I've had the opposite problem. The woman I date shares too little. Feels like being kept at arms length, confiding very little in me and making little effort in bonding deeply. I think I prefer oversharing to under-sharing (out of frustration I think I broke half of the rules in this video last date we had hah...). I don't want to wait five dates to see someone's inner world; hopes, frustrations and fears.
I really wish I would’ve seen this video last year when I first started watching your videos… 😢 I was always one for being open and honest and up front from the beginning of all my relationships. It’s not that I’m telling them everything right away but as stuff comes up in conversations…
Sometimes certain people don't care about past relationships and criteria surrounding them. For example whether the person is rich/poor, how attractive, height, lives at the south pole, the Sahara desert or a cardboard box. Shallow people care about these things. In actuality some people DO mostly only care about who the kind of person is, the beauty inside, honesty, and the substance of the individual. All superficiality is for vain modern society. Health issues if any should be discussed though with new relationships so you don't waste the other person's time.
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Just got rejected for the 3rd time after indicating i have an autoimmune disease (in remission) so definitely don't do that. Even for one of these highly sensitive woman that claim to want to know everything (or accuse you of hiding stuff)
@@cullenatwood5149I would like to know if the woman im talking to is on head meds or has an overbearing anxiety problem,so yeah thats why it's important to ask questions in the getting to know each other phase.
..premature judgements..women should avoid that, or at least share thoughts about it with the Man involved..most of time there's no judgement needed..!
Hey Joy, great videos! I do have a question for you which is related to this topic. I have a very close female friend and we have always talked about everyting. Recently, I had my first gay experience, and I was wondering if it would be alright to tell her about this? Do women mind it when one of their guy friends has had a gay experience? Thanks for your advice Joy! Keep up the good work!
No idea why this popped up in my feed? All I watch are Bad Cop and Traffic Accidents videos. Just an FYI. Many countries, providences, states, etc. Legally require you to disclose health condition (STDs/STIs, etc). Secondly, This video is supporting secrets, weak minded, and laziness in population. Where as the ones who are not mature enough to receive/process the data being informed should grow as an adult seeking a relationship. Makes zero sense the person informing of the information this video says is bad clearly has their act together and sensibly wants to know upfront if the other is up to snuff so they can continue being successfull. Thus, telling people's to Devolve or lower themselves is regressive vice encouraging the immature ones to grow and be more mature. This video is trash, the advice is trash. Stay the course... if "Sex" is your goal you have small ambitions. Focus on career and success and you will have your pick of everyone that swarming to be with you. That's the best advice in dating. Focus on yourself and being successful in life.
Everybody has those issues, life is a choice between cynicism and romance, be careful dating, because everything you say, can and may be used against you in the court of romance,. For example, don't share your PIN # and passwords with your date, don't unload childhood trauma or family drama, until you know, for sure she has your back and you can trust her with your deeply personal information. Don't be a simp.
If you're referring to a romantic relationship, sexual inuendos normally start before the relationship BUT everyone's different & relationships take time
That really depends on what kind of relation the both of you seek, if friends-with-benefits then ASAP is the answer. If serious, then it´s not a time thing. Rather a setting up the atmosphere + communication thing , how well you two get along/explore one another dictates the events.
Why would someone talk about past relationship when a new one is (possibly) about to form with a another person is beyond me...unless you are not happy with what you have. Also braging about your property will bring a wrong type of people to your life - the freeloaders and gold digers ( not the one's that have a job at the mining and excavation of precious metals and such😂) Looking good D❤🥰
To learn about peoples past relationships? I always ask about their previous relationships I’m 46 at my age we all have a past and few mins discussing it
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 It's one thing to mention that you had previous relationship if she asks, but talking about it yourself means that you haven't got over that previous person.
@@oliverpetroski4205 not necessarily I might mention a previous relationship as it’s relevant to the conversation At 46 many relationships were decades ago , we are over them Doesn’t mean they aren’t topical I’m guessing ur fairly young
As usual, thank you for these videos. I don't need them anymore, but it's always a good idea to get a reminder on certain subjects to stay sharp and keep the brain engaged. God I love social interactions, what a beautiful dance of words and body language. As an extravert, leaving the house is like being on a constant high. Just beautiful people to learn about and talk with everywhere!
I'm going to keep it real Joyamina. Women go for good looking men, end of. If you're not good-looking then no matter how hard u try and no matter how much advice u get, it don't make no difference at all!!! These are just hard core facts
Not true, I've seen plenty of ugly guys get beautiful girls. If you take good care of yourself, is sociable, high confidence and happy, and have a respected profession (= good money probably) then you'll attract women for sure. People say I'm the best looking sibling in my family, but I've been single the most.
The parts wherein she speaks about keeping past traumas to yourself but also asking you to respect her past sounds like a double standard. Its as if she's saying "I want you to respect the struggles of my past when I bring them up, but you keep your struggles to yourself, otherwise it will ruin your chances."
@Telle.l3gramme_Joyanima Hello, so, I wrote my comment seven months ago, I had misinterepretted what you meant. Then, in recent months, I gained a more knowledge of the art of dating, and, upon rewatching the video, I began to better understand what you were saying. I apologise for posting such a comment all those months ago.
And as I could share what all the history has behind you too But if she's really upset at you you have to wait until she calms down or you use a secret to diffuse your emotions so that you can talk to her logically and she won't understand when you use a certain set of words They'll calm her down Then you and her can talk. But I don't think you know the secret words To diffuse your emotions if I had to take a guess I would say that you're trying to use logic to explain your situation to her and she is coming back at you with emotions And what you have to realize is that he logic and emotions do not mix and do not communicate with each other.
