thing all over again is actually lovely. Thank you so much❤

Being the best version of you is truly the greatest thing you can do for the world - your partner, your children, your business partners. Really, there is no excuse not to work on it. Thanks for the great video Margarita.

I’m in my mid 50’s is a number I know . I’ve read books on attachment and listened to podcasts, audible on all things relationships, speakers like Lewis Howes , Lisa Biyelu , diary of a ceo , and you ! Love your words , your authenticity, down to earth , direct and loving way you are . I’m gaining wisdom and clarity listening . Many blessings to you and your family 💕

can't go wrong with a petite body, long hair, a clear complexion, & pretty mani/pedi. That alone will get you almost anything you want.

Margarita, your content has helped me so much. I wish you'd been in my life sooner

I have to be a workhorse right now bc my husband passed away at 46. This really sucks. I hate doing it all and I don’t even know how to do it all. On top of balancing 2 children on my own. I miss my partner.

Why do I need to initiate a "change in her life"? A couple should be a compliment to one another. Manipulation is a terrible thing for any human being to do to another.

Margarita you are a absolute gem, the World needs more people like you. ❤ I think generally males can be very self-centred and love "me time". Sometimes it helps to give a wake up call in terms of carrying their fair weight and share of relationship responsibilities, rather than x, y, z is the Woman's role... but of course there is a whole approach required for that to be effective and it's not one of nagging, but instead emphasising the weight load, its effect and impact it is having. If he genuinely cares and values his relationship he should step up and share the work load. This also helps him to attune his emotional understanding and the less communication barriers generally the healthier the relationship as both form deeper understandings of each other. These are just my thoughts, I'm no health professional etc...

These videos are like homework for me. As soon as I start it I get out a notebook and pen😂

This piqued my curiosity because I was manipulated by my ex for years, subtly and I cannot understand why anyone wants to trick someone into a faux feeling of love. This has been educational. I want the man to be masculine and able and I want to be strong and feminine as a woman, attracting a strong, masculine man.

Very practical advise 🙂 I just wished I had seen something like this before

It’s so sad that even a small wrong step can break relationships… 😢

Men: Read material by Esther Vilar!

as a man who veers between anxious and avoidant the hot and cold thing really works on me. i watched this bc i’m trying to learn more about myself and my current situationship bc she is avoidant and this was very helpful.

Please margarita, talk more again about self confidence , I feel so weak this times , and I don’t control my emotions and my energy is very low 😔 love you ❤

Hello Margarita! I really do enjoy your videos, very educational very enlightening, refreshing. your like the maternal figure i never had. or older sister 🥰. thanks so much . But i do have a question, we can practice detachment and follow this ideals all day. However, how do we know we have found the right guy? 🤔🤔 thanks.

Watching your videos and hearing you say how women react to men and their behaviour just makes me realise how different my upbringing was from everyone else's. I grew up in an abusive family where I had to supress all about my personality, needs, emotions... and now it is impacting so negatively in my life and my relationships that any kind of demand I make to my partner I feel like I am not entitled to ask for it (even if it is just pick me up at home or hold my bag for a minute). I feel like I am demanding and overreacting and that makes my partner feel entitled to say demand more and more from me and not "bother" him with anything

Thank you. I watch and listen to all of your videos and podcasts ❤ Could you please do a video/podcast about the difference between being feminine versus being passive in a relationship? Thank you ❤

The last one hit me. I always say I’m leaving in every argument 😢 learning now.

This is who you women should learn from not sprinkle sprinkle. But what I don’t agree about this video is telling the guy you are 29 and want to get married fast. What that will tell his cave man brain is the girl has been passed around and now she is looking for a sucker to settle down with. His brain will think, how is this cute girl still single and now she is rushing.

as a man i appreciate your work of enlighting women

This was very revealing, and amazing food for thought!

Great content . Appreciate it Most of These advices are gender neutral. A man can also. Applies that

This was the most informative video yet!! ❤️ It helped to see the way to do it right vs ways it can go wrong. Love it! Have a nice thanksgiving

What if it’s the man constantly threatening to leave? I’ve been physically left 4 times between 2 different states. Gets in a car or a plane and abandons me. He also threatens divorce anytime there’s an argument.

I love this video, can't get this honesty anywhere else

This is such a fresh perspective on these 7 behaviours, thank you!

You really do have good insight into the male mind, I feel very seen.

You are the best on this subject. Period.

When you are with a man, be as independent as possible. It's how he won't cross those lines.

I am sad i can't even think about cooking right now... If he shows respect show respect... U can't control or change anybody....

there should be no manipulation. PERIOD.

A very nicely made video. Provides a number of insights. In my view, most men see through these and other manipulations women employ. They simply ignore them to get what they want.Manipulations tend to reduce relationships to transactions

Margarita, I first came across your videos when I was searching for anxious avoidant attachments but ended up listening to every RU-vid video and podcast you’ve put out. Your advice has singlehandedly transformed my relationship and friendships and made me more discerning about what I was letting into my life. So thank you for that!

Could you talk more about not being the haggard mum, racoon in the corner type person? My girl is 2 and I have been there for a while. And I've seen it enough to fear it.

"Saber-tooth tiger" "If you're going to be an angry rat in the corner" You just slayed in this video 😂🤣

I cry constantly whenever I need to say that I don't like something, I just cry a lot and don't know how to fix it

I’m getting scorpio vibes lol love your energy & blunt perspective ❤☺️ !!

Just came across '9 Ways to MANIPULATE a Man...and how to not go wrong doing it' and it's an interesting perspective. While manipulation isn't recommended, your insights on healthy communication and understanding are valuable.

Always with the facts, Margarita. The man should help, not completely help you out 24/7.

You dropped Gems💎 Thank you!

I love your work. Your Advice is empowering us all women regardless of our race or background.

20:47 "Value is given to those who Give themselves value!"

I loved this video. I think what you said was spot on and appreciate you sharing it. 😊

A queen has uploaded again!

I struggle with setting boundaries. The guilt is bad.

Hey Margarita how are you? Do you have a video on why 50:50 doesn’t work or are you going to explore this more in a podcast? Is this something we can bring up early in dating? Sometimes the signs are clear and not defined with their actions, if they lead or like to step into the masc provider role. But I feel like this energy shouldn’t need to be questioned. Also would love some prompts on how to explain this stance without sounding like a princess. Thank you xx

Relationships are based on trust

Please make a video for me about how to MANIPULATE women, thanks a lot! I look better in a dress than most girls and i fucking love it. Im in competition with the skirts and I almost always WIN!

The title and thumbnail are so perfect. I can’t help but kind of chuckle.

If you use any of these 9 manipulation techniques, don't be surprised when your relationship eventually fails and your man leaves.

What if you cry tears of joy when he does something nice? Sometimes I feel like that comes across just as out of control

My husband and me lately fight he told me I am stupid and I am so nice , I forget about everything and I focused on him anyway I know he don’t cheat but we went to a restaurant and he say to the waitress see you and I was next to him like no respect and the restaurant we go every time together

so I have a lot of masculine energy and today while at the gym I could feel this particular guys eyes on me consistently and I was trying my hardest to make it known I wasn't interested by making no eye contact and moving my body away from him. towards the end of my workout in a whole new area I take off my head phones and heading to the bathrooms and he comes trailing behind me saying "btw I love Helen" (I was wearing a sweatshirt from Helen, Georgia) I got super annoyed and I just put a thumbs up and went straight to the bathroom. I know if I were to engage or say oh yes, its so nice or had been nice he would'vee prob tried to ask me out or just engage in a conversation I just didn't want to have since I wasn't interested in him at all. anyways, I feel like a bitch for how I reacted and feel like I should've handled it better but unsure of how without leading him on. but on a side note why are men so un aware of cues that a woman is just not interested -ugh

Hi love your videos can you please make a video about body image while pregnant and pospartum. I am 8 month pregnant like you and suffer from body image issues and I am afraid I can get loose skin and I alrady had few stretch marks and I don't feel good.

Love you and you're as funny as hell....I always resonate with what you say♥️♥️😂😂🥰🥰

‏I hope you add translation to your videos because there are many Arabs following you

You did a video about how to make him obsessed at the beginning, and I loved it T^T Could you do another video like that but in a husband-wife relationship? Like, how to act when you become the wife to keep him obsessed with you ^^

I love listening to you, there's many amazing women that do the same. However, you carry yourself so differently, your energy radiates and speaks to me. The way you communicate makes me feel like you know me and want the best for me. Thank you Margarita!

Angry Rat in the corner lmaoo

Why can't you just be yourself? If you want an authentic relationship, don't fake it.

Binge watching you ❤ you’re amazing girl x

I am enjoying your content! Thanks!

Yes, it’s very bad idea talking about another man!

I loved it! I would like a video where you go more in depth about this hot and cold dynamic ❤

As a man. I really enjoy you

I really appreciate that you are debunking a lot of these “myths” but showing what is the healthier spin on it. The last one of hot and cold - that one really made me think about how that can apply to everyone in your life, not just your partner. Bottom line is have your own life and find balance on always being there for everyone.

I understand not talking about exes in your current relationship, especially in a negative light, but what if its in a positive way or just being honest and vulnerable about your previous relationship experiences? Or even being vulnerable about past mistakes and what you learned from it?

I found your podcast a month ago and it has been life changing. (Dramatic? No lol) Both of my parents are present, only physically. You have taught me things, as a young woman, that I have craved to have from my mother- and didn’t even know I needed. My perspective has changed with men and myself and it is literally seeing life through a different lense. Thank you for all you do, for being brave, for being unapologetically YOU. You’re an amazing human being and I just about fell out on your most recent podcast when you said “my little chicken soup” 😂❤️ I love hearing what you have to say, I am now in the mindset of being and fulfilling everything I deserve in my feminine flow. Thank you🥰🫶🏼 can’t wait to hear about your experience as a girl momma now! With love from Biloxi, MS. 💕

Hello. My (female) friend claims that literally every man can be seduced (to cheat on his wife / girlfriend) - you just need to know how to approach him to achieve it. It's hard for me to accept that fact, but I'm also not convinced she's not right. Would it be possible for you to make some video in this topic?

I just want him to go away at this point. Ugh, the hassle of changing your number!!!

This is why men need to stay single.

Your voice is si adorable ans captivating , besides the way you transmit everything is impressive.

Wish I had you a long time ago, however I’m still grateful for you now. Thank you for being you!!

When intimacy is withheld it’s usually bc it’s been ongoing issues in relationships

Could you do a video about what to do or say if you're triggered by yelling

your content is gold

22:15 if you don't talk about it, then why did you say that you did earlier?

@5:58 ouch i heard lotsa males do this too! Oh boy!

Love your content. You remind me of Emily blunt

Loving this ERA ! 🪐🪐🪐

Thank you for sharing!

Lol 700 children

Angry rat in the corner 😂

Holy cow. Every one of these is my mother. I don’t know what to think honestly. No wonder I’m so lost at 45.