Your statement I dont know how to not love you WOW This is how i feel towards my wife who has chosen to leave after 31 years Im standing and praying for her the love of my life!
Wow! Her husband forgave her for adultery when another would have divorced/killed or harmed her. Someone came to rescue her from death and that’s God grace and mercy.
A great story of how God can restore even the worst possible situations. Makes me see that God is able to turn around a life and he doesn't need our help to do it.
A great testimony of how God can change a heart. Well done for not giving up, and may God continue to bless you both, and your children 😀 Thanks for sharing.
Thank You Father for you heal the broken hearted and bind up their wounds.. In this testimony theirs love, patience, compromise, communication and forgiveness.. Bless them Father.. Thank You Father for You know all your children's struggles, fears, worry, doubt, unpleasant experiences and memories, barriers, blockages, pains, hurts and trouble.. Heal your children Father I pray..
Matthew 6:14-15 14For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Also, according to Matthew 18:21-35.... People who refuse to forgive are playing with fire. To a certain degree...if these commenters with mean comments truly believe the words they are writing... They too will end up in hell with those who betrayed them. Why go there for unforgiveness? Rather, forgive and pray for your enemies... Matthew 5:43-48.
I became a Christian during my first marriage and my wife left me a couple of yrs, later with my children,money and house (thanks to man court system). My children came to me as soon as the law let them at 11 and 13 yrs old. Four years later I married a Christian woman at a new church I was going to. Seven years later I was in a head-on collision and suffered a severe neck injury . I would have head aches and neck aches that lasted a week at a time. The pain killers that I took made me forever tired and I was found to have hypothyroid and vitamin B-12 deficient through some blood test later on. So while I was in a state of pain and the other medical problems she left me because I was not there enough as a husband. I cannot bring myself to try and find a women as the trust can never be rebuilt again and I am only 60 yrs. old and would have a lot of love to give.
"my wife left me when I found Jesus " That means she will only be with you when you are fooled and do not see Truth. Perhaps she was just using you. Once you find Jesus, she knows she can't use you anymore, that's why she dumped you. It was never love at the first place. She was never yours at the first place.
What a powerful and beautiful testimony of true love and redemption!! A genuine Romans 8:28 promise lived out. What a way to overcome by the blood of the lamb and word of a testimony! Praise and glory be to God!!! I truly appreciate this testimony because of failure AFTER knowing God and His love and mercy STILL overcoming!! I can relate and it's a blessing to see true freedom. God is SO good!! Hallelujah ❤🌷❤🌷
John Reed She’s right lol they were both in the wrong ...the man even says so himself. In Ephesians it talks about a man loving his wife like his own body that that’s his job to do that. Of course her adultery is not made right because of it but they were definitely both in the wrong.....lol
You were saved by GOD'S love mercy grace compasion and sacrifice now go and do the same for others knowing what you do to others you do un to HIM. BLESSED BE HIS NAME
Not sure why it's hard for us as Christians to "grasp grace". I didn't understand it either for about 30 years of being a Christian. Wasn't until God did some very hard things to me (as a result of my own sin) that I finally understood it. And I'm still learning all of what it means! Praise God for His grace and mercy!
Steve b. Best comment I've seen yet. Grace has to do with the finished works of Jesus Christ. Even though she did what she did and although her husband was not there for her emotionally, GOD'S grace still triumphed. Praise GOD for a restored marriage.
Had to deal with a similar situation with my wife, she didn't have a dark past but she did have an affair which lasted 3 months. We managed to work it out in the end
My goodness. You people are absolutely ravaged by jezebel. If this were in any way biblical at all. She'd be stoned to death. And her affair partners would be as well.
It was a profound statement but one that is untrue. God is pretty clear that this life is going to be hard and full of trouble bc of the fallen world we live in. He is not to blame , he broke no promises. In fact suffering is going to happen.
The devil wants us to think that God brings terrible things upon us so that we can turn away from God and do things that will hurt God, but it only hurts us. God is a loving Father that never leaves us or forsakes us!!
testimonies are so powerful because anger was rising up in my heart being that tommorow is thanksgiving I am a stander and I started to get these thoughts like if my spouse shows up tommorow I am not answering the phone ugh he so irritating why do I need to keep telling this person I love them and you know what I cast down all the thoughts that exalt themselves against the knowledge of God I will do what God tells me to do and I wont complain or be offended in Jesus name
Ok so this happened to me twice i forgave my wife once for an affair then years later she had an affair with a church leader at the church we attended. We were married for 30 years when she had the second affair. What I learned from all of this - Cheaters cheat! This woman will cheat again and I feel so bad for this man. He will be very broken by the fact that she will do it again. The big lie is that somehow he had anything to do with it. You can be a crappy spouse BUT that NEVER gives anyone the excuse to commit adultery. Great story but she will cheat again. I wait for the video to come out in the future. I did the same thing and forgave my wife and had the same experience and wow I pray he makes it through it i almost did not but God was my strength.
@@tonyroy8410 Let god do the forgiving. He's better at it anyway. Give evil no quarter. Turning the other cheek has gotten this nation in the pathetic state it's in. Evil runs everything now. How has your forgiveness worked out?
I think the documentary oversimplified the husband's response to discovering his wife's infidelity. I mean, it just said "Although it was hard, he forgave her." What was going through his mind before deciding to forgive her? How did he feel? He should not blame himself for "letting his guard down and not ringfencing the relationship" because his wife was the one who became detached and distant and he did not know what was going on with his wife for 3 years. How did he process the initial shock and dismay after the betrayal? Most people go through a process before forgiving someone. Also, adultery is valid Biblical reason for divorce as Jesus said in Matthew 19:9, so what led him to realize God's love to show forgiveness to his wife instead of following Matthew 19:9? More details needed.
Guy from the 1980. Please re-read St Matthew 19 vs 9. It said except for fornication. When you are married you are unable to commit fornication. if you step out of your union, it's called adultery. Marriage is a lifelong relationship, the vowels are until dead do us part, in sick or health, better or worst. Marriage is a symbol of the relationship between God and his church. That's why the wife is asked to be submissive to her husband and for the husband to love his wife as how God Love the church.
Guyfrom 1980 as far as you asking why he didn't follow matthew 19:9 , is Because , GOD SAID IN HIS WORD , " MERCY TRIUMPHS OVER JUDGMENT..." , I Suggest you Think about This , What If God Chose to Send us all To the Lake of Fire for eternity , Instead of Sending Jesus To Pay a Debt we couldnt Pay? What if God up and Decided to Stop forgiving us after We sing against Him time after time again? Why does God not punish us according to how and What HIS WORD shows that we deserve? ( why did the husband not follow matthew 19:9? You asked...) To all of these questions , THE WORD Stands true " Mercy Triumphs Over Judgement." Thank God for HIS UNFAILING MERCY & GRACE. WE WOULD ALL BE DONE Without It. We Would all Be In Eternal Death without MERCY & GRACE. God Bless You. May This Help You To Understand. GOD LONGS TO BE MERCIFUL TO US , THE CHILDREN HE LOVES.... SO HOW MUCH MORE SHALL WE LONG TO BE MERCIFUL TO OUR SPOUSE? ( GOD HATES DIVORCE , So He wasn't Promoting it or Preferring it In Matthw 19:9 , In fact , He gave it the thumbs down , he made it a LAST LAST resort , by saying " moses gave you to write a certificate of divorce , due to the HARDNESS OF YOUR HEARTS.) Hardness of Heart is Deadly Spiritually. All of Gods Word Stands True and Agrees. May You Realize His UNMOVED LOVE & MERCY UPON YOU & YOUR LIFE. God Bless You.💕
“ although it was hard, he forgave her. Soon after, he began weekly visits to a chiropractor. From all of the neck trauma he had sustained from constantly looking over his shoulder.”
I know right!! This is just rubbish, I would not want this trash in my life. This dude is a simp of epic levels. Congrats dude you are a giant loser lol
@@AC-wk6gj I understand, maybe I did not phrase it with the correct words. But I still stand by the meaning of my statement. She did not relate her marriage to Christ's sacrifical love dying for unworthy sinners to save us from God's wrath and judgement. She needed to be more explicit in the fact that it was repentance.
Shirley Muthony & What this Husband Did. Was a Picture of Christ & His church . Though we can Bs Unfaithful To Him , Adulterous to Him , HE STILL LOVES US , FORGIVES US , ACCEPTS US BACK.❤ Jesus Died for Our Sins . The Ultimate Sacrifice. True Love Is SELFLESS & SELF SACRIFICIAL. I LOVE HOW GODS HOLY SPIRIT COMES AND DWELLS WITHIN US , OUR IMPERFECT AND WRETCHED VESSELS , & LOVES OTHERS UNCONDITIONALLY THROUGH US .❤
Snook on the fly. My heart goes out to you my friend. It is a terrible position to be in but my marriage is living proof of the power of God and the love of Christ and the truth of the Bible. Only Christ can reconcile a marriage where such betrayal has taken place. Dig into the word and study, learn and put into action the wisdom and love that it holds. I easily could have walked away from my wife and been completely justified by this worlds standards, but I heard that still small voice and it told me to love her with the love of Christ and treat her how Christ treats her and to remember how I have betrayed Him myself. The Bible has much to say about it and it has the power to change a heart of stone. The woman at the well, the woman who washed Jesus feet with her tears and hair. The woman caught in adultery. Hosea and Gomer. Read Romans 12 : 17 - 27 When you think about it read Psalms 55 over and again. Love her with all your heart , let her confess her sin and pray for the strength in Christ to forgive her, after all we all fall short of His glory and we are all guilty of sinning against a Holy God. Jesus says my grace is sufficient and HIS power is made perfect in our weakness. Throw yourself into doing all you can to love and trust and honor your marriage, it just might work out like it has for this couple and for me and my wife. I thank God for HIS power to reconcile damaged marriages and strengthen them. I will be praying for you and your wife. Commit to it and do all you can do because one day you will have to give an account for your actions and you can say you truly tried.
lollersbell you are absolutely right. I have been wrestling with her from the start of our marriage and it seems, as we go along, that she's becoming more and more defiant to the word and more and more selfish in her actions. There's too many problems to type out all the details. Several months ago I let go of my focus on us and shifted my eyes to Gods word and our relationship. Through him I've been able to find peace. Although it's still a big struggle. I have to ask God to put forgiveness in my heart every day towards her. Everyone thinks I need to run and never look back, but I believe in the vows I made to God that day when he put her in my arms as my wife and I plan on keeping those vows. I know God doesn't make mistakes and even though I don't know why my wife is like this, I know God has a good reason for it. Thank you for your encouragement.
I'm sick of people using God for their mistakes God gave you the freedom of choice,, your choice was 3years long, could have been longer,if you weren't found out,
A zebra does not change its stripes. She's getting attention now, so she's happy. As soon as she wants more, she'll do whatever it takes to get that attention. Take the kids and run. She's a train wreck, and will ruin everything around her.
God is so good. Makes me so mad how someone can destroy a persons life and impact their future marriage and kids life all for a few minutes gratification by raping them. Praise God this beautiful lady had Jesus, so many don’t know Him. She married the right man, he could see how he had neglected her etc. not his fault she cheated but it’s not just black and white. I would give anything to have a husband that said that to me - “I don’t know how not to love you”. Beautiful story of redemption and how Christ loves the church even when she is wayward and commits adultery. I love how now she is helping so many others not just with conferences etc but on the ranch, what a redemptive God!
Her husband is the weakest man I’ve ever heard of. How low is his self esteem to accept this kind of women? This is not Gods love, this is a husband with low self esteem. This story makes me puke!
@Bill Picarello then you need to read the bible and the story of hosea and Gomer you also need to read how Jesus forgave a woman caught in adultery. does that make Jesus have low self esteem? Jesus said I don't condem you go and sin no more
@@solargirl7329 that story is fake...the bible itself tells you john did not write it. And i bet you dont go around defending men who have committed adultery against their wives. You are just doing this because its a woman. That is disgusting
I have a serious question. How come there’s hundreds of testimonies about men cheating and restoration occurring in the marriage and positive comments but the one testimony about a woman cheating is unforgivable? I just don’t get why women are held to a higher standard in everything and men can do whatever they want and receive grace and acceptance after its all said and done
No husband you are not at fault at all. Her adultery is entirely on her She made a series of moral compromises which led her to chkse another man over her husband and family. Once a cheater always a cheater
Did he just take blame for her cheating?!!! My mom want to know when am going to marry give her grand kid.no H.....'ll NO when I meet God I'll be single
Wow!! Glorifying doormat men!! Is this what this channel is all about? I'm new here and I will make it sure to never barge in this weak men glorifying channel
Jesus said "if you look at a woman with lust, you have already committed adultery with her in your heart" unless you have never lusted, maybe shouldn't be casting stones, you are an adulterer and murderer, a liar , a blasphemer and a thief
@sour airhead is it to hard for you to understand? I can dumd it down if you like...Gods true grace surpasses all understanding you are living proof of that haha , still don't understand?
Uhhh.. "I couldn't really grasp faith.." not sure.. sounds to me that she couldn't grasp works. The trauma she has caused the institution of marriage is not a light matter. I hope she doesn't think a video appearance is her redemption. She has lots to work out and Gods grace for her is at the end. If she knowingly sins this way again, this video appearance may be what condemns her.
BTW.. I would have the kids and a new Church. She would have nothing.. and her new man would be sued for abandonment of affection, thus I would own the situation. Paul explains well what should happen in these cases.
My concern with the story is that she didn’t confessed to her husband on her own because of sorrow and guilt, and 3 years of adultery is way passed the expiration date. God bless her husband’s heart for been so forgiving and staying married to her, because now days, one-night stand is suficiente reason for divorce.
I confessed to my husband the same week it happened(one night stand) asked for forgiveness he took me back but couldn't forgive me he kept mistreating me and throwing it in my face and now we are separated and my heart is shattered 💔 sometimes I wish I hadn't been honest with him because look where It led me
@@solargirl7329 you narcissists think you can just do whatever you want and the person you are hurting is just supposed to accept it, swallow his pain and let you go scot free despite all the pain they are feeling inside. Self centered abusers who do not care about the pain they cause
@@solargirl7329 what lead to that is your own selfish action aka cheating not your confession. If you still thinking you better stay silent, I guess you are still the same selfish person just like many cheaters.
Matthew 6:14-15 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Also, according to Matthew 18:21-35.... People who refuse to forgive are playing with fire. To a certain degree...if these commenters with mean comments truly believe the words they are writing... They too will end up in hell with those who betrayed them. Why go there for unforgiveness? Rather, forgive and pray for your enemies... Matthew 5:43-48.
Nothing like the veiled threat of hellfire when "mean" comments are discussed. I seem to recall that NOT warning someone of sinning condemns that person to hellfire. Having a cautionary tale of women not taking responsibility of their own behavior might be uncomfortable, even harsh, but does not condemn one to hell. Fortunately, the false narrative of women being above reproach and men being responsible for everything, due to the headstrong feminism that, even in the Christian community, has infected it to a deadly level. The message of the video, is that, even though this woman was completely responsible for her demonic behavior, she took control of it, grateful that her man stood by her. Normally, the women would have advised, AS SOME DID HERE IN THE COMMENTS, to blame the husband in part for her fall from the PERSONAL relationship she had with Christ.
I’m needing help to find god understanding for my marriage with my husband we don’t have sex and we don’t date anymore and I feel alone and we don’t have any money I need help
I don't I God is there or not. But for you, your husband is God. You are unworthy of his forgiveness, yet you took it to save your family. I'm proud of one thing. You re trying to save lives through your story. Be faithful and die on your husbands feet.
@@IIIrandomIII Yeah, I saw it. It's more like a narcissist love. They believe in Jesus love as long as they are the one who receive or take. When it comes to giving, suddenly they are too vulnerable for give-ing. For give-ing is the job for the husband. The woman believe in for take-ing.
Nice. But there I know of a similar situation where "forgiveness" allowed the wife r to play around a year after the husband exposed the affair. That was a safe time for her because that's when things calmed down. Not my life, not my wife, so this "Justin" fellow has to know what is better for his life. Anyone else including a God-fearing man would be VEEERY cautious about continuing the marriage.
Now she spends all her days touring for her books and teaching and the man is on the back burner again. Repeat cycles.. but it's ok if she just talks about the love of God. That man really loves her and she will continue to do the busy thing and drag him along. Most of you will say, "atleast he's happy". What do you think will happen to him once he finds out she's back at it again?...
@@christophercolon1478 God can change people and give them new desires, saying no one can change is saying God isn't who His Word says He is...which is a lie
So ridiculous soo many people using god as a tool, ultimate excuse for bad behavior but now all better huh ! So like most cheaters when she does it again does that mean god turned his back on her again ? How bout admitting she has mental issues and insecurities from her past and go get professional help and quit blaming her past on her relationship with god. He surely didn’t have anything to do with her getting raped, right ?? She needs more attention from her husband or she’ll be out roamin again, he needs to decide if he’s up to it or not
These types of peoples are don’t have a good father and don’t have a good mother the man foolish by his wife and don’t tell I am the believer of god you disrespect the god
