M 1977 D 2019 standing since as God showed me a miracle that’ll take place in my prodigal spouse’s ❤️🔥 There is much advice but mainly focus on and improve our INDIVIDUAL relationship with Jesus Christ.
This is Sarah and I, right now. He has separated us for the sake of getting into our lives so we can be whole and healed by Yeshuah Rapha, and His love is true and all my faith, trust, love, and belief are Him, not just IN Him, but they are Him. Amen.
PS you are a BEAUTIFUL couple and I am so grateful for you sharing your story. Keep praying and putting God first, as complacency can leave a vulnerability for the enemy's attack.
Thank you Father for being Good to each and one of us who is facing the same.Abba things in different levels and times days set apart from you God you always make a way for us when there seems to be no ways. Hallelujah
If all I need is God's love then why get and stay married at all? Should I just stop hoping that my wife will forgive me, trust me, and love me again? I confessed my sin and now she never reaches out to me and is cold and unresponsive. I own my sin. It's my fault. I choose to have faith that God loves me. I'm just waiting for healing.
It bothers me when everyone says all I need is God's love when he created us to need fellowship. God says we are stronger together so if it's not an option to be reconciled with your spouse then yes rely more on God. But if there's even a sliver of hope then keep trying to work it out. You have each other for a reason and if all I need is God then their would be no point in staying together. She should of learned to meet his needs and he should learn to meet her needs.. it's the whole point of a relationship
If your sin was adultery, that takes a long time to heal. My husband not only cheated on me multiple times with different women, he gave me a venereal infection on top of it. The first time his adultery blew up in his face is because he spent my birthday having sex with someone else, and she showed up at our place of work the following day. He ended things with her and said he would spend the rest of his life making it up to me. In less than a year, he was cheating again. When that woman got busted for drugs, he immediately found himself another one. She is now gone and moved out of state around the end of summer in 2022. To cut writing a novel here, I will leave out pages of detail that tell just how impossible it would be ordinarily for this marriage to survive. The details are quite ugly. What I will say is, having complete trust in the Lord, trusting what He told me concerning my husband and the future of our marriage, and obeying what He tells me to do and not do while He is working on BOTH of us.... it's one heck of a rough ride, but my spiritual growth is incredible! I am temporarily living with one of my sons because I needed a safe and non-distracting place to be while the Lord deals with my husband. I've been at my son's house for 7 months now, and I don't know how long I'll be here. My son and his housemates said I never have to leave; they like me being here.😄 I do know that eventually, my husband will give his life to Jesus and be made a new creation; that is what the Lord showed me. God is not a liar, and ALWAYS makes good His promises. Ask Him for direction. Your wife has not divorced you, so that's an excellent place to start. You may be in for a long, rough wait, as well, but if God tells you to hang in there, don't tap out. Don't ring that bell. Whatever homework He gives you to do, do it. If your wife is hurting your heart, don't fight with her; take your hurts to the Lord every time. He will give you comfort and the strength to keep going while He's working on your wife. Don't dwell on the negative, no matter how much it hurts or how hopeless it seems. Speak blessings over your marriage, give thanks in all things, and live as though your marriage has already been restored. Hang in there. I have just prayed for the restoration of your marriage.
My wife left 7 weeks ago. She said recently that she wants to remove the rest of her things from the home and get a divorce. I'm trusting God and hoping. Church has been doing a series on patience, so I'm also learning to wait patiently on/with God.
Hi. Go to marriage Helper. You find a Lot of Videos on RU-vid. The best you can do in your Situation is: Work on your PIES. That means Work on you to be the best version of yourself: Physically, Intellectual, Emotional and Spiritual. And communicate smart With your spouse. No Begging, wining, be gentle and strong. Talk Not about your relationship or other emotional Things. Only Business - Items, maybe If you have children together. And dont try to Focus in fixing your marriage. Be the save place. If anything works, this will do. But its No Sprint, its a Journey. God bless you much
@@marcowagner3930 Thanks for the advice. I got on their mailing list several months ago and would recommend Marriage Helper to anyone. Unfortunately, PIES was useless for her. Or rather, maybe fortunately it was useless, so I can experience freedom. There was some emotional abuse that I didn't fully identify until after she left. I'm still in the process of healing what may be a trauma bond. God is good, though.
God had nothing to do with putting you together. It is 100% a choice for individuals to get married; God does not put people together and God did not separate you to do any work in you as individuals. We need to stop making God responsible for our mistakes and ups and downs in marriage. The bottom line is that most people are not trained to be husbands and wives and life's experiences make us less compatible with one another. Husbands and wives should meet one another's needs; the Lord wants us to be saved; He does not meet needs that marriage should meet.
