When I heard: "I'm more special to him than all these other girls ... I have a key to his house, I'm there at least three times a week" I was like..., are you his maid?
Boy, Pastor John did that! He said something we as women needed to hear. I appreciate how he took the Bible gave the parable, then gave the modern day application to each woman's situation.
I am not religious but this Pastor knows his stuff. Absolutely beautifully put. It just sucks that a man takes so long to let it in. That is coming from a man.
I dont understand how yall are overseeing the fact that sex before marriage is unacceptable in Christianity...the pastor was supposed to point that out
Your more special than the others!!!!!!! Cause your at his house 3 days a week. Girl wake up a real man does not have multiple women. He loves one woman multiple ways
That is just a man's nature to impregnate more and more women while women are more selective in mating choices because they have to choose not only who is healthy and strong but also who can provide , which in early times used to mean stronger and taller but now it means financially superior men
Honestly she's crazy as hell, he's with other women but she feels obligated to him because she has the keys. Girl no... most special? you should be the ONLY SPECIAL WOMAN IN HIS LIFE
B Symone she special cos she's there to clean up after all his sex capades. That is not a real man. He's a boy playing those games. If he doesn't love her by now he will never love her. That's all am saying.
That's one thing woman need to understand.. Coming from a neuro background not only are we equipped differently but we also have completely different brains. She is trying to play a game that she has absolutely no idea how to even start. She only agreed to "being friends and having fun" because she had HOPE and wished that she would grow on him and it would become more. There will always be a deeper side to every womans action. Men simply want the sex, and if its that easy for them to get it then so be it.
Most men are looking for just sex, but there are also some dope men who have standards and guard their hearts, and bodies too. They are rare but they do exist.
I learned late in life that you have to be willing to accept the potential loss of the very thing you want most in order to have it. Find out what it IS about that thing/person that you think you want (to boast about, feed your ego with or to conquer) and THAT is the very thing you're afraid of missing out on. Peace
Not true. I've done this every time. I have never caught feelings for any man I've had sex with. They always try to tie me down and thats when I run like hell
I think it's possible, sometimes it's just that a person has the tendency to keep making the same mistakes, but sometimes it's also the stressful life, you just don't pay attention to your love life, it comes and goes, and you don't really have time to look back at it long enough to learn something substantial. I sometimes feel that the older you are, the more difficult it may be to change the way you approach relationships.
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Men and women were born with emotion. It just they way we choose to respond to our emotion. Men get emotional too and just choose to handle it differently then women some time.
best thing I did was completely abstaining from.sex, saved me alot of emotional baggage and gave me so much clarity when picking and getting to know guys. the ones who were only there for sex gave up the chase quickly...
+Cuibus Florin yep thanks for being truthful. That's why I believe what the bible say ( paraphrasing of course) Sex was meant to be share between a husband and wife.
Pastor Hannah is the truth and change is necessary when you love yourself enough to leave when someone isn't or can't give you what you're requesting. Stop lying up front to these men and changing the game in the middle of the game. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Set the foundation from the beginning.
And I can tell you, when you really change or evolve, you may find what you THOUGHT you wanted, you really don't. Why? Because the evolved person always seeks the best and highest good for themselves, simply because they KNOW SELF.
The TV station that I no longer watch, canceled his show! I am so exhausted with all of the female daytime talk shows. I am canceling my cable at end if my billing cycle and transferring to Netflix.
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I agree with you brother that lady needs to change mindset. May i add. lady your risking your life with a guy whom is a double minded person. Even if you love him just get out of that relationship. Your killing yourself with pressure and stress
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What scares me is that this woman is probably in her early or mid 30s and couldn't figure out the answer to this. HE IS MESSING WITH DIFFERENT WOMEN AND YOUUUUUUU, YOU AINT HIS NUMBER ONE, CLEARLY!! THATS COMMON SENSE BUT MANY WOMEN ARE AFRAID OF THE TRUTH AND GUESS WHAT? SHE STILL WILL GO AFTER HIM AFTER THE SHOW
TheSnowFoxParty She wants him so badly but he definitely likes options. She has to show him she’s a priority or nothing and it’s hard but she will have to force herself to fall back. It’s my plan to see where guys stand that I potentially date.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348073962013) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life God bless
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348073962013) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life God bless
Sad this woman has convinced herself that the guy's behavior is acceptable. He doesn't want to be exclusive/monogamous with her and seems to be straight forward with that fact. Hopefully she'll wise up and see she deserves to be in relation with a man who wants her just as she wants him. Until her esteem is raised, she might need to take a break from the dating scene. Women must remember, we are the prize; not the other way around.
Omg I love these lil jewels Steve be dropping n ladies we could win this game if wed just listen, learn, n implement! Stop playing urselves for the lil scraps s dude is willing to throw u! Period point blank!!!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348073962013) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life God bless
been there, done that and he moved another woman into his apartment on the weekend I was losing his baby at 5 m gestation....POW!! THAT SH#! HURT....XO
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348073962013) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life God bless you,,
Someone always catches feelings with these situations, and then someone gets their car keyed because he or she won't commit. Get over it! You signed up to be his main booty call... That's nothing special... Oh and she probably has a key to check up on the plants, get his mail etc.
That's the Word of God! Sometimes God will break you down to build you up. He can't build on a shaky foundation so he tears it down. **This man also gave her a key because he don't care what she sees or thinks, not even trying to hide it.
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I think based on a lot of the comments on this video, that a lot of people are too harsh on the young lady who came forth about this issue. Many of us forget that when it came to love and relationships we didn't make the best decisions either! All of us are in need of God's grace love and mercy and wisdom especially when it comes to love and relationships. I believe in order for us to rebuild like the Pastor said, we need to change our foundation. And sometimes the foundational change can be an inner work, like healing from the bruises that one may suffer from past mistakes and wrong decisions just to name an example. I hope who ever reads this comment whether you have made wrong choices and you may be suffering guilt shame and pain from, just know that God is a god of many chances and he is more willing and ready to help put you on the right path to the life of happiness that you deserve.
This pastor basically contradicted what Steve says, so why are you guys rooting away for him? lol This pastor told her to rebuild her partnership with the guy, but Steve seems to think this girl should just DITCH this dude. I'm with Steve. Give this guy the boot. So what if you have a key to his place, you CAN make COPIES ya know.. How does she know she is the only one with a key? lol Holy crap these girls are NOT thinking this through.
My point is there's no point in even trying to change what she has now to anything else. This guy is a sleazebag who exploits naive women. Why would anyone want to marry that?
Lol the look on Steve's face 1:22 Boy Pastor John is so right. I wish everybody understood this wisdom. It is the source of some much contention within the relationships of men and women.
"A woman has sex with her heart" That is half way true. No, women do not need sex in the way that men do because our testosterone is obviously not as strong as men's. However, at some point or other, most women have had that guy that's really good in bed, but he's not attractive or we don't like him as a person. We won't be screwing a bunch of guys on the side as well, but we'll stick with that guy until we get bored or someone better comes along. If you agree to what this woman did and then you catch feelings, you have to know that you are already in a category in that man's mind and that's not going to change. I sympathize with her because she's got her feelings involved, but you have to know as a woman what you're getting into if you agree to these type of deals. He's probably giving it to her like she really likes, and she's sprung. She "thinks" she's in love. You can't let that mess with your head. The reality is that that guy is living the dream, and whatever fantasies she has in her head are not going to happen. Don't get caught up in your emotions, step back, really think about things rationally. Let this guy go before you get hurt lady.
ladynottingham89 i'm tellin u that right now , don't play the D P game with a man you're not exclusive with , you now , why ? it's because you(re gonna loose , yeah there is exeptions(in the game roul) but u ain't no that lucky
ladynottingham89 / Pastor on show should have talked about how pre-marital sex is wrong in God's eyes (1Cor 6:9) and results in not having a future when the whole earth is transfered into a paradise under ONE Government headed by God's Son Jesus Christ (Dan 2:44).
Herman Neal And also, talk about having sex with a single guy, if your married, or separated. It's a catch 22, becuz females who are married/separated, think it's okay to do. Some do it freely and other women do it on "the sneak". Either way, it's wrong and not okay.
I disagree a woman testosterone is as strong as a man that is why they make millions of dollars making viberaters and other sex toys for woman we just dont broadcast about it
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348073962013) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life God bless you,,
Yeh...that is so true. A lot of women think they can play the game...but end up giving more than they receive. I wouldn't want the keys to a guy's house if we where not in a serious commitment. Never lie to yourself rule nr. 1