A better way to break up: Katherine Woodward Thomas on Conscious Uncoupling 

Wow! Thank you for sharing your story. Let him go completely? I would personally break all contact with him, and letters or writings I would forward to his wife ( tell him first) I don’t this dynamo confusing , however, did you leave your ex relationship specifically to be with your twin, or to be with your self? This tf dynamic seems very confusing. I do think that maybe it’s possible that we are meant to collaborate with our twins but not necessarily romantic? Its seems so confusing, I will say one thing though too, his wife has no power over him, it may seem that way, but ultimately he chooses not to go.

sophia muller I had no choice. I was so in love with him by partner said you aren’t here in spirit anymore. My twin says he wishes his wife would die and hates her from keeping him from me. Sad. I have to cut contact. I am a tortured soul as I can’t be with anyone else. Have tried countless times.

@@zaraalexia7554 it toutched me to hear your story❤️ I am a tf and 4 jears in union now. I went tru the purging and so much I can not explain in a short msg. I was already 25 jears on a spiritual path...but this journey made all those past jears like a kindergarten. My DM and me were never in a real separation..as I was a few months after we met(again) already aware we were twinflame's. At the time we met I was totally not into twinflame's or knew what it exactly was. But yeahhh...after the purging and much more started I found out what was going on. I must say I followed only a few twin flame healers who were at my feeling pure enough...like Jill and Remi and a few more. Otherwise you get crazy and even more confused. Even I never go much in discussion with others about my journey. What I feel about your story ....but don't take it as your truth..only what resonates is that you are already in Union with your twin as both off you woke up towards the love for eachather. And your twin needs still to work out a lot with his "wife" Also she has a function and a higher purpuse in your relationship. Respect her role and try to see it as energies that needs to play out. We all come from source and playing out our wounds and shadows...also his wife. Send her love and thank her for what she is doing to wake up your DM. Doesn't mean you have to like her or be friends....but look at it from a soul level.... To be honest...I would not like be the woman sleeping next to my husband who's heart is with another woman. And I also would not like to be the husband sleeping next to a woman who only reminds me how much I love another. It's painful for everyone like this I guess. We can of course choose a soulmate if we feel that...but every twin flame has a uniek path and story. So yes...I truly believe we can choose out of fear or other reasons to stay....but in that case you miss were it's all about. Work on yourself....clear and purify. Look at the block inside of you why his wife is still standing in-between. Clearing ... shadow work... meditation....connecting on soullevel and forgiveness are key...atleast for me. All that is left is the love. Do this as much as possible...as we are purifying more levels. I believe it maybe never stops....but it's getting more and more beautiful. Purching gets less and your connection with the universe gets so much intenser. Stay pure...ask yourself what would be your intension if you told his wife? Let your DM come to you....when he is ready. A twin flame relationship is not a 3 d relationship....it's a soul relationship. No way to keep a twinflame relationship with a 3D mindset. It will resolve. Much love ❤️

N M thanks for your eloquent note. I know I would much rather be me. It can’t be a happy life where he is. His wife is a very manipulative nasty person. She even pretended to be me and tell him it’s over. I am letting it be. I am not going to argue or fight anymore for him. Whatever happens happens. I am completely letting go as I have spent 7 years crying and that is way too long.

@@zaraalexia7554 o sweetheart..I understand...we all go tru a lot. Can you imagion the fear and anger his wife is going tru? I understand it's very very 'negative' behaver...but look how desperate she is. Try to cut cords with her and just bless her. She has to work out her own karma...just send her energie back. Sweety...we can not win or desurve love...it's a losing game. Love is not to manipulate...we can keep maybe someone as a prisoner. But it's a beautiful chance for your DM to grow into self-esteem and see his worth. Sometimes we need to get so deeply hurt to break open and start loving ourselves. And maybe his wife is serving him to come to that point. ❤️